I love this perspective. I travelled to america as an african and from what i experienced, i would want to live there. I realised that i prefer living in africa. I learnt to appreciate what we have in Africa and not to glorify america as its being potrayed on media. The grass is greener where you water it. I only travel as a tourist but when it comes to settling and retirement, i feel safe and loved by my african community. I realised that i dont need to date or be married to an american since all men are the same, the only difference is mindset and access to opportunities. Its a paradox.
@AntonsClass I had the misled mindset that coming to America will 'save me' only to land at JFK and experienced racism from black folks for the first time in my life. I found that people are so mean and selfish. It's all about chasing the bag. People don't have communities like here in Kenya where I live. It was shocking to me. I also met African America who pretended to be black Americans, faking their African accent, which was very fake and distasteful for me. I could watch my loved ones work back to back and come back home very tired and I felt petty for them because Africans who don't travel will never understand the hustle in America and how it's hard because of bills to pay. Also, I am not used to the credit system. I am used to buying all my stuff with cash. I hate debt, and because of that, I had to re-think the quality of life I wanted, and I realised I prefer African systems. It's free. I don't feel like a slave when in Africa. I am also not used to living in a country where people have guns casually. I find Africa safer than America, you will never hear of school shootings or neighborhood shootings here. It was so strange to me. I actually have time for my passion, family, and friends, which is rare to find in America or Europe. I also found it shocking that homes in America don't have fences, unlike in Africa. I found them very insecure. In Africa, we have our own shortcomings and less cash flow because we are a young continent that is growing exponentially. I wouldn't trade my freedom and simple life in Africa for any other continent. I've learned to accept and embrace the differences.
@@wendyomanga you're absolutely right! I appreciate your fresh perspective as a Kenyan who traveled to the US. The lack of community, the slaving away and hustle culture, and the ridiculous amount of firearms in this country are all real issues. Thank you for sharing! I just subscribed to your channel 💯
Too many African Americans (and Americans) in general complain a lot about what they have and fantasize about the grass being greener. I was one of those years ago and lived abroad. Long story short, I learned that the U.S is not perfect but it's the best place for me and I think everyone who chronically complains that they hate it here, should absolutely leave then re-evaluate. If they are happier elsewhere than that's a blessing too.
@@iamthatiam9936the very same question I was going to ask because "some" can never know what we go through even here in the U.S. (and yes, I am African American)
Walk in their shoes you will Change your tune it ain't never been easy Putting their foot on your neck think about it, experience it forself. Then you got something to say learn some things
@@calvinsparrow9829 Absolutely! No one knows the psychological landscape inside our heads (African Americans) that we live with our entire lives. We're a people forged together out of centuries of betrayal, domination, oppression, horror, & terror. I listen to other people's experiences (Africans and non-Africans) in Africa but only African Americans' experience really hits home for me.
I love being American. I don't call myself African-American because I'm not African. I love being American and living in America. I travel quite often but I LOVE LIVING in America. I go to other countries for a good time not a long time. People who constantly complain I want them to leave and live elsewhere and come back with their real experience because baby I know ain't nothing like America. People die trying to get here for a reason. You can't escape discrimination as a brown American. They either hate you for being American or Brown most times both. You are safer at home.
I wonder why so many people feel the need to pick up and move completely? Most diasporans of all sorts work in the West and build back home over time. Black Americans can do the same. Live here and build a honeycomb hideout in the motherland to visit and take a break from the Belly of the Beast until you're fully ready for a permanent move (if ever). Much love to you bro, hoping to bust a move of Namibia one day, you've been a valuable resource.
There are no "Black Americans".. All socalled blacks ain't from Africa🤷🏾♂️🤦🏽♂️ America is Turtle Island the Original People are what people are taught is Black, Afro-american🤷😂 or whatever.. People need to do the research and stop being ignorant.. It is American..that is all.. The Original📕🧐😎👍
I had two marriages to African men, but neither of them turned out. Too many expectations, preconceived ideas and disparities in culture existed. My most recent marriage to my husband here from the United States proved the most enduring and long-lasting. Everyone has someone for them, but I think the strongest connection that unites us firmly is our shared history among others.
100% agree, even though differences might be minute it may end up being irritating after a while because we as humans do not like to hide our emotions. One of the most irritating things is being treated like a guillable person who has no problem with being used as an atm, or being put in situations which are not your cup of tea, but over there it is the go to lifestyle to have
As a Pan Afrikan Nationalist I have learned that their are two types of Afrikans one is the continental Afrikan and two is the Diasporian Afrikan. Both are Afrikans but with different shared experiences, due to different forms of enslavements and colonizations. My first marriage was to a continental Afrikan woman from Ghana. All was beautiful as long as we stayed in Afrika. Due to American brainwashing as usual, Afrikans on the continent and on islands like Jamaica where I am originally from due to slavery, are hell bent on thinking that going to America will change their lives for the better. So when you let them know that your chosen home is afrika most will show their true colors if they are not truly in love with you such was the case with my Ghanaian ex wife. My current marriage is with my best friend from my village in Jamaica and she is way more comfortable for obvious reasons and she Alis desire to go live in Afrika as well due to our shared long time apathy for all things American other than the educational and financial opportunity. As Peter Tosh sang no matter when you come from as long as you black you are an Afrikan. As long as we are maintaining Afrikan Traditional Family culture then all is good. No snow bunny hopping and definitely no gender dysphasia relationships of confusion and death.
You have no idea how hard this video hits for me!!!! WOW! I did not travel as far as you to discover that my pride as an American shifted while abroad. I would have never appreciated home had I not left! At 55, I did not go looking for love, but I was looking for a “Black” community! Well, needless to say, my community is at home in America! However, I will still travel of course, but not looking for greener grass, but simply to experience different cultures without make believing that I will ever be FULLY EXCEPTED as one of them just because of my long-term residency. Thank you for sharing your truth! It’s confirming! 👏🏾👏🏾🤜🏾🤛🏾
@@gileskisife6966 Thank you for the gentle correct word correction: ACCEPTED! I think it’s a combination of both. No one to blame here. We’re just culturally different.
@@SPINESHINEGODDESS What did you expect? Even in the US, someone from the south is culturally different from the north, I'd say! Even within Africa, people are culturally different. African Americans, I believe, should be the least to complain about these differences in Africa. The glass is either half empty or half full, they say!!
@@gileskisife6966 Ok You’re right! You are sooooo right! What on earth was I thinking. Thank you so much for setting me straight. I have learned my lesson! Next time, I’ll know better and do better!
Culturally differences, infrastructure not developed enough, power outages, lack of respect or awareness of time, quality of medical care, and realizing I already have a great life here in the USA are just a few reasons why I decided not to move to Africa (Ghana) after several stays and consideration.
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Something similar happened to me. I think I was searching for home, somewhat dissatisfied with the US. I’ve traveled to Asia, Europe and two countries in west Africa. Although I loved visiting Africa - I realized the US is home. I had to take a second look and I realized all that we African Americans do have here. My travels made me that more appreciative of what we have and more curious to learn and know more about my own people. We have a beautiful rich culture - we have history here, ties to the land. We do have family and community - as well as all of the conveniences that come with living here. You do at times need to move a certain way but if you know how, then you’re good. Also the US is a huge country that I’d love to explore more of. Does it have it’s not so good, absolutely - but if you focus on the good you can live well, or at least decently here. And for me, this is home. Also, it’s ok to change your mind - to move back home or to another country.
I have homes abroad but the US is my home base. When I get tired of the various challenges faced abroad I know I can come home and be "good". People glorify living abroad way too much. I am grateful for American citizenship and have lived many places but I like being home.
This is a very interesting topic for me personally. We all have such amazing and unique journeys. This is mine. I was born in Kenya and came to the US as a kid with my parents. My dad was studying here. I was in the US from the age of 5 to the age of 10. Very formative years! I absorbed American culture and also learned to speak English with a "middle American" accent. When I was 10 our family went back to Kenya. My parents never had intentions of settling in the US. It was clear to them from before leaving Kenya that we were coming for my dad's education and we would go back to Kenya. Back in Kenya, I re-met my extended family and re-learned my native language. But still spoke English with an American accent. Along with my American cultural background, my accent made me an oddity even among family members. I never really fit in and longed to come back "home" to the US. I spent the next 12 years in Kenya and eventually came back for college when I was 22 years old. By then I had absorbed a lot of my Kenyan culture again. When I came back to the US, it really did feel like a "homecoming". I didn't go back to Kenya, not even for a vacation, for 19 years! Eventually, though, I did go back. I had gotten my US citizenship by that time so I had dual citizenship. Since then I have been going back and forth between Kenya and the US. I am nearin retirement age and fully plan on going to live my last days in Kenya. After all these years in the US I have never quite "fit in" here either. I am at the same time American and foreign. I have never referred to myself as African American but don't feel that I will ever be completely Kenyan either. I am caught between. Partly as a result of this in-betweenness, I have never been able to settle with a spouse. Besides family members, I don't have any friends in Kenya either. My friends in the US tended to be international people and are flung far and wide all over the US and the world! They have their families and communities. Strangely I don't feel badly about my situation. I am looking forward to living in Kenya in retirement. The US is most definitely a country that is good for young people! I cannot fathom growing old here with no family close by. I greatly appreciate the US for who I am today, and I also love my home country of Kenya, even though socially, I feel far more an alien there than in the US! I don't know what the future has in store but I have always been an adventurous person who can live just about anywhere. BTW, my experience is typical for what is known as a "Third Culture Child". That is, children who spend significant parts of their lives living away from the culture of their birth. You become an international person who does not fully identify with any one culture. We have our unique challenges in the world, but we also have incredible strengths and such discerning perspectives on the world in general.
Thanks for sharing your story. Shows the difference between being stolen and brought over and enslaved verses traveling abroad to a further country, its like the flip side of the coin being able to grow up in the place you came from. You are like a remnant returning to the land. Interesting. You should do your DNA if you haven't, you will probably see all the nations that flow through your veins. I call myself Creole or Pueblo. 🙏🏾
For a person like you I guess you should marry a white partner, they don't seem to care much about culture. Also mingling with educated people could make it easier to find a less culturally attached partner.
Yeah if you are a successful traded you will be very good I live in Africa from America and alot of forex and crypto folks living just fine especially the ones who know what they doing
It's still a job that you have to work to get paid. If I had to make a move to the mother land, I'll have my money working in the US and I'll get paid off that. Plus I'll get me job if they hire Americans.
I just came across your channel and I like your honesty. I'm a Kenyan who immigrated to America, now in my 60s.Hard to believe how fast time has passed 😅Having taken care of children who are now all grown, My husband and I are seriously planning to retire in Kenya😊When we came to this country, more than 20 years ago, it never occurred to us that we would be permanently going back😅It's amazing how our perspective changes with time😅All the best in your future plans 👍
Me and my 2 children went to live in West African Senegal🇸🇳 June 2023. (Not knowing it’s the most expensive country on the continent, I thought it was Nigeria) I wanted to make it our new home but I quickly seen major differences and we were also addressed as foreign or just American. We stayed 10 months almost a year we left March 22 2024. It was nice and I like it but financially on top of having to learn 2 different languages Wolof & (the colonizers French) it was just too much being a single mother. I needed true genuine friends & love
Wow! Thank you for sharing your experience with us here. I never Knew Senegal was the most expensive country until like last week! Lol. Glad you were able to experience it and make the right decision for you and your family. 🙏🏾 Blessings
You could have earned good income in Senegal as an American-English language teacher for Senegalese people going to the USA for an extended period ( students, diplomatic personnel, exporters to the USA, etc
Thanks for sharing your story. Yet again, I am enlightened. I've gone down the ytube rabbit hole on this topic and was amazed to find out how many black Americans have decided to go back to the US after living in Africa. However, I completely understand why, given the many perils of such an endeavor. I once had a long-term desire of wanting to relocate to Africa because of my negative experiences from working in the US workforce, however, I have since changed my mind and too have decided that I can and will succeed in the US. Much peace and many blessings to you.
