Hi everyone, thanks so much for all of your support! I hope you will continue to join me on my journey, here is a link to my starting over playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLqSUKxRjMOafxPZ-2hwk8SnR2XczpSk7B.html&si=p2DdA0uZ8uFye8dp. If you subscribe and select the notification bell, you can be notified when the next video is launched. Your comments are so moving, they make me realize that I'm not alone. Thank you, I really appreciate you all! 🥰
Sending you lots of love, you are such a darling! Wish you big success in whatever you do. God Bless! new subscriber p.s. you look REALLY GOOD for 60 - I thought you were 45-48! and I loved your hip hop dance, and drumming was amazing too (id love to do that myself)!!
Thanks for the video, Passage of time as been kind to your outside , sorry inside not been so good for you lately, time to position yourself for inner self. Best wishes.
I think you are amazing!!! What business are you starting if you don't mind my asking. I wish you all the best but it sounds like you're already a champ at this.
I will be 70 next year. I just accepted a new job and was asked for a 3-5 year commitment. I feel fortunate not to be a victim of ageism, which is a real thing.
I started my life over four years ago at 59 by going to my first AA meeting. Four years later I didn't know life could be this good. Best of luck to everyone.
That's awesome! 17 years sober (thanks to AA) and I wouldn't trade my worst day sober for my best day drinking. It just keeps getting better. Be proud of yourself! 👏⚘️
Good luck from an 80 year old. I'm starting up a woodworking and picture framing business I shut down years ago. Home based. I also still ride a Harley.
I'm 51. In the last 10 years I beat stage 3 cancer, had a husband cheat and walk out on his family, endure a nasty divorce and 6 year custody battle, lose a job and my father. Sometimes, it seems like starting over is all there is to do.
In 2012, I got laid off from my corporate executive job after 15 years at age 51. I spent years trying to get work and finally decided to go back to college and retrain in a different field. I graduated from Le Cordon Bleu and worked as a chef/baker until the pandemic in 2020 when my café closed. I needed money to pay bills, so I started reselling. 4 years later, I’m 63 with a thriving business that I love. I have the flexibility to work when I want and pursue other interests. This year, I’m taking my business international, traveling to Europe and Asia to thrift vintage items I can resell in the US. I also want to take classes in mosaic art and jewelry making. The best part is that all of my travel expenses are tax-deductible!
Hi Linda, i loved reading about your starting over journey, thank you for sharing it! Love how you were able to pivot and find what you truly love. Please keep me posted about your travels, i would love to get updates!! 🥰
Great story ❤ and it’s still being written! I’m curious-how do you ship your purchases home without breaking the bank??? I always wondered how that’s done!
Im 60 and just divorced 2 months ago from a 38 year marriage. Had been unemployed at the time I filed and was really struggling with depression. Found a great lawyer that believed in me. Found a job with a company I love. Had to go to France for two weeks for training. Was so proud of myself that I drove in a country that I dont spesk the language. Even went to Paris on my own at the end of my training. Found a great apartment close to my family and enjoying being a first time grandma on the weekend. Next goal is to lose weight before my youngest sons wedding next year and to get healthier and stronger by working out at the gym at my apartment club house. Also decided to try golf again after not playing since college. Would also like to take a hip hop class because I love dancing too! Stay strong, you got this!
Wow! ❤🎉👏 As I read this, I felt not only very happy and excited for you, but also hopeful for myself. May I ask what field you work in that you had to go to France to train for? Or do you live in Europe?
@@terrykaphingst5106 I cried reading your post. It is me currently. I get brave hearing your ability to overcome the obstacles life throws us. Thanks for sharing!
I am 70 and left a 25 year relationship because of bad manners, lack of respect, no intimacy and selfish behavior traits. I lost my identity. One year later I look beautiful, I live well, working again with young people and have started over better and stronger. I am so grateful, full of joy and I am free. Go for it, you can do it. 💐🌸🌷🌺
So inspirational because it's scary leaving a long term relationship even if it is dysfunctional. You and so many strong women like you inspire many women who stuck
I'm in tears as I write this! at 54 my husband decided after a decade of marriage he didnt want to be married anymore. Thankfully, I had money saved so I stayed in our home we shared together for a few months and thanks to God I brought a house. Fast forward to today and getting ready to turn 55, Ive struggled with feeling lonley at times, overwhelmed with my current responsibilities and lacking self care. Often times I'm feeling as if I want to cry thinking of "what NOW. "As recent as this morning as I began to prepare for work, (thankfully I'm working from home) i came across your video. I usually have youtube in the background with something positive in the background, its my way of being intentional of what I allow in space/head. I was thinking it would be nice to see videos with people my age and share in a community with a safe space real life feelings. Your video is what I needed! I'm not starting over professionally, I love what i do, but I need to reset and begin life without a partner....meaning start living outside of work. You made me consider finding hobbies and getting out of the house to take time for me!!! Please keep the videos coming they are inspiring! By the way you are beautiful and not OLD!! Thank you🥰😇😇😇
I too have had to start over and found your video enlightening. I wish much success, congratulations on becoming a grandma and thank you for sharing. Everything you mentioned is important to hear. Please keep striving to be vibrant and positive. All the best!😊
Is it in the water? My husband decided we had too many children and no longer wanted to be married, and left us for Linda. But that was many "Lindas" ago. But here is what I do know - sometimes when spouses choose to leave, it could be God's protection for us. It's painful, but often it can protect our hearts and minds so hang in there. It's just a new season for you. Your point about finding hobbies and getting out of the house is great. I would no trade the almost 37 years I spent raising my kids, but It's a new season for me as well. Perhaps for the both of us, since we work at home, getting out may take a bit of an effort. Something scheduled like a class, or a lesson can be a good start because that requires deliberate attendance. And then from there it will become second nature to get out organically and socialize. I'm preaching to myself hahaha. good luck!
@@tiaharp-harr317 I’m so sorry about the pain you’re going through. Yes you should focus on you especially now! Someone in the comments said she’s learning to love herself, I think that’s so powerful. I am going to make more videos, I hope you’ll check them out and we can inspire and motivate each other! 🥰
First year is the hardest so think of that! You are through the worst! Now, it get's better! Enjoy the journey, YOU are the lead role in YOUR movie, you get to choose the other players!
I am 63 and I will be graduating college this year with my masters degree and I’m now doing my internship in my final year. I got my bachelor at age 59 in Social Work.
You're going to be fine, especially with a Social Work degree. I'm 61 years old. In November 2022, I was going through a divorce and was diagnosed with leukemia while completing my second master's degree. It was difficult, but with the power of God, I made it.
Girl I’m 62 and I’m not old. As my 92 yr old Mother likes to say, "You’re old when you die”. Keep that in mind love. Mom will be 93 this December and I will be 63. You looked good in the hip-hop class. Go head baby! You rock. I’m a new subscriber as well.
Hahaha thank you Alecia, your mom is a smart woman! And she's 93? You probably have good, strong genes too! Thanks sooo much for subscribing and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you! 🥰
I changed my life at 45 after the stress of my work, a divorce and a new mortgage caused my immune system to enable pneumonia into me. I had an NDE then a breakdown. I was a wreck. So when a distant piece of rural land came up for sale, I sold up and quit my former life. Now at 67, I'm living in a beautiful woodland that I planted those years ago. I'm offgrid, self sufficient in heating fuel and natural building materials, own springwater, a wild swimming pond, and a good, simple, artistic life. The icing on the cake is that a friend's daughter is a professional film maker with big contacts, and wants to put my land on a lucrative film location list. W When there's few choices left, jumping into the unknown is the best choice you can make.
At 50 i got my Masters, my mom died when i was 21, had a deadbeat father and no family. My husband died at 37 when he was unemployed. I have worked extremely hard all my life, while others have had it so much easier. But determination has brought me through.
As much as you can, I strongly urge folks to try to find some linkage between your old and new careers. Why? You don’t;t want to give up on all that prior experience which usually leads you to higher salary. If you do transition, you could try to do it through starting new work at home during your free time.
@@Happybidrthis a brilliant advice Thank you . I was a banker for 26 years too tired and stressed so i decided to retire at age 47. Didn’t worked since then . Now I am 50 , (finding it hard to be with my husband everyday 😂) I finally decided to start a new career but haven’t come up what field next to go with as I have only worked in one company and industry my whole life.
Yes moving forward and evolving!! Nice way to put it which is a tually true.All of our experiences serve us and help us moving forward , depending on how we see them, how we react to them
@@JCtK858 Yup, it's a matter of semantics. To "start over" implies defeat, whereas moving forward and evolving implies progress. I don't know about you, but I'd rather take the high road and accentuate the positive.
At 51 yrs old with $.88 until paycheck hits, I never felt so wealthy just coming across this video. Thank you so much for blessing me with more hope that is pressed down and running over with peace to meet me at this interchange. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
At the age of 71, I decided to get down to my high school weight, with a BMI of 20. I did this in 6 months, losing 30 pounds. The one biggest change was simply not eating 12 hours per day... that is, just don't eat anything between 6 pm and 6 am, for example. Walking 20 to 45 minutes after a light supper also helped, and not allowing any binge foods in the house or car. But I changed just one thing each month. For that one month, the new change became a habit. The key is consistency.
This video is inspiring and I am glad I found it. I work from home and also working on launching a home decor store on Shopify I love home furnishings. The store will launch next week. I am 63 and have gone thru many trials over the last 3 years to bring this store to fruition the way I desire it to be. God has given me strength to stay the course. I am a single mom divorced for over 14 years and raising my daughter with Down syndrome, she is 18 now. My desire is to move to Portugal in 3 years and hoping my store becomes profitable enough to allow me to leave my job of 16 years. I long to do what I love and have boxed myself into a job to financially take care of my daughter. I desire to be a business owner loving life, self caring more and succeeding in my business. I love to dance and started back taking Zumba few months ago. God is leading me and I know the path I am on will expand my life and allow me to finally thrive doing what I love and being the person God made me to be. Thanks for your story and your willingness to be transparent and vulnerable; we need more stories like this❤ wishing everyone life’s best.
@@JanetKing-g9c I only mentioned 🐶 because of the cutie pie in the video, my 🐶left their bodies 2 years ago, I adopted two 🐱 from the shelter who were being ignored, they are bonded pair with feline hiv, and they are AMAZING, so yes cats, really all animals!
At 60 don't say you're old. You're just on your way to regaining some of your youthfulness. You are in the space where you're open to trying new things. Kudos to you.
I turn 58 in less than 2 weeks. Got laid off from my job last week Friday. Honestly, it's a relief. I'm going to take some time, explore my heart, and make some decisions. I have no family to speak of, so it's just me. And everything is on the table- career, location, etc....I'm on a pathless path. And I feel really good about it. I'm going to trust my instincts and explore. Thanks for your video.
I am with you in spirit as I don’t have any family “to speak of” either. I would like to start a property or city of all of us loners to end life with🙂
hi Chuck, it really sounds like such a good idea to explore and trust your instincts! I'm excited about all the possibilities for you ahead. Thanks so much for your comment, I really appreciate you! 🥰
I am 67 . Illness stopped me . Two strokes really upended everything . Three years of deep suicidal depression. Days sleeping 20 hours a day . Self care out the windows, finances a wreck by the side of the road . Where to go what to do . Listening to you fills me with hope & inspiration ❤😂 Thank you .
Do just one tiny tiny thing a day that moves you in the right direction for you, even if it is eating an apple or having a shower. If anything sparks a little joy, explore!
This made me tear up. I’m starting over at almost 50. No money, coming out of a divorce, no job. Trying to finish an arts degree and look for work before I become homeless. What you said about grief really hit me. My career was part of my identity. I hope I can find myself and a new direction.
Try calling 211 it's a statewide helpline with Resources and you may find things to help you. It's across most states. Also be sure to Google your area for free food pantries and distribution. Some senior places have a lower age limit and they have Resources too! Your going to make it...Keep going 👍😁
I got divorced about 20 yrs ago when I came to the US for about 5 yrs. I was sponsored by my ex-husband and got cheated. stepping out of a painful marriage with no money, no job, no home, no family, no friends, even no language (I couldn’t speak English as I can now)….. just my 2 yr old son and I. I used to think about going back to my country where I have my family and friends there, but my son was born here so I decided to stay and fight. We’ve survived. I’m almost 52 now, I got laid off twice during these 20 yrs. I have to stand strong because of my son, and he’s going to medical school soon. I believe if this door closed, there will be another ones open for us. All I can say is don’t look back, keep moving forward. past is a lesson for us to learn to improve for our better future. I am very happy with my single life till today. I hope all the best for you and strength to stand up 😊
I might not be the intended age demographic, but I’m 23 years old, and this video was very inspirational. I recently had a significant life change, and some failures impacted me… but a year later, I’m slowly rebuilding myself and finding the beauty in life. Thank you for this video.
At age 47 I quit my job as a brand ID manager and decided no more office work; I'm a creative person who thrives in solitude. Bought audio equipment and taught myself voice acting and audio engineering. Two hard years of being broke and scared to death since I have a wife and two kids. Now at 49 I'm set to make more than I ever have working for people. I feel so blessed and grateful I went after my dreams. Great video, very relatable.
Wowww i'm so impressed with your journey! Talk about not being afraid of failure, you really went for it, worked hard, and now you are enjoying all your efforts, i love that!! Thanks soooo much for sharing your story, i am so motivated by it 🥰
I'm proud of you Dana, onward and upward! I turned 55 today and I finished school with my bachelor's and master's degree recently. Most people ask, why I bothered because I am so close to retirement age. I was married and after the divorce I raised my boys alone. I wanted to do something for myself. To all of you who are starting over, may God give you everything you need for this next chapter in your life.
