Therapist Reacts To: Happiness is a Butterfly by Lana Del Rey

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 174

  • @guh4959
    @guh4959 Рік тому +338

    "Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.”

  • @Starryeyedobsolete
    @Starryeyedobsolete Рік тому +373

    "In my feelings" is an absolute bop by lana bursting in female rage and empowerment

    • @andres7th
      @andres7th Рік тому +10

      That is my least favorite lana song, it is almost unbearable for me

    • @Jana-ui7pg
      @Jana-ui7pg Рік тому

      YESSSSSSS

    • @cigfluencer
      @cigfluencer Рік тому +60

      @@andres7th some people are just tasteless. yourself for example

    • @AsiaKishai
      @AsiaKishai Рік тому +8

      I just do not care about the recommends cause every single song by lana is good.

    • @AsiaKishai
      @AsiaKishai Рік тому +1

      but if you ask Living Legend next.

  • @lewis-h6n
    @lewis-h6n Рік тому +212

    Something about this song is so special

  • @holdmacat9932
    @holdmacat9932 Рік тому +127

    That album was what I was experiencing exactly when it came out, and this song shows exactly what I thought and how I felt at that time. Like right on point, I was crying in the backseat, I just wanted this man to love me, dance with me, I was so depressed that I didn't care if someone was a killer. Like I can't describe how accurate this song was for me at the time.

    • @mattia51296
      @mattia51296 Рік тому +7

      Hope you've managed to process it and that you are in a better place now

  • @sunflowxrc0mp232
    @sunflowxrc0mp232 Рік тому +44

    This song always got me cry…especially the first part “do you want me, or do you not” there’s someone who told me that they want me but at the end it’s just me who want them.

  • @hg3xg
    @hg3xg Рік тому +79

    I fell in love with this song a couple of years ago when I was in a very unhealthy relationship. At the time, it was incredibly validating and comforting. I haven't really stopped and sat with the lyrics for a long time, since things you heavily consume just become part of you in a way, and because the melody and vocals are so beautiful. However, watching this reaction video made me realize that like Mere, I no longer identify with it, and it was somewhat comforting to realize that. I still enjoy it immensely, but from a different vantage point

  • @MultiWilliam15
    @MultiWilliam15 Рік тому +28

    It's cool that you mentioned "country club" because the continuation of this album is Chemtrails Over the Country Club, which is mostly about escaping the celebrity culture of California.

  • @garotointerrompido
    @garotointerrompido Рік тому +14

    pls dark but Just a game!! ❤️

  • @alexfencer34
    @alexfencer34 Рік тому +33

    I remember after the first time hearing this song I just sat in awe with tears streaming down my face. I was holding it the first part of the song, but when the strings come in the second verse… and then those blurry electric guitar riffs just broke me.

    • @meledder
      @meledder Рік тому +2

      The music is so gorgeous in this song. Gives me ASMR like goosebumps when that guitar comes in.

    • @babelmayatoh
      @babelmayatoh 8 місяців тому

      you describe my feelings about the song perfectly, I can listen to it endlessly every day

  • @GreenwichAcid
    @GreenwichAcid Рік тому +22

    I loved your reaction. This song is just perfect for our current times. One of the themes this song covers is "online dating", which is why lana makes the serial killer analogy. This song has a very simple but lovely way to describe happiness. Truly iconic.

  • @cadencrews6000
    @cadencrews6000 Рік тому +15

    If you would like please do Not Strong Enough by Boygenius. The band has Phoebe Bridgers and has some really good lyrics. Love ya mere!!!

  • @cinnamon_girl_lily
    @cinnamon_girl_lily Рік тому +17

    I love your lana reaction videos, i feel like you really capture the true meaning of her songs and read between the lines rather than just taking the lyrics at face value. I'd love for you to listen to beautiful by lana del rey, its such a lovely song and i hope you'd like it! 💗

  • @stephenapple90210
    @stephenapple90210 Рік тому +10

    You are Lana fandom approved ❤

  • @zakariahadra5706
    @zakariahadra5706 Рік тому +31

    Another great reaction!!! Thank youuu and i had one question, what if Lana saying "He's already hurt" mean "He HAS already hurt", could that be a possibility and how would that change the context of the songs meaning???

