Why You Should Not Disclose Your Income To Anybody ?
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im 23, i dont know i have this quality in me already. mere mummy ko bataya tha unhone puri colony me faila dhi thi, fir hike ke badh when i started earning 2x, i didnt even tell my parents ki 2x hua h. bolta hu ki bas thoda sa bada h.
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I call this as "Societal Tax."
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Never disclose your income, PPL get jealous and some will ask for money. Parents don't do proper property distribution. Spouse will ask for money for purchasing unnecessary items.
So true... Bhai ben wife parents kids all start looting me... Nothing left for me despite working so hard.... Can't buy good shirt for myself
Nobody cares in my family.... No one ask what I want from my own money
Strict bano agar log loot rahe hain. Muh par naa bolo. Darna kaisa.
harsh rude but true.
@@himanshusingh5214 jo dil say jeetha h wohi loottha h
Thank God I have been tagged as kanjoos. No one asks for Money.
"Gujara ho raha hai"
"Kaam chal raha hai"
Noted for life 🙌💯
Daal Roti nikal jaati hai!
Phir b kitna kama leta he 😅
@@2007milanantani 😂😂
same bhai dushman kam ho jaate hai khoom choosne waalo se pehle hi door ho jaata hoon 😇😇
Bhai fir bhi Kitna kama leta hai ab gharwalon se kya chupana
Yr phir b btao to sahi kitna ki kama lete ho ?
We Indians are never taught in school to say no. It's an art.
Saying No will help you in future.
Yes agreed, saying no will help
Vitamin N
@@brinjal1371 😂 you watched that short too I guess
No is more necessary than art
In standard 2 of cbse hindi book, there was a chapter called "Shistachar". It included it very clearly to never ask anyone's income.
if we lived our lives according to the hindi books they made us learn in school, society would still be in the middle ages
@@joelabraham7998 u say it like society has progressed so much .being self absorbed is not progression .Iiving relationships and highest divorce rates is not progression either .liberalisation is not either . Obeying to zomato and dominoes and preferring junk food Over home cooked isn't either. Indian culture getting suppressed every decade .
I have been married for 4 and half years. Share two kids with my husband but I have never asked him how much he earns...
@@Madhu_Yadav___ Well said. I would prefer to live with sanskari middle age culture with modern facilities.
@@Madhu_Yadav___arranged marriage?
Asking a lady her age, and asking a man his salary is always inappropriate question.
Lady will always tell her age less and man will always tell his salary more.
bhai tum expert lag rhe ho
I always tell my salary less than my income..it helped me a lot
Nowadays even this is a offensive statement particularly for women as it presumes that females need not have to have a career/aspirations of their own.
@@indianlad23 This! And gentlemen these days are on dating apps lying left, right and center about their age
Start asking women their salary and men their waist size
I totally identified with this. All my relatives are like this. I told my dad in confidence and he went to his village and told the entire village just as a flex. God help Indians and their mindset. On top of that all my relatives will ask for money every now and then and won't ever return it. I am so done with this nonsense.
Given 1.1 lakh to my relative in 2017 on promise that he will return within two months. ....an I am still waiting and asking for money in return. Hadd hai bc.
Don't give money idiots who don't keep their words
Agree same i lent money to my uncle and now he is not picking up the call. I lent 30k to my best friend 3 years back he has just given me 2.5k and when i ask him. He will say aryy de dunga na bhaag thodi raha hun
Why tf do you give in the first place?
@@intekhabshaikh1912 should not have given in first place better to get personal loan from banks
@@_DashingAdi_ exactly 😂
Once you reveal your salary, one type of people (those who have lower salaries than yours) will become jealous; and the other half of people who have higher salaries than you will feel superior, and at times will shun you as a possible liability if your salary is much lower than theirs. This is the divide you create amongst your normal group of friends. Everyone has an opinion about it no matter what, therefore always keep it secret as much as possible. Many who openly broadcast their salaries usually are lying with a much bigger figure than actually are, maybe to feel superior to the rest. High salaried people never reveal this secret. Thanks for this useful advice
People just want to know your income so that they can set a limit to respect you
Whenever i say KARCHA NIKAL JATHA HAI they look very happy
Why do you want respect from such people have self respect and be happy?!!
