Why I prefer Living in Nigeria over America as a Diaspora.

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  • @navosesay3188
    @navosesay3188 6 місяців тому +364

    Well said Bros… you’ve nailed everything.I have lived in the USA for 25 years. Am now 50 years old. I have worked for a company for 12 yrs. I asked to travel to Africa for a month and they refused. They said I can only have 2 weeks of vacation. I paid my own way to America and now my job is dictating to me. I decided to quit and they offered me a month leave of absence with pay. I have not been home in 14 years. I came to America with my husband and 3 children. The stress of this country sent my husband to an early grave. I was forced to raise 3 children by myself and the youngest is a special need. My eyes don see ween!!! My kids are now in their early twenties and I have managed to build a 4 bedroom bungalow back home and am traveling this year to see it for the first time in person. I intend to retire back home and hearing you say all the good things about home gives me courage. I know everybody’s journey is different but am ready to make this trip a reality. I will find another Job when I return but am definitely traveling. How can another human being stop me from visiting my home. Moving forward, I will be traveling home every year now.

    • @witty448
      @witty448 6 місяців тому +38

      Thank you so much for sharing your story, i am almost 2 years in canada and i already feel like going back home.

    • @omajonathan9928
      @omajonathan9928 6 місяців тому

      Sad though. Most Africans usually return home in their coffins after dedicating their productive lives in the fairy land... Hope the society will welcome you back though now u have much much much less to offer... Just saying.
      There was a gist that the Russians once said African leaders spend all their time abroad, go abroad for their health checkups usually only their dead bodies are brought back to the mother land... Sad shame.
      Eventually the black man will learn to build and fix his own and one day have others run to it. One can never have full respect while squatting in another man's house no matter how much money you have or make... If na lie try am.

    • @prinzdan6337
      @prinzdan6337 6 місяців тому +29

      Honestly, there's no place like home. Just 3months in Canada feels like 3years away, Naija shall be great again!

    • @witty448
      @witty448 6 місяців тому

      @@prinzdan6337 i can relate

    • @masterlightjames950
      @masterlightjames950 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@witty448please don't come. We are not Biblical characters. We don't accept prodigal sons.

  • @ebenezerolusanya7098
    @ebenezerolusanya7098 6 місяців тому +153

    I am 53 years old nigerian and have lived in the USA for twenty one year. The day I am able to move back to Nigeria for good and make USA a tourist place will be the happiest day in my life. I have lived on both sides of the coin, and i can authoritatively tell you..."ALL THAT GLITTER IS NOT GOLD"

    • @dr.charlesadebanji1023
      @dr.charlesadebanji1023 6 місяців тому

      I love your balanced analyses of the two countries. Your thoughts will resonate with people who have tasted the two countries, more than those who are seemingly hopeless in Nigeria. Many Nigerians have forgotten that in America, money doesn't fall from trees. They look at the exchange rate, forgetting that there are many Nigerians who work and live in the US without savings. I returned to Nigeria for two years, went back to poultry farming, but had to quit because of the associated stress factors of a bad economy and unreasonable mindset of artisans who are voracious at ruining your business. Yes, I agree with you that anyone who has monthly access to USD 1000 will live better in Nigeria. Such people must also make provision for solar power, to generate electricity. Furthermore, there must be budgets to cushion the sporadic inflationary trends in Nigeria. Lastly, I want to appreciate your doggedness in terms of straddling between America and Nigeria. I don't mind talking with you further if you are interested. I shuttle between South Africa and Nigeria. I am interested in planting food just as you do. Again, your daughter will benefit from your decision. If she goes back to the US in the future, she will want to return to Nigeria. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with us.

    • @afro7942
      @afro7942 6 місяців тому +4

      I understand 👍

    • @LuvvMyBrownSkin
      @LuvvMyBrownSkin 5 місяців тому +4

      💯 Correct!

    • @idvproperties
      @idvproperties 5 місяців тому +9

      It will happen in Jesus name

    • @denisegoodwin4264
      @denisegoodwin4264 5 місяців тому +5

      Bye 👏🏾

  • @saheedsadiq205
    @saheedsadiq205 6 місяців тому +275

    Living abroad is like a trap, it is a well structured trap to keep foreigners as slaves and build the society they never belonged. No place like home, hopefully Nigerians and Africans will appreciate what God has given us in that region. I wish our leaders in all aspect of the society can see this video and make our country a better and liveable place for us. God bless Nigeria! God bless us! Bayo, you nailed this one!

    • @DoubleFeat
      @DoubleFeat 6 місяців тому +11

      Exactly

    • @christset
      @christset 6 місяців тому +3

      This can be true if u dont know how the system works. Remember, UK, European and US are countries built systems and frameworks. Chinese, Jewish, Indians even some Somalians and understand how the system works except us.

    • @sarahmurray687
      @sarahmurray687 6 місяців тому +14

      100% correct. I have been living in US for 23 years. I'm tired but it's hard to go back home. There is no saving all we do here is work and work with nothing to show for your hard work.

    • @ProsperousJanetta
      @ProsperousJanetta 6 місяців тому

      @@sarahmurray687prayers for you to be able to grow your income and save 🙏🏽

    • @ighomercy5024
      @ighomercy5024 6 місяців тому

      Point to note! "It is a well structured trap to keep foreigners as slaves and build the society they never belong" this is too deep!

  • @jasondima1411
    @jasondima1411 5 місяців тому +48

    I am Nigerian American born in America raised by 2 Nigerians parents. Everything you said about America is true! I just came back to the US from Nigeria about 3 weeks ago and the stress level in the US is real. If only Nigeria can have a better government, Nigeria will be the greatest country in the world. The people there have the best hospitality. They are genuinely kind hearted caring people. It’s my family and the loving people that brings me back to Nigeria each time. My goal is to retire in Nigeria with my wife in the future.

    • @nyakanga
      @nyakanga 5 місяців тому +2

      @jasondima1411 we are not as proactive to involve ourselves and question these leaders. So sad how we live them to do as they please.

  • @dollyosadolor1489
    @dollyosadolor1489 6 місяців тому +113

    My brother, you are 💯 correct. I have lived in Canada for 20 years, and for the past 5 years I live in Nigeria more than Canada. I always say to people's if not because of the exchange rate, many people living abroad will be fully back home to Nigeria. I have fully set up myself in Nigeria by having my own house with 24-hour light, having a business that gives me income, build some rented property, and a farm for personal use. I am living my best life whenever I am in Nigeria. GOD BLESS NIGERIA 🇳🇬

    • @charlesanyiam2657
      @charlesanyiam2657 6 місяців тому +7

      Bro the only way Ur enjoying Nigeria is because u have money

    • @dollyosadolor1489
      @dollyosadolor1489 6 місяців тому +21

      ​@charlesanyiam2657, not only in Nigeria, is all over the world. if you don't have money, you won't enjoy life.

    • @Damination-yj6ti
      @Damination-yj6ti 6 місяців тому

      ​@@charlesanyiam2657money isn't life bro

    • @Damination-yj6ti
      @Damination-yj6ti 6 місяців тому

      ​@@charlesanyiam2657money isn't everything bro

    • @philderrick6305
      @philderrick6305 6 місяців тому

      @@dollyosadolor1489well said

  • @The_Cruise_Fam
    @The_Cruise_Fam 6 місяців тому +92

    The big takeaway is live in Nigeria and get paid in dollars. Of course anyone in this position will thoroughly prefer Nigeria/Africa as a whole.

    • @danobi2207
      @danobi2207 6 місяців тому +11

      Bro you nailed it.

    • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
      @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 6 місяців тому +9

      UA-camr world of reality. You've said it all! They have the income/capital to get the Youtubing equipment PLUS all the spots to feature on their channel and up they go! Of course, Bayo Adio here will prefer Naija after thoroughly planning with HIS RESOURCES amassed from USdollars he earned over time slash his accessibility to property investments as featured on his channel years ago. So relocation isn't for resourceLESS peeps.

