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Ascended
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This channel will primarily discuss my experiences being on both sides of the attractiveness scale. I will tell brutal stories I experienced as an overweight, balding unattractive man and stories of being a decently attractive man after improving my looks. Other topics discussed will be best practices for looksmaxxing, genetics, genetic determinism, dating and anything else I find relevant including the importance of money, status, men's mental health, corporate cringe and alpha male cringe.
How the Agepill Affects you in your 30's
In this video, I discuss how the agepill effects you in your 30's.
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How to Deal with Feelings of Jealousy as a Man
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In this video, I discuss how to deal with feelings of jealousy as a man. Wikimedia Commons Images Used: Toglenn at English Wikipedia, CC BY-SA 3.0 creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0, via Wikimedia Commons
Why Dating as an Introvert Can Be a Struggle
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In this video, I discuss the struggles of dating as an introvert.
Top 12 Physical Reasons Women Reject Men
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In this video, I discuss the top 12 physical reasons women reject men.
Millennials Discuss Modern Dating in 2024
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In this video, my best friend from college discusses modern dating in Washington D.C. Wikimedia Commons Images Used: Hayu, CC BY 3.0 creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0, via Wikimedia Commons Hayu, CC BY 3.0 creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0, via Wikimedia Commons
How to Know if a Woman Has Genuine Attraction for You
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In this video, I discuss 5 ways to know when a woman has genuine attraction for you.
Cold Approach Before and After Looksmaxxing
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In this video, I discuss cold approach before and after looksmaxxing.
Millennials Complain about Boomers, Corporate America and Davis Clarke
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In this video, millennials complain about boomers, corporate America and Instagram influencer Davis Clarke.
Why I Avoid Going to Work Happy Hours
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In this video, I discuss why I avoid going to work happy hours.
My First Rejection Story in Middle School
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In this video, I discuss my first rejection story in middle school. Wikimedia Commons Images Used: Toglenn at English Wikipedia, CC BY-SA 3.0 creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0, via Wikimedia Commons
Wife Cheats on Husband and Marries Her Son's Friend
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In this video, I discuss the story of my friend's mom having sex with his sons friend and then marrying them. Wikimedia Commons Images Used: Toglenn at English Wikipedia, CC BY-SA 3.0 creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0, via Wikimedia Commons
Talent Does Not Always Attract Women
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Why Jestermaxxing Rarely Works
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Why I Lowered my Dose of Finasteride
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In this video, I discuss why I lowered my dose of finasteride.
Why I Don't Give Face Ratings
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In this video, I discuss why I don't give face ratings. Wikimedia Commons Images Used: Stockton, CA Police Department, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons
How your Phenotype Affects your Dating Life as a Man
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How your Phenotype Affects your Dating Life as a Man
Dating Older Women as a Younger Guy
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Dating Older Women as a Younger Guy
How Attractive Are You? 1-10 Looks Scale for Women
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How Attractive Are You? 1-10 Looks Scale for Women
Sub 8 Theory: Do Women Only Want Good Looking Men?
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Sub 8 Theory: Do Women Only Want Good Looking Men?
Why You Should Never Simp for an OnlyFans Girl
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Why You Should Never Simp for an OnlyFans Girl
Why You Should Never SIMP for Women that Are Not Attracted to You
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Why You Should Never SIMP for Women that Are Not Attracted to You
How Attractive Are You? The 1-10 Looks Scale for Men
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How Attractive Are You? The 1-10 Looks Scale for Men
Musician Speaks on if Musical Ability is Genetic and if Women are Attracted to Musicians
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Musician Speaks on if Musical Ability is Genetic and if Women are Attracted to Musicians
Voice Halo Effect and Failo Effect
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Voice Halo Effect and Failo Effect
blasting dutasteride for majestic hair gains and anti-aging properties of nuking DHT
Snort that shit
The wall is undefeated😂
Unless you were a Chad or a Giga Chad when you were young, most men tend to get hit by the age pill very hard. Generally speaking young vvomen find much older men as gross, unless you’re a silver Fox.
just few months from 30... never began for me
Yep, I'm almost 30 and I never got to do the "deed" and of course, no dating or relationship of any kind with these 304's around these parts nowadays.. men do NOT age like fine wine, we (for the most part) age like milk just like women, except the difference being... foids have more opportunities / respect from society, so they can go on having partners for decades after their initial "peak / wall" that red pillers love crying about so much. The black pill comes to collect us all, but mostly us men, since society is gynocentric by nature.
