This is one of your most important and valuable lessons yet. Not just for attraction but it’s part of human nature to give in and learn how to bend and reshape, adapt to change
This video really resonated with me. I’m much older (49) than your target audience, and found your message about staying current or staying stuck so true. I see too many people with rigid mindsets, especially when it comes to dating. Some women I know don’t realize how masculine they’re actions are: reaching out, initiating plans, demanding to have serious conversations. That fluid energy is enigmatic!
One thing great about UA-cam is you find out, see first hand from first hand testimony that many many of us have had rotten parents. All we can do is stop the cycle and do all we can to make the world a better place for kids, everyone. It’s spiritual and psychological changes humanity needs-urgently. And what we value and celebrate. We need to go deeper♥️
I am learning that self love also means forgiveness not only for others but yourself for not knowing what you know now and life is about finding contentment in the constant 💗💗💗
I went through the most toxic situation of my life, then two important deaths and it all clicked. 😭 finally! There’s been a peace I can’t describe. Suddenly I’m finding myself far more present, far more in the moment, and I have fully accepted the joys and pains of life.
Hey Alex. Fairly new subscriber here. Just wanted to say as a 51 yr young single female, this topic is priceless. Hindsight is always 20/20 but holy crap if only we could learn the value of being formless, and not only learn it, but grasp it, so many situations & negative experiences could've definitely been avoided! You are blessing at your age to be able to help people at younger ages come to terms with this concept. Due to personal reasons, I have really gone out of my way to get help for myself so I could figure out where I have been going wrong for so many years. Controlling my emotions alone have stepped up the game for me ten-fold. Still have a long ways to go but ladies, if you can start working on controlling your emotions now, please do it. It's so life-changing you can truly feel the energy vibration go through your body as you start practicing this intentionally. Just do it for yourself. For your safety. For your self-worth. For your confidence. For so many reasons, not just for your intimate relationships--all relationships. Love this channel!
Wow Alexis this is one of your most profound intelligent well spoken thoughtful lessons you've ever taught this is the kind of work you've always been heard toward I've been watching you for years ,and waiting for you to express this kind of depth . No one really can deliver the message the same way ,and I'm blown away by your clear concise delivery.Please continue... You've grown so much over the years. Love this from you...
I’m getting ready to move to a new state, new environment and around a whole new group of people and I am soooooooo nervous… this video is what I needed to hear right now at this moment… Thank You! ❤🎉
My Gemini bf and fellow 20year office mate and we’re married to two guy cousins, love to say, We Stay like Switzerland 😂 and roll with it! Helps alot to stay flexible.
Listen I’m so grateful for you and your videos!!! You’re teaching us how to play the game of life. I was innocent and thought I just need to be kind sweet good and that’s it people will reciprocate but there is a whole a lot learning to do to win in life. I don’t have to hurt no one but I can respect and play the energy of life
One advise id like to give you from my experience is that don't be very welcoming and nice to people until they prove that they're worthy of that treatment from you. Hope this helps :)
You gave wealth of game. I think my struggle with it is my ego. I do all things mentioned in the video but every now then 😅 I slip ( like letting ppl think they’re smarter than me ). I be having to bite my tounge so hard. It can get tough and it requires humility to pull it off.
Yes. I just let them think that they are, and in that there is power. Please think I’m not capable of understanding because now I understand you much more. I want to prove it too, sometimes, but you have to understand this person has already built this image of you in their heads. You have to understand where you stand with yourself.
As an older person , I find this advice very affirming . I am so happy to have found your videos and am very excited to hear more . I know several older ( even older than myself ) people who are surrounded by young people that admire their wisdom and youthful attitude towards themselves and life . Yes flexibility is truly the answer for an exciting and interesting life .🎉
Great Video! It’s always more refreshing to keep open! Do something different each week. Even if it’s only trying a new food, talking to someone not normally someone you’d gravitate to. Or just switching up your hair style. Flex.
