Post Retirement and Turning 60 Closet Clean Out! Not What I Expected!
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- Опубліковано 30 кві 2023
- In this video I share a recent closet clean out, tips on making decisions on what to keep and what to give away, and how different this clean out turned out to be. I just turned 60 and have been retired for almost a year. It was time to cleanup the closet and make space for clothes that fit my new life. However, I was in for a surprise, this closet clean out was like no other. It was actually cathartic! I expected to make decisions logically but it turned out to be all about how the clothes made me feel. If you are feeling stale and like you could use some inspiration and something new, this video might be for you! As always leave me a comment below if you have something to share.
Finally an influencer that matchs my time of life. I cleaned out closet after retirement also. It's a huge transition of life.
Oh good! I got the idea for the channel because, although I enjoy younger influencers too, I wanted something that related to my time in life. Let me know if there is anything you would like to see. And yes, it is a huge transition and very exciting :)
I am 70. I just had major surgery to my right shoulder, and I am binge you-tube watching as I am immobile,. I am typing this left handed, so that indicates my sincerity! I found and love this video. Recently, I have struggled with getting rid of things that I don't need any more and trying to make decisions, and I cannot tell you how much your video has helped me more than the other 30+ I've watched. The comment especially, about how it makes you feel, because I have lots of clothes that I think I love: example - I love this black jacket but it doesn't quite fit so I can't wear it now, but one day I might ... LET IT GO! I love giving the expensive items to charity so that someone can give them another life! You rock!!! hugs!
Thank you so much! Wow I really appreciate that you commented at all let alone left handed! Your words are so encouraging it really means a lot to me! Truly. Shoulder surgery is a tough surgery. My husband is just recovering from that too and had a good result but it's been a few months ago. It does get better, I hope your recovery goes really well and flys by.
Thank you again 🙂
I did this kind of cleanout after leaving the office. Some things that were really quite gorgeous and that I wore frequently and "couldn't do without" went immediately into the pile: "some working person will love this." But not me. I'm out of those constrains and now finding my legitimate style that must combine: Comfort + Beauty + Freedom.
I love this and understand that feeling.
Stale, that's a good way to put it
Going through the same thing right now. Had to start wardrobe completely over due to menopause 😮 ….it was hard for me to let go.
It is a time of change and unfortunately it doesn't get celebrated like it should. We celebrate other times of change in our lives, womanhood, marriage, but the celebration tends to drop off as we age and that is a shame. This is a new beginning! How do you like your new wardrobe?
So enjoyed this. Have gone through this myself in last 12 months following retirement in my early 60s! Still love alot of items but now wearing more relaxed versions eg softer shirts, wider leg pants, more colour! Donated my workwear to charity supporting women return to work. Feeling frumpy and not like me are great criteria.
Thank you so much and congratulations! It's an exciting time of life :)
I like the way you reason.
Here's a good one. I had a stylish mother who knew what looked good on her. But her style wasn't my style. It took me until I turned 60 and retired to discover my own style! I guess I'm a late bloomer. Lol.
Loved the trousers with the bird on it and the suede 70s jacket. I'm in my late 50s and went through a similar fase after being declared unfit to work after a serious illness. I had a closet of clothes that didn't fit my lifestyle anymore, I stopped colouring my hair and menopause happened; I totally lost my way in dressing myself. Slowly I found my new 'me' style and it's a lot more fun, quirky and bold than my previous style. And I'm feeling so much more myself now. I'd love to see your journey in finding your own style post retirement. Thanks for sharing this video!
Thank you! I’m sorry to hear about your illness but glad to hear you are finding your way! I am still finding mine too and it is more fun. We should have fun at this time in our lives!
You know what is easier than doing going through each item? Just turn all the hangers (with clothes on them) around in the closet. Have them face backwards. When you wear an item put it back in the closet the normal way. Over time you can see what you wear and don't wear. Then it is easy to give away the item you don't wear. You don't have to decide on anything now and go down memory lane with each item. Over time you will see what you actually wear.