One thing I’ve learned since I turned 26 over the years is the age pill is also literal. Even if you look younger than your age, the actual number is a turnoff if you’re above them or above 30…even when they are. That’s right. Vvomen want younger men. There’s a reason so many of them become teachers.
So what I need to do to attract them? I'm still a student
Be handsome
Exactly, this has been my experience as well
Im not overweight, balding, or short but people still make fun of me
Bro your getting dark circles in ur 30s I had them since 15 It’s brutal People always told me I look sleepy/tired or a drug addict I never gotten girls cuz of my eyes
Get make up
@@rod9829 which one? What’s one to hide dark circles
I would try Lumin Dark Circle Corrector, hope that helps!
I noticed once I hit 30 my dating app matches just disappeared nearly entirely. My assumption is that most girls 18-22 max out their age range at 29 because 30 just sounds "old". The part about having to attract them in person is definitely true, as I still get young women in social contexts/IRL, but it was nice having the apps functional.
I'm 22 but I think a man's peak is from 26-32. Not 38+ like these scammers will say. My perspective though.
That sounds about right
TRT can help a lot in your late thirties and forties.
Sigh, yea I'm going to be 30 this year in December I got a hair transplant back in 2023 that gave me a new hairline and density but it appears I'll need a new one again, to the common eye I'm norwood 1 but I can see areas that need more grafts at the front side temples The norwood reaper never sleeps, and after that my donor zone will get nuked so I'll have to get smp on it to blend it in I'm also planning on getting rhinoplasty to straighten my slightly off center nose, I read rhino can make one look 2ish years younger For my skin care shit I just use a cleanser, copper peptide hyaluronic acid, emu oil and then tretinoin at night I know sleep and diet are what i need to work on Im not fat but taking phentermine pills to help me lean out quicker Its all so tiresome
Oofy doofy couples is just beta buxx relationships There’s no genuine attraction Girl used the normie for his money And cheats with a chad.
I saw your thumbnail of Leonardo DiCaprio....I’ve always thought he aged poorly. He was extremely good looking his 20’s, especially in the films Romeo & Juliet and Titanic. He literally had a defined jaw line. And then after titanic he took break and came back in the movie ‘The Beach’ and I thought what the hell happened to his looks. And since then now that he will be turning 50 this year, I think all the young girls that are into him are only dating him for his A-list status and potentially his wealth. Realistically if I’m judging his looks, he is not handsome anymore. He lost his looks a long time ago. I’ve seen men when they were in their 20s that went through that gawky stage and now that they’re older they aged well and are handsome. So it depends on how well you take care of yourself. Your skincare routine, diet, eating organic, exercising is a BIG factor and Leo DiCaprio was never the type of Hollywood heartthrob that had an amazing physique...let’s be real. He strikes me as the lazy type...I mean he’s got that dad bod 😂
I didn't get matches in my 20s, so I doubt my 30s will be different
Get a plastic surgery and hair transplant if u can afford it in your 30s
I swear I’m so scared of entering my 30’s but I had y cracked yet (28 as of now). I feel a good life change will help me age gracefully. Just curious though, what’s considered low DHT?
I’m glad a lot of us have similar shoes and we are aware of this we just don’t publicly talk about because we’ll get shamed or told shut up
I just hit 30 two months ago, and had a bit of a mini midlife crisis, but I'm out of it now. During 19-23 I was depressed, fat, and had a gaming and porn addiction. Then gotten back in shape, quit my addictions, go back to university, then finished my degree. Then COVID happened and screwed my progress, also broke up with my GF during that time. During 2020-2021, I pretty much did nothing but gaming, at least I got Immortal rank in Dota 2 :D. 24-28 was when I attracted girl aged 19-23 the most. Since I'm 30 now, I guess I will just settle and start a family with the next best 21-28 year old woman comes in my life.
Good vid. Agreed with your message. Seize your 20s. Imo the manosphere sells it backwards: -Make money young and you’ll get women in your 30s-40s). Opposite is true, your dating will tend to peak in your 20s with peak looks and social opportunities. Money will peak later with experience and the snowball effect.
I hit the big 4-0 this year, and I agree with just about everything you said about the difference from 20's to 30's. I'll refrain from giving advice, but I will share a bit of my perspective. Late 20's were pretty good for women, but early to mid 30's really were prime time for me. I was fortunate to keep my hair, I stayed lean, my style improved, my career & finances improved, and I just overall became more comfortable in my skin. A lot of the young man angst just sort of went away. What I found to be so great about the 30's is that you're still basically young, but a lot more clear-eyed and mature. You can really have a lot of great experiences - romantic and otherwise- if you stay fit, maintain good mental health, improve your finances, cultivate hobbies/activities where you meet girls, and remain open & curious about the world. Great video.
