12 Signs You May Be Unattractive - How To Tell If You’re Ugly | Ashley Weston
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When a self-deprecating joke is responded with 'it's not about appearances' and 'beauty is on the inside'
Or they some shit like “im sure you can get through this”, “its not that important anyways” i made a joke and u didnt laugh and said this cause it hits the spot so just shut up
@@pelin5312 people who say "it's not that important" don't know the struggles for sure
I don’t think I’m that bad looking I think it’s just my hair color I’m going to die it later
People: Why do you keep making these self-deprecating jokes?
Me: So that you can't make one on my looks.
this hits so hard to home
Signs that you are unattractive when your only friend is your mom and she is the only one who tells you that you are attractive
Just @me next time.. lol
@@Micaela1527 I can't you are pretty ;)
bruh i cant😭😭😭
@Fiona Arizona am sorry lol you are cute though I guess
That is literally me 😅😔
If someone attractive tells you that looks don't matter or beauty is on the inside......... That's their way of saying you're unattractive.
Hit them with that, “You can’t be talking”, then they’ll shut up.
Also you're race matters for some reason.
@@John-pu5kz only to some ppl race matters, It’s only preference; they’ll just struggle more trying to find their “soul mate”.
@@timesquare4282 True
Yess.
The good thing about being ugly is when someone still wants to spend time with you despite your looks then you know that they care about your inner beauty. There is just one problem: They dont exist
Yeah but who needs love when you got friends
@@ihavecoronavirus9802 you don't love your friends?
@@spicybeantofu not what I said. I ment who needs a relationship when you got friends after all they will accept you weather your ugly or not
@@ihavecoronavirus9802 bro , my story is true. I am literally that one kid in the room, who is the most ugliest . I have a bad childhood trauma, coz i don't even have a single friend. All life, i have been treated like a garbage, who is not worth to exist in this matrix. 💔
@@priyasenthilkumar8508 my heart goes out to you but remember that a person can step on a 20 dollar note or spit on it but it's value never changes. Whatever they say, you are still you and worth more than them 💗
Idc about what you say. Those bots definitely want me.
Yes. You go gurl....
💀💀🤣🤣🤣
Even the bots don't want me 😂
Lmaooo
Lol
It’s got to the point where I’m literally googling it 😩 FML
If that’s you in your pic - you’re def not ugly
@@gaza10 i was gonna comment that too but okay
@@gaza10 bruh that’s ariana grande
@@will4807 haha he never knew
@@gaza10 you must be living under a rock
I've been denying it, saying to myself I'm not ugly etc. Now I'm embracing the truth.
same like older people always tell me that it's not true and that I should just lie to myself yk fake it till you make it but I decided that I just have to accept it! I'm always going to ugly!! Makeup can't hide everything!! 🤣 Being ugly isn't the worst thing that can happen!
Anyone who tries can surely attain anything in life, just believe in yourself.
Telling yourself “you’re ugly” is like giving up not embracing the truth or that ugly is ugly because even if you think you’re being honest to yourself and that is good, it’s still part of the negativity that’s present as long as you allow it to stay.
And for sure I guess everyone is beautiful and uniquely made in God’s eyes, he doesn’t prioritise the better looking but in front of ordinary people yes, better looking people have easier lives at some point likewise taller people is another example but see those who choose to favour or prioritise only the people with better look is a flaw itself in their mind and it’s gonna be their loss because they’re gonna be blind unable to catch who people really truly are! Big risk in the future when you plan to settle down with a life partner.
Not to forget some people have personal preferences.
If you try to beat all the negativity in you, try and try and practice day after day you’ll survive just don’t allow negativity like that to manipulate you.
Staying hopeful is better than knowing you’re gonna starve to death without even trying.
Point is stay hopeful no matter what don’t give up !
There is always somebody for you, don’t be desperate and trust that you are good enough, you’ll be better, you’ll work harder, to BE better.
That is awesome and it's the only way that you can grow. Society isny going to allow this out of some misplaced and false sense of compassion. Alot of them don't even mean it.
Yeah, I just started admitting that I’m ugly. I can’t do much about it. I tried losing weight (lost 90 pounds), and people don’t approach me or match with me on anything. I’m done
I'm a ugly dude some how got 3 beautiful daughters
I’ve believed I was ugly my whole life. People never approached me in middle school and never complimented me, which I don’t mind, but when they did compliment me it was really only out of pity. I hated it!
There’s hope for all of us. The women at work made fun of my less than average middle age male looks. I brought along a 9 to the annual office dinner dance who was half my age, a med student. Didn’t cost me a cent (I tutored her younger sibling). The women there spent the whole evening staring at my date in disbelief. Didn’t win often but did this time and big. After that they didn’t laugh at me again.
Chill, there are other people who think of themselves like you.
And some people who grew up like that and later bloomed up they will never forget how they felt so they’ll have soft spots for other people who were like that.
A not so good looking guy may like you or a great looking guy may like you it all depends on the person’s personal preferences like some people choose physical beauty(most end up broken or keep changing partners) while others try to find the right person that’s more beautiful on the inside than outside and that guarantees a beautiful successful married life. There is always someone for everyone.