    • @Adefunke16
      @Adefunke16 6 місяців тому +12

      Right ... those in Naija earning Naira obviously have a harder reality

    • @unwanaokon
      @unwanaokon 6 місяців тому +7

      Exactly. If you earn in dollars, you can prefer Nigeria anytime. If he earned in naira, he would take the time think over what he is saying.
      See, he could not afford Nigerian food when he lived in the U.S. He prefers Nigeria now because in Nigeria, his $1.00 (one dollar) is equal to Ŋ1500.00 [One Thousand, five hundred naira]. The dollar exchange rate is in his favor now.

    • @alfonsom8286
      @alfonsom8286 5 місяців тому +12

      ​@unwanaokon , you assume too much. Money is not his only deciding factor. He mentioned peace of mind ( more important than money) , culture for himself and his daughter, anxiety and hyper awareness of living in U.S. Endless taxes, racism and more.
      The Naira's value is poor because the people of Nigeria have not yet taken the actions to rid themselves of corruption on Government.
      Nigeria and all of Africa needs more individuals like this young man.

  • @Dance2nite
    @Dance2nite 6 місяців тому +118

    My son is Half Nigerian and I am German. I have been to Nigeria 3 times, recently showed my son his home country he isn’t even 6 years old and bought him a land over there. I want him to always know his roots and appreciate them. In case he wants to he is free to move over there and live his life in Nigeria whenever he is older.

    • @sacassashimidrama7088
      @sacassashimidrama7088 6 місяців тому +5

      If his dad is German why does his root have to be Nigerian? Unless you are the woman. Then his root may well be Nigerian.

    • @thomasagorhom1139
      @thomasagorhom1139 6 місяців тому +3

      GOD BLESS YOU

    • @willieduffie4967
      @willieduffie4967 6 місяців тому +3

      Great foresight 👍

    • @jimmyjimmy6315
      @jimmyjimmy6315 6 місяців тому +10

      @@sacassashimidrama7088 Maybe you don’t understand English language.

    • @netteundgut
      @netteundgut 6 місяців тому

      I have just bought 3 plot and I am from Coventry.​@GAZABRITISHHWATCHDIS

  • @NkemOnyeka12
    @NkemOnyeka12 5 місяців тому +39

    As an African American woman, I also prefer Nigeria. The weather is also my #1 reason. I don’t live there permanently and I’m married to a Nigerian man. I also feel safer, there are no guns in Nigeria unless you’re military or police. There’s tribalism but not racism.

    • @TruthSerum101
      @TruthSerum101 5 місяців тому

      No racism? Huh? You're sitting in the cradle of white supremacy. Because you don't see white faces does not mean there is no racism. The residuals of the Berlin conference left an indelible mark on what is now known as Nigeria. White supremacy continues to hold a firm grip on the mindset of millions of NIgerians even though the closest thing they see to white faces are the tragically bleached faces of their fellow citizens.

    • @JHKanus
      @JHKanus Місяць тому

      True

  • @JR-ek4xy
    @JR-ek4xy 6 місяців тому +190

    I live in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and i wouldn't have it any other way.
    I love living here to much

    • @livingwords227
      @livingwords227 6 місяців тому

      I hate this sort of people soo fake

    • @lkyhood4200
      @lkyhood4200 6 місяців тому +9

      .........because you have not traveled to see the real world. Please go visit Kenya, Ghana, South Africa, Egypt, Morocco, etc., and you will return a different man. Traveling is very much a part of education. This guy, Bayo, wants to be an oppressor, and that's impossible in America. So, his praise for a corrupt and largely undeveloped Nigeria is understandable.

    • @JR-ek4xy
      @JR-ek4xy 6 місяців тому +40

      ​@@lkyhood4200TYPICAL IGNORANT COMMENT> I'VE BEEN TO OVER 49 COUNTRIES, LIVED IN 5 CONTINENTS, 21 CITIES, NIGERIA IS STILL MY TOP PLACES TO BE AND LIVE...

    • @livingwords227
      @livingwords227 6 місяців тому

      @@lkyhood4200 I gree come carry me comot if it's that bad sell me ur US citizenship

    • @Isiejeme0829
      @Isiejeme0829 6 місяців тому

      @@lkyhood4200 see this local champion.

  • @chrissyivie164
    @chrissyivie164 5 місяців тому +4

    I love this video, I’m currently working to make my transition to Nigeria. I took your advice I visited Abuja and I love it. I see myself living there. Can you make a budget video of how much you think someone will need to relocate to Nigeria. I have lived in London for over 30years and it’s time to come out of this rat race.

    • @lollybabe08
      @lollybabe08 14 днів тому

      I understand u 25 yrs btw Uk and Ireland, my goal is to exit in the next 6yrs. I have started rolling out my 6yrs plan.

  • @mucholangs
    @mucholangs 6 місяців тому +5

    Security is bad in Nigeria. You can't drive in peace in Nigeria. Fulani could ambush your vehicle, kill some, kidnap others into the bush.
    *For that reason alone, it's not worth it living in Nigeria.*
    Food is big in Nigeria. There is absolutely no comparison. Our people can cook.
    Bills will swallow you alive in the USA.
    It is the same in Nigeria. But you don't feel it because you don't earn N50k/month.
    You mentioned skilled technicians being affordable. That is true.
    However, the same techs don't get paid much. It's good for you, but bad for them.
    In the USA, a mechanic earns about about $30/hour. Compare that to a mechanic in Nigeria.
    The reasons why you love Nigeria, is the same reason why Nigeria cannot develop as a country.
    So in a way, you're glorifying Nigeria's dysfunction.
    Here is the bottom line...
    1. If you have high income in Nigeria, there is no place like Nigeria.
    Unfortunately, 99% of Nigerians are living from hand to mouth. That is not something to brag about.
    2. The title of this video should be changed to...
    Why I prefer Living in Southwest Nigeria over America as a Diaspora.

    • @seunvictoria2580
      @seunvictoria2580 14 днів тому

      Thanks so much for this lovely breakdown. It's so easy to love the benefit gained from Nigeria's dysfunctional system until the table is turned and you get to be the low income earner that's unable to pay for your sick child's hospital bills because the system isn't empowered to make life affordable for the locals. Let's learn to glorify the idea of Nigeria working for the average person, where the future is hopeful for the youths and everyone.

  • @jwilliams2006
    @jwilliams2006 6 місяців тому +46

    Spent 20 years in US - moved back in 2014. Prefer Nigeria for similar reasons.

    • @Smartbuys1
      @Smartbuys1 Місяць тому

      Are a green card/citizen? Pls, how do you deal with the double taxation being a dual citizen??

  • @ElaineWhitley-mf8bj
    @ElaineWhitley-mf8bj 6 місяців тому +40

    As a white American with close Nigerian friends, you gave me another take on Nigeria. A positive one. I am so happy that you feel so at ease there. Nigerians have a special quality that allows them to enjoy life in difficult circumstances. They enhance my life and I too am drawn to that country.

    • @YT-xk5jl
      @YT-xk5jl Місяць тому +2

      Whatever. Just don’t try to colonize their culture and country. I’m African and I had to reply to you to make it clear that you’re still not one of us. Idc how many African friends you have

    • @MindMines-ym5vm
      @MindMines-ym5vm 14 днів тому +1

      ​@@YT-xk5jl May God forgive you. 😂

    • @Dimples247
      @Dimples247 3 дні тому

      @@YT-xk5jl so all whites want to colonize? This is an extremely racist, insensitive and stereotypical statement if I ever seen one. Myself, I’m American married to Nigerian and I embrace , respect and love his culture just as he does mine. Because we come from two different worlds; it allows us to enjoy one another, always learning, never boring. Your statement comes off as absurd and rude based off skin color. It’s Sad you think this way. Statements like this, from people with your mindset (of any race, ethnicity) are the reason skin color is always a hot topic online, sadly.