Superb , Be smart and never tell anybody about your income - 1)These days people are interested in your salary and personal matters than your well being .2)They want to confirm whether your lifestyle is better compared to theirs or they are doing better than you .3) They want to know to what level they can exploit you for their own benefit .
if somebody asks me my salary i tell them that asking someone salary is bad manners . 4)Never tell anybody about your salary /income else people wil start evaluating you based on salary. 😃👌❤️😊
Brutal Reality.
Perfect. Asking income is bad manners tell them still they will say 3 to milta hoga? 😂shameless guys. Keep away from them.
I just tell them ki jitna zarurat hai parivar chalane ke liye utna kama leta hu. Baaki khud hi andaza laga lo
I having started telling that Astrologer told to never tell how much you earn .............
For me asking only senior people in this case what to do
He is giving fatherly advise for youth..
Sir im 21 years old, glad to find your channel at this comparatively young age. Thanks to you.
Mai 16 k hoon
I'm 19
Mai 17 ka ho 😂
Actually you are extremely lucky
Wo sab chod ye bta kamata kitna hai😂😂
There was a time when my father used to share my salary with every close relative. I didnt like it, but because he felt so proud telling about my hikes or job switches, I never confronted him strictly, even though I used to tell him to avoid it.
But soon, he stopped doing it, as he himself started seeing these things:
1. He used to tell my salary to the same relatives when it was very low. When it increased with time, some people started telling others how he boasts about his son’s salary.
2. Some people started taunting him, or even saying that he is lying about son’s salary (not to his face, but to others, who then told my father). Interestingly, most my relatives are government employees, so they have strong belief htat “salary can’t become X times in Y years”.
3. Some others started asking him for money, from anything and everything. Making a house, buying a plot, and whatnot.They would just look at the CTC number, and assume that I have money flowing down the drains of my house, so I should just give it to them. Here I am not buying my own house, as I have my own plan to reach a particular number in terms of net wealth before that. And they expect me to buy a house for them. And mind it, they have all the means to go and take a loan. But they rather want me to just give them free money, which they “may or may not” return.
4. Some relatives started eating my and his head with stupid investment schemes and business ideas.They wanted me to invest in their business. Once I actually asked one of them to get the business ownership documents ready, so that we can sign and start it. They got offended and complained to everyone, how “He wanted business equity on paper, and didn’t just give us all his life savings"
5. Some would even gossip saying that “If he is earning X amount in 30s, he must be doing something shady” 😞
6. And the last point was exactly what you said. Everyone kept taunting me for everything. “Why do you buy a 15k phone? Get latest i-phone”, “Why don’t you fly business class?”, and for thing I actually like to spend on, they would taunt me for them -“Why would you waste 30k on a chair?”
There are things that people won’t understand, because they will see your salary from their mindset and experience. They will have their own notion of how much you “should earn”, and how much you should spend. You may want to retire at 45. You may want to start your business at 40. You may even want to not work at all, and do knitting or sell peanuts for a living after 10 years, so need to save for your retirement. They won’t understand.
Dimag kharab kar dete hain log. Pair nahi tikane dete jameen par, hava me hi uda dete hain. Now my father just says-
“Bas thik hai. Ham bachcho ki salary puchhte hi nahi. Apna ghar chala leta hai, hamse nahi leta hai paise. Baki vahi jane”
I still sometimes tell my salary to close relatives, specially cousins who are working/want to work in the same domain as me. Just to give them an idea about what path they can take, and what would the incentives be like.
Can you tell us more about your career?
Like which domain you are into, what differentiates one in your domain among others to have the sort of hikes that you've received and additional information that you feel may be helpful to aspirants.
Thanks
I am in IT industry and a certified financial advisor, so, whenever someone used to tell me what to do with money, I cross questions them on their investments or ask their returns.
Now, hardly anyone do that with me.😅
How much do you earn in crores or what 😂
@@NITISHBHATT008 your source of learning financial advice, thanks in advance.
Seriously, Don't talk with anyone is the only key. Just go away from your relatives.
