My Father Murdered My Mom-Collier

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  • @collierlandry
    @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +9299

    Thank you so much for allowing me to honor my mother on her birthday, September 28th. I hope that sharing this message can inspire and enrich others and give them hope.

    • @rachelleensor3147
      @rachelleensor3147 3 місяці тому +270

      She is a beautiful soul, blessed to have you for a son! 🥰 What a special way to honor her, happy birthday.

    • @chanteldow
      @chanteldow 3 місяці тому +206

      You are amazing and brave! Thank you again Collier ❤

    • @erinmarinello6583
      @erinmarinello6583 3 місяці тому +138

      Thank you so much for sharing your life experiences, Collier! It was a pleasure and an honor. ❤

    • @ZettEspinoza
      @ZettEspinoza 3 місяці тому +172

      You honored every mother out there, including me. ❤

    • @GenXtothe7thPower
      @GenXtothe7thPower 3 місяці тому +115

      It’s a beautiful sentiment in honor of a beautiful woman and mother, who raised you with the strength, honor and heart, this had me in tears in moments and incredibly inspirational at other moments. Loved it.

  • @JulieBeck-m4u
    @JulieBeck-m4u 3 місяці тому +4856

    I've never posted on SWU until now. At 9 years old I opened the door to my dad, covered in blood, he'd been out with mum that night on an LVA meet. I asked where mum was, he told me he killed her then said get to bed. I did, waited till I heard him snoring then called the police on him. They found her. Thought she was dead. She wasn't. Left her in a ditch, broken collar bones, broken shoulder, unconscious, unrecognizable and beaten to a pulp. She's still here now and thankfully he isn't. My mum is such a good woman that when my dad got in touch 34 years later to say he wanted to see me because he was dying she said go. I went, I was there because a dying man wanted me there. Feel guilty as hell because I had no feelings for him. He died to me many years ago. But mum brought me up well. I thank God I never ended up like him.
    This story struck me hard.

    • @SoftWhiteUnderbelly
      @SoftWhiteUnderbelly  3 місяці тому +358

      Very interesting story Julie. If you’d like to share it here please email me. info@softwhiteunderbelly.com

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +420

      I'm sorry you have also experienced such pain and loss. Thank you for sharing your story here with our community. Praying for your healing, and I hope you continue to find support in my content.

    • @Angie-d3k
      @Angie-d3k 3 місяці тому +27

    • @stephanied9629
      @stephanied9629 3 місяці тому +98

      How horrific. I’m sorry you and your mom went through all of that! I’m so glad your mom lived.

    • @mariondi
      @mariondi 3 місяці тому +73

      You are able to portray your experience with such details I felt I was there.
      Your testimony ability is next to none.
      Spreading love , offering support by reaching out having lived through pure fear and trauma actually blows my mind..
      You are extremely articulate which makes it the more fascinating.
      The elegance and beauty of your stunning mother is felt through it all..
      Thank you for sharing my friend. 🌿
      Love fr Paris, France.

  • @annsee3805
    @annsee3805 3 місяці тому +908

    My husband of 26 years tried to murder me when I filed for divorce in 1994. Our three children were away that night. He beat and tortured me for several hours. He told me I would be buried in the cemetary across the road and would never see the faces of my children again. I managed to get away and ran to a neighbors home. He was arrested and received probation and mandatory anger counseling. I am 74 now, and still a practicing nurse. He died of cancer 7 years ago. I have such a beautiful life and am very close to my children. I am so grateful to be here. Im so sorry you had to go through such sorrow

    • @4MixMasterMonkey
      @4MixMasterMonkey 3 місяці тому +20

      WOW! All these SWU stories never cease to amaze me. I’m so terribly sorry you had to go through that & did not receive the justice you so rightfully deserved. I’m happy you’re happy…wherever you are in life! Sending love & light from Brooklyn, NY 💙

    • @Lizs1231
      @Lizs1231 3 місяці тому +15

      I’m so grateful you survived. I’m sorry you went through that. WONDERFUL you and your children are happy❤

    • @Catgrass755
      @Catgrass755 3 місяці тому +10

      What a horrific experience, I'm so sorry you went through that and all it's aftermath. You deserve the beautiful life you have.

    • @imonlytellingthetruth
      @imonlytellingthetruth 3 місяці тому +18

      I'm so sorry your husband tried to murder you and then get off with probation and 'anger counselling', as the 2nd attack and insult to your body and mind. What will it take for the laws that be put these men away for good? ANd you survived to have what you refer to as 'a beautiful life' and that you are close with your children. Please keep enjoying your life. You deserve only the best.

    • @mellowyellow2022
      @mellowyellow2022 3 місяці тому +18

      Your story mirrors mine. I was significantly younger than my ex and he was an alcoholic and on drugs. He died of cancer as well. At that point I was able to finally breathe comfortably. So many have horrifying stories they never share openly. I pray for you, Collier, all the people suffering abuse at the hands of another. I can confirm, it stays with a person through life. 🙏

  • @ZipZap-r3u
    @ZipZap-r3u 3 місяці тому +1723

    This man had more stones at 12 than 90% of adult humans on earth. Collier you are a strong soul.

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +74

      Thank you so much and for watching and commenting! Have a wonderful day!

    • @ZipZap-r3u
      @ZipZap-r3u 3 місяці тому +32

      @@collierlandry Thank you so much for sharing. Dear god man you have wielded your misfortunes to move closer to light and love and true empowerment. I so admire you. I so admire your mom. Thank you.

    • @sbrown8937
      @sbrown8937 3 місяці тому +13

      Collier, I am so, so
      sorry. I am praying for much love and healing and peace for you.
      🤍✌️🙏

    • @RambleOn.
      @RambleOn. 3 місяці тому +5

      You should look up his testimony in court- more stones than 99% probably!
      He has a GREAT UA-cam channel ❤️

    • @MJ-se3ng
      @MJ-se3ng 3 місяці тому +2

      UNBELIEVABLE that your own flesh and blood would not take you in because you looked like your father just so you could be completed abandoned by your entire family, after all you'd already endured. It speaks VOLUMES about their hearts & I'm absolutely appalled. I just wish I could hug the adolescent "you". I believe in karma & hope that they are haunted by their choices in this situation. Thank you for sharing your experience with all of us. ❤

  • @PlanningwithCharley
    @PlanningwithCharley 3 місяці тому +2285

    "I wasn't him, I was my mother's son. I got some great qualities from him, but I got the best ones from her."
    👌🏻❤

    • @latoychamom
      @latoychamom 3 місяці тому +45

      This gave me chills 🩷 I have 2 boys and I nodded in agreement as he said it. Yes you are your mother’s son, Collier, and you are radiating her love through how you continue to embrace humanity. Well done to you!!

    • @cathymarble3283
      @cathymarble3283 3 місяці тому +10

      Same!

    • @Nzmwwww1238
      @Nzmwwww1238 3 місяці тому +1

      Isn’t he his father’s son too? 😅

    • @catherineflahr6160
      @catherineflahr6160 3 місяці тому +15

      @@Nzmwwww1238 Get a grip, kbw19!

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +18

      Thank you ❤

  • @causticwit
    @causticwit 3 місяці тому +399

    The fact that those family members refused to take him in just because he physically resembled his dad... That's vile.

