Things that kill confidence: - Social inhibition - Negative thinning - Overthinking and doubting past actions - Caring too much about what other people think - Focusing on your securities instead of strengths
For the last three I can say that all of that is in your head. Once you move your thoughts to your body and what’s going on around you, you’ll see that everyone has those thoughts too. That means they are to worried about themselves to see what’s going on with you (in the things your worrying about)
If I listen to something like Knocked Loose in the morning, I have much more energy and my brain works more effectively. I'm quick and quite funny then.
1. set a playful tone 1:22 2. tell people some good stories 2:05 3. think on your feet 2:43 4. say what you feel 3:29 5. smile with your eyes 4:12 6. be a likeable listener 4:53 I hope I could help! :)
I've always been jealous of charismatic people. When I was younger, I thought it was just something that happened to them and that I would never get it, but for the past few years I've been recognizing these traits and trying to use them. I still wouldn't say I'm charismatic, but I do feel like people enjoy talking to me more than before.
I grew up the youngest of 4. I always tried to make people laugh. But I had the worst stage fright. Anytime the light was on me my face turned into a tomato. I started doing drama class in middle school to try and overcome it. My teacher loved my acting and pushed me to do big roles. After that I learned how to improv and I worked retail and hospitality. Talked to so many people every day. I hate to say it but charisma is all about faking it but not faking it? It takes time to learn but you can make so many people's days once you understand it
Sometimes I have really on days, I’m quick witted and make people laugh, all sorts of talkative. Other times, I’m scared and watch the conversation, being a fly on the wall. Most of the time? I’m on my own, in my apartment, where none of this is possible 🙃
@Glutimous Maximous Why am I on my own in my apartment? Because I live alone and don't have anything social to do. It's hard to be social when you don't have friends to do things with or to invite you to things
@Glutimous Maximous I don't have family here, so if I do anything it's on my own. I do go for walks, and I smile and say hello to people, but not often do I get a response. I don't really know how listening to Ted Talks is going to help me at all? And I don't befriend people that put me down, I don't befriend people at all lol
Always been exceptionally skilled at being magnetic. Just being funny and witty and constant positivity just brings everyone together and in return people feel safe and comfortable around you and then there they become more open with social risk slowly gaining their self confidence. Just a beautiful cycle when you can influence others in a positive way
You're saying YOU have always been exceptionally skilled at being magnetic? My guy, this isn't coming off as effortlessly charming as you think it is...
Its more attractive if you be yourself. If that day you feel more reserved, then be so. If you feel more outgoing and playful, then be so. Don't fake things. But practicing these "how to be charismatic" skills would certainly help you in achieving personal goals to be a better person. You'll grow into your own kind of confident.
This comment should be higher! Yes. I have so many genuine relationships and connections with people who are not overly smiley/jokey or who don't take up a lot of space. It's just their nature and they're genuine people. I also have relationships with more outgoing people. Just be confident when speaking to others (NO ONE is better than you), be yourself and be honest about how you're feeling!