Your comment is soooo inspiring, Tracy! Congrats on earning both of your degrees, i think thats such a great achievement. Thanks so much for your wonderful comment, I really appreciate you! 🥰
I’m going to be 50 next year I always wanted to go to school since 40 years old for Acupuncture and tcm. Next year I’m going to make that move, go for my masters then phd. And do what I love, Heal others and teach. never quit!! You’re all very inspiring!!❤
47 years old - lost my husband 20 days ago. Now I’m in hospital battling for my health. I’m inundated with advice from family members to return to my country of origin. I’m taking my time - what I found inspirational is your message and how this message inspired and attracted others to post too. I’m writing to you and all others who wrote from a place of gratitude. I’ll have to start over. I have to start over after a loving friendship that evolved into a marriage… 35 years of being with him. Taking one step at a time. Thank you again ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss, Smita. I feel your pain of losing someone who you loved so deeply. I think you are so right to take things slowly, one step at a time. Things will become much clearer for you that way. Thank you for your beautiful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰
My deepest condolences. Moving back to your country is too soon. Ck with your local church, funeral home, and social services for group therapy or 1 on 1 therapy. My daughter is on a sliding scale for her therapy. If you prefer 1 on 1, I have used this app called Better Help. You use your smart phone to chat or video chat. I read somewhere about pain. In pain,find a purpose. I believe in you!! You have a community here. . God Bless and first take time to get healthy.
I am praying with you for a complete recovery. You hang in there and make the decision that best suits your hearts desire. I am a believer in God and anything is possible. My deepest sympathy. Take your time and heal at your leisure but live at the same time. God bless you.
I just accepted a new job today. I’m 63, and was hired after 15 minutes. I have my own business as a busy hairstylist, and have not even told my clients that I’m leaving. I’ve always loved the idea of working in a memory care facility, and a job came up( online). I didn’t fill out the application. I called the place, and made an appointment to meet the director. I’ve spent many years in facilities like this , because mom has been in rehab facilities 18 times( not with a memory issue). I’ve spent years catering to mom, who lives next door, and although I work, I’ve put my needs on the back burner. Everyone depends on me, but I couldn’t resist checking out a position with potential to move forward. I’m eligible for a raise too, and education that this company will pay for. I’m an artist too, have a passion and compassion for my elders with Alzheimer’s and dementia, and have always had a soft spot for others whenever mom has been in facilities. Right away, the director started introducing me to families, and loved my interaction. She told me that within 15 minutes, that she knew. She especially liked how seasoned I was, and explained that it was an advantage because of my experience in care facilities. The place is absolutely beautiful, and she says that the staff that she works on hiring must work like a great band together. I love that. My mom was a little upset with me, because she’s had me at her beck and call for 10 years. She lives next door to me, and has let her health get out of hand because of her weight. I finally realize that it’s my turn now. I’m healthy, even after a hip replacement, work out, could stand to loose a few pounds( Lol), but have been thirsty to figure out a plan for my future. Hairstylists do not have a 401 K, paid vacation, paid sick days, someone to pay for education, and room for growth. I have amazing clients whom I’ve had for many years, so I need to tell them in the most respectful way. My mom says that I’m in the honeymoon faze of a new job. I disagree. Not only that, my clients are getting older and some have passed away. This job will allow $1000 per month extra ( which may not seem like much to some), but when clients cancel, I’m not receiving income. This company also has health insurance, and dental. Listening to you makes me feel hopeful, and eager to start something new. Im taking on a huge risk. I will start work at 8:30-5 fives days per week, and was given my desired days off, which wasn’t even in the cards, because on line, the days off were in the middle of the week. With that being said, you could say that I’m starting over. The position is an event coordinator. I would be responsible for activities such as art, music, chair exercise etc….. I have one month before I start. If anyone has any input or ideas, I welcome them. Thanks for your video. This really helped my busy mind, lying here thinking too much at 4:41 am!!!!! Best of luck to all whom are starting over❤.
I knew a couple that retired at 65, and quickly became bored just sitting around. So, they used their small retirement savings to open a small tourist knick-knack shop that provided them with something to do and a liveable income. They ran it for 35 years, until they were both 99, then sold the business because they both felt it was time to take it easy. I met them when I was in my late 30s. I'm now in my 60s and don't plan to retire. Purpose hleps you live a longer, healthier life.
Agreed, I was praying the other day, and literally ask the Lord to help me to keep going as long as I possibly can. I will continue working and learning new skills, and have no intentions on stopping.
I want to retire because it is time to give young people a chance to take my job. The couple in your story opened a business, they created jobs for others. If you can follow them, that would be great.
I enjoyed my job and didn't view it as "a daily grind." I also had a lot of freedom and flexibility. Retirement for me has been all losses and no gains, I'm afraid. Each withdrawal has only made it difficult for my savings to recover through compounding. It feels like etf's and bonds might just now be limiting my returns instead of managing risk.
I’m 64 years old and started CrossFit a few years back. I train three times a week with the people of my sons’ age. I feel rejuvenated and confident when I see myself doing what these young people are doing. Your age doesn’t define your limits but only your mind. Go for it ❤
I also went back to college at 45 and finished with double major in science. Great decision...I got a job right away. The CEO said he was not only amazed that I would go against social norms but also have it within me to complete the education. The position was closed due to someone changing their mind about leaving. The CEO made a new position for me. Don't let your age stop your ambitions. Just DO IT!
“Old” is a state of mind. Please don’t describe yourself that way. There’s enough people in this world who want to gaslight us about our age without you doing it to yourself. I’m 66 and I’m certainly not old 🥳💪
well, at a certain age health might just deteriorate and that‘s when you can‘t deny your age. affects some people more than others and even with looking after your body you can‘t avoid everything
I’m retired. Your story of a conservative savings profile is a common one. Any course of action involves risks. You might be avoiding market risk, but you are taking on other risks like inflation and reinvestment risk.
My wife is willing to work for another 5 years if needed. Are we in good shape? Will we be okay if I begin withdrawing from Social Security when I’m 62 and my wife is 67? Should we hire a financial planner to help us navigate this?
Certainly get a pro to look at your predicament (if you even have one, lol) A second opinion from acomprehensive financial adviser can help you look at more than just your current estimate of cash flow and needs but also longevity risk, outliving your money, tax considerations, legacy planning, healthcare costs, inflation and a myriad of other things you may not be considering when reviewing your current situation
46 and going back to school for nursing and both of sons are in college 🙌🙌recently divorced after 14 years but take time to heal but never stop enjoying life and take it one day at a time!!!
Good for you! I did my RN refresher in 2000 when I was 49... and the oldest in the class. But it was worth it! With God's help and a lot of hard work, I graduated 1st in my class. A few weeks prior to starting school, I came across the phrase "Life is beautiful, but life is what You make it". I penned that saying in large letters on a piece of stiff paper, cleared everything off my desk except my Bible, and placed the paper alongside. The rest is history. So my friend, keep your goals in front of you, work hard and reap the benefits. I work full time nights as a Geriatric RN and I am so glad I went back to school when I did. It has been well worth it! I wish you well.
My sister's husband walked out on her and left her w/ 3 kids(he did end up paying alimony and child support). She was 40 years old! My sister decided to go to college (for the first time!) and get her nursing degree. She became an R.N. and is now able to support herself and then some. 🎉🎉Good luck to you!🍀🍀🍀
I like to hear people going after things they want and need because it just motivates me to do so myself. Thank you for sharing, I am only 29, and I just started saying that, I used to say that I am already 29, like I have not accomplished enough, and I am old, but now I am getting past that. I am also planning on going to nursing school next year. Thank you for sharing, and thank you for your words. I wish you the best of luck and achievement in nursing school and beyond 💖💝
What a wonderful testimony! I am nearing 64 years old. I’m a widow, I retired last year after a 35 year career. I too love to dance! I take Zumba, strength training and yoga classes. I don’t give a second thought about my age or level of fitness in those classes. If I can go full throttle with the moves I certainly do but if I have to modify moves, I do that too. I’m just grateful for movement. I look back over the last 10 years of my life and see the growth, the change, the evolution and I ain’t finished with this evolution and neither are YOU! Keep dancing, keep drumming, keep lifting those weights and keep soaring!!!
I'm also 64 years old....Still married to my beautiful wife. Got 4 children(2 males, 2 females) who're already independent...I'm jobless and spent lots of time surfing the internet. Thought of venturing into internet and doing something serious but I guess maybe too old for us now...Well, I guess the most important thing now is to be happy and joyfull in our life...Cheers!!!
l get you 101%.....l'm 68, American born Chinese.... and l'm where you are... starting over. l guess never too late. You go girl. l too have a mother who is 101 in an assisted living....and being cared for. Life goes on for all of us. l cheer you on....go enjoy....
Am just 60 and have applied to physician assistant school after spending the earlier part of my life as an engineer. I went through first nursing then paramedic school and realized patient care was for me. My family thought / thinks I’m nuts and too old. Still, the passion is within.
I am 54 and I have found that working for other people for so many years, that is was time to do something new. I am planning to open a daycare that will take in special needs children. I have an autistic son and he’s the light of my life. I am so afraid and excited at the same time. I thought for so long that me getting older I would be stuck doing jobs that wouldn’t allow me to help or take care of those who need it. Thank you so much for doing this video. I needed to hear and see that I can do it, I can make my ideas come to life. Thank You.❤
I will be 58 in November and was a stay at home Mom for 18 years. I left an IT career to raise my twin daughters. I left an abusive marriage in 2022. I am struggling to find and keep work. Was laid off in March. I am learning to live alone. Really enjoy the peace I have found. I can relate with the fear of suviving and becoming homeless. Feeling safe is important to me. I take care of myself now too. I do not know what my passion or purpose is yet as I am still trying to figure out who I am. An office job is ok for now but I want to build my own business. I do not want to be a corporate slave this half of my life.I am so grateful to have come across your page. I don't feel so alone.
I'm half Japanese, and my mom died from Covid in 2020 in a nursing home. We were unable to be with her, only watching from outside a window. I understand a little is what you went through. I was retired in 2016 after working over 40 years. I'm 65 now, and a year ago, October 4, 2023, my 36yo son died. I'm struggling with my health since his death. Being vibrant again would be wonderful. I'm glad I stumbled across your video. Gives me hope! Thank you!
Hi Lamona, i'm so sorry for your mom and son, what a difficult time you have been going through. Its no wonder your health isn't the best right now, you need your time to grieve. I'm so happy that my video has given you hope! You can gain your health and vibrancy again, i know you can! I hope that you can check in once in a while and let me know how you are doing. Take good care 🥰 ps...my youngest daughter is hapa, half Japanese, too!
Im stating over, too. I found out my husband cheated on me. It was really hard. They move on live happily ever after, i guess. I moved out. I have no family here in the US. I feel very alone. Thank you for posting the video. It gives me courage. ❤
Don't you think they will live happily ever after because they committed fornication and adultery, Do really think God will bless these two ? Mortal sins. Sin means something that is not good for you.
@@Kate-lk6twlet me makes a story as an example: Linda knows Tom already married but still decided to get along with him, while Tom knows that Linda is aware of his marital status. So after Tom divorced his wife and married Linda, Linda has low trust level towards Tom because she knows Tom can cheat on her too, while Tom will not respect Linda because he knows Linda isn’t someone very ethical.
I am 56 , I started over in 2023 after leaving 23 year marriage to a narc hubby and being kicked out of work after 15 years of dedicated service to a narc boss who decided to kick me when I was down . . . I started over with focus on my spiritual life , health , rebuilding my savings account and basically just self care . I look better , younger and I feel great . I love to dance too . . . in my room . . . Alone 😂 I felt relief and freed when I walked away from the narc and my job too . I am my own 1st ,2nd and 3rd priority . . . God is faithful 🙏 🙏 🙏
@@Blessed591 Seems there are many of us recovering in our 50s. Spent 26 years with an ex who was a covert Narc. Worked for his family and they let me go before divorce was final. Also lost my father during this time, which was the worst part of it all. Such freedom without the gaslighting, guilt tripping, rage fits and walking on eggshells!! Think I'll go it alone from here as I refuse to ever give up my freedom again. Don't know how I would have made it without God by my side. Blessings!
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped at 53 years old!!!
Right on! I started over too, and I'm just grateful I had the opportunity to do so. So many people don't. That time is a privilege. I hope no one takes it for granted. Being able to start over is a gift.
I can relate to what you said. I am 62 and have lost all my family members I grew up with in the last four years. Last April, I lost my wife of 26 years, who had been my friend for forty-three years. I just moved to an apartment and feel very lonely. I admire the new things that you are trying and doing. That is Awesome. I am happy for you. Keep pursing what makes you happy and gives you purpose in your life.
I can almost relate. I'll be 61 in a few weeks. I'm not close to any of my relatives, mentally and/or physically. I went through my second divorce 13 years ago. For the first 3 months of our separation, I never felt so alone. I rented a house and at first couldn't comprehend my situation. I finally snapped out of the depression, I started listening to a podcast and listening to alternative music. This helped me to at least hear something other than my own thoughts because I was working three jobs trying to keep busy, but at all three jobs I was working alone. Once I got past the loneliness, I was able to think more clearly. That made it possible to start going to different meetups where there were other people. At first I thought I needed to date so I tried online dating. I quickly figured out that I really didn't want to date, I was fine by myself. I guess what I am saying, is that you can get past the loneliness, and you will figure out how to still enjoy life. It's hard losing someone you spent a large part of your life with. I hope you find the happiness you deserve.
My grandfather had a career in the military, found that afterward “no one wanted to hire a 50 year old.” He found a job in security for the sherif department. Then decided he wanted to go to law school. He wasn’t able to pass the entrance exam, but met a woman who was starting her law practice and a business. She and her partner gave my grandfather the opportunity to work (which he wanted to do! He hated retirement) for 20 years, doing the things he loved! Law, managing an office, and light construction projects. He never would have had that if he hadn’t at least tried pursuing the law degree.
I am 38 years old and thought it’s too late. Thanks for the video have run down the comments and they are eye opener. I am glad UA-cam recommended this to me.
Not too late - ever. You'll only be 38 once (I'm 53 and feel your age, aside from all the heavy-hitting life experience I've had inbetween) Go be your fabulous self!