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +19

      OMG I missed this! That’s the way it was supposed to be read bc she’s saying he’s a serial killer, he has already hurt people!! Thank you for sharing

    • @zakariahadra5706
      @zakariahadra5706 Рік тому +2

      @@mendwithmere oh wow hahaha thats interesting!! and ur very welcome i love ur vids keep it up ❤️

  • @keithmoore8702
    @keithmoore8702 Рік тому +12

    The video she made for this is nothing like the song. There's a still from it in your header. She's out with the girls having a laugh driving around in her truck. It's very light and amusing. And lots of butterflies!

  • @sqrletvisions3234
    @sqrletvisions3234 Рік тому +9

    we need california!!

  • @hibabayaa
    @hibabayaa Рік тому +2

    please do put me in a movie. but trigger warning you will probably cry, I'm co sorry in advance if you do

  • @anaberri
    @anaberri Рік тому +14

    i cant believe I’m seeing her perform in 11 days 🥹🥹🩷

  • @rickloures
    @rickloures Рік тому +7

    I think you would be cool to see your reaction to MARINA, her lyrics are very good and unique, I'd recommend something from Froot, like Solitaire or I'm a Ruin

    • @Onceuponatime006
      @Onceuponatime006 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes..!!!Marina and Mitski.. I would love to see her reactions to these both great artists..

    • @chrystianaw8256
      @chrystianaw8256 2 місяці тому

      Yes omg!

  • @Ultraviolence14
    @Ultraviolence14 Рік тому +4

    Please listen Yosemite or 13 beaches 😭

  • @PssyCntrl
    @PssyCntrl Рік тому +8

    I’ve been waiting for this and off to the races!!!

  • @shilohgoes5544
    @shilohgoes5544 Рік тому +9

    Please react to “Beautiful”! Lana talks about the critics telling her she makes too much sad music. It’s wonderful

  • @Uhoriah
    @Uhoriah Рік тому +7

    You should do "put me in a movie" its from an old album of hers. I would like to hear your analysis on it.

  • @Chris_Grxnt
    @Chris_Grxnt Рік тому +5

    i love it, thanks for the reaction. You should to react ''Terrence loves you'' or ''Is this happiness?'' by Lana.

  • @coelhooo7651
    @coelhooo7651 Рік тому +5

    YESSS i’ve been waiting for this one! Now Terrence Loves You from the Honeymoon album please

  • @kk-wm9jl
    @kk-wm9jl Рік тому +8

    unrelated but you’re so skillful at makeup!! always admiring

  • @salsabomb245
    @salsabomb245 Рік тому +4

    If you haven't already can you react to Bartender by lana

  • @salsabomb245
    @salsabomb245 Рік тому +5

    Oh and living legend and Thunder

  • @r.e.m2251
    @r.e.m2251 Рік тому +7

    THE MOMENT I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR!!

  • @henriquesouzanascimento9543
    @henriquesouzanascimento9543 Рік тому +3

    Chemtrails Over The Country Club clip, pleaaaaseee

  • @lorenavasques8657
    @lorenavasques8657 Рік тому +5

    On the music vid of this song, she's just with her friends doing nothing, but sometimes she's yelling at her "fuc.k boy" on the phone. It seems that her friends are trying to distract her from the conversation, so every time she stops looking at her phone and pay attention to the girls, she starts smiling. So cute ❤️
    It'd be great if you could do Dark Paradise! I searched a good vid with correcto lyrics for you!
    ua-cam.com/video/GHTXeCsD_wU/v-deo.htmlsi=vhxX5w4E4GmE4vBE

  • @yakumarat
    @yakumarat Рік тому +3

    Please react to "Heroin", it's one of her vest songs ❤

  • @alissonadilson5487
    @alissonadilson5487 Рік тому +3

    Omg, I just discovered your channel and I'm obsessed with your reactions about Lana, and Hi from Brazil