Ok
@@penguinvic4188 Wooah bro you totally won in life bro. Such cope
@@adamg6711He's more of a winner than you'll ever be, that's for sure .
"When the only people commenting on your looks are a generation older than you."
That shit hit hard ngl.
Hahaha that's funny because all l can ever attract are far older people a death sentence for your attractiveness 😅😷
damn. or when your a girl and try your best to look like a girl then your aunt asks if ur transitioning
My wife is older than me by 16 years. When we started dating she was 44 (looked about 30) and I was 28 (and looked about 35). She is the best thing that has ever happened to me and vastly superior to any woman I have ever dated. I wouldn't trade her for all the Cindy Crawford's in the world. .
Lol,No one's ever told me I'm attractive
lol
I don't need all this stuff, I have a mirror😎
Alvaro González I have single use mirrors at home. they always seem to crack when I peek into them.
ytwos1 That wasn’t on their list. You are safe. You are attractive.
@@ytwos1 you're not alone
@@ytwos1 me too
Bro!! 😂
Here’s something I’ve noticed that happens without exception:
1. When a woman finds you attractive they look excited to see you
2. They quickly let you into their humour and will ‘tease’ you
3. They will very quickly break the touch barrier if they want you to know.
This isn’t my own experience, I’m the ugly one - it’s watching this art form day in and day out in the type of job I do.
All the things you said have happened to me lmao. I'm not even funny but this girl was laughing so hard when I said the stupidest shit. And she seemed very excited for some reason and kept talking a lot.
The girl did all those things then broke my heart
This doesn't necessarily mean they find you attractive. You could be friend zoned
As girl I Approved it
These signs are correct, unless you were already very close friends when seeing these signs.
glad you two over privileged “beautiful” people get a good laugh at the expense of us who are ugly…. your humor is such a gift!
Lol theyre average at best
You consider that woman attractive? I don't
Who told you they are good looking? The man at least looks like a badly made wax version of Ken mixed with Donkey from Shrek with absolutely no flavour in his face... The woman is not far behind... Eyes, nose, mouth all together in the space of a fist and two hears resembling a tea pot... But hey! They are experts on ugliness...
They look like randomize sims 4 character that I create when I'm 14 yrs old 💀
@@theseattlegreen1871 that woman ? The man isn't any attractive either. Lol
Old ladies tell me im cute.
my mom does too about me😂
Still good 🤣
Yeah actually
any fuckin adult... for me...
I HATE your profile picture, that is disgusting. I have a phobia 😭😭😭😭
ur cute
"Children do not lie."
Oh, trust me, honey, they do.
@Black Box Painting that's not honesty, that's just being an asshole.
I wear a cap and a fukin kid started trolling me I'm bald but I have that many hairs that his whole family don't have 😂😂
@@sajidshaikh7738 LMFAO
not when its about that face they not shit
I've been told by little girls that I look like a pretty princess and I've been told by a little boy that I'm ugly. Idk what to believe 😭😭
I'm all for brutal honesty, it's better than being fed a cruel lie or backhanded "beauty is on the inside"
Agreed
stay inside the house
Yes and it prevents you from growing as a person. These things must be accepted. It's so fucked up how everyone else can call you ugly and think you're ugly....except you.
As honest as they speak I hope they don't think there gods gift either lol.
I know I'm ugly because when I confess my feelings to women, the usual response I get are "relationships aren't everything". "Be happy being single". Would have hurt less if they just said I was ugly. Even girls I've dated told me I was ugly but they loved me anyway and that wasn't true either. So now I just make jokes about my ugliness so it doesn't hurt as much.
I know you're attractive to somebody
I always get the “ I have a boyfriend” or “I have a husband” right before I say anything.
Yep I feel you guys .
Ive had girls say to my face id be attractive if only i had a different hair color lol.... Its tough out there ✊
Life sucks unless you’re way above average in looks. Minimum 8/10 to stand a chance in the dating scene. Nowadays a guy who’s a 5 or 6 is considered “medium ugly “. Life sucks.
People have told me I am attractive, and people have told me I'm ugly. When I look in the mirror I feel that I look very attractive, but then when I use two mirrors so I'm not seeing a mirror image of my self anymore and I'm seeing myself the right way around, I look very ugly. I can also look good looking in some photos but very ugly in others.
So, I've got no idea whether I am attractive, ugly or average.
i've never related to someone so much before...
honestly. probably just average
You should try using youre camera phone. That should tell you, or at least show you what other ppl see if you facetime. Trust me I don't facetime!
it's called "medium ugly" i got called it the other day.
aparently im not ugly enough to be ugly, but im not good enough looking to be hot, so i'm a attractive ugly guy... great... lol
@@TheShubbah Is that the same thing as being average?
"Your only called funny or nice"
Well how am I supposed to know i have never received a compliment before
I feel ya, only my mother has ever called me handsome, which is basically a duty for her
Kira stop your BS Lol
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns lol I think not😆
This hit me hard because when my friends have been approached by girls at clubs they’ve been called attractive. The first time a girl approached me she said “you’re funny”, and I never even spoke to her before...
@@SomeLad12 that's rough I've never been called pretty or attractive before i can't remember the last time I was complimented either
Most of those were based on social interactions.
Little did they know, I'm not too social, and I pretty much never meet people.