I too get more looks from women in my 30's, it feels alot easier than in my early 20's the Irony is, im in a relationship now, so that sucks
Considering the drugs and alcohol, Leo have amazing aging genetics! Still I wonder why Nordics age better than Anglos?
Nordics have better bone structure.
@@ascended266 from what I've seen on humanphenotype website, Anglos look much more robust than Nordics
Could be related to UV radiation. Scandinavia does not get much sun.
No he doesn’t and nordic males don’t age well at all!!
@@daintydalmatianyes they do
I had a great looks decline to quote Darth Hideous (RIP) from 27-30 my skin looks alot worse with acne that strangely became way worse then it ever was even in my teens and hair thinning, ive always had a high hairline and big forehead even in elementary but its definately thinning now. My homeboy now tells me i look 40 brutalll
Damn sorry to hear man! Did something happen to Darth?
@@ascended266 Just never posts videoes anymore honestly i just think he got bored of the BP and might have gotten a gf. My face is my pfp im definately a sub5
@@darkjudgeofd00m Yeah, I can definitely understand getting bored out of it. I haven't been posting as much as I used to but I definitely still have a lot of content in the future coming.
I can't pull any girls in my 20s, let alone in my 30s! Is it over then?
@@Alpha-qp1bo yup
Unless you improve yourself
Dating apps are a young bros game!
Very true!
Tf do men get women? I’m 23 and look 17 and can’t get anything here in California. I hate this inceldom curse.
Lol, we're on the same boat.
@@Alpha-qp1bo I just escortmaxx. No point in trying. It’s a wrap bro. Most these hoes don’t want most of us 🤣
California is probably the hardest state to date in the U.S. Tough market for sure.
It's no different in any other state, foids are pretty much all the same in terms of their "priorities" and such.
I will say that getting into your 30s you tend to lose the gawkiness and gain a sense of ease and confidence around women that many girls in their 20s find more attractive. I know many girls in their 20s that are turned off by the immaturity of many men their own age and prefer an older guy. That type of girl tends to be more mature in their attitude themselves which is kind of what you want as well. Also being more financially secure does help since, let’s face it, they like the idea of a dude having a fatter wallet being able to squire them about town like a queen LOL.
Very true man! Solid points.
I always hated that. They are incredibly immature themselves and yet they want maturity???
*Affects
As I’m slowly approaching 28 and prospects slowly thin out due to the age gap it is worrisome that the older I get it’ll only get tougher to have the dating life i desire (despite being being a chad-lite). I’ve dated part time due to some obstacles that will be removed very soon. I’m going ham at 28 👊🏽💪🏽
I appreciate guys like you and Gerbert. Living, embodied proof of the black pill, having seen life from both sides of the attractivenes pole.
Very true! I'm also a fan of Gerbert.
@@ascended266 That's cool. What do you think about your experiences being tainted with the lenses of the black pill? Would you choose to live life over again as the chad you are without the horrible experience a couple of years prior or do you value that experience for the perspective it gave you and would relive it? I imagine it's hard to look at things like how day 1 chads see them, all lovey dovey and stuff.
I'm wearing sunscreen, staying in shape, eating clean and taking finasteride until I can't anymore
Nice!
Most men start hitting the wall in their 30s and lose nearly all of their attractiveness by 40. At 40, most men are just pulling leftover women or younger women looking for resources. The other sad thing is that most men reach their financial peaks around 35...40 max.
Money does not bring genuine attraction
It’s because most men stop giving a shit. Really by mid 20s a very large percent of men just stop being lean, let their hair go, etc. I know using celebrities as examples is a bit of a meme, but the reason most Hollywood handsome guys are in their late 20s-30s and beyond is because they take care of their looks as they need to for their career. If all men actually put in effort, their looks wouldn’t significantly decline in the 30s and maybe even early 40s. By 50+ even the best looking men won’t be able to compare with their younger self, even if they still look good for their age (ie Brad Pitt). Nobody can be beautiful forever.
@@user-vw5jk9cs8r That's mostly not true. Father time and aging robs people of their beauty. I don't care how how in shape they are. Entertaiment industry's job is to hire better looking people who looks like they age slower. Beauty is a lot like athleticism. It starts fading out for most in their 30s and it's over at 40. Most athletes can't keep training 40+ to be as good as they were in their 20s.
@@TwistedLullabiesyeah but it's still a need money increases the ways you can male your self mlre attractive
Good thing I’m a black guy I’m aging like fine wine
Nice man!