  • @sadsadbadboy
    @sadsadbadboy 7 місяців тому +1

    I remember listening to this song when I was dating somebody new and was like ‘wow it’s so nice that I am loving this sad song and am not currently sad’. Then it ended horribly with the guy I was dating and this song hit me like a ton of bricks

  • @caps07
    @caps07 Рік тому +3

    Terence loves you next pleaseeeeee

  • @stefaniecarolinakarnitsch678
    @stefaniecarolinakarnitsch678 5 місяців тому +1

    No início da música tenho a sensação de que a alegria/felicidade não é algo que é constante, como ela falou, e é algo frágil e “raro” que você tem que agarrar como uma borboleta que é algo super delicado e efêmero. Tudo bem não estar feliz o tempo todo mas quando se há situações alegres ou felizes, temos que desfruta-las dela.

  • @franciscosqpz
    @franciscosqpz Рік тому +2

    I need ur reaction of “put me in a movie”

  • @dmc3319
    @dmc3319 Рік тому +3

    Please come to Brazil so we can drink a bottle of wine while talking about life

  • @thedreamerintherye
    @thedreamerintherye Рік тому +3

    Miss Lanita actually has a brand new and ✨ official✨ song with Jon Batiste! It's called "Life lesson" and it's super nice and bittersweet, makes me a bit emotional for some reason😅
    Thanks for your reactions and interpretations!❤

  • @lxvely2963
    @lxvely2963 Рік тому +3

    cinnamon girl or let the light in 🙏 i love those song and feel like have such a deeper meaning

  • @mzrybixel5506
    @mzrybixel5506 Рік тому +4

    Mere you are such a wonderful person and I love your content!!! I would love if you'd do one of my favorite lana songs Thunder, living legend, and sweet coralina they are all very deep meaningful songs and I really relate to them, it'll mean a lot if you'd cover them. Please keep up the amazing content, also please make more poetry books it doesn't take a genius to see how brilliant you are! I love when you dive deep into songs and decode the poetry behind it, but id love to see a book like pillow thoughts written by you.

  • @losxdescabezados
    @losxdescabezados Рік тому +11

    To keep with the "happiness" theme, please give a listen to Is this Happiness
    The song is a bonus track from the Japanese version of Ultraviolence, so, you'll have an idea what to expect!

    • @GreenwichAcid
      @GreenwichAcid Рік тому +1

      Correction: Is This Happiness is part of the deluxe (digital) edition of the album. Flipside is the only bonus track for Japanese and European editions.

    • @losxdescabezados
      @losxdescabezados Рік тому +1

      @@GreenwichAcid noted! Either way, it's a lovely, sad little song that delivers a nice gut punch.

    • @GreenwichAcid
      @GreenwichAcid Рік тому +1

      Agreed! Is This Happiness and Flipside are truly heartbreaking. Is This Happiness never fails to make me tear up. I wish they were on the normal version of the album.@@losxdescabezados

    • @jenna127
      @jenna127 Рік тому

      i second this!!!

  • @TodayWithKyle
    @TodayWithKyle Рік тому +1

    Can you do Heroin by Lana del Rey???? Xoxo 😍

  • @Bttrlyfs
    @Bttrlyfs Рік тому +2

    Bel air is so poetic. Hope one day you can listen to it and make a review ✨🫶🏻

  • @victoriavilte2982
    @victoriavilte2982 Рік тому +2

    Please do Off the races by LDR❤

  • @lisandr0
    @lisandr0 Рік тому +1

    I feel like you have to listen to her Lizzy Grant songs! I feel like you'd love some and then be like WHAT at some others (f.e Put Me In A Movie)

  • @lizzyg9310
    @lizzyg9310 Рік тому +3

    Thank you very much! 🙏
    I had to cry when I listened to this song the first times.
    You explain and feel her songs still very very good!