Bravo Bro! Many kudos and much respect for putting yourself out there. I've traveled abroad a great deal for over 30 years. And, I'm clicking my ruby slippers..."there's no place like home". I learned that change is all you can count on. Ready or not, here it comes! Your pivoting skills are awesome! Welcome back!!!
As a South African, I can only talk about SA. If you want to live a good life in SA, plan well before you move. Visit different cities first, such as Johannesburg, Capetown, Durban, Gqeberha, Pretoria etc. and see which one you like the most because hey, these cities are so different. South Africa is so diverse, even black South Africans have different cultures and languages. When I moved to Pretoria from the Eastern Cape being Xhosa, I couldn't understand a word in Tswana 🤣. I had to fully depend on English. If you have a job back home, don't just quit and move. You can apply for a digital nomad visa if you can work remotely and earn +/-$53000 p/a. Keep earning your dollars, pounds etc. The rand is much lower, so your dollar can do wonders for you. If you are an entrepreneur, again, do your research and plan well. South Africa has great business opportunities. Big cities in SA can be brutal if you run out of money, like almost anywhere in the world.
He would've fitted right in in E.C this one😂😂😂😂 he can even click😂😂 i even was like dayumnnn i missed an opportunity there 😂😂😂pitty he was simping though😂😂. Them lot did him dirty😊. When we have independent worldly travelled south african women like me.😂😂he even looks like umxhosa yellow bone😂😂😂 bless him
@Onlyfacts0224 and why would he mention Nigeria when dating? You must be Naija because you sound offended!! 6:50 seconds in the VIDEO. Please learn to listen and pay attention because you sound like you have no comprehension!!
I was just wondering how you were doing. Glad to see you doing well. I was on the move to the motherland train for many years. I took my son on a graduation trip to Morocco last year. Although I really enjoyed the trip, I came to a realization that I want to explore Africa but may not want to live there full time. I also came to realize, like you, that you can really make your life what you want here in the states or most places really. Good luck in your Master's program. I know you will do great.
Hello Mark. You are absolutely right but I would say it is the same for us African born in Africa who have lived in the West for decade. The best thing to do is to find an African woman in the West who is willing to go back to Africa with you
This topic has given me an idea for my podcast video on my podcast channel, though I have touched on it before. Bro, your happiness comes first and I support that 100%. Africa will always be here, will always have its arms wide open for you. I wish you everything of the best, going forward.
Growing up in NYC exposed me to other cultures. In addition to American friends, I had Korean, Haitian, Yugoslavian, Czechoslovakian, Chinese, and Indian friends growing up. Also, being in the military gave me hands-on experience of living in and visiting other countries. I can appreciate different cultures, but there's nothing like home. Unfortunately, I haven't had the time to visit South Africa or Namibia. Those two countries are definitely on my list of places to live someday, along with Mexico, Costa Rica, and the Azores. I pray love finds you and God blesses you with your desires according to His will and timing. In the meantime, don't settle!
I love your perspective on the subjects you covered.. no negativity.. you are open minded and I personally think if you meet someone here and then move together. It makes your journey so much because you will have a person you can confide in and support and understand things from a diasporan experience
You're my living life Sir.. Even the starting over is happening to more Good Souls (like you) than you think. Appreciate your transparency.. you got this and you know it. SO CRUSH IT! 54yr old Gentleman here, Peaceful Journey and Bless you!
I did travel to Africa, because, I met an Ethiopian while I was teaching in another country and a colleague introduced us while he was in Ethiopia. I eventually moved to Kenya and we met there. He was unable to travel to other African countries. That was a disaster. I literally had to support him and myself. We are no longer together and I would never support someone again like that.
Sorry to say but you got played. No one is unable to travel to other countries, it was all a ruse to milk you of your hard earned money. You were living with a con.
@@KoolE23 To be denied a Visa visting another African neigbor is hard unless they could not prove why they were visiting and if would come back. Let her keep trying coz I know many just drive there nowadays and its easy.
Thanks for your videos. I am from Tucson, Arizona. I have lived here all of my life. I married a woman from Ethiopia, married there in 2018. I've been there 4 times , the most recent was this past July 2024. I brought my wife here to Tucson in 2020. Now we have 2 little kids. Going to Ethiopia has helped me put my life in perspective, and it has helped me appreciate my life here in the US.
You have a new subscriber! Thank you for the transparency!!! I myself am someone that wants to live abroad but I will be going to Haiti where my family is from.
@@osimeon00 I hear so many conflicting stories about that.. may I ask why not? Because I’m aware of all the conflict going on in Haiti, but I do know that it’s not the country in its entirety. It’s only a few particular areas to avoid..
@@kerlinne you should avoid completely right now. Gangs have taken out civilians and police officers. There is no protection if something happens to you. Haitians diasporans are targets. See the news story about the Haitian American couple that was kidnapped. They were lucky to get back. If there was ever a time, this ain't it.
Hi anton I appreciated your video. People always think the grass is greener on the other side which is most definitely not the case. My parents left Jamaica in the 50s looking for a better life in England. Life was extremely challenging for them. They never earned enough money to be able to go back to Jamaica. My mother is now 97 and constantly talks about her childhood in Jamaica. You can make a good life for yourself where you are in America.
So if I take your analogy about your parents.. you can struggle both abroad or where you were born 🤔 .. my parents left looking for a better life, would have loved to return home but never got enough money in America to do so.. and you can't send them home either. Interesting.
This was a great video. You are right, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. You are exactly where you need to be in life. Your experience will make you a stronger and more open minded person. You will find your way here in America and you will find the love of you life and have children. Your experience has given you perspective and that is something you can never put a price on. I wish you well and you will do well. Good luck to you.
I have enjoyed your video We have so much in common; and I experienced the hardship of being abroad in Africa I traveled to Gambia(West Africa), and as you have discussed being abroad can bring hardship if you are not having any capital! Gambia is a tourist area, and I stayed there for three months.It was very expensive to stay there, and I returned back to Alabama. I am a Teacher as well, single and no children. I also dated abroad, and you are correct , it is very challenging and hard dating from abroad. But the trip was worth it because I always wanted the experience of being in the continent of Africa and it was a great experience for me.
Thank you Anton; good to see a video from you! I have followed you since your Rwanda days, and always respected the eloquent storytelling of your journeys and your transparency; not everyone stands in their truth. And you're so right; America is huge; I've lived West, Midwest (Chicagoan), and now near-south, and there are different cultures, within our black and brown people, right here in the U.S. SO much to see here. I plan on visiting South Africa when budget permits, but in the meantime, I'm learning about, and enjoying me, right where I am. 🙂
Idk why your video came into my feed but i was enlightened to hear about your experience. What i got from this is, sometimes the very happiness we're looking for is right in front of us, or in your case, right here at home. 😊
Africa is a BIG PLACE and I think it would take some time to figure out what cultural/ethnic area would really fit my personality and mindset, So we black Americans know something about Ghana, South Africa, Nigeria, Kenya. The bigger English language countries, But maybe a different area of the continent we're not familiar with is really a good fit. We are the first generation of black people to freely move around WORLD in centuries as free men and not property. So we're just beginning to reach out to each other across the oceans. Different places may or may not be the match but we're going to work it out. Reestablish connections. I congratulate him for going to Ghana to see for himself unfiltered.
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. I’m back in the US getting a 2nd degree and in a sense starting over as well. Hubby and I are managing the distance until I return to Ghana in a few months. The power of pivoting and the ability to do so has really made for an exciting life these past few years and I wouldn’t change my experience for anything. Wishing you the best in this new chapter bro💞
Our uncestors who were enslaved in America for 400 years reinvented their identity and became African Americans. I personaly being a South African understands why you will never be the same again. Your African American culture of living in an inviroment that the west made it for you and the evolution AAs had wilst in a foreign continent, the ability to adopt ,will forever live within you. I will not blame you for deciding to go back to USA. I am happy that you have rediscovered your roots. And going back there will forever rewrite a history within you. Us too in S.A are not the same because our sub- cultures are not the same. I praise you for taking such a brave quantum leep. May you have a wonderful life over there.
Molefe it is interesting how you identify with them in your opening remarks. Anton is a highly educated individual, especially about the origins of mankind. Is 400 years a long time? Do we have people who are sticking to their ideals , dating way back longer than 1400 years ?
@@Seeta_sa_gauta Mr Seeta I did study Earthnology at university. I write comments according to how the book and my lecturer made me to undrestand it. In South Africa we have institutions that are regarded the best in the whole world. The black Americans were shielded from studying about their origin as Africans. Now they have found us, Let us ebrace their African American culture but we must not forget that the education they had received, the west did try to hide their Africanicity to a certain extend. Only wars and femine was what they know about the continent. The west dont want us to unite. It is because we have any raw minerals and some they lie untouched. Do you know that our big five animals are only found in Africa's Southern hemisphere? Our tourism in S.A. is the most regulated not forgetting Kenya and others. So let us celebrate our uniqueness. DANKO.!!!
Anton, thanks for your honesty. Living life has been a great lesson for all of us. I'm back home as well and being back home has been a big blessing for me, too. I'm definitely meant to be back home working on my personal goals. I love the diversity of America too much to live in Africa. I'm talking about the land as well. It was something I miss abroad. Rest, Regroup, and go for your goals and I pray you find love along the way. Good Luck! No subscriber! I'm rooting for you!
Greetings Anton! I am Dating a Nigerian it’s so different for me. But I am adjusting well. I was just in Ikeja Nigeria in December for 2 weeks. I will be traveling back there in December but this time for 30 Days! I Love the Country and the People. I felt at Peace. I am 57 and Living my life to the fullest. I have been divorced for 14 yrs Kids are grown and Living their life! And Just want Mommy too be happy❤🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing your experience here with us! I am glad you are living your best life and enjoying Nigeria! I pray you and your family are blessed 🙏🏾
Anton what a pleasure it is to discover your podcast. Your transparency, clarity & intelligence is refreshing. I've Worked & traveled predominantly in Europe. But also in Japan, HK & S. Korea. I'm a native of Chicago but reside in NYC.. Recently decided that I would like to visit Namibia I've never traveled to the African continent nor the Caribbean. I plan to rectify that in the next couple of years. But I just want to acknowledge what a sentient & radiant soul you are. Thanks for sharing . Peace, light & luv my brother.🙂
I was born in London and move to United States when I was 16 and lived here ever since. I’m moving to Liberia. It’s a no brainer. There is too much opportunity in Aftica. You have to focus on yourself not women and establish yourself first. Once your business grows then you get the woman. Also you have to live within your means eg no restaurants everyday. Grab a shovel and plant your food and build a self sustainable home egg solar power, borehole etc and you will make it. Africa is a no brainer
Wow, I’ve been debating since 2010, my spirit hasn’t been into the move to Africa. I think I will eventually visit, but, I’m really not feeling even a visit. I see countries like China and Russia moving into various places which I must confess is troubling. Your comment about appreciation for your Afro-American was interesting, not judging. I enjoyed your all your comments.