You just need to feel confident, and be yourself. And also show some respect and boundaries as well like when you’re telling jokes, make sure it won’t hurt someone’s feelings. Also, you need to show them that you care and say small compliments to boost their confidence :DD
I've been jealous of charismatic people, not in a way like: "What's so good about them" in a negative way but in the manner of "How can I be as good as them?" I have since then learned that it doesn't come naturally, one must work long and hard for it and one day it'll be achieved
People never believe me when I say I am an introvert. What helped me become more outgoing in conversations is realizing that nobody knows wtf they're doing, everybody makes mistakes and we all just prefer to be at home and comfy. Be friendly, honest, don't take stuff personally and smile a lot. When you feel like you did sth cringey, laughing about it or simply apologizing helps. Also remember that people forget ~everything~. I sure as hell don't remember stuff others did that may haunt them forever so who honestly gives a damn if I drop sth or say sth cringeworthy. Life is too short to worry about social norms. Maybe some of this will help you feel more safe. If you keep doing it, you will eventually get used to it even though you will still prefer to be by yourself. An introvert is an introvert even if some of us are not shy
i’ve been having a hard time at school this week, im an extrovert and love talking with people, but i don’t have many friends, i do have anxiety which makes it a little harder to interact some times. i just played the sims today and my sim had the charismatic skill, it made me think about how i don’t have a lot of charisma and which is probably why i don’t have friends. it’s the 3rd week of school already and i have already made some first impressions, but i’m determined to build my charisma up and lower my anxiety, i hope my journey will be great
Don't worry if you feel like you can't do it. It's just practice. A lot of confident people with good body language have practiced to be like that. Confidence is practice as well. You got this ❤
1- set a playful tone: make an energetic and enthusiastic and positive first impression 2- have some funny, short, good stories on hand. Be confident & animated, use present tense with dynamic voices and utilize well-placed pauses. 3- be quick-witted. Think fast on your feet and look for a opening to engage in “banter” with people 4- BE REAL. Stay Genuine, open, and polite. Steer clear from politics/religion/divisive subjects. 5-SMIZE; Open body posture, lean in, nod, make eye contact, mimic their movements. Be “likable” and a GOOD listener. Ask deeper and open-ended questions. Be genuinely interested in learning more about them. *Always remember, PEOPLE LOVE TALKING ABOUT THEMSELVES!!!❤❤❤
I reccomend saying that person's name when you talk to them. People like to hear their own name most of the time so perhaps that might make them feel more connected?
There’s two ways to be likable. Be someone who takes charge of the conversation, the one who initiates it, or make everyone feel included in your interactions with others… the other way is to be an active listener. People like to be listened to, no one likes being ignored. Always reply with something relative to them about yourself. You can build charisma through these two methods and it ends up working for first time impressions, or long term relationships. However it should be noted that both of these methods need confidence. If you’re nervous, the feeling of nervousness is contagious. This means have good self esteem and it’ll become noticeable in both your speech and appearance. You can boost your charisma by admitting to mistakes or making mistakes. The more mistakes you make the more human you appear to other people. Don’t be afraid of slipping up while talking, it can always be turned into a good laugh between you and the other person. This is how you become a likable and interesting person to other people.
I've been working towards reviving that charismatic personality of me! I know I'm driven and have successfully done it in the past. Time for the second coming!
I can do this for awhile but it exhausts me and I become quiet and reclusive. Apparently I've got an electromagnetic personality and it only works when I'm fully charged.
@@caelenselke-minogue It might just be the bipolar but I think I fit the profile of an ambivert more than an introvert. I'm pretty good with giving speeches and I've performed vocals in a hardcore band and as an emcee. For some reason it's easier to be the centre-of-attention than it is to be an equal participate.
I swear this is me to the core! Most people flock to me when I walk into a room because they know I'm genuinely interested in them. Not only that, women like me because of my charisma and my easy listening skills.
I have social anxiety and more of an introvert. I spent a lot time cultivating my charisma and social skills. I used Charisma on Demand on youtube. Gaining charisma really helps socially.
Personally I don't share personal infomation but let thr other person come away from the conversation being heard. I can give lots if infomation about others from what they shared because you've made them feel comfortable and heard, yet they can't say much about me. I think it really is listening to listen , genuine interest in others. Modesty. Confidence in posture and speech. Being or seeming self assured.beye contact and thoughtfulness. Well, for a quiet charm atleast.
thank you for this video, I struggle a lot with opening up to new people or not even new just meeting for a short time and this video really showed me the right way. Thanks again!
In my class I'm not the most the most loved but when i talk people actually listen to me and seem interested, I really love talking and I usually try to put a lot of passion in what I'm saying
Salience is Charisma. Enthusiasm is salient. Attentive listening is salient. Confidence is salient. Hotness, Intelligence, Communication skills, eye contact, smile all are salient.
My friend the other day was talking about charisma and he looked directly at me when he said the word. Why thank you, young sir. I'm glad that I'm actually that good with people! Edit: This is where I fall short. I'm mischevious and enjoy listening to people debate so sometimes I delibrately enjoy asking people about controversial subjects. This mischevious spark is also why most of my DnD characters are absolute jerks or extremely flirty. Heehee, I can use my wit and make people mad.
