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КОМЕНТАРІ • 231

  • @Kathleenthefernwayflipper
    @Kathleenthefernwayflipper 2 місяці тому +66

    Ok. Let’s make an agreement. We who have the adhd superpowers will never let anyone put us down or at least not take it to heart. We have so many strengths others can only dream of. Yes, we learn as we go. We put processes into place as we learn. I wish people could understand how much energy it takes for us to just do “normal” tasks. Anyway, people need to remember not to criticize until they walk a mile in someone else’s shoes. Keep up the good work and we appreciate the honesty and transparency. We are all human.

    • @amylynnknotts9546
      @amylynnknotts9546 2 місяці тому +2

      Im right there with you!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @juliettewannet6594
      @juliettewannet6594 2 місяці тому +2

      👍🏻

    • @onemanstrash8233
      @onemanstrash8233 2 місяці тому +2

      Yep.. me too! Diagnosed in my 40’s. 62 now. I am
      Opposite of Dave. I put so many stop gaps in place to make up for my forgetfulness. I still enjoy watching him and the family. I do growl at him at times! LOL😂 we love him… mistakes and all!

    • @joshuaonevnine
      @joshuaonevnine 2 місяці тому +5

      Exactly he is a great person he has a great dad great wife he provides for his family. What his only crime is he decides to be honest with his viewers and shares how it is to be a real reseller and not covered up and be a fake about it. Everyone makes mistakes. Not everyone is willing to admit to mistakes. I mean really id rather listen to him and the honest and everyday way of resaling then pumped fake expectations. . Way to go Dave keep up the good work. You and Tina are a wonderful family and deserve the best of everything you guys work hard for your great life. ❤❤❤🥰🥰👍👍🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂Please please please ignore these negative Nelly's that are just jealous and wanna try and bring ya down to there level. Your son is amazing at such a young age learning to edit your videos and being such a help. And your daughters have such sweet awesome personalities. Oh almost forgot. Mama picker is the best so wish my Mom would have been able physically go out picking with me like your mom does. Cherish those time as Im sure you all do. Good work Dave you are an inspiration that you don't let you faults decide that your not good enough but you arise above it and Do awesome at it. 😊😊😊😊sorry this iis so long of a comment

    • @esmelovesvintage
      @esmelovesvintage 2 місяці тому +2

      I’m on the bandwagon though never been diagnosed, I know I have the impulsivity and attention deficit 🥳

  • @RetrObscurity
    @RetrObscurity 2 місяці тому +25

    Whether viewers learn from your success or mistakes, you have one of the most honest reseller channels on UA-cam. That's something to be proud of.

    • @sandikucia1398
      @sandikucia1398 2 місяці тому

      I agree he is, and the few other guys that have a pod cast with him are also honest. I wish them all great success

    • @maureenfitzgerald1895
      @maureenfitzgerald1895 2 місяці тому

      Your last post about shipping errors made ME feel less alone. Previously an eBay top rated seller with my small store (1,000ish), eBay downgraded me after I had to cancel a couple of orders beginning of March. They took away my ability to do promoted listings. My niche vintage needs that. So sales tanked; I posted diligently. eBay phone guy said you’ll get rights restored in May. Short story long: I crisscrossed 2 eBay orders in May. Refunded each one, paid them to ship the items back, and then shipped the correct item on my own dime. eBay…..said my cancellation whatever rate was now too high (must be under 2%; mine 2.16%. I am BELOW STANDARD, suspended from listing ANYTHING. Any listing that expires in 30 days is not autorelisted, just unsold. Now I’m looking at maybe 450 listings going down every day, with no end to the misery till at least July 20.
      So….i don’t know how I should’ve done that criss cross differently, but my sales are not enough to even buy inventory. 😢 Your story made me feel better. We are just humans!

  • @pocketsandstitches4436
    @pocketsandstitches4436 2 місяці тому +27

    Dave, I watch because you are honest and such a happy person. People that attack you truly need to find other things to do. If they want to think it, feel free. But no one has the right to try to steal your joy. You are an amazing dad and friend. It is a joy to watch your interactions.