So true.. I told my mother about my salary she started looting me and bought property for my brother 😖 Then I stopped sending her my money and never disclosed my salary .. my father never asked my salary even from beginning .. fathers are the best
Parents are best both father and mother
In my case my father is the problem. My mother never asked or even if given any information never tells others
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Not all father's are same. Because I had good salary and brother didn't, he bought property for him. And we had a fight
@@SanjayFGeorgesame in my case parents are biased
People want to know your Income to determine how much Respect they should give to you..!
Right bro.
but isnt it a hypocrisy to reaspect a person only on their income rather than their actual values of behavior and manners.
Kadwa sach
Log apne dukh se dukhi nahi dusre ke sukh se dukhi hai...SUKH TO SABHI KE PAAS HAI LEKIN LOG DUSRO KE SUKH SE DUKHI HAI
Sir your audience not only Indians but like us PAKISTANI as well ❤
yes im also from pakistan
👍🏻 learn life lessons from wherever you can.. 🙂 🇮🇳
If anyone insists on knowing your income even if you tell them "Bas guzara ho raha hai", you should not feel forced to reveal it. Just keep repeating "Guzara ho raha hai" or use any other phrase. Finally, that person might tell you why you are not telling me or "Bolne se kya hua". Reply politely that "Yeh baat rahene dijiye, mein salary discussion mein Jana nahi chahata hoon". Alternatively, tell him that you are under obligation by your employer not to disclose your salary and that you will honour your commitment.
Haaa par kabhi kabhi bolna pad hi jaata hai
@@yashpalchaudhary9752 Hi Yashpal, reveal it only when it is needful. You can disclose it in situations when you are negotiating CTC with a prospective employer at an appropriate stage or availing of a loan, or as the presenter of this video Amit ji says during forging a matrimonial relationship or to the government. Remember, you should always be in control and never feel forced or compelled to tell your salary to anyone. We need to understand that salary income is sensitive information that is private to you, your employer. The figure can and in some cases should be disclosed to close family members only.
We can also ask their income if they ask they will get same feeling
Tell them ridiculously high number and laugh it of..
@@mrinmoyb1 perfect 👍
Keeping the Salary confidential serves corporates far more than you. You should share your salary with your close friends. It really helps if you know how much people around you earn. It gives you an idea of your own market value and helps you in negotiating your hike/offers !
True bro... I really think the corporates actually pay people to bring in such reasoning so that people always remain confused. Truth is there are many in corporates who earn highly disproportionate income to their efforts.. I mean ones who are delivery mangers and above. If a regular developer makes 30k, and lead make 60k and manager makes 1l, there are many more above that level who make 2l plus for doing one tenth of what before mentioned people do... Those people don't want salary to be disclosed neither do they want a environment for that to happen, hence all these strategies.
Agree fully
Lol...
There is another reason, in companies have designation and pay grades, where both are not related, a Lead Developer may get almost same as Project Manager.
💯
You are right. IT people feel jealous of eachother due to salary variations...
Yes
My uncle saved every rupee that he earned. He lived a very simple life but when he died his son enjoyed all the money and property that his father saved being bikari .
Learnings, never sacrifice ur needs by saving money for future. One day u will die and others will enjoy all the money that ur hardwork earned and saved.
atleast its his own son who enjoyed.
better than giving crores in income tax and then worry in old age. not to forget relatives who want your property
@NandiLL.B ha lekin same yahi nepotism bollywood me hojaye to sari duniya unhe curse karti hai
This human weakness made him to suffer most of the period of one's life.
Yeh tumhari uncle ki galti hai ke unhone financial awareness nehi dia unke bachho ko .
Goan or Mangalorian?
My father never told me his income. He has strictly told all of us to not disclose the income to ANYONE except if needed to your wife, because she has to take care of most of the house expenses. All we have is a general idea which may or may not be true. Plus I have seen that the people who work around him never discuss income, it's just an unspoken rule to not talk about it. All my relatives have some made up numbers in their head about the income but he never entertains them regarding such matters. He will make a joke out of conversation and turn the topic into something else if someone tries to ask.
I'm 25 yrs old, I've three Years of corporate work experience and have been earning since then. I don't know my Father's income till this date. So yeah I'm never gonna tell anyone my income.
How much do you earn@@beasty007
Wow. Your father is a wise man :)
You should certainly be proud of such father.