    • @RahShanProductionsMTU
      @RahShanProductionsMTU 2 місяці тому +49

      Definitely that’s some dirt bag shit. And he was the one that made sure his mother got justice. Terrible people smh

    • @aw8951
      @aw8951 2 місяці тому +27

      Both sides of the family too... He didnt deserve this as a child. Horrible, selfish adults.

    • @Roneish1996
      @Roneish1996 2 місяці тому +29

      And the brother of the murderer who was his wife’s best friend told him that he wouldn’t take him unless he told them it was all lies is some evil shit too. Seriously fuck that guy.

    • @sziglesias2011
      @sziglesias2011 15 днів тому +1

      My mouth dropped when I heard him say that…..unbelievable.. he was a child

    • @geezerparadox
      @geezerparadox 4 дні тому

      I bet all of them go to church too.

  • @kwanelehlophe5902
    @kwanelehlophe5902 3 місяці тому +835

    "Trauma is such a nuanced thing because so many people can handle so much and so many people can handle so little"

    • @dianejacobson9367
      @dianejacobson9367 3 місяці тому +27

      I nodded my head at that too! It’s very true.

    • @jazzbea6243
      @jazzbea6243 3 місяці тому +28

      Well said. The complexities of how people process trauma is vast.

    • @angelagreen1266
      @angelagreen1266 3 місяці тому +14

      Profound.

    • @lorigbasmajian3843
      @lorigbasmajian3843 3 місяці тому +9

      No, people never can handle a lot of trauma

    • @DavidWhy-y7i
      @DavidWhy-y7i 3 місяці тому +8

      @@lorigbasmajian3843
      ultimately
      That’s it
      you’re right

  • @msbondutoyou520
    @msbondutoyou520 3 місяці тому +1270

    I worked at the preschool in Dahlgren VA when Collier attended. He was a spectacularly beautiful child and we all admired his mother Noreen. She was sweet, happy and always impeccably dressed. So sad but I’m glad to see just how resilient Collier is.

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +156

      Wow, that's amazing! I love hearing things like this about her.

    • @0mousse0
      @0mousse0 3 місяці тому +24

      Coincidently (to me) I went to preschool in Fairfax in 2000. Things like this feel like stories until you realize it weaves into your own story like the marvel universe. Believe others, trust your gut, stay safe 💛

    • @tracythomas1882
      @tracythomas1882 3 місяці тому +16

      What a wonderful testimony. Glad you did great things. You are truly an empathetic person.

    • @dianehess5520
      @dianehess5520 2 місяці тому +7

      Seems like when the patriarch of a family dies the family does go into different directions. Life changed drastically from one generation to the next in our family, actually for the best.

    • @rachelkachun6063
      @rachelkachun6063 18 днів тому +3

      Collier, you are extraordinary ❤

  • @idkvwad
    @idkvwad 3 місяці тому +210

    Damn, Collier. Your story moved me. I dont really ever comment on these videos but I feel like this is as good a time as any to say I can relate. I was born in Russia in 97'. My father murdered my mother when I was 2. My sisters were 6 and 7 at the time. We spent a year in a russian orphanage before an american couple swooped us up. We were fortunate enough to be adopted by amazing parents and i'm beyond grateful for the life ive been given here in the US.
    Sharing your story is a beautiful way to honor your mothers legacy. Im so sorry that you saw so much trauma, and at such a young age nonetheless. You're strong for what you did and I know your mom would be so proud. Take care - hugs from Minnesota

    • @mphillips01ify
      @mphillips01ify 3 місяці тому +20

      Initially, one might think it odd that a woman would confide in her young son, a child, that his father had the potential of being a murderer, and if something should happen to her, it was he that caused it.
      I think she confided in you that day because she knew that you would believe her, that you would understand the situation and more importantly, that if something did happen, you could be relied upon to do something about it. That says a lot about both you and your mom.

    • @valenteenaes
      @valenteenaes 3 місяці тому +4

      🙏🙏🤗🍀🍀🍀

    • @annewilson7812
      @annewilson7812 2 місяці тому

      @@mphillips01ify😊😮. 😊qomc😂

    • @tajavillasenor5923
      @tajavillasenor5923 Місяць тому +3

      Thank u for sharing ur story as well 🙏

    • @casandraholmes9004
      @casandraholmes9004 6 днів тому +1

      Absolutely thankful for u also to share part of your life story it helps in so many ways and may God continue to bless you mentally physically emotionally financially and spiritually 🙏🏾❤🌹🤟🏾🙏🏾

  • @Lindsey1010
    @Lindsey1010 3 місяці тому +638

    a little boy felt the need to keep a list of his mothers friends just in case something terrible happened is truly heartbreaking. Collier went through such traumatic events that nobody should ever experience. May his mom rest in peace♥️

    • @MissLisaBowes
      @MissLisaBowes 2 місяці тому +5

      Children know when they feel unsafe. His mother felt unsafe and expressed it to him, because sadly, he was all she had. The fact that he woke up knowing something was not alright says it all. It is so obvious that this man had C.’s grandmother there to somehow give him an alibi and someone to look after the kids. He planned that and somehow Noreen knew he was capable. He is exactly where he should be and it was appropriate that his son had a hand in it. I also believe C. when he has said he felt his father may have wanted to even kill him. I think his instincts are to be trusted. If anything, C. has learned that. Extraordinary story and fella, indeed.

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 24 дні тому +2

      Thank you so much for watching.

    • @haleyhardin
      @haleyhardin 21 день тому +1

      I kept thinking that this entire time. What horrible things a child had to deal with.
      What a survivor though. ❤

  • @dawn6232
    @dawn6232 3 місяці тому +919

    In the words of Dr. Robert Block, the former President of the American Academy of Pediatrics, "Adverse childhood experiences are the greatest unaddressed public health threat facing our nation today."
    It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. -Frederick Douglass.

    • @CowgirlKim
      @CowgirlKim 3 місяці тому +13

      @@dawn6232 💯 #truth

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +29

      That is a great comment and a great quote! Thank you so much for watching!

    • @dawn6232
      @dawn6232 3 місяці тому +11

      @@collierlandry you have been through a lot. Your mom is proud of you, I’m sure. ❤️

    • @lifemusic1980
      @lifemusic1980 3 місяці тому +7

      💯

    • @kal22222
      @kal22222 3 місяці тому +19

      Gabor Mate has some really good info childhood trauma and addiction

  • @aliciaa.8059
    @aliciaa.8059 Місяць тому +32

    This has to be my most favorite interview. Collier is the son we as Mama’s all around hope to have. I pray he continues to heal and have a prosperous and loving life 🩵

  • @peggycampbell905
    @peggycampbell905 3 місяці тому +671

    I worked in Mansfield and we listened to the trial everyday. It was amazing how brave and articulate Collier was for his age. He never backed down and thankfully he had a cop watching his back and believing in him all the way.❤❤

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 3 місяці тому +15

      I seen his story on forensic files

    • @southtoe3607
      @southtoe3607 3 місяці тому

      And now his POS dad gets to rot in prison

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +108

      Lt. Detective Dave Messmore saved my life. He's a great man!

    • @redisetgo.
      @redisetgo. 3 місяці тому

      Mansfield TX???