And I also live in an incredibly religious community where it's not very normal to compliment people's looks.
But I'm most likely still slightly unattractive.
In a way, I can relate to you because I'm not a social person either and despite the fact that I had my moments where I was deemed ugly, I always stay happy and grateful towards God for creating me and for making me look the way I look no matter what ❤🙏
I have some positive and critical feedback for this video. The positive is this was brutally honest. It is not helpful to tell an ugly person they are handsome or pretty. It's just easy. Another good thing is all of these things are true.
The not so great part is we have two quite objectively attractive people not only counselling us on how to know if we are ugly they are laughing about it while doing so. If they were ugly they would not be laughing while sharing this info with other ugly people.
They're actually not attractive. They could be spokespeople of the saying "you're not pretty, you're just rich"
they are not attractive they look so avergae and generic
Yeah, I try to be as objective as I can. and I would have never consider these two attractive in fact not even average. Maybe a bit lower than “plain”.
I am attractive but I'm fair and that was the saddest video i came across what's most sad is the two people tslking about unattractive people it's weird how the girl of all people could say all of that shit and not feel any type of way bc racing wear she was the ugliest of the twowith a straight she literally symbolized splinter from TMNT! She was fugly
all 12 just hit me like a truck
I feel you bro, the same
Lmao
That's why they do this kind of garbage, because young men will look for confirmation of their own poor self image
@@Davidwv97 yeah i only pressed because i wanted to know if pimples make me look ugly
same!
Had a pretty okayish day
watch this video:
Damn.....
Hahahahahahahaha this was the most relatable comment
Bad day !!!!!
😭😭😂😂
Lol :/
to those of you that are still single, being in a relationship isn't that great. It isn't like the movies that end with happily ever after. Reality is that there's a lot of fights, someone's always in your personal space, your money is hers most of the time. Being single is a blessing from god.
Yep. Im divorced now. Its amazing
The truth is that you are right but the body takes the mind sometimes, it is like getting drunk, you know you won't feel good next day but ...
Me and my buddies used the same dating app. While they were chatting with multiple women, not a single woman wrote me back. It became very obvious to me that woman react very different to my friends than to me.
12 for 12, I'm a winner! Wait...
This COMMENT 😂😂😂
Same 🤡
So am i
-> only nice and funny
-> boys like you
-> kids say ur ugly
-> people social distancing from you
-> the comments are how great r u
-> people talk about your friend up to u
-> people older commenting
-> no one laughs at ur jokes
-> when someone of the opposite sex hugs everyone not u
I’m kinda glad I don’t relate to these
“And all the comments are about how brave you are” 😂😂😂
Jonathan Williams Tell me it’s not so Ashley. Glee me it’s not so😭
Or how confident you are lol
I’m insta deleting that pic lol
I've been called ugly so many times even from my parents, Why is this world so cruel 😭
Exactly
If you've watched "YOU" season 3 , this couple is literally Cary and Sherry lol.
Omg yesss I could totally see that
this will definitely hurt a lot of people's self esteem lmao
Can't break what's already broken 😢
If you click on this video you kinda already know u r ugly
@@nvs0970 lol
It wouldn't due to the Illusory Superiority complex all people have to one degree
It’s just the honest truth! You can’t keep the wool over your eyes forever.
I posted a picture to Instagram and everyone told me that the filter I used "was the funniest thing of their day".
There was no filter.
Damn
Idk if i should laugh or not 😭
This comment was definitely the funniest thing of my day 😅
That's rough, buddy
Honestly I feel your pain 😭😭😩
Getting accused of sexual harassment by someone you’ve only looked at, but never spoken to nor know their name. Can confirm that’s a good sign.
I once worked at a posh national chain daycare and at a meeting the director told us all that the other centers would comment on how attractive her staff was.
Our center director said she tried to only hire people who were both physically attractive and qualified. Now it made sense for me because I had noticed that my male colleagues were handsome and the ladies were pretty as well. I didn’t know what to think of her hiring me though. It puzzled me.
Then one of my female colleagues called me gorgeous when I told her my insecurities. And it seemed one of the men who was an introvert acted nice but weird around me.
None of what they said in the video ever happens to me but yet I still look in the mirror and pictures and see a horrendous looking face.
And yet I have been called pretty beautiful by strangers acquaintances family and friends both men and women.
Yet I still don’t see it. I love to be a realist so I really crave the truth. Mirrors don’t lie but perhaps people are just being nice.
I wonder if childhood trauma (I have CPTSD) has something to do with it. My very beautiful mother was abusive and so was my stepfather. And my even more beautiful grandmother would defend me and try to protect me. My sister who I always saw as very pretty was never abused. I began to wonder if my mom was ashamed of my poor looks. One of my pretty cousins (I don’t have a single unattractive cousin) told me when I was around 20 or so that she always thought I was so pretty more so than her. I gave her a shocked look as if something was wrong with her. I remember in high school good looking boys gave me attention and were always super nice. I would hear of secret crushes guys had on me but they never told me themselves while other girls were constantly being asked out. I believed the gorgeous guys just saw me as cute and smart since I was short, in advanced classes sometimes and was quiet but bold and often kind and a bit quirky. It seemed they saw me a non annoying little sister.