  • @talanross3141
    @talanross3141 Рік тому +2

    Loved an addict, that addict being my mum, who unfortunately passed in 21’ but was on the track to getting better before so. Love ur channel and I’m getting ur book!!

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +2

      I love you! I’m sorry for your loss and it’s even harder when they are on the path to recovery. I want to hold you. Thank you for getting the book!

  • @matheusalves3550
    @matheusalves3550 Рік тому +9

    “is this happiness” reaction i need that ):

  • @andrewduanebarr4737
    @andrewduanebarr4737 Рік тому +1

    Terence loves you please

  • @sophia-yw1ou
    @sophia-yw1ou Рік тому +3

    you should listen to some of lanas poetry it’s so beautiful

  • @gustavoaraujodesousa
    @gustavoaraujodesousa 17 днів тому

    I jusr really love your analysis! You're so talented.
    By the way, your accent isn't hard to get. I'm not a native speaker, even so I'm able to clearly comprehend what you say.

  • @thytuz
    @thytuz 9 місяців тому +1

    Rewatching every single one of your Lana reactions just to say that you are amazing and I love you

  • @archangeldimitri
    @archangeldimitri Рік тому +2

    Youre so amazing 🙌 thank you ✨🧿🦚✨

  • @ourhoneyoon
    @ourhoneyoon Рік тому +1

    old money by lana:(

  • @707_erin
    @707_erin Рік тому +13

    I love this song and can feel every single bit of it. I think you are pretty accurate with it but I think the bigger picture is about not chasing things and staying centred in yourself and just letting other meet you half way. She posted on her insta a while ago the quote “happiness is a butterfly, the more you chase it the more it eludes you” and she could never be more right

  • @thedude6232
    @thedude6232 Рік тому

    Try the song chemtrail over the country club by lana
    It’s INSANE

  • @leapjumpsoar8049
    @leapjumpsoar8049 9 місяців тому

    please could you do Is This Happiness, a deluxe track from Ultraviolence? I love your analyses by the way

  • @Whitehotforever1_
    @Whitehotforever1_ Рік тому +2

    I was just listening to this song then come on UA-cam and see this 😂😂 Lana’s power>

  • @Ritika_1315
    @Ritika_1315 Рік тому +2

    Idk why I am addicted to your videos.

  • @rogergabriel4027
    @rogergabriel4027 Рік тому +1

    Old money!!!

  • @rie_888
    @rie_888 Рік тому +2

    First lana song I ever heard ❤ thanks for this one Mere. I'm so looking forward to getting that book and I love you!

  • @khyber455
    @khyber455 Рік тому +1

    pleaseee do valentine by fiona apple!!

  • @xoxo_leo
    @xoxo_leo Рік тому +5

    You should hear Boarding School, it's one of her unreleased, but it's really heavy

  • @rachellll04
    @rachellll04 Рік тому +2

    please pick a ultraviolence album next time love u

  • @alvaroleonardo8395
    @alvaroleonardo8395 Рік тому +1

    “Dragon Slayer” next 🥺

  • @wesleynoturno
    @wesleynoturno Рік тому +1

    Love it,
    Big hugs from Copenhagen

  • @ezequielerso6684
    @ezequielerso6684 Рік тому +1

    In My Feelings must be the next one pls

  • @bryancarson5908
    @bryancarson5908 Рік тому +1

    Song is just sad as hell for no reason 😂

  • @gonzaloreynaga5505
    @gonzaloreynaga5505 Рік тому +2

    NFR best album

  • @rainbowcookie8034
    @rainbowcookie8034 Рік тому +1

    You should do put me in a movie by lana

  • @violencnoviolet
    @violencnoviolet Рік тому +1

    You should totally react to “In My Feelings” by Lana, Mere ❤

  • @michaelgann1184
    @michaelgann1184 Рік тому +3

    I just love your reactions and analysis of her music. It’s always so thoughtful and thought-provoking 🤍 I’d love to see you react to Dark But Just a Game from Chemtrails

  • @SeamusWood
    @SeamusWood Рік тому +2

    Mere you are amazing and i always look forward to your reactions ❤️

  • @rafa-zf2ky
    @rafa-zf2ky Рік тому

    DARK PARADISE & 13 BEACHES please

  • @andrewduanebarr4737
    @andrewduanebarr4737 Рік тому +1

    Your reviews are amazing. Thank you

  • @andrewduanebarr4737
    @andrewduanebarr4737 Рік тому +1

    Just ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hellisinternal
    @hellisinternal Рік тому +2

    You are soooo beautiful!!