China way better than america. The difference is Chinese go to set up economic power and business. Why African Americans going to live there and do the same as natives? You control economy, you control the country.
I think there's nothing like experience to give us a dose of what hardships there are. No amount of planning or theorizing can prepare you. Thank you for taking the risk and stepping out
I hoped you enjoyed your stay and gained wisdom from it. Theres nothing wrong with going back to the US, Moving to africa and realizing your not african can be difficult. I hope one day africans and people of the diaspora can put our ethnic differences aside. Africa already within the continent has a tribal/ethnic problem. Pan Africanism is still my opinion the best way for black people to solve our problems, not just in africa, but our new homes. Maybe future generations will mend the gap...
Try being African, moving to America and trying to create community with African Americans...its the same thing....made me realize, we are not the same...dating an African American woman was a terrible experience.
Its about the differences in our individual cultures and expectations in a relationship. In Afrika you can NEVER find true love WITHOUT money especially coming from abroad, unless you meet someone who has made themselves and had travelled abroad as well and experience the hard life abroad in terms of paying bills. Most Afrikans do not know HOW to pay Utility bills before getting married. In Our Culture true love means the man is a able to provide everything and ensure that the EXTERNAL family members are also being supported by the presumed RICH man/woman because you are from abroad, therefore, the money tree is in your back garden which you can easily plug and give it to those family.
@ThisDaysNewsAmerica Where in America have Africans tried to build with Black Americans? Every state that I've lived or visited Africans ALWAYS stick to their own countrymen. More often than not, they don't learn our culture and they stick to their African tribal mindset.
Question... Have you solely financially supported a woman here in the States? I see often that brothas don't have a problem supporting women abroad (not saying this is you) but here in the states some want women to go 50/50. I wonder why that is.
Because we are d##b!! I am 62. In my late 20s and 30s I lived and worked in Singapore and Japan. I was ALWAYS guarded with foreign women. Many are just predators. Especially when it comes to BM. They know we are not that bright. Just being honest about it.
The United States is an egalitarian 50-50 culture. White people are the majority. Statistically 47% of white women earn higher salaries than their white husbands. Mathematically couples that go 50-50 build wealth 4 times faster than those who don't. It's why whites are collectively richer than black people because white couples earn and invest together. White couples in the United States their ancestral Western Europe homelands go 50-50 in an egalitarian way. It's where we get the phrase "going Dutch". Asian and Hispanic couples do the same. Hispanic women work the hardest, dirtiest jobs in the U.S. as maids, cleaners, hotel workers, fruit pickers, home health aids, and many other difficult jobs and Hispanic women use the money they earn to support & invest into their households for their future. Black women are some of the only women looking to be "provided" for. Other races of women are in the workforce and use their money to invest into their households
I think it’s more of the adventure, also maybe the ties are easier to sever when dating/marrying abroad, as for the u.s there are many obstacles for divorce. Some brothers who date overseas are compelled because local attractive women don’t give them a chance, whereas overseas they are given attention, it’s also a small percentage of men who date overseas, the white men are a large percentile of those, esp if you go to places like south east Asia
Whoa 🤯 I’m in Dallas. I went to South Africa in 2019. I definitely realized we take things for granted here in the states. I loved my visit to Joburg and Cape Town. I understand 100% what you mean. I hope you have much more success now that you are back in the states. Wishing you much love ❤️
Thanks for this. As someone who is in a similar position as you and wanted to live in Africa as have a family and such but also came to the same conclusion about my life and living in America. However, for me I came to realize through the holy spirit that's its about being content wherever I am. And recently I've been submitting to that. It's not always easy but it's worth it. Thanks again for sharing.
I don’t know how and why your video popped up on my timeline, but it’s almost in line with everything I’m going through! I live in yt Iowa and there’s not a lot of opportunities for Black professionals like bigger cities. I’ve been to Europe but am trying to visit Ghana. I still want to move outside of the country, but I first have to get out of Iowa once God makes provision. What month are you born? Thanks for sharing your journey! 🎉
Thank you for sharing! Wow, I moved 7 months ago to Kigali. Nice environment the weather and the people are ok. I am a retiree here but have had my pain. I left NYC due to the violence. I had certain experiences here and question do I want to remain here. Time will tell. As for your situation, I think you should have went alone first at getting established then to find a partner. Less stress I think. I wish you all the best.
Hey Anton! Glad I found your class. Have you thought about writing a children’s book with mandarin subtitles/ the kid learning some mandarin in the story. Plus have you thought about learning about the stock market: options, long term investments, etc. some good UA-camrs: Kenan Grace, Bow tie nation (Joesph Hogues), Chris Sain, and others. Best wishes on all your hopes and dreams.
Great vid. Am South African can't imagine living in any other country. I have travelled but never thought of moving anywhere. I know for a fact the grass is not greener. Finally; where are people getting people to support them financially? In this economy 😮😮😮
Just came across your channel. Great video! Loved your transparency. ❤ Subscribed after watching. Looking forward to getting caught up on your past videos and following your journey.
yeah its best to go back to the states and your right we are different we have a vibrant culture and identity. Thanks for sharing we are happy with our South Africa :)
Hello Anton, this was so inspiring and insightful. Thank you. I'm a Ugandan born, but grew up in NY and Europe. I have not returned to my country for 30+ years. So this was helpful to even me. As a male I can relate to your experiences and appreciate you sharing. I feel sad for the African Americans struggling in Africa, especially in business. I would love to see this improve. Maybe it takes all of us working together to build a common home for all people of color. Light & Love. Gogwa
I would say black Americans, Afro Caribbeans, and Afro Latino are the same people - as we have the same collective history We are different to Africans.
The main thing is the cultural differences and I can see why people create an idea about home but I believe home is wherever you at regardless of past history.
Appreciate your candidness. It sounds to me like improper planning. But I'm glad you shared your experience to assist others in this area who are considering moving abroad. Africa is an EMERGING market. You must plan your financial future out BEFORE you go family ❤. Jobs are not as readily available as they are here in the states. And Africans are a lot more connected to one another than we are. They hire their own before any others.
Uh, anyones funds will run low supporting a love interest as opposed to a spouse. This can affect any decisions in US, Africa or anywhere in the world….
@@AntonsClassthey took advantage joohh you were a simp😮. It all started with the Nigerian 😮. Don't do that pls. U ended up in the wrong part of s.a nways...that's a jungle. Try western cape or eastern cape..😂😂😂you will fit right in😂😂😂btw s.a has westernized women who are expats❤❤❤js
Thank you for being transparent. It’s helpful. I’ve considered moving abroad in hopes of a better life. Maybe because I’m African descent I have a desire to know what it’s like to live there. Feeling it would provide a sense of freedom and safety. ❤
There are more FREEDOM in Afrika But safety? Emotional safety you have to have the money to give out because living in Afrika is not a vegetable if you have spend all your live living in the western world. Physical safety same like every country on this earth - life is a risk at any giving time.
Anton. You have made the right decision. You are ahead of time and your dream has already come true because you are back where you belong. May Hashem continue to bless you.
Listening to you I hear financial difficulties as the major reason you couldn't realize your African dream..Supporting person X or O is a lame excuse, females even in the United States look up to a man to provide their comfort. I dated Black girls in America & I was always their financial backer even when going out for a date... African Americans moving to Africa do it for one major reason & that is finding a refuge in an environment their skin color isn't a drawback as well as connecting with their ancestral roots..Culturally they may encounter hurdles due to 400 years of separation but those with a fiercely open minded spirit, a plan(finances) & an adventurous mindset are able to plant themselves into Africa so successfully.
I liked your comments. Am a Nigerian born, but lived in Sydney Australia. In my own opinion, anybody who want to relocate to Africa continent must visit some countries in Africa first before finally moving to Africa. And the person must have money to establish a business to generate income for a living. You can't go to Africa to look for jobs. Africa continent wants people who will come and create something. Africa continent is still developing continent. Me I want to relocate back to Africa. And I've already knows the business I want to do to generate income for my living. You can't just parking your belongings and relocate to Africa without knowing what you would do for a living.
@@johnsonolajide4647 It's sad Africa is the second largest continent, but it is far behind Asia, Europe, North America, Australia. The problem I see is that many of the governments aren't helping to build up the countries but want foreigners to do it for them. This is not a good look. Many countries in Africa are too poor to build. The Chinese and other people who are not Africans are bringing their money because they have a better vision than Africans and will take over. China has more than a billion people. You don't think they are looking for land that they can take from the Africa continent. This is the reason those people are welcome with opening arms, yet many in Africa want to exploit the people that look like them. Some of them don't realize that the earned money was not created by the people but earned because they had to slave and save money in order to create wealth for themselves. Africa should be a lesson each one teaches one so the people that look like them can connect becoming one. Too many countries don't even work together because of culture differences. All I see is Africa becoming like the west. Corporations from abroad are taking over. Meanwhile the masses of people are very poor and will never lift themselves out of poverty because many of the governments are corrupt and looking out for their benefit and doing the less for the masses of people in the many countries of Africa.
@@wb1738 It's a big shame on you for echoing & parroting the ever gloomy White SUPREMACIST narrative on Africa..Africa is coming pretty fast despite the immense challenges it faces.. You're talking from a very uneducated perspective my friend.. Countries do not develop overnight, you in America were trash talking China in the 90s, look where china is today? It's clearly overtaking the entire western world.. Haven't you been crying American jobs been relocating to China from the US? What China did is what Africa is beginning to do with added advantage due to massive availability of natural resources & a youthful population..That coupled with the help of Chinese built infrastructure will be a game changer.. At the beginning of jumpstarting the Chinese economy Americans thought of the chinese as poor & only good for cheap labor...Learn how the world works & stop the ignorance. Africa as we speak got 10 of the fastest growing economies in the world.. Stop relying on white SUPREMACIST nonsense & focus on the real picture on Africa.. Being open to FDI by foreign corporations doesn't in any way mean Africa is being taken over. Countries encourage FDI including America. Do you wonna tell me when Toyota opens plants in America they're taking over America? Asian nations relied heavily on foreign investments to develop...China followed by Japan own the largest American foreign debt in treasury bonds..Is that taking over the US? ua-cam.com/video/NgyfYADMHKE/v-deo.htmlsi=viRFVxfLYMLllcxU
@@wb1738 I liked your comments and it makes sense to me. First of all, the government we have in Africa is the reflection of African people. You cannot give what you don't have. The African politicians were all Africans. Most of Africans lacks of critical thinking. Majority don't even have ability to think positively. I'm a Nigerian born and I lived in Nigeria and I understanding African people mentality. Majority of Africans don't like to make effort to develop themselves. Religion belief is another disaster and set back for African people. They believe that God will send his angels 😇😇 from heaven to come and build Africa continent for them. Please go to Nigeria and see for yourself. Nigeria has the largest number of Churches and Mosques than any other countries on this planet. But less factory to create employment for the people. Even when you establish a business, they would like to steal everything from you. Also were they Godly people? Not at all. They called and mentioned God name in every seconds whereas their heart is trillion miles away from God. Churches and Mosques scattered allover Nigeria. And you'll see people there praying to God for money. Many don't believe that they have to invent something to sell to the world to make money. And because of their inability to think critically, other races are taken advantage of African people. To me Africa continent will remain poorer untill the people of Africa continent change their thinking mentality. For now they were not ready for changes.
