Overcoming Relationship Failures, Insecurities & Self Doubt
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- The proper mindset required to overcome relationship failures, insecurities and self doubt.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss 2 different emails from 2 different viewers. The 1st email is from a viewer who is on his 3rd read of 3% Man. He has 2 failed marriages and has realized much of his relationship failures were due to his inability to remain in his masculine consistently. He’s very successful, except when it comes to his fear of losing women. The 2nd email is from a guy who went out on a date with a girl who slid into his DM’s. However, she brought some friends and he ended up hooking up with her even hotter girlfriend. He thought everything went great, but during the morning walk of shame, she was cold, her demeanor had changed and made him feel unwelcome in her home. He has another date with her set up, but he’s still disturbed how their connection was so good the night before and non-existent in the morning. He wonders if it was the alcohol and not really him being charming. Both guys are struggling with validating their self esteem upon the approval and acceptance of others.
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Got Corey’s book today, read the first 10 pages! split with my ex of 9 years last month now I’m focusing on me! I’m heartbroken and I’m scared but I’m also excited for the next chapter of my life! ✊🏻
Respect my man, get after it🤙🤙
Yea man, good luck. Only go forward to better things 👊🏻
Being scared mean you are going in the right direction !! If you weren’t that would mean that you were in your comfort zone. We got this 💪🏽💪🏽
100,000 to 150,000 times man.
Right on 👍 I got his work when I got broken up with and it super charged my life!
Best of luck to you dude 👏🍺
Corey is in my head! Needed this today!
Same here 😂
The opening monologue to this video is one of your all-time best Corey!
For the gentleman that had a hard time getting up, make sure to stay hydrated. Drinking can be a sex drive killer depending on the alcohol and consumption too, good luck 💯
In this dopamine-rush age I’m beginning to learn that men also benefit from not sleeping with girls straight away.
Since I've started using your book and making sure i'm taking notes and highlighting i have seen a difference, however i am human and at times catch my self making a mistake or my mind attempting to latch on to the past, it is something i have to work on. Like you coach i learn the best when i make my mistakes through trial and error and i get better every time and i have learned repetition is the mother of skill. ive reached a point in my life where if i meet someone cool if it doesnt work out hey thats cool too, but i am also more so focused on my career and most importantly my son he is 9 i have to set the example for him and will not fail. idk if youll ever see this message but i wanted to say thank you for accepting your calling and sharing it with us. you have been an amazing coach and will practice what you preach for the end of my times as always see you in the next one coach, be safe!
Corey is way better than typical pick up artist shit. It’s about finding out how to become the man the pick up artist “gurus” are trying to get you to pretend to be. Genuinely loving yourself. Corey is the man
Thank you Coach.
Ayy!! Cool to hear you’re a Heat fan. Too bad Jimmy couldn’t get it done. The man gave everything he had in his tank, we just need “that” guy. Hopefully Pat Riley Pulls the trigger on Damian Lillard
As a gay man myself, I laughed with your "three girls" comment 🤣🤣🌈
Great words of advice, Coach. 💪🏾💪🏾
I remember you talking about Lebron years ago, and how it seemed like he constantly attracted his fear in big games . What an awesome parallel to connect to. Still disappointed for butler and abedayo
Dude didn't need to choke that guy to death....
Thanks man. I went out with a crazy beautiful life portrait model last night and she was asking me about sex, we kissed a lot in my car but I was absolutely drained as fuck from work and was tired by 11pm and started to fumble the football, I could barely formulate a sentence and I got kinda deep and awkward ffs (I study philosophy so I have the tendency to get a bit deep)🤣 I kissed her on her doorstep but she didn't invite me in so I'm gonna call her up on Thursday. This is my first experience with a 10 in my eyes so I guess I'm here seeking solidarity which is maybe kinda weak but fuck it, got to start somewhere right
Hang out have fun hook up dude. Don’t chase, don’t seek a commitment. That’s her job and she’ll be down to it when you let her
@@nathantinsley07 thank you sir I appreciate the reminder. Spent 5 years single building myself up and I'm 23 now, ready to win but I must keep doing the things I did to get here
It’s not about winning. It’s about seeing reality as it is. Takes awhile to get good at it. But it’ll make you successful in more than just dating.
@@nathantinsley07 I feel as though I'm moving in the right direction to generalise what I'm learning so if you don't mind do you know any books or anything else that has helped you out? I'm open to pretty much anything
@@cyrusthompson2185 I would say focus on actually getting the 10-15 times of this book read first. Then you can add other stuff. Today video is a really good one. Indifference creates attraction
Can you do a podcast on wandering eyes? Is it a fireable offense? Is it a red flag? Why does it happen? What does it usually indicate? What goes thru a man’s mind when he’s doing that? Does it mean that they’re not attracted to you? Thanks, Coach Wayne.
