People Who Have No Problem With Parenting
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- Опубліковано 28 гру 2021
- People Who Have No Problem With Parenting
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I love the "dont take their electronics, take the charger..."
I’ve had that done before. I’ve learned to make this shit last a LONG time. Low power mode right off the bat, only one tab open at a time, all calls should be normal not FaceTime, and light level should be kept at the lowest it can and maintained that way.
smart
@@stafey7659 *slow clapping turns to a whole applause*
Hhahahaha this reminds me one time when my mom wanted to take away my laptop but this one time she decided to take away the battery, She thought if that thing is not inside, even with the charger the laptop won't work. She left and honestly I didn't know but I just used logic and put the charger in and turned on the laptop. Since she was sure the laptop wouldn't turn on, she wasn't suspicious of me for a long time until she suddenly came into my room and saw me using the laptop 😂 She thought of me as a big brain kid that could even come up with it
Doesn't work, unless the time is longer than the battery lasts. It also doesn't work if their friends have interchangeable chargers, they can simply borrow or use.
However, (big-brain time) if you use it as a "punishment" while intending for them to hang out with more of their friends, then it could work to that benefit. Human to human social interaction time, making and spending time with new friends and acquaintances is important for child development. So that "punishment" can nudge them into doing more healthy and productive things in their daily lives.
Climbing wall punishment will backfire. Those kids will grow up absolutely hating exercise because they will forever associate it with punishment.
Or they love the climbing and make trouble all the time just so they can climbing often
Totally what I was thinking. Read on a Reddit thread of a man, whose mother was a teacher; whenever he misbehaved, his mother would make him read a chapter from a book. He grew up to hate reading and studying. For him, reading was just painful.
Exactly my thought. Recipe for a kid who hates exercise!
I grew up hating exercise as a kid without ever having it as a punishment.
But I can definitely see how it would put some kids off if they were punished with it.
Also, "keeps them in shape"? They're kids, they don't need to do exercises! Their playtime and games are their exercises. They're supposed to be little balls of energy, always running and going off somewhere. They shouldn't be concerned with their shape the same way an adult is. It's just not right.
The one with the paper roll is dangerous... Kids wouldn't respect the paper limits, and eventually they'll still draw on the actual wall.
agreed. they'll be taught its okay to draw on walls
Not necessarily. I did this 25+ years ago for my girls with a roll of wallpaper lining and a curtain pole. They knew the paper was good and the wall was bad.
I’d be more worried that the heavy roll would become dislodged and crush them. It would be better to have it on the floor and they draw on the floor.
@@KatharineOsborne That's why I used a wooden curtain pole at a suitable height. Worked very well for 10+ years. I would not recommend string or something similar.
Nah. Some bars put a chalkboard in the bathroom, and it stops people writing on the walls.
1:10 Please do not prop up the bottle like this for any infant. It will result in choking. Please don’t. Just don’t. It’s not smart.
Do not leave a baby that young with a bottle in its mouth. It can choke to death, or get aspiration pneumonia.
6:50 love how father and son have matching Shorts. And of course good Idea to prevent Kids from touching the BBQ
When I saw the grapes in the candy wrappers all I could think of is this shirt I love "Raisin cookies are the reason I have trust issues"
I need that shirt!
I LOVE oatmeal raisin cookies, though they're soo good
I don't think children stop thinking their parents are amazing because they grow up to tween/teens, I think it's because at some point they figure out how often they've been lied to by them.
When we used to go to outdoor functions when my boys were young I used to dress them in matching ORANGE FLOURO T Shirts, so I could always spot them if they wandered a bit too far. I could always see MY kids.
I dyed all my boys’ hair purple on the last day if school last year and all summer long when we went to parks and other stuff, I just had to count four purple heads whenever I needed to check on them. It was actually awesome!
4:02 - Using fabric on a toilet seat? That's nasty. It's a good way to get them covered in microscopic particles of human waste matter. Toilet seats are covered with smooth, nonporous surfaces, so they can be sanitized with a single wipe of the seat.
Maybe you can use different old, yet clean socks with different colors.
You can have them choose a color for the day (unless one is really messy), and then change it out for a new one.
This way you reuse old socks, while making it warm... Or perhaps look for something to cover the seat that's similar, yet warmer than the seat itself.
Just some ideas.
@@JennyG.COW5 I mean, if you're gonna change them every day and add them to your normal laundry, then you should be safe. That said, it seems like it would become a bothersome chore to keep up with every day, especially since most homes have two to three toilets in them.
@@AaronCMounts where do you live where homes have 2 or 3 toilets?
@@wavy6470 All across the US and the rest of the Western world, the majority of houses have 2 bathrooms or more.
