How To Stay Motivated When Life Feels Hopeless
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- How to stay motivated and taking action when life feels hopeless and like it will never work out for you.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 28 year old viewer from Europe who has been following my work since 2017. He met his dream woman right before the lockdowns in 2020. He says he got lazy and complacent and stopped making her feel heard and understood and then lost her to another guy. 1 year later and he is struggling to find his motivation. He’s had a hard time since then. Lots of drugs and alcohol, feeling depressed and sleeping all day. He hasn’t met anyone who comes close to making him feel the way he did with his ex. He feels like it’s hopeless and he should just give up.
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“Pain is life’s way to of telling you it’s time to change things.” I felt that one
Corey, I wish you could have seen down the road that day looking up at the ceiling.... at my life, as it was coming apart, as my wife of 18 years was divorcing me. In my darkest hours of life I stumbled across a man name Corey Wayne. You changed the direction of my life forever. I can hardly believe what I see in the mirror today. The ex's eyes are alway full of regret, when I see her (we have kids), but I would not have found your work if it were not for that divorce.
I wish I could have been the man I am today for her when we were still married, but the past is behind me. My life is incredible now, and my future relationships will be amazing. Your "work" is flowing through me to the world.
Thanks Corey,
Wes
The part about being the man you are now back then for them hit home with me. It stings
I feel the exact same way and people NOTICE when you carry this mentality for multiple years. Everything in your life changes. Especially for an entrepreneur type who's doing his own thing, Corey teaches so much crucial mental lessons
Thanks form making this coach Wayne. You're really making the world a better place, even though you can't see it all the time.
I’m going through the hardest time of my life at the moment. Each day is a battle but I have my goals and I’m focused on reaching them. Once I do and I find happiness I will look back and thank myself for carrying on.
Keep going my friend!
The fact as a man that you have to be consistent and stay on top makes me feel the misery already I truly want to find someone that is willing to do effort as much as I not 50/50 but 100/100 problem is it’s hard to find someone like that
First real comment. This a great video but I'd like to offer advice. Finding hobbies like playing guitar, learning stocks and crypto, always have mystery to yourself and always be making that money, women and relationships can be expensive. Luckily, I'm with a woman who lived on the streets with me for a few years and she was willing to do her part and holding signs, pretending to be pregnant, canning. We were a team then and now we have a home and we're an even bigger team
U have a good woman. Court her right and make her feel heard and understood.
@Nana Kwame there was a time when things were not going so well but it was actually because of my own insecurities and feeling like I had BPD all the time like I was going to be abandoned and then I listen to the book 50 times and I started applying those materials to my relationship it took a few weeks for her to finally believe me but now she seems she is in her feminine and I am back in my masculine and we are doing great. Thank you for the reply
@@hamza1517 thank u for saying that. I read that comment out loud to her thank you
I wish I could find a ride or die girl, these girls are just thoting mower days
Now I know I’m doing the right thing by ignoring females on the streets holding a sign begging!
Thanks Corey, I really needed this today. Im 34, 3 years into my business and barely making ends meet. Grinding it out and learning every day.
been here since 2013. Thank you Coach for everything. what a ride this has been.
Thanks for sticking around 🤙
Been here since 2016!
Coach Corey Wayne is the Man!!
@@CoachCoreyWayne most needed video coach!
I’m in my second day of law school right now and I feel absolutely overwhelmed thank you for this video Corey it’s giving me hope to keep on pushing
Really appreciated the personal aspect of this advice and how you yourself went through hard times. It adds so much credibility to what you're saying. It's helpful to know that these struggles are universal and spare no one, even someone as wise and adept as you. It makes me want to try even harder. I think this is one of the best videos I've ever seen on this topic. I feel much better than before I started. Thank you.
I reasonated in so many ways with the guy who sent the email as well as coach's experience. It's at times of ambiguity and uncertainty where we have to let our drive, our character and our principles to guide us. To believe and work towards our goals/ dreams when we aren't feeling motivated, happy or worthy
keep fighting the good fight fellow comrades!
Coach, I am grateful for the day after day motivations and actions you have taken to help myself and Others. I can honestly say you have helped me be a better man .
You are amazing Corey. I cannot express how grateful I am for your knowledge. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Thanks coach, great video and really helps with the situation I'm going through. My wife left me 2 months ago after basically doing the same things this guy did. Read the book 7 years ago and forgot everything I had learned. Got stuck in a job that while good paying did not drive or motivate me and that affected all aspects of my life. Slowly trying to pull myself out of the hole I dug and some days are better than others but just trying to keep pushing forward.
After several financial 'disasters', the end of a 40 year marriage, and a few short failed relationships I find myself in my mid 60s running around waiting tables, like Corey did in his 30s, just to survive. It's all a hell of a lot harder when you're my age and quite frankly completely worn out in every area of life.