@@lathagm666 38? Oh my if I knew then... Dont let the years slip by like many of us have. Act now , financially, emotionaly, physically. Your best years are ahead.
I'm 63 years old. I 'm a disable. But God gave me the new start from January in this year. I come to go to support office to learn IT. I'm learning WEB building. I think it is good for you to dance and you get joy. I hope to excise like you. Thank you for shareing.
As I had time after retirement to do what I wanted to ...I found that I wanted more of God, His son, Christ Jesus and the Holy Spirit in my life. Now, The first thing I do is give praise to our Heavenly Father (prayer on my knees) then my time with him reading the bible. It is unbelieveable how I made it through life without realizing how truly depend we are of his love, guidance and spirit. GOD FIRST! GOD IS GOOD! JESUS SAVES! THE HOLY SPIRIT IS WITH YOU! May God bless you all to keep you safe and well.
Getting older is a real privilege. The birthday numbers are just numbers and have zero bearing on how engaged we are in life. Blow out the candles, make your wish, eat cake, and get on with the year ahead. Repeat.
Dear Amy, don't forget to be generous, Kind, and loving to yourself and others. Always be charitable and give as much as you can! Also give your time, kindness and love and peace and spread kindness to as much people you can , People always need compassion and care. Have a meaningful life full of wisdom, peace and kindness. that is a life fulfilled.
Someone in their fifties is still considered middle aged. You’re not considered “senoir” until around 62 but that doesn’t even matter. It’s how you define yourself and live your life. There’s a channel with a woman in her 60’s body building and she’s got a lean healthy body like a 30 year old. There’s another who is 70 and looks just as awesome! You’re defeating yourself by calling yourself old. It’s not what the world says; it’s what you say. Enjoy that hip hop! Mick Jagger is 81 and is so agile and fit. He’s got those Jagger moves and still takes ballet classes. It’s not the age. It’s the person.
You’ve inspired me today with this video. I’m 41 but had to start my entire life over after getting caught up in substance abuse for 4 yrs. It spiraled out of control and I lost my job and everything else. After getting clean, I gained a large amount of weight. It took me about 5 yrs to rebuild my life and I’ve watched my 2 sisters flourish in their lives and would be reminded pretty often by them of my fck ups. It left me feeling like leftovers and very isolated. But I’m ready to come back to myself fully…been in a decent and stable job for about 3 yrs. Now it’s time for me to start living.
Girl, You inspire me! You have given me hope. I just turned 63 and I quit my job. For the past couple of years, I was not happy. I'm one of those people who is very loyal to a fault. Now I can breathe. I know God has something wonderful for my future and I am excited to fulfill His will for my life! GOD BLESS YOU!
I’m 61 and really want to leave my job due to its physical demands and my chronic pain. I really need to work until I can get Medicare at 65. feel like each day is a battle with my body. I admire you for leaving your job.
I have realised that one of the true and most powerful purpose in life, is letting go. It is too easy to cling onto "something", and place the value of ourselves and our life on external stuffs, or chasing after some kind of dreams endlessly. Letting go, is the powerful one. Such mental strength is very strong. When we can finally relax and live in the moment, we are no longer "lacking or longing". We are finally here and now, living the best life.
You are absolutely right. Letting go is the hardest thing to do. We all try to cling on something that used to be dear and meaningful for us. However, as time goes by, the values and meanings of people and things in our life changes. Some of thing might lose their value, some of them might even become harmful for us, preventing us from seeing the real values of things around us. I am a Daoist philosopher and what I learned most from this indigenous Chinese philosophy is to let go. Only when you let go of things, you can appreciate the real meaning of life as well as the beautify of here and now!! Thanks for sharing your views!!
I was a teacher for 30 years. Put so much heart and soul raising my 3 kids. Just turned 60 this past August and retired. Looking for my new niche. Days seem long and repetitive. Thanks for the inspiration to find something to new love. Best wishes for your business!
Dana, I’m 75 and just started over AGAIN! I would be lying if I said it’s been easy, BUT now my new life is really beginning and I am so happy I gave this to myself, not thinking I was too old. I feel younger and motivated and am going to live authentically for the rest of my life. I hear you’ve worked hard in your life, done the right thing, and still no let up. But lock down gave you the ability to really look at your life and slow down enough to ask yourself who you really are. Now you are flowing into your loveliest chapter❣️Thank you for your story. Have no fear for your future!
Oh Denise, thank you sooooo much for sharing your start over! I'm super glad that your new life is beginning! You're such an inspiration to me, thanks so much for watching and your awesome comment, i appreciate you 🥰
Ohhh now I'm inspired. I'm 65 & 4 months. After 30 plus years as a graphic designer, and 12 at the same company, COVID hit, and they let 85 of us go, the 3 in our department? Were 60 and over. Yes, it was a manager wanted us out kind of thing and COVID gave her an excuse. No regrets however. I believe it was God who ordained this, because I was ready to have a breakdown (another graphic designer already did a year earlier at age 26) due to the stress and unrealistic demands. In any event, worked at a printing company for 3 months while a girl was out on maternity leave. And then 4 months at WalMart, which ended up being a nightmare for a LOT of the workers there. I'm finding corporate is just a hornet's nest in most cases! LOL. So now? Bored, so decided to take up getting a CDL (Commercial Driver's License) and drive a truck because I love traveling, and why not get paid while doing so?? I have all my ducks in a row, ready to almost take the test for the permit part. Yet, am ... or now "was" really hesitant! Though it's an industry that welcomes older as well as younger drivers, am self-doubting myself out of it. This is only the 2nd time I've had to reinvent my life, and even though know I can? I'm just hesitant!! But God brought me here to see this story, and now reading the comments, realize I'm not so alone in needing and wanting to start over, which includes selling my house once established in a job. If I retire? For real? I will just sit and get sick, and wait for God to take me home. That's not what I want to do. I have no family, estranged due to a long story I won't share here. However, God has led me thus far, and He just needs me to take those 2 steps further. Stories here have given me courage. Thank you for that!! ALL of you!!
I'm 57, lived in Japan for 6 yrs U.S. Navy. Some of my best times, still studying Japanese as a hobby. I also had to start over. My wife of 25 yrs cheated on me w/a friend while I was living in his home paying his mortgage. Left me homeless living in my car during Covid-19. Got my old job back making decent money again but socal is really expensive. I feel God is helping me and not losing hope 🙏. You are a strong women, I I
socal is so expensive. my husband also cheated on with my best friend. I am left alone. but anyhow, it took some time but i found peace. Dont ever lose hope. never ever. May peace be with you.
@@joannwilliamsjackson1021 unfortunately at the time, couldn't afford my own home at the time, so I took up a friend's advice help who had alterior motives. My mistake, lesson learned!
I just turned 55, was laid off last year, a company I’ve put so much time and hardwork for 10 years. Laid off because in their eyes I’m old, which I did 3 roles for the company. Nonetheless God had other plans. I work for a global company now for almost a year and feeling a bit better. It was hard starting over and had to study again and learn something brand new. I was always afraid of what I can and cannot retain. Fears of the unknown. That thought process wore me out more than the task itself. I vowed going forward that I won’t let fear stop me anymore. Thank you for inspiring me and giving all of us a voice. I am currently helping my elderly parents out (Dad 91 and Mom 86) with my siblings. I still have kids at home (1 moved back in after graduation and another to go to college in the fall). Emotionally all this is draining but I have to speak positive over my life and those that I hold dear. I’ll be joining a gym thanks for inspiring and will probably enroll in a dance class because I love dancing too. God bless you in your journey. Sounds like God has even bigger plans for you. 😊
Thank you for sharing ❤ I'm 61 and I love my job. I'm at a point in my life where I ask myself, " Are you staying because you're comfortable?....are you coasting or climbing? Are you just scared to step out into the unknown? If you go back to school will you remember your lessons?" Starting over requires that first step....you are doing great. I'm on the edge.
You got good vibes and energy! That company who laid you off doesn't diserve you and did not appreciate your valuable work in 3 roles you did for them! You are more precious to stay in such idiot environment. Wish you a prosperious life 🫶😊
@@sandrarapoza9896 I think every new thing is always going to be scary. I think that’s our safety mechanism that helps us think things through. I still weigh my pros and cons but ultimately you have to take a leap of faith that God will never stray you wrong. Every thing good that happened in my life has happened because I took a chance. I had talked myself out of many things and all I got was regrets. I took a leap when I decided at 50 to take my masters and graduated with honors. Took another leap with this current job requiring to pass licensing. While of course trying to silence the doubts. I think it’s best to know what makes you happy and just follow it. It’s one life and at our age we have to do it for ourselves and not for our spouse, children or parents. For us. You got this!
Thank you everyone for sharing your stories. Hearing others are experiencing the same helped me feel less alone. I turned 51 this summer. It's been bothering me because I don't have friends my age and no one to talk to about it.I don't live in an area with much chance to make new friends, and I'm going to be moving anyway, I've started over many times as well. I'm going thru a transitional time in life right now to start again, again hopefully for the better.
I just saw the Rolling Stones Live in MAY, Jagger just turned 81, and WHAT A SHOW ! he was running around like a Teenager, The whole band was lively. Age is just a number. We go through season in life, just like nature does. Each season is a new start. You are absolutely right. If you love what you do, don't quit. Look at the Rolling Stones, when you retire and sit in front of the tv your health will decline.
Hi Rich, so very true! I agree when we do what we love we have a reason to wake up everyday, something to look forward to! Love that you had a chance to see the Rolling Stones and they are still rockin' it at 80!! 🥰
I stated over (again) at 52. I'm a year and a half into my journey and life is the best it has ever been. I love all the posts on here and I wish every single one here the best that life has to offer.
I am 24 and have failed multiple times in something I really wanted and I am now venturing into something new, while being anxious and fearful..Your wisdom and experiences certainly made me feel more open towards what the future holds...Thanks for sharing! 💖
Please don't say Failed...You are trying new things...that's great. My brother would get bored with the same job for too long. He loved trying new things...from working for the government to UPS driver. Be happy you get too choose 😁👍 Have fun. Also try calling 211 it's a statewide helpline with Resources in most states and find your local free food pantries 👍😃
I have recently retired and your story has inspired this 63 year old man to try new things that might be difficult. My daughters live in Taiwan and Singapore and I'm considering moving and living closer to them now that I'm not working any longer. I'm ready to take the leap! Thank you so much for making this video! Enjoy your passions!
I booked my ticket and arrive on September 3 and plan to travel back-and-forth from Singapore and Taipei for the first year until I get a clear idea of where I want to live long-term.
I am in the middle of my transition. I'm scared to death! Your story and all your supporters are giving me new life...thank you n all your supporters. Best wishes to all of you.😊
I'm turning 59 this year. I found your vlog very relevant to my own path. I didn't get laid off but you might say I had a bit of a nervous breakdown after the pandemic. I was a high school visual art teacher. I laid myself off. I took early retirement. I wasn't handling my jobs very well or myself. I wasn't eating well, or sleeping well and I was just not taking good care of myself. My first year of early retirement I focused on getting better. Lots of meditating... oh, I am sorry I do ramble on. I should make my own video. I started reselling too after a year of being home. I really needed to find something to make a living. I too have always loved thrifting! I'm taking a big leap this month, I'm putting my house on the market to downsize from 1600 square feet to 870 square feet. I'll let you know when I make that vlog! Here is to starting over!
Thank you for sharing this invaluable video. You are an inspiration and someone to look up to. I’m 47 and taking notes: already started to take Zumba, yoga, sing in church and I play percussion in the local community band with all three of my kids. I lost my last surviving parent as well, and indeed, that is the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. Thank you!
Hi Carolyn, its so great to meet you! I think YOU are an inspiration, i love all the awesome things you are doing!! Thank you soooo much for sharing your story with all of us, its incredibly helpful. 🥰❤️🌺🎉
I'm so glad that I stumbled upon your account. I am 59 and LONGING to leave my nursing profession as an LPN. I have started over at times, yet have remained in the nursing profession which i went into for job security only, which sounds terrible, but it has never been my passion. I'm emotionally and mentally exhausted. I'm thrilled to be here and to have access to your content. THANK YOU! I have made many mistakes and don't have money to access or much savings, yet have no debt. All these years and have zero to show for it. I relate to everything you are going through. I also gained weight after menopause and let my fitness go. Good for you for caring for yourself! You will be great for your dance. You're (WE'RE) not old! :)
I guess I was supposed to hear this today. I'm 51 and a recent widow. My Husband was young, we had plans. Grief is tough and i dont even know who i am without him.I know I need to start over, it's scary but I appreciate your message. Thank you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. One of the greatest gifts in life, is to have a partner where you can't imagine life without them-but it comes with the terrifying thought of just that. While your journey may be a solitary one for now, I hope you find joy in any measure everyday. I wish you the blessings good health and happiness. I know that the Self you discover will be strong, and courageous. Know that someone you don't know- is here wishing you the very best ❤❤❤
I'm soooo glad you found the video and sent me your comment, Brandi. I'm so sorry for your loss, grief is very tough and it sounds like you miss him very much. It took months before i could start over after my mom passed, it was a healing process and i think its different for everybody. I really hope that you take the time to go through all the stages and remember to take care of yourself! Thanks so much for watching and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you. 🥰
Best book ever by author Hickman: Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief. A tiny little thing--a couple paragraphs at a time for each day on the calendar. It's amazing. Lost my parents two months apart and it helped so much. Best wishes to you.
l'm 58years old too on11th may 2024.l have no body talk to at home .I'm alone after my parents passed away .I'm a single and I try to help my lonely time singing and dancing and learning english .I'm still learning then I can't write so much .we are women must be strong .Thank you and wish you all the best .
Its very nice to meet you! I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents it sounds like you were very close to them. I love your zest for life and finding happiness in your daily life! Thanks for your comment, I appreciate you! 🥰
Interesting video and content, but I would encourage you to stop saying your old because you're not! We put waaaayyyy too much emphasis on age in this country. Pursue what makes sense to you and remember you live within the limits you set for yourself. I live by the saying "on the other side of fear is the life that you want". Keep sharing your journey and helping others.