At the end of the day, although there seems to be some scientific way of measuring beauty it seems, people still have differing perceptions of beauty.
I go about my daily life and sometimes it is rather uneventful and sometimes I get attention from really good looking men. It seems inconsistent but that is ok because I don’t need external acceptance. It accepting myself that is extremely hard.
I find myself secretly admiring, not so much attractive people, but confident people . I have seen people that have unattractive looks but seem so happy, confident, and just enjoying life and I think that is just awesome. Yes sometimes I stare in awe of them. I just want to get away from the divas and jerks who parade themselves around like peacocks. There are some rare occasions though when I come across beautiful people that seem so warm and kind and humble.
I guess I will never know the truth about how I look . I have had so much trauma that perhaps my brain is too injured to separate reality from distortion.
But what I can do is accept that life really is more than what we look like in the mirror . My little gorgeous girl told me yesterday mommy you have such a beautiful face and whether that’s objectively true or just the love in a five year olds heart, what matters is the love between us.
I get the feeling these two hate each other
Ok I was called ugly in 50 different languages
(Edit) wow 92 likes
@Laura I never understood why people would bully us for being ugly like why are you mad that i’m ugly
Same
@@clumsyme179 stop being the part of this toxic fandom and you'll be 💯% attractive
@@captainaryan26 army is not a toxic fandom...
Same
Yeah I just had to deal it. All my life I worked out, tried to enhance my IQ, and always got compliments on my wardrobe but nothing I can do. On my first blind date she almost really went blind and on another my date wanted to switch people. Lol it hurt when I was younger but now it's just life, but yes lots of old women think I'm "handsome" smh
This is no laughing matter for those of us born facially ugly. You guys making light of it is cruel.
I feel like im getting bullied lmao. Genetics really got me on one, and you can’t fix ugly
You can fix how people see you. You just have to keep moving forward and fight the marleyans
or plastic surgery
Come to Britain we love everyone's looks here ♥️🥰
@@vmm5163 bro i lived in britan and got bullied in school everday for my looks
i lived in newcastle
I was a bartender at a concert once. This lady came over to the bar. She had a list of things to do, a sort of game. One of those was to take a selfie with a bar man. She took one with me then looked at the list for the next thing, "take a photo with a hot guy" she said and looked to my colleague beside me. "You're a hot guy, can we get a photo!"
That was the moment I realized I wasn't that big of a deal 🤣
WTFFFFFFFFFF, you shouldn't have taken that selfie. There is no respect in this world. Just say no for everything
So u here to confirm 😂😂😂
@@shubhamahesh7880 lol no 😂 I saw this and thought "that's different"
L O L THATS HARD
You're handsome.
i asked my friend if i was ugly and she basically told me to shut up about it... this vid just makes me lose all hope
My PE teachers asked me if I was the one that was going to go on dates with a mask. I was not the guy they heard about. That hurt a bit. They said "just use your personality" I knew I was ugly but this hurt quite a bit.
I was a 35 year old bald unemployed guy living with my mother when I met a girl. We’ve been married for 25 years now! I worked really hard and retired when I was 59 years old. My wife saw in me what I never saw in myself.
Wow, that's so nice! The standards of beauty changed dramatically since then though.
Wow that's so sweet 💖
Lucky you. We are all not so lucky.
an ugly wife right?
well i only get ugly girls
Great work guys! Cutting people down to sell your products love the dedication!
LITERALLY
LMao
Get a life
Literally
@@sarsar5465 get a grip
I honestly will never have confidance to talk to anyone again .. i can't even face anyone now .. i wanna hide so that no one can see me..this might be a joke or a fun video for you guys .. but i lost my whole confidance in me.. thank you for making me realize how unattractive i am .. thanks a lot from the bottom of my heart ..
Oh baby I don't know who you are but understand this, you are more lovely than you know but of course if no-one has ever told you this then how could you know? So don't let two strangers having a laugh eat away at the one-of-a-kind person that you are. If you don't have a partner right now or a companion or best friend then be your own. Grab a pen and paper and genuinely list the things that make you feel good, and don't hold back neither. As long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, give yourself the 🟢 to make YOURSELF happy. Life isn't short, it's long so live it feeling beautiful your way. A lot of people held up as paragons of physical beauty are wrecked and rotten and decaying on the inside. You sound like a gentle soul who perhaps has been through a lot: much of it unfair and uncalled for I'm sure. So reverse that and love yourself as the most beautiful version of you that ever existed, because that much is true.
Honestly, who cares what other people think! It’s your life! Live it to the fullest, love yourself and be thankful for what you have. Who will benefit if you will hide in the closet? Besides people are much more concerned about themselves, how they look, what they say etc. Every single one of us has insecurities. Social media is fake.
There are things that you can improve about you, but the most important thing is to not be harsh on yourself. Take the best care and love for the one you are closest in the world - it’s YOU! And don’t forget that God made you in His perfect holy image with biggest love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I didn’t tend to overthink this subject when I was young but as I got older I noticed the change in how people treated me.
I feel attacked
Anthony Hill I feel violated.
Nah ur profile pic tells different don’t mock us ugly people
same
Your not ugly Anthony your attractive
Boi u know dang well u ain't ugly
I've been trying so hard to except that I'm ugly..but I'm always resilient that somebody will notice my inner beauty that outshines my outer beauty..