    • @delializarraga9638
      @delializarraga9638 3 місяці тому +21

      @@collierlandry there really are... Earth Angels.
      Lt Mansfield was placed in your path for a reason, to guard and guide you.
      The more we open our eyes to see the miracles and the majesty of our existence, the more you will see these types of things emerge before you.
      Wishing you all the best in your future as you move forward and especially in your career as you tell your story. What a beautiful way to honor your mother, especially on her birthday. ♥️

  • @ZipZap-r3u
    @ZipZap-r3u 3 місяці тому +1123

    it's a fucking massive help Mark. At least twice your content has kept me from relapsing. Because of that I can be a better dad to my son, a better husband to my wife, and a better person to other people. You are the best thing that ever happened to sociology

    • @GenXtothe7thPower
      @GenXtothe7thPower 3 місяці тому

      Go over to the Life Boat

    • @wpp1586
      @wpp1586 3 місяці тому

      I am telling you! I'm in a country by myself with 2 kids and divorced, the bottle was my best friend but my kids meant too much, Mark Channel came and with therapy the stories were my 2nd therapy, God bless you Mark and everything you love and believe in.🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @ewetn1
      @ewetn1 3 місяці тому +27

      You're a great dad ❤. I'm new mom and I almost relapse a lot.

    • @rachelleensor3147
      @rachelleensor3147 3 місяці тому +29

      ". . . . .The best thing that ever happened to sociology." I agree, ty Mark! 🥰

    • @TanyaDavis954
      @TanyaDavis954 3 місяці тому +13

      Agree ❤ he helps me to and he don't even no it

  • @debrawallace5230
    @debrawallace5230 3 місяці тому +103

    Our daughter was murder by her husband in 2015. Leaving a 10 month old boy without parents. Thankfully he’s growing up a great kid.

    • @Mels-world
      @Mels-world Місяць тому +7

      Im soo sorry that happened to you 😢

  • @pankochanko
    @pankochanko 3 місяці тому +469

    The family couldn’t stand looking at him because he looked like his mother’s killer… adults let their interests come first, over a child’s well-being. What a disgusting but unsurprising world we live in

    • @emilyk.5664
      @emilyk.5664 3 місяці тому +21

      Adults do this all of the time, unfortunately. Selfishness over the protection and care of a child 😢

    • @klaudia2141
      @klaudia2141 3 місяці тому +25

      I think it was just a pure excuse. They just didn't want to take him in (or any other child) and used this horrible excuse.

    • @SLF1990
      @SLF1990 3 місяці тому +13

      My cousins screwed be out of $40,000 in inheritance and they shut me off from my 3rd cousins and that side of the family saying we were greedy and everything from our grandpa should have went to them. Till this day they think they were in the right to sell off everything my grandfather had before it got handed down. The family I spent every Christmas and thanksgiving with threw away family for $40,000. I was willing to let it go but their pride and stubbornness is at such a high level it’s insane. Just now starting to get in touch with my younger cousins because they’re old enough to make their own decisions.

    • @gamingbutter5768
      @gamingbutter5768 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@SLF1990I am happy for you. It would be nice to bond with family your age but you can now break that cycle. Love wins, always.❤😊

    • @shannabanana7080
      @shannabanana7080 3 місяці тому +6

      Yes, that’s the greatest failure, can’t imagine what his mom would think looking down on her family reject her son….😢

  • @gardenalways
    @gardenalways 3 місяці тому +480

    This happened very close to home and I remember the gossip about his father around town...impregnating another woman and his affairs. He had quite a reputation. I cheered for Collier's courage when he testified in court. A co-worker was on the jury for that trial and she was off work for weeks and, of course, couldn't talk about it. You are one strong man, Collier. You've built upon something that would have decimated other souls. I commend you. I hope someday you land a deal for a feature film. I know you've had other film projects over the years but you're destined for something even bigger. Collier, I believe most people love you for who you are on the inside, for that beautiful soul within you. I know everyone at Archway was praying for you every day at lunch break after this happened. We cared because you were just a little boy and we were all moms. That motherly instinct came out in us and though we couldn't actually do it, we all wanted protection both physically and emotionally for you. So we prayed. This was a great interview. One of the best I've ever seen on Mark's channel. Best of luck to you, Collier. The old Archway gang is still rooting for you and sending up prayers for your continued success.♥

    • @bianchaesson1441
      @bianchaesson1441 3 місяці тому +25

      What beautiful sentiments you've portrayed to this beautiful remarkable soul!! A deep gratitude and sincere 'thank you' to you and your group who gave that purity of intent through your prayers and deeply sincere thoughts for Collier's tender, pure, and very courageous young soul. Without him knowing it you were giving him the greatest gift!!!❤❤❤❤ possible

    • @patricialight2846
      @patricialight2846 2 місяці тому

      Lp

    • @lovelyshirl
      @lovelyshirl 2 місяці тому +4

      What a beautiful post ❤

    • @nikistevenson1550
      @nikistevenson1550 Місяць тому

      What is the movie ? I only know to search for Collier & Noreen ​@@RambleOn.

    • @Kintucky
      @Kintucky 25 днів тому

      @@nikistevenson1550its called a murder in Mansfield. Its on his youtube channel

  • @brianbonifacio7536
    @brianbonifacio7536 2 місяці тому +10

    This was SO powerful. Thank you for telling your story. I clicked on this because 3 weeks ago, a girl I went to high school with (graduated in 1995), had been murdered by her husband and then he turned the gun on himself. Their 3 children were home at the time. I can't even begin to understand how those boys feel. My heart is with you and them.

  • @Catherine-Terra
    @Catherine-Terra 3 місяці тому +143

    This young man is the kind of son any mother would cherish and be so proud of. Continue healing Collier. You have so much to offer this crazy world. 💗

  • @BriiiiiTv
    @BriiiiiTv 3 місяці тому +511

    This is hands down one of the best episodes you ever dropped Mark. Collier you are strong and so resilient AMAZING story teller . You are a special soul thank you so much for being vulnerable and telling your story ❤️🙏🏽

  • @Nightmare-nm9hn
    @Nightmare-nm9hn 3 місяці тому +20

    You loved your mother so much , she loved you so much, you did everything to bring justice. I hope you have a wonderful life. Youre amazing. Thank you for sharing. You deserve the world!

  • @NinasHere4U
    @NinasHere4U 3 місяці тому +392

    His Dad was my Dr, I remember being shocked to hear what he had done, we never know what's going on behind closed doors.

    • @kayakingirl7252
      @kayakingirl7252 3 місяці тому +22

      Whoa!!!

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 3 місяці тому +5

      so true

    • @jazzbea6243
      @jazzbea6243 3 місяці тому +42

      Affluence and higher levels of education do not equal perfect life. Doctors take an oath to do no harm. Sometimes they break that oath. We forget that doctors are ordinary people who sometimes have demons and monsters stashed in a hidden closet.

    • @Dev-In-Denver123
      @Dev-In-Denver123 3 місяці тому +20

      My longtime gf and her mom’s dentist James Craig got arrested for murder in Aurora last year. My gf’s mom saw him 2 weeks before he was arrested. It was a big case all over the news.

