How To Recover Money Lent To Friends Or Relatives ?
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Never lend money. End of discussion. Be ruthless in all walks of life. Don't lend to anyone and don't expect anyone to lend you money either. Be ruthless with others, be tough to yourself too.
Shikhar Dhawan spending lakhs for divorced wife
@@piyushkumarsahoo8771 bhaai wo chiz utna simple hota nhi h.. paisa nhi dega tou faas saak ta hh 😢
actual mein aap situation k create hone ki gehrai mein jaoge to apko ye pata lagega k berozgaari b iski wajah hai.
Jinke paas koi solid source of income ni hota wo aise logo ko uljhane wala kaam krte hain.
Isko aap aur jyada gehrai mein sochoge to iska kaaran kahin na kahin us bachhe k mata pita b hain...
Atleast agar parents ki financial condition itni b theek nahin ha k wo apne bachhe ka unemployment period mein accomodate kr sake to paida ku karte hain. Uski jarurato ko khud tak seemit rakhein , wo social circle se ku udhaar maang hi ku rha hai.
Is sansaar mein aise bahut se log hain jinko ye hi nahin pata unka right kispe bantaa hai , survival k liye udhaar ya to bank se lena chahiye ya fir usse jo apko is sansaar mein laya hai paida krne wala.
Main to kehta hu ki jab tk ek family ki net worth 5 crore ni hoti minimum tab tk unko apni generation aage ni badaani chahiye kuki wo fir aise gand machaati hai.
Sirf udhaar le k na dene wali hi baat ni hai , aise log jo b paisa kamaate hain wo aatma dukha k kamaate hain.
Log kehte hain k corona mein humara business thapp hogaya hume karza lena pada.
Yr sochne wali baat hai jin logo k paas itna hi emergency reserve ni hai k kam se kam 10-15 saal roti b kha paayein bure waqt mein wo log is dunia aaye hi ku hain inko laane wala bewkoof tha kya..
Acharya parshant sahi bolta hai tumhe pata to hona chahiye tumara consciousness level itna to hona chahiye k tum bachhe ku paida krna chah rhe ho.
Insaan ko apna consciousness level upar uthaana hi spirituality hai.
You can't live like that. You are a social being.
I'm not saying you lend money to anyone out there, but listen it's not only your parents or relatives that will help you or are a part of your family.
You have to learn to give and take.
Exactly being ruthless is better, never lend money to anyone 90% chances it doesn't come back. Its my My Experience.
My father taught me one thing when i started working n earning....give the amount of money to your friends that you are ready to forgo if it doesnot come back...i followed it ...even in COVID...gave me peace of mind
this is true.. money given to people never come back. people come to u crying plz give some money but they never return in their happy days.
Same here..
tell your father "thank you " from me.This is big lesson
This is true and I learnt that on my own.
I also follow this strategy.❤
being blunt about this issue with my friends and relatives is providing me a very peaceful life
Borrowing money is a disease. Never lend people money. It gives them amnesia. You will never see your money again. Thank you, guruji 🙏
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A peon in my office asked me to lend him 3000 rs saying he needed to buy uniform for his daughter and he will return on salary. I gave him without a thought thinking he is a poor guy with very less salary so he might be in need. Next month on salary he said his wife is ill so he spent money in hospital. After that month when I asked him he said his brother met with an accident. He kept making excuses for every month. After a while I came to know he is a drunkard and spends all his salary in drinking and even has borrowed money from everyone in office and has not returned to anyone. Then I stopped asking him kyuki mujhe maangte maangte sharam a gai but us besharam ko nahi. I have now forgotten that money, maybe when that guy is actually in hospital due to so much drinking Nobody would even lend to him.
In my office too a chaprasi asked me for 2000 as his daughter was sick. Turns out he ask money for all new people who joins the office. He never returned money to anybody.
actual mein aap situation k create hone ki gehrai mein jaoge to apko ye pata lagega k berozgaari b iski wajah hai.
Jinke paas koi solid source of income ni hota wo aise logo ko uljhane wala kaam krte hain.
Isko aap aur jyada gehrai mein sochoge to iska kaaran kahin na kahin us bachhe k mata pita b hain...