It's hard living in this World,
They don't know anything!
I notice you and others will too sooner or later because what’s on the outside is temporary and outer beauty fades with time as we grow older or get sick but if you keep doing good and being kind to others than people are gonna notice you and love you not for something dumb that you have no control over like your genetics, they are gonna love you for your character and for the kind of person you are. If you try to be kind, caring, and compassionate to others than they will notice you and they will realize that you are a truly beautiful person 😊
I feel ya...It hurts I know.
I honestly can relate. Its hard seeing pretty girls on social media and in real life. I just wish i could look like them. That i can be beautiful too, just like them. But, im learning beauty goes deeper than the surface, and i am beautiful because of my inside beauty💚 and so are you! Don't let this world define beauty for you. You be the definer, by shining bright like a diamond 🥰
@@belen3972 what a beautiful message! God bless you❤ you are beautiful,too💝
I can feel it...😭😭
I love how honest this video is. I already knew just needed my dose of confirmation bias😎
Don’t care about how you look, the only thing you should care about is how to improve yourself, and I don’t mean in looks, I mean physically or mentally, those who judge based on how you look are only a distraction to slow you down, strive for improvement, and don’t let the way you were born let you down, you were brought into the world for a reason, and that reason is decided by you, so what’s it gonna be?
This video is brutally honest. And ppl got to stop getting mad over these things. Ugliness exists. Ugly people exist. Stop disliking this video just bc u believe in body positivity
Well other people might find you attractive it depends on the person
@@Undefinedde just because a nigga in timbuktu think you somewhat attractive that doesnt count for the general population
I'm totally for body positive but I'm also honest. Sometimes it's bad. Sometimes you can't just be positive.
@@Undefinedde right 😭
@@Undefinedde That is largely bunk and every cosmetic surgeon knows that.
Y’all really didn’t have to come for my neck like that 🤣
LMAOOAAO
Anytime I get a compliment, I gotta come back to this and humble myself.
Honestly you are fine.
I thought you were gonna teach me how to stop being unattractive but ok, i get it.
I get it.
In case we forgot they said. It's just a friendly reminder they said..
when you go to sleep thinking about the last compliment you got and it was like 2009.
That hit me 💀
That feel when 2009 was the only best time in your life and you wish to go back to a kid when look took little priority over vidya games and playing with the bros all night take me back to 2009 life please!! 😶
as a ugly guy i would love to have a bar where other ugly people can meet, often in life people avoid me or see me as a monster but it would be fun to socialize with others who are like me, too ugly to have friends. one day
Same!!! It would be insane
As another person outcasted from society, i would welcome this, unfortunately even other ugly people can be just as prejudiced
No women would go to that bar
@@tolom9258 truth, even ugly women have options. at least fellow ugly males can have our own space to hang out
you know thats sounds like frickin good idea. We can all roast each others imperfections.
So, How attractive do you both believe you are???
😂😂
Imagine being a grown adult making a video like this while both being mid AF 😂😂
Right ? These people aren't hot or attractive. They look like they need a burger and a reality check
@@LaughingDisciplefrrr
Thank you for helping me solidify my awful case of ugliness
"Children do not lie". Not true all the time. When I was little, I used to lie a lot. Not anymore tho
I would've never said some shit like that as a kid because I was taught to see the beauty not look for the ugly. Kids are like parrots. It's so relaxing and fruitful to find the beauty. They're both there all day long. You pick!
One thing I got was when two roommates who I had never talked to about my relationship status got drunk a bit drunk and told me not to think I was unlovable.
I mean, you wouldn't feel the need to tell an attractive person that they are not unlovable, right?
lol what do drunk guys even know at that state they are no less than kids who have no idea what they’re looking or talking about.
Man don’t overthink too much , be brave and embrace yourself cause nobody else will if you don’t
That means nothing. Did you have a breakup recently? Told them about any insecurities? Even if not, they could've just had an alcohol induced revelation haha
This may be a humorous video, but I’ve had some women look at me like I have leprosy.
I know that feeling. My recommendation is that if a pretty woman in a bar says you're ugly, reply with "well then turn around and don't look at me".
I feel you bro
That’s mean..
lol first time?
It’s a myth that women don’t care about looks, they care about looks just as much as men do. It should be obvious but it’s just one of those things you have to experience because of society perpetuating this lie. Keep your head up.
sign #1: you make a monetized video about how something people cant control is unattractive
Dammmnnnn that’s a good one. Agreed. I didn’t actually get the point of the video. It seemed just... mean. Wasn’t very funny. No punchline just insults
@Mauve I wouldn’t say he got offended, but rather that he found the video distasteful, and I would agree.
Truth hurts
How about when you're hanging out with your female friends and they start talking about the hot guys that they're into. Then, at some point they apologize to you because they assumed that they hurt your feelings by talking about that stuff. That happened to me a couple of times!
They might’ve said that cause it’s girls talk and you’re between them silently listening. Don’t overthink lmao
It’s nothing big of a deal, we’ll never understand these girls likewise for the girls.