ये तो income की बात है।
20 साल पहले जब मेरी बेटी 12th पास की, तो सड़क पर मुझे देख मुहल्ले के एक बाबू दौड़े दौड़े आए और " आपकी बेटी को कितने percent मार्क्स मिले "।
मै मुह लटका कर बोल दिया " फेल हो गयी" ।उनके चेहरे पर सन्तोष की रेखा देखने लायक थी।🤣🤣🤣😁😁
@@Nild_awar😂😂😂
1 padosi to mere ghar 3-3 baar aaya result poochne k liye....3 o baar main kamre ka lock laga lia & let parents deal with him.
Ye india may itni chulli machi hoti hai kuch logo ko....jab tak dusre ko dukhi Naa dekhe tab tak khud khush nhi reh skte
@@kumarabhishek8852 hmm
Mera cousin tou bc Har 4thy mahine me Mera salary ka updates lene gand utha k ajata he😅
Realy
so true.... I've seen people asking my salary directly and forcing me to tell them... initially I was little bit hesitant but then I learned to tell them directly that it's none of their business 😂
None of your business is the best response to such people 👍👌😃
@Chirag Naik no need give direct answer no
Always lie to such people
There is a proverb "NEVER ASK A WOMEN'S AGE AND A MAN'S SALARY" ! But no we have to know other people's salary and when you know the salary "Mera Kahan rakhoon" i completely agree with this content. I would say be BLUNT and say no I am not willing to disclose my salary!
Long back, my colleague (from TN working in Bangalore) during his engagement , his to be sister-in-law(elder) verified him, asked him salary slip and bank statement, he had to give to get married.
ID, I always share I work in BPO and make 15K-20K. once I made a mistake and shared my real salary with my ex-partner and she expected me to spend all the time.
Matlab ?????? Pura paisa kharcha karne bolni thi
@@umanggupta6561 lmao 😂
In me & my female friends case, we spend upon boys, few took money from us & went underground. We went to d house of one of d guy to ask for d money at night 1 o'clock coz in d day time he remain absconding & his sister used to support his brother but we didnt find him at night even, finally her sister returned d money after argument of several days, their neighbour came outside, all drama happened.
Whenever me & my friend used to go on date, we used to spend upon boys majority of times & boys do not offer even or do not try to stop us from paying, even in those cases where their salary was more than us.
Boys r not less, gone r those days ven only gals used to loot boys, we r d proofs dat boys have looted us & we ran after them for recovering our money taken in terms of loan.
@@nakulm964 😂😂😂😂
@@indubagga9589 why you want to have friendship with such people who give you tension?? What's achieved?? They are not friends. You people want to do useless hopeless purpose less time pass and then complain. Better focus on your productive work for financial independence. Very difficult time ahead for your generation.
I won't tell my relatives my real income, but I will tell true income to my close friends.
my friend work in private co., when he changed his co. , he called me and said you know how much is my salary here..?
and i said.. "No i don't want to know "
he was like.. why?
i said.. its your job, your salary.. i have nothing to do with it..
yes i killed his excitement 😂
How can you call each other "friends" and still pull this off😂
😅😅😅😅😅😅
Thank you sir.. Till now I didn't had the habit of saying NO. But from now, if anyone asks me for my CTC/package, I would say "I'm not comfortable in disclosing it". If the fellow doesn't understand or listen, I would say "Main nahi bataana chahta hoon. Tu khudh ka kaam dekh le"
If one is giving a loan to anybody he/she should have the mental frame of mind to write it off.Never give handloans beyond your write off capacity.
Never ,never offer guarentee to anyone.If offered you should have the capacity to pay it off in case of default
This man brings genuine perspective & dares to put it raw 👍
Sandeep Maheshwari - One of the biggest creators of India talked about your points about Middle Class in his recent video .
I think he also watches your videos sir 😂😂😁😁🫡🫡
Hnn inspired from sm
@@osamaobama1574 not inspired but felt unsecure....bcoz if this channel grows, all motivators will lose thier job. Including coaching waale.