  • @onemanstrash8233
    @onemanstrash8233 2 місяці тому +12

    Dave, I so admire how you prioritize your kids. Trust me.. I lost my son Feb of 2022 to a massive heart attack. He was 42. Spend every single moment you can with your kids for as long as they will let you because you just never know. You seem to be such good parents! Both of you! You are doing the right thing!

  • @mrs.frugaltrashtocash1938
    @mrs.frugaltrashtocash1938 2 місяці тому +18

    As the wife of a husband that sometimes has an unruly beard. The only person whose opinion matters in regards to your beard is Tina’s 😂 If she’s good with it then that’s all that matters!

  • @CeilQuinn-hc1cr
    @CeilQuinn-hc1cr 2 місяці тому +19

    Dave what you just about spending time with Callie,,is just one of the reasons I ❤your channel 🥰

  • @COPSTATNYAR
    @COPSTATNYAR 2 місяці тому +9

    Dave you are the man. My day would be so off if it wasn't for your antics. No one's is perfect. And if they think they are. They full of it.

  • @Ir-of4zn
    @Ir-of4zn 2 місяці тому +8

    Dave you are doing a good job reselling. Do NOT listen to your critics.

  • @desi_vintage
    @desi_vintage 2 місяці тому +10

    Hi Dave, I'm a newer sub of a few months, and I gotta say I love your honesty. You share things others won't. I appreciate that! Plus, you're funny, super personable, and a great family man. You're doing great! Stay true to who you are, ignore the hate! ☺️

  • @sandikucia1398
    @sandikucia1398 2 місяці тому +4

    You do a great job and have a great eye for finding some really wonderful items. We can always make improvements on ourselves. Your young Dave & you are only getting better. From what I see you are a great father and really, your family is a priority. Other things in the business will come together. I think you have it right. Best of all good things in life.

  • @judithr.4847
    @judithr.4847 2 місяці тому +5

    I find your videos FUNNY and REAL! I just subscribed after watching your late ship/follow up where people gave you crap. I LOVE you don’t edit out bad.(your daughter saying her arm hurt)
    Don’t change plz, great as you are! Thanks for all you share!😊

  • @deirdrewhite363
    @deirdrewhite363 2 місяці тому +2

    You go! As a fellow ADHD… and the CEO and owner of 2 companies I can share your experiences. Love to see someone else who is doing what they love no matter what. A mistake here or there won’t kill anything.

  • @mikemetco1966
    @mikemetco1966 2 місяці тому +3

    Dave, dont change a thing. You are fine just as you are. You aren't a bad reseller- as your title states- i know you are kidding about that- in fact i think you are a good reseller. Hard working, creative, and the best thing is you always have fun doing it. You dont take yourself too seriously. Thats more than i can say for a lot of other resellers. Even when you are doing 8 million things, you do it with a smile, and always a joke. Let the haters hate, they have nothing better to do. You are an inspiration to all the rest of us that really get you.
    Mike from NY

  • @kellyartrip554
    @kellyartrip554 2 місяці тому +3

    I feel bad for you Dave. You do the best you can in a day and mistakes happen. Give yourself a break and don't focus on people's comments. You are a real person and I enjoy that. I am a reseller and would never criticize another reseller. Peace and hugs! Kelly

  • @CapedGeekMarcel
    @CapedGeekMarcel 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm so confused why people that have never met you feel the right to berate you more that a boss can legally berate you. LOL! Sorry... just pictured my boss coming over and telling me why my job is important to my personal life, and how my wife should help more. So stupid. Hilariously stupid. lol.

  • @susanjoy3513
    @susanjoy3513 2 місяці тому +3

    When they are pointing a finger at you - they have 4 fingers pointing right back at themselves. You are just being real and most people appreciate that - it is not all wonderful with no mistakes. You are doing great!!!

  • @carriew172
    @carriew172 2 місяці тому +3

    Hey Dave, before I even watch the video,... thank you for the 10 dollars I signed up on mercari through you and Mercari also sent me a 10 coupon, so I bought something that costs 20 and it still cost me 12... but I'm happy. Listed some items on mercari and made my first sale today. ( Ebay is dead ) Thank you for showing me to not be so worried about everything and just go for it!