@@FriedPotatoesForLife as a woman, thats the reason, they dont want to hirt your feelings cuz you are important to them
Nice video guys, to other unattractive people like me, you can be ugly and happy if you accept yourself and never let a woman you're dating get away with putting you down because of your looks
It doesn't bother me to be ugly I like being left alone I have a lot of clear space in my life to do exactly what I want to do it feels real good to be unattractive
You have good facial structure but I would suggest a change in hairstyle
you're not ugly. just over dramatic.
HUHHHHH you're literally so handsome. Wtf. I wouldn't say that if you were ugly no but fr you seriously aren't.
@Johnny Guillen If you have money, the girls come running
Same I feel free
We have reached peak capitalism I think
I couldn't imagine someone telling me I'm brave to show my face in public! And even people who's faces are ugly because of an accident aren't judged like that because you can tell they weren't ugly before!
I find working out helps. Not necessarily with girls or anything, just for your mental health. Don't let this defeat you. Get up and go kick some butt. You owe it to yourself.
Is funny how these two are talking about themselves without knowing it. 😂😂😂🤣
I think they know, it seems likely that these points are coming from personal experience
Kinda ironic that we are coming here receiving tips from people who look uglier than us.
I think they seem like they're average but worked to be a little more attractive and can laugh about it. I've been young beautiful thin king blonde hair. Now I'm middle aged pretty overweight not don't care as much... Just some average to kinda sad middle aged lady but I could care less. Being hot just got me screwed over by psychopaths and other women hated me . no kids cuz good guys didn't see me as the marrying type. It's funny to me how things adhd perspectives change.
They are unbelievable 🤦🏽♀️😂...definitely talking about themselves!
@@nattybumbum2 Yes
Damn i got every sign lmaooo at least they're honest tho lmfaoo
Same here lol, but you’re not ugly and neither am I... hmm maybe it’s just because we’re quiet
I miss the part where's that's my problem
@@darkreap4501 no one asked
Not ugly!
@@juicyaf.4028 he has no profile pic and a corny ass username lmao I should definitely take him seriously 💀
Girlfriend of 5 years left me, I went bald and I’m repulsive, here’s to acceptance! Ready for life alone!
I have come to the conclusion that the eye area is the most important qualifying attribute for attracting a mate. Women spend the most time looking at this region so clearly it must hold a lot of value. It is the first line of communication.
Men like to talk about jawline but I think bone structure acts to accentuate the dynamic features like eyes, eyebrows, and lips. If emotions are expressed here and women choose via instincts/emotions, then the probability of success is heightened when the dynamic features invoke a stronger positive response. This response is directly connected to interest level /lust.
Great. The huge dark bags (that I’ve had since birth) under my sh*t brown eyes make me look like I have two bruised turds on my face. And I’m a ginger. Things are finally starting to make sense…
1.We can't do anything to change it.
2.You get to laugh at us.
3.We take our revenge.
4.Media blame the videogames.
5. Everything's back to normal
Damn. You have everything planned
@@abdulazizhawsah9884 yep
sounds like a plan, i'm in!
ight when, where and how?
@@rainbowsweater nice name and thought.
How do I join your cult ? sire.
beauty is subjective guys, so not every single person is going to think you’re ugly and not every person is going to think you’re attractive either
True admittedly.
No
@@BeautyIsObjective this is quite a fitting username
Shut up, there just some things people don’t find subjectively attractive, some people are just ugly(including me)
Im ugly and idc ill be single and lonely forever with pets … just because i won’t suicide cuz they need me and i need them
how brave these two people are to make such videos,kudos
now i am regreting watching this video
cuz now mind says i am ugly 😒😭
and my heart says.... everyone is beautiful no matter ,how they look❤️🥺
one of those things is true
Lol that's what's in my head, too! Highfive!
You are beautiful, don’t listen to these guys we have to lift ourselves up and love ourselves and tell ourselves that we are beautiful and we are worthy no matter what anyone else thinks! It only matters how we think because we have to fight for ourselves and treat ourselves like if we was our best friend. If the person you see in the mirror where your best friend that you have known for years what would you tell them? You would probably think they are beautiful! You are your best friend so you have to see the beauty in yourself and not wait till no one tells you your beautiful you got to tell yourself your beautiful and believe it because you are. Once we start to believe it then it won’t matter what others think because we will know that we are enough ❤️😊
@@belen3972 I was this close to destroy my mirror because I hate what I'm seeing but I got chickened out to do it because I was scared that my family is going to find out that I have a problem, which led me feeling even worse just because I was too much of a coward for not brave enough to destroy a mirror.
@@MsAkbar14 Breaking a mirror is not a brave act, it is a stupid act.
Feeding off of other people’s insecurities. Great work guys! Keep it up!!
You clicked on the video, you were wondering too. They made a video to talk about the signs, nothing else to it.
You know, during the early days of the pandemic I had really bad self esteem. I hated everything about me and I got mad when I saw attractive people who thought they knew my problems. I would be so incredibly hateful when in reality the only thing I hated was myself. It really makes me sad to see other people going through this and all I can say is I wish you the best of luck my friend. Things will get better and the hate you spread now will turn into regret and guilt over time.
With love, a fellow ugly.