Please, make the next one, "how to be the most unnoticeable person in the room," I don't want anyone to accidentally start a conversation with me, y'know . 😂
@@09macka guess humanity will not have a solution for your problem sadly 😢. My small brother said that if you think someone you dont know wants to talk you should pick your nose and they will flee
I've been in the way of personal development since 2020 and I can say that this is the best channel in all of UA-cam in terms of mental health. I've been struggling with the way I show my emotions and my emotions themselves. Sometimes I feel like I don't want to react and feel the way I do but I remind myself that it is totally fine to have some "indeseable" feelings. However, this topic of being charismatic and playful is one thing that I really want to improve in my life. I'm not a boring person (at least that's what I think) but I think I can improve my sense of humor and confidence. Especially because I don't have as many friends as I want to and I don't want to be that guy who can only talk to 3 persons and is disrespectful and basically had no idea on how to communicate to other people and be kind. I want to be kind, I want to make people laugh and I want to meet more people at the same time I enjoy being with them. So, (if you read this far you're crazy) I'll be working on all of this stuff and I'll try to be that guy. I hope you have a beautiful day and thanks to Psy2go for the life changing and helping content.❤
I try to be such a magnet for people by talking about things I love. But it is balanced, if I show interest towards other people so they will not get tired of me when I talk a lot of myself. Thank you for your effort.
I Love you guys, when I saw the thumbnail, I was concerned about my true self, but the words in the brackets relieved me.❤️❤️ Being yourself is very important.
I wouldn't associate every charismatic person with being honest and genuine. Narcissists and Sociopaths are known to be particularly charming and charismatic with others and it's their false self.
They are charming because they are good at pretending they are genuine. The difference is: when you really are genuine you will attract people that are similar to you and recognize themselves in you
This would help to have more friends in school. Thank you for all lessons for good mentality. I could make a book about that and everything about psychology, attitude and mentality. ❤️❤️❤️
I feel like I'm more charismatic than most but definitely not a show stopper where ever I go. I've never had anyone "hate me" as far as I know. I'm an introvert so even tho I'm light and welcoming I drain easily and need breaks meaning I leave events pretty early. I'm cool with where I stand socially but I think I'd have double or triple the ammount of people in my circle if I could hang out longer and really solidify those connections.
I think if the current people in your circle are genuine, caring and kind and have your back,l then you’re not losing anything. I believe in quality over quantity. It’s a great sign people like you already, just be yourself 😀
Honestly I don’t even know if I am the magnetic since I’m an Ambivert And sometimes I never try being an pushing my emotions outside And sometimes I do-
6 Ways To Be The Most Magnetic Person In The Room 1. Set a playful tone 2, Tell people some good stories 3. Think on your feet 4. Say what you feeling 5. Smile with your eyes 6. Be a likeable listener
Is this why everybody likes my aunt? I mean like shes so charismatic and has a sense of humour, makes everyone laugh with her jokes and stories. Shes just my fav auntie since i was born!
@AquariousTofifiX No one is judging anyone here. If you choose not to believe in astrology be my guest. However, I do because I resonate with it and find it fun, have a nice day!
Thanks for your efforts
Agreed.
Thank you for being a part of this journey :)
سمييييرة انا من متتبعاتك ❤
♥️♥️♥️
oh so you were gonna go live rt? i read the post abt that
Things that kill confidence:
- Social inhibition
- Negative thinning
- Overthinking and doubting past actions
- Caring too much about what other people think
- Focusing on your securities instead of strengths
For the last three I can say that all of that is in your head. Once you move your thoughts to your body and what’s going on around you, you’ll see that everyone has those thoughts too. That means they are to worried about themselves to see what’s going on with you (in the things your worrying about)
This is all me...
If I listen to something like Knocked Loose in the morning, I have much more energy and my brain works more effectively. I'm quick and quite funny then.