That is such a good idea and some thing I think I might do in a second phase. Because I think I need it.
I think a cull when you transition into another phase of life is cleansing.
@sherrybendall5817 oh, yes! I'm freshly retired, it was unplanned, still coming to grips with it. But I have been looking at things I have had for years and really questioning myself about why I am keeping them. Especially things I haven't worn for years, if indeed, EVER!
I have done this for years, but this year I've actually decluttered some things!
Yes, I could not stand to keep items I wore all the time when I worked.
My lifestyle now is totally different! Great video!
I understand! And thank you!
Hi. I came across your channel and just had to stop and watch. I retired at age 60 also and found myself feeling the same way. I have to laugh because 5 years later I find myself " still purging " after giving away tons of clothes. 🤷🏽♀️ I am still at times living my " fantasy " life because I rarely get out for events or travel. Happy Retirement! 😃🎉
Wonderfull! So glad to hear from you! That is funny, I think I need to do another pass too! Happy retirement to you too :)
In my 60's and still work but I always go by how I "feel" in my clothing. Life's too short.
I love this comment! It was a revelation to me to consider how I "feel" in my clothes and yes, life is too short!
I turned 60 last year and retired. I've done one round of getting rid of things. But I think you've inspired me to go back a few more times!
Oh good! I plan to go back again too especially for things like accessories etc. It's kind of addicting once you get going.
Fresh is a great word.
Retirement includes retiring those work clothes! New clothes for a new chapter of life feels right.
Definitely how I felt/feel :)
This video was awesome!! I am needing to do this, I've been holding onto clothing that suited a different time in my life and have had a really hard time letting go. This gave me the motivation- very encouraging!
Oh that is great! It is hard to let go but it can be rewarding and make room for the next chapter :)
Basic crochet is really simple. A couple of hours on UA-cam and you’re on it!
Thank you that sounds like a good project!
I gave up all my business clothes when I retired. Try those Joy Mangano velvet covered hangers…all sorts of colors and very inexpensive Md take up so little space in your closet…I have them and love them. I retired and learned how to ride a Harley. I’ve ridden to the West Coast 2 times
Oh my gosh I think that is the coolest retirement story I have heard! I do have some velvet covered hangers and I lover them. I also like some with a little more slip for some things.
Just what I've been going through. Retired 2 years. Looking forward to more from you.
It is a journey for sure 😊
You did great! You had very good reasons for everything you donated. You have inspired me to take another look at my closet with more meaningful questions.
Oh thank you! I'm so glad it was helpful. I need to do it again honestly! I am still adjusting believe it or not :)
I turn 60 this year and I am embracing comfort and color and my style is palazzo pants in fun fabrics with comfortable coordinated tops. I haven’t tossed my button up blouses yet, mostly because the fabrics are so pretty but I should, because they aren’t me anymore. Thanks for the inspiration.
I have been on the lookout for beautiful palazzo pants! They can be very feminine as well as comfortable. It sounds like you have a knack for finding beautiful fabrics.
@@lifeandflowers245 I'm a sewist. There are some beautiful fabrics out there! Palazzo pants sew up with quilting calico and batik fabric beautifully. I get compliments on them almost every time wear them in public. It is a real ego boost! I'm getting rid of all of my jeans and working on a pair of gardening overalls to replace them.
Love this. Finally someone closer to my age (69). I agree with your thoughtful reasoning!
So glad to hear from you! The idea for this channel was to do something for ladies our age. I like my younger ladies I follow but also wanted to make content for later in life which I am really enjoying!
Thank you for this video! I have enjoyed it more than any other video about decluttering your wardrobe! Probably because I'm newly retired and will be 60 before the year ends. But especially thanks for the heads up about the menopause thing. I've been dithering about punting a whole bunch of stuff l thought was too hot to wear anymore. Now, I will hang onto what I like, but store it. Thanks again!