Your story is very interesting. I guess you didn't cover the basics before you made the move. 1. You need a consistent stream of income and NOT live only on your savings. 2. You need a business idea and understanding of how to do business in the country you want to live in. 3. Sufficient money to do business 4. Live a moderate lifestyle and not middle class when you're not generating any income. Better luck next time
Thank you. Your experience would make a good book and help those who are planning to travel for love or business. ( of course it would be Part 1 or your journey) But sequels of such a book, as a part 2, return to country(s) in Africa would be great too. Sounds like you learned a lot. I've heard some folks say, before, that if they could start a business in a country(s) in Africa, do youtube, there is no reason they can't do the same in the US. Many people left the US who have never explored, let alone their own backyards, and many other places in the US. Sure there are social issues; but they exist every where. You carry yourself wherever you go. Thanks again for your honesty and transparency. You'd make a good consultant for those thinking of being a bro brother, entrepreneur startup or youtube. You've got skills. The best knowledge comes from actual experience than theory, whether or not the perception is a fail. I think you've won, actually. You've got many more years ahead of you. So glad to have seen your journey.
With the average American income, taking care of a woman in an African country is very easy. Did you overlook him mentioning that he was taking care of 2 different women just on his savings.
@@KoolE23 he was complaining about it, so he wasn’t doing it and happy to do it as a man. Unfortunately many of you Amerikkkan men are modernized and prefer 50/50 to being a man.
Appreciate your courage and honesty in sharing your experiences. As you say, we can find love anywhere. As a Bahá’í I believe that diverse marriages can be beneficial and fruitful to us as a human race - they can help to promote unity, understanding and peace. However, we must exercise care: "Bahá’í marriage is the commitment of the two parties one to the other, and their mutual attachment of mind and heart. Each must, however, exercise the utmost care to become thoroughly acquainted with the character of the other, that the binding covenant between them may be a tie that will endure forever. Their purpose must be this: to become loving companions and comrades and at one with each other for time and eternity." Ideally marriage should be an eternal bond. Wishing you success in all you do!
Hi Anton, I enjoyed your video. I am trying to figure when I will be going to Ghana for good. I married a Ghanaian last year. It is challenging trying to work things out. I definitely get what you were speaking about. Please, also let me know about this masters that you said can be paid to get if I understood you correctly. Thanks. Much success to you on your journey.
As a Ghanaian, i will only advise you to visit for at least 4-10 times before you can make YOUR OWN decision to move permanently. And remember Ghana is not ONLY Accra. You want to thrive then other regions in Ghana should be visited before making your mind where you really want to move for good. Good luck.
Im a muslim because of this i fit in very well to african culture although im not accepted into to the culture fully i fit in abit better because of it.
As salaamu alaikum I didn't fit in well as a Muslim because they incorporate culture into the religion.. it's ok as long as it is living by the Sunnah❤
That is a very good story. I enjoyed listening. You are now a wise 37 year-old establishing yourself back in your homeland and I wish you the best, Anton.
9:06 dating is an exchange. Foreingers go to countries where people may have less money and often use those people. Either for sex, tour guides etc, and then leave. So, if the local person gets involved with a foreigner they need to have assurance the person wont just up and leave. How many foreign women abroad geg left pregnant with new expenses of taking care of a baby. Not to mention how hard it would be to find a local husband because they now have child by a foreign one....
I was born and raised in Africa but i have always fancy traveling abroad... last year the dream finally came true and boom.. It made me appreciate home even more.. I have completed my master's degree having a job and honestly, I don't like it here except for the money cause obviously it pays more than in africa. I have learned that black people abroad we have literally very litle if nothing in common except the same skin color... all this to say that if God is to bless you he can do it in different ways and most time it takes going after what we think matters to actually realize what really matters and what makes our life fulfilled. Meanwhile, you're the first person I've heard who still has these values of having a stable family life, children and such... most people I have met here don't believe in God, and don't think it matters to have a family life ..aha I find it a very sad way of looking at life. Anyhow so many pros and cons but nothing ever gets better than home.. haha
Make $USD passively and live in Africa , that way you will have US money flowing in to take care of all your needs and wants and able to invest in business in Africa!
Greatly appreciate your honesty understanding what is really true about us not being african,treated totally &completely different people. You have a very kind loving heart that embraces everyone no matter how they treat you.Which is an amazing testament to who you are as a being connected to the divine creator .
He come and talking it now and when he was having fun no one knew about it but because it didn't work out for him he is saying all these stuff about finding relationship at home so said on his part 🫣🤔
Everything happens for a reason!!! I also thought about moving to Africa but God has a funny way of showing you some things... With all the stories about what has been happening in Africa with the disporians have taught me a lot and I'm glad I didn't rush into moving to Africa just because of what's happening here in America and the selling of all of my things and giving up my apartment would have been devastating...starting over isn't that easy...I live in New York City...it's not that easy to start all over especially if you don't have family...so...I have to get it right!!! I'm not moving to any Country or state unless I have a passive income coming in or some kind of income that brings in some kind of resources...I have been doing research on Africa for about 4 years and I was so hell-bent on buying land...building a home in Africa but I just don't like the things that I'm hearing and seeing as far as how they're treating African Americans over there..the stealing of land...the unaliving of some disporians in certain parts of Africa...it's so deep and I never want to put myself in a situation where something happens to me...especially coming as a single woman...I do like Rwanda but I have to still do some research...I will say this...if I do go to Africa I have to come to buy and build...I don't want to have to rent in Africa...it's getting expensive...you have to own...there's no other way
That's because you still don't get it that Africa is not a country but a continent with 54 countries. What's happening in Gambia and Ghana is not whats happening in other countries. You don't need 4 years of research if you have access to 24/7 high speed internet. I can research any country within a few days to understand the environment, culture and economy.
@jayajaya788. Yes, please do your research carefully. I have been to Rwanda it's one of the least corrupt country in Africa. The country has a zero tolerant for corruption. It's a beautiful country. My only problem which is minor is I can't do those hills 😆 I need to live on flat land. Kenya is another beautiful country.
I live in NYC & have been going back & forth about giving up my apt(cheap rent)😂 I've been going to diff parts of Africa for 15 yrs. Thinking about moving next yr, 'cause NYC has also changed a lot. I've helped someone expand their biz in GH, still brainstorming on my passive income. The best thing about the blue passport is we can always return.
@@Accuface2000moreover...listening to CNN & BBC, they are the inventors of lies...a blood thirsty nation bent on doing anything to maintain world power status. Look at American billionaire Ray Dailio documentary on "changing world powers"
I loved the "idea" of living in Africa, but after visiting several times I realized that I was in love with my romanticized version of Africa---an Africa that does not yet exist. I need to have 24-hour power, Internet and decent infrastructure. These are basic things I need to support my life and family in the 21st century. This is not asking Africa to do something it cannot do, just as it's not asking Asia, Europe or the Americas to do this. #NoMoreExcuses #HoldLeadersToAccount
Interesting video. As an old white guy I appreciate your honesty and candor. I live in Mesa and Arizona can be a great place. I hope you get a chance to go back and experience other countries. You have a lot of wisdom and you will be a success at whatever you decide to do.
Anton I wish you the best you will find that someone your very informative. Continue to love you first growing and learning wherever you go. Proud of you too by the way at 30 something taking the leap of faith to go abroad cool.
I love this perspective. I travelled to america as an african and from what i experienced, i would want to live there. I realised that i prefer living in africa. I learnt to appreciate what we have in Africa and not to glorify america as its being potrayed on media. The grass is greener where you water it. I only travel as a tourist but when it comes to settling and retirement, i feel safe and loved by my african community. I realised that i dont need to date or be married to an american since all men are the same, the only difference is mindset and access to opportunities. Its a paradox.
Very good points! I agree, it's a paradox, right? Thanks for sharing.
@AntonsClass I had the misled mindset that coming to America will 'save me' only to land at JFK and experienced racism from black folks for the first time in my life. I found that people are so mean and selfish. It's all about chasing the bag. People don't have communities like here in Kenya where I live. It was shocking to me. I also met African America who pretended to be black Americans, faking their African accent, which was very fake and distasteful for me. I could watch my loved ones work back to back and come back home very tired and I felt petty for them because Africans who don't travel will never understand the hustle in America and how it's hard because of bills to pay. Also, I am not used to the credit system. I am used to buying all my stuff with cash. I hate debt, and because of that, I had to re-think the quality of life I wanted, and I realised I prefer African systems. It's free. I don't feel like a slave when in Africa. I am also not used to living in a country where people have guns casually. I find Africa safer than America, you will never hear of school shootings or neighborhood shootings here. It was so strange to me. I actually have time for my passion, family, and friends, which is rare to find in America or Europe. I also found it shocking that homes in America don't have fences, unlike in Africa. I found them very insecure.
In Africa, we have our own shortcomings and less cash flow because we are a young continent that is growing exponentially. I wouldn't trade my freedom and simple life in Africa for any other continent. I've learned to accept and embrace the differences.
@@wendyomanga you're absolutely right! I appreciate your fresh perspective as a Kenyan who traveled to the US. The lack of community, the slaving away and hustle culture, and the ridiculous amount of firearms in this country are all real issues. Thank you for sharing! I just subscribed to your channel 💯
@@wendyomangaamen America is a toxic place and I can’t wait to get the hell out of here me I’m African for life
@@wendyomangaDid you say you are a young country??
The freedom to change your mind is the ultimate form of liberation.
Yes! Thank you so much 🙏🏾
Nice one!
It depends on what are your priorities,if seeking lots of money is your number one priority,then Africa might not be for you.
Well Said
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That's why it's good to travel. When you go out and travel the world, you get a better appreciation of home and who you are.
Absolutely! Well-said, and thanks for sharing!
I disagree. Amerikkkan WS travel and come back WS.
I appreciate your courage and flexibility. You stepped out, you learned, you loved, you left, you grew. Quite inspiring.
Thank you, brother! Your support is truly appreciated! 🙏🏾
Too many African Americans (and Americans) in general complain a lot about what they have and fantasize about the grass being greener. I was one of those years ago and lived abroad. Long story short, I learned that the U.S is not perfect but it's the best place for me and I think everyone who chronically complains that they hate it here, should absolutely leave then re-evaluate. If they are happier elsewhere than that's a blessing too.
are you African American?
@@iamthatiam9936the very same question I was going to ask because "some" can never know what we go through even here in the U.S. (and yes, I am African American)
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@@calvinsparrow9829 Absolutely! No one knows the psychological landscape inside our heads (African Americans) that we live with our entire lives. We're a people forged together out of centuries of betrayal, domination, oppression, horror, & terror. I listen to other people's experiences (Africans and non-Africans) in Africa but only African Americans' experience really hits home for me.
I love being American. I don't call myself African-American because I'm not African. I love being American and living in America. I travel quite often but I LOVE LIVING in America. I go to other countries for a good time not a long time. People who constantly complain I want them to leave and live elsewhere and come back with their real experience because baby I know ain't nothing like America. People die trying to get here for a reason. You can't escape discrimination as a brown American. They either hate you for being American or Brown most times both. You are safer at home.
Short version . Bruh went broke tricking.
You’re welcome.
😂😅…you having side hurting!!!
I got that part. 😂
I wonder why so many people feel the need to pick up and move completely? Most diasporans of all sorts work in the West and build back home over time. Black Americans can do the same. Live here and build a honeycomb hideout in the motherland to visit and take a break from the Belly of the Beast until you're fully ready for a permanent move (if ever). Much love to you bro, hoping to bust a move of Namibia one day, you've been a valuable resource.