  • @tonya4689
    @tonya4689 2 місяці тому +3

    First off, I would never try to tell another parent how to raise their children. However, (if you haven't already) you might think about asking your kiddos if they would like to help you out there in the garage sometimes. You may find that they actually like it. That silverware sorting is a task that most children would enjoy doing (kinda like a matching game). You never know. Then you get to spend time with the kiddo(s) while working AND getting help. 3 birds, one stone. Just a thought.
    I honestly think you are the hardest working YT Reseller (out of the ones that I watch). You have several channels, you do your own sourcing, you're extremely actively involved in parenting, etc. Mistakes are always going to happen and you can put those mistakes front and center for viewers to learn from (and be entertained by) or hide them and be like all of the other YT'ers. Personally, I appreciate self deprecation in a world full of over inflated egos. Thank you for being you.

  • @dorkhead300
    @dorkhead300 2 місяці тому +8

    I have adhd and cross listing is impossible for me to keep up long term

  • @raydaddy6914
    @raydaddy6914 2 місяці тому +3

    As a fellow full-time reseller, I very much appreciate that you show both the good AND the not so good moments because it drives home the fact that reselling ain’t all rainbows and unicorns. Keep up the good fight and tell the haters to go 👉👌themselves.

  • @markrandy1000
    @markrandy1000 2 місяці тому +4

    Dave you are a real person not a fake reseller that others are. We are all human and make mistakes. You just show your F U s and that’s why you have the following you have chin up and keep up the great content
    Mark 🇦🇺👍 been watching from the beginning

  • @ThriftedSpirit
    @ThriftedSpirit 2 місяці тому +4

    I try not to read the comments of any youtuber I like, there are far too many negative and rude people.
    You quit your job so you could do more with your kids! Glad you are doing it.
    Cancel orders so far this year: I dropped an ertl and broke the wheel. Lost a pair of jeans found them 3 weeks later. And another I did the Kevin method and sent them a free sticker and refunded so I could keep my top rated thing, it was something that sold over a year before.

  • @resalewarrior7335
    @resalewarrior7335 2 місяці тому +3

    Haters are gonna hate, but they wont stop watching. Dont change a thing. I love your transparancy and hearing about the mistakes. I appreciate what you do!!!!

  • @cindybaxter4215
    @cindybaxter4215 2 місяці тому +2

    I like that you are genuine with who you are and how you run your business it’s not anyone else’s business. I’m sure they are perfect

  • @rebeccafredrickson9545
    @rebeccafredrickson9545 2 місяці тому +7

    Love your channel. Love your devotion to Callie. Sweet girl who is fun to watch.

  • @valeriesantos8178
    @valeriesantos8178 2 місяці тому +5

    OMGoodness… blowdrying a beard??? High maintenance. U r natural + fine just the way u r. Forget the superficial ppl + tell ‘em to watch a male model channel or just laugh at their helpful algorithm 😎

  • @JayR.Feltus
    @JayR.Feltus 2 місяці тому +2

    Suggestion for golf clubs. If you're buying sets once listed bundle together with cling wrap for storage. If you're buying mostly non sets then put all drivers in a bag/barrel/box and do the same for 3 woods, 5 woods, 2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 ,PW/A, SW, putters and utility woods each in a separated. Hopefully this may help you organize them better than all jumbled up on a shelf/barrel or however you store now

  • @emsamish
    @emsamish 2 місяці тому +5

    I once a month I can't find something I have to cancel the order. The best is when I send the wrong item. Realize it later then still get positive feedback. People buy so much nowadays they lose track of what they buy. Haha

  • @stonycreekpicker1385
    @stonycreekpicker1385 2 місяці тому +2

    Great vid Dave! Here's my spin on the criticism. When I first started watching reseller vids, I watched all of them. I've since whittled em down to just the honest ones (you, Kevin, Lonnie, etc.). I don't waste my time with sunshine and rainbows.