  • @lifeskillswithgloria7763
    @lifeskillswithgloria7763 6 місяців тому +18

    Bayo, well done for this video. I relate 100% with you. Almost 40yrs in the northeast USA, I prefer Naija life . I am privileged to be able to reside at both continents at intervals.
    Don’t worry if all your audience can’t gerrit!, they can forgerit😂😂
    Congratulations 🎉

  • @tonywhitsett2038
    @tonywhitsett2038 5 місяців тому +10

    🤔Thanks for sharing.*Your bless to have two countries you can pick from to live in.*The great Africa is getting better each and every day. Many people from other countries are investing in the African countries.*God bless the great Africa 🙏👊🖐

  • @brainiarchjohnsalihu3309
    @brainiarchjohnsalihu3309 5 місяців тому +15

    Gush!!! I’m shedding tears as I watch this right now, cos I miss home soo much. I miss Nigeria, I miss my friends, the communal culture, the hangouts, the babes, the street life, oh my!!! In fact I’m preparing to head back home.😢😢

  • @Eniola0ne
    @Eniola0ne 6 місяців тому +200

    After 33 years in 😮 Europe and US i have enough of the stress and horrific food we have here. Almost everyone in the US is diebetic, but my holistic way of life, yoga, less meat, and eating more vegetables helps me to maintain good health. I decided now that it is time to return to back to my beautiful continent. I have lost three friends to Stressful life styles, there is nowhere to compare to the African continent in quality of life if you have money. Is unfortunately we in Nigeria, and some countries in Africa are conditions to see only negative in our countries. We fall into the illusion of so-called freedom. I am awake now.

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  6 місяців тому +13

      I completely understand and yes oooh!

    • @toksjones7214
      @toksjones7214 6 місяців тому +12

      I disagree with you! Food quality is excellent in Europe! Forget about America! America na third world country!

    • @Eniola0ne
      @Eniola0ne 6 місяців тому +5

      @toksjones7214 where did you live in Europe? You are right about Europe. There is strict regulation about food in Europe. In Holland, where I lived for 16 years, are among the healthier country in Europe. With great quality food.

    • @toksjones7214
      @toksjones7214 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Eniola0ne I travelled in Holland! I like Dutch people! London

    • @toksjones7214
      @toksjones7214 6 місяців тому

      @@Eniola0ne don't go to Naija! The place no good at all! Lol

  • @attoeattoe2058
    @attoeattoe2058 6 місяців тому +90

    Bayo is a positive Cultural Ambassador for Nigeria 🇳🇬 . The Federal Ministry of Culture and Tourism need to bring him on board in some consultancy capacity so his practical experience and exposure can be useful in Policy Formulation. A great example of a patriotic citizen.

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  6 місяців тому +14

      WOW. Thank you! That would be AMAZING!

    • @lolam751
      @lolam751 6 місяців тому +6

      I concur

    • @ProsperousJanetta
      @ProsperousJanetta 6 місяців тому +4

      Yes I agree! I need to connect with him for sure! ❤

    • @nancyoduah5063
      @nancyoduah5063 6 місяців тому +2

      I absolutely agree with you. He would be an amazing Ambassador.

    • @masterlightjames950
      @masterlightjames950 6 місяців тому +3

      No. We need to encourage all the bad people to japa. Let only good and patriotic people remain in Nigeria.

  • @OsundareBayonle
    @OsundareBayonle 6 місяців тому +33

    Diasporas connect with this video more than an average Nigerian. As a matter of fact, an average Nigerian will never applaud this video. This video needs preservation which I will gladly do. Thanks bro

    • @Kastady
      @Kastady 5 місяців тому +1

      True yarn because I swear I no gree for this yarn wey Oga B dey yarn so. E jus no gel

    • @mtdspfgh
      @mtdspfgh 5 місяців тому +5

      Its expected because you haven't left Nigeria ​@Kastady

    • @indolilyindomitablelily7306
      @indolilyindomitablelily7306 2 місяці тому +4

      I agree with you, as I'm a Nigerian studying abroad with plans to go back home, which a lot of young people are frowning at.....
      Hope is home.
      I'm going back home to do my best in making Nigeria better in my little way.

  • @ifeomaookoli
    @ifeomaookoli 6 місяців тому +83

    I moved back to Nigeria from Houston TX about 10+ years ago.
    I totally resonate with this video. I love the purpose point that you made... I feel like Nigeria needs us more than the developed nations.
    Also all the other points you made is what keeps me in Nigeria.

    • @a2spaceltd554
      @a2spaceltd554 6 місяців тому +1

      Tell me more pls

    • @Mmesomachii
      @Mmesomachii 6 місяців тому

      @@a2spaceltd554normally when people go abroad they become nurses, engineers, lawyers, teachers, etc. which benefits the abroad but nobody in Nigeria to be these things and benefit the economy

    • @lkyhood4200
      @lkyhood4200 6 місяців тому

      That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.

  • @florencetoru2827
    @florencetoru2827 6 місяців тому +52

    I was born in UK but i also go to Nigeria for holiday every year now i don't feel like living in UK anymore is just to cold for me to much stress and lonely life nobody want to know what you are going true.

    • @davidosimiri7344
      @davidosimiri7344 6 місяців тому +1

      i feel your pain, I pray God help you out soon

  • @lankuaa1544
    @lankuaa1544 6 місяців тому +70

    I like the way you emphasized the fact that the video is about those of us living in the U.S. I have lived in the US for 30 years and still can not think less of Nigeria. You never know until you have lived here long enough to be able to make that comparison. Thank you for the video.

    • @lkyhood4200
      @lkyhood4200 6 місяців тому +1

      That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.

    • @giftedchild9490
      @giftedchild9490 6 місяців тому +5

      I'm only a few years in Canada and I'm sick of it already

    • @lankuaa1544
      @lankuaa1544 6 місяців тому +6

      @@giftedchild9490 No place like home. No matter how long we live in the foreign country, we will never be one of them.

  • @hannahezekiel4235
    @hannahezekiel4235 6 місяців тому +69

    Ah, finally God Almighty has sent you to bring light into this. Nigerians back home don't get it, they think oh you don't want us to come. Have been telling my children am ready to move back home. God bless you.

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  6 місяців тому +8

      It is hard to understand oooh. one just has to experience it. Thank you :)

    • @taiwoabimbola1676
      @taiwoabimbola1676 5 місяців тому

      No matter what you say they can't listen to diaspora because some Nigerians also want to go and make the money like you do then come back.

  • @uwomanoorikogho9065
    @uwomanoorikogho9065 6 місяців тому +12

    TRUTH, there's no doubt in all you have said, alot people in Nigeria would not agree with you base on the facts that they have not lived in the west, I will like to say if you have anything you are you doing back home, maybe you are working or doing business, and you can take care of your needs, I think I will advice that you should not move, I know many will not understand until they come abroad.

  • @smithcorner2002
    @smithcorner2002 6 місяців тому +15

    I see a lot youthful nigerians leaving on a daily basis now even in my office, my GM once called me to ask why i havent joined them to travel, i told her all i need is time to do other things but not leaving nigeria. If one have skills, seek knowledge and cutting ones cloths in nigeria, its possible to get things right. What i discover as a nigerian youth is you cannot close your eyes to opportunities and like you said nigeria is an untailored environment where opportunities abound... But then i feel capital is one major reason why a number of youths will decide to leave first and come back later.

  • @PrincelyBesong
    @PrincelyBesong 6 місяців тому +14

    I can totally relate to this video, I have been leaving in the USA for 18 years, there stress here is too much, it’s my dream to finally move back to Africa soon.

  • @Cgeapekp
    @Cgeapekp 6 місяців тому +22

    Dear Babylon, thank you for this video. I was brought up abroad as an infant and moved myself back to Nigeria in my 20s. I left Nigeria 3 years ago for personal reasons, and moving back this year. There is no place like home. ❤

  • @ted.n9609
    @ted.n9609 6 місяців тому +91

    Anybody who lives in the USA will understand his point. If only the Nigerian Government could improve on the standand of living, like electricty, good health care , good roads and security, No Nigerian will ever want to leave their Country. Nigeria Need some safety net for its people and some retirement cushion for old age. And these things are not difficult to achieve with good government and good welfare planning. Nigeria is a blessed Country, but has lacked patriotic and good management leadership since it's independence.