    • @NinasHere4U
      @NinasHere4U 3 місяці тому +1

      @@jazzbea6243 so true

  • @carolseven3802
    @carolseven3802 3 місяці тому +98

    Your mother is the reason you have become the great man that you have become.
    The relatives who rejected you are also lacking in character. It might have been even more abusive for you to live with them.
    You had no choice in any of this. Unlike those who only caused you harm, you chose to overcome and to love. I’m honored to listen. Thank you!

    • @DebbieMustard
      @DebbieMustard Місяць тому +1

      She must have been such an amazing mother, to have only 11 years to instill such righteous perseverance in her child. Its truly remarkable.

  • @georgebreitwieseriii2092
    @georgebreitwieseriii2092 3 місяці тому +20

    I love this guy who got sick with guilt after lying to Mom. Good man.

  • @Emzzz78
    @Emzzz78 3 місяці тому +492

    I adore Collier!!! He’s such an intelligent man. Watching him as a child, on the stand in court, makes me proud for his mother. He really did it!! He’s such a good man!

    • @rdrenth
      @rdrenth 3 місяці тому +9

      I wonder though, what did the father answer to the 'why'?

    • @S_J_banana
      @S_J_banana 3 місяці тому +9

      how do I find the court videos?

    • @cathyjoy9214
      @cathyjoy9214 3 місяці тому +15

      @@rdrenth Collier has a podcast and there are many many videos about his situation. He is an amazing human

    • @GenXtothe7thPower
      @GenXtothe7thPower 3 місяці тому +8

      He’s here on YT under Collier Landry

    • @KarenFann2
      @KarenFann2 3 місяці тому +5

      @@rdrenth He never admitted to it.

  • @frebrd78
    @frebrd78 3 місяці тому +645

    This happened in my life. My Fatherhas been in prison since 1998. Not much to do with drugs. It was more of the antidepressants. My life has crumbled (now 46) but I try to hold the broken pieces together with my faith in the Lord. Blessings to all. ❤

    • @dirtypatwalsh
      @dirtypatwalsh 3 місяці тому

      God bless you @frebrd78🙏✝️❤️🕊️

    • @Novaluna123
      @Novaluna123 3 місяці тому +25

      @@lvr8429The devil. Obviously

    • @holistic.health
      @holistic.health 3 місяці тому +19

      I'm so sorry that you had to go through that and you just need to keep putting one foot in front of the other 💕

    • @holistic.health
      @holistic.health 3 місяці тому +13

      ​@lvr8429 what a thing to say...

    • @SuggaBugga50
      @SuggaBugga50 3 місяці тому +14

      So sorry u had to experience such a tragedy i pray for your strength keep trusting in the Lord ❤

  • @DavidWhy-y7i
    @DavidWhy-y7i 3 місяці тому +169

    Raped by my mother, as a toddler, until I stopped it by asking her ‘what she was doing’… 50 years later, 2weeks before she died, she admitted it…
    I SPENT MY LIFE AFRAID THAT SUCH EVIL Would manifest itself in me…
    67 now. Never has, never will

    • @muma6559
      @muma6559 2 місяці тому +7

      You're right ! It doesn't repeat, especially if you stand up to it. It depends on the attitude toward it. If you hate abuse you won't repeat it. If you excuse it, you may. I'm so glad and happy for you that you were right and know you were not crazy. Did she tell you why?

    • @SallyNegus
      @SallyNegus 2 місяці тому +4

      I married a sociopath alcoholic. They scope out and prey/attach themselves to good people who have a conscience and ability to genuinely love..Everything that they are NOT!!! These people in my experience are BORN with this evil. It's in their bloodline. If you do some digging you would likely find that one or possibly (usually not both) both of your mothers parents were disordered personalities.. that fall under some definition or layering of a few "Cluster B" Personality disorders...THey are what in the Bible are called "Wolves in Sheeps Clothing"...They can be the most charasmatic and charming con artists going...They are also pathalogical liars~~~ Again, attracted to people who are everything they are not...My guess is that your father was a good man. He may have been destroyed by her....Many different possibilities....Evil exists...Like Collier said at the very end of this amazing video....I may look like my father (and clearly that father had high intellect..which Collier also had), but I am my mothers son...That was powerful...And although I've seen otherwise as welll...I've found often when someone favors one parent in their looks, they can (have inherited) have the other parents personality, goodness and just overall have the good stuff from the NON Psychopathic parent...Thank you you David for sharing...you got the good stuff...A blessing

    • @ColinPatrickWeiss
      @ColinPatrickWeiss 2 місяці тому +3

      weird question? but how does a woman rape a toddler? I believe you, just not sure how that works. Also, how do you remember. most people don't form memories until age 3-4 and toddler is age 2.

    • @StevieRake73
      @StevieRake73 24 дні тому

      @@ColinPatrickWeiss probably touching making them perform acts or performing acts in them

    • @StevieRake73
      @StevieRake73 24 дні тому

      On*

  • @standuporsitdown2593
    @standuporsitdown2593 3 місяці тому +253

    Wow, an 11yr old that helped the police catch the murderer of his mother. Smart kid! I pray you're healing up Collier. I raised my son as a single mom. He is everything to me. With our Lords help, he turned out to be an Amazing young man. You're Amazing Collier. So sorry 🥺

  • @ambeelea4955
    @ambeelea4955 3 місяці тому +244

    😮….This man is one of the most resilient, fascinating and truly incredible people I’ve ever heard. This is my favorite episode. Just wow.

  • @cristinashields2740
    @cristinashields2740 3 місяці тому +15

    I had a ton of trauma from childhood. He explains exactly what its like to grow through the trauma. He made a choice to be different and do different. He made the choice to live with love and lead with his heart. His mother is soso proud

  • @jloveskbp217
    @jloveskbp217 3 місяці тому +238

    I have followed Collier's story for many years. He is an inspiration to anyone who has been through adversity. I have heard his story and read it all, and every time, I'm still brought to tears when he tells it. There is no greater voice for your mother than you, Collier.
    I feel the pain in your voice. No child should have to go through what you went through. I know your mother would have been incredibly proud of the man you became.

    • @Ther3rg
      @Ther3rg 3 місяці тому +10

      I never get tired of listening to Collier’s story and I still get teary eyed whenever I hear him speak about his mother’s death .
      He is a very inspirational man .
      He is his mother’s son ❤ .

    • @fatimamelo3858
      @fatimamelo3858 3 місяці тому +5

      My deepest sorrow!

    • @EmoryWOCN
      @EmoryWOCN 3 місяці тому +7

      I hope that Dr.John Boyle never gets paroled.He has tried 2x and will try again in Oct. 2025

    • @Ther3rg
      @Ther3rg 3 місяці тому +2

      @@EmoryWOCN ,
      You know what , I said the same thing on another thread 🤭 .
      But I think deep down in my heart Collier , would hurt more if his father died in prison . The question is can he be trusted if he’s ever released from prison 🤷🏻‍♀️ !

  • @lauraiglesias2660
    @lauraiglesias2660 3 місяці тому +241

    This interview was ACTUALLY very interesting and informative. I’m sorry Collier for everything you went through. I admire you as courageous young boy and I admire the man you’ve become.

  • @sc00b3rt
    @sc00b3rt 11 днів тому +3

    Your mom would be so thankful and proud of you for standing up for her and demanding she get justice. She continues to love you it shows through the way you talk about her. Stand so proud of yourself for being her voice in a time she was not able.