Atleast agar parents ki financial condition itni b theek nahin ha k wo apne bachhe ka unemployment period mein accomodate kr sake to paida ku karte hain. Uski jarurato ko khud tak seemit rakhein , wo social circle se ku udhaar maang hi ku rha hai.
Is sansaar mein aise bahut se log hain jinko ye hi nahin pata unka right kispe bantaa hai , survival k liye udhaar ya to bank se lena chahiye ya fir usse jo apko is sansaar mein laya hai paida krne wala.
Main to kehta hu ki jab tk ek family ki net worth 5 crore ni hoti minimum tab tk unko apni generation aage ni badaani chahiye kuki wo fir aise gand machaati hai.
Sirf udhaar le k na dene wali hi baat ni hai , aise log jo b paisa kamaate hain wo aatma dukha k kamaate hain.
Log kehte hain k corona mein humara business thapp hogaya hume karza lena pada.
Yr sochne wali baat hai jin logo k paas itna hi emergency reserve ni hai k kam se kam 10-15 saal roti b kha paayein bure waqt mein wo log is dunia aaye hi ku hain inko laane wala bewkoof tha kya..
Acharya parshant sahi bolta hai tumhe pata to hona chahiye tumara consciousness level itna to hona chahiye k tum bachhe ku paida krna chah rhe ho.
Insaan ko apna consciousness level upar uthaana hi spirituality hai.
I suggest people to only opt for marriage only when ur net worth is ₹ 5 crore + but these chapraasi peon type people do not have sufficient saved money for their own survival and start begging for their kids which are reproduced from their own decision
Same story with me. Peon fucked me but taught me a lot
Salute this man for taking out such rare but relevant topics.
So true
काश, हमारे बड़े बुजुर्ग आप जैसे होते, हमारा जीवन आसान हो गया होता
Lending money is equal to lending your freedom you earned for yourself and for your family be it in any form of expense a vacation, higher education for kids, medical treatment or standard of living. So next time you are lending, think of your family first.
Exactly.
विश्वास के बाद विश्वास घात ही होता है । बहुत ही अच्छा समझाया है सरआपने
Shamelessly selfish is the most appropriate words to describe these kind of people !
My husband has given 25 lakh to his friend 7 yrs back.. still not got it back.. he is not ready to ask it back as he thinks it may harm their relationship 😢
Maaf karna bada bewakoof admi. Hai apka husband
@@strugglestruggle2087aur mai socha maine 10-20 hajar de ke bht badi galti kr di hai jeevan me😅
सत्य वचन श्रीमान । 😮
@@strugglestruggle2087 what to do sir !! Daily we will have fights for the same reason
I have been through this several times. 😢
"Jinka social circle and emotional support" shit I never observed this 😬Pranam Guruji 🙏
चक्षु खोल दिए गुरुजी ने।😊
Kuch pepe udhaar milege
I do agree with you never give any money to friends and relatives because they know it's free money .The best thing is always find a way to refuse lending even if they come and start crying with excuses.
Rightly said
Most ppl have large social circle always partying and take loans from friends
Main udhar lene aur dene dono Mein hi bharosa ni rakhta... Jo maange jab maange NO bolta hu main.. Aur khud mangta bhi ni kisi se
Good job
Jab aasman upar se toot kar girta hai na sar par ..aise ghamand aur vishwas toot kar girne me do minute lgte hai ..
@@ManjeetSingh-xk7vk author is not taking about genuine exigencies. There are a lot many people who are habituated to take loans. Such people are to be shunned
This is absolute truth. I lost money in my college days lending to friends in need from my hard earned savings of remittance received from home ..... they conveniently used to forget and never returned.....cardinal principle is to say 'no', the very first time.
I once lended money to one of my friend 10k..and he was ignoring me after 1 month and gone somewhere...and when i met him i took his phone kept then i said to his family about this...and then he and his family said that we will give money plz give back the phone ..then i gave back the phones...and withing 15 days he returned all the money 😅
Chota amount ho to kara bhi ja sakta hai aise. Bada amaount ho to kya uthaya jaye ghar se?