I say I want a relationship and act the opposite lol because I learned to detach and just because I want a relationship doesn’t mean I want one with them, I let time determine if that person is right for me. It confuses many lol Impossible = I’m Possible Things are reversed to confuse your own reality.
Yup, I say I love you and then act like I don't. I've been told that I don't seem to care. I do, I'm just a gemini, we are forever changing (mutable sign). This is how we protect our feelings. I detach to protect me.
Well Father Alex has taught me more than anyone I have ever encountered😂..online or in person. I have always practiced mindfulness..but he just adds that real good “spice” to it! And I know this is an old video..but I will say, I have tried what he teaches..and IT WORKS EVERY-TIME!!
I'm doing well on the changing and not looking/acting/feeling my age. I'm 53 and my friends are in their 30"s. This is an important message because I know a few ppl from highschool that still wear their makeup the same and you can tell they haven't changed at all. Same hair style and eye liner lol
There's a woman here in South Africa 🇿🇦 her names KHANYI MBAU, alot of people judge her because she uses her looks like a camouflage pretty similar to what the Kardashians do. Surgeries, skin bleaching, changing bodies etc. I don't really recommend it but all the women who do this I've noticed win in many areas of life and at getting the wealthiest men, these women understand that their appearance is a tool and they can change their appearance depending on their desired victim/ target/ outcome. A good example of this is Kim Kardashian looking and portraying the black aesthetic while she was dating black men, when she moved on to Pete she adopted a more white aesthetic.... But besides dating or financially progressing just in general life its always good to be able to change, adapt and evolve in everything you do.
Maybe a part 2 for this video....I'm so curious about the charisma aspect but also, all of the other after effects. For example, seeming mysterious, elusive, always the girl that got away. Could you do a follow up video on all of this? OR do you think I'm off track and the lack of form isn't actually what creates these traits? 🤔
Dude ..y always hit it put the park! Loud and clear..keep it up..u r creating a monster...or shall u say molding the Goddness inside me!! Knowledge is so powerful and I thank u
I loved this Dalexis. I always tell people that this is a psychology channel under the guise of a dating channel. I bought jeans that aren’t so tight. I wanted loose ones cut couldn’t find any. I started doing the dewy inner eye look and the under eye concealer up towards my temples. Wearing sneakers every now and then and I got an XL hoodie lol It’s the little things. I used to do the laminated brow every day but it took too much time
Can you do a video on whether being with a man that’s still developing himself within his career and financial circumstances is a positive thing if the chemistry is amazing?
Not only is this the best one that you’ve done in a long time but in all actuality this is exactly how I live my life. Thank you very much for putting it into words for me because I never considered this balancing act of life that I thrive in, is because I am freeform. Even though I do realize I’m just riding the wave and playing the hinge into life… I’m just definitely digging the word freeform. I always said if I were to be any shape I would be a squiggle because I don’t have many favorites.
I have not found anyone interested in me except narcissists for 10 years and I finally reconnected with someone and we had the best connection I've ever had in my life and he just died. I give up. It's never meant to be for me. No hope. The good ones always die or stay with abusive narcissists. I'm devistated and heart broken forever. 💔🖤🖤😭😭
I agree 👍🏻. Nice video! Totally agree 💯..we must become flexible and adapt to our environment. I did many of those things in the last few years and I've noticed big positive changes in my life. Still growing 💗, I'm always changing, looking to grow. Great point of view! Thank you! 💚🙏🏻
Was the message clear? Be honest. I won't close the channel. To learn more read 48 laws of power ☺️
Sounds sus
Yes it was.
Thank you father Alex!
Be open minded and more flexible with life and people. 💯
Yes! Thank you sir
"Aceita, que dói menos."
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"Accept it, and it'll hurt less."