This is sooo me
Don't call me out like this
Step 1: get some glue
Step 2: put it all over body
Step 3: attach magnets
Damn you! I almost spit out my smoothie! 😹
Oh no don't wanna be like that lady on tiktok who glued gorilla glue to her head😂
@@CreylerNews AGAGAGAAGAGAGA 💀
Haha! Beat me to it, OP! 😂
Step 4: make everyone do the exact same or no one is gonna be attracted to you
1. set a playful tone 1:22
2. tell people some good stories 2:05
3. think on your feet 2:43
4. say what you feel 3:29
5. smile with your eyes 4:12
6. be a likeable listener 4:53
I hope I could help! :)
The god amount men!
Thank u :))
How-
@@Omna420 patreon
There's always somebody who makes the points into a list and adds timestamps, I love it
I've always been jealous of charismatic people. When I was younger, I thought it was just something that happened to them and that I would never get it, but for the past few years I've been recognizing these traits and trying to use them. I still wouldn't say I'm charismatic, but I do feel like people enjoy talking to me more than before.
That's great
Charisma
Maybe you are charismatic, but you just don’t know.
Just to lift your spirit today. I enjoyed your comment. ;)
I grew up the youngest of 4. I always tried to make people laugh. But I had the worst stage fright. Anytime the light was on me my face turned into a tomato. I started doing drama class in middle school to try and overcome it. My teacher loved my acting and pushed me to do big roles. After that I learned how to improv and I worked retail and hospitality. Talked to so many people every day. I hate to say it but charisma is all about faking it but not faking it? It takes time to learn but you can make so many people's days once you understand it
Sometimes I have really on days, I’m quick witted and make people laugh, all sorts of talkative. Other times, I’m scared and watch the conversation, being a fly on the wall.
Most of the time? I’m on my own, in my apartment, where none of this is possible 🙃
that's a perfect description! XD
Samee lol
You literally described me
@Glutimous Maximous Why am I on my own in my apartment? Because I live alone and don't have anything social to do. It's hard to be social when you don't have friends to do things with or to invite you to things
@Glutimous Maximous I don't have family here, so if I do anything it's on my own. I do go for walks, and I smile and say hello to people, but not often do I get a response. I don't really know how listening to Ted Talks is going to help me at all? And I don't befriend people that put me down, I don't befriend people at all lol
I love getting "be a good listener" type advice, when no one ever wants to talk to me!
Hey, lets talk! what do you like to do in your freetime? i like to draw :)
be the one to start a conversation
@@kamarishh I used to draw a lot. Lately I'm more of a writer.
@@toweypat thats interseting what do u write bout
@@ChinatsuKano20 essay
When you're like this until you ran out of energy because you're an introvert.
FAAACTS 🙄😂
I relate to this so much as an artist
😔🙌🏻 My soul felt this comment
YES
I bet these comments consumed energy and y'all need to avoid socializing for hours 😂
Happy Sunday everyone. Who's looking forward to a live stream tonight?
Me
Hey friendos 🐼 Have a amazing day and week ahead 💖😃
May you become successful in your life 💐 keep going 🤗
we do!!
me!! and i want to thank you for everything, you’ve helped me so much through mental health problems
Seems pretty fun
Or easier way
1. Yell "free food, all on me baby!"
Nonono Ayo i got some watermelon gum want some???
Sets a playful tone
oh gawd this is so underrated
Tbh that is something a magnetic person would say, even if they don't actually buy everyone food
This'll get everyone's attention
How to be the most magnetic person in the room
1: Ingest Magnetite
Sounds painful.
@@boorave at least you’ll be the most magnetic person probably the most effective strategy too
2: Rub self with thick cloth until magnetism is achieved
Lol
That would do it
Way 1: Be a magnet
but people aren’t metal 🤔
Did you know that earth is a 'magnet', because its center is made out of iron. I'm not a scientist though, could be wrong.