@@AaronCMounts As someone from the western world I can say that no... We have 1 bathroom and 2 if you have a house... So this majority must be the majority in the US :D Greetings from Germany
Not sure how the self-proclaimed fitness experts think telling their kids that exercise is their punishment is going to work out well.
Maybe also mention their next punishment will be to use proper personal hygeine, and don’t misbehave again or you’ll be taught to read.
but time out corners are kinda lame, i'd rather use flip flops
I like the idea 7:38 of using a laundry basket in the tub. It keeps the child and toys close together.
Lots of good parenting ideas in this video, really.
Uh....I'm not going to be the one pulling socks off the toilet seat!
I have 3 kids and have never been able to fake them out with food lol.
4:02 …oh god no..
Ah yes, when your child does something like let’s say break an item of yours, let’s make a completely different punishment like.. no iPad for a week? Perfect.
@beepboopwhatsthescoop ikr like bruh this is why gentle parenting is good, first off, you actually make punishments that are connected to what happened, and it shouldn’t even be considered gentle parenting. It should be considered how to treat your kids correctly.
If they break something like a plate I'm not going to punish them for that. Of course I wouldn't have glass plates with a child they would all be plastic. And less likely to step on glass that you missed years later. But, if they somehow broke a door then yeah they would be punished but just not severely because it's a door. Now my cousin thought it would be a good idea to swing her dog from its back legs. And she broke her dog's legs, that would need to be addressed. I'm not going to hit them for that. Just explain to them why it's not okay and tell him that they did a horrible thing because they did. And that it's okay to make mistakes but you have to own up to them. Like helping her learn how to change the dog's dressing and make sure the dog is comfortable would be her punishment. But I wouldn't tell her that it was a punishment. I know she didn't mean to hurt her dog, but now she knows better not to do that.
@@lunarcorpse Exactly, it DEFINITELY shouldn’t be considered a punishment, more of fixing the issue and making relevant solutions.
Why do children need to be "tricked" into eating veggies??? My parents never tricked, bribed, or coerced me into eating veg, I actually liked them...
OK, the home made hammock, make sure you have spacers in the ends as this parent has done using the table corners. Children die every year in hammocks without spacers at the ends, from suffocation.
What?
1:22
“When I was a young boy my father-“
TOOK ME INTO THE CITY TO SEE A MARCHING BAND
I was thinking the same 😂😂
I live in an Asian household, minus my father, I was the first born, so when I was young, my mother would feed me bean curd with some of my meals, not my siblings, and now I am the only one that actually likes bean curd. My parents also used to water down all my drinks, from juice to soda, now I don’t like juice or soda but I love water. I haven’t drank soda in about 13 years
Do people really have to be told to never EVER prop your baby's bottle as the dad allegedly did at 01:15? Never EVER EVER.
This is one of those videos that is cheaply produced to get views. They don't care if it is full of b.s. or not. Whatever gets views is good to them.
@@NickRoman And one look at the entire vid shows you how stupid people are generally and that fools copy these things.
Apart from the choking hazard babies need cuddles whilst feeding it makes them feel loved and safe
My son was a baby 46 years ago, and I knew that. He's dead now, but not from that kind of stupidity.
im sorry for your loss
I can honestly say, I'll use some of those ideas.... I just have to remember them XD
I bookmarked lol I live with my daughter, SIL and 4 kids, 2 cats, 2 dogs
You know that you can save videos, right?
Please no. Some of these are dangerous and or teaching the wrong lesson. :(
@vapx0075 but alot of them are good and really smart they said some of these they're not gonna use dangerous ones or ones that teach the wrong lesson.
The electronic one was GENIUS
That kid can still reach the barbecue grill, js...
The proper thing to do is to put the kid inside the fence instead
i am 16. whenever i misbehave my dad would often take the charger of all my device and pretend that he didn't saw them.
There were so many good things, I'll have to watch it again - n take screen shots for my husband. Maybe he can make a dress out of his shirt, or I'll build a gigantic crib! (NOT! LOL)
The first one already got me.
I need to prepare for the rest of the video. Wish me luck, mates.
1:18 *SCP 2357:* The World Ending Jar
*Object Class:* Euclid *-(used for securing, containing, and protecting children)-*
*Special Containment Procedures:* Don't do anything bad, or Daddy will remove _one_ bean from the jar. Once the jar has 0 beans, the world will undergo an XK-Class End of the World Scenario.
The baby pool inside the shower is brilliant specially if you have a small bathroom where having a bathtub isn't posible👍🏻
You can buy proper bath tubs for your small cubical they are really good.
My kid loves it.