This is one of your most important and valuable lessons yet. Not just for attraction but it’s part of human nature to give in and learn how to bend and reshape, adapt to change
48 laws of power - chapter 48: Formlessness
This video really resonated with me. I’m much older (49) than your target audience, and found your message about staying current or staying stuck so true. I see too many people with rigid mindsets, especially when it comes to dating. Some women I know don’t realize how masculine they’re actions are: reaching out, initiating plans, demanding to have serious conversations. That fluid energy is enigmatic!
Thank you I didn't have a healthy father or mother and I learned so much through this talk thank you 🙏 💜 grow through what you go through
Exactly the same!
One thing great about UA-cam is you find out, see first hand from first hand testimony that many many of us have had rotten parents. All we can do is stop the cycle and do all we can to make the world a better place for kids, everyone. It’s spiritual and psychological changes humanity needs-urgently. And what we value and celebrate. We need to go deeper♥️
I am learning that self love also means forgiveness not only for others but yourself for not knowing what you know now and life is about finding contentment in the constant 💗💗💗
I made everyone at work think am crazy for they leave me alone. 😅it was worked out in my favor.
I went through the most toxic situation of my life, then two important deaths and it all clicked. 😭 finally! There’s been a peace I can’t describe. Suddenly I’m finding myself far more present, far more in the moment, and I have fully accepted the joys and pains of life.
Have gone through exact same. Now feel very liberated. Keep doing what you're doing 💪🏼
Your unique style, delivery and overall vibe, is magnetic. Being unapologetically you, (absolutely frank), sets you apart from *ALL* the others.
Reality is the opposite of what you see 🤝🏼once you accept that reality, you have the ultimate power. Yes.
Hey Alex. Fairly new subscriber here. Just wanted to say as a 51 yr young single female, this topic is priceless. Hindsight is always 20/20 but holy crap if only we could learn the value of being formless, and not only learn it, but grasp it, so many situations & negative experiences could've definitely been avoided! You are blessing at your age to be able to help people at younger ages come to terms with this concept. Due to personal reasons, I have really gone out of my way to get help for myself so I could figure out where I have been going wrong for so many years. Controlling my emotions alone have stepped up the game for me ten-fold. Still have a long ways to go but ladies, if you can start working on controlling your emotions now, please do it. It's so life-changing you can truly feel the energy vibration go through your body as you start practicing this intentionally. Just do it for yourself. For your safety. For your self-worth. For your confidence. For so many reasons, not just for your intimate relationships--all relationships. Love this channel!
Wow Alexis this is one of your most profound intelligent well spoken thoughtful lessons you've ever taught this is the kind of work you've always been heard toward I've been watching you for years ,and waiting for you to express this kind of depth . No one really can deliver the message the same way ,and I'm blown away by your clear concise delivery.Please continue... You've grown so much over the years. Love this from you...
Love not looking my age,,,graceful aura😁😁
I’m getting ready to move to a new state, new environment and around a whole new group of people and I am soooooooo nervous… this video is what I needed to hear right now at this moment… Thank You! ❤🎉
Bless you! Changing states is fun! Trust your gut, listen to your soul, and you will find serendipity all around you!
“Oh my gahd like a boss” 😂😂😂
This is my power as a Gemini woman 🥰. Legend says that we are fickle, but we truly are formless! Loyal, but always adapting, changing and growing.
I love being a Gemini woman 💜♊️
My Gemini bf and fellow 20year office mate and we’re married to two guy cousins, love to say, We Stay like Switzerland
😂 and roll with it! Helps alot to stay flexible.
Listen I’m so grateful for you and your videos!!! You’re teaching us how to play the game of life.
I was innocent and thought I just need to be kind sweet good and that’s it people will reciprocate but there is a whole a lot learning to do to win in life. I don’t have to hurt no one but I can respect and play the energy of life
One advise id like to give you from my experience is that don't be very welcoming and nice to people until they prove that they're worthy of that treatment from you.
Hope this helps :)
You gave wealth of game. I think my struggle with it is my ego. I do all things mentioned in the video but every now then 😅 I slip ( like letting ppl think they’re smarter than me ). I be having to bite my tounge so hard. It can get tough and it requires humility to pull it off.