@@AleLP8 we all know that lol
@@doratonks2085 blackpink and bts is my life too!!😁😁
@@creativedynamicminds3521 yayy I purple you🥺
Always been exceptionally skilled at being magnetic. Just being funny and witty and constant positivity just brings everyone together and in return people feel safe and comfortable around you and then there they become more open with social risk slowly gaining their self confidence. Just a beautiful cycle when you can influence others in a positive way
Some of the most charismatic people have been serial killers!?
@@GreasyBaconMan Yes, obviously
You're saying YOU have always been exceptionally skilled at being magnetic? My guy, this isn't coming off as effortlessly charming as you think it is...
Its more attractive if you be yourself. If that day you feel more reserved, then be so. If you feel more outgoing and playful, then be so. Don't fake things. But practicing these "how to be charismatic" skills would certainly help you in achieving personal goals to be a better person. You'll grow into your own kind of confident.
THANK YOU FOR THIS 🥲
Great Advice😊
This comment should be higher! Yes. I have so many genuine relationships and connections with people who are not overly smiley/jokey or who don't take up a lot of space. It's just their nature and they're genuine people. I also have relationships with more outgoing people. Just be confident when speaking to others (NO ONE is better than you), be yourself and be honest about how you're feeling!
A grateful heart is a magnet for miracles 💫🙏🏾
Pysch2Go: Says I could be this
Me: Don't do that, don't give me hope
@Ethan Meszler thats a way to say it
you cute little introvert :DD
@Ethan Meszler
:( relate
I’m a shy person usually, but once I get to know someone it’s easier for me to act like this
You just need to feel confident, and be yourself. And also show some respect and boundaries as well like when you’re telling jokes, make sure it won’t hurt someone’s feelings. Also, you need to show them that you care and say small compliments to boost their confidence :DD
People who love life have charisma because they fill the room with positive energy. 🧡
I've been jealous of charismatic people, not in a way like: "What's so good about them" in a negative way but in the manner of "How can I be as good as them?" I have since then learned that it doesn't come naturally, one must work long and hard for it and one day it'll be achieved
All of these are Impossible with being an introvert with social anxiety
takes time
~ fellow introvert with social anxiety
Same
Make a proactive decision to allow change to occur, then
create system that exposes you to your fears and stick to it.
People never believe me when I say I am an introvert. What helped me become more outgoing in conversations is realizing that nobody knows wtf they're doing, everybody makes mistakes and we all just prefer to be at home and comfy. Be friendly, honest, don't take stuff personally and smile a lot. When you feel like you did sth cringey, laughing about it or simply apologizing helps. Also remember that people forget ~everything~. I sure as hell don't remember stuff others did that may haunt them forever so who honestly gives a damn if I drop sth or say sth cringeworthy. Life is too short to worry about social norms.
Maybe some of this will help you feel more safe. If you keep doing it, you will eventually get used to it even though you will still prefer to be by yourself. An introvert is an introvert even if some of us are not shy
@@rainy_jones yes!
As an ambivert, sometimes I want to be magnetic and sometimes I want people to leave me alone. I need this when I want to be more like an extrovert
2:50 Bruh I'm Physically incapable of being able to think fast, my brain runs like dial up internet.
I don't even want to be with other people, yet I'm here watching this video. Psych2Go makes me happy loll
Before doing that, we should get to know everyone's personality and their true side
well, this is why i am an introvert :)
A time traveller :0
This is why I don’t like faking til I make it, coz I always feel guilty knowing my true side
Ah yes ✨6 days ago✨
@@bellstar754ah yes, 3 years ago 😂
Optimism is a happiness magnet. If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you ✊🏾❤️
i’ve been having a hard time at school this week, im an extrovert and love talking with people, but i don’t have many friends, i do have anxiety which makes it a little harder to interact some times. i just played the sims today and my sim had the charismatic skill, it made me think about how i don’t have a lot of charisma and which is probably why i don’t have friends. it’s the 3rd week of school already and i have already made some first impressions, but i’m determined to build my charisma up and lower my anxiety, i hope my journey will be great
SAMEEE (the struggles :">). Goodluck in being more charismatic! being an extrovert is one step (introvert here lol), so I know you can do it!