Mallu alert....😏
It means they're open to be criticized as well in return. Fire off your opinion =)
and they're so saccharin about it too. I mean what's not to love, they've such great personalities, and so genuine and engaging on camera.
A word of advice for people who tend to be really successful with self-depricating jokes. I used to make self-depricating jokes and get tons of laugh. In my own mind I was being confident by joking with myself. But unfortunately that sub-communicated that my ego is weak. And so I stopped making self-depricating jokes.
It's all true and I think the most important thing is to accept it and deal with the cards that you have dealt.
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I've been told billions of times I look like Tyrese Gibson
Yesterday for the 5th time I've been told I look like Eddie Murphy
@@Raynard_333 i know i'm ugly many women say i'am
Being ugly is cool which takes the heat off of you.
A woman observed kids saying women on TV are ugly. The people were gorgeous actresses on tv. One day the woman said some kids will call gorgeous people on tv ugly and those hot people on tv they are calling ugly looks way better than the kid. Some kids will say things to be jerks.
@@Raynard_333 Those are good looking men
tbh I been called ugly all my life so getting called ugly or being laughed at my looks doesn’t really faze me no more. It’s so bad to the point where if i get a compliment on my looks or something related to that I’ll cringe while if I get called ugly I’d laugh or prolly wouldn’t care.
same
The Irony of this video is that they both seem to think they are attractive, when, to be brutally honest, I'd say they are both slightly below average! Genius video in this respect, as it goes to show that in the end it doesn't matter if you are really attractive or not, just believe you are and you'll be ok!
They do look more than slightly conceited, too, which is hardly an attractive trait.
Okay, this is what messes me up.
Ppl absolutely avoid me unless they want something. I've never actually been on a real "get to know you" date. I've only been asked on one 3 times (had to turn them down at the time) & any exes were friends first. Any effort beyond an oversized tee & baggy pants & I get severe hate & glares from women, sometimes with rude, backhanded comments loud enough for me to hear. I'm very natural & barely wear makeup because I don't like the way it feels on my face. I still get crazy looks even when I don't try, they're just not as hateful. It's worse when they're in groups though. From both women who look an absolute mess to the conventionally average & drop-dead gorgeous. It's 10x more uncomfortable & demeaning than being catcalled by a crew of construction workers tbh. I feel like I'm constantly being shunned for some unknown reason & since I don't know, I can't fix it. I learned how to carry myself well so that I *wouldn't* be a target, but I'm still a big one somehow.
Only walking-red-flag types seem to approach me for my number. Literal "I just got out of prison last year & my psycho ex just kicked me out, let me give you my number" types... NO. My standards are be respectful, caring, humor, honesty, willingness to communicate, mentally/ emotionally healthy (we all have baggage)& don't be toxic or a total bum that wants to break/ own me. My boundaries are strong, reasonable & self-improvement has always been the name of the game. I've already accepted the possibility of being single & celibate for the rest of my life so it's not like I'm desperate to fill some voids. I just want what everyone else seems to be able to find so damn easily. I get so tired of hearing how "easy it is for women"... TF is easy about being treated like a leper?
I hate being the center-of-attention because there's always expectations with that, but ppl have a very weird silent, what seems like borderline fascination with ME. If I walk past a group or line of ppl or into a room, everyone goes children of the corn. It's actually really creepy because I'm not DOING anything worth ANY kind of response. I truly don't see myself as all that attractive either with severely crooked teeth that'll cost a good 40-60k to fix, old acne scars & rbf. Such is why I don't judge or descriminate on looks myself. I've learned to accept & make up for it in other ways. Ways that never seem to matter with other adults.
I've actually lost 50lbs of pandemic weight & redid my wardrobe. I'm either looked at like a piece of meat or like I need to crawl back in my troll hole & I dress very modestly to boot. I don't even wear shorts or skirts because God forbid I look like I'm trying. I don't get rude comments or compliments even from average men. I don't really get any. Just stares. I've given up on approaching men because they just ended up using me in the past or they'll ignore me & move away like I'm not worth a response.
The bulk of compliments I get DO come from children & they're always really nice. THAT'S what confuses the hell out of me! Except I've never had a child say anything negative to or about me, even about my teeth beyond the innocent curiosity of "why are they like that?". Little girls always seem fascinated & want to be near me. The sweetest thing recently was 2 random little boys started picking flowers & sticks & setting them in front of me like some kind of primal offering ritual that went on for 20 minutes until there was a giant pile. I never get gifts so that was super nice. Kids & babies also tend to be able to pick up on the socially awkward, weird stuff about others & will often avoid those types of ppl. Babies will literally walk up with big smiles & want to hug me for no reason though which tells me I must be giving off some kind of good vibes... vibes other adults can't stand?
When I have tried to talk to anyone about how depressing it is, I get dismissive responses & ppl act like I'm trying to get attention. Since I don't see myself as attractive, it hurts & feels even more demeaning. All I want is just to know where TF I stand in life on the attractiveness scale or just be completely invisible to all. I can't tell if I'm strangely stunning or freakishly ugly because I don't get treated as normal or average at all. Since it seems to be everywhere, I can't ignore it so I have to deal, but I'm tired of being treated like some unworthy trash for breathing & having a face.