Yes. I just let them think that they are, and in that there is power. Please think I’m not capable of understanding because now I understand you much more.
I want to prove it too, sometimes, but you have to understand this person has already built this image of you in their heads. You have to understand where you stand with yourself.
My ego gets me in trouble smh
It’s my 40th birthday today. So this video was definitely appreciated. Great content 🙏
As an older person , I find this advice very affirming . I am so happy to have found your videos and am
very excited to hear more .
I know several older ( even older than myself ) people who are surrounded by young people that admire their wisdom and youthful attitude towards themselves and life . Yes flexibility is truly the answer for an exciting and interesting life .🎉
Great Video!
It’s always more refreshing to keep open! Do something different each week. Even if it’s only trying a new food, talking to someone not normally someone you’d gravitate to. Or just switching up your hair style. Flex.
This one is a really great one! It helps a lot! I'm 42 now and in kind of a "midlife/find my self - phase"... Thank you! 🙏
I say I want a relationship and act the opposite lol because I learned to detach and just because I want a relationship doesn’t mean I want one with them, I let time determine if that person is right for me. It confuses many lol
Impossible = I’m Possible
Things are reversed to confuse your own reality.
Same
That’s manipulation and a poisonous migraine. Totally unhealthy
Yup, I say I love you and then act like I don't. I've been told that I don't seem to care. I do, I'm just a gemini, we are forever changing (mutable sign). This is how we protect our feelings. I detach to protect me.
This is probably your best video by far father Alex! Felt like a masterclass of top tier wisdom 👏 Pure gold content! 🙌
Well Father Alex has taught me more than anyone I have ever encountered😂..online or in person. I have always practiced mindfulness..but he just adds that real good “spice” to it! And I know this is an old video..but I will say, I have tried what he teaches..and IT WORKS EVERY-TIME!!
Welcome to the Law of Assumption and Thought Transmission^^
I'm doing well on the changing and not looking/acting/feeling my age. I'm 53 and my friends are in their 30"s. This is an important message because I know a few ppl from highschool that still wear their makeup the same and you can tell they haven't changed at all. Same hair style and eye liner lol
You are just getting better and better
There's a woman here in South Africa 🇿🇦 her names KHANYI MBAU, alot of people judge her because she uses her looks like a camouflage pretty similar to what the Kardashians do. Surgeries, skin bleaching, changing bodies etc. I don't really recommend it but all the women who do this I've noticed win in many areas of life and at getting the wealthiest men, these women understand that their appearance is a tool and they can change their appearance depending on their desired victim/ target/ outcome. A good example of this is Kim Kardashian looking and portraying the black aesthetic while she was dating black men, when she moved on to Pete she adopted a more white aesthetic.... But besides dating or financially progressing just in general life its always good to be able to change, adapt and evolve in everything you do.
You deserve an Emmy for this information!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✨✨all FACTS!!! I’ve master thisss!!! Yasssss
The drawing of yourself is perfect 👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯
I always reinvent and updating ...my Life motto 💯
It was the intro for me “OMG LIKE A BOSS” 😂
Alex, this video is sooooo good!! I have a question, does living without form naturally make you charismatic?
Maybe a part 2 for this video....I'm so curious about the charisma aspect but also, all of the other after effects. For example, seeming mysterious, elusive, always the girl that got away.
Could you do a follow up video on all of this? OR do you think I'm off track and the lack of form isn't actually what creates these traits? 🤔
Just because I tell someone I want a relationship doesn’t mean I want one with them though
One of ur best speaches so far.
FROM SPAIN, LOVE LOVE EVERYTHING YOU SAY!
formlessness\Adaption =growth 🙌🏽 fantastic talk father Alex
If you were in high school in the late 90s/early 2000s- what we wore in high school is totally back in again…
Show the 20-somethings how it’s done!