Very true.
@millionairemaine8901. You're right.
Agreed
There are no "Black Americans".. All socalled blacks ain't from Africa🤷🏾♂️🤦🏽♂️ America is Turtle Island the Original People are what people are taught is Black, Afro-american🤷😂 or whatever.. People need to do the research and stop being ignorant.. It is American..that is all.. The Original📕🧐😎👍
Absolutely correct 😢been to Nigeria and Ghana..I live in USA my husband lives in Ghana and Africa isn’t for me long term
I had two marriages to African men, but neither of them turned out. Too many expectations, preconceived ideas and disparities in culture existed. My most recent marriage to my husband here from the United States proved the most enduring and long-lasting. Everyone has someone for them, but I think the strongest connection that unites us firmly is our shared history among others.
Absolutely❤!
So you've been married at least 3 times?
100% agree, even though differences might be minute it may end up being irritating after a while because we as humans do not like to hide our emotions. One of the most irritating things is being treated like a guillable person who has no problem with being used as an atm, or being put in situations which are not your cup of tea, but over there it is the go to lifestyle to have
Thank you for sharing! That makes a lot of sense.
As a Pan Afrikan Nationalist I have learned that their are two types of Afrikans one is the continental Afrikan and two is the Diasporian Afrikan. Both are Afrikans but with different shared experiences, due to different forms of enslavements and colonizations. My first marriage was to a continental Afrikan woman from Ghana. All was beautiful as long as we stayed in Afrika. Due to American brainwashing as usual, Afrikans on the continent and on islands like Jamaica where I am originally from due to slavery, are hell bent on thinking that going to America will change their lives for the better. So when you let them know that your chosen home is afrika most will show their true colors if they are not truly in love with you such was the case with my Ghanaian ex wife. My current marriage is with my best friend from my village in Jamaica and she is way more comfortable for obvious reasons and she Alis desire to go live in Afrika as well due to our shared long time apathy for all things American other than the educational and financial opportunity. As Peter Tosh sang no matter when you come from as long as you black you are an Afrikan. As long as we are maintaining Afrikan Traditional Family culture then all is good. No snow bunny hopping and definitely no gender dysphasia relationships of confusion and death.
You have no idea how hard this video hits for me!!!! WOW! I did not travel as far as you to discover that my pride as an American shifted while abroad. I would have never appreciated home had I not left! At 55, I did not go looking for love, but I was looking for a “Black” community! Well, needless to say, my community is at home in America!
However, I will still travel of course, but not looking for greener grass, but simply to experience different cultures without make believing that I will ever be FULLY EXCEPTED as one of them just because of my long-term residency.
Thank you for sharing your truth! It’s confirming! 👏🏾👏🏾🤜🏾🤛🏾
Regarding notbing accepted fully, was it you or them?
@@gileskisife6966 Thank you for the gentle correct word correction: ACCEPTED!
I think it’s a combination of both. No one to blame here. We’re just culturally different.
@@SPINESHINEGODDESS What did you expect? Even in the US, someone from the south is culturally different from the north, I'd say! Even within Africa, people are culturally different. African Americans, I believe, should be the least to complain about these differences in Africa. The glass is either half empty or half full, they say!!
@@gileskisife6966 Ok You’re right! You are sooooo right! What on earth was I thinking. Thank you so much for setting me straight. I have learned my lesson! Next time, I’ll know better and do better!
Thank you for sharing! I appreciate that a lot.
Culturally differences, infrastructure not developed enough, power outages, lack of respect or awareness of time, quality of medical care, and realizing I already have a great life here in the USA are just a few reasons why I decided not to move to Africa (Ghana) after several stays and consideration.
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3. THE LORD SHOWED ME AN EMP ATTACK ON AMERICA WHEN I WAS PRAYING ... (LAST DAYS CHANNEL)
4. TO WHOM WILL YOU TURN ..... (SPIRIT OF PROPHECY CHANNEL)
5. WARNING: 3 JUDGEMENTS COMING // FOREIGN ARMY . ............... (LatterRAIN33 CHANNEL)
Something similar happened to me. I think I was searching for home, somewhat dissatisfied with the US. I’ve traveled to Asia, Europe and two countries in west Africa. Although I loved visiting Africa - I realized the US is home. I had to take a second look and I realized all that we African Americans do have here. My travels made me that more appreciative of what we have and more curious to learn and know more about my own people. We have a beautiful rich culture - we have history here, ties to the land. We do have family and community - as well as all of the conveniences that come with living here. You do at times need to move a certain way but if you know how, then you’re good. Also the US is a huge country that I’d love to explore more of. Does it have it’s not so good, absolutely - but if you focus on the good you can live well, or at least decently here. And for me, this is home. Also, it’s ok to change your mind - to move back home or to another country.
Absolutely! I think many of us go through a similar experience when going abroad. Thank you for sharing! 🙏🏾
@@AntonsClass Very true. You’re welcome and glad to share!
So why you didn't find a house that was for you in west Africa and did you travel with a business partner or tried to do everything on your own
True. Black America just needs marriage and fathers for kids. With that, black America would be unstoppable.
I have homes abroad but the US is my home base. When I get tired of the various challenges faced abroad I know I can come home and be "good". People glorify living abroad way too much. I am grateful for American citizenship and have lived many places but I like being home.
This is a very interesting topic for me personally. We all have such amazing and unique journeys. This is mine. I was born in Kenya and came to the US as a kid with my parents. My dad was studying here. I was in the US from the age of 5 to the age of 10. Very formative years! I absorbed American culture and also learned to speak English with a "middle American" accent. When I was 10 our family went back to Kenya. My parents never had intentions of settling in the US. It was clear to them from before leaving Kenya that we were coming for my dad's education and we would go back to Kenya. Back in Kenya, I re-met my extended family and re-learned my native language. But still spoke English with an American accent. Along with my American cultural background, my accent made me an oddity even among family members. I never really fit in and longed to come back "home" to the US. I spent the next 12 years in Kenya and eventually came back for college when I was 22 years old. By then I had absorbed a lot of my Kenyan culture again. When I came back to the US, it really did feel like a "homecoming". I didn't go back to Kenya, not even for a vacation, for 19 years! Eventually, though, I did go back. I had gotten my US citizenship by that time so I had dual citizenship. Since then I have been going back and forth between Kenya and the US. I am nearin retirement age and fully plan on going to live my last days in Kenya. After all these years in the US I have never quite "fit in" here either. I am at the same time American and foreign. I have never referred to myself as African American but don't feel that I will ever be completely Kenyan either. I am caught between. Partly as a result of this in-betweenness, I have never been able to settle with a spouse. Besides family members, I don't have any friends in Kenya either. My friends in the US tended to be international people and are flung far and wide all over the US and the world! They have their families and communities. Strangely I don't feel badly about my situation. I am looking forward to living in Kenya in retirement. The US is most definitely a country that is good for young people! I cannot fathom growing old here with no family close by. I greatly appreciate the US for who I am today, and I also love my home country of Kenya, even though socially, I feel far more an alien there than in the US! I don't know what the future has in store but I have always been an adventurous person who can live just about anywhere. BTW, my experience is typical for what is known as a "Third Culture Child". That is, children who spend significant parts of their lives living away from the culture of their birth. You become an international person who does not fully identify with any one culture. We have our unique challenges in the world, but we also have incredible strengths and such discerning perspectives on the world in general.
Thanks for sharing your story. Shows the difference between being stolen and brought over and enslaved verses traveling abroad to a further country, its like the flip side of the coin being able to grow up in the place you came from. You are like a remnant returning to the land. Interesting. You should do your DNA if you haven't, you will probably see all the nations that flow through your veins. I call myself Creole or Pueblo. 🙏🏾
For a person like you I guess you should marry a white partner, they don't seem to care much about culture. Also mingling with educated people could make it easier to find a less culturally attached partner.
Very interesting indeed!
That's me too. I'm guilt tripped about 'culture lessness' all the time. I prefer being a global citizen
I also am a third culture kid. Born in San Jose Costa Rica 🇨🇷 but raised in the United States. For this reason, I travel extensively internationally.
I'm moving to Africa and I'm taking my day trading skills so I'll be able to do pretty much anything I'll need done cause of this skill set...
You should be just fine!
Research employment of the people where you are going, if you do not have continuous stream of income….
Yeah if you are a successful traded you will be very good I live in Africa from America and alot of forex and crypto folks living just fine especially the ones who know what they doing
@zaharalmole u hit the nail on the head... those who know what they are doing ....as there are many pretenders with trading
It's still a job that you have to work to get paid. If I had to make a move to the mother land, I'll have my money working in the US and I'll get paid off that. Plus I'll get me job if they hire Americans.
I just came across your channel and I like your honesty. I'm a Kenyan who immigrated to America, now in my 60s.Hard to believe how fast time has passed 😅Having taken care of children who are now all grown, My husband and I are seriously planning to retire in Kenya😊When we came to this country, more than 20 years ago, it never occurred to us that we would be permanently going back😅It's amazing how our perspective changes with time😅All the best in your future plans 👍
Thank you much! I appreciate that 🙏🏾.
Me and my 2 children went to live in West African Senegal🇸🇳 June 2023. (Not knowing it’s the most expensive country on the continent, I thought it was Nigeria) I wanted to make it our new home but I quickly seen major differences and we were also addressed as foreign or just American. We stayed 10 months almost a year we left March 22 2024. It was nice and I like it but financially on top of having to learn 2 different languages Wolof & (the colonizers French) it was just too much being a single mother. I needed true genuine friends & love
Wow! Thank you for sharing your experience with us here. I never Knew Senegal was the most expensive country until like last week! Lol. Glad you were able to experience it and make the right decision for you and your family. 🙏🏾 Blessings
Living in Afrika Not a vegetable experience in deed.
You could have earned good income in Senegal as an American-English language teacher for Senegalese people going to the USA for an extended period ( students, diplomatic personnel, exporters to the USA, etc
Glad you realized you can't function and almost exist without living in a white country and society.
Thanks for sharing your story. Yet again, I am enlightened. I've gone down the ytube rabbit hole on this topic and was amazed to find out how many black Americans have decided to go back to the US after living in Africa. However, I completely understand why, given the many perils of such an endeavor. I once had a long-term desire of wanting to relocate to Africa because of my negative experiences from working in the US workforce, however, I have since changed my mind and too have decided that I can and will succeed in the US. Much peace and many blessings to you.
Peace and blessings to you as well! Thank you for commenting 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I've lived in 4 countries. You honestly need to see how you'll adapt to a foreign everything to truly know what you're made of
Bravo Bro! Many kudos and much respect for putting yourself out there. I've traveled abroad a great deal for over 30 years. And, I'm clicking my ruby slippers..."there's no place like home". I learned that change is all you can count on. Ready or not, here it comes! Your pivoting skills are awesome! Welcome back!!!
As a South African, I can only talk about SA. If you want to live a good life in SA, plan well before you move. Visit different cities first, such as Johannesburg, Capetown, Durban, Gqeberha, Pretoria etc. and see which one you like the most because hey, these cities are so different. South Africa is so diverse, even black South Africans have different cultures and languages. When I moved to Pretoria from the Eastern Cape being Xhosa, I couldn't understand a word in Tswana 🤣. I had to fully depend on English.
If you have a job back home, don't just quit and move. You can apply for a digital nomad visa if you can work remotely and earn +/-$53000 p/a. Keep earning your dollars, pounds etc. The rand is much lower, so your dollar can do wonders for you.