Hi Kelly, you're welcome, thanks so much for leaving me your comment! Good luck with everything and please keep me posted, i'm sure you'll come to the right decisions 🥰
Lady, you are not old. Watching from JAMAICA 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 I am in a similar position. I just feel out of place. I just want to be a lone I am 47, going on 48, and I feel like my life is done. Thank you. I will start over and come back stronger and better 💪. Amen and amen 🙏 🙌 👏
I love your spirit, Lecia from Jamaica!! Your life isn't done yet, you are about to start over. Thank you for watching and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you! 🥰
Your life is definitely not over sunshine … As long as God puts air in your lungs, you have life left to live … Get up, set your goals, make a plan & go after all that you want
Dana, you sweet beautiful lady! I am gonna be 60 in January, and your video was such an inspiration! Monday the school district is recognizing me for 25 years service. I am a Child Nutrition Services/Site Lead. My husband since 1989, retired sooner than he wanted to do his health. I have a 32 year old daughter that suffered a brain bleed in 2011, left her with memory issues, no peripheral vision and epileptic. So I enjoy making junk journals, sewing quilts and watercolor for my own therapy! Thank you for making this video. Starting over is a good thing! Especially when it means you are appreciating life, Learning and growing. God bless you.
My goodness-- well done, girl!! And you're NOT old! I'm convinced being "old" is a state of mind. Trust your elders (I'm 61 and in better shape than the 40yo I work with!)
Im 58 and just like you sister wants to open a new career and chapter of my life. Im a Catholic stoic and a self made man. What i have and what i achieved in life is on my own undertaking. At this age i want to do the things that i enjoy and bring back to humanity the blessings that i got from the Good Lord God up above. The Greatest gift is Time and the Greatest wealth is Health k!
0-24 child 25-49 young adult 50-74 mature adult 75+ elder (and with technological advancement, that age for elder may be getting pushed back. around 60 is definitely the new "middle age!" imo) i believe we need to take "old" and all other harmful adjectives concerning age out of our vocabulary and start celebrating each of the life phases. 💗
@@Yintendo totally agree …Needs to revamp these expectations based on levels of maturity!! Especially 18 year olds….. still babies thinking they have rights … not even mature enough to know the difference
I am very proud of you. You are amazing and a very logical thinker. At 58 I am right back into weight training. I love it. I started roller skating. Out no phone, no computer. Just fun. I also play guitar and have for 13 years. Quite possibly the best thing I ever did! You are very intelligent and so beautiful. Thank you kindly for your uplifting words.
Number one I need you to stop saying you’re old. You’re a capable human who is allowed to follow their dreams. I can’t wait to see what you do next good luck, even though you don’t need it.🥰BTW I’m 60 and still 🔥
Hi Sussanne! Thank you for the feedback and let me know if there are any specific topics you would like me to make a video of. I'm keeping a list so that i can keep track of ideas. I hope you have time to check out these videos: ua-cam.com/play/PLqSUKxRjMOafxPZ-2hwk8SnR2XczpSk7B.html&si=Yr3lgrAgIP03d8E4
How courageous you are! You are such an inspiration and I hope you realize that. You are not old. You are aging. We are all aging. There has been such an emphasis on ageism in our culture. Well, I guess in most cultures. But people are living longer, people are living better and people are aging better than ever before. I'm 51. I was adopted, lived through foster care until age 7, lived with abusive adoptive parents and survived pretty much raising myself, becoming a mother at 17 and then again to twins with multiple disabilities at age 24. I was married, in an abusive relationship and divorced and a single mother to three beautiful children and like you have started over several times. Now I'm single, my children are grown and doing okay. I've begun a career in reselling also. I'm aging. We have so much to look forward to! You dance wonderfully! You are such a bright light in this world Dana. We all thrive differently. We all come from different circumstances. We all need to honor ourselves and who God has created us to be. Some of us never learned to care for ourselves or nurture ourselves. Now that my children are grown, I am trying to nurture myself more. I gave myself a face massage the other day just because I needed to be touched lol. It was so good! Love yourself and keep rocking life sweet lady! ❤
Thanks sooooo much, Passionhearted, I really appreciate your wonderful comment and learning about you. I'm aging, not old...love that distinction! Thank you for watching and your comment, i really appreciate you 🥰
I just found your channel. I love this video. I am 46 years old and I am divorced with two teenage boys. After a couple of job changes, I decided to go back to school. I am back in school for pharmacy technician. And I just got a job as a pharmacy technician, I love it and I wish I would’ve done it a lot sooner but then I realized that Life takes us on different journeys
I left my teaching career and became a flight attendant at age 58. It was really, really difficult (and still is sometimes) but I desperately needed the change. There are challenges, but I’ll never regret it. I moved to live with my daughter and I qualified in a new language (German) at age 61. I travel to Europe 4 times a month and I’m forced to be physically active. I interact with hundreds of strangers from all over the world every weekend, and during the week I live a quiet life at home. Yet… I know the day will come - maybe when I am 70 - when I will have physical limits and will reinvent myself again, hopefully in a meaningful way in my community. I’m 63 now, but already planning ahead.
Thank you for your encouraging words. I can truly relate. I’ve dreamed of starting a business for years, but I've let procrastination hold me back. Now, at over fifty, I find myself wondering where the time has gone. I appreciate you sharing your story. Wishing you all the best!
Hi Paula! Thank you soooo much for watching and your wonderful comment, i just sub'd to your channel. You do beautiful work! Have you thought about selling on Etsy? Hope you have a lovely day 🥰❤️🌸
You’re not old. Stop saying that! You seem like a very pleasant & interesting person with plenty of experience and gifts to sharing with your family, friends and especially your grand baby . Your willingness to try new things and reinvent yourself are keeping you young, relevant, and vibrant. Stay strong and joyful that you have so much to offer.
Thanks for sharing. I'm 50 and starting over. So by just watching your video, I got a new idea to inspire my husband to get back to fashion design. Thank you Jesus
I’m 60yo and I’m starting my new career. Needless to say your story means so much to me. Like you I keep myself busy everyday by going to the gym, taking classes, playing guitar and watching my diets. I don’t drink or smoke, I terminated my TV cable and detached myself from social media. The only thing I don’t have is a community. And now I found you, I’ll be following your footsteps to continue my journey. Thank you so much for sharing. Best wishes!
Thank you, UA-cam, for suggesting a video that I didn't know I needed. I turned 50 last year. It was bittersweet because while I was excited and thankful for this milestone, I missed having my Mom here to share the moment with me. So many things she said are starting to make sense now and I wished that I could tell her that 😢. Now, I feel like I am starting a new season of life that is somewhat scary but makes me happy.
Such a great and inspirational share. I turned 62 this year, and I am so Grateful for my Journey❤. God Bless You. May you find more and more Joy and new adventures.
Thank you for such a wonderful message, Dianne, its really inspiring for me to hear what part of your journey you're on! Its soooo great to hear from you, have a wonderful week 🥰
Hi everyone, thanks so much for all of your support! I hope you will continue to join me on my journey, here is a link to my starting over playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLqSUKxRjMOafxPZ-2hwk8SnR2XczpSk7B.html&si=p2DdA0uZ8uFye8dp. If you subscribe and select the notification bell, you can be notified when the next video is launched. Your comments are so moving, they make me realize that I'm not alone. Thank you, I really appreciate you all! 🥰
Sending you lots of love, you are such a darling! Wish you big success in whatever you do. God Bless! new subscriber
p.s. you look REALLY GOOD for 60 - I thought you were 45-48! and I loved your hip hop dance, and drumming was amazing too (id love to do that myself)!!
LOL. UA-cam is full with charlartans. There is no purpose in life people. ADMIT IT!
Thank you for doing this video, it was truly needed in this time of my life. I'm starting my journey of starting over and this was inspiring.
Thanks for the video, Passage of time as been kind to your outside , sorry inside not been so good for you lately, time to position yourself for inner self. Best wishes.
OMG!! I just listened to you telling my life story!
I’m 72 and starting a business. I am a master at starting over. Growth is never ending! 🤗❤️
Love your spirit! What business are you starting?
I'm a reseller, i sell vintage and modern clothing online and in person. Thanks soooo much! 🥰
I think you are amazing!!! What business are you starting if you don't mind my asking. I wish you all the best but it sounds like you're already a champ at this.
@@anns1921 thanks 🙏 I channel Angel 😇 messages and published my book Awakening Consciousness and doing UA-cam etc.
Growth is never ending, 🥰
I will be 70 next year. I just accepted a new job and was asked for a 3-5 year commitment. I feel fortunate not to be a victim of ageism, which is a real thing.
Just rest. Too old!
Yes, agism is a very real thing. Unfortunately, I have to deal with it myself
Nuclear Sciences?
@@susanbaran9549 that’s really exciting Susan! Thanks so much for you wonderful comment, I appreciate you 🥰
@@staceywatkins1445 I felt ageism for years, it’s not easy 🥰
I started my life over four years ago at 59 by going to my first AA meeting. Four years later I didn't know life could be this good. Best of luck to everyone.
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That's awesome! 17 years sober (thanks to AA) and I wouldn't trade my worst day sober for my best day drinking. It just keeps getting better. Be proud of yourself! 👏⚘️
13 years and I am glad I don’t drink anymore. Too many nasty hangovers and I turned into an imbecile when drinking.
What a great message.
Congratulations and thank you for the encouragement. I’m 57yrs old and trying to start over now yet not knowing what to do. ❤❤
I’m leaving this comment here so that when anyone likes it, it takes me back here
What a great idea! Thanks for watching wise advice, I appreciate you 🥰
I liked your comment so you could take another trip. That's a great idea.
@@michaelcf011 Thank you
Good luck from an 80 year old. I'm starting up a woodworking and picture framing business I shut down years ago. Home based. I also still ride a Harley.
Go girl !
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Amazing! ❤
That made my day ❤
Aaaamazing....totally awesome
I'm 51. In the last 10 years I beat stage 3 cancer, had a husband cheat and walk out on his family, endure a nasty divorce and 6 year custody battle, lose a job and my father. Sometimes, it seems like starting over is all there is to do.
YOU ARE SO STRONG I LOVE YOU YOU ARE SUCH A SKILLED AND STRENGTH WOMAN. THANK YOU FOR EXISTING . BLESS YOU
Reading your story, admire your strength and bravery and loyalty to yourself. Sending you much love and wish a great health xxx
Wow …. God bless you❤❤❤❤
So sorry you had to endure so much. God bless you ❤
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In 2012, I got laid off from my corporate executive job after 15 years at age 51. I spent years trying to get work and finally decided to go back to college and retrain in a different field. I graduated from Le Cordon Bleu and worked as a chef/baker until the pandemic in 2020 when my café closed. I needed money to pay bills, so I started reselling. 4 years later, I’m 63 with a thriving business that I love. I have the flexibility to work when I want and pursue other interests. This year, I’m taking my business international, traveling to Europe and Asia to thrift vintage items I can resell in the US. I also want to take classes in mosaic art and jewelry making. The best part is that all of my travel expenses are tax-deductible!
Hi Linda, i loved reading about your starting over journey, thank you for sharing it! Love how you were able to pivot and find what you truly love. Please keep me posted about your travels, i would love to get updates!! 🥰
Great story ❤ and it’s still being written!
I’m curious-how do you ship your purchases home without breaking the bank??? I always wondered how that’s done!
@@tamiz8895prob buys them for pennies so the shipping is easily covered when sold for a good buck
Amen! 🙏🩷🙏
That is AWESOME! I am happy for you!
Im 60 and just divorced 2 months ago from a 38 year marriage. Had been unemployed at the time I filed and was really struggling with depression. Found a great lawyer that believed in me. Found a job with a company I love. Had to go to France for two weeks for training. Was so proud of myself that I drove in a country that I dont spesk the language. Even went to Paris on my own at the end of my training. Found a great apartment close to my family and enjoying being a first time grandma on the weekend. Next goal is to lose weight before my youngest sons wedding next year and to get healthier and stronger by working out at the gym at my apartment club house. Also decided to try golf again after not playing since college. Would also like to take a hip hop class because I love dancing too! Stay strong, you got this!
You truly inspire me, Terry! Thanks for your comment, I appreciate you! 🥰
Wow! ❤🎉👏 As I read this, I felt not only very happy and excited for you, but also hopeful for myself. May I ask what field you work in that you had to go to France to train for? Or do you live in Europe?
You are an inspiration! Way to go!!
Wow amazing. You are my mentor! I wish you had a page.
@@terrykaphingst5106 I cried reading your post. It is me currently. I get brave hearing your ability to overcome the obstacles life throws us. Thanks for sharing!
I am 70 and left a 25 year relationship because of bad manners, lack of respect, no intimacy and selfish behavior traits. I lost my identity.
One year later I look beautiful, I live well, working again with young people and have started over better and stronger.
I am so grateful, full of joy and I am free. Go for it, you can do it. 💐🌸🌷🌺
Love your comment, Melody, you really inspired me, thank you! 🥰
Well done!