Things will always change
Wow! Great message about being fluid. Love it!
you snapped 😮
Dude ..y always hit it put the park! Loud and clear..keep it up..u r creating a monster...or shall u say molding the Goddness inside me!! Knowledge is so powerful and I thank u
Preach father, preach! 🙌🏻
I'm blown away by this video and the way you delivered it . Thank you Father Alex.
I love how concise and focused you were in this video today ❤Thankyou alexxxx bring back Tyrone hahaha
Like a boss 😊
I loved this Dalexis. I always tell people that this is a psychology channel under the guise of a dating channel. I bought jeans that aren’t so tight. I wanted loose ones cut couldn’t find any. I started doing the dewy inner eye look and the under eye concealer up towards my temples. Wearing sneakers every now and then and I got an XL hoodie lol It’s the little things. I used to do the laminated brow every day but it took too much time
One of the best videos👍
Can you do a video on whether being with a man that’s still developing himself within his career and financial circumstances is a positive thing if the chemistry is amazing?
Powerful message!
This also has to do secure attachment style
Wow Alex , u just answered my question, one that had been wth me for over a year.
This was a great video….. had to actually take notes. Helps me see things from a different perspective….. thank u, Alex!!!!❤❤❤❤
22:04 hmmm I guess I needed to see and hear this today thanks you are sharp like always 😎👌🏻🙏🏻🌹
Definitely one of your better ones
Great content 👌 the message is windex clear! 🙂
bro that intro was fire
Half way in and you speaking facts!! Dope video
Great content !
Very good message!
wonderful message Alexis, thank you for sharing it in your own ways
Good point👍 I'm gonna try it.
Ayeeeee this the 1…you cracked the formula I need
Not only is this the best one that you’ve done in a long time but in all actuality this is exactly how I live my life. Thank you very much for putting it into words for me because I never considered this balancing act of life that I thrive in, is because I am freeform. Even though I do realize I’m just riding the wave and playing the hinge into life… I’m just definitely digging the word freeform. I always said if I were to be any shape I would be a squiggle because I don’t have many favorites.
This is dope dude
Love it
You would be my type hands down 😍
I needed to hear this today. Thank you 🙏
Great advice! 💚
Be Water..❤
This was good Alex... Thanx!
I learned a lot from this video. Thank you very much!
Just turned 41 a few weeks ago, enjoying this video - thanks Alex
How is it going my big bday approaching 😮💨
Amazing. Again 💯
Thank you Alex 🙏
You are so intelligent.
There we go Alex😎
ur a survivor - straight. up.
my g-d tht was beautiful ..
What a great video!
Love the intro and the message 🙏🏾💛
Be the Silent Observer.
Alex this was your best video yet! Bravo 👏🏼
This is genius.
Alex, you know I love your videos. How about you discuss childhood trauma? . Many relationship issues are a result of trauma, abuse, molestation..
This was soooooo good 👍🏽 👏🏽 👌🏽 🖤💙💯
Father Alex 🙏 thank you ❤️
I NEEDED THAT
Love it
I am a perfectionist.. I can’t wait for us all to be perfect 🙏🏽🥹
Thank you!
I have not found anyone interested in me except narcissists for 10 years and I finally reconnected with someone and we had the best connection I've ever had in my life and he just died. I give up. It's never meant to be for me. No hope. The good ones always die or stay with abusive narcissists. I'm devistated and heart broken forever. 💔🖤🖤😭😭
Sending you love ❤️
You should post a list of books you read ☺️
Another great videos
.your my favore as funny. Too .debbie London uk.
I agree 👍🏻. Nice video! Totally agree 💯..we must become flexible and adapt to our environment. I did many of those things in the last few years and I've noticed big positive changes in my life. Still growing 💗, I'm always changing, looking to grow.
Great point of view! Thank you! 💚🙏🏻
Over sharing isn’t good
Very cool!
Thank you for doing all that you do forreal 🙏🙏
Good stuff
Thank youuuu
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