If you are an entrepreneur, again, do your research and plan well. South Africa has great business opportunities.
Big cities in SA can be brutal if you run out of money, like almost anywhere in the world.
He would've fitted right in in E.C this one😂😂😂😂 he can even click😂😂 i even was like dayumnnn i missed an opportunity there 😂😂😂pitty he was simping though😂😂. Them lot did him dirty😊. When we have independent worldly travelled south african women like me.😂😂he even looks like umxhosa yellow bone😂😂😂 bless him
@@sammym9259facts. The minute he said NIGERIAN woman. I knew it was over 😆 they were going to trap him 😆
This was helpful.
@Onlyfacts0224 he said he was dating a Nigerian woman.
@Onlyfacts0224 and why would he mention Nigeria when dating? You must be Naija because you sound offended!!
6:50 seconds in the VIDEO. Please learn to listen and pay attention because you sound like you have no comprehension!!
I was just wondering how you were doing. Glad to see you doing well. I was on the move to the motherland train for many years. I took my son on a graduation trip to Morocco last year. Although I really enjoyed the trip, I came to a realization that I want to explore Africa but may not want to live there full time.
I also came to realize, like you, that you can really make your life what you want here in the states or most places really.
Good luck in your Master's program. I know you will do great.
Hello Mark. You are absolutely right but I would say it is the same for us African born in Africa who have lived in the West for decade. The best thing to do is to find an African woman in the West who is willing to go back to Africa with you
fat chance of that. most african women will never want to leave the west.
Welcome back to AZ!!! It's hell hot at this time of the year, as you know. ❤
Very much hot.
You were very honest, and that was very refreshing.
This topic has given me an idea for my podcast video on my podcast channel, though I have touched on it before. Bro, your happiness comes first and I support that 100%. Africa will always be here, will always have its arms wide open for you. I wish you everything of the best, going forward.
Thank you, my brother! I appreciate your support 🙏🏾
@@AntonsClassGuine bissau here
Clantis don't go emmigrating nawe😂😂😂. Home is best for happiness ❤😂😂
May The Most High Grant You Great Wealth. The Journey Is Not Easy But Keep Praying Brother and Great Things Will Happen In Your Life.
Growing up in NYC exposed me to other cultures. In addition to American friends, I had Korean, Haitian, Yugoslavian, Czechoslovakian, Chinese, and Indian friends growing up. Also, being in the military gave me hands-on experience of living in and visiting other countries. I can appreciate different cultures, but there's nothing like home. Unfortunately, I haven't had the time to visit South Africa or Namibia. Those two countries are definitely on my list of places to live someday, along with Mexico, Costa Rica, and the Azores. I pray love finds you and God blesses you with your desires according to His will and timing. In the meantime, don't settle!
Amen! And thank you for commenting. I appreciate you 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love your perspective on the subjects you covered.. no negativity.. you are open minded and I personally think if you meet someone here and then move together. It makes your journey so much because you will have a person you can confide in and support and understand things from a diasporan experience
Thank you so much! Truly appreciate the support, and I also think that's a great idea. Thanks for sharing! 🙏🏾 Stay well.
Love, love, love this video❤. Thank you so much for sharing. You are now in a new season in your life.
You're my living life Sir.. Even the starting over is happening to more Good Souls (like you) than you think.
Appreciate your transparency.. you got this and you know it. SO CRUSH IT! 54yr old Gentleman here, Peaceful Journey and Bless you!
I did travel to Africa, because, I met an Ethiopian while I was teaching in another country and a colleague introduced us while he was in Ethiopia. I eventually moved to Kenya and we met there. He was unable to travel to other African countries. That was a disaster. I literally had to support him and myself. We are no longer together and I would never support someone again like that.
Sorry to say but you got played. No one is unable to travel to other countries, it was all a ruse to milk you of your hard earned money. You were living with a con.
@@jahzinho5784That's not true. My Ugandan girlfriend got denied twice for a South Africa visa.
@@KoolE23 To be denied a Visa visting another African neigbor is hard unless they could not prove why they were visiting and if would come back. Let her keep trying coz I know many just drive there nowadays and its easy.
They never respect the support you provide them ever
@@jahzinho5784not true. Americans, Brits and French have great travel liberties, Africans and Hatians have minimal
Thanks for your videos. I am from Tucson, Arizona. I have lived here all of my life. I married a woman from Ethiopia, married there in 2018. I've been there 4 times , the most recent was this past July 2024. I brought my wife here to Tucson in 2020. Now we have 2 little kids. Going to Ethiopia has helped me put my life in perspective, and it has helped me appreciate my life here in the US.
This was a really good video. I like your attitude and that your not bitter.
I wish you much success
You have a new subscriber! Thank you for the transparency!!! I myself am someone that wants to live abroad but I will be going to Haiti where my family is from.
Respectfully as a Haitian, this is not the time to go back.
@@osimeon00 I hear so many conflicting stories about that.. may I ask why not? Because I’m aware of all the conflict going on in Haiti, but I do know that it’s not the country in its entirety. It’s only a few particular areas to avoid..
@@kerlinne you should avoid completely right now. Gangs have taken out civilians and police officers. There is no protection if something happens to you. Haitians diasporans are targets. See the news story about the Haitian American couple that was kidnapped. They were lucky to get back. If there was ever a time, this ain't it.
I was wondering what was going on with you. Good to see you're doing ok.
Hey, thank you for checking in with me!
Hi anton I appreciated your video. People always think the grass is greener on the other side which is most definitely not the case. My parents left Jamaica in the 50s looking for a better life in England. Life was extremely challenging for them. They never earned enough money to be able to go back to Jamaica. My mother is now 97 and constantly talks about her childhood in Jamaica. You can make a good life for yourself where you are in America.
So if I take your analogy about your parents.. you can struggle both abroad or where you were born 🤔 .. my parents left looking for a better life, would have loved to return home but never got enough money in America to do so.. and you can't send them home either. Interesting.
How long will America last seems not long
Come back when you are alright or atleast when you have a plan! Take it easy next time.
Great video! Thank you for the information and your transparency.
This was a great video. You are right, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. You are exactly where you need to be in life. Your experience will make you a stronger and more open minded person. You will find your way here in America and you will find the love of you life and have children. Your experience has given you perspective and that is something you can never put a price on. I wish you well and you will do well. Good luck to you.
Thank you so much! Your words are appreciated! 🙏🏾
I have enjoyed your video
We have so much in common; and I experienced the hardship of being abroad in Africa
I traveled to Gambia(West Africa), and as you have discussed being abroad can bring hardship if you are not having any capital! Gambia is a tourist area, and I stayed there for three months.It was very expensive to stay there, and I returned back to Alabama. I am a Teacher as well, single and no children. I also dated abroad, and you are correct , it is very challenging and hard dating from abroad. But the trip was worth it because I always wanted the experience of being in the continent of Africa and it was a great experience for me.
Thank you Anton; good to see a video from you! I have followed you since your Rwanda days, and always respected the eloquent storytelling of your journeys and your transparency; not everyone stands in their truth. And you're so right; America is huge; I've lived West, Midwest (Chicagoan), and now near-south, and there are different cultures, within our black and brown people, right here in the U.S. SO much to see here. I plan on visiting South Africa when budget permits, but in the meantime, I'm learning about, and enjoying me, right where I am. 🙂
Wow! Thank you for coming along on the journey since Rwanda. I appreciate you 🙏🏾
Idk why your video came into my feed but i was enlightened to hear about your experience. What i got from this is, sometimes the very happiness we're looking for is right in front of us, or in your case, right here at home. 😊
Africa is a BIG PLACE and I think it would take some time to figure out what cultural/ethnic area would really fit my personality and mindset, So we black Americans know something about Ghana, South Africa, Nigeria, Kenya. The bigger English language countries, But maybe a different area of the continent we're not familiar with is really a good fit. We are the first generation of black people to freely move around WORLD in centuries as free men and not property. So we're just beginning to reach out to each other across the oceans. Different places may or may not be the match but we're going to work it out. Reestablish connections.
I congratulate him for going to Ghana to see for himself unfiltered.
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. I’m back in the US getting a 2nd degree and in a sense starting over as well. Hubby and I are managing the distance until I return to Ghana in a few months. The power of pivoting and the ability to do so has really made for an exciting life these past few years and I wouldn’t change my experience for anything. Wishing you the best in this new chapter bro💞
Our uncestors who were enslaved in America for 400 years reinvented their identity and became African Americans. I personaly being a South African understands why you will never be the same again.
Your African American culture of living in an inviroment that the west made it for you and the evolution AAs had wilst in a foreign continent, the ability to adopt ,will forever live within you.
I will not blame you for deciding to go back to USA. I am happy that you have rediscovered your roots. And going back there will forever rewrite a history within you. Us too in S.A are not the same because our sub- cultures are not the same. I praise you for taking such a brave quantum leep. May you have a wonderful life over there.
Aww. Such kind words.
Molefe it is interesting how you identify with them in your opening remarks. Anton is a highly educated individual, especially about the origins of mankind. Is 400 years a long time? Do we have people who are sticking to their ideals , dating way back longer than 1400 years ?
@@Seeta_sa_gauta Mr Seeta I did study Earthnology at university. I write comments according to how the book and my lecturer made me to undrestand it. In South Africa we have institutions that are regarded the best in the whole world. The black Americans were shielded from studying about their origin as Africans.
Now they have found us, Let us ebrace their African American culture but we must not forget that the education they had received, the west did try to hide their Africanicity to a certain extend. Only wars and femine was what they know about the continent.
The west dont want us to unite. It is because we have any raw minerals and some they lie untouched. Do you know that our big five animals are only found in Africa's Southern hemisphere? Our tourism in S.A. is the most regulated not forgetting Kenya and others. So let us celebrate our uniqueness. DANKO.!!!
@@molefejappie3284 danko Molefe.
@Seeta_sa_gauta Danko to you too.
Anton, thanks for your honesty. Living life has been a great lesson for all of us. I'm back home as well and being back home has been a big blessing for me, too. I'm definitely meant to be back home working on my personal goals. I love the diversity of America too much to live in Africa. I'm talking about the land as well. It was something I miss abroad.
Rest, Regroup, and go for your goals and I pray you find love along the way. Good Luck! No subscriber! I'm rooting for you!
Greetings Anton! I am Dating a Nigerian it’s so different for me. But I am adjusting well. I was just in Ikeja Nigeria in December for 2 weeks. I will be traveling back there in December but this time for 30 Days! I Love the Country and the People. I felt at Peace. I am 57 and Living my life to the fullest. I have been divorced for 14 yrs Kids are grown and Living their life! And Just want Mommy too be happy❤🙏🏽
You better date to marry , otherwise you won’t smile at the end , beware .
Thank you for sharing your experience here with us! I am glad you are living your best life and enjoying Nigeria! I pray you and your family are blessed 🙏🏾
@😂augustineadeyanju9638
Anton what a pleasure it is to discover your podcast. Your transparency, clarity & intelligence is refreshing. I've Worked & traveled predominantly in Europe. But also in Japan, HK & S. Korea. I'm a native of Chicago but reside in NYC.. Recently decided that I would like to visit Namibia I've never traveled to the African continent nor the Caribbean. I plan to rectify that in the next couple of years. But I just want to acknowledge what a sentient & radiant soul you are. Thanks for sharing . Peace, light & luv my brother.🙂
I truly appreciate your kind and support words! 🙏🏾 Thank you for your comment and sharing your travel plans as well.