How are things going 2 years later?
Don't worry if you feel like you can't do it. It's just practice. A lot of confident people with good body language have practiced to be like that. Confidence is practice as well. You got this ❤
1- set a playful tone: make an energetic and enthusiastic and positive first impression
2- have some funny, short, good stories on hand. Be confident & animated, use present tense with dynamic voices and utilize well-placed pauses.
3- be quick-witted. Think fast on your feet and look for a opening to engage in “banter” with people
4- BE REAL. Stay Genuine, open, and polite. Steer clear from politics/religion/divisive subjects.
5-SMIZE; Open body posture, lean in, nod, make eye contact, mimic their movements. Be “likable” and a GOOD listener. Ask deeper and open-ended questions. Be genuinely interested in learning more about them. *Always remember, PEOPLE LOVE TALKING ABOUT THEMSELVES!!!❤❤❤
most importantly just be nice to people!! juggle playfulness, respect and wit somethin like that
I reccomend saying that person's name when you talk to them. People like to hear their own name most of the time so perhaps that might make them feel more connected?
Yes
@@Sunflower_that_loves_you armyyyy 💜
Even if they are not that type of person, it lets them know you are talking to them. I personally would love this.
@@juliakay7446 🐳💫🌈💜
@@Sunflower_that_loves_you 💜💜💜 Who’s your bias?
There’s two ways to be likable. Be someone who takes charge of the conversation, the one who initiates it, or make everyone feel included in your interactions with others…
the other way is to be an active listener. People like to be listened to, no one likes being ignored. Always reply with something relative to them about yourself. You can build charisma through these two methods and it ends up working for first time impressions, or long term relationships.
However it should be noted that both of these methods need confidence. If you’re nervous, the feeling of nervousness is contagious. This means have good self esteem and it’ll become noticeable in both your speech and appearance.
You can boost your charisma by admitting to mistakes or making mistakes. The more mistakes you make the more human you appear to other people. Don’t be afraid of slipping up while talking, it can always be turned into a good laugh between you and the other person.
This is how you become a likable and interesting person to other people.
I've been working towards reviving that charismatic personality of me! I know I'm driven and have successfully done it in the past. Time for the second coming!
I can do this for awhile but it exhausts me and I become quiet and reclusive. Apparently I've got an electromagnetic personality and it only works when I'm fully charged.
It's the same for me. Some time I'm talkative and then I want to be alone & quiet. My energy is run out! !
and *Apparently* you are the *Apparently* kid :D
**Introverts enter the chat**
@@caelenselke-minogue
It might just be the bipolar but I think I fit the profile of an ambivert more than an introvert. I'm pretty good with giving speeches and I've performed vocals in a hardcore band and as an emcee.
For some reason it's easier to be the centre-of-attention than it is to be an equal participate.
@@skaldlouiscyphre2453 why is this LITERALLY me.
The social distancing hasn't really altered my life. I generally social distance.
I love how you make tough topics approachable.
Maybe I should have searched "how to get a personality".
Actually
@@hbarua1376LMAO
I swear this is me to the core! Most people flock to me when I walk into a room because they know I'm genuinely interested in them. Not only that, women like me because of my charisma and my easy listening skills.
I have social anxiety and more of an introvert. I spent a lot time cultivating my charisma and social skills. I used Charisma on Demand on youtube. Gaining charisma really helps socially.
I'm naturally charismatic and didn't even know it. Thanks for the explanation
Personally I don't share personal infomation but let thr other person come away from the conversation being heard. I can give lots if infomation about others from what they shared because you've made them feel comfortable and heard, yet they can't say much about me.
I think it really is listening to listen , genuine interest in others. Modesty. Confidence in posture and speech. Being or seeming self assured.beye contact and thoughtfulness. Well, for a quiet charm atleast.
As an introverted extrovert this really helped, I have all this energy but I don't know how to use it and express myself even though I want to!