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As Humphrey Bogart said in the movie Casablanca, "Here's looking at you, kid." 😇👍👍
So inspirational because it's scary leaving a long term relationship even if it is dysfunctional. You and so many strong women like you inspire many women who stuck
I'm in tears as I write this! at 54 my husband decided after a decade of marriage he didnt want to be married anymore. Thankfully, I had money saved so I stayed in our home we shared together for a few months and thanks to God I brought a house. Fast forward to today and getting ready to turn 55, Ive struggled with feeling lonley at times, overwhelmed with my current responsibilities and lacking self care. Often times I'm feeling as if I want to cry thinking of "what NOW. "As recent as this morning as I began to prepare for work, (thankfully I'm working from home) i came across your video. I usually have youtube in the background with something positive in the background, its my way of being intentional of what I allow in space/head. I was thinking it would be nice to see videos with people my age and share in a community with a safe space real life feelings. Your video is what I needed! I'm not starting over professionally, I love what i do, but I need to reset and begin life without a partner....meaning start living outside of work. You made me consider finding hobbies and getting out of the house to take time for me!!! Please keep the videos coming they are inspiring! By the way you are beautiful and not OLD!! Thank you🥰😇😇😇
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I too have had to start over and found your video enlightening. I wish much success, congratulations on becoming a grandma and thank you for sharing. Everything you mentioned is important to hear. Please keep striving to be vibrant and positive. All the best!😊
Is it in the water? My husband decided we had too many children and no longer wanted to be married, and left us for Linda. But that was many "Lindas" ago. But here is what I do know - sometimes when spouses choose to leave, it could be God's protection for us. It's painful, but often it can protect our hearts and minds so hang in there. It's just a new season for you. Your point about finding hobbies and getting out of the house is great. I would no trade the almost 37 years I spent raising my kids, but It's a new season for me as well. Perhaps for the both of us, since we work at home, getting out may take a bit of an effort. Something scheduled like a class, or a lesson can be a good start because that requires deliberate attendance. And then from there it will become second nature to get out organically and socialize. I'm preaching to myself hahaha. good luck!
@@tiaharp-harr317 I’m so sorry about the pain you’re going through. Yes you should focus on you especially now! Someone in the comments said she’s learning to love herself, I think that’s so powerful. I am going to make more videos, I hope you’ll check them out and we can inspire and motivate each other! 🥰
First year is the hardest so think of that! You are through the worst! Now, it get's better! Enjoy the journey, YOU are the lead role in YOUR movie, you get to choose the other players!
I am 63 and I will be graduating college this year with my masters degree and I’m now doing my internship in my final year. I got my bachelor at age 59 in Social Work.
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Wonderful! Congratulations 🎉 ❤
I'll get my bachelor's in social work next year at the age of 60
You're going to be fine, especially with a Social Work degree. I'm 61 years old. In November 2022, I was going through a divorce and was diagnosed with leukemia while completing my second master's degree. It was difficult, but with the power of God, I made it.
Girl I’m 62 and I’m not old. As my 92 yr old Mother likes to say, "You’re old when you die”. Keep that in mind love. Mom will be 93 this December and I will be 63. You looked good in the hip-hop class. Go head baby! You rock. I’m a new subscriber as well.
Hahaha thank you Alecia, your mom is a smart woman! And she's 93? You probably have good, strong genes too! Thanks sooo much for subscribing and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you! 🥰
I'm 61 and NOT OLD! I rock!
I changed my life at 45 after the stress of my work, a divorce and a new mortgage caused my immune system to enable pneumonia into me. I had an NDE then a breakdown. I was a wreck. So when a distant piece of rural land came up for sale, I sold up and quit my former life. Now at 67, I'm living in a beautiful woodland that I planted those years ago. I'm offgrid, self sufficient in heating fuel and natural building materials, own springwater, a wild swimming pond, and a good, simple, artistic life. The icing on the cake is that a friend's daughter is a professional film maker with big contacts, and wants to put my land on a lucrative film location list. W
When there's few choices left, jumping into the unknown is the best choice you can make.
Inspiring story! Thanks for sharing.
Wow congratulations and thank you for sharing your story. Truly inspiring.
Your living the life I've always wanted..enjoy every day as it's a gift
Would love to see your woodland self sufficient life. Great inspiration indeed.
Sounds wonderful, God bless.
At 50 i got my Masters, my mom died when i was 21, had a deadbeat father and no family. My husband died at 37 when he was unemployed. I have worked extremely hard all my life, while others have had it so much easier. But determination has brought me through.
So sorry for your loss ❤
As much as you can, I strongly urge folks to try to find some linkage between your old and new careers. Why? You don’t;t want to give up on all that prior experience which usually leads you to higher salary. If you do transition, you could try to do it through starting new work at home during your free time.
@@Happybidrthis a brilliant advice Thank you . I was a banker for 26 years too tired and stressed so i decided to retire at age 47. Didn’t worked since then . Now I am 50 , (finding it hard to be with my husband everyday 😂) I finally decided to start a new career but haven’t come up what field next to go with as I have only worked in one company and industry my whole life.
You are a born winner. No circumstances keep you down. Awesome job!
Awesome, very inspirational
One doesn't "start over" .. one MOVES FORWARD and EVOLVES!
I would let them use that phrase if it makes them happy and encouraged!
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TRULY!!!!!!!!!👍👏🤔
@Ordinary_Citizen, That's you. But some people really have to start over to move on.
Yes moving forward and evolving!! Nice way to put it which is a tually true.All of our experiences serve us and help us moving forward , depending on how we see them, how we react to them
@@JCtK858 Yup, it's a matter of semantics. To "start over" implies defeat, whereas moving forward and evolving implies progress. I don't know about you, but I'd rather take the high road and accentuate the positive.
At 51 yrs old with $.88 until paycheck hits, I never felt so wealthy just coming across this video. Thank you so much for blessing me with more hope that is pressed down and running over with peace to meet me at this interchange. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
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I AGREE COMPLETELY 👏👍😄
I love your UA-cam name
if you lived by me I would take you out to lunch
Guess I can't borrow $1 from you ❤ 😅
Me too sis!
At the age of 71, I decided to get down to my high school weight, with a BMI of 20. I did this in 6 months, losing 30 pounds. The one biggest change was simply not eating 12 hours per day... that is, just don't eat anything between 6 pm and 6 am, for example. Walking 20 to 45 minutes after a light supper also helped, and not allowing any binge foods in the house or car. But I changed just one thing each month. For that one month, the new change became a habit. The key is consistency.
If you want to transform your health to even higher levels, please look into a keto or carnivore diet!
@@ianstuart5660 Sorry, but the keto and carnivore diets are not supported by science. Stick to the Mediterranean.
Congratulations!
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Don't forget Molly. She's not a clumsy Clown!
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This video is inspiring and I am glad I found it. I work from home and also working on launching a home decor store on Shopify I love home furnishings. The store will
launch next week. I am 63 and have gone thru many trials over the last 3 years to bring this store to fruition the way I desire it to be. God has given me strength to stay the course. I am a single mom divorced for over 14 years and raising my daughter with Down syndrome, she is 18 now. My desire is to move to Portugal in 3 years and hoping my store becomes profitable enough to allow me to leave my job of 16 years. I long to do what I love and have boxed myself into a job to financially take care of my daughter. I desire to be a business owner loving life, self caring more and succeeding in my business. I love to dance and started back taking Zumba few months ago. God is leading me and I know the path I am on will expand my life and allow me to finally thrive doing what I love and being the person God made me to be. Thanks for your story and your willingness to be transparent and vulnerable; we need more stories like this❤ wishing everyone life’s best.
Starting over with a dog at your side is the only way to go. Dogs add so much to life. ♥️
.....and cats ❤
@@bunjijumper5345 I totally agree!!
@@JanetKing-g9c yes!
@@JanetKing-g9c I only mentioned 🐶 because of the cutie pie in the video, my 🐶left their bodies 2 years ago, I adopted two 🐱 from the shelter who were being ignored, they are bonded pair with feline hiv, and they are AMAZING, so yes cats, really all animals!
True - but Dogs are very hard to lose
At 60 don't say you're old. You're just on your way to regaining some of your youthfulness. You are in the space where you're open to trying new things. Kudos to you.
Hi Mila, yes thanks for reminding me! And thanks so much for your support, I really appreciate you! 🥰
Yes, Luv you are beautiful.
I turned 50 in March, 2024, I am starting over, not professionally, but mentally and emotionally.
Thanks for your comment icanhasfreecat, I appreciate you! 🥰
Same here, but also professionally.
moi aussi
@@soulcanvascollectivezayeah me too
@@theGENIUSofART-understood It's bloody stressful! 😂 A lifetime of experience, I see reinvention in my very near future.
I turn 58 in less than 2 weeks. Got laid off from my job last week Friday. Honestly, it's a relief. I'm going to take some time, explore my heart, and make some decisions. I have no family to speak of, so it's just me. And everything is on the table- career, location, etc....I'm on a pathless path. And I feel really good about it. I'm going to trust my instincts and explore. Thanks for your video.
I am with you in spirit as I don’t have any family “to speak of” either. I would like to start a property or city of all of us loners to end life with🙂
Trust the universe, brother.. This is the path you are meant to be on...
hi Chuck, it really sounds like such a good idea to explore and trust your instincts! I'm excited about all the possibilities for you ahead. Thanks so much for your comment, I really appreciate you! 🥰
Same
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I am 67 . Illness stopped me . Two strokes really upended everything .
Three years of deep suicidal depression. Days sleeping 20 hours a day . Self care out the windows, finances a wreck by the side of the road . Where to go what to do .
Listening to you fills me with hope & inspiration ❤😂
Thank you .
Thanks for sharing your story, Norman, you've been through so much. I can tell that there's joy and fulfillment ahead for you 🥰
Don't give up. Try and take small walks if you can. Baby steps.
Do just one tiny tiny thing a day that moves you in the right direction for you, even if it is eating an apple or having a shower. If anything sparks a little joy, explore!
@@fionamortimore1704 excellent advice. Thank you 😊
Keep the Faith my Friend.
May GOD lift you up and give you more strength to enjoy your time.
One Love.
This made me tear up. I’m starting over at almost 50. No money, coming out of a divorce, no job. Trying to finish an arts degree and look for work before I become homeless. What you said about grief really hit me. My career was part of my identity. I hope I can find myself and a new direction.
Try calling 211 it's a statewide helpline with Resources and you may find things to help you. It's across most states. Also be sure to Google your area for free food pantries and distribution. Some senior places have a lower age limit and they have Resources too! Your going to make it...Keep going 👍😁
I got divorced about 20 yrs ago when I came to the US for about 5 yrs. I was sponsored by my ex-husband and got cheated. stepping out of a painful marriage with no money, no job, no home, no family, no friends, even no language (I couldn’t speak English as I can now)….. just my 2 yr old son and I. I used to think about going back to my country where I have my family and friends there, but my son was born here so I decided to stay and fight. We’ve survived. I’m almost 52 now, I got laid off twice during these 20 yrs. I have to stand strong because of my son, and he’s going to medical school soon. I believe if this door closed, there will be another ones open for us. All I can say is don’t look
back, keep moving forward. past is a lesson for us to learn to improve for our better future. I am very happy with my single life till today. I hope all the best for you and strength to stand up 😊
You will. Just dont give up
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If you don't give up then you will not be homeless and stronger. ❤
I went to med school at 40 and dont regret it 😊now Im 53 it's never too late❤
Yes, Victoria!! You are so right. I love that you found your purpose, thanks so much for sharing! 🥰
I might not be the intended age demographic, but I’m 23 years old, and this video was very inspirational. I recently had a significant life change, and some failures impacted me… but a year later, I’m slowly rebuilding myself and finding the beauty in life. Thank you for this video.
Good on you! I think this is relevant for all ages❤
I'm 60 and I'm constantly starting new things. It keeps me excited, active and engaged with life. I plan to work and live until I actually die.
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Wow you are so positive!! thats aligns with a wonderful goal to keep heathy so you can achieve this. Awesome!
Same here. I’m always doing something different and love working. ❤
Oh my gosh! This is my new mantra.
So do I! So much we can do including learning new things; it’s exciting!❤
At age 47 I quit my job as a brand ID manager and decided no more office work; I'm a creative person who thrives in solitude. Bought audio equipment and taught myself voice acting and audio engineering. Two hard years of being broke and scared to death since I have a wife and two kids.
Now at 49 I'm set to make more than I ever have working for people. I feel so blessed and grateful I went after my dreams. Great video, very relatable.
Wowww i'm so impressed with your journey! Talk about not being afraid of failure, you really went for it, worked hard, and now you are enjoying all your efforts, i love that!! Thanks soooo much for sharing your story, i am so motivated by it 🥰
I'm proud of you Dana, onward and upward! I turned 55 today and I finished school with my bachelor's and master's degree recently. Most people ask, why I bothered because I am so close to retirement age. I was married and after the divorce I raised my boys alone. I wanted to do something for myself. To all of you who are starting over, may God give you everything you need for this next chapter in your life.
Your comment is soooo inspiring, Tracy! Congrats on earning both of your degrees, i think thats such a great achievement. Thanks so much for your wonderful comment, I really appreciate you! 🥰
I received this!
@@tracyware2029 Glory Hallelujah! 🙌🏾
I’m going to be 50 next year I always wanted to go to school since 40 years old for Acupuncture and tcm. Next year I’m going to make that move, go for my masters then phd. And do what I love, Heal others and teach. never quit!!
You’re all very inspiring!!❤
@@HeruHetep48 thank you for sharing! You are also very inspiring!! 🥰
47 years old - lost my husband 20 days ago. Now I’m in hospital battling for my health. I’m inundated with advice from family members to return to my country of origin. I’m taking my time - what I found inspirational is your message and how this message inspired and attracted others to post too. I’m writing to you and all others who wrote from a place of gratitude. I’ll have to start over. I have to start over after a loving friendship that evolved into a marriage… 35 years of being with him. Taking one step at a time. Thank you again ❤
I'm sorry for your loss, it seems like you had a fantastic relationship.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Smita. I feel your pain of losing someone who you loved so deeply. I think you are so right to take things slowly, one step at a time. Things will become much clearer for you that way. Thank you for your beautiful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰
My deepest condolences. Moving back to your country is too soon. Ck with your local church, funeral home, and social services for group therapy or 1 on 1 therapy. My daughter is on a sliding scale for her therapy. If you prefer 1 on 1, I have used this app called Better Help. You use your smart phone to chat or video chat.
I read somewhere about pain. In pain,find a purpose. I believe in you!! You have a community here. . God Bless and first take time to get healthy.
I am praying with you for a complete recovery. You hang in there and make the decision that best suits your hearts desire. I am a believer in God and anything is possible. My deepest sympathy. Take your time and heal at your leisure but live at the same time. God bless you.