  • @heatherschaal5071
    @heatherschaal5071 2 місяці тому +10

    8:09: “obviously that’s gross”….not me over here trying to figure out what was “gross” and rewinding 3 times to figure out you were actually talking about “gross income”!! 🤦🏻‍♀️ oh my gracious! I’m such a dork!!
    Also, don’t let the haters comments take any of your brain space! A good friend of mine once told me, “other people’s opinions of you is NOT your business!” People all have opinions…take the constructive portions to help you become a better Dave, and throw the rest in the trash! I personally love watching EVERY bit of your videos…with your mom, kids, Tina and even dawn and Cary, even if you say all their names 1000x! You include everyone in all you do…that is rare these days! Too many people are out for their own good and are so exclusive. Don’t change how you treat your friends and family! I love how you even include and encourage your kids…another factor that’s missing these days! Be encouraged and know that your true supporters and watchers love your channels just as they are! 🥰 You and Tina just stand strong together and know that only your opinions matter between the two of you!
    I’ve learned so much from your channels! So thank you from this grateful watcher!! 💕

  • @Heathermayloose36
    @Heathermayloose36 2 місяці тому +1

    My boyfriend, Jerry and I just wanted to say we love how real and raw you are. We love to hear about your mistakes. You are the reason reselling didn't sound so overwhelming as before it seemed too scary for us to get into. We just dabble at this time. You also made me realize I have ADHD and I really like that you are so open about it. Anyone who has adhd knows that there is ALWAYS a possibility a task goes undone, but eventually a person does get around to finishing it. I went to comment today under this video, but remembered I needed to cook something and then remembered I wanted to clean some dolls and so an hour later I finally posted this comment 😊 We also still plan to send you a Canadian care package.

    • @ADHDaveFlips
      @ADHDaveFlips  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for your kind words and reaching out! I appreciate it! Keep at it!

  • @ArkyJunkDoctors
    @ArkyJunkDoctors 2 місяці тому +2

    You are my favorite reseller because you tell about the problems as well. We all have run into potential potholes and it helps to know what to avoid

  • @blacksheepbrad
    @blacksheepbrad 2 місяці тому +4

    I'll never get the merciless nature of online comments. lol Sure, you probably need some systems tweaks to help you out, but you're not the worst person on the planet. haha Love you Dave.

  • @amylynnknotts9546
    @amylynnknotts9546 2 місяці тому +3

    Honestly, i really appreciate how real you are!!! It has helped me so much with my selling on Ebay!! Please don't let people get you down. They as re probably very unhappy people who take joy in putting others down. You do you boo!! ❤

  • @debrahawley912
    @debrahawley912 2 місяці тому +3

    I like your mistakes and the way you make fun of yourself. Have a great day.

  • @cguido1275
    @cguido1275 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Dave! So glad to hear your issues with the Samsung phone. I have the S22 Ultra and it has been the worst phone I have ever used for ebay photos. The "smart AI" for photographs is absolutely horrible. It constantly moves out of focus even when completely still. I can only photograph at 3x magnification or closer because anything more zoomed out stays blurry. I absolutely hate this thing for ebay photos and I've done hours of internet searching to try to fix it and have come up with nothing. My old HTC phone from 10 years ago takes better photos. A total disappointment. If anyone has tips, please share!

  • @sherilyn865
    @sherilyn865 2 місяці тому +3

    I love your honesty! When I make mistakes I feel less alone when I watch your videos. :)

  • @bonniepiehler693
    @bonniepiehler693 2 місяці тому +5

    Hire someone to clean the house.

  • @denisebeals289
    @denisebeals289 2 місяці тому +1

    Just FYI it is not O-knee-da... it it O-Ny-da long I. And I said it before, I will say it again, I enjoy watching you because you are real. You show the good and the bad.

  • @rickinpicks
    @rickinpicks 2 місяці тому +2

    Dave you do you. Poshmark does send emails,so you might just want to check them at least every other day. With that being said you are doing great job and love your true side of the reselling business. The heck with all the perfect world haters.

  • @juanitagagne2707
    @juanitagagne2707 2 місяці тому +3

    My husband has ADHD. I understand your (and especially Tina's) dilemmas. My way with him is a whiteboard and a list. I list even the most minute details and try to help him prioritize. Somedays it works, somedays, not so much, haha. It's all about ME having patience and understanding and him not selling himself short. People who "reprimanded" you don't understand ADHD. People will ALWAYS be quick to judge instead of worrying about their own house.

  • @Ncthrifting
    @Ncthrifting 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Dave, just wanted to chime in a say you are a great father and husband! Also tip: on the UPS and Fed Ex collab (sure post and some other name) with USPS- if it has a USPS barcode you can drop it at the post office too. I didn’t realize this until a couple months ago when I asked my post office lady. So now it’s all one stop- unless of course it’s directly thru FedEx or UPS.