I was born in London and move to United States when I was 16 and lived here ever since. I’m moving to Liberia. It’s a no brainer. There is too much opportunity in Aftica. You have to focus on yourself not women and establish yourself first. Once your business grows then you get the woman. Also you have to live within your means eg no restaurants everyday. Grab a shovel and plant your food and build a self sustainable home egg solar power, borehole etc and you will make it. Africa is a no brainer
Your video popped up on my feed. Loved hearing your story and welcome back to the states.
Wow, I’ve been debating since 2010, my spirit hasn’t been into the move to Africa. I think I will eventually visit, but, I’m really not feeling even a visit. I see countries like China and Russia moving into various places which I must confess is troubling. Your comment about appreciation for your Afro-American was interesting, not judging. I enjoyed your all your comments.
Thank you so much for your comment! I also appreciate your perspective and what you've shared here. Cheers!
China way better than america. The difference is Chinese go to set up economic power and business. Why African Americans going to live there and do the same as natives? You control economy, you control the country.
Africa is definitely not the move. Build a strong community in the U.S.
I think there's nothing like experience to give us a dose of what hardships there are. No amount of planning or theorizing can prepare you. Thank you for taking the risk and stepping out
Thank you so much for your comment! I appreciate you watching and understanding! ❤️
I hoped you enjoyed your stay and gained wisdom from it. Theres nothing wrong with going back to the US, Moving to africa and realizing your not african can be difficult. I hope one day africans and people of the diaspora can put our ethnic differences aside. Africa already within the continent has a tribal/ethnic problem. Pan Africanism is still my opinion the best way for black people to solve our problems, not just in africa, but our new homes. Maybe future generations will mend the gap...
Try being African, moving to America and trying to create community with African Americans...its the same thing....made me realize, we are not the same...dating an African American woman was a terrible experience.
Its about the differences in our individual cultures and expectations in a relationship. In Afrika you can NEVER find true love WITHOUT money especially coming from abroad, unless you meet someone who has made themselves and had travelled abroad as well and experience the hard life abroad in terms of paying bills. Most Afrikans do not know HOW to pay Utility bills before getting married. In Our Culture true love means the man is a able to provide everything and ensure that the EXTERNAL family members are also being supported by the presumed RICH man/woman because you are from abroad, therefore, the money tree is in your back garden which you can easily plug and give it to those family.
@ThisDaysNewsAmerica Where in America have Africans tried to build with Black Americans? Every state that I've lived or visited Africans ALWAYS stick to their own countrymen. More often than not, they don't learn our culture and they stick to their African tribal mindset.
We still love you in South Africa my brother, all the best at home and may you have good health and prosperity in all your endeavors
Question...
Have you solely financially supported a woman here in the States? I see often that brothas don't have a problem supporting women abroad (not saying this is you) but here in the states some want women to go 50/50. I wonder why that is.
Because we are d##b!! I am 62. In my late 20s and 30s I lived and worked in Singapore and Japan. I was ALWAYS guarded with foreign women. Many are just predators. Especially when it comes to BM. They know we are not that bright. Just being honest about it.
The United States is an egalitarian 50-50 culture. White people are the majority. Statistically 47% of white women earn higher salaries than their white husbands. Mathematically couples that go 50-50 build wealth 4 times faster than those who don't. It's why whites are collectively richer than black people because white couples earn and invest together. White couples in the United States their ancestral Western Europe homelands go 50-50 in an egalitarian way. It's where we get the phrase "going Dutch". Asian and Hispanic couples do the same. Hispanic women work the hardest, dirtiest jobs in the U.S. as maids, cleaners, hotel workers, fruit pickers, home health aids, and many other difficult jobs and Hispanic women use the money they earn to support & invest into their households for their future. Black women are some of the only women looking to be "provided" for. Other races of women are in the workforce and use their money to invest into their households
I know I have and the sense of entitlement and lack of appreciation was disgusting.
Blk woemen in the states fought so hard to work alongside men. Now y'all are complaining 😂.
I think it’s more of the adventure, also maybe the ties are easier to sever when dating/marrying abroad, as for the u.s there are many obstacles for divorce. Some brothers who date overseas are compelled because local attractive women don’t give them a chance, whereas overseas they are given attention, it’s also a small percentage of men who date overseas, the white men are a large percentile of those, esp if you go to places like south east Asia
Whoa 🤯 I’m in Dallas. I went to South Africa in 2019. I definitely realized we take things for granted here in the states.
I loved my visit to Joburg and Cape Town. I understand 100% what you mean.
I hope you have much more success now that you are back in the states. Wishing you much love ❤️
Thanks for this. As someone who is in a similar position as you and wanted to live in Africa as have a family and such but also came to the same conclusion about my life and living in America. However, for me I came to realize through the holy spirit that's its about being content wherever I am. And recently I've been submitting to that. It's not always easy but it's worth it. Thanks again for sharing.
You're absolutely correct! It is about being content where you are. I had to learn that lesson the hard way lol. Thanks for commenting!
I don’t know how and why your video popped up on my timeline, but it’s almost in line with everything I’m going through! I live in yt Iowa and there’s not a lot of opportunities for Black professionals like bigger cities. I’ve been to Europe but am trying to visit Ghana. I still want to move outside of the country, but I first have to get out of Iowa once God makes provision. What month are you born? Thanks for sharing your journey! 🎉
I've been waiting to see an update on your life in Africa... welcome home, we Black Americans are happy you've returned home to stay...
Thank you! I appreciate you 🙏🏾
@@AntonsClassWelcome home brah, I see you .
Thank you for sharing! Wow, I moved 7 months ago to Kigali. Nice environment the weather and the people are ok. I am a retiree here but have had my pain. I left NYC due to the violence. I had certain experiences here and question do I want to remain here. Time will tell. As for your situation, I think you should have went alone first at getting established then to find a partner. Less stress I think. I wish you all the best.
Love the way you pronounce Xhosa. Thanks for learning Zulu as well. Siyabonga.🥰
Yeah it’s nice you had that experience… and you’re able to make other experiences!!!♥️
Agree! Thank you 🙏🏾
Welcome back home🏡🇺🇸
Hey Anton! Glad I found your class. Have you thought about writing a children’s book with mandarin subtitles/ the kid learning some mandarin in the story. Plus have you thought about learning about the stock market: options, long term investments, etc. some good UA-camrs: Kenan Grace, Bow tie nation (Joesph Hogues), Chris Sain, and others. Best wishes on all your hopes and dreams.
Great suggestions! I have thought of writing children's stories a lot. I appreciate the investment UA-camr shout outs also. Thank you!
Great vid. Am South African can't imagine living in any other country. I have travelled but never thought of moving anywhere. I know for a fact the grass is not greener. Finally; where are people getting people to support them financially? In this economy 😮😮😮
Just came across your channel. Great video! Loved your transparency. ❤ Subscribed after watching. Looking forward to getting caught up on your past videos and following your journey.
Thanks a lot! I appreciate your support, truly! 🙏🏾
yeah its best to go back to the states and your right we are different we have a vibrant culture and identity. Thanks for sharing we are happy with our South Africa :)
It’s not as black people in the west we’re trapped leave the west and stop thinking you belong there
The guy in this video is stupid
Anton its so refreshing to see someone so open and genuine. You have an amazing aura about you.
Hello Anton, this was so inspiring and insightful. Thank you. I'm a Ugandan born, but grew up in NY and Europe. I have not returned to my country for 30+ years. So this was helpful to even me. As a male I can relate to your experiences and appreciate you sharing. I feel sad for the African Americans struggling in Africa, especially in business. I would love to see this improve. Maybe it takes all of us working together to build a common home for all people of color. Light & Love. Gogwa
Thank you for sharing your experience.
I would say black Americans, Afro Caribbeans, and Afro Latino are the same people - as we have the same collective history We are different to Africans.
The main thing is the cultural differences and I can see why people create an idea about home but I believe home is wherever you at regardless of past history.
Appreciate your candidness. It sounds to me like improper planning. But I'm glad you shared your experience to assist others in this area who are considering moving abroad. Africa is an EMERGING market. You must plan your financial future out BEFORE you go family ❤. Jobs are not as readily available as they are here in the states. And Africans are a lot more connected to one another than we are. They hire their own before any others.
Uh, anyones funds will run low supporting a love interest as opposed to a spouse. This can affect any decisions in US, Africa or anywhere in the world….
Agree 💯
He should've invested in land vs. A Woman! My opinion🤷🏿♀️ probably could've had a better turn out
@@AntonsClassthey took advantage joohh you were a simp😮. It all started with the Nigerian 😮. Don't do that pls. U ended up in the wrong part of s.a nways...that's a jungle. Try western cape or eastern cape..😂😂😂you will fit right in😂😂😂btw s.a has westernized women who are expats❤❤❤js
Thank you for being transparent. It’s helpful. I’ve considered moving abroad in hopes of a better life. Maybe because I’m African descent I have a desire to know what it’s like to live there. Feeling it would provide a sense of freedom and safety. ❤
I appreciate that! And I totally feel you on that. Maybe one day you will get to experience living there 😊.
There are more FREEDOM in Afrika But safety? Emotional safety you have to have the money to give out because living in Afrika is not a vegetable if you have spend all your live living in the western world. Physical safety same like every country on this earth - life is a risk at any giving time.
Anton.
You have made the right decision. You are ahead of time and your dream has already come true because you are back where you belong. May Hashem continue to bless you.
Thank you much! Blessings to you also!
You just opened up my eyes a little bit more with this video.
Listening to you I hear financial difficulties as the major reason you couldn't realize your African dream..Supporting person X or O is a lame excuse, females even in the United States look up to a man to provide their comfort. I dated Black girls in America & I was always their financial backer even when going out for a date...
African Americans moving to Africa do it for one major reason & that is finding a refuge in an environment their skin color isn't a drawback as well as connecting with their ancestral roots..Culturally they may encounter hurdles due to 400 years of separation but those with a fiercely open minded spirit, a plan(finances) & an adventurous mindset are able to plant themselves into Africa so successfully.
I liked your comments.
Am a Nigerian born, but lived in Sydney Australia.
In my own opinion, anybody who want to relocate to Africa continent must visit some countries in Africa first before finally moving to Africa.
And the person must have money to establish a business to generate income for a living.
You can't go to Africa to look for jobs.
Africa continent wants people who will come and create something.
Africa continent is still developing continent.
Me I want to relocate back to Africa.
And I've already knows the business I want to do to generate income for my living.
You can't just parking your belongings and relocate to Africa without knowing what you would do for a living.
@@johnsonolajide4647 It's sad Africa is the second largest continent, but it is far behind Asia, Europe, North America, Australia. The problem I see is that many of the governments aren't helping to build up the countries but want foreigners to do it for them. This is not a good look.
Many countries in Africa are too poor to build. The Chinese and other people who are not Africans are bringing their money because they have a better vision than Africans and will take over. China has more than a billion people. You don't think they are looking for land that they can take from the Africa continent.
This is the reason those people are welcome with opening arms, yet many in Africa want to exploit the people that look like them. Some of them don't realize that the earned money was
not created by the people but earned because they had to slave and save money in order to create wealth for themselves. Africa should be a lesson each one teaches one so the people that look like them can connect becoming one. Too many countries don't even work together because of culture differences. All I see is Africa becoming like the west. Corporations from abroad are taking over. Meanwhile the masses of people are very poor and will never lift themselves out of poverty because many of the governments are corrupt and looking out for their benefit and doing the less for the masses of people in the many countries of Africa.