It only cost 30 pounds I got from ebay.
I use it too.
I Hate that idea of taking off the beans of the jar. Raising kids in atmosphere full of guilt, and anxiety is absolutely terrifying
You clearly never been a parent and it shows
@@madcity2658 i am paretnt, nad I RAISE my kid, not SCARE him
I agree. It’s just weird. I’ve never understood parents making up crazy lies to get their kids to behave. Even Santa is creepy. I answer my kids’ questions honestly and I feel like they are smarter and more trusting of me that way.
Loved hide the charger!!!!👍👍👍👍
The temporary tattoo one is so freaking smart
It’s good for some things, but other options can be better. My parents had me memorize both of their phone number by the time I was like 6 or 7, and in really crowded places they would occasionally write their number in my arm in sharpie.
And no, Sharpie on skin is not going to hurt the kid. It wears off in less than a week, and if you scrub at it in the shower you can get it off in 1-2. I do swim team, and we always write names on our back s and events on our arms BARE MINIMUM in sharpie
@@Beanie26 Sharpie can be removed in moments with ordinary isopropyl alcohol.
Not so smart to put your phone number on the internet, though.
I feel bad for my parents because like, when your a parent you want your kid to do funny and weird things (of course not dangerous things) but when I was younger I had a very big logical understanding of the world and never said weird things or did stupid or bad stuff. Like they didn’t have to worry about me touching hot stuff or going into places I wasn’t allowed because as long as they explained why with logic, I’d listen.
Honestly, thank you, I knew I couldn't be the only one 😅
my mum once explained to me that we dont always have enough money to get nice things from the store and she told me now, 15 years later that she got worried that i never wanted anything because i never asked for anything ever again. I still dont like to ask people for things.
We're a rare breed then. I grew up enjoying vegetables because I was told they would help me grow strong for example. I stayed away from open flames and always thought of the consequences before I did something. I learned common sense early.
6:42 When you expand the playpen, make sure one of the walls has a sword hanging on it.
Covering doorknobs in any way is a hazard in a fire. What if your kid is stuck in the room and can’t get out?
I imagine those are on the outside of the bathroom door so your kid will leave you alone for five minutes.
They make safe doorknob covers that are easy for adults to turn. We have one on the bathroom and one on the front door. The bowl thing seems weird and a waste of a lid.
Dear Happy Land. A contraction is written this way, please don’t put spaces between the n and t. This is incorrect don’ t. 🤗
Yes! Or just say "do not."
3:26 after seeing this
I remembered that I have a candy 🍬 in my pocket 😂😂😂
I love this. I already knew a few but I really learned some superior moves here.
I was told the same thing as 3:38 and tried to convince a large group of people as a kid lol
Some of the parents are absolute geniuses 👏👏👏👏
3:32 my dad said the same exact thing
😂😂😂😂😂 we also had to always draw our feet 🦶 for show buying 😂😂😂😂
The exercise punishment makes as much sense as when I was a kid and went to confession at the end the priest would say, in effect, and for your penance (punishment), pray to God!
I don’t understand
@@agnus_sunga …the idea is, that if you treat a beneficial thing like exercise or prayer as a punishment, the young child’s mind will retain that when they get older and probably avoid the activity.
@@cmwHisArtist thanks for explaining it to me
Some of these are gold!!!
My mom ruined the taste of bubble gum for me by combining my bubblegum flavored liquid antibiotic with cherry flavored cough syrup. Now I can’t eat anything bubblegum flavored because I will vomit.
That's so true. When I was a kid, most of the medicines given to me were of orange flavour and now whenever I'll eat something orange flavoured I'll be like, " this tastes like medicine" . Then everyone will start looking at me like I'm an alien, because they don't understand how I'm feeling
Me but with grape. Can't even have grape popsicles or cough syrup (the issue started with grape berry cough syrup) or I will vomit
Ugh yep. Cherry is like this for me now. I can't even have real cherries or I'll gag on contact. Bubblegum to a lesser extent. Chocolate tastes like burnt throw up. Not really my mother's fault. Her options were cherry, bubblegum, or grape... They were always out of grape. That one I could stomach.
Worse was the gritty antibiotic that I always had to take with the cherry fever reducer. Ughhhh.
Cool ideas...
3.37 we've all been told that and I'm high end of middle aged so it's not new. I used to carry that on with my own kids early 90s
6:38 I love how there’s a sword just chillin on the wall
My mom does the bike lock on fridge one.
A lot of these are pure genius
Never mind the baby. That DILF the shot. WOoof! 4:19
The coffee lid popsicle one is genius. No mess, and if the treat falls off the stick they can just eat it off the lid.