  • @ZettEspinoza
    @ZettEspinoza 3 місяці тому +263

    Happy Birthday to your beautiful Mom! What a gift she has in you. You honor her. ❤

  • @kristenalicia1461
    @kristenalicia1461 3 місяці тому +94

    It does help. (I watched u during my fentanyl addiction and after my sobriety) now I am 1½years clean. Love this.

    • @ocastaneda1160
      @ocastaneda1160 2 місяці тому +3

      I am proud of you

    • @rival3dddd
      @rival3dddd Місяць тому +1

      I'm proud of you!

    • @dayanarab-n4b
      @dayanarab-n4b День тому +1

      Idk you but i’m so proud to hear that, keep it going your doing great!!!

  • @delsc7287
    @delsc7287 Місяць тому +7

    Oh wow. I’ve seen this case on dateline, forensic files, 20/20etc. I actually recognized this man from being a little boy on the stand testifying against his father for killing his mom.
    Im very glad to see him doing so well. He was such a brave, articulate boy. He broke my heart. He has his mother’s eyes❤️🥀

  • @Carl-0675
    @Carl-0675 3 місяці тому +117

    He was my grandmother's doctor at richland hospital, I remember him checking on her everyday, he was kind and she liked him,i,never expected him to do this,I'm so sorry collier for your losses and may God bless you,I was born and raised in mansfield, ohio and moved to Columbus about 14 years ago

    • @Carl-0675
      @Carl-0675 3 місяці тому +4

      He was her Dr in the early to mid 1980s if I remeber correctly

  • @conniebachman4075
    @conniebachman4075 3 місяці тому +57

    You are NOT your father, anymore than I'm my father who held his first family at gunpoint and was a violent alcoholic with our family. You are so much stronger than you know. You have an amazing sense of grace and compassion. You have the power to make the life you wish to live and I know you will not waste your talent like your father did. Every good thing I am, came from my mother. When you said that about your qualities you got from your mother, it touched my heart so deeply. You will be in my prayers, Collier. May you continue to rise above.

  • @tyberiusrex5300
    @tyberiusrex5300 3 місяці тому +26

    Collier is a freaking hero! His father is an absolute coward.. couldn’t even look at him in court. What a spineless, pathetic, sad excuse of a man. That’s why he tormented his son for so many years for not being “man enough”. collier is more man than anyone I’ve ever met

  • @sararegister5796
    @sararegister5796 3 місяці тому +258

    Beautifully spoken from a beautiful human. Tragedy does not define us. Your mother would be proud♥️

  • @jillhogan2611
    @jillhogan2611 3 місяці тому +55

    This man's story is horrific. Such a smart kid to work with police. He found out the truth about his Mother and knew his life would never be the same. This Soft White Underbelly is the best interview that was ever given. I applaud this wonderful man for giving us this story! He has already helped people in these situations. You are a blessed human being and has so much wisdom. Thank You🙏

  • @sokelso
    @sokelso 3 місяці тому +6

    Whew that last bit really got me. Thank you for sharing your story with us Collier. Thank you for getting your mama justice, for fighting for her, for loving her fiercely. She deserved every last bit of effort you poured into her case. She would be so proud I’m sure. 💛

  • @shannonmustard9087
    @shannonmustard9087 3 місяці тому +560

    Collier
    You are an amazing man
    Your mother is
    so proud of you! 💜

    • @terrikaye12114
      @terrikaye12114 3 місяці тому +11

      She most definitely is! What an amazing story for such a young man who went through so much in his very short life! He amazes me!!

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +23

      Thank you so much for saying that, and for watching and commenting! Have a wonderful day!

    • @hollyharris1874
      @hollyharris1874 3 місяці тому +6

      You said what every orphaned child wants & needs to hear! Thank you, Shannon! 💜

    • @terrikaye12114
      @terrikaye12114 3 місяці тому

      @@shannonmustard9087 collier, I made a comment not directly to you and I realized I should. You have beat the odds, you got a great family that your mother is so very very proud of you! You’re a survivor, good, kind, loving man. Please keep us informed as to what’s going on with you!!

  • @MixxxedFruuts
    @MixxxedFruuts 3 місяці тому +64

    I'm so grieved for him and how his family treated him during such a horrific time. He was just a baby! His resilience is remarkable. Wishing him many blessings in life ❤

  • @sharondunn6513
    @sharondunn6513 3 місяці тому +10

    great interview. such a testament to the fact that regardless of childhood trauma we can still make a choice to do good and be good. Our trauma doesn't need to define us.

  • @AlmondMami
    @AlmondMami 3 місяці тому +486

    You were the only reason your mother got justice, and her family wouldn’t take her in?
    Disgusting behavior. How dare they.

    • @katie0303
      @katie0303 3 місяці тому +68

      Something very wrong here. The fact that he ended up in foster care is unbelievable.

    • @nessal4078
      @nessal4078 3 місяці тому +40

      Some families are mot loyal and lazy. The fact him and his little sister both ended up in foster care really shows that. What was their excuse for not adopting her?!

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 3 місяці тому +13

      They never mentioned him going into foster care 😢He definitely took the stand against his pops. I seen him on forensic files

    • @sarahm3991
      @sarahm3991 3 місяці тому +8

      if they where good people she could have run home once they got abusive. Mindless zombies. Stupid is more dangerous than evil.

    • @rachelels
      @rachelels 3 місяці тому +1

      People can only think abt themselves, it’s sad smh

  • @Klisa21
    @Klisa21 3 місяці тому +73

    By far this is the best interview that I’ve watched from Mark. Mr. Landry shares his soul with us, it’s amazing, real, you can feel the confusion, sadness and then the relief💜

  • @jankasza5538
    @jankasza5538 3 місяці тому +7

    I can still see/hear collier on the stand in court! He was/is so brave, intelligent, informative, honest and empathetic! I pray his mother is resting peacefully! Thank You both!

  • @stephprokop7849
    @stephprokop7849 3 місяці тому +65

    “I got the best ones from her….” That closing line was so touching ❤Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your story with us.

  • @Jaa__17
    @Jaa__17 3 місяці тому +350

    Crazy how his family didn’t take him in after the murder. Really sickening world we live in.

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions 3 місяці тому +40

      They probably were narcissistic in some ways and enabling of the dad, and supportive of him in some sick way, and THAT’S probably why they didn’t take collier in

    • @OLALALA1019
      @OLALALA1019 3 місяці тому +47

      He’s better off without them around him in the end if they were anything like that monster of a father he had.

    • @eleanorrichards2532
      @eleanorrichards2532 3 місяці тому +22

      @@EphemeralProductions even his mothers side wouldnt because he looked like his dad.

    • @Brooke-xg3es
      @Brooke-xg3es 3 місяці тому +22

      Mine took me in but stole everything our parents left for us… can’t trust a soul.

    • @Havoc917
      @Havoc917 3 місяці тому +6

      Karma remember everything

  • @meavia2053
    @meavia2053 8 днів тому +1

    Collier, your story changed my perspective in many ways. It was a joy to ring in the New Year hearing you recount and ruffle through your memories. I am truly sorry for the loss of your Mother. She must have been quite a lady, to have you so resilient and intelligent. Thank you for sharing.