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  6 місяців тому +2

      I agree 💯

    • @Igbokwenu-s9y
      @Igbokwenu-s9y 6 місяців тому

      But the young Nigerians are working hard to take over the affairs of the country from incompetent corrupted Nigerians elites that hold the country hostage, but was aborted by incompetent INEC and Nigeria judiciary, but they are still pushing forward.

    • @onthegofm1887
      @onthegofm1887 6 місяців тому +9

      Yep, for someone who lives in the USA yada yada yada! I would suggest that you stop blaming the Nigerian government for everything!
      In the old days, no one blamed their traditional leaders or rulers for infrastructure; they built them themselves. No one asked for handouts, instead, they worked hard to put food on the table and roof over their heads.
      Further, your host country USA wasn't built by governments but by ordinary people, including African slaves, and poor people from poverty stricken Europe.

    • @Moabayi-yf6ul
      @Moabayi-yf6ul 6 місяців тому +16

      If the government provides those amenities that you mentioned in abundance, some Nigerians would still prefer overseas to their fatherland due to inferiority mindset and lack of information.
      That’s why you see A man living comfortably in Nigeria with a good job selling their properties and moved to the UK, only to get there and do factory work under a supervisor that had no college degree.

    • @ted.n9609
      @ted.n9609 6 місяців тому +2

      @@onthegofm1887 Good leadership breed good government. Corrupt leadership with diverse selfish interests and no clue on how to develope the Country and improve the lives of its citizens have left Nigeria in a very deplorable situation. It seem you have no idea of the duty of any government. You are comparing a village chief with a Federal government with huge Financial resources and the power to maintain security, the welfare of the people and the rule of law. Nigeria is a blessed country but have never yet got good leadership.

  • @jonir.2044
    @jonir.2044 6 місяців тому +46

    Yes, the feeling of belonging. I'm from the Caribbeans and the longing to live in Africa is quite undeniable. For those from the Caribbean, Africa represents more than just a geographical location; it's a connection to their roots, culture, and heritage. Many Caribbean traditions, languages, and cultural practices have their origins in Africa, which creates a strong sense of acceptance and nostalgia for the continent.
    Moreover, Africa is incredibly diverse, with a rich tapestry of cultures, languages, landscapes, and histories. The allure of experiencing this diversity firsthand can be a powerful draw for anyone seeking a deeper connection to their heritage. I cannot wait to come for a visit, then eventually move to the continent. Great presentation!

    • @KOT_Media_ng
      @KOT_Media_ng 6 місяців тому +4

      please visit one day 🙏

    • @LuvvMyBrownSkin
      @LuvvMyBrownSkin 5 місяців тому +3

      @jonir.2044 💯 Very true and very well said!

    • @Dakerele
      @Dakerele 5 місяців тому

      All you said are easy for because you made your money in the USA. So life will be easy for you to live in Nigeria.

    • @MrgoogleSearcher-d5v
      @MrgoogleSearcher-d5v 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Dakereleif you can do so

    • @Daraa727
      @Daraa727 3 місяці тому

      @@DakereleExactly and there is nothing wrong with that. This video is for those who want to move back to Africa and have the finances or the mind to do it.

  • @kuyahkudey3217
    @kuyahkudey3217 6 місяців тому +23

    I'm happy for you that life in Nigeria is working out for you and your family.😊
    🎯‼‼I agree with you about the sense of belonging. I lived in the US for most of my life and I never felt I belonged.
    I feel safer in Jamaica compared to the U.S. too. So I know how you feel.
    We peel oranges the same way in Jamaica.

  • @johnsonolajide4647
    @johnsonolajide4647 6 місяців тому +64

    Hi Bayo.
    Good day to you over there.
    My name is Olajide.
    I'm living in Sydney Australia 🦘🌏.
    Originally from Abeokuta Ogun state Nigeria.
    But growing up in Ikeja Lagos state.
    I can attest to what you are saying here.
    Australia is far more expensive to live than the USA.
    At least 50 percent of your income in Australia goes to taxes.
    Me too I'm moving back from Australia to Africa this year.
    As you have mentioned that there are many business opportunities in Africa.
    Yes that's very true.
    But many of we Africans don't see that at all.
    I'm coming to Africa with my business ideas on how to solve Agriculture post harvest loses.
    I want to come to Africa to start building Stationary and Mobile Cold Storage facilities for food 🥑🥝 preservation.
    I've been working on this project for more than 15 years.
    Anyway hope to meet you someday in Nigeria.
    Have a great time over there in Nigeria.

    • @adelabuidris6292
      @adelabuidris6292 6 місяців тому

      Will like to connect with you sir
      What's your WhatsApp

    • @sly-moore3184
      @sly-moore3184 6 місяців тому +4

      Same here. I have spent 24 years in Australia, and I am moving back home as well.

    • @USSEIN_WAJEER
      @USSEIN_WAJEER 6 місяців тому +3

      @@sly-moore3184 50 percent of your income? That is intense! I thought we have bad here in the USA

    • @abayomialao4916
      @abayomialao4916 6 місяців тому

      We needed that bro like right now and another of that here

    • @lkyhood4200
      @lkyhood4200 6 місяців тому +1

      That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.

  • @alexolabode7557
    @alexolabode7557 5 місяців тому +25

    Well said!! I willl be 46yr by May 8th, Bin here in Korea for 10yrs and been home twice, one thing i am 100% sure is that my return story will end well that is my plead daily to God n d Universe!!Gotten over 150plots of land already set forbreal estate, now embarking on another palmoil tree plantation for 12acres of land as my retirement investmenrt. If u japa 4rm naija with a mindset to go hustle n return back home, it will come to past n u wil enjoy dekay gratification with ease but if is to travel to fit in into their system then one has enslaved him or herself. I pray everyone abroad return wen due with good stories!!!

  • @paulosa9906
    @paulosa9906 6 місяців тому +146

    My son the creator will grant your father eternal peace for raising such an extraordinary young man.❤

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  6 місяців тому +9

      Amen and thank you so much :)

    • @Moabayi-yf6ul
      @Moabayi-yf6ul 6 місяців тому +19

      I too have been seeing his videos for quite some time. He is really pro Africa and we need people like him for Africa to move forward. Unfortunately, many of our people in diaspora don’t wish Africa well because they want to feel justified within themselves for abandoning their roots.

    • @KennyNationZ
      @KennyNationZ 6 місяців тому

      @@thenigeriannomaddid you mean 1st generation Nigerian American ?

    • @GreaterLight-xl6wv
      @GreaterLight-xl6wv 6 місяців тому +3

      God bless Nigeria and every God fearing Nigerians richly in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth Amen 🙏💪 God bless Nigeria my mother land

    • @lkyhood4200
      @lkyhood4200 6 місяців тому

      Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.

  • @netteundgut
    @netteundgut 6 місяців тому +6

    @Bayo, please this was really a good content, I am also relocating soon to Nigeria, the only one issue i have with your lovely video, is please can we Stop saying some third world countries, there are no such words as third world or second world or first world, someone made those labels, just as the 3 to 1 in America constitution. Instead use the name of the country you are speaking about or referring to. This is my opinion, I could not stay in New York for two weeks, because Nigeria for me was better, because the amount of beggars was just too much in so many of the streets in New York.

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you. I have had a few people correct me on this. Note taken for sure.

  • @victoredwards3959
    @victoredwards3959 6 місяців тому +85

    Honestly, I can 100% relate , I spent 5 months of the year in Lagos and 7 months in HULL , UK , the only reasons I do the 7 months in Uk is because my property business is based here in Uk , and it’s nice to make money in pounds than Naira , but honestly Nigeria is the best, I was born Uk , spent the first 26 years of my life here, I hate the cold weather with a passion. started coming to Nigeria 10 years ago. And I have never look back. Well done Bayo .

    • @Moabayi-yf6ul
      @Moabayi-yf6ul 6 місяців тому +6

      Thank you for not giving up on your fatherland.

    • @USSEIN_WAJEER
      @USSEIN_WAJEER 6 місяців тому +6

      Own a property in Lagos as well. Don’t pay five months rent

    • @Chuwalker
      @Chuwalker 6 місяців тому +3

      Oh, I schooled at the University of Hull. Spent one year and 6 months there. Nice city, but back home in Nigeria and I love home.