सब एक दुसरे के वीडीओ देख कर ही सीखते है
Ek doosre ki dekhne ki ya nakal ki baat
Nai h bhai....infact jo baat is video me Bataai ham me se b koi in baato ko phli baar nai sun raha hai.
Even in the case of arrange marriage do not disclose your income related information, untill there is "baithak" which is gathering of elders. In "baithak" you can disclose ITR and other details. Specially to young bachelors, "do not marry a gold digger". Always try to find a generous and open minded family of spouse or reject the proposal for better one. Best arrange marriages are the one with families of good nature which even you are witnessing from long periods of time...eg. Friends within family circle, colleagues of father and mother, families of friends of brothers and sisters or someone who is in good terms with your most favorite uncles and aunts...etc.
If fortune favors you, always go for a love + arrange marriage. To make it happen "Expand your social and professional circles".
Not guaranteed though
@@rohanutep81 nothing is guaranteed brother, if you want to find constant love then love god, that god or stone will stay the same always.
There is nothing called love + arrange, either it is love or arrange
Then sslary is the primary criteria for marriage. Thats why more divorce happens, as people marry for money and not for the person. And then gender biased law loots hard working men
Marriage is biggest bet of life,so play with odds in favour....but still ur full salary should be known only to u...ur family will suck all ur money and u will never able to fulfill the greed of them... here family includes wife and children
I partially agree with this, but there is a negative downside of this trend also, especially in IT industry the payout for almost same jobs is vastly different and when you don't tell or know people salaries the companies take you for a ride, because you are living inside you cocoon and don't know what your work worth, you assume other is also getting the same low salary as you are.
1. So, discuss your salary among peers in private jobs and ask way to switch companies or skills you need to reach there.
2. Relatives and far friends do not tell, because they do not understand the money and its dynamics, they are not the close friends and relatives because they are not at same mental state as you are.
Don't be friends with people who come to you with investment schemes or judge you for what you earn, just shun them off, they are useless anyway.
And western culture does not restrict from stop telling salaries, but the corporate culture do, because if everyone knows everyone salary exploitation of a introvert employee is difficult.
It is a fine balance, there is no right and wrong answers, salary telling or knowing is good, if they also tell you what skill they need, or you have to reach to that level.
Sahi Analysis. Just discuss at right place.
Totally agree with this
I agree with this comment. Specifically in IT you could be heavily underpaid if you don't know how salaries are moving Specifically with new hires at same levels. It's good to have atleast rough idea about what company is paying for new hires at same level or what other companies could pay you vs whats your current. And this difference could be huge specially when you stay at 1 organization longer. But, it's also not good to ask someone directly or tell your salary directly.
Sir but CA ko to batana hi padta hai
Yes this is true. In our society if we tell low income people start to ignore u and if u say higher relatives start to ask money. Kya kare
Sir apki 3 video dekh kr hi super fan hogya hu..apki energy, humour and style...🙏🙏🙏
Always say "Bas Do Waqt ki Roti Mil Jaati Hai"
Pranam Amit ji 🙏
Thank you for taking the time out and imparting wisdom to humanity. May Shri Krishna quadruple the blessings and wisdom back to you 🙏💐
Sir ji Krishan ji kasha aa Gaye kahi to chamchi Marin Chhotu do Krishan ji apne liye hi maang lo na
Well said sirji. We should learn and inculcate this habit. I personally feel embarassed if someone ask me about my earnings even they are my close ones. And I easily used to end up answering them the amount. I have seen people judging our decisions later based on our earnings. But now I adopted a strategy, I reply them that "You should not ask anyone their age and wage". And this is helping 😊.
So true. I experience this very often. My age and salary is so important for others.
I never did. My close relatives are always curious about my salary. In fact, my own uncle and aunty and few other family members even did CID investigation just to know what I earn and to make an idea to what extend my father can be deprived of my grandfather's property. All these just by knowing my salary. The thing is since the beginning I have acted broke as well as rich. So people cant really understand what the heck I earn for my living.
Investigation vaali baat same hai😅@@abhinavdeepsinha3036
You are the uncle in family everyone needs
I'm govt employee, 4200 pay grade, When asked about the salary. I do the same. I don't tell people my inckme. But people insist, I only tell them that I hardly able to save 10k monthly, baki sare kharche and saving hain.