I’m sorry for your loss.. 🙏🏻❤️
❤Amen to the 60 year olds starting over. I'm with you! 🙏
Me too
+1 still alive and healthy 😅
Me too. Inspirational
I just accepted a new job today. I’m 63, and was hired after 15 minutes. I have my own business as a busy hairstylist, and have not even told my clients that I’m leaving.
I’ve always loved the idea of working in a memory care facility, and a job came up( online).
I didn’t fill out the application. I called the place, and made an appointment to meet the director. I’ve spent many years in facilities like this , because mom has been in rehab facilities 18 times( not with a memory issue). I’ve spent years catering to mom, who lives next door, and although I work, I’ve put my needs on the back burner.
Everyone depends on me, but I couldn’t resist checking out a position with potential to move forward. I’m eligible for a raise too, and education that this company will pay for. I’m an artist too, have a passion and compassion for my elders with Alzheimer’s and dementia, and have always had a soft spot for others whenever mom has been in facilities.
Right away, the director started introducing me to families, and loved my interaction.
She told me that within 15 minutes, that she knew.
She especially liked how seasoned I was, and explained that it was an advantage because of my experience in care facilities.
The place is absolutely beautiful, and she says that the staff that she works on hiring must work like a great band together.
I love that.
My mom was a little upset with me, because she’s had me at her beck and call for 10 years. She lives next door to me, and has let her health get out of hand because of her weight. I finally realize that it’s my turn now. I’m healthy, even after a hip replacement, work out, could stand to loose a few pounds( Lol), but have been thirsty to figure out a plan for my future.
Hairstylists do not have a 401 K, paid vacation, paid sick days, someone to pay for education, and room for growth. I have amazing clients whom I’ve had for many years, so I need to tell them in the most respectful way.
My mom says that I’m in the honeymoon faze of a new job. I disagree.
Not only that, my clients are getting older and some have passed away. This job will allow $1000 per month extra ( which may not seem like much to some), but when clients cancel, I’m not receiving income.
This company also has health insurance, and dental.
Listening to you makes me feel hopeful, and eager to start something new.
Im taking on a huge risk. I will start work at 8:30-5 fives days per week, and was given my desired days off, which wasn’t even in the cards, because on line, the days off were in the middle of the week.
With that being said, you could say that I’m starting over. The position is an event coordinator. I would be responsible for activities such as art, music, chair exercise etc….. I have one month before I start.
If anyone has any input or ideas, I welcome them.
Thanks for your video. This really helped my busy mind, lying here thinking too much at 4:41 am!!!!!
Best of luck to all whom are starting over❤.
@@drsarahthomas4725 are you doctor ?
I knew a couple that retired at 65, and quickly became bored just sitting around. So, they used their small retirement savings to open a small tourist knick-knack shop that provided them with something to do and a liveable income. They ran it for 35 years, until they were both 99, then sold the business because they both felt it was time to take it easy. I met them when I was in my late 30s. I'm now in my 60s and don't plan to retire. Purpose hleps you live a longer, healthier life.
Agreed, I was praying the other day, and literally ask the Lord to help me to keep going as long as I possibly can. I will continue working and learning new skills, and have no intentions on stopping.
Awesome story, thanks for that! 🥰
I want to retire because it is time to give young people a chance to take my job. The couple in your story opened a business, they created jobs for others. If you can follow them, that would be great.
I enjoyed my job and didn't view it as "a daily grind." I also had a lot of freedom and flexibility. Retirement for me has been all losses and no gains, I'm afraid. Each withdrawal has only made it difficult for my savings to recover through compounding. It feels like etf's and bonds might just now be limiting my returns instead of managing risk.
@@danafindwellUnfortunately, the person you replied to is not an actual human but a bot for engagement.
@@EdwardHohenheim Thank you Edward!
I’m 64 years old and started CrossFit a few years back. I train three times a week with the people of my sons’ age. I feel rejuvenated and confident when I see myself doing what these young people are doing. Your age doesn’t define your limits but only your mind. Go for it ❤
At 46, I went back to school and earned my third masters degree and changed careers. Best decision ever.
That's great. What did you study?
Amazing! I’m going back to school at 41. Looking forward to it actually
I also went back to college at 45 and finished with double major in science. Great decision...I got a job right away. The CEO said he was not only amazed that I would go against social norms but also have it within me to complete the education. The position was closed due to someone changing their mind about leaving. The CEO made a new position for me. Don't let your age stop your ambitions. Just DO IT!
Some of my best students were 41 : ) You can do it! I'm proud of you.@@kylorenthehusky2584
OMG this is so so encouraging!! the strength of resolve and the human spirit of persistence
“Old” is a state of mind. Please don’t describe yourself that way. There’s enough people in this world who want to gaslight us about our age without you doing it to yourself. I’m 66 and I’m certainly not old 🥳💪
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Get real. You are old, a senior citizen. That does not mean you are dead.
Old is not a dirty word lol.
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well, at a certain age health might just deteriorate and that‘s when you can‘t deny your age. affects some people more than others and even with looking after your body you can‘t avoid everything
We are in our 50s with nearly $3M saved, no debt and $50K annual spending. But we avoid the stock market completely.
I’m retired. Your story of a conservative savings profile is a common one. Any course of action involves risks. You might be avoiding market risk, but you are taking on other risks like inflation and reinvestment risk.
My wife is willing to work for another 5 years if needed. Are we in good shape? Will we be okay if I begin withdrawing from Social Security when I’m 62 and my wife is 67? Should we hire a financial planner to help us navigate this?
No one likes market risk, but without longer retirement, taking on risk is often a necessary evil to compensate for inflation.
Certainly get a pro to look at your predicament (if you even have one, lol) A second opinion from acomprehensive financial adviser can help you look at more than just your current estimate of cash flow and needs but also longevity risk, outliving your money, tax considerations, legacy planning, healthcare costs, inflation and a myriad of other things you may not be considering when reviewing your current situation
How does one get a comprehensive fa who isn’t looking to just make a buck from consultancy and whatnot
46 and going back to school for nursing and both of sons are in college 🙌🙌recently divorced after 14 years but take time to heal but never stop enjoying life and take it one day at a time!!!
Good for you! I did my RN refresher in 2000 when I was 49... and the oldest in the class. But it was worth it! With God's help and a lot of hard work, I graduated 1st in my class. A few weeks prior to starting school, I came across the phrase "Life is beautiful, but life is what You make it". I penned that saying in large letters on a piece of stiff paper, cleared everything off my desk except my Bible, and placed the paper alongside. The rest is history. So my friend, keep your goals in front of you, work hard and reap the benefits. I work full time nights as a Geriatric RN and I am so glad I went back to school when I did. It has been well worth it! I wish you well.
My sister's husband walked out on her and left her w/ 3 kids(he did end up paying alimony and child support). She was 40 years old! My sister decided to go to college (for the first time!) and get her nursing degree. She became an R.N. and is now able to support herself and then some. 🎉🎉Good luck to you!🍀🍀🍀
Go girl! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💜⭐️
I like to hear people going after things they want and need because it just motivates me to do so myself. Thank you for sharing, I am only 29, and I just started saying that, I used to say that I am already 29, like I have not accomplished enough, and I am old, but now I am getting past that. I am also planning on going to nursing school next year. Thank you for sharing, and thank you for your words. I wish you the best of luck and achievement in nursing school and beyond 💖💝
Same here, good luck. You can do it
What a wonderful testimony! I am nearing 64 years old. I’m a widow, I retired last year after a 35 year career. I too love to dance! I take Zumba, strength training and yoga classes. I don’t give a second thought about my age or level of fitness in those classes. If I can go full throttle with the moves I certainly do but if I have to modify moves, I do that too. I’m just grateful for movement. I look back over the last 10 years of my life and see the growth, the change, the evolution and I ain’t finished with this evolution and neither are YOU! Keep dancing, keep drumming, keep lifting those weights and keep soaring!!!
I'm also 64 years old....Still married to my beautiful wife. Got 4 children(2 males, 2 females) who're already independent...I'm jobless and spent lots of time surfing the internet. Thought of venturing into internet and doing something serious but I guess maybe too old for us now...Well, I guess the most important thing now is to be happy and joyfull in our life...Cheers!!!
l get you 101%.....l'm 68, American born Chinese.... and l'm where you are... starting over. l guess never too late. You go girl. l too have a mother who is 101 in an assisted living....and being cared for. Life goes on for all of us. l cheer you on....go enjoy....
Hi Tina, thanks so much for watching and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you! 🥰
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Am just 60 and have applied to physician assistant school after spending the earlier part of my life as an engineer. I went through first nursing then paramedic school and realized patient care was for me. My family thought / thinks I’m nuts and too old. Still, the passion is within.
Please stop saying you are old; you are only as old as you feel! Keep it up and stay strong!
Agreed!
I am 54 and I have found that working for other people for so many years, that is was time to do something new. I am planning to open a daycare that will take in special needs children. I have an autistic son and he’s the light of my life. I am so afraid and excited at the same time. I thought for so long that me getting older I would be stuck doing jobs that wouldn’t allow me to help or take care of those who need it. Thank you so much for doing this video. I needed to hear and see that I can do it, I can make my ideas come to life. Thank You.❤
What a wonderful idea! Please keep us posted on how things are going for you! 🥰
I will be 58 in November and was a stay at home Mom for 18 years. I left an IT career to raise my twin daughters. I left an abusive marriage in 2022. I am struggling to find and keep work. Was laid off in March. I am learning to live alone. Really enjoy the peace I have found. I can relate with the fear of suviving and becoming homeless. Feeling safe is important to me. I take care of myself now too. I do not know what my passion or purpose is yet as I am still trying to figure out who I am. An office job is ok for now but I want to build my own business. I do not want to be a corporate slave this half of my life.I am so grateful to have come across your page. I don't feel so alone.
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I totally get the alone feeling. And fear. I've been there for a long time. Life has been a "challenge" ( I hate that word !!)
@@TLA123y6f I’m terrified to live alone. I have never in my 58 years lived alone. I’m so scared. I know it’s silly.
I'm half Japanese, and my mom died from Covid in 2020 in a nursing home. We were unable to be with her, only watching from outside a window. I understand a little is what you went through. I was retired in 2016 after working over 40 years. I'm 65 now, and a year ago, October 4, 2023, my 36yo son died. I'm struggling with my health since his death. Being vibrant again would be wonderful. I'm glad I stumbled across your video. Gives me hope! Thank you!
Hi Lamona, i'm so sorry for your mom and son, what a difficult time you have been going through. Its no wonder your health isn't the best right now, you need your time to grieve. I'm so happy that my video has given you hope! You can gain your health and vibrancy again, i know you can! I hope that you can check in once in a while and let me know how you are doing. Take good care 🥰 ps...my youngest daughter is hapa, half Japanese, too!
Im stating over, too. I found out my husband cheated on me. It was really hard. They move on live happily ever after, i guess. I moved out. I have no family here in the US. I feel very alone. Thank you for posting the video. It gives me courage. ❤
Don't you think they will live happily ever after because they committed fornication and adultery, Do really think God will bless these two ? Mortal sins. Sin means something that is not good for you.
@@sandys408A lot of adulterers seem not to face any karma.
@@Kate-lk6tw Just see what happens in time.
Praying for you.
@@Kate-lk6twlet me makes a story as an example: Linda knows Tom already married but still decided to get along with him, while Tom knows that Linda is aware of his marital status. So after Tom divorced his wife and married Linda, Linda has low trust level towards Tom because she knows Tom can cheat on her too, while Tom will not respect Linda because he knows Linda isn’t someone very ethical.
I am 56 , I started over in 2023 after leaving 23 year marriage to a narc hubby and being kicked out of work after 15 years of dedicated service to a narc boss who decided to kick me when I was down . . . I started over with focus on my spiritual life , health , rebuilding my savings account and basically just self care . I look better , younger and I feel great . I love to dance too . . . in my room . . . Alone 😂 I felt relief and freed when I walked away from the narc and my job too . I am my own 1st ,2nd and 3rd priority . . . God is faithful 🙏 🙏 🙏
@@Blessed591 Seems there are many of us recovering in our 50s. Spent 26 years with an ex who was a covert Narc. Worked for his family and they let me go before divorce was final. Also lost my father during this time, which was the worst part of it all.
Such freedom without the gaslighting, guilt tripping, rage fits and walking on eggshells!! Think I'll go it alone from here as I refuse to ever give up my freedom again.
Don't know how I would have made it without God by my side.
Blessings!
Glory Hallelujah, Yes He is truly Faithful. I am a witness to God turning beauty to ashes. Stay encouraged Sister. Peace & Blessing's.
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped at 53 years old!!!
Just checked your channel garageman brutal training keep it up grandpa🔥
50 is not old, that's young.
Right on! I started over too, and I'm just grateful I had the opportunity to do so. So many people don't. That time is a privilege. I hope no one takes it for granted. Being able to start over is a gift.
@@brendagrant9382😅it’s not old and it’s not young
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I can relate to what you said. I am 62 and have lost all my family members I grew up with in the last four years. Last April, I lost my wife of 26 years, who had been my friend for forty-three years. I just moved to an apartment and feel very lonely. I admire the new things that you are trying and doing. That is Awesome. I am happy for you. Keep pursing what makes you happy and gives you purpose in your life.
I can almost relate. I'll be 61 in a few weeks. I'm not close to any of my relatives, mentally and/or physically. I went through my second divorce 13 years ago. For the first 3 months of our separation, I never felt so alone. I rented a house and at first couldn't comprehend my situation. I finally snapped out of the depression, I started listening to a podcast and listening to alternative music. This helped me to at least hear something other than my own thoughts because I was working three jobs trying to keep busy, but at all three jobs I was working alone. Once I got past the loneliness, I was able to think more clearly. That made it possible to start going to different meetups where there were other people. At first I thought I needed to date so I tried online dating. I quickly figured out that I really didn't want to date, I was fine by myself. I guess what I am saying, is that you can get past the loneliness, and you will figure out how to still enjoy life. It's hard losing someone you spent a large part of your life with. I hope you find the happiness you deserve.