    • @sylviasworld9397
      @sylviasworld9397 5 місяців тому +1

      Exactly, the cold and rain in the UK under those months of grey skies is just not nice. I an grateful that I was born and raised in London , but I don't prefer living there as an adult.

  • @hunt1110011
    @hunt1110011 6 місяців тому +29

    america is a high pressure society compared to nigeria, stress can take you out if you dont plan properly.

  • @giftedchild9490
    @giftedchild9490 6 місяців тому +12

    Canada is worse bro... I have shifted my mind and hope to go back home sometime soon

  • @denisedixon-george3866
    @denisedixon-george3866 6 місяців тому +14

    I definitely agree with your points about living in Nigeria. The ability to be your authentic self is priceless. I prefer living in Nigeria than the US also.

  • @Naija4K
    @Naija4K 6 місяців тому +97

    If you have money, Nigeria is the best place to be! The USA food is TRASH! The place is stressful, and opportunities are WAY LESS than in Nigeria!

    • @prettyeyes1752
      @prettyeyes1752 6 місяців тому

      your opinion we all have one im glad you 've had all the foods of America i ve had some foods of Nigeria and didn't care myself for it but there is something for everyone its too many deseases , bugs , nasty areas, there is too many scams and scammers of women by Nigerian men taking advantage of them proclaiming love too much stealing on tourist within africa this man is Nigerian its his country we know where we shop and what places to go to enjoy what we prefer and like I love and prefer the islands more so than Africa your use to what you know deal with it Lol as we do here what is stress to you is not what you observe if it was that awful we wouldn't be here there are many Africans want out from over there my Nigerian Fiancee is one he lives a nightmare over there and we can pay our rent up for one year as well many want month to month I can't wait till he gets from over there if I was this guy I would stay in Africa your African stay there you know your country stop complaining stay home lol no one pays taxes on a car every year here unless you move to another state your issue is your African you need to be there there are people for every where in America all people don't want to live near a beach they may want mountains views , or snow or warm weather or cold weather no one has to be tied down to just any thing one needs jobs in Africa lagos is killing my man there and he is business man I have 3 homes here own them and 2 AB&B there is plenty money to be made in America youve complained so much you should have never left Africa really lol

    • @irenegaruba48
      @irenegaruba48 6 місяців тому +11

      Exactly! If you have “money”. That’s the keyword. Not all Nigerians can talk his talk. It’ll be nice if they all could.

    • @nauticdixons
      @nauticdixons 6 місяців тому +5

      ​@irenegaruba48 they're talking about diasporas, not everyday Nigerians.

    • @Naija4K
      @Naija4K 6 місяців тому +13

      @@nauticdixons We are talking about middle class Nigerians! Which are in Lagos, Abuja, and most state capitals! They are all living better lives than they could live overseas.

    • @ferdimako
      @ferdimako 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Naija4Kwith other citizenships.

  • @OziomaN
    @OziomaN 5 місяців тому +7

    Thanks for explaining everything clearly to everyone living abroad
    We see how we go.
    Thanks and God bless

  • @amaradumbuya2099
    @amaradumbuya2099 6 місяців тому +16

    26 years in the United States from Sierraleone bro you are talking to me everything you said hit home,and also iam sierraleonean American born in the
    state of Washington

  • @ndidiamakanwachukwu5186
    @ndidiamakanwachukwu5186 6 місяців тому +28

    My dear Bayo. I am. Nigerian, who has lived all my life in Nigeria and will continue to live in Nigeria. This JAPA mentality has never been me. I have never been interested in leaving this country even though i have the opportunity to do so. Never even played visa lottery. This video is an eye opener for a lot of Nigerians who think "the grass is greener on the other side". I hope they see this video and understand that e no easy anywhere. As for me "yours truly", I DIE HERE OO!

    • @smithcorner2002
      @smithcorner2002 6 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @chimakalu5195
      @chimakalu5195 6 місяців тому +3

      Good for you. Please also try to be buying Nigerian made products to prove your love for Nigeria. God bless you.

    • @childrentoys4537
      @childrentoys4537 5 місяців тому +1

      We share similar mindset. People with our like minds might not be many but at least we exist. Naija we die here😅.

  • @tyroneamirthornton9109
    @tyroneamirthornton9109 5 місяців тому +8

    Hello Bayo watching you from America Phoenix Arizona always enjoy your videos enjoy you speaking your truth as well. When I come to Africa to visit on the continent different countries I don't think about the police officers or a lot of crime so you're so right about that. Thank you for sharing.

  • @nmanwanyi1
    @nmanwanyi1 5 місяців тому +20

    You're always conscious of something mentally when you're in the midst of people in the western world. It's very intense and mentally exhausting 😪

  • @nancyoduah5063
    @nancyoduah5063 6 місяців тому +12

    I like the fact that you emphasized that it's "your experience " because the people who cannot relate or have not lived in both countries will start to judge and condemn this video. I am happy you are genuine and nice enough to explain this topic in a way people will understand. I agree with you 100%.
    The billing system, taxes, not having enough time to distress before it's another week, genetically modified food, etc, are part of the reasons i prefer Nigeria to USA. Thanks for this video and all you do.

  • @youngafro681
    @youngafro681 6 місяців тому +14

    I can't wait to retire back to Nigeria. The stress in abroad is just too much

  • @olusholaawoyemi1867
    @olusholaawoyemi1867 5 місяців тому +9

    I definitely feel safer in Naija too than the US for all the reasons u mentioned. Legit point!!!

  • @Hussein22
    @Hussein22 6 місяців тому +11

    Bayo everything you said is correct. Nigeria and indeed africa still offers the best opportunities for enterpreneurs.

  • @MoJo-ng5ot
    @MoJo-ng5ot 6 місяців тому +8

    I love this life for you and your wife; but especially for your daughter ❤

  • @mtdspfgh
    @mtdspfgh 5 місяців тому +20

    They will never understand so I do not bother explaining to people why I ran away from the United States to Abuja

    • @afrikanheritage99
      @afrikanheritage99 5 місяців тому +3

      I am on my way running as fast as I can to Abuja. Hopefully, God will get me finally out the HELLISH America in 2 years.

    • @leticiachikelu.2109
      @leticiachikelu.2109 4 місяці тому

      I think those people need to have the real experience of living in America or Europe to understand the reality

    • @JHKanus
      @JHKanus Місяць тому +1

      ​@@afrikanheritage99 Abuja is the deal

    • @Smartbuys1
      @Smartbuys1 Місяць тому

      Those who are green card holder/citizen, how do you deal with the double taxation being a dual citizen??

    • @lollybabe08
      @lollybabe08 14 днів тому

      I am probably next Europe to Nigeria max 7-8yrs. Love Abuja!

  • @vitalchekwube4443
    @vitalchekwube4443 5 місяців тому +7

    I like your African energy.
    I like in Abuja, Nigeria.
    I will like to work with you!

  • @suleimanuusaini3
    @suleimanuusaini3 6 місяців тому +10

    I can say that what you have discussed here is very similar to the UK. In fact VAT in the UK is 20%, therefore, everything you buy in the shop or supermarket has a VAT of 20%. How can I like your video over 1000 times. Especially, having access to a variety of food, technical artisans and the socialisation. Also the opportunities to make a positive impact in the community.

  • @seth3525
    @seth3525 6 місяців тому +4

    I listen to all you said and your said great stuff let me just summarize it for you. RICH COUNTRY IS EXPENSIVE POORER COUNTRIES ARE CHEAPER. Now for food I am African and don't eat those food you mention ,we cook only Liberia food. True Africa have the fresh food but maybe you choose to eat junk food. Health care it's expensive due to the quality bro and specialization. Security ok you got the gate man and all ,how many people in Lagos can afford that? With all the kidnapping and armed robbery? Healthcare you said you can pay out of pocket. That's you becouse of your US connections how many peoplw can afford that there? Do you know how many new mothers are kept at the hospital becouse they can't pay the bil. In America you will be treated and later sent the huge bill ,unlike Nigeria you will be treated first before money. I love being in Africa the weather is great food fresh and cheap for you and others from the diaspora but how about the rest of the people. I surmise from your videos you were born in the states. But if you grew up like some of us in Africa and spend most of your adult life there before coming to the West, most of what you saying will not be the same. However, one thing is certain the US dollars goes a long way in Nigeria so you can live like a king because of that. Wish you all the best. Law and order is a mess in Nigeria , a man who has more connections and money can assault you and tell the police to arrest you with no due process. I dnt think that's a safe place that won't happened here.