  • @godseyanita
    @godseyanita 2 місяці тому +6

    I love your videos Dave I love that you share so much. Keep doing u

  • @Jimmy_Flipping_Deals
    @Jimmy_Flipping_Deals 2 місяці тому +2

    When you're running six figures plus a year, mistakes happen everyday. Keep doing you man!

  • @angelakmoses
    @angelakmoses 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes, I’ve had to cancel several orders on eBay for various reasons. Honestly, it’s just part of the game of reselling. We all make mistakes and you just deal with it. I have started reaching out to the buyer asking them if they wanted to cancel or if they wanted another item in place of it when I couldn’t ship. It’s been a workaround for outright canceling, so it won’t always hurt my account.

  • @LgIdaho61
    @LgIdaho61 2 місяці тому +1

    There always has to be someone out there who thinks he knows more!!

  • @graceskronicz9068
    @graceskronicz9068 2 місяці тому +2

    I love your honesty and all your talking and your personality on a whole . Be who you are.❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊

  • @user-pn6sl1bk2s
    @user-pn6sl1bk2s 2 місяці тому +3

    Why do you care, what people think ? YOU DO NEED to clean for Tinas homecoming . . . LIKE NOW ! !

    • @albertsmith99
      @albertsmith99 2 місяці тому

      Because they are his audience.

  • @rollingwithstones
    @rollingwithstones 2 місяці тому

    I've been selling on eBay for over 25 years and I've been a full-time reseller for 3 years as of June 1st:
    1. I ship the wrong item about once a year.
    2. I cancel orders less than once a year
    3. I've never double sold an item
    4. I've broken less than 5 items in all the years I've been selling on eBay
    5. I've never shipped an item late. All orders are shipped in less than 24 hours
    You are correct. No one is perfect, but I also think you're not realizing the severity of your mistakes. Maybe your ADHD is so problematic that being a full-time reseller is not a good fit, especially when you have a young family depending on your success. Maybe you need a job that feels like a job because it keeps you on point. Maybe you need a boss to keep you on task. Did you have these same issues with your last job? Were you forgetting to make important phone calls or answer critical emails? Were you finishing tasks 3 weeks late?

  • @MelissaLamancusa
    @MelissaLamancusa 2 місяці тому +3

    you're doing great Dave! we appreciate you!

  • @archerthriftyfinds
    @archerthriftyfinds 2 місяці тому +2

    I watch for the good, bad and ugly lol. Free and relatable content. Continue being authentic, you know what ya gotta do.

    • @ADHDaveFlips
      @ADHDaveFlips  2 місяці тому +1

      Haha, thanks! I do appreciate it

  • @DaydreamAboutNiceThings
    @DaydreamAboutNiceThings 2 місяці тому +2

    Your best friends are the ones who are brutally honest with you 😊 Great channel…. I can relate. We even have the same beard issues because I just don’t care 😂

  • @karengrube8512
    @karengrube8512 2 місяці тому +1

    I sell primarily on Poshmark (I started there) I mainly work on my phone and yes it sends a congratulations sale notification. I love how real you are! In my opinion it takes an extraordinarily strong person to share the mistakes as well as the wins in reselling. Also, It makes you extremely likable. As always I look forward to your content.

  • @ronbrooks4754
    @ronbrooks4754 2 місяці тому +3

    Dave, you are aware vendoo doesn't reduce the quantity on crosslisted items. You have to edit the quantity yourself..

  • @user-tx7ji1pc2i
    @user-tx7ji1pc2i 2 місяці тому +1

    You were a reseller “ scratching post !” Meow!😂

  • @seasqrlzpix7436
    @seasqrlzpix7436 2 місяці тому +1

    Right~on Dave..!
    Being a good dad..! Something that I know nothing about!
    You are a "spinning dervish", which I enjoy watching!☺️👍🐿

  • @sherrillhorridge1809
    @sherrillhorridge1809 2 місяці тому +1

    people who expect everything to be perfect all the time are annoying. Its nice to see someone who can admit they made a mistake, rectify the mistake, and move on. you did what you could do to fix it. That is all you can do, and the complainers will find something else to complain about. Dont sweat it!! youve got this, dude!