@@timgibney5590 I'd better get there (wherever 'there' is) soon, I'm running out of life 🤣 The divorce was the highlight of my life; it's just been all back down the hill since then 🤷♀️
Holy hell, 40 years? I'm about to pass out for you. That's an eternity. I hope you can get your life back together asap. This motivates me to do great things and don't let women get in the way.
I've tried so many other dating coaches stuff, and got mixed results. definitely improved and got me a number or two, but Corey Wayne's book took me to levels i've never thought possible.
"Slept with 7 different women since the break up" - oh, you poor thing.
Sounds like he just needs some perspective and gratitude for what he does have. The illusion of "the one" gets people fixated on negatives when they're surrounded by a sea of positives and possibility.
Thanks for your story, coach. Was not aware you were in a situation like that at age 35-39.
Currently I am redefining my own mission in life, and there are days that feel empty or pointless. Nevertheless, I discipline myself to grow as a 3% man, workout, invest, and learn something new everyday.
I am not at the point where I want to be in life, but at least I am on my way. That takes effort and courage, which by itself feels empowering. Inaction feels awful
Yes! Bring these back!
Thank you, coach. Respect to you. This is what I needed.
I've found that with me the time we were together equals the time it takes to fully let go when it's over.
You have to concentrate on yourself and work to let this girl go. It's hard but you need to do it.
I appreciate you a lot Coach!
Wow I just needed this 😢
Coach Cory Wayne this is an excellent video. Thanks for putting it out for us to see. All that is said in this video is not far fetched, its all realistic. Thanks for your guidance. 👌
This is exactly what I needed because I am feeling the exact same way this person who sent the e-mail. It’s very frustrating and draining when things aren’t living up to how you want it to go. Now it seems I have to take more action and what’s best for me before anything else. Thanks for the video, Coach.
One of your greatest videos coach!!!👍
Talk about a total depression.... I'm in the back off phase now.
Thank you for your work coach!
Needed this today. Ty
Awesome video, thanks for the motivation. Good things take time.
Really appreciate these videos. Thanks coach.
This guy is the best
i love the grind.
Good talk
Love this
Thank you coach!
People don't go into relationships to give. They want sadly lol
Amen!
His whole life is just looking for a woman to complete him and make him happy.
It's like the old say, "Become what you want to attract." Focus on yourself and everything else will work itself out.
Ray Dalio the changing of word orders, check it out
It's eating me away :(
Well try telling the See You Next Thursday Reviewers with NDIS not yo cancel people’s funding
21:00 This is when we separate the men from the boys.
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Thanks coach. I love when you post videos like this. Your philosophy is awesome & you communicate it well
It's a humbling experience. Been there done that. I had to completely rebuild my life twice. The first time was the worst as I was broke when I started my first business. After becoming successful with that business I closed up shop and started another business. I had money this time but it almost broke me physically and mentally. That's my last new business maybe. I'm getting better. Failure is a great teacher and motivator. Thanks for your work.
Women require so much more maintenance than us guys do. They're always chasing butterflies. It can be exhausting honestly. This is why lots of guys are just stepping away from dating all together.
@@timgibney5590 I absolutely don't agree with a lot of red pill stuff, but the whole constant courtship and dating them is absolutely them want that "Spark/butterflies". Us guys really don't need that shit. We're far more simple. Keeping a woman happy is like having a 2nd job. Hell it's a 3rd job if you have the kids. I've fallen on hard times a few times and my life and have lost my partner almost every time. Of course I stuck around when they were having hard times, but it's hardly ever been reciprocated. I understand that that's just the way it is and sometimes it just gets old after a while.
@@timgibney5590 Yeah I pretty much agree with you. I know I'll never make a lot of money, I work a regular 9 to 5 and am a gigging usician. It's my number one passion and I'll never stop doing it. I've accepted it and rather than chase money, I chase happiness above everything else 👍
Thanks for this, I am also a 28 year old man just starting to move my way up in my career. Your work is very helpful.
The fucking adds...
What does dating and courting a woman mean? It is not explained in the book
I am on this path as well. After I broke up it took a bit to get back into life. She was supposed to be my wife until she went insane and ruined it all and forced me to break up. But after I kicked her out I got very sad and depressed and had to put that into energy with the gym, stocks, business, career etc. Take the time to heal, get right with the big man upstairs and focus not being idol. It will fix and heal. Just takes some time
The fatherly advice we all need
I have a scuba class this Fall, I'm so stoked!
Thank you Coach. Always masterfully told by you.
Perfect timing Coach! 🙏🏽
I'm content but never satisfied with my life. I continually try to work and improve myself but I try to find contentment with where I'm at.
"When you enjoy your company, you'll be good company." WOW!
Hi, Corey, I really enjoyed this video . I’ve been following you for the past couple of years. You’re one of the few UA-camrs that brings a balanced perspective on things
Great stuff coach. That's brilliant advice.
Good tips, never been in bust like this one. Really digging into self improvement, soil, sod, love is about giving. Give to yourself first.
This has to be the best motivational video I've come accross on UA-cam. Bravo 👏 👏
Thank you Corey...for everything.
Best coach ever Mr Wayne
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