SSC CGL?
@@vikrant_bhise Delhi Metro Supervisor Junior Engineer
@@shrishri8898 means?
@@Dk-ix8bn not a single penny. I only wish ki kuch hota 😅
@@shrishri8898 sahi baat hai...ssc ko UPSC bana diya hai...
My mother in law is very much interested to know.. my sister in law used to fill my ITR since she is working with a CA.. both the ladies used to discuss my salary like what is my HRA why I am not able to save .. itna paisa kahan jata hai etc..I thought bohot ho gaya saw a YT video and filled my ITR myself .. fir to dono ki khoon jal gayi .. itna suspense jo create kar di Maine..
So right Sir. I told my mom my salary ever since she is behind my life to buy a car which I feel its a depreciable property..She doesnt understand what it means,
Bruh just tell her upfront you'll not buy it what's the big deal
@@_DashingAdi_ or buy it will make you and her proud that you bought for your parents with your hard earned money
@@rohanutep81 yea, the choice is so simple but these peeps are making such a big deal out of this.
I earn decent amount but my income is not secret anymore my family is joint family, whenever I don't find to spend money someone will say "bruh you earning this much, why won't you spend here, don't be so kanjoos, my fiance spends ultimately on her clothes because she knows I'm earning but nobody knows I have many plans to execute and amount is less to spend. I'm working so hard daily for my future but my cousin, fiance, friends , find it enough and they take their share from my income I'm stressed but now I have started to say no to people and I'm quite happy now.
It's great to hear that you have started saying no to people and that it has brought you some happiness. Setting boundaries and prioritizing your own goals and plans is essential for your personal growth and financial stability. It's important to communicate your intentions and explain to your family and loved ones that you have future plans and need to allocate your income accordingly. Remember, it's okay to take care of yourself and focus on your own future. Keep working hard towards your goals, and don't let others' expectations deter you.
Bro a genuine request: pls change your fiance,or else she will eat u in future
Say big Nooooooo
What a channel . I wish I could have earlier . It would change my life . Throughout life I was emotionally doing everything
Thanks Sir 🙏🏼 people like me who don't have father, the videos like these helps lot to avoiding falling into traps and manage financial life well...
same brother i also dont have
Sir aajkal ladki wale ek ek rupaiye ka hisaab check krte..Parents have become so money minded that sometimes it feels as if they are striking a deal..Expecting hell lot of things from groom' s side and apni side se kuch nahi karna..Tough to hide from girl and her family
True
So basically u want to live on dowary... don't call urself groom ,call urself what people r called to hav sexual partner in exchange of money.
True
@@PS-oy1el usne khaa kaha ki use dahez chahiye pr har insan apne barabari walo me hi shadi karta hai
@@ArbazKhan-re9zw bhai tu rahanae de.
Sir you're cent percent right. I stayed in Canada for more than 6 years no one except Govt. Dared to ask my monthly income. When I returned to India I found this habit of Indian people highly annoying and disgusting. As you addressed precisely these crooks assess our financial situation so as to exploit us at an appropriate moment. Indians are great exploiters!!
Not only income,the important part of the list also include,your family dynamics which is your love live and immediate family members,your plans and aims for your future
These three things one should never be disclosed to anyone even if you think they are closest to you,at times it may need to include your spouse and children for your safety.
Very very apt advice. It's not even ethical to ask anyone's income. And what sir has explained is really one must consider as well.
Your content is original, pertinent and very useful. I wish your guidance was available 25 years back, in my younger days.
I am sharing your content with my children now
You have made a very important point, sir, when you said that this bad habit is exhibited by us Indians. Obviously there will be exceptions, but as a whole that's very true: we Indians collectively suffer from this bad habit of prying into others' life and forcing/pressuring them to disclose their personal info and then judging them!
Instead of blindly trumpeting the superiority of one's own culture and values, I think it would be best if we take the good things from all cultures and leave the bad ones from all cultures.
I second that. As a civilization we need to evolve and be more civilized. We need to learn social etiquettes and manners, maybe it should be in the School curriculum.
@@jaishriiyer1563 Yes, and I believe a more effective way would be to believe in and have OBJECTIVE values (e.g. honesty, justice, human rights, privacy, right/wrong, facts) rather than SUBJECTIVE things (e.g. culture, tradition, religion, etc.).