I AM Not From Africa, God Planted A Whole Garden 🪴 And Seed Every Part 🪶🏹
@@wb1738 It's a big shame on you for echoing & parroting the ever gloomy White SUPREMACIST narrative on Africa..Africa is coming pretty fast despite the immense challenges it faces.. You're talking from a very uneducated perspective my friend..
Countries do not develop overnight, you in America were trash talking China in the 90s, look where china is today? It's clearly overtaking the entire western world.. Haven't you been crying American jobs been relocating to China from the US? What China did is what Africa is beginning to do with added advantage due to massive availability of natural resources & a youthful population..That coupled with the help of Chinese built infrastructure will be a game changer.. At the beginning of jumpstarting the Chinese economy Americans thought of the chinese as poor & only good for cheap labor...Learn how the world works & stop the ignorance.
Africa as we speak got 10 of the fastest growing economies in the world..
Stop relying on white SUPREMACIST nonsense & focus on the real picture on Africa..
Being open to FDI by foreign corporations doesn't in any way mean Africa is being taken over. Countries encourage FDI including America. Do you wonna tell me when Toyota opens plants in America they're taking over America? Asian nations relied heavily on foreign investments to develop...China followed by Japan own the largest American foreign debt in treasury bonds..Is that taking over the US?
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@@wb1738 I liked your comments and it makes sense to me.
First of all, the government we have in Africa is the reflection of African people.
You cannot give what you don't have.
The African politicians were all Africans.
Most of Africans lacks of critical thinking.
Majority don't even have ability to think positively.
I'm a Nigerian born and I lived in Nigeria and I understanding African people mentality.
Majority of Africans don't like to make effort to develop themselves.
Religion belief is another disaster and set back for African people.
They believe that God will send his angels 😇😇 from heaven to come and build Africa continent for them.
Please go to Nigeria and see for yourself.
Nigeria has the largest number of Churches and Mosques than any other countries on this planet.
But less factory to create employment for the people.
Even when you establish a business, they would like to steal everything from you.
Also were they Godly people? Not at all.
They called and mentioned God name in every seconds whereas their heart is trillion miles away from God.
Churches and Mosques scattered allover Nigeria.
And you'll see people there praying to God for money.
Many don't believe that they have to invent something to sell to the world to make money.
And because of their inability to think critically, other races are taken advantage of African people.
To me Africa continent will remain poorer untill the people of Africa continent change their thinking mentality.
For now they were not ready for changes.
Same. Onward and upward. Welcome home. Life is good here.
Your story is very interesting. I guess you didn't cover the basics before you made the move. 1. You need a consistent stream of income and NOT live only on your savings. 2. You need a business idea and understanding of how to do business in the country you want to live in. 3. Sufficient money to do business 4. Live a moderate lifestyle and not middle class when you're not generating any income. Better luck next time
Honestly if he or she has a partner that is in USA working sending money to there American citizen in Africa it will work perfectly
@@Lunar_el it all comes down to getting a stream of income and not living on savings, it doesn't matter where the person is
Thank you. Your experience would make a good book and help those who are planning to travel for love or business. ( of course it would be Part 1 or your journey) But sequels of such a book, as a part 2, return to country(s) in Africa would be great too. Sounds like you learned a lot. I've heard some folks say, before, that if they could start a business in a country(s) in Africa, do youtube, there is no reason they can't do the same in the US. Many people left the US who have never explored, let alone their own backyards, and many other places in the US. Sure there are social issues; but they exist every where. You carry yourself wherever you go. Thanks again for your honesty and transparency. You'd make a good consultant for those thinking of being a bro brother, entrepreneur startup or youtube. You've got skills. The best knowledge comes from actual experience than theory, whether or not the perception is a fail. I think you've won, actually. You've got many more years ahead of you. So glad to have seen your journey.
You are like the second person to mention a book! Great idea 💡! And thanks for sharing. Your comment and engagement here is very much appreciated!
Bro no more passporting for love if you are not prepared. Women of other countries expect for the man to provide.
what and they dont in the USA ,there not looking additional income
@Black I am sure you are single , go find a mate , or else get a dog and die alone , smfh .
With the average American income, taking care of a woman in an African country is very easy. Did you overlook him mentioning that he was taking care of 2 different women just on his savings.
@@KoolE23 absoulte nuts
all i can say is respect to him
@@KoolE23 he was complaining about it, so he wasn’t doing it and happy to do it as a man. Unfortunately many of you Amerikkkan men are modernized and prefer 50/50 to being a man.
Everwere you need Money
Facts
If I didn’t have $$$$ in d bank d steady monthly $ coming in I wouldn’t have stayed
Appreciate your courage and honesty in sharing your experiences. As you say, we can find love anywhere. As a Bahá’í I believe that diverse marriages can be beneficial and fruitful to us as a human race - they can help to promote unity, understanding and peace. However, we must exercise care: "Bahá’í marriage is the commitment of the two parties one to the other, and their mutual attachment of mind and heart. Each must, however, exercise the utmost care to become thoroughly acquainted with the character of the other, that the binding covenant between them may be a tie that will endure forever. Their purpose must be this: to become loving companions and comrades and at one with each other for time and eternity." Ideally marriage should be an eternal bond. Wishing you success in all you do!
Thank you so much for sharing that about your faith, and thank you for being here! Blessings to you 🙏🏾
Good listening to a black man with integrity and character.
Hi Anton, I enjoyed your video. I am trying to figure when I will be going to Ghana for good. I married a Ghanaian last year. It is challenging trying to work things out. I definitely get what you were speaking about. Please, also let me know about this masters that you said can be paid to get if I understood you correctly. Thanks. Much success to you on your journey.
As a Ghanaian, i will only advise you to visit for at least 4-10 times before you can make YOUR OWN decision to move permanently. And remember Ghana is not ONLY Accra. You want to thrive then other regions in Ghana should be visited before making your mind where you really want to move for good. Good luck.
Im a muslim because of this i fit in very well to african culture although im not accepted into to the culture fully i fit in abit better because of it.
As salaamu alaikum
I didn't fit in well as a Muslim because they incorporate culture into the religion.. it's ok as long as it is living by the Sunnah❤
That is a very good story. I enjoyed listening. You are now a wise 37 year-old establishing yourself back in your homeland and I wish you the best, Anton.
9:06 dating is an exchange. Foreingers go to countries where people may have less money and often use those people. Either for sex, tour guides etc, and then leave. So, if the local person gets involved with a foreigner they need to have assurance the person wont just up and leave. How many foreign women abroad geg left pregnant with new expenses of taking care of a baby. Not to mention how hard it would be to find a local husband because they now have child by a foreign one....
I was born and raised in Africa but i have always fancy traveling abroad... last year the dream finally came true and boom.. It made me appreciate home even more.. I have completed my master's degree having a job and honestly, I don't like it here except for the money cause obviously it pays more than in africa. I have learned that black people abroad we have literally very litle if nothing in common except the same skin color... all this to say that if God is to bless you he can do it in different ways and most time it takes going after what we think matters to actually realize what really matters and what makes our life fulfilled. Meanwhile, you're the first person I've heard who still has these values of having a stable family life, children and such... most people I have met here don't believe in God, and don't think it matters to have a family life ..aha I find it a very sad way of looking at life. Anyhow so many pros and cons but nothing ever gets better than home.. haha
Make $USD passively and live in Africa , that way you will have US money flowing in to take care of all your needs and wants and able to invest in business in Africa!
Greatly appreciate your honesty understanding what is really true about us not being african,treated totally &completely different people. You have a very kind loving heart that embraces everyone no matter how they treat you.Which is an amazing testament to who you are as a being connected to the divine creator .
Your taking to long to just say why u left
Why doesn't he want to say "he" or "she" instead of this person X and person O b.s.?
right?
@Onlyfacts0224 I don't OVERstand stupid comments and broken english! What are you speaking?
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He come and talking it now and when he was having fun no one knew about it but because it didn't work out for him he is saying all these stuff about finding relationship at home so said on his part 🫣🤔
Phoenix? Ouch!!! It’s super duper hot in Arizona. Great storytelling!!!
Everything happens for a reason!!! I also thought about moving to Africa but God has a funny way of showing you some things... With all the stories about what has been happening in Africa with the disporians have taught me a lot and I'm glad I didn't rush into moving to Africa just because of what's happening here in America and the selling of all of my things and giving up my apartment would have been devastating...starting over isn't that easy...I live in New York City...it's not that easy to start all over especially if you don't have family...so...I have to get it right!!! I'm not moving to any Country or state unless I have a passive income coming in or some kind of income that brings in some kind of resources...I have been doing research on Africa for about 4 years and I was so hell-bent on buying land...building a home in Africa but I just don't like the things that I'm hearing and seeing as far as how they're treating African Americans over there..the stealing of land...the unaliving of some disporians in certain parts of Africa...it's so deep and I never want to put myself in a situation where something happens to me...especially coming as a single woman...I do like Rwanda but I have to still do some research...I will say this...if I do go to Africa I have to come to buy and build...I don't want to have to rent in Africa...it's getting expensive...you have to own...there's no other way
Very good points, and thanks for sharing! I'm glad you're doing your research and waiting before making any moves.
That's because you still don't get it that Africa is not a country but a continent with 54 countries. What's happening in Gambia and Ghana is not whats happening in other countries. You don't need 4 years of research if you have access to 24/7 high speed internet. I can research any country within a few days to understand the environment, culture and economy.
@jayajaya788. Yes, please do your research carefully. I have been to Rwanda it's one of the least corrupt country in Africa. The country has a zero tolerant for corruption. It's a beautiful country. My only problem which is minor is I can't do those hills 😆 I need to live on flat land. Kenya is another beautiful country.
I live in NYC & have been going back & forth about giving up my apt(cheap rent)😂 I've been going to diff parts of Africa for 15 yrs. Thinking about moving next yr, 'cause NYC has also changed a lot. I've helped someone expand their biz in GH, still brainstorming on my passive income.
The best thing about the blue passport is we can always return.
@@Accuface2000moreover...listening to CNN & BBC, they are the inventors of lies...a blood thirsty nation bent on doing anything to maintain world power status. Look at American billionaire Ray Dailio documentary on "changing world powers"
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I loved the "idea" of living in Africa, but after visiting several times I realized that I was in love with my romanticized version of Africa---an Africa that does not yet exist.
I need to have 24-hour power, Internet and decent infrastructure. These are basic things I need to support my life and family in the 21st century.
This is not asking Africa to do something it cannot do, just as it's not asking Asia, Europe or the Americas to do this. #NoMoreExcuses #HoldLeadersToAccount
Very true!!
Interesting video. As an old white guy I appreciate your honesty and candor. I live in Mesa and Arizona can be a great place. I hope you get a chance to go back and experience other countries. You have a lot of wisdom and you will be a success at whatever you decide to do.
Siyaphila kunjani my brother? 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Ngiyapila, enkosi 🙏🏾
@@AntonsClassnee man😂😂😂kan jy darm Afrikaans praat😂😂?asking for myself😊
Anton I wish you the best you will find that someone your very informative. Continue to love you first growing and learning wherever you go. Proud of you too by the way at 30 something taking the leap of faith to go abroad cool.
You must have a passive income.. your saving will go very fast without income..
It is good to travel and learn, and appreciate what u have at the end.