  • @maddisonfillmore4608
    @maddisonfillmore4608 3 місяці тому +51

    We knew you were your mother’s son when you dedicated your time at 11 years old to bring justice to her, knowing what your father did and knowing it was wrong.

  • @msliveloverock
    @msliveloverock 3 місяці тому +77

    This story brought me back to my childhood. When i was 11 i wokeup early in the morning to a scream, stepped down my bunk bed and walked over to my parents room and found my father standing at the edge of the bed with a grin on his face, and my mothers body laying in blood. He had stabbed her multiple times, the scream(s) i heard were my sisters aged 13 and 16. My mother survived, but i cant help but think what wouldve happened if we hadnt woken up.

    • @bounty6977
      @bounty6977 3 місяці тому

      Did he stab your sister too ? I'm so sorry.

    • @msliveloverock
      @msliveloverock 3 місяці тому +16

      @bounty6977 no he didn't but minutes after he tried to stab himself and my sister stopped him, which I still can't fathom to this day because my father was a 250+ burly man, extremely strong. So the fact that a 13 year old girl managed to get the knife out of his hands is beyond me.

    • @asminkes
      @asminkes 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@msliveloverockhe didn't *really* want to. Narcissists...

    • @meriahsouter4323
      @meriahsouter4323 3 місяці тому +3

      I would love to hear your full story!!! Send them a video clip so you can be interviewed!

    • @lovelynaturegirl8669
      @lovelynaturegirl8669 3 місяці тому

      OMG

  • @miss_pkay
    @miss_pkay 3 місяці тому +4

    A phenomenal interview Mark. Collier is a very special person with a gentle soul. I hope he gets to put his life story into a documentary or film one day. Thank you both, very moving & emotional.

  • @jcast8756
    @jcast8756 3 місяці тому +130

    Collier I’m sorry you lost your mother this way, nobody deserves this. You brought her justice, in this world. This story touched me so much😢

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +9

      Thank you so much for watching and commenting! Have a wonderful day!

  • @JRomanMD
    @JRomanMD 3 місяці тому +105

    This was the #1 Best Episode EVER in SWU. Wow. A Powerful story, a horrible childhood but a story of redemption as he got older. Can we all thank his Adoptive parents for teaching him the world doesn’t owe us anything? That message is missing these days with the kids. So sad, his dog must have ended up in a shelter.

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +19

      WOW that's quite a compliment. Thank you so much for saying that and for watching and commenting! Have a wonderful day!

    • @leesh2684
      @leesh2684 3 місяці тому +4

      I agree. This hit me deeply. I felt you every step of the way. Collier I hope you the best!!!

    • @francesabrams8923
      @francesabrams8923 3 місяці тому +4

      Wonder what happened to his little sister. Serious trauma for her too

  • @KiyanaCashable
    @KiyanaCashable 3 місяці тому +6

    Collier, your mom was sooo beautiful. You’re a strong man and a great story teller. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @JamieBoss-t2y
    @JamieBoss-t2y 3 місяці тому +141

    One of the best interviews. Thank you for sharing your story! ❤️

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +8

      Thank you so much, that means a lot.

  • @Amazingme17
    @Amazingme17 3 місяці тому +120

    What a sad sad tragic story. Thank you for sharing your story.
    You had me hooked the entire time. I wasn't surprised when you mentioned you wanted to get this story out further and you were into filming. I pray you're able to do something with it. Keep us updated because I will definitely watch!

    • @BeeKay4444
      @BeeKay4444 3 місяці тому +3

      There is a documentary on his story called ‘A Murder in Mansfield’ He has a podcast and YT channel.

  • @nbgilbert
    @nbgilbert 3 місяці тому +7

    I’ve heard Collier story many times. And I’ve heard them from him directly on his podcast and through his documentary about his life. But I’ve never heard some of the things he expressed today.
    He is a phenomenal human being and you have an incredible way of giving people a feeling of freedom to express themselves with such candor.
    Thank you, both of you.

    • @AR-kb9qx
      @AR-kb9qx 26 днів тому

      Whats his podcast called

  • @pamelashields7136
    @pamelashields7136 3 місяці тому +172

    Nice to know the murderer is still locked up.

  • @fulloflightcrystalskarengr8212
    @fulloflightcrystalskarengr8212 3 місяці тому +123

    I can't believe his family didn't take him in and may that judge that wouldn't let the cop adopt him rest in hell. I am so sorry to this man.

    • @ABooTubeProduction
      @ABooTubeProduction 3 місяці тому +6

      That was definitely the point where I said the most curse words. Like come on! Every adult after his mom’s death besides the cop just further victimized him. So disgusting!

    • @fulloflightcrystalskarengr8212
      @fulloflightcrystalskarengr8212 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ABooTubeProduction agreed. So sad 😔

    • @deborahmannino3775
      @deborahmannino3775 3 місяці тому +1

      Exactly!

    • @kkw-pal1178
      @kkw-pal1178 2 місяці тому +1

      That was pure evil. I just said something similar. Punished for telling the truth.

    • @deborahmannino3775
      @deborahmannino3775 2 місяці тому

      @@fulloflightcrystalskarengr8212 was that the same judge who preceeded during the trial? He interviewed that judge who is now 83. He gave him information about the trial he never knew. It couldn't have been the same judge. At least I'm hoping it's not. He was such a sweet judge to him.

  • @CammieOuellette
    @CammieOuellette 3 місяці тому +3

    What an amazing human to share his story, so concisely and with humility. It was an honour to watch this, thank you

  • @xtinamarie_333
    @xtinamarie_333 3 місяці тому +453

    I remember seeing this kid testify at his murderous fathers trial. He has a channel where he reads his fathers prison letters. His dad is a total gas lighting narcissist and is still a liar. Love Collier, and so does everyone else ✌️❣️🥀

    • @davidbeltran8571
      @davidbeltran8571 3 місяці тому +13

      What's his channel name

    • @GenXtothe7thPower
      @GenXtothe7thPower 3 місяці тому +1

      @@davidbeltran8571it is Collier Landry

    • @KarenFann2
      @KarenFann2 3 місяці тому +18

      @@davidbeltran8571 Collier Landry

    • @collierlandry
      @collierlandry 3 місяці тому +22

      Thank you so much, you are very kind.

    • @TheWorldsOkayestUSMarine
      @TheWorldsOkayestUSMarine 3 місяці тому +2

      @xtinamarie_333 So what? I worked with someone who's Dad was murdered via hired hit by his mother. He didn't go on UA-cam.
      That's because people with REAL trauma don't monetize it.

  • @rubberbiscuit99
    @rubberbiscuit99 3 місяці тому +67

    Children of narcissistic parents pay a heavy price. This man has paid dearly. Forgiving these parents is not necessary to heal.

    • @rindarossouw1725
      @rindarossouw1725 3 місяці тому +9

      You are so wrong. You forgive for your own healing, not for anyone else.

    • @norriskp
      @norriskp 3 місяці тому +7

      Forgiveness and reconciliation are NOT synonymous. You may forgive in order to get rid of the ball & chain (sadness, anger, victimhood, etc,) you're dragging around. It is not even necessary the person you forgive knows - only that YOU know. And ideally, share it with a higher power & ask it for help. It's really hard to do, but so worth the effort.