    • @jidejp1997
      @jidejp1997 5 місяців тому

      God bless you. Most people on hear are praising him because they just hate America. America opens a lot of opportunities.

    • @seunvictoria2580
      @seunvictoria2580 14 днів тому

      Brilliant points. Thanks for giving the summary. Nigeria feels good when you're thinking about yourself alone. But if you think collectively, about others as well, you'll realize that a lot of people aint finding it funny like everything he has listed. When people start to think outside of their own personal interest and comfort and begin to bear the burden of others, they'll understand that living in Nigeria, especially in these difficult times, isn't as rosy as described in this video. But again, I understand he's speaking from a place of personal privilege.

  • @scatmanz2496
    @scatmanz2496 6 місяців тому +22

    And the thing about this is.. most Nigerians back home don't really appreciate how good they have it as compared to other African countries.

    • @AndrewKwabula
      @AndrewKwabula 5 місяців тому +2

      Really? Most Nigerians I meet do not even want to go back home. My roommate at Uni did not even want to visit home, he stayed back every holiday saying it was not safe at home.
      The goodness about Nigeria compared to other countries seems to mostly live on UA-cam and in overly patriotic Nigerians. Because in reality we do not have Boko Haram, the daily kidnappings,. the runaway inflation and forex problems that even chased some multi-nationals like Shoprite. May be compared to the US that is suffering from severe gun-violence not African countries.

  • @omajonathan9928
    @omajonathan9928 6 місяців тому +20

    Bro. You are spot on. Please tell them. Africans dont have an idea how blessee they are. Its so sad they still accept to be mental slaves and in many ways physical slaves in places that in nature is no where close to this blessee mother land.
    Hiwever personally i cant stand the chaos in Lagos... But yeah. In Nigeria you have peace of mind.
    We are waiting for the japa brothers and sister to taste the Jand or Yankee they crave. Those with any honor and self respect with agree with all you have talked about... Praying many more of us will get to realise this and build out nation. God bless Africa and Nigeria in particular bro.

    • @Chuwalker
      @Chuwalker 6 місяців тому +3

      But Lagos is not Nigeria. There is Ibadan, Enugu, Port Harcourt, Abeokuta, Calabar, Abuja etc which are not stressful or as chaotic as Lagos. Nice take though

    • @anonymou412
      @anonymou412 6 місяців тому

      Lagos like all mega cities, NYC, Sao Paulo, Tokyo, Seoul are hectic. But other parts of their countries are more tranquil.

  • @imochima5978
    @imochima5978 6 місяців тому +16

    If I make 10 percent of the money I make in USA in Nigeria I would prefer to live in Nigeria permanently. In America I feel like I'm a slave to the system.

  • @ethicalproperties
    @ethicalproperties 6 місяців тому +45

    I myself this is my 35th year in UK. I'm 54+ and I am tired. I can't wait to come back to Mother Africa. I'm currently studying MBA Agribusiness and I'm finishing this May. I look forward to coming back and bring my expertise. See you guys soon

    • @officialasim6772
      @officialasim6772 6 місяців тому +3

      i think many people will continue to do this in the future. Including me although I am only 20 and was born in America but Nigerian, I would like to relocate to Nigera in my later years 70+

    • @davidosimiri7344
      @davidosimiri7344 6 місяців тому +1

      please let me know if you need someone to work with here in Nigeria , I am available

    • @bobbyadams4257
      @bobbyadams4257 5 місяців тому +1

      You are the real deal, am based in Japan ,few years ago l discovered l don’t belong here specifically when l see how some of our people still need to work like donkey in their late 50s and 60s.

    • @toksjones7214
      @toksjones7214 5 місяців тому +1

      Stop wasting your money doing MBA at 54 plus!

    • @toksjones7214
      @toksjones7214 5 місяців тому

      @officialasim6772 That makes sense! Build up your investments! Pension and all then live for free when you get older!

  • @roselineisrael1424
    @roselineisrael1424 6 місяців тому +15

    Boyo my son! blessed is the womb that brought you to this part of the world Nigeria I love you for who you are you the best God bless you and keep you safe ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @berthekabwe871
    @berthekabwe871 6 місяців тому +17

    Hi Bayo, I discovered your first video during the pandemic and I have watched your videos on/off since. Even though I'm not Nigerian, I can relate to everything you mentioned in this video. I live in Canada and I came to this country as a teenager, with my parents but never feel like I belong here. Whenever, I go back home to visit, I never want to come back to Canada. I like the work that you are doing and you are an inspiration.

  • @susanandfamilycookingtv
    @susanandfamilycookingtv 5 місяців тому +9

    Amazing video 👍🏾 nothing like our country of origin 🤎Am proud to be a Nigerian 🇳🇬 even if some people talk negative of Nigeria🇳🇬Nigeria 🇳🇬 is one of the best country everyone will love to stay🤎thanks for sharing 👍🏾

  • @jonathano5635
    @jonathano5635 5 місяців тому +29

    After almost 38yrs in America and after accomplishing everything in America and Canada 🇨🇦, I find peace and solace in Naija.

    • @idvproperties
      @idvproperties 5 місяців тому +3

      Kai, home sweet home

    • @jonathano5635
      @jonathano5635 3 місяці тому +1

      @@idvproperties You have no idea how sweet it is for me when I am in Lagos.

  • @ekeneobodoeze5175
    @ekeneobodoeze5175 5 місяців тому +7

    I've never visited the US, but I would always prefer to live in Nigeria to any other place..

  • @omojanokokor
    @omojanokokor 4 місяці тому +2

    Waoh! Bro, Just what l have been looking for for so, so long. You nailed it. More of this man.

  • @boseajiboye2558
    @boseajiboye2558 6 місяців тому +13

    This is very inspiring and l think it's gonna encourage our Africa children to know that,no place like home, no matter what.

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you. they should at least know they have another option if they ever want something different.

  • @itscyberqueen13
    @itscyberqueen13 6 місяців тому +20

    I am A.A. and I visited Africa (Ghana specifically) for the first time. He is telling you the truth. You really will not understand what it feels like to NOT BE THE OTHER until you go to your ancestors home, until you go visit Africa. Most ppl spoke English so I feel it was easier for me. I now own land and plan to visit more often and take family to visit too.

    • @LuvvMyBrownSkin
      @LuvvMyBrownSkin 5 місяців тому

      Ghana is slowly but surely turning into Atlanta/Freaknik, especially at Christmas time. Also, their president seems to be turning into a puppet of the US, especially after Kamala visited and politely gave him an ultimatum if he didn't agree to go along with their alphabet agenda. I'm VERY concerned for Ghana and the preservation of their culture and values.

  • @danieljibunor2910
    @danieljibunor2910 6 місяців тому +7

    Great talk & experience bro. Just like you said, every right thinking person that have stayed abroad, will prefer Nigeria to western world. No place like home bro. Great job!!!

  • @NaTashaMKilgore
    @NaTashaMKilgore 5 місяців тому +2

    You're right, we definitely have a gun issue here, safety is an issue because you just never know when and where someone will decide to do mass shooting. That is part of the reason I do not big crowd. So a lot of the things you are talking about, I can relate to. I was born and raised here and if I can ever convince my husband to move from here I will.

  • @pamsam2284
    @pamsam2284 6 місяців тому +72

    I have sent your video to my son and my nephew who are half Nigerian. My DNA says I am 37% Nigerian. I will move to Nigeria. I want house help and a driver that Nigeria I can have. In Texas there's no tax on food. I probably will live in Akwa Ibom state. I have support groups in Lagos and Akwa Ibom. I want the organic foods without toxic additives. I LOVE THE WEATHER TOO!! Many relatives will come visit when I move to Nigeria oh.