My grandfather had a career in the military, found that afterward “no one wanted to hire a 50 year old.” He found a job in security for the sherif department. Then decided he wanted to go to law school. He wasn’t able to pass the entrance exam, but met a woman who was starting her law practice and a business. She and her partner gave my grandfather the opportunity to work (which he wanted to do! He hated retirement) for 20 years, doing the things he loved! Law, managing an office, and light construction projects. He never would have had that if he hadn’t at least tried pursuing the law degree.
I am 38 years old and thought it’s too late. Thanks for the video have run down the comments and they are eye opener. I am glad UA-cam recommended this to me.
Not too late - ever. You'll only be 38 once (I'm 53 and feel your age, aside from all the heavy-hitting life experience I've had inbetween) Go be your fabulous self!
@@lathagm666 38? Oh my if I knew then... Dont let the years slip by like many of us have. Act now , financially, emotionaly, physically. Your best years are ahead.
Wish you the best lifelong
I wish I was 38. I would have done differently with the wisdom I have now. So get going and start planning your dream/purpose.
I am also 38.
I'm 63 years old. I 'm a disable. But God gave me the new start from January in this year. I come to go to support office to learn IT. I'm learning WEB building. I think it is good for you to dance and you get joy. I hope to excise like you. Thank you for shareing.
As I had time after retirement to do what I wanted to ...I found that I wanted more of God, His son, Christ Jesus and the Holy Spirit in my life.
Now, The first thing I do is give praise to our Heavenly Father (prayer on my knees) then my time with him reading the bible.
It is unbelieveable how I made it through life without realizing how truly depend we are of his love, guidance and spirit.
GOD FIRST!
GOD IS GOOD!
JESUS SAVES!
THE HOLY SPIRIT IS WITH YOU!
May God bless you all to keep you safe and well.
Thanks for your comment royhi, I appreciate you! 🥰
Please watch CHRISTSPIRACY... Jesus is truly the son of God 💚🙏ahead of his time and full of mercy
Read Quran it's the last revelation from God to mankind
T.Y. I hope I find myself again.
Getting older is a real privilege. The birthday numbers are just numbers and have zero bearing on how engaged we are in life. Blow out the candles, make your wish, eat cake, and get on with the year ahead. Repeat.
@@amyhudson1016 well said! Thanks so much Amy 🥰
Well said!!!
Dear Amy, don't forget to be generous, Kind, and loving to yourself and others. Always be charitable and give as much as you can! Also give your time, kindness and love and peace and spread kindness to as much people you can , People always need compassion and care. Have a meaningful life full of wisdom, peace and kindness. that is a life fulfilled.
Someone in their fifties is still considered middle aged. You’re not considered “senoir” until around 62 but that doesn’t even matter. It’s how you define yourself and live your life. There’s a channel with a woman in her 60’s body building and she’s got a lean healthy body like a 30 year old. There’s another who is 70 and looks just as awesome!
You’re defeating yourself by calling yourself old. It’s not what the world says; it’s what you say.
Enjoy that hip hop! Mick Jagger is 81 and is so agile and fit. He’s got those Jagger moves and still takes ballet classes.
It’s not the age. It’s the person.
So truly. Many don't make it to an old age. Make the best out of life.
Everyday is a start over. Tomorrow is an illusion. Live for the moment
Beautifully said
Agreed.
I am 55 and I started college for the first time 2 years ago. I plan to work and enjoy life until I actually die.
I hope you enjoy college as much as I love teaching it. Students like you are such a blessing and asset in the class.
@@Kate-lk6tw Thanks! I enjoy every minute of it.
You’ve inspired me today with this video. I’m 41 but had to start my entire life over after getting caught up in substance abuse for 4 yrs. It spiraled out of control and I lost my job and everything else. After getting clean, I gained a large amount of weight. It took me about 5 yrs to rebuild my life and I’ve watched my 2 sisters flourish in their lives and would be reminded pretty often by them of my fck ups. It left me feeling like leftovers and very isolated. But I’m ready to come back to myself fully…been in a decent and stable job for about 3 yrs. Now it’s time for me to start living.
Thank you so much for sharing your story, it's incredibly inspiring to see you rebuild your life and come back to yourself! 🥰
Girl, You inspire me! You have given me hope. I just turned 63 and I quit my job. For the past couple of years, I was not happy. I'm one of those people who is very loyal to a fault. Now I can breathe. I know God has something wonderful for my future and I am excited to fulfill His will for my life! GOD BLESS YOU!
I’m 61 and really want to leave my job due to its physical demands and my chronic pain. I really need to work until I can get Medicare at 65. feel like each day is a battle with my body. I admire you for leaving your job.
At 47, I just wanted to thank you so much for this video. ❤
I have realised that one of the true and most powerful purpose in life, is letting go.
It is too easy to cling onto "something", and place the value of ourselves and our life on external stuffs, or chasing after some kind of dreams endlessly.
Letting go, is the powerful one.
Such mental strength is very strong.
When we can finally relax and live in the moment, we are no longer "lacking or longing".
We are finally here and now, living the best life.
@@LookDeepWithin it’s intimidating to people for sure,but it’s the best way.
Perfect statement!!!❤❤
You are absolutely right. Letting go is the hardest thing to do. We all try to cling on something that used to be dear and meaningful for us. However, as time goes by, the values and meanings of people and things in our life changes. Some of thing might lose their value, some of them might even become harmful for us, preventing us from seeing the real values of things around us. I am a Daoist philosopher and what I learned most from this indigenous Chinese philosophy is to let go. Only when you let go of things, you can appreciate the real meaning of life as well as the beautify of here and now!! Thanks for sharing your views!!
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This is very similar to the Stoics philosophy!
@@ianstuart5660 I am learning from Buddha. Thank you all kind and wise people, for getting it so quickly.
I was a teacher for 30 years. Put so much heart and soul raising my 3 kids. Just turned 60 this past August and retired. Looking for my new niche. Days seem long and repetitive. Thanks for the inspiration to find something to new love. Best wishes for your business!
Enjoy finding what brings you joy! There's so much out there for you. Thanks for watching and your comment, I really appreciate you! 🥰
Dana, I’m 75 and just started over AGAIN! I would be lying if I said it’s been easy, BUT now my new life is really beginning and I am so happy I gave this to myself, not thinking I was too old. I feel younger and motivated and am going to live authentically for the rest of my life. I hear you’ve worked hard in your life, done the right thing, and still no let up. But lock down gave you the ability to really look at your life and slow down enough to ask yourself who you really are. Now you are flowing into your loveliest chapter❣️Thank you for your story. Have no fear for your future!
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Oh Denise, thank you sooooo much for sharing your start over! I'm super glad that your new life is beginning! You're such an inspiration to me, thanks so much for watching and your awesome comment, i appreciate you 🥰
@@danafindwell Bless you, dear, see you sometime on the other side😍
This is so inspiring!
Ohhh now I'm inspired. I'm 65 & 4 months. After 30 plus years as a graphic designer, and 12 at the same company, COVID hit, and they let 85 of us go, the 3 in our department? Were 60 and over. Yes, it was a manager wanted us out kind of thing and COVID gave her an excuse. No regrets however. I believe it was God who ordained this, because I was ready to have a breakdown (another graphic designer already did a year earlier at age 26) due to the stress and unrealistic demands. In any event, worked at a printing company for 3 months while a girl was out on maternity leave. And then 4 months at WalMart, which ended up being a nightmare for a LOT of the workers there. I'm finding corporate is just a hornet's nest in most cases! LOL. So now? Bored, so decided to take up getting a CDL (Commercial Driver's License) and drive a truck because I love traveling, and why not get paid while doing so?? I have all my ducks in a row, ready to almost take the test for the permit part. Yet, am ... or now "was" really hesitant! Though it's an industry that welcomes older as well as younger drivers, am self-doubting myself out of it. This is only the 2nd time I've had to reinvent my life, and even though know I can? I'm just hesitant!! But God brought me here to see this story, and now reading the comments, realize I'm not so alone in needing and wanting to start over, which includes selling my house once established in a job. If I retire? For real? I will just sit and get sick, and wait for God to take me home. That's not what I want to do. I have no family, estranged due to a long story I won't share here. However, God has led me thus far, and He just needs me to take those 2 steps further. Stories here have given me courage. Thank you for that!! ALL of you!!
I'm 57, lived in Japan for 6 yrs U.S. Navy. Some of my best times, still studying Japanese as a hobby. I also had to start over. My wife of 25 yrs cheated on me w/a friend while I was living in his home paying his mortgage. Left me homeless living in my car during Covid-19. Got my old job back making decent money again but socal is really expensive. I feel God is helping me and not losing hope 🙏. You are a strong women, I I
socal is so expensive. my husband also cheated on with my best friend. I am left alone. but anyhow, it took some time but i found peace. Dont ever lose hope. never ever. May peace be with you.
I always try to remind people to call 211 it's a statewide helpline with Resources and it's in most states. I hope you can find something there. 😁👍
? Why were you living in someone else's home/paying their mortgage?
Cheers! Hope all gets better 🙏
@@joannwilliamsjackson1021 unfortunately at the time, couldn't afford my own home at the time, so I took up a friend's advice help who had alterior motives. My mistake, lesson learned!
I just turned 55, was laid off last year, a company I’ve put so much time and hardwork for 10 years. Laid off because in their eyes I’m old, which I did 3 roles for the company. Nonetheless God had other plans. I work for a global company now for almost a year and feeling a bit better. It was hard starting over and had to study again and learn something brand new. I was always afraid of what I can and cannot retain. Fears of the unknown. That thought process wore me out more than the task itself. I vowed going forward that I won’t let fear stop me anymore. Thank you for inspiring me and giving all of us a voice. I am currently helping my elderly parents out (Dad 91 and Mom 86) with my siblings. I still have kids at home (1 moved back in after graduation and another to go to college in the fall). Emotionally all this is draining but I have to speak positive over my life and those that I hold dear. I’ll be joining a gym thanks for inspiring and will probably enroll in a dance class because I love dancing too. God bless you in your journey. Sounds like God has even bigger plans for you. 😊
@@ActiveSouL111 you are so strong and inspiring! Thanks soooo much! 🥰
Thank you for sharing ❤ I'm 61 and I love my job. I'm at a point in my life where I ask myself, " Are you staying because you're comfortable?....are you coasting or climbing? Are you just scared to step out into the unknown? If you go back to school will you remember your lessons?"
Starting over requires that first step....you are doing great. I'm on the edge.
You got good vibes and energy! That company who laid you off doesn't diserve you and did not appreciate your valuable work in 3 roles you did for them! You are more precious to stay in such idiot environment. Wish you a prosperious life 🫶😊
@@sandrarapoza9896 I think every new thing is always going to be scary. I think that’s our safety mechanism that helps us think things through. I still weigh my pros and cons but ultimately you have to take a leap of faith that God will never stray you wrong. Every thing good that happened in my life has happened because I took a chance. I had talked myself out of many things and all I got was regrets. I took a leap when I decided at 50 to take my masters and graduated with honors. Took another leap with this current job requiring to pass licensing. While of course trying to silence the doubts. I think it’s best to know what makes you happy and just follow it. It’s one life and at our age we have to do it for ourselves and not for our spouse, children or parents. For us. You got this!
@@malikab3258 that means so much. So happy I am no longer in a toxic environment
Doesn’t matter what age we are we have to move forward it’s part of life 💪💪💪
Words of wisdom, thank you. Yes, even if we fail we still need to move forward! 🥰
Thank you everyone for sharing your stories. Hearing others are experiencing the same helped me feel less alone. I turned 51 this summer. It's been bothering me because I don't have friends my age and no one to talk to about it.I don't live in an area with much chance to make new friends, and I'm going to be moving anyway, I've started over many times as well. I'm going thru a transitional time in life right now to start again, again hopefully for the better.
Same here
Stay encouraged. The best is yet to come. Peace & Blessing's.
@@Living2PleaseHim thank you so much 🩵
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Good luck with your journey, LMJ Financial! Thanks for your comment, I appreciate you! 🥰
I just saw the Rolling Stones Live in MAY, Jagger just turned 81, and WHAT A SHOW ! he was running around like a Teenager, The whole band was lively. Age is just a number. We go through season in life, just like nature does. Each season is a new start. You are absolutely right. If you love what you do, don't quit. Look at the Rolling Stones, when you retire and sit in front of the tv your health will decline.
Hi Rich, so very true! I agree when we do what we love we have a reason to wake up everyday, something to look forward to! Love that you had a chance to see the Rolling Stones and they are still rockin' it at 80!! 🥰
I saw Mick run around a stage the day after he turned 60. I was impressed back then 😆
@@nichaeloz I saw the rolling stones 5 times and the shows have never disappointed anyone, always high energy and they sound GREAT !
I stated over (again) at 52. I'm a year and a half into my journey and life is the best it has ever been. I love all the posts on here and I wish every single one here the best that life has to offer.
Always good to state your case. 💪
Thank you for helping me find my smile! I’m turning 58 and starting over again . . . after starting over . . . again and again and again.
I love hearing that i helped you smile, that makes my day! Starting over means possibilities, that makes me smile! Best to you 🥰
Me too. I'm 56. Starting over again and again.
I am 24 and have failed multiple times in something I really wanted and I am now venturing into something new, while being anxious and fearful..Your wisdom and experiences certainly made me feel more open towards what the future holds...Thanks for sharing! 💖
Please don't say Failed...You are trying new things...that's great. My brother would get bored with the same job for too long. He loved trying new things...from working for the government to UPS driver. Be happy you get too choose 😁👍 Have fun. Also try calling 211 it's a statewide helpline with Resources in most states and find your local free food pantries 👍😃
I have recently retired and your story has inspired this 63 year old man to try new things that might be difficult. My daughters live in Taiwan and Singapore and I'm considering moving and living closer to them now that I'm not working any longer. I'm ready to take the leap! Thank you so much for making this video! Enjoy your passions!