    • @rubberbiscuit99
      @rubberbiscuit99 3 місяці тому +1

      @@rindarossouw1725 We do not disagree on that point. Maybe on how we define forgiveness.

    • @JTread2003
      @JTread2003 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@rindarossouw1725 I think there are some things that can never be forgiven, this is one of them. Even the thought of someone killing one of my family members makes me livid, I'm angry for this guy's story

  • @Johndoe-co3pw
    @Johndoe-co3pw Місяць тому +3

    Coming from childhood trauma myself o wish only peace and love for you collier no person or child should ever have to go through such things. You are such a strong man

  • @managingmonasmoula9811
    @managingmonasmoula9811 3 місяці тому +57

    I remember seeing this man as a little boy in an episode of Forensic Files. Very interesting story…how his father killed his mother and buried her in the basement under freshly poured cement. They dug up his mother and found a very expensive watch on Collier’s mom’s wrist and finally pieced things together. His father was a complete monster. I enjoyed listening to Collier tell about his experiences. Very interesting.

  • @RLFinTX
    @RLFinTX 3 місяці тому +147

    I can remember every detail of this story. This was such a horrifying true crime case that I read in book form and also on tv. He took the stand in his father’s trial and he was so eloquent in each word and no one could believe how articulate he was for being so young. It’s surreal seeing him here on your channel. My prayers are with you, Collier. 🙏🏻

    • @goldenniblings
      @goldenniblings 3 місяці тому +6

      He also has a channel, there is more to watch regarding Collier.

    • @RLFinTX
      @RLFinTX 3 місяці тому +2

      @@goldenniblings Thank you so much for letting me know. I’ll look for it now. 😊

    • @kathleensullivan4547
      @kathleensullivan4547 3 місяці тому +3

      ❤ I remember you and you were the biggest man in that courtroom and the biggest man in this country ❤ xoxo

  • @lisajuricek321
    @lisajuricek321 13 днів тому +1

    Unbelievable life and story - what a gift this interview was as told my a gifted storyteller and survivor.
    I have grown weary of all the addicts so glad I gave this one a view

  • @kristinborchers5564
    @kristinborchers5564 3 місяці тому +25

    Collier's story is amazing. Been following him since he posted on TikTok. So glad you got to interview him, Mark!!
    Collier, thank you for being so transparent in sharing your story. May your beautiful mother rest peacefully.

  • @krystine6946
    @krystine6946 3 місяці тому +52

    Hands down my favorite interview you’ve ever done. What an inspiration Collier is. Keep shining Collier!

  • @StayingAfloat2023
    @StayingAfloat2023 2 місяці тому +4

    Mark, by far this is the absolute best interview. I'm just so sick of watching addicts on your channel. This was a tragic story, but so beautifully told by him. I watched this interview 3 times over and over again and didn't get bored twice. The expression, emotion, everything about this touched my heart.
    Collier, if you're reading this, you have the absolute biggest heart. To be able to have some sort of amicable relationship with someone that murdered your sweet mama is beyond anything I've ever heard of. You are gold.

  • @jamescarroll-banjerbluespr6156
    @jamescarroll-banjerbluespr6156 3 місяці тому +85

    Granny knew lock her ass up

  • @tommythompson4127
    @tommythompson4127 3 місяці тому +25

    I remembered this case and watched it live. He’s father was cruel in the way he treated his mom, seeing her body being dug up and the time on her hand the moment the watch stopped ticking, frigging cruel. He was such a very handsome, very intelligent young man as well as strong. I was so proud how he stood his ground on the stand giving his testimony. Some adults don’t have the balls he had and this young man is amazing, those attorneys couldn’t make him waver. Intense eye contact, didn’t look away, he’s amazing. I personally think he’s father was jealous of him as well. I pray you continually be blessed healthy and happy.

  • @rebeccapridgen6399
    @rebeccapridgen6399 3 місяці тому +3

    I've worked in Foster Care for 20 years, awful is not even the word for it. I was very moved listening to your story. Bless you in all your future endeavors. xo

  • @Helenhealingfrompain
    @Helenhealingfrompain 3 місяці тому +39

    My bullying father drove my poor mum to suicide; during lockdown
    It feels like he murdered my gorgeous joyful mum.
    It’s impossible to get over.

    • @alemat897
      @alemat897 3 місяці тому +6

      Sorry for your mom😢

    • @notever_everytime5074
      @notever_everytime5074 3 місяці тому +5

      Bullies and narcissists are like vampires, sucking the life and joy out of their victims. And it's not illegal to be an asshole, which means they get away with it their whole lives. I'm so sorry you lost your mother, and I'm sorry she was in such despair from the abuse heaped in her. I hope you find a healthy way to honor and remember the person she was before your father broke her, it may be healing for you.

    • @perrieargent9997
      @perrieargent9997 3 місяці тому +3

      I lost my mum to a bully, and it’s horrible to see. I love her so much and I never want to see him again. It’s pretty cut and dried. So sorry for your anguish.

  • @daisywares1
    @daisywares1 3 місяці тому +165

    I met Colliier at Crime Con last year. It's off-putting how physically beautiful he is. But the pain radiates out of every cell. Bless this guy...I know he's trying

    • @MoonChild-po9du
      @MoonChild-po9du 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Niko6767 got something to say now niko6767?

    • @wesleyAlan9179
      @wesleyAlan9179 3 місяці тому +21

      ​@@Niko6767
      You're weird. Leave this lady alone, weirdo.

    • @xtinamarie_333
      @xtinamarie_333 3 місяці тому +3

      Seriously!!! ​@@wesleyAlan9179

    • @iless664
      @iless664 3 місяці тому +8

      What a weird interaction this was to read. Just imagine this conversation taking place over a dinner table 😂

    • @Niko6767
      @Niko6767 3 місяці тому

      @@wesleyAlan9179 go smoke more meth your teeth look missing

  • @justinawieler9464
    @justinawieler9464 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story. I never knew how broken the foster care system was until I became a foster parent. The hurdles you've overcome are indescribable. Im so sorry for the child you were and I know your mother is so proud of the adult you've become.

  • @joeardinger3185
    @joeardinger3185 3 місяці тому +342

    The families casting him out is infuriating...😡

    • @talesfromtheleashexpatdogl1426
      @talesfromtheleashexpatdogl1426 3 місяці тому +66

      The truth teller is often the scapegoat and discarded. It's common

    • @rubberbiscuit99
      @rubberbiscuit99 3 місяці тому +6

      ​@@talesfromtheleashexpatdogl1426 Yes. This is very common.

    • @Freddybender123
      @Freddybender123 3 місяці тому +11

      I agree so wrong on so many levels 😢

    • @dubaiedge
      @dubaiedge 3 місяці тому +17

      It's despicable. Their loss. And it shows what a long line of psychopaths/sociopaths he came from only to not be like them all.

    • @EyeAmBack
      @EyeAmBack 3 місяці тому +2

      As they should. His mom would still be alive if he didn't snitch on his dad cheating.

  • @MarisaElyse
    @MarisaElyse 3 місяці тому +50

    Omg finally a full story I could sit through

  • @catherinekenworthy4480
    @catherinekenworthy4480 22 дні тому +4

    Your mama is SO proud of you Collier. She’s watching over you. ❤

  • @jazzbea6243
    @jazzbea6243 3 місяці тому +20

    Collier got some great qualities from his father, the best from his mother, as he states. His biological relatives did him a favor by not taking him. Sounds like his adoptive family helped him channel his biology and traumatic past into the man he has become. This is a perfect example of how tragedy was turned into triumph. Collier encountered all the right stuff with each step forward he took. Thank you for sharing.