5:40 This hit home for me 💀😭😭😭
I didn't realize just how charismatic I am 😇 thanks guys, my ego is swelling exponentially 😂
This is such a calming voice 😌💕
thank you for this video, I struggle a lot with opening up to new people or not even new just meeting for a short time and this video really showed me the right way. Thanks again!
Hey narrator, you should start a asmr channel because you’re voice is so soothing
Had anybody ever been laying in bed, watching UA-cam, and all of a sudden remembering that people know you, have opinions on you and that you exist?
All the time!
In my class I'm not the most the most loved but when i talk people actually listen to me and seem interested, I really love talking and I usually try to put a lot of passion in what I'm saying
I love how approachable and relatable your videos are.
7th Way To Be The Most Magnetic Person In The Room:
Don't let anyone else in the room watch this video.
Only thing I attract is mosquitoes
Underrated
Me to we are the best rizzlers
Same 😌
they suck
Fricking related
Step one: be gravity you'll attract everyone :>
True
That's beautiful
I tried gaining more mass, but it works on humans as a repulsion.
@@PhoenixtheII🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Salience is Charisma. Enthusiasm is salient. Attentive listening is salient. Confidence is salient. Hotness, Intelligence, Communication skills, eye contact, smile all are salient.
I need to Google 'salient' 😂😊
“Say what you feel”
I feel nothing
My friend the other day was talking about charisma and he looked directly at me when he said the word. Why thank you, young sir. I'm glad that I'm actually that good with people!
Edit: This is where I fall short. I'm mischevious and enjoy listening to people debate so sometimes I delibrately enjoy asking people about controversial subjects. This mischevious spark is also why most of my DnD characters are absolute jerks or extremely flirty. Heehee, I can use my wit and make people mad.
Please, make the next one, "how to be the most unnoticeable person in the room," I don't want anyone to accidentally start a conversation with me, y'know . 😂
Be a man, be in a room that nobody knows you
@@baosamaritano I'd need to change my gender for that, but I might give it a try💜
@@09macka guess humanity will not have a solution for your problem sadly 😢. My small brother said that if you think someone you dont know wants to talk you should pick your nose and they will flee
@@baosamaritano your brother is genius.
I never thought of that.
@@baosamaritano That is such incredible advice.
Your voice is enough.CALMING!
If you are an ENFP, it will come naturally to you
ENFPs and ENFJs are like, so charismatic
I've been in the way of personal development since 2020 and I can say that this is the best channel in all of UA-cam in terms of mental health. I've been struggling with the way I show my emotions and my emotions themselves. Sometimes I feel like I don't want to react and feel the way I do but I remind myself that it is totally fine to have some "indeseable" feelings. However, this topic of being charismatic and playful is one thing that I really want to improve in my life. I'm not a boring person (at least that's what I think) but I think I can improve my sense of humor and confidence. Especially because I don't have as many friends as I want to and I don't want to be that guy who can only talk to 3 persons and is disrespectful and basically had no idea on how to communicate to other people and be kind. I want to be kind, I want to make people laugh and I want to meet more people at the same time I enjoy being with them. So, (if you read this far you're crazy) I'll be working on all of this stuff and I'll try to be that guy.
I hope you have a beautiful day and thanks to Psy2go for the life changing and helping content.❤
I try to be such a magnet for people by talking about things I love.
But it is balanced, if I show interest towards other people so they will not get tired of me when I talk a lot of myself.
Thank you for your effort.
Good stuff. One of the simplest ways to raise charisma is to have a great workout. The mood boost and energy really up charisma.
The intro nightcore/high piched Is cute
for a sec i thought i was the only one who noticed that they changed the key haha
I Love you guys, when I saw the thumbnail, I was concerned about my true self, but the words in the brackets relieved me.❤️❤️
Being yourself is very important.
I wouldn't associate every charismatic person with being honest and genuine. Narcissists and Sociopaths are known to be particularly charming and charismatic with others and it's their false self.
Stop being so judgmental and negative.
@@johnnyboy2065 Better to have wisdom and not be so naive.