What a wonderful idea. I work in Singapore for a while, it was a wonderful place! I am sure you'll love it!!
I booked my ticket and arrive on September 3 and plan to travel back-and-forth from Singapore and Taipei for the first year until I get a clear idea of where I want to live long-term.
@@kirk5826 Wow, that is very exciting!!
I am in the middle of my transition. I'm scared to death! Your story and all your supporters are giving me new life...thank you n all your supporters. Best wishes to all of you.😊
Do it, I am moving back to Australia… after 28 years in the US. I can retire comfortably there!
I'm turning 59 this year. I found your vlog very relevant to my own path. I didn't get laid off but you might say I had a bit of a nervous breakdown after the pandemic. I was a high school visual art teacher. I laid myself off. I took early retirement. I wasn't handling my jobs very well or myself. I wasn't eating well, or sleeping well and I was just not taking good care of myself. My first year of early retirement I focused on getting better. Lots of meditating... oh, I am sorry I do ramble on. I should make my own video. I started reselling too after a year of being home. I really needed to find something to make a living. I too have always loved thrifting! I'm taking a big leap this month, I'm putting my house on the market to downsize from 1600 square feet to 870 square feet. I'll let you know when I make that vlog! Here is to starting over!
Hi Ms. Sarah, yes please let me know! Thanks so much for watching and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰
You can purchase a big van to live in ,just do a great built out on the inside
Looking forward to your vlog. " Everyday is a fresh start, each day is a new beginning" Cheers to life ♡ 🍃🌸🍃
Thank you for sharing this invaluable video. You are an inspiration and someone to look up to. I’m 47 and taking notes: already started to take Zumba, yoga, sing in church and I play percussion in the local community band with all three of my kids. I lost my last surviving parent as well, and indeed, that is the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. Thank you!
Hi Carolyn, its so great to meet you! I think YOU are an inspiration, i love all the awesome things you are doing!! Thank you soooo much for sharing your story with all of us, its incredibly helpful. 🥰❤️🌺🎉
I'm so glad that I stumbled upon your account. I am 59 and LONGING to leave my nursing profession as an LPN. I have started over at times, yet have remained in the nursing profession which i went into for job security only, which sounds terrible, but it has never been my passion. I'm emotionally and mentally exhausted. I'm thrilled to be here and to have access to your content. THANK YOU! I have made many mistakes and don't have money to access or much savings, yet have no debt. All these years and have zero to show for it. I relate to everything you are going through. I also gained weight after menopause and let my fitness go. Good for you for caring for yourself! You will be great for your dance. You're (WE'RE) not old! :)
I guess I was supposed to hear this today. I'm 51 and a recent widow. My Husband was young, we had plans. Grief is tough and i dont even know who i am without him.I know I need to start over, it's scary but I appreciate your message. Thank you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. One of the greatest gifts in life, is to have a partner where you can't imagine life without them-but it comes with the terrifying thought of just that. While your journey may be a solitary one for now, I hope you find joy in any measure everyday. I wish you the blessings good health and happiness. I know that the Self you discover will be strong, and courageous. Know that someone you don't know- is here wishing you the very best ❤❤❤
I'm soooo glad you found the video and sent me your comment, Brandi. I'm so sorry for your loss, grief is very tough and it sounds like you miss him very much. It took months before i could start over after my mom passed, it was a healing process and i think its different for everybody. I really hope that you take the time to go through all the stages and remember to take care of yourself! Thanks so much for watching and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you. 🥰
@livinglushly4597 Thank you so much. How incredibly kind.❤️
Best book ever by author Hickman: Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief. A tiny little thing--a couple paragraphs at a time for each day on the calendar. It's amazing. Lost my parents two months apart and it helped so much. Best wishes to you.
@@danafindwell 🥰you are very welcome. I started reselling again, that and your title, and probably a little woo woo lead me to you video☺️
l'm 58years old too on11th may 2024.l have no body talk to at home .I'm alone after my parents passed away .I'm a single and I try to help my lonely time singing and dancing and learning english .I'm still learning then I can't write so much .we are women must be strong .Thank you and wish you all the best .
Its very nice to meet you! I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents it sounds like you were very close to them. I love your zest for life and finding happiness in your daily life! Thanks for your comment, I appreciate you! 🥰
Be strong just know that we love you and you are not alone keep it up I wish I was there to make you happy but keep up with English class
hey! don't be alone
We need more channels like this ❤ I am 51 and starting over is my motto !! Lets go !! Thank you for sharing !❤❤❤
At 59 you’re late middle-age not old! You’re also resilient and amazing!
New rule !! You're are only officially a senior starting at 80 ...
Oh please…. At 60 you are a senior citizen . I’m 64 and proud of it. Don’t be ashamed of your age.
At 48 you are old
Interesting video and content, but I would encourage you to stop saying your old because you're not! We put waaaayyyy too much emphasis on age in this country. Pursue what makes sense to you and remember you live within the limits you set for yourself. I live by the saying "on the other side of fear is the life that you want". Keep sharing your journey and helping others.
Thank you sooooo much, MonaAnita, words to live by! 🥰
On the other hand, there is nothing wrong with being old 💕
I agree! And you're so pretty Ms. Dana!!
@@danafindwellyes! You look fantastic!
@@danafindwellyes! You look fantastic!
I am usually a lurker, but this hit home. I am at a crossroads and this has given me great food for thought. Thank you ❤
Hi Kelly, you're welcome, thanks so much for leaving me your comment! Good luck with everything and please keep me posted, i'm sure you'll come to the right decisions 🥰
Lady, you are not old. Watching from JAMAICA 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 I am in a similar position. I just feel out of place. I just want to be a lone I am 47, going on 48, and I feel like my life is done. Thank you. I will start over and come back stronger and better 💪. Amen and amen 🙏 🙌 👏
I love your spirit, Lecia from Jamaica!! Your life isn't done yet, you are about to start over. Thank you for watching and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you! 🥰
Your life is definitely not over sunshine … As long as God puts air in your lungs, you have life left to live … Get up, set your goals, make a plan & go after all that you want
Thank you dear❤❤❤ trying but it seems like am not going anywhere
@@taste.0f.lov3Thank you dear❤❤❤❤. It seems hard to start over at this time, after sacrificing years to the wrong person 😢😢😢😢😢
@@KeronaEusabio-q1e it may be BUT you’re worth it.. Don’t give up!
Dana, you sweet beautiful lady! I am gonna be 60 in January, and your video was such an inspiration! Monday the school district is recognizing me for 25 years service. I am a Child Nutrition Services/Site Lead. My husband since
1989, retired sooner than he wanted to do his health. I have a 32 year old daughter that suffered a brain bleed in 2011, left her with memory issues, no peripheral vision and epileptic. So I enjoy making junk journals, sewing quilts and watercolor for my own therapy! Thank you for making this video. Starting over is a good thing! Especially when it means you are appreciating life, Learning and growing. God bless you.
Bless you you are so kind, may you be safe, free from suffering and filled with happiness, peace and light! Namo Buddhaya.
My goodness-- well done, girl!! And you're NOT old! I'm convinced being "old" is a state of mind. Trust your elders (I'm 61 and in better shape than the 40yo I work with!)
Im 58 and just like you sister wants to open a new career and chapter of my life. Im a Catholic stoic and a self made man. What i have and what i achieved in life is on my own undertaking. At this age i want to do the things that i enjoy and bring back to humanity the blessings that i got from the Good Lord God up above. The Greatest gift is Time and the Greatest wealth is Health k!
Amen🙏🙏🙏
@@byron8657 love this
I'm 61....I will buy God's Grace find my person and experience life in kindness, respect for each other and love ❤
Are you serious
@@tumwesigyemoses-tu8wk Have you never heard of people falling in love for the first time after 60?
0-24 child
25-49 young adult
50-74 mature adult
75+ elder
(and with technological advancement, that age for elder may be getting pushed back. around 60 is definitely the new "middle age!" imo)
i believe we need to take "old" and all other harmful adjectives concerning age out of our vocabulary and start celebrating each of the life phases. 💗
wonderful comment! ❤
Thanks sooooo much for your comment, its very helpful! 🥰
Yes true I lost me
@@Yintendo totally agree …Needs to revamp these expectations based on levels of maturity!! Especially 18 year olds….. still babies thinking they have rights … not even mature enough to know the difference
I agree. Ageism is so accepted and it happens out in the open.
I am very proud of you. You are amazing and a very logical thinker. At 58 I am right back into weight training. I love it. I started roller skating. Out no phone, no computer. Just fun. I also play guitar and have for 13 years. Quite possibly the best thing I ever did! You are very intelligent and so beautiful. Thank you kindly for your uplifting words.
You are inspiring!! ❤❤❤🤩🤩🤩
I started roller skating as well! I love it!
Number one I need you to stop saying you’re old. You’re a capable human who is allowed to follow their dreams. I can’t wait to see what you do next good luck, even though you don’t need it.🥰BTW I’m 60 and still 🔥
Well said !! thank you
Please more UA-cams like this one. Those of us over 50, need to talk about these things… ❤
Hi Sussanne! Thank you for the feedback and let me know if there are any specific topics you would like me to make a video of. I'm keeping a list so that i can keep track of ideas. I hope you have time to check out these videos: ua-cam.com/play/PLqSUKxRjMOafxPZ-2hwk8SnR2XczpSk7B.html&si=Yr3lgrAgIP03d8E4
How courageous you are! You are such an inspiration and I hope you realize that. You are not old. You are aging. We are all aging. There has been such an emphasis on ageism in our culture. Well, I guess in most cultures. But people are living longer, people are living better and people are aging better than ever before. I'm 51. I was adopted, lived through foster care until age 7, lived with abusive adoptive parents and survived pretty much raising myself, becoming a mother at 17 and then again to twins with multiple disabilities at age 24. I was married, in an abusive relationship and divorced and a single mother to three beautiful children and like you have started over several times. Now I'm single, my children are grown and doing okay. I've begun a career in reselling also. I'm aging. We have so much to look forward to! You dance wonderfully! You are such a bright light in this world Dana. We all thrive differently. We all come from different circumstances. We all need to honor ourselves and who God has created us to be. Some of us never learned to care for ourselves or nurture ourselves. Now that my children are grown, I am trying to nurture myself more. I gave myself a face massage the other day just because I needed to be touched lol. It was so good! Love yourself and keep rocking life sweet lady! ❤
Thanks sooooo much, Passionhearted, I really appreciate your wonderful comment and learning about you. I'm aging, not old...love that distinction! Thank you for watching and your comment, i really appreciate you 🥰
Thank you for sharing your story ❤
I just found your channel. I love this video. I am 46 years old and I am divorced with two teenage boys. After a couple of job changes, I decided to go back to school. I am back in school for pharmacy technician. And I just got a job as a pharmacy technician, I love it and I wish I would’ve done it a lot sooner but then I realized that Life takes us on different journeys
I left my teaching career and became a flight attendant at age 58. It was really, really difficult (and still is sometimes) but I desperately needed the change. There are challenges, but I’ll never regret it. I moved to live with my daughter and I qualified in a new language (German) at age 61. I travel to Europe 4 times a month and I’m forced to be physically active. I interact with hundreds of strangers from all over the world every weekend, and during the week I live a quiet life at home. Yet… I know the day will come - maybe when I am 70 - when I will have physical limits and will reinvent myself again, hopefully in a meaningful way in my community. I’m 63 now, but already planning ahead.
💚🍀💚
Which airline???
Ooh my God please help how do I get a flight attendant job just left my banking job at 37
That is Amazing!
I just applied to be a flight attendant at 61
Wish me luck
Thank you for your encouraging words. I can truly relate. I’ve dreamed of starting a business for years, but I've let procrastination hold me back. Now, at over fifty, I find myself wondering where the time has gone. I appreciate you sharing your story. Wishing you all the best!
Hi Paula! Thank you soooo much for watching and your wonderful comment, i just sub'd to your channel. You do beautiful work! Have you thought about selling on Etsy? Hope you have a lovely day 🥰❤️🌸
You’re not old. Stop saying that! You seem like a very pleasant & interesting person with plenty of experience and gifts to sharing with your family, friends and especially your grand baby . Your willingness to try new things and reinvent yourself are keeping you young, relevant, and vibrant. Stay strong and joyful that you have so much to offer.
No man in his right mind would have ever agreed to divorce you. ♥Best wishes always!
"if dancing hip-hop brings me joy, that's what i'm going to do."
😆 this woman is adorable!! 💕
No, this woman is awesome!
@@chikaka2012 She can be both!
Thanks for sharing. I'm 50 and starting over. So by just watching your video, I got a new idea to inspire my husband to get back to fashion design. Thank you Jesus
That is so awesome Monica, you are such an inspiration!! Thank you for sharing, i really appreciate you 🥰❤️🌸
I’m 60yo and I’m starting my new career. Needless to say your story means so much to me. Like you I keep myself busy everyday by going to the gym, taking classes, playing guitar and watching my diets. I don’t drink or smoke, I terminated my TV cable and detached myself from social media. The only thing I don’t have is a community. And now I found you, I’ll be following your footsteps to continue my journey. Thank you so much for sharing. Best wishes!
Thank you Edward, you inspire me! 🥰
Thank you, UA-cam, for suggesting a video that I didn't know I needed. I turned 50 last year. It was bittersweet because while I was excited and thankful for this milestone, I missed having my Mom here to share the moment with me. So many things she said are starting to make sense now and I wished that I could tell her that 😢. Now, I feel like I am starting a new season of life that is somewhat scary but makes me happy.
Such a great and inspirational share. I turned 62 this year, and I am so Grateful for my Journey❤. God Bless You. May you find more and more Joy and new adventures.
Thank you for such a wonderful message, Dianne, its really inspiring for me to hear what part of your journey you're on! Its soooo great to hear from you, have a wonderful week 🥰