Don't forget the "ratlines" too from WW2 , they were helping war-criminals escape through Italy etc to south America
Surprised to see Correy have on his recommended reading list Power vs Force by David Hawkins (Fantastic books and so are his other writings) and Models by Mark Manson, which is one of the best books on seduction besides 3% Man.
I have a question and would like anyone's thoughts. I asked out this woman with the direct approach as I only see her at her job. She paused and I heard a hmm then she said i'm in a relationship. I said ok no worries have a good day and left. My observations are she lied about being in a relationship because the fact she said hmm means she was thinking should I go out with this guy or not then decided not to. What does everyone think?
Who knows. Could of been a lie or not. Really none of your business. Best not to dwell on these random encounters with women. Only thing for certain is it just wasn't the right time. On to the next.
I’d love to see some one going thru alcohol withdrawal with testicular fortitude
At that point that person would have to put all their efforts into sobriety. No time for women when trying to get clean.
LeBum. They had no business loosen to Mavs
Wondering if Corey is a Canes fan too
Go panthers
💪💪💪
Yeh but, The Miami Heat got very lucky to make it all the way to the finals. They shouldhave lost the first round against Milwaukee Bucks who had a much bigger and more talented team. They just played very casual and Miami smashed them. They were never going to beat the Denver Nuggets. Denver are way to big and talented. I will say this though Miami are very competative.
Can’t really go hard on yourself when you go after hoes and narcissistic personality disorder women.
It’s bound to fail making them LTR. Just need better discernment and watch for the red flags.
Maybe she wanted you leave so she could drop a deuce in peace
Corey's information, literally, saved my ass!! I got a lot of information from others but it wasn't until I found "3% Man" that things really changed.
Another book is one that Corey also recommends called "The Way of the Superior Man." Another must read.
Finally, I turned things around in my early 50's. It's never too late! I'm happier than I've ever been. But, you have to start looking at your past as a positive. A failure, or failures, as a positive experience! As the saying goes, our past happens FOR us, not TO us!! STOP the negative self talk!!! Meditate to give yourself power over your thoughts!! Cut out ALL negative information that you put into your mind. If you eat crap all day you're going to be physically unhealthy. If you put crap into your mind, you're going to be mentally/emotionally unhealthy!! And, practice, practice, practice!!
It's up to you!!!
This is amazing 🎉 congratulations. Iv read his books and recommended books as well and also improved my life by practicing over a span of 8 years from 18-26
Thank you Corey! This is exactly what i was in dire need of !
You're talking nonsense. People who are evil fare better in life, that's practically a fact. People who are youngest child in family, especially in family with 3 or more children are selfish, but manipulative and very confident, because from they born they are center of the universe for whole family and relatives. Oldest sons are mom's favorite child always, most time, money and efford are invested in them. And after they achieve something, they are very proud of yourself and they say it's their credit. Middle child always fare the worst, that's fact. as for girls, the meaner and meaner a person is, the more attractive he is to girls. Also, beautiful girls would give anything just to be with a tall guy, because short and average are not good enough for them. Ugly but true
Coach the sport references are spot on for us hardcore sports guys. Keep them coming!
Just keep in mind, all pro sports are scripted and rigged
Good guys don't kill people.
Knowing about your childhood from your book, I bet you have experienced this firsthand and have overcome it. You set a great example for us other guys.
It took me 3 approaches to realise I was doing everything wrong but it’s so hard to unlearn all the bad patterns I do but slowly getting results and changing habits well done Coach
Thanks Corey! ❤️🤝🏿
bro you just ranted here a whole political treatise
Love your Lebron comment. Spot on
Jokic is the man 😊
Coaching it!
Awe man don't forget the best shooter of all time Larry Bird Corey " Come on man" lol the Celtics rocked in the 80s!Celtics vs Lakers in the 80s was the best time for b -ball imo
Question soo my girlfriend and i are like 2 months exclusive rn and her attraction level is a 10 but sometimes she ask le to come over and then she cooks diner but when im with her i feel so disinterested and bored ONLY on like those spontaneous dates not the arranged dates...i do love her and miss her but why do i feel like this? Is it because i might be seeing her too much FOR MY CONFORT (not hers) maybe the feelinh that im losing my freedom? Idk what it is...
Remember it's 3 Hs, not just hangout. You need all three or it won't be fulfilling for you or her. It's also not her job to entertain you. You also don't have to hang out with her as much. Both of you should have great lives outside of each other. Then come together to compliment those lives.
Corey coming in clutch today. Thank you for the great vid brotha
The title of this video is talikng about me and my life. 😮
Let's Go Heat!
Yeah I needed this video too lol
Go Mavs! 🔵🐴
Corey don't dwell on the Heat lol! Hell of a season! But thank you for the video and all you do