  • @thrivewithdee
    @thrivewithdee 3 місяці тому +25

    The ending really touched my heart. You are so brave and 1000% your mothers son! She is looking down SO proud of you ❤

  • @Itskaygurl
    @Itskaygurl Місяць тому +3

    Your declaration as a child to the truth and doing what’s right cost you so much and you stayed true. I see you.

  • @dianejacobson9367
    @dianejacobson9367 3 місяці тому +35

    Oh boy, my emotions are shattered. I don’t know what to say! I will never, ever forget you. You just settled in my heart forever. I wish you so so much happiness and peace. You deserve it!

  • @allisynlitton8373
    @allisynlitton8373 3 місяці тому +33

    This poor man losing his mother at an early age and knowing in his heart his father did it, what a courageous young man. Bless you, Collier ❤❤

  • @cooswillemse7551
    @cooswillemse7551 3 місяці тому +1

    Oh my god. This must the best interview I ever saw on your channel. The guy is so amazingly well spoken telling such a close felt horrendous story. I nearly stood up watching this as I felt it all…….wrote this at the middle and then watched the rest and now I am actually tearing down. Ffs what an amazing resilient guy!

  • @SunflowerBeeHappy
    @SunflowerBeeHappy 3 місяці тому +190

    You made your Mother proud Collier.
    She is with you always. You are a brave and strong man. Be proud of yourself. 💕

    • @davidbeltran8571
      @davidbeltran8571 3 місяці тому +2

      How he got her killed. If he would have shut his stupid mouth she would still be here

    • @samanthagrace5227
      @samanthagrace5227 3 місяці тому +11

      @@davidbeltran8571if his farther hadn’t killed her she would still be here. It sounds like it was a ticking time bomb, his farther was set on killing her at one point or another. You’re so weird David, knowing that Collier could read your comment and blame himself when he likely already has considered that before. Way to go trying to make a victim feel guilt of his FATHERS ACTIONS.

    • @cathysoo2350
      @cathysoo2350 3 місяці тому

      His mother would have found out another way. Think about how your words affect others! Dont be so selfish.. ​@@davidbeltran8571

    • @emmagatewood3898
      @emmagatewood3898 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@davidbeltran8571His mom already knew all about the mistress prior to Collier telling her. He did mention that she already knew. Try to keep up.

    • @marathongirl27
      @marathongirl27 3 місяці тому +3

      @@davidbeltran8571who hurt you?

  • @miriamalvidrez1409
    @miriamalvidrez1409 3 місяці тому +35

    Such a heartbreaking retelling of his family dynamic. His one absolute safe place, his mom, was suddenly gone, and it was up to Collier to be so determined, as a child, to find her. He had such a shitty support system (his bio family) but I am truly impressed that he helped solve his mother's case. His mom's spirit was definitely with him. Excellent job Collier. Your mom can now rest. RIP 🙏🕊️

  • @wenlav76
    @wenlav76 3 місяці тому +4

    Every part of your story, leading up to your mother's death, eerily resembles mine. By the grace of God, my mother didn't die, but I've never related to another person's story so much. Your mother is watching over you Collier. You made her proud.

  • @bridgethockney2303
    @bridgethockney2303 3 місяці тому +37

    Collier, i remember watching you as a little brave boy on that stand. You're so brave still.

  • @myjournee7381
    @myjournee7381 3 місяці тому +18

    I just want to hug you! I want to hug that little boy that's still inside of you. Your mother is looking at you smiling and proud of you deeply. You are her love, light, and legacy...

  • @shellyb.5224
    @shellyb.5224 3 місяці тому +2

    😊. Your entire story must become a movie. There are so many issues that were lacking for you to heal, people must become educated. Thx so much for sharing. This story has affected me deeply.

  • @kayakingirl7252
    @kayakingirl7252 3 місяці тому +22

    I remember when this happened and my heart absolutely breaking for this poor kid and thought about him for YEARS and worrying and wondering how he was doing. Collier, I am so incredibly proud of the man you've become and you have, I'm positive, made your beautiful mother so proud as well ❤❤

  • @marytague6268
    @marytague6268 3 місяці тому +17

    This dude is strong, resilient, intelligent & erudite! Compelling & ferocious & brilliant! Bravo!👏👍

  • @wantobeaprincess
    @wantobeaprincess 3 місяці тому +3

    What an absolutely fabulous narrator. Thank you for sharing your story, it was fascinating

  • @DavyCR88
    @DavyCR88 3 місяці тому +28

    This guy is incredible - so strong, but his mother's family are beyond belief - that Aunt was despicable, great respect for her sister's memory, let the son she adored go into foster care because of her own selfish hang-ups, he looked like his father and that's why she could not take him in, what an utter weakling creep of a human being. Collier is the example of the strongest of humanity and his Aunt is the example of the weakest.

  • @Anna-ml1qz
    @Anna-ml1qz 3 місяці тому +113

    My husband tried to murder me 6 years ago in front of our son. 30 stabs, no remorse. He pleaded not guilty all trial, still feels HE is a victim (narcissism mixed with paranoia).

    • @clairewilliams7762
      @clairewilliams7762 3 місяці тому +19

      Thank God your here 🙌

    • @LilBipper
      @LilBipper 3 місяці тому

      @@Sndwvvvve#CatAccountability

    • @kellie9668
      @kellie9668 3 місяці тому +4

      Lord forgive me when I whine, I have two eyes, the world is mine.
      I have nothing but empathy for you hon, please let me know if you need someone to talk to.

    • @Anna-ml1qz
      @Anna-ml1qz 3 місяці тому +22

      ​@@SndwvvvveWrong time and place for the stupid jokes of yours

    • @Anna-ml1qz
      @Anna-ml1qz 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@kellie9668thank you for your kind offer. I had 3 rounds of therapy and still am on antidepressants. But other than that I have a beautiful and fulfilling life with my kids 💛

  • @LauraMoore-s4t
    @LauraMoore-s4t 3 місяці тому +6

    All I can think of is this poor little kid being gaslit by his dad while trying to solve his mom's murder before anyone knew she was dead. What a great kid and amazing man.

  • @janelle-westsideblonde
    @janelle-westsideblonde 3 місяці тому +78

    Thank god for a son like this guy! I only hope to be so blessed.

    • @standuporsitdown2593
      @standuporsitdown2593 3 місяці тому +1

      🙏

    • @teresa8793
      @teresa8793 3 місяці тому +3

      🙏🙏

    • @janelle-westsideblonde
      @janelle-westsideblonde 3 місяці тому +2

      @@bentheredonethat-lx6nhyour misery makes me feel bad for you. I hope things get better.

    • @marathongirl27
      @marathongirl27 3 місяці тому

      @@bentheredonethat-lx6nhyou’re clearly a nut case hiding behind religion. 😂

    • @zoethesmall3601
      @zoethesmall3601 3 місяці тому

      @@bentheredonethat-lx6nh how about learn to stfu .... moronic humans out here!!