REASONS WHY FILIPINA DOESN'T WANT YOU TO VISIT HER HOUSE🇵🇭
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
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I WANT YOU! BUT I DON'T WANT YOU TO VISIT MY HOUSE?
HAVE YOU EVER HEARD THIS LINE WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND?
based on my experience if I'm not comfortable to present our home, I'm going to refuse if my man is going to visit.
Because we don't have fancy comfort room, fancy bed, Air-conditioning and soon.
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Thank you for your kind words sir :)
Ganda ng ngipin mo iha😊
Salamat po ijo 🙂
her husband is at home :)
and kids
Don't take a risk!
Hopefully it's not this reason..
Defo the worst 'reason'!!.. 😅😬
If it was she was self-conscious or embarrassed about her family, their home or wealth etc..
I'd see the truth of the matter, it shows she cares about what you think..
If she cares about what you think of her, it means she cares..
If someone has no real regard or love for you at all..
She most likely wouldn't be bothered what you think!..
Positive reactions or negative reactions.. Good or bad..
It's shows that person cares..
It's indifference and no reaction that is a red flag etc!!..
If she was a bit embarrassed or worried..
I'd actually find that charming and endearing in her!..
In my humble opinion..
If you really like, love, care about someone..
You respect them, and in turn you'll show respect for their family too..
I'd do my best to reassure her i don't care..
And never be embarrassed about where you come from..
Of your family, or parents..
Because all that helped make her who she is, and wouldn't be here if not for them..
If you really truly love someone..
You should feel nothing but love and respect for everyone who played a part in making her who she is right now etc!..
The person that you love..
☺️❤😌
The province sounds interesting, I plan on starting my adventure in Cebu City before venturing out into the wild 😂
Sounds a good plan 😅
Great video and great information, thank you.
Salamat sir Joe!
Great topic Ann.
Thank you Stan :)
Nice to hear from the lovely Ann Breakable again. Great advice and information for all to learn by.😃
Salamat Mrmadborg :)
A tent or mosquito net with a tarp seems nearly ideal incase a very rural place has no hotel. Will keep gossip to a minimum. Avoids all sorts of questions, and prevents you from sleeping next to strangers. As long as you bring along an air matress or something you can visit without imposing on anyone.
Thanks for the tips! I appreciate your inputs sir. :)
My advice to Filipinas dating foreigners is to understand that they are not all rich. Many are coming there because they can not afford to live in their home countries. If they are retired from the US, for example, and their income from social security is less than $1500, and they have no savings,don't expect them to be able to help your family. On the other hand, a foreigner with money may not want to disclose what he's worth for fear of being taken advantage of.🏝🇵🇭
Absolutely On Point, I Lived In The Philippines In: 1980 & Visited My Filipina Girl Friends Province Occasionally Her Family Were Typical Farmers with Very Limited Funds. But They Were All Hospitable & Loving People 🙂
Aloha Ann, Great video Great information 👍. Great to see you doing a video.😊 ..God bless you and your family 🫰
Thank you lostinparadise, just got back, because my niece passed away last Monday.
God bless you too sir.
interesting
Salamat po!
It's OK. My family is from a 3 world country and I've seen it all. I've stated in those conditions a lot of times.i have my aunt and my cousin live there in the Philippines but I don't know how they live
I really enjoyed this video, Ann. You gave me a lot to think about. I'll be visiting the Philippines for the first time this winter and want to understand the culture better before coming there. Thanks for sharing. -Dan
Hi Sir, thank you for your kind words.
Understanding our culture in person is totally different sir. You might be amazed how people will greet you when you walk around the streets. Our food might be surprising to your taste buds. A lot more to consider to understand the good and the bad.
I care less how they live. I look at the heart and soul.
It’s a hit and miss with all women. I got lucky with the one I got. I meet the family, the whole family,🤣🤣. Been to the house multiple times and it’s not that bad being in the province. I did pay for some food when we all went to the beach and everyone also brought food. They are very welcoming when I show up. She has a great family. I did pay for a new tv and I pay for the internet every month and also some rice. They eat a lot of rice. Everyone in the community knows who I am, I don’t know many of them tho. It is a different culture and sometimes I don’t understand it but I’m learning as I go. Overall it is going very well. Would I do it at? Of course I would. But I will never do online dating. That was the worst for me and a lot of wasted time and money Stay away from the ones that don’t answer the phone and gone missing for days. Just my opinion
We do have a big age difference, but it doesn’t matter to them or me. They accept me for who I am.
What a successful and sweet story of your life in the Philippines sir.
Congratulations because you embraced our culture like that.
It's good to hear that out of all the negative, there's one positive story.
Thanks for sharing 🇵🇭
Coming from someone in a air conditioned room talking about how bad they have it
Because the electric bill? 😅
Very good video, explained it Very well 👍🏿, when I come to the Philippines I always make a point always make a point to go to ladies House
Thanks for your kind words sir @GMANN, that's a good point to see her and surely a Filipina think that you're serious with your feelings for her
Most are happy. They appreciate what little they have.
Indeed sir, thanks for dropping by.
I reached the Filipina home and family visit stage fairly quickly, less than 6 months. Relationship has been good for me...she is likely a "keeper".
I'm happy for you sir!
The only solution is for the foreigner not to visit her family in the province.He has to be aware of their living conditions and way of life.Believe me it won’t be a pleasant experience.Don’t jump into a quick relationship.