@@shees1993 👍
I remember telling my income to my relatives when we were partying, next day as expected they called me for money 😂
Sir your Initiative to educate youth about these things by this easy way is really very appreciable. ❤
Sir आपकी बात मेरे दिल दिमाग में छप जाति है और इंप्लीमेंट करने से बहुत बडा बदलाव आ रहा है।thanks sir
Yep never share your salary, it is better to hide but so-called relatives can not mute without asking. I have shared my real salary with some people now I am worried I going to get my money and maybe used it for spending all the time. I am a saving cautious person in general. Does not like to spend that much, but as big sis does give allowance to younger bro, I did tell my mom not to tell anybody about our overall household income. As a child of a supportive single mother, we were far more successful than all of our relatives. Nobody should tell their income other than someone who is going to your nominatee
Sandeep Maheshwari Sir Video On Topic Middle Class Already Covered by Guruji
Jai Ho Gurudev 🙏🏼 ❤️
First Time I Feel Sandeep Sir Talking in a Way of Guruji.
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He literally copied everything and made it in such a way that it seems his topic only
@@yashpalchaudhary9752 he copies topics from Soch by mangal Dhruv Rathee
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Yes, all this really happens in society.
As far as I am concerned I never ask anybody's income and age.
Lol I liked how he started with basic topic and ended up touching on almost entire financial market! 🤓👍
Sahi baath hai uncle, lekin if a young person who is trying to decide on career as senior accountant same as you asks genuine question regarding what you earn uncle.. I am also interested in same career, tho usko kya bathayenge?
I'm 40 years old,My Parent did this thing, and relatives looted them,😢 mere man ki baat kah di aapne.....
Parents must be told of their childs earnings so they can monitor the unnecessary spending & guide the child into saving & investing, it's a fact there are prejudice & hate among friends and relatives..
Sometimes even parents shouldn't know, especially when child is smarter than them.
@@akhilsharma20 exactly i told about my father about my stock market F/O profits since then he couldn't keep his feet on ground i was pissed of from his behaviour then eventually i had to tell him i made a big loss & quited trading and now doing a corporate job 😞
Yes correct sir always tell income itni hi ki gujara ho raha hai bhagwaan ki daya se. If we tell the truth than they want money for their purpose. All this you told sirji is 100 percent correct. Ristedaar aur neighborhood b aise hi hote hai. Shadi ho rahi tho batana compulsory hai. But little bit lie bolna padega ya nhi batana hi acha hai. Your all vdos is practical and eye opener 👌👌👌👌🙏
This channel deserves millions of subscribers ❤
I am able to relate each and each words with my life. You are a genius and extremely wise person
Wow. Simply super. You have validated my point. You have put words to my thoughts !
Sir ......I was addressing this fact to my husband last 17 years
For that returns calculation, I use XIRR formula in the spreadsheet and that gives the exact return.
I am a working women from a finacially sound background my father being a retired class 1 officer who saves more than necessary ..my husband is from a humble background with no saving habbits..my FIL keeps asking in his trip about my salary so I feel so offended that my parents have never ever asked me this question..like if I tried to avoid the question he will say you work so hard your sal will at least be xxx figure n all
Found this gem today. Feeling blessed!!❤
My tau ji used to taunt my father about my job ke ladki ki shadi mat karna usko kamane bhej rakha hai. When I got married in different city and just then covid hit and I was jobless for 2 years he said kya fayda itna padha likha ke ghar me roti hi to bana rahi hai. Then I started working again and he called me early in the morning just to ask my salary😂
WTF 😂😂😂 bde dogle uncle hai
He's just jealous and can't see us doing something good in our lives. (Me n my siblings)
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Yes
@@neetudutt8533 Great yr keep making more jealous that will inspire to achieve more success
Absolutely amazing sir. Ghar chal raha hain and kaafi hain. Thats incredible. 👍☺️
Very true. This is very important psychological maturity to develop otherwise people to destroy your peace of mind.