  • @PeterDrewVoiceovers
    @PeterDrewVoiceovers 2 місяці тому +5

    Hey Dave. I was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 57. I'm not a doctor, but from my experience, here are a few thoughts. If you haven't been properly diagnosed by an experienced, knowledgeable doc, you might consider it. You could have ADHD, but it could be something else. If it is definitely ADHD, then there are non-amphetamine drugs you can take that help reduce ADHD symptoms. One of them, guanfacine, is a "two-fer," a blood pressure med that also treats ADHD. If you have high blood pressure, that might be a good choice to discuss with a doc. ADHD tends to get worse as we get older, so getting diagnosed and treated now could help you later on, too. Keep up the good work and keep having fun!

    • @barbaramelone1043
      @barbaramelone1043 2 місяці тому +1

      Dave has said in previous videos that he's known he has ADHD since he was a kid, and is also on a medication for said.

    • @madmax8620
      @madmax8620 2 місяці тому

      He behaves like someone on amphetamines and am wondering if he is medicated and why he can constantly function at this level... I am in my early 50s now, never meditated for ADHD, and now my 30 year retail collectibles store is spiraling out of control, where i hardly show up and its a hoarders looking disaster inside now... I want to resell online but cant function or focus enough to get going, and fear I will immediately fail with deadline responsibilities from distractions... i am very concerned what it will be like when im 60... im also 3 years behind in my taxes...so how can Dave do all this??!!?

    • @thedailygrind-m70
      @thedailygrind-m70 2 місяці тому

      @@madmax8620 I think it may be time to try out meds

    • @PeterDrewVoiceovers
      @PeterDrewVoiceovers 2 місяці тому

      Thanks for clarifying Dave's situation. Didn't know that. Glad he's doing what he can.

    • @PeterDrewVoiceovers
      @PeterDrewVoiceovers 2 місяці тому +1

      See a qualified doc. At least try one of the non-amphetamine meds. Also, ADHD psychologists can you with behavior modification to prevent distraction from wreaking havoc in your life. Good luck to you.

  • @MichianaSteve
    @MichianaSteve 2 місяці тому

    in the camera setting there is an option to record a quick clip with every photo. if its blurry just press the play button on the photo and usually the last frame is the clear shot and hit the screenshot button on the camera. i've never had to get the item to retake a photo.

  • @diankirkpatrick8162
    @diankirkpatrick8162 2 місяці тому +1

    Don't let the negative people get to you, I love watching you and some people just aren't happy unless they're putting someone else down. If they don't like you, why are they watching you?? I love your honesty, I'm fairly new to reselling and seeing someone else makes mistakes makes me realize I'm not the only one and mistakes are going to happen, it's how you deal with them that matters and you're doing a good job.

  • @wesellitandmore
    @wesellitandmore 2 місяці тому +1

    Great video, I'm just starting my UA-cam for my eBay and i agree. Let everyone know the mess-ups/mistakes that way if anyone is looking to start eBay or UA-cam they know what to look forward too. Great video keep it up!

  • @SandySummage
    @SandySummage 2 місяці тому

    Dave you are the real deal no judgement. Some sellers act like it’s Christmas Day every video. People need to hear the real deal . I’m a seller I just dealt with a nightmare. People or friends wanting you to list their crap.Keep being real Dave . That is why I started watching your videos.

  • @nancyrachar1985
    @nancyrachar1985 2 місяці тому +1

    Dave, ignore the comments, I am sure all these people who criticize are absolutely perfect in every way and they just want to go around the world helping others to become perfect too and that is so very kind of them (massive sarcasm here).... but, I just wish they would shut up and maybe see you are perfectly fine the way you are. Everyone makes mistakes, even the perfect people do, I like that you are fine with sharing your mistakes ... but, your strengths and wins at what you have taken on (and are rocking by the way) and sharing your skills, wins and losses is a blessing to anyone who takes the time to listen to you.

  • @exoduszusag8995
    @exoduszusag8995 2 місяці тому

    Thanks Dave for your honesty. I was diagnosed at age 57 with ADD. It's crazy how it all makes sense for me now. Just 50 years too late😂My Husband always told me he thought I had it. He was right.

  • @davidlarsen7695
    @davidlarsen7695 2 місяці тому +4