People who have given money and later realized it will never come back, please consider it a cost of learning and forget about it. Otherwise, you will be stressed your whole life. Time and life energy wasted in worrying use it somewhere else. Silently end relation with that person and never ever give money to anyone. If you still give some small amount to someone, then just consider it as donation without expecting it back.
This is the most sensible advice. It's not worth wasting your life worrying about what is gone. Consider it a cost of gaining experience. You will gain much more and get more peace of mind
silently ending relation with friends is easy, but when it comes to close relative, it becomes complicated.
Han jaise mere papa fasey hue hain apne bhaiyon ko paisa deke
This is indeed the best advice , thank you . Very practical,very sensible
Very much true... shamelessly selfish....if you give money to friend or relative ; if you ask your money back , you loose both money and the person.
Sir aapna paisa wasoolne mein aapni he jaan ko khatra ho jata hai.
I lost my best friend due to loan. Now I neither have friends nor I give loan to anyone.
Learning from his old video:
If you still value your mental well being, write off the loan and let your friend know. That way, at least you get to start from zero. You are anyways not getting back your money.
Never give money to friend or u will lose ur friendship and also relatives.
My father used to give money to relatives who are not so financially well off. He never got the mo ey despite heated arguments and fights. My father got himself stressed with no result.
When I got a job and close relatives got to know that I am well off, they asked him money so that they can harass me and take revenge of my being well off. I made it clear right in the begining that as a matter of principle innevet lend money.nor will inever ask u. I am sorry.
U will be surprised, when theybgot to know my nature, they'll distanced away from me knowing fully well that they cannot extract anything from me.
Similarly they used keep taunting my dyslexic sister. When I got a chance I criticized them so much and made them fee so low that they lost their self esteem. Now many will say this is not necessary. But remember in today's big bad world u have to do tit for tat. In any case when there is need hardly any one will come to ur rescue. U have to fight ur own balltle.
Rather be good with ur neighbour's and fww good friends who will be immediately be available and may provide u the assistance as a matter of reciprication. Similarly be a proactive member of organisation like RSS members are available in acse of anybeventuality without expecting anything in retturn. Though Guruji has low opinion of thisborganisation. But mind u though the RSS members may be less in no. They are known for doing eelf less service and some of them even give their entire life for serving the needy. In hour of crisis they will stand for u.There may be many such organisation's. Or even office colleagues whom ubget along well will be more helpful.
He was not your friend. If he was, he would have given the money back.
90% of the people think they have true friends. Actually, those friends are there for their own convience. Only a handful of people are blessed to have true friendships.
Give only that much amount which you are comfortable forgetting about.
Diya hua Paisa kabhi wapis nahi aata
I've created a small notebook & named it as "Life lessons" and there I've noted down so many life hacks like your mental models; timeless property; clarityon commercial properties; etc etc & notes on these types of amazing videos.
Seriously sometimes I feel like instead of being a youtube follower of yours, I feel like I'm a part of some illuminati group jaha majority members secretly aapke life hacks adopt karke ignite ho rahe hain 😅😅
Like aap bol dete ho last mai ki share this video but I've never shared your any video to anyone cuz I don't want these precious "life hacks" come so common. 😄
Hello sir, please share your notes, i will be really grateful. 🙏
Sir your content relates 100% with reality. It gives very hard hit to things happening in reality.
Guruji Aisa vdo mai pichle char sal dlsw dhundh raha th kahi se aap jaisi clarity nahi mili 😊
3 lac and 1.5 lac to two different people
Not giving
Ek aur rule jo mai follow karta hu
Jitna amount manga hai uska adha hi do
Lakhs to bhul jao, lakh ke andar andar rakho
Ki gaya bhi to kam jayega
Wonderful Advice... चाला पाड़ दिया सर ❤
Really it is highly valuable and appreciable guidance.
This man snatched my mouth words.. Well done for opening eyes.. A cheated individual wont trust anybody in future..
True Guruji,
it happening everyday with me any new friend or friend of friend or any job related person i meet 1st thing i step back inside my mind to meet them with open talk. Because it becoming very difficulty to believe
Bade acche Dost palat gaye sir paiso ki wajah se
Mein to paise aane ki umeed hi chod di .