Very true please do not disclose income to friends, family or spouse
Your each and every word is learning lessons for young people... 😊😊😊
Agree, i really don't like to discuss and disclose income to anyone
I love you uncle ji ❤ekdum papa jaise advice dete ho i'm 22 year old thank god jaldi mil gye aap ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you making this video.. a very bad habit ,which we indians have..sad that a person is judged on that basis.. This lesson i learnt were late in life. Hope todays youth gets this.
Thanks for this video sir. You are really a grandpa everyone need for unsolicited advise needed for life.
VERY WELL SAID & EXPLAINED!!!! Hum Desi logo ko BAHOOOTTT jaroorat hai iski... Sharma jee le ladke ke school mein numbers se le kar, IT company ke salary tak... POORI JINDAGI mein NUSS & JHANDDH karke rakhi hai hum Indians ne!!!!
One of the best advice Sir.. I have seen and experienced the consequences of revealing my income.
Praiseworthy analysis. It is very practical what you say.
I have been working for 2 years and have never disclosed my salary 😎😎😎
Good
so its not big thing, but kinda stupid to tell your salary to others 😅
Best UA-cam channel for modern day problems.
Best video I have seen, have experienced same after telling my package to surrounding people.
I earn in 6 digits/month but whenever my relatives, friends etc. Asks me how much i make i always tell them that i make 3-4 digits/month
😂😂 3 digit ?? 999/- ??
@@kashettyavp 😂😂 i know its funny cuz 3-4 digit hi kamata hu bolne par wo confused rehte dimag me amount lake cross question ni krte.
Well said sir and i am agree with all words you said but in my opinion sharing info with wife is ok when your partner is understandable and she always comes ahead to save your income
सर,आपकी बात से लगभग सभी सहमत होंगे और बात भी सच हैं जबकि कभी न कभी हर किसी ने यह किया ही होता हैं एक बार या कई बार।
परंतु सर 1 जगह यह सार्थक भी होता हैं जब किसी को वाकई ज़रूरत होती हैं की किसी क्षैत्र -विशेष में कोई जॉब कर रहा होता हैं तो, कैरियर या ग्रोथ के पर्सपेक्टिव से geniune सलाह की अपेक्षा रखता हैं।
Very good perspective!!!
Thanks a lot 🙏
I always fall in this situation... Do not want to tell anyone but relatives specially in laws side relatives keeps on asking the same question.
Say daal roti chal rahi hai😂🤣
What I think :
Never take so much stress in life ki kisike kuch bol dene pe tm soch mein padh jao and all. Just be normal, you have to worry only when you have to hide things. Just relax.
People ask your salary, say it.
They judge you on that, dont care.
Someone asks money, say no.
People will judge you regardless. Someone will say itna kamata h fir v bekar gadi mein ghum rha h. Someone will say itnaaa kamata h fir v koi ghamand nhi h, normal logo k jaisa rehta h.
So CHILL. And also don't let the corporate have their way.
Exactly... This was very insightful. I agree with you. That's why I never reveal my income.
Excellent thoughts..Spot On..👌👏
half way through the video and im alredy loving it🤣🤣
Well said sir...simple & to be point.
Hahaha! The way he is telling is really rear ! No one , even your friends, parents will give you this knowledge ❤. Thank you Sir !
Soooo true amitji... Gyaan ke gurujii
I like this.. raised in the US, I always cringed when my relatives and such in India would ask about my income. It used to not just make me uncomfortable but kinda pissed off. I’d often avoid or dodge that conversation but eventually it came to a point where some would keep hammering this sensitive subject, and I had no choice but to be blunt and started saying I don’t discuss my finances with anyone! Consequently, I was labeled arrogant lol! I love my fellow Indians but have never run in to a more greedy, hypocritical, judgmental, materialistic and egotistical race! Sad, but true .. imo!
USA is the most hypocrital country on earth in relation to Money. Every godamn thing is done only and only for money but still even talking about it is taboo for some reason.
The only sad reality is that you are a self hating racist, there is a difference between culture and race.
Well said brother.
Thanks sir, this is very useful!!
And you explained in very lucid manner.
And surprisingly hum youngster ko inn sab muddo pe koi batane wala nai hota, that's why we boast off.
You gotta new subscriber ❤
Great Words. We are still in mentally evolution.
Too apt message