Except it's not in the middle it's really close to one side. I'd use a cupcake liner poke a hole in the middle, and it works perfect
Great ideas!!
1:25 I read this to the tune of "Welcome to the Black Parade" by My Chemical Romance
First!!
i love Happy Land
hello all friends!!
have great day and lucky!
Hi Funny Daily friend! U have a great day too
9:06 true for me but unless is money.
3:33 wait what???? my dad told me this my whole life, i feel betrayed
This has given me ideas as what to do as a parent
2:40 Anyone with a computer: You may have outsmarted me, but I have outsmarted your outsmarting.
Take away their mouse then xD
6.34 were out in the 70s. I had one as a child.. not new
8:32 something similar happens at my house. my brother has asked for cake whenever we go to the store since his 3rd birthday because it was the first year he associated it with treats. apperantly a three-year-old gets a birthday 24/7 365
0:44 That better not be RC car in there! 😮
I love the "How to wash your children and not flood the house"
7:54 thinks they have it all figured out until their kids are like "Hey, look at this!" and doing windstands from the climbing wall...
0:49 Good idea, but you might wanna have a look at the temperature settings.
Fun fact :
When I was barely 2-3 years old my mom told me that I was zooming around in a twisty scooter bike thing and was zooming on all kinds of things before 4 years old like a roller skate
I never almost never ate ice cream truck ice cream, once is my graduation of elementary school and the other I don't remember
8:00 or just get rid of the walker bc these things are detrimental to child development anyway 💀
How are they detrimental?
No hate intended, I’m just curious because I had one as a child.
@@sylviaisafoot6570 people think baby walkers help children to learn how to walk but it stops the child from learning how to stand up and take independent steps. So it usually delays the development of balance, muscles, etc that are needed to learn how to walk on their own. Also it can pose various risks for injury. I recommend the article by Havard Health "Parents: Don't use a baby walker" or "Myths and Truths about Baby Walkers" by Shetland NHS Board, they also give advice for alternatives to help the baby's development :)
@@audrayliar7480 oh okay thank you for the information.
3:12 is disgusting. a fun day with your dad shouldn't depend on grades. time is precious. you teach your kid they only deserve good things if they succeed in school/work. also grades often don't depend on how much effort you put in, sometimes the teacher just hates you.
that is one very, VERY stupid father.
When I was a kid climbing a rock wall was fun not punishment
7:56 This might make the kids hate climbing because they will associate it with a punishment
That bean jar thing is really fucked up. Those kids are gonna live in fear of making any mistakes and of the literal apocalypse for a long time, have fun paying for therapy.
1:22 I read that to the tune of Welcome to the black parade
3.55 we used a mattress when we were kids.
I think you did two of the water fountain ones
3:57 when i was younger and my parents were dead asleep we would take the mattress and ride it down the stairs
The dad is losing badly in that game of chess!
When I was a child for some reason I always thought the ice cream man had buckets of ice cream to scoop.
wait wat they don't?
Some of these seem really stupid and dangerous for kids
As my son was packing to go to Boy Scout camp he said
he was looking forward to going Horse Camping while
there. I said to him Horse camping? Does the horse bring
his own sleeping bag or do you have to share yours with him?
!
That is not a safe BBQ, one bump or lean against the ring fence and it will go sliding and crashing into the BBQ, unless you are able to bolt the fence to the ground...
0:35 Well That’s Not Healthy For The Parents
I love the part “ How to ruin someone’s childhood and the taste of coke”
4:12 I've seen that very commonly in my childhood. Proper cotbeds would be set up for mothers so they can do this
why are people covering door knobs with food containers?? edit: had a think about it.. is it because some door knobs have a lock?
What is the name of the songs?
4:08 I suspect this was a dad's idea.
You don't need to do anything to ruin the taste of pepsi. Just saying...
Is there something I'm missing on the Hello Kitty bat? It's cute, but is it supposed to be something else?
6:46 sword on the wall in the playpen
1:22
i thought it was a song
Either these parents love testing 5- minute crafts hacks or they steal ideas from these parents.
6.53 isn't that Ladbaby?
6:53
How do you make the baby bath hat?
You buy it, I believe.
2:00 ....No..NO.. JUST NOOOOOOOO
3:00
I have that doll-
6:41 so are we just going to ignore the Saber on the wall in the kids play area? 🤺🤦♀️👎😬
I really liked most of these. Not the bottle propped with bananas one. That one was pretty bad. But most of them.
DON'T PUT AN RC CAR IN THE DISHWASCHER! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA QAQ
1:56 too bad! Try getting new photos next time
2.12 OR chalk paint on the bottom half of the wall.
"The dodge charger"