Paise se relation rakhna hi bekar hai..
Best part abt ur videos, superbly Practical and superbly org content
जबरदस्त .......❤
ground level सच है.......
बहुत ही सच्ची बात और समाज की हकीकत बताने वाली है।👌👌
Sirji much needed and dhamakedaar topic🤩🤩
God bless you Guruji
I had similar experiences and I have literally thrown such greddy and manupulative people out of life and I have achived peace I can claim with confidence
Sir gyan sahi dete ho aap with prespective. Pata nahi aapne itne kahan se paya hai.
Well not giving money is advise anyone can give. But this insight about the kind of people who have large circle should not be lent was deep.
So true. Yeh log apse pyar se baat karte hain but they do not have any value of you.
all your videos are very practical and i never seen such topics...thank you sir
You're doing an excellent job for the youth. Please continue doing this.
very true...as a helping hand i gave 2L to my freind 8yrs back for a site purchase. till now he did not payback a single rupee. now i myself do not have a proper house to stay. no hope
I have lent Rs 2 lacs money to one of my relative for his daughter marriage. I feel happy that god has given me so much that I can help someone in such time. I don’t bother if I loose 1-2% of my earning, that is Ok if it helps someone in bad times. This video actually damages persons moral values . My view is if someone in urgent need for medical reasons or let’s say daughter or sister marriage , then you must be happy to help. The money will come back if your deeds and intentions are good .
This is the growth mindset.. More powers to you..
Great Video. Thank you for posting.
Relatives never give back money especially from mothers side of family
true
Father’s sides give back because of mother 😂😂
Sahi hai
101% true
true.
Such a fantastic way of discussing an important issue!
Thank you so much for your advice and guidance 🙏
Kaysth ho ??
Such relatable topic.Brilliant.
आपने बहुत गंभीर विषय छेड़ दिया। ऐसे भी लोग है जो पुराने पैसे नही देते और नए फिर मांगने आ जाते हैं।
बहुत ही सही विश्लेषण.
So True Sir... Learned this lesson a bit late in life...
Much needed topic
Muje it is topic ka solution pta tha. M yhi apply karke paise nikale h
the only person in the world talking about topics related to ground realities.
We are scamed or fooled by someone we are close to or when we discuss are fears n finances never ever put all your cards in front of them
Aapki motivation videos bahut acchi lagti hai sir ..love you sir.. your way keep it up
Very Good Analysis Sir..👌👌
Every word I can relate to myself.. same phase going on my life now. My friends and relatives borrowed from me. Most of the money now is irrecoverable..😥
Relative ka toh pata nahee, agar friend ne le rakha hai toh uska koi cheej ya saaman jo utne hee value ki hai usse maang lo aise kahkar ki dikhana jara. Aur fir jab paise de kahna ki tab le jaana.
V Good topic aisa lagta hai sab problem payment Dene ke samay hi aati hai
Sir kafi practical knowledge diya apne 🙏🏽🙏🏽
A small advice to people who cannot say NO to a person who asks for money. Give them 10 percent of money he asked for and say. i only have this from my savings. This balances your friendship and positive from both side and Most importantly do not expect money back. Thank you
Shamelessly selfish 👍 true
Excellent video
One of the most relevant topic and very good video Sangwan Sahab
Live for money love money and money will be with you forever
Very Nice video What you express is 100% truth In my heart i felt i am fooled
Sir exactly yahi same cheez mere saath hui hai ..
Its really truth and practical thing.
Thank you so much.
Exactly hota hai not (eggxactly)
Maine apne 1st cousin ko udhar diya tha 2 saal tk kuch nhi bola. jb manga to bhane bnaye usne. bdi besharmi dikha k baar baar manga to diya. now the funny part, 1 mhine k baad msg krta hai ki maine theek treeke se nhi manga to ye gangdagi se baat mai uske sath dobara na kru warna acha nhi hoga, i was shocked, i called him and uski gaali galoch shuru hogyi, tbse maine hath jod liye kisi ko udhar dene k liye. but abhi bhi 50k fnse hain logo k pas or mangne me ab drr lgta hai.
thanks for your advice and guidance. pranam
I have given 500 rupees, one year ago, not given till.