Maybe Pinay not ok with foreigner arriving to house and winning karaoke with score of 100 ? Maybe she is afraid of that ?
🤣 If you're a good singer tho, she's afraid to pay a 100
Hopefully it's not because she doesn't want you to meet her husband!!..
Defo the worst 'reason' there!!..
😂😅😬
But genuinely, if it really was she was self-conscious or embarrassed..
About her family, their home or their wealth etc..
I'd see the truth of the matter, that shows she cares about what you think..
If she cares about what you think of her, it means she really cares..
And that's actually so sweet if you think about it!..
If someone has no real regard or love for you at all..
She most likely wouldn't be bothered at all what you think of her!..
In relationships..
Positive emotions an reactions or negative reactions etc.. Good or bad..
It's shows that person cares..
If they don't care at all..
You'll most likely only see indifference and no reaction..
That most likely, is a massive red flag right there etc!!..
If she was a bit embarrassed or worried..
I'd actually find that charming and endearing in her!..
In my humble opinion..
If you really like, love, care about someone..
You respect them, and in turn you'll show respect for their family too..
I'd do my best to reassure her it's ok..
Tell her to never be embarrassed about where you come from..
Of your family, or parents etc..
Because all that helped make her who she is, and wouldn't be here if not for them..
If you really truly love someone..
You should feel nothing but love and respect for everyone in her life who played a part in making her who she is now!..
The person you love!..
☺️❤😌
Very well said sir, this is the most genuine comment so far :) thank you for understanding our culture. Balancing out all of that.
Your heart will honestly give you a hint if it's red or green flag.
You can read her emotions if she's that person who cares about you.
@annbreakable4228
Thank you, that's really sweet!..
You're more than welcome..
Some people try to say some Filipinas are 'gold diggers' etc, only interested in money etc..
For starters, you can get females like that in any culture around the world..
Western females in my opinion are the worst!.. They have such bad attitude
Often they will only date men with money, it's on the partner check list most of them all have!..
But men generally.. They don't think about their partners wealth at all..
They can be rich, poor, whatever..
It really doesn't matter to them..
If they like the women, they'll date and commit to the girl..
@annbreakable4228
Hey girl!..
Kinda blown away here you got back to me sweetie..
Flattered you read and appreciated my views an thoughts on things..
Is just the truth on things.. How i see the world!..
Where I'm from, i consider myself to have had a poor, pretty humble start to life..
I was kind of conscious about it growning up, but realised to be grateful..
At least it meant that anyone that liked me, they must genuinely like me for me..
Because there was nothing else in it for anyone.. All i could give was me and my time!..
So i learnt to be grateful for that..
Was nice to know that girls who really loved me, they really wanted me..
And humble working class life or not here, i was lucky enough to have two parents love and raise me..
Two amazing parents, still together now!.. That were decent, put time, effort and love into me..
Set an amazing example for me, made me a decent well rounded person..
Confident, happy, loving etc..
And poor or not, i realised that means nothing compared to what they did for me there..
Maybe didn't see it at the time as a child.. But that upbringing, what i got from it..
Was priceless, i wouldn't change it for the world!..
In my humble opinion..
Money doesn't often buy happiness..
And it certainly doesn't always make you a good person!..
There's an old saying I'm aware of.. That have lived to understand and see the beauty in..
Goes something along the lines of..
Adversity in life breeds strength/character!..
Applies to all this..
Hope you having a good week..
☺️😘 xx
Nice buktons!
Tambok😅
Ces tambokikoy
Tambuktons!
#1 Reason a Filipina does not take you to her house because her husband is there. 😁 If she does take to the house, her husband is now her brother. 😁 Brother does not have a girlfriend, and brother does not have a wife, and Brother takes care of the kids. 🤭🤣😉
🤣🤣
@@annbreakable4228 😁
Hi Ann, can you give me a bit of advice please . Going to meet for the first time my girl in Sept, she lives about 8 hours drive from Manila so she said she would get a bus to me to meet me at the airport then we get a hotel in Manila ? I did say I would get a bus to her but she said her house is too small also she lives with her parents also brother up in the mountains ? We do video chat and she shown me her house and brother and parents while chatting. Today she message me saying her mother wants me talk to me face to face ? do you think this is a red flag ? I video called today and she never pick up this is the first time ever but 2 mins later she video me but outside of the house also this was the first time ever ? it seemed like she did not want to talk to me from inside the house ? I did ask why do you mum want to talk to me she said I don't know but she seemed upset and not her normal self ? .My girlfriend works as a teacher in a school she also told me when we first started chatting her family are not rich but not poor either. My girlfriend wants to move to the UK to be with me next year. My girlfriend also told me she only had 1 Filipino boyfriend who she married but now getting a divorce as he treated her really bad ? She also has 1 child by him and he don't bother to visit his child or pay any money for her. Any advice would be great , Thank you
Hi sir i appreciate your story, I'll answer it sir in my next video.
Mark. There is no divorce there. So you are in a sticky situation You don’t have a lot of options here
How can you understand your Filipina if you don't understand her culture? Please stop trying talk about us expats, mind your own business.
This is not dificult to live in the philippines, this is very lazy peaple in the philippines, which dont want to work at all. And every single , move, every body claime ,that "we work hard" dont be lazy, go farming and trading and there wil be money