    • @Moabayi-yf6ul
      @Moabayi-yf6ul 6 місяців тому +13

      Just prayerfully connect with the right people and you will be okay. We still have honest and God-fearing people in Nigeria that can help you without ripping you off.

    • @gavedet
      @gavedet 6 місяців тому +7

      I'm from akwa Ibom. I feel proud you mentioned Akwa Ibom..
      You'll love your stay in Akwa Ibom trust me...
      Currently I live in Port Harcourt with my family.
      I'll be glad to connect if you make up your mind to come around.

    • @MartinPublic
      @MartinPublic 6 місяців тому +2

      Please explore other African countries before going to Nigeria. Nigeria is not a safe place to reside. That is all I have to say.

    • @efosaagbonlahor4187
      @efosaagbonlahor4187 6 місяців тому +5

      Akwa Ibom is save and beautiful

    • @gardensteps
      @gardensteps 6 місяців тому +9

      ​@@MartinPublic
      My friend and her family moved back to Nigeria after 30+ years in the US. Going on 10 years now, and she wouldn't change a thing. Of course it helps that she has an American passport so she can't get out any time she wants.
      Whenever she comes to the US, she can't wait to get back to Nigeria.

  • @insight360_
    @insight360_ 6 місяців тому +25

    God bless you bro. To me, western world is nothing but a modern day slavery. I live in MD USA and I’m so tired of restlessness just to pay bills. I honestly wish I never left Nigeria.

  • @abdulidi733
    @abdulidi733 6 місяців тому +11

    Kai from my “aye-mi” experience currently living in the United States, Na true talk woo. All the things you mentioned are correct. Thank you for sharing and e-go ginger many of us who are planning diligently to JAPADA. Can’t wait!

  • @nycwlr
    @nycwlr 5 місяців тому +10

    Nigeria is a hope and dream of many people who have never been there. Maybe we can see for ourselves the sights sounds and taste of this part of our world.

  • @badykay
    @badykay 6 місяців тому +9

    Mr. Bayo for president! If it can happen in Senegal, it can happen in Nigeria one day. Good content as usual 👏

  • @francodejj
    @francodejj 5 місяців тому +9

    You’re living ur life with purpose in 9ja….that’s what matters. Keep rocking on

  • @faithondemand
    @faithondemand 5 місяців тому +8

    Thank you Mr Bayo for this video. Such an eye opener. May your light shine even brighter ❤

  • @Isiejeme0829
    @Isiejeme0829 6 місяців тому +9

    This is a well packaged video on the reasons one should still consider Nigeria as a place to relocate/retire to when need be. Living in the west (Europe/USA) isn't for the faint of hearts. Consequently, one must be mentally, psychologically, spiritually prepared, that's why some of our people are "trampled" by the extreme pressures associated with this part of the world. Africa, on the other hand, though less developed, will give you the calm, sense of belonging, reassurance, good weather, good food, cultural affirnity e.t.c you won't get elsewhere as an African. Who nor go nor know. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Superhomeph
    @Superhomeph 5 місяців тому +10

    Nigeria is a beautiful place to stay and so many don't realize that
    As a Realtor for over 5 years, there so so many beautiful structures.
    Its not what they told you it is

  • @onenationunderblack
    @onenationunderblack 5 місяців тому +24

    You are exactly correct. I'm a African American but i left America for Africa. I'm not going back. I'm retiring here and will live my life here. I love Africa. Here in Gambia it has its up and downs. But i have no REnt or mortgage or taxes. LOVE IT 🎉❤

    • @afrikanheritage99
      @afrikanheritage99 5 місяців тому +6

      Welcome back sibling ❤❤ May the lands of our ancestors bless and prosper you.

    • @yeyeakilimalifunuaolade824
      @yeyeakilimalifunuaolade824 3 місяці тому +2

      BACK TO AFRICA 🌍 IS WHERE IT'S AT!!

    • @MrgoogleSearcher-d5v
      @MrgoogleSearcher-d5v 3 місяці тому +1

      Wow how do you not pay rent?

    • @EdnahChirchir
      @EdnahChirchir Місяць тому

      Great 👍🏾

    • @EdnahChirchir
      @EdnahChirchir Місяць тому +1

      ​@Mrgoogle0Searcher-d5v if you build your house and you have land no rent or land tax. Better still if you have good real estate you don't need to work

  • @AdityaKaw
    @AdityaKaw 6 місяців тому +15

    Uhhh i am indian living in uae i think nigeria is a beautiful place and tropical good for summer

    • @lkyhood4200
      @lkyhood4200 6 місяців тому +1

      That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.

  • @Zeezazoi
    @Zeezazoi 2 місяці тому +3

    As a South African, it truly breaks my heart how Africa is generally underrated but if anything, Africa will not rebuild itself if we keep running away from it to be modernized slaves elsewhere. May the Universe reshuffle me to Nigeria because that's my African dream..... I Love My Africa and Our People...❤

  • @freeman2690
    @freeman2690 6 місяців тому +7

    The good thing about America is the economic strength. It gives you to go to countries like Nigeria America is a good place to make money bar none. I spend over 1600 a month in rent Imagine if I was in Africa with 1600 When you look at all my bills, I spent close to $6000 a month 😢 Imagine the life I can live in Africa with $6000 a month so you have to stay connected to America to keep that income going, but by all means live in Africa where you can enjoy that money

  • @emeka6084
    @emeka6084 6 місяців тому +8

    Baba your move is the best , people wil not understand. I’m giving all my best to live here before it accumulates. No issues yet but I want to raise my kids over there because Nigeria helps with cultural upbringing despite their own craziness

  • @estherelufowoju3166
    @estherelufowoju3166 6 місяців тому +13

    I agree with you even as a born British I had to move back to live in Nigeria with my son for 10 years but sadly I had to move back to support hime through the rest of his education as I am his only parent. However, we both are looking to come back and I'm back for good by God's grace no turning back. I relate with all your points, very valid.

  • @janetolabode
    @janetolabode 5 місяців тому +14

    You have said it all. I am a US citizen for over 20 yrs. I studied in Nigeria and US. I can relate so much with everything you are saying. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I have had many experiences with racism even in a regular grocery store.I always say that, we Africans in the US are treated as fifth class citizen. It is sad but true. My husband and I are working toward retiring in Nigeria. God help us.

  • @muyiwa2011
    @muyiwa2011 5 місяців тому +6

    I live in the UK and all the points resonate with me. I am a true blooded Nigerian and I can't trade it with dollar's or pounds sterling. Good job you have done to dissect both sides of the aisle. Cheers

  • @Panafrica2023
    @Panafrica2023 6 місяців тому +8

    Excellent and the raw bitter truth about living in the diaspora. Your last point is so true. I was telling my younger cousin who just relocated to Canada that no matter how long she stays in the West it will truly never feel like home..

  • @gloriamarioghae7650
    @gloriamarioghae7650 5 місяців тому +5

    Everything you've mentioned I can attest to 100%, having lived in the UK for many years. I just can't wait to go back home. At least, it's for my blood pressure.

  • @elisobais
    @elisobais 6 місяців тому +40

    I’m Ghanaian and have lived in the U.S for nearly 2 decades. This video needs to go viral. Unfortunately, the average African youth won’t listen when you tell them the positives about Africa. When you HONESTLY tell them how GREAT Africa is, regardless of the challenges, they’ll ask you “why don’t you come back to Africa then”.
    MANY African immigrants abroad are trapped. When they share their experiences to encourage the African youth to stay home, they assume you’re just being selfish because you already made it out of Africa.
    My dad and grandma never traveled but they each worked hard in Ghana and built mansions through entrepreneurship.
    It’s so sad that the African youth doesn’t listen to those who have lived abroad for so long with experiences and understanding of living abroad. No one is being selfish living abroad and doesn’t want you to come. The MAJORITY are telling you the truth about living abroad.

    • @gerardonochie3408
      @gerardonochie3408 6 місяців тому +8

      Let them keep fooling themselves. My attitude to those who think that way is go and find out and each to their own. Africa has potential just because there are negative things there are also positive things. No where is perfect. I used to say my body was in Europe but my spirit never left Africa.