  • @juakimjoness8444
    @juakimjoness8444 9 місяців тому

    You Give Taylor swift vybz, i love it

  • @nelidamora6746
    @nelidamora6746 Рік тому +1

    Love your reaction, I hope you go up - love and love song ❤❤

  • @esteras114
    @esteras114 Рік тому

    mend with mere i wonder whats ur venus sign?

  • @vdLeo-je6os
    @vdLeo-je6os 10 місяців тому

    Meredith your reactions in all these videos are so wonderful. Lana Del Rey is my favourite artist and you are definetelly my favourite therapist. Congratulations. Greetings from Thessaloniki Greece.

  • @r.e.m2251
    @r.e.m2251 Рік тому

    Can I make a recommendation? I feel like u would like and everyone would love the reaction of u to Dark Paradise by Lana (loved ur video btw) 💕💞

  • @diorzogaj3008
    @diorzogaj3008 8 місяців тому

    Lisen to dark paradise please

  • @whoislulito
    @whoislulito Рік тому

    can you pleaaase react/analyze "in my head" by ariana grande? 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 it's one of my favorite songs by her and i relate so much to that song but I'd like to hear your analysis on it

  • @outsider120
    @outsider120 Рік тому

    "Terrence loves you".

  • @vdLeo-je6os
    @vdLeo-je6os 10 місяців тому

    Happiness is a butterfly, which when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you

  • @salsabomb245
    @salsabomb245 Рік тому +1

    I've been waiting for this one, turn it up!

  • @demetriussikes9048
    @demetriussikes9048 4 місяці тому

    CAN U DO CARMEN

  • @chrissagour4600
    @chrissagour4600 Рік тому

    You should react to Olivia's song "making the bed".She just released a new album and it's so good I think you will love it or really any of her songs.

  • @thytuz
    @thytuz Рік тому +1

    OMG OMG OMG
    THAAAANK YOUUUU ❤

  • @TodayWithKyle
    @TodayWithKyle Рік тому

    YES SHE DID IT💜💜😍 happiness is a butterfly you made my day😍

  • @lanas_ancient_dream
    @lanas_ancient_dream Рік тому

    Hi mere could you pls react to heroin by lana? Its a really personal song for lana because she is singing about her ex who died of an overdose.

  • @christinayelamobergantini6508
    @christinayelamobergantini6508 Рік тому +1

    Finally this one 🥹

  • @demidavila9893
    @demidavila9893 Рік тому

    I remember I was going through a similar situation and this song hit me so hard.
    I guess in retrospect it comes off alittle naive/immature?
    Idk sometimes people just make an imprint when you are young and you’ll do whatever it takes to make it work.

  • @rafaelwxd
    @rafaelwxd Рік тому +1

    YOU'RE THE BEST

  • @AaronnDK
    @AaronnDK Рік тому

    You should definitely listen to heroin by Lana from her album lust for life it’s a beautiful song and the storytelling is next level

  • @TheMchristofi
    @TheMchristofi Рік тому

    Brilliant! I looked up black rabbit and there is actually a bar/theatre called black rabbit rose magic that has late night live music / magic shows

  • @gamletmarkosyan6578
    @gamletmarkosyan6578 Рік тому

    please, do "off the table" by Ariana Grande 😭🤍
    love u❤

  • @keenanrodammer9493
    @keenanrodammer9493 Рік тому

    Hey Mere. Can you please do Serial Killer by Lana. The song means a lot to me as it makes me feel like I have a shot with her.