Oh thank you! I am so glad you found it enjoyable and helpful 😊and congratulations on retiring and turning 60 soon! And dithering...what a great word :)
Do what I've been doing put them all in the closet and if you don't wear them within the month donate them and yes I tried all them on witch I found out that most no longer fit 2 bags went out so far and counting ,so I've switch too loose fitting leggings that look like trousers to match with the items I've kepted. 1 black suit pant ,1 chocolate brown cream black small checked suit that I've put together with solid chocolate dress,pleated skirt,trousers and 2 floral print dresses max with solid matching short sleeved blazers. Then the rest I have will pair together naturally. Dress up or down. It's a big change for me went from a size 14-16 petite too 18-20 petite.the new items are so comfortable and go with all the other keep items. And I'm still sorting through the summer clothes and donating too friends . I've learned that casual flowing dresses are better in spring too fall and can be layered in winter. My teen girls I've helped throughout the years sure loved the over flow of clothes. And I've kepted all my turtle neck sweaters and cardigans that fit will gift the cream and black long cardigans because I'm a petite and they are a regular length. Now I just have too go throughout all shoes and boots. I just have too get the closet back together for quick outfits on the go. And I will keep up dating as needed.
Wow what great advice! I do miss having a suit that I could mix and match with other items. The one from the video was too structured and not really comfortable across the shoulders.
I’m 73 and even tho Im fully aware I’m no longer young, I still want to be fresh and modern . Those pants with the little bird are you. We should always be true to ourselves and who we are ……that’s what makes us unique . That’s your style!
I love your comment and I couldn't agree more! Thank you :)
Loved hearing your thought process. I feel you and I are a lot alike. Will remedy your advice when it’s my turn to do this, hopefully in the next year or so. Btw, I love the 70’s too! Thanks for making this video.
I have thought that too :) I'm glad you liked the video. I have to say retirement is more of a journey that I thought it was going to be. A good one, but a journey not so much a finite thing.
@@lifeandflowers245 Never really thought of retirement as a journey but that makes total sense! You’re the first person who’s told me that. Thanks for the heads-up. I’m sure that’ll help me when my turn comes. Thanks again!
Love this so much.
Professionals always suggest you get all similar hangers to make closet less cluttered... you seem to have every kind of hanger under the sun.
Haha I have standardized my hangers before. I actually like to have a little variety for different reasons but yes, it has gotten out of control for sure!
@@lifeandflowers245matchy matchy is overestimated! Imo!
You can take apart a suit and wear the trousers with a casual top and casual shoes; and wear the jacket with jeans! My one biggest purge when I retired was all my "prissy" blouses. Who needs all those office blouses with pearl buttons or bow tie necklines? Freedom!! Yay!!
Great thoughts on the suit! I kind of want to get another one that fits me better and do just that. And yes Freedom Yay!
Grandma pants with the bird!
Love this! Definitely going to look through my closet.
I just found your channel and found this so relevant to my life. I love the idea of making choices on how an item makes me feel. Thank you for being so honest.
Oh wonderful I am so glad you found my channel and that you enjoy it. That makes my day :)
Thank you! This is exactly what I needed! I plan on going through my closet, trying things on and donating items I did not wear each season.
Oh great! Have fun it was a refreshing task :)
I just found your channel, and really enjoyed this video! I'm into clothes, just did a closet purge and in the midst of big life changes too, so had to sub!
Oh great! Oh I see you have a channel too, I will have to check it out!
Love you're advice love how kind but honest you are about every peice of clothing x never mind how much things cost xxx teaching me a good life lesson x thank you
Aw thank you that means a lot to me. Thank you for taking the time to comment ☺
I am 60 1/2 years old. Still working, but looking forward to retirement changes. Thank you for sharing your point of view. I am beginning to shift to purge my work office style and start wearing clothing that is truly me. Listening to your words made me feel like we're sisters.. lol. Thank you
Aw that is so nice! I’m so glad the video is relatable to you. It’s an exciting time and should be celebrated! Have fun 🤩
I had to clear all my closets for asbestos abatement when I did renos in my house. When I put things back I realized I didn't need 5 of 1 colour of any thing. Great job
Thank you and it is eye opening to pull everything out!