Me asking my neighbor's child am i ugly on gunpoint
“If you don’t want to be unattractive, follow us on social media, because we’re attractive”
The woman is not pretty.
People say I'm attractive, but other people say I'm not attractive. It's okay to find someone unattractive. People have their own preferences, but they should not feel like they have no worth 😔
Which is what this video does just make people feel like shit. Physical attraction is something that's needed in relationships but now days people throw away what could be a good thing to get a hunk/model. Then they fill you with sob storeys on how there life sucks. And by the way weather its you in profile pic or not, you are beautiful don't forget that.
The problem with me is that I cannot tell whether im ugly or not. Once i had a girl tell my my hair was ugly and she liked my straight hair better, and i have other people telling me otherwise. Another thing is, one day i look good and another i dont, and lets say i look good in the mirror but bad on my phone, the same thing happens the other way around. So i basically have no perception of how attractive i look 🤷🏻♀️
That's me as well, FML
I really hope this video wasn't too triggering for those suffering from BDD. It is sad and very real.
what is BDD
@@qwzxhskexn9467 body dysmorphic disorder
too late@@tonkacat
I’m crying watching this video. Because each and everything applies to me…. Ugh I hate that I’m so dark and muscular and I got weird features. That’s literally what ppl saying “damn you black and ugly” it’s okay I’m working on my self confidence. I guess I gotta work on my inner beauty then somebody gone really fwm
It breaks my heart that many girls told me i am ugly and that is not even my fault to begin with,trust me i am desperate and wanting some xxx........i CAN understand GUYS who FORCE it with a girl i can and i do but......i do not have the heart to do that!!!!!!! It tickles me how i do not get to fu...while other dudes do......this is not fair........
Even my mother telled me for the first time in 15 years how i really look, she said i really don't look good and i thank her for being brave she never called me handsome nor cute and when im with other people i can really tell they don't like the look of my face. Even teachers make fun of my looks. No one even wants to be my friend even im acting always kind to everyone
FVCK THIS LIFE OF MINE
Ps: im not fat nor skinny not tall not short, i do alot of work so I won't need to ask my parents for money when i want to buy something
Talk to me! i want to be your friend
Man, I will not be saying some bullshit like "everyone is beautiful" etc., you may be actually unattractive. But that doesn't mean you cant make friends or go out with girls. I know a lot of ugly guys, who got many friends, also it is pretty common to see hot girl with unattractive dude. The only thing that's matter is your character, social skills.
Yes, may be women wont fall in love with you at the first sight, but you definitely can rely on personality.
Remember, maybe you don't like what you see in the mirror, but you must accept yourself because how can anyone love you, if you dont even love yourself ?
i am not native speaker, sorry if that was hard to read or I've made some stupid mistakes
Damn looking at my friends and everyone at this age just makes me sad because I know I’m not attractive I want to accept it but whenever we’re in a group of friends and the more attractive people always get the attention and I always get ignored it hurts
same bruh
Same
Yeah I’m not gonna lie I’m very close to just shooting myself not on no edgy bs either
Same dude I’m 16 right now and I see so many taller attractive guys hanging out with hot girls and here I am sitting alone at lunch like a loser and I have little to no social life. I should really just go to the gym
Me too I've got mates that are much better looking than me and girls always check them out give them attention and I get ignored, makes me so jealous and depressed with my self because I'm not attractive, so unfair just don't see the point in living
I laughed while watching the video, few moments passed I remembered a lotta relatable incidents. now i am crying
Finalllyyyyy!!!!!! ... I got a clear answer ... people usually call me "hot" and sometimes tells me "I need to work on myself" ... so I was really confused weather am beautiful or ugly ...but at the end of the video they said "you are unattractive if you are watching this video" ...and here I got my answer 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 (crying inside)
Maybe work on your skincare, that’s what I’m doing.
Tbh I feel hella mixed and being attractive and unattractive, I always get girls taking glimpses at me or dming on hanging in school, but when I get through the talking stage I never get passed it so I always thought it was my looks or my personality that fumbles😕
It especially started happening when I cut my hair short due tot he front being hell dead so Ilot of people kept telling me why I cut my hair short and ig that plays a role too tbh idk what Tf wrong with me 😪
hey guys thanks for popping in and letting me know i'm ugly, really looking forward to our next interaction.
Next sign is when people say you look like Woody from toystory 🤠🥳
I don't know what you're talking about, I don't think Dorian looks like Woody at all...
Woody, to me, is cute.
@@U2Blades you know you're Blind when someone says OH YOU NEED GLASSES
@@k9ine446 Uncle Dorian is a really nice man . Yea no cap . Letsgo woody boy we love you
At least they don’t say you look like doctor doufenchmirts
Bruh I don't need this kind of knowledge in my life but I can't help myself. I'm gonna be crying about this
I'm handsome af, just fat 😂😂
Yo same but I’ve lost 15lbs in like 5 months
Fluffy*
That's the spirit!
I miss the part where's that's my problem
Yeah🥵
This video comes across as picking on your already sensitive and self-conscious audience.
not nceserly
It’s a joke, get over it.
I mean it’s just in good fun. Especially since Dorian brought up the few times some of these happened to him
Always project that you are attractive.
It makes a difference.
I mean calling myself attractive when i am ugly wont make me attractive