अभी क्या काम करता है वह मात्र ५०० ₹ का देनदार श्रीमान ? 😮
😂😂
You are lucky. You only lost 500.
Saste mein seekh gaye lesson
😂😂
Lend only what you can lose like 10k- 20k. Dont ask for return your money once you lend it. Consider it as Gift given to friend or relative. They wont come back Second time anyway.
My father had a simple rule to never lend money. End of discussion.
This is what my Parents say .. and it's so True, not only for Lending but also including High risk investigatings.
That's what my Parents told me and my mom keepa telling me.
And the same rule applies for investments also., invest what you can lose of market crashes, it will keep you mentally prepared.
ये वाला सबसे मस्त है ,भाई मजा आ गया माकसम
sir bohot sahi point uthaya aapne, mere pitaji ne diye the paise, covid me chale gaye, to logo ne fone uthana band kar diya, koi paise nahi de raha,
sirf transaction he statement me saboot, aur jis khate me paise liye wo khata bhi band kar diya, ab nahi de raha paise, vakeel ne bhi sapne dikhaye nikalwa dunga aur paise kheech liye case nhi kiya, in logo ka kya ilaaj he,
paise to pitaji ne diye the maine nahi, mere chacha ke dost ko diye the, ab chacha kehta he mujhe nahi pata, aur uska dost gayab..
Love you गुरुजी.
प्रणाम
The master topic
Hi, Guruji most of boys and girls like facing issue with homesickness after returnung from the home after Diwali. please make a video to clarify and inspire for a young generation.
This is a Nice video you have made, Amit Sangwan ji.. liked it
Bilkul shi kaha aapne ekdm shi kahe aap
Maja aa gaya..... Udhari maangne walon ki puri poll khil di is video ne ek ek barikiyin ki bataya....
Sirjee, aapka content is top class. These topics are so relevant and useful but people dont touch base in this
Mera 10 Lakh atka tha....1.5 saal baad wapas aaye....yeah 1.5 saal raato ki neend haram thi....
Bhai bohot kamate ho lagta hai
You are very right on all points.
First time on this very practical topic.
Apka pura video dekha excellent knowledge diya apnay sir.
Never disclose you income in front of you friend or relatives
Mere dost ne, khair ab ko usko dost bilkul nahi maanta, usne mere se 12 lakh udhaar liye.. aur usne vaada kia tha ek mahine me lauta dunga lekin usne paise waapas nahi diye.. aaj paach saal ho gaye, paise waapas nahi kiye... Bahot ganda drama kia jab paise lautane ki baat aayi tab.. apne gharwalo ko jhuthi kahani emotional card khel ke mujhe hi bura sunaya uske bade bhai ne.. tabse maine haath baandh li.. kisi ko bhi udhaar dena nahi...
Bhai case kyu nhi kiya ? Uspar
Namaste sir 🙏
Perfect video ❤
Truly correct.
Well explained...
Thank you
Very good life lesson
Guru Ji Thanks
Great knowledge
Duniya shamelessly selffish hain .. True sir.
Gave my last parents insurance money to my mama😂 m 26 m so scammed😢 no parents no relatives!
Had a couple of bad experiences in the past. Some of which is yet to come back fully…
So now the answer is a straight out.. “ No, Sorry.., No money.. “
Only the amount I can forego. As charity.
U r 100% right sir
i had a similar experience with one my friend (enemy) , at the 4th day of the tuition the guy suddenly becomes my very good friend , more good than my best friend , i thought maybe he found something in common , he also started enjoying the same song i listen , after 3 weeks he told me to transfer Rs. 200 to one of his friend because its urgent and he told me that he will give it back next day at the tuition , i never got my money back , i don't have any problem cuz i got a great learning in my life for 200 , good deal i guess
Excellent advice 👍👍👍👍
Thank You
Maine ek novel me parha tha ki kuch log udhari ya karj lene ko apni income samajhte hai 😅
Oh! My
I lent money to family friend. After 6 years, I promised to get his son married in UK family if he returns money. He was greedy, he returned money in 10 days.
😂😂😂 well done...you can take more money and then don't return. Phir pata chalega kaisa feel hota hai