Bird pants are adorable, keep them. This is my first time watching your show. I could see that you were learning so much about yourself as you declutter your closet. It was very healthy to watch. You are ready for your new chapter. It's okay to wait until you are ready to make decisions. My husband always tries to rush me to make decisions, especially when it comes to getting rid of things. I've learned to just wait until I'm ready. You are clearly ready. Are you married?
Oh now I see your question :) It was an interesting exercise! I am ready for this new chapter. I often regret getting rid of things when I am not ready or when someone else is pressuring me. You sound centered and strong :)
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This was really helpful!!
Oh great! 👍
I searched for inspiration cause I’m where you are at. I have ailments now so it’s taking me longer to purge. I wanted to say “toss it or I’ve done that with pink and white influencer top”. Thanks for sharing.
You got this! I hope you feel better too.
The only time in my life I was good at decluttering clothes was when I stopped work. I got rid of all my work clothes. I rationed that if I kept them, they would go out of style and no one would want them. Best decision ever. Now, if only I could clear out my current clothes….lol
I like that work clothes rational! Now we just need one for the current clothes haha. For me lately it's how I feel in them.
I did this when I retired and found it was still a lot so I took it to another level by trying to pair things up into like capsule wardrobes and discovered a number of pieces that...while I liked and liked to wear didn't really pair very well so donated them as well
That is a great idea! I am about to do a phase two and I think you put words to what I am experiencing. I have stuff but really only wear a few things. Thanks for the tip!
Sometimes just need some more up to date things and make you feel good❤🇨🇦
Not retired but I am coming up on 60, interested to see where this goes 💜
Exciting! Happy Birthday when it comes. Life is a wonderful journey.
Hi I retired a few years ago and did exactly what you have just gone through. I did£ keep my one navy suit which has been useful but for funerals only nothing else formal! I enjoy dressmaking so have made some dresses which I hardly ever wore to work. I have made pretty blouses. It is difficult when you have been so formal for so many years. Looking forward to your next instalment😊
Thank you for your insights! How fun to make your own clothes, what a wonderful way to express yourself!
@@lifeandflowers245 yes I find it very therapeutic. Also I went on a flower arranging course to advanced level the best thing ever it’s rekindling my creative juices!
@@wendyware9738 I love flower arranging too! The possibilities are endless and I think flowers enhance our lives. They just make me happy :)
Totally agree and its lovely to be able to give a hand tied to friends and family brings so much pleasure and going into a flower wholesaler is like a sweetie shop for a child!
Getting rid of my work clothes was hard for me.
Me too, it is taking awhile but I am ready.
Frumpy is a style. It's not just letting yourself "go"
I am intrigued by this! Do you mean that frumpy is sometimes a purposeful choice and can be desirable?
I retired in Dec 2022 at age 65 - I purged my clothes and put everything that remained back into the closet with the hanger backward. As I go through the seasons (4 very different in New England) and continue my weight loss, I am keeping a bag in the closet and decluttering additional items along the way. It is time to take a look at the "professional" clothes again and thin them out, I may do consulting work and/or need something "nice" to wear to a funeral? It is a process like shedding your skin and It is fun to embrace a new season.
What a good idea to put your hangers backwards, then you really know if you have worn them! I couldn't agree more - it does feel like shedding old skin. It sounds like you have exciting times ahead!
You can tell that the clean out took a lot off your shoulders and perfect out come on your face.
Thank you for noticing that. It did ☺️
You are doing really well …it’s encouraged me to purge some of the things I no longer enjoy.
Thank you and I am so glad it encouraged you to take a look at some of those items that just aren't doing it for you any more :)