They are charming because they are good at pretending they are genuine. The difference is: when you really are genuine you will attract people that are similar to you and recognize themselves in you
We need a whole video describing how to do these steps
'How to be the most magnetic person in the room'
*Right imma head out*
I’m a lot more charismatic than I thought. Still have a lot to work on though
I appreciate how you make learning feel so approachable!
This would help to have more friends in school. Thank you for all lessons for good mentality. I could make a book about that and everything about psychology, attitude and mentality. ❤️❤️❤️
No worries! Thank you for sharing this. We're so happy to help :D
@@Psych2go Thank you. ❤️❤️❤️
im working on it goodluck to all YOUUU GUYSSSS!!!!!
im going to a new school so i wanna be like this :)
I'm charismatic, but charismatic in an endearing kind of way, like a sidekick. Nobody would take me serious as a leader.
What makes you say that?
My eyes when I smile =👄=
getting the +1 charisma for an hour buff from this video 🙏
I have a special lack of social interaction that made me a lifeless shell of a human being.
You make learning so approachable and enjoyable!
Everyone else: talking about the actual video content
Me: *wondering why the intro music has been transposed up a semitone*
same lmaoo it thought i was the only one who noticed
**musicians enter the chat**
this video got me worlds most charismatic personality.
Thank you for everything psych2go you’ve helped me through so
Much 💛💛💚
You explain everything in such an approachable way.
I feel like I'm more charismatic than most but definitely not a show stopper where ever I go. I've never had anyone "hate me" as far as I know. I'm an introvert so even tho I'm light and welcoming I drain easily and need breaks meaning I leave events pretty early. I'm cool with where I stand socially but I think I'd have double or triple the ammount of people in my circle if I could hang out longer and really solidify those connections.
I think if the current people in your circle are genuine, caring and kind and have your back,l then you’re not losing anything. I believe in quality over quantity. It’s a great sign people like you already, just be yourself 😀
@@nhiza1991 awww thank youu, and yes My friends are amazing and reliable.
i can be super energetic and engaging. im just a little rusty from spending so much time alone. thanks for the tips!
Honestly I don’t even know if I am the magnetic since I’m an Ambivert
And sometimes I never try being an pushing my emotions outside
And sometimes I do-
I love big parties and BBQs and stuff but a great feeling is being alone in a room or balcony just above where a party is being held.
6 Ways To Be The Most Magnetic Person In The Room
1. Set a playful tone
2, Tell people some good stories
3. Think on your feet
4. Say what you feeling
5. Smile with your eyes
6. Be a likeable listener
You make learning feel so approachable.
I don't want to be the most magnetic person, instead I am just myself 😄
This channel is one of the only things keeping me alive right now...
Frr ngl
"All you have to do is think fast"
So im just never gonna be funny
I needed this!! Thank youuuu!!
Charisma would seem to be a mainly extrovert type quality. I do not wish to have this.
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I loooove how the three little happy beans dance at the end! 😭So CUTE! >
Cult, here I come
Bro if this was the 60s - 80s I would create a cult soooo easily
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY I CAN RELATE 💯 PERCENT TO THIS TOPIC, HAVE A BLESSED DAY 💯🙏💙💪🙊🙉🙏
I would like to be a 'magnet' rather than just 'magnetic'....
So I can repel c;
Or be a diamagnetic material :3
Watched the video and got my own ideas for struggling and trying to become as good as I could be.
Having social anxiety and absolutely no social skills
Is this why everybody likes my aunt? I mean like shes so charismatic and has a sense of humour, makes everyone laugh with her jokes and stories. Shes just my fav auntie since i was born!
when you’re a leo rising so this happens naturally
Me a scorpio rising but laughs in leo mercury and cancer placements with a virgo sun... my social abilities are well pendulum like.
@AquariousTofifiX you gotta look af your whole chart. Astrology is correlation not causation.
@@jaysenconerly2430 people really believe this? Amazing
@AquariousTofifiX No one is judging anyone here. If you choose not to believe in astrology be my guest. However, I do because I resonate with it and find it fun, have a nice day!