I think a lot of folks underestimate weight gain. Leo got so much worse after packing on the weight, it only takes a little. Oh and drugs
Very true!
He hit the wall in late 20s
By 35 years old 66% of men have experienced at least partial balding
Yep! That's a brutal statistic lol
I dont have balding, my hair is thick, but I have few greys already at 33 years, you cant win
Idk man I still clap plenty of 21 yo girls. Im 34. Just keep gym and diet clean as a mf. I lie on my tinder age I set it at 26 and it works lol
Been waiting for this vid from you! I’m 28 myself, turning 29 in a couple months. Just got an amazing hair transplant and am cutting down to 12% body fat, hoping to get there before my 29th birthday. What do you do for skincare? I seem to have solid skin genetics but I haven’t really done anything yet. Moisturizer?
Nice man! I use Lumin skin care products. I use their cleanser, moisturizer and eye cream.
1:30 that 30 hits different lol
Lol that it does my friend!
Once you hit your 30s it’s all downhill. Unless you look like Chris redfield in resident evil 5. But Middle age for men in my opinion is 35.
@@alexprince9035 I agree. Middle age begins in your mid 30's. Your earlier 30's are literally the last years of your youth. Kind of like the last few minutes in the 4th quarter of an American Football game before it ends. That's the analogy I've always used.
@@C3IAM I’m 33. Granted I have a gf and kid but I know if we did split up. It would be difficult trying to find another woman. The Norwood reaper is brutal
im 27 and one thing ive noticed as a gymaxed HTN is that older woman have become super easy i means it ridiculous, i still struggle with younger woman but older woman are super easy and causal and its weird that now i can get cougars ect im not interested. if it was 21 year lod me i would love it but at 27 im not bothered but i do like this unique time of being in my late 20s were older woman find me irrestiable for some reason.
Nice man! I had a similar experience. In my late 20's, I started exploring older women as well lol
@@ascended266 Yes brother and i find them to have less hassle aswell they are more straight to the point and have less attitude or forbearance, honestly older woman make YOU feel like the prize
I don’t get shit cuz I whine how over it is to women. They fucken think I’m 17 at 23
Thanks for including your pics, you look great.
Thanks brotha! I appreciate it.
Waiting til your 30's to experience an abundance of women is one of the biggest lies the RP space promotes. If you wait til your 30's, you will regret it. You dont want to be the guy who doesnt know how to "do the deed" in his 30's because you didnt get no experience in your 20's. The older you get, the higher the expectations and less forgiving women will be. Have fun in your twenties, you're only young once and most of the best opportunities with women happen in your twenties. Good video! Good advice!
Thanks man! Well said!
@@C3IAM The issue is that most guys are broke in their 20s. Guys who fool around usually get women pregnant. Most enjoyments are cancelled out by their sufferings. It's still best to focus on yourself and build a strong career so that you can be financial free at a younger age than chase women and be a slave to a job.
I agree that you need to handle dating in your 20s. Obviously build yourself up (money, fitness, socially, spiritually, etc.) as you go. However, you should handle dating then because if you struggle at 25, it’ll only get tougher with declining looks and social opportunities.z
@@P.90.6032 things can be true at once. 1. Definitely avoid pregnancy out of wedlock and make sure you work on yourself. 2. Still put in time to at least be competent datingwise. If you become competent at say 25 and then decide to put your head down for your career for say 5-7 years, it’ll be a bit tougher because of age, but at least you won’t be green. Rich and no dating experience can make you vulnerable.
Abundance of 19-24 year old women? ❌ Abundance of 25-34 year old women? ✔
im 33 and hairpill is so far the biggest one so far, still on norwood 2 but need to start fin
I can relate lol I was NW4 in my earl 20's. Fin can definitely help.
I'm on it while at a Norwood 1. I won't let Hairloss get a chance to strike
Im also 33 and I already have Grey hairs, no signs of balding though
Update: apparently I have the Anglo Saxon phenotype (mix of Dalofaelid and Hallstatt). Some guy classified me
Leo isnt even attractive anymore so this is crazy, maybe in 10 years hes gonna be treated like bezos in the video
Ai companion robots can’t come quick enough
I think we as society should be doing something about this problem. The all kids around the world and also so many adults are just soffering because we as humans are lacking empathy.
I always had friends as kid and best friends also. When i was getting to adult years, i was struggling to find friends even if I had good talks with them. I was wondering what is the problem, later on i figured out that im just ugly :D
I will ask this question again; “Why would you even want a woman?” After listening to all this it just doesn’t seem worth the inconvenience! 🙂↔️
thank god i am gay....