    • @elisobais
      @elisobais 6 місяців тому +9

      @@gerardonochie3408 Growing up, my dad used to say “he’ll never travel but will succeed in Ghana”. And YES! He did. All his friends who traveled abroad can’t compete with his success. His house is bigger than all his friends who traveled in the 80s and 90’s.
      My dad is 64 yrs old but looks 55. His friends all look like they’re almost 80 yrs old and some came back home and died. I understood my dad better after my first 10 yrs in the U.S.

    • @afamefunaibeabuchi873
      @afamefunaibeabuchi873 6 місяців тому +9

      Why would you ask someone not to travel? It's not good. Encourage people to travel so they can experience things for themselves. If you didn't travel, there's no way you'll be able to think the way you do now, to make comparisons and draw your own conclusions. If Africans don't travel, they'll think there's something out there they're missing and won't appreciate what they have. Encourage people to travel.

    • @elisobais
      @elisobais 6 місяців тому

      @@afamefunaibeabuchi873 I don’t ask people anything. However, I share my experiences with family members and close friends back in Ghana. I have 3 friends who listened to me and after a few years are doing EXTREMELY well for themselves in Ghana.
      If someone ask me what life is abroad, I’m transparent and it’s up to them to make their own decisions.

    • @toksjones7214
      @toksjones7214 6 місяців тому +2

      I don't know what you are talking about? There are so many opportunities in the US despite the racism! You can easily raise capital! Its so easy!

  • @mikirose2598
    @mikirose2598 6 місяців тому +10

    You've said it! If I were from Nigeria, I would be preparing to board the next plane! I hear you - lucky you!

    • @ericg7781
      @ericg7781 2 місяці тому

      Don’t take it too seriously. He already has something’s in place. A lot of Nigerians are coming from zero.

  • @onthegofm1887
    @onthegofm1887 6 місяців тому +9

    Lagos is sinking under the weight of too many people. It can't take everyone. Lagos is full!
    There are many other big cities, and less stress-inducing in Nigeria, e.g., Abuja, Port-harcourt, Kaduna, Warri, Benin city, Calabar, Onitcha, Ibadan, Abeokuta, Kano, Jos, Ilorin, etc.
    One is spoilt for choice and yet all we hear is Lagos! Lagos! Lagos!
    We live in a digital world today and that means that your employer could be located in Lagos, but you can work from (say) Abeokuta, and not adding to the congestion in Lagos.

  • @vicizu
    @vicizu 6 місяців тому +9

    Spot on brother! People in Nigeria will never get what you are saying.

  • @chemtrex0072
    @chemtrex0072 4 місяці тому +3

    Bayo, I have always enjoyed your vlog. I just left Nigeria after a 3 weeks (very short) visit & while there, I found a lot of opportunities that I would like to explore . I'm based in Texas and a father of 3, and just like you, I am trying to get my kids to learn more about our ancestral land/ culture. We do our best as parents, but I believe my kiddos deserve better in life. I dont want them getting confused with this system & would like to get them to see other things/options in life. How do I link up with you to discuss business opportunities and other things? We are thinking of first renting a place in Lagos while we make frequent trips to Nigeria. I"ll greatly appreciate the opportunity to chat with you offline.
    Cheers,

  • @mostblack865
    @mostblack865 6 місяців тому +33

    I remember seeing the memorial video that you did for your father, showing all of the wonderful righteous deeds and the apparent love he had for Nigeria. And for you to be carrying this same love, and righteousness in your on way tells me you are continuing his legacy for the development and upliftment of the Nigerian people.
    May this spirit and commitment spread in the hearts of Nigerians and its descendants worldwide.
    Well done 👏

    • @berthekabwe871
      @berthekabwe871 6 місяців тому +7

      Well said👌🏽. I watched that video of his father and I was completely touched. Not only does Bayo resemble his father physically but I understood why he followed his footsteps. Indeed, he is his father's son 🙏🏿.

  • @christset
    @christset 6 місяців тому +34

    The only way to thrive in the US or UK is through group economics, as seen in communities like the Indians, Chinese, and Jewish. Unfortunately, we often lack trust in each other and tend to oppress one another, resulting in global suffering. In contrast, Indian and Chinese communities emphasize group economics, which contributes to their success.

    • @Moabayi-yf6ul
      @Moabayi-yf6ul 6 місяців тому

      Is that going to make Africa better? Why can’t we have the group economic back home? Look at the African Americans, despite over 400 years of history in the US, they are still plagued with so many socioeconomic problems. What makes you think you or the children you leave behind in that society will be treated differently?

    • @johnsonolajide4647
      @johnsonolajide4647 6 місяців тому +10

      Good comments, we Africans we're not United at all, due to lack of trust among ourselves.
      As you have mentioned here.
      Even in Africa you'll see the Chinese and Indians being united to work together.
      But we black people cannot do that.
      African people will continue to miss out, unless if we change our thinking mentality

    • @christset
      @christset 6 місяців тому

      ​@@johnsonolajide4647And this issue is even global among if not majority of black people. I don't know why. Even some black governments in government offices are just interested in embezzling money; they couldn't care less about the citizens in black countries.

    • @nafisatsanni1717
      @nafisatsanni1717 6 місяців тому +1

      You are so on point ! This is true

    • @CandiMac
      @CandiMac 6 місяців тому +7

      Nigerians have excellent group economics. In every country I have been in, they stick together and help each other out.

  • @cmichael2967
    @cmichael2967 6 місяців тому +8

    I am in Nigeria 3x every year for 1 month each time. I cannot wish to live somewhere else. I have been in US for years and the life seems like a revolving door after a while just waiting to retire. Nigeria to me is a new lease on life especially when you have access to earn in dollars. But I can understand the challenges for those living, working and earning in local currency. To enjoy Nigeria, first of all is to have a way to earn in dollars/pounds/euro and you will live heaven on earth.

  • @isaac9ice
    @isaac9ice 6 місяців тому +18

    The best episode by a mile, Bayo. Kudos!

  • @gloryokon43
    @gloryokon43 6 місяців тому +67

    MY BRO, YOU NO DEY LIE EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS THE GOSPEL TRUTH!!!

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  6 місяців тому +4

      Thank you oooh

    • @lkyhood4200
      @lkyhood4200 6 місяців тому

      That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.

  • @princemoses798
    @princemoses798 6 місяців тому +22

    I really enjoyed this video. Its nice to hear it from the perspective of someone that has lived both worlds. I live in Canada and the cost of living here is ridiculous. It feels like a cycle of just working just to give the money right back. I have thought of the idea of wanting to relocate to Nigeria at some point in my life especially when I have watched your videos; they inspire me. The scary part for me is how to start that process and knowing who you can trust in Nigeria. Thank you for the great videos bro Bayo 🙏🏾

    • @yetundeAdesoji8265
      @yetundeAdesoji8265 6 місяців тому +3

      I relate to this. Why don't you connect with Bayo this video convener if he can help you?

    • @smithcorner2002
      @smithcorner2002 6 місяців тому +2

      Well you really do not need anybody in Lagos Nigeria precisely , you can do ur background check yourself , move around , go to places where people have discussions to know their peculiar problem... Before you know, where to start from is at your finger tips

  • @adamshamzat1290
    @adamshamzat1290 5 місяців тому +6

    1. Weather
    2. Security
    3. Food
    4. Bills
    5. Tax
    6. Life style
    7. Cost of living
    8. Opportunities
    9. Easier Access to skilled technician
    10. Purpose
    11. Value and cultural preservation
    12. Feeling of belonging
    13.

  • @Jf-vn2iu
    @Jf-vn2iu 6 місяців тому +20

    Excellent points! I have lived in the US for more than 43 years. I agreed with all your 12 reasons for preferring to live in Nigeria over America. Good job.

  • @hmsbarman
    @hmsbarman 5 місяців тому +9

    I am Kenyan and I acknowledge your experience

    • @thenigeriannomad
      @thenigeriannomad  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for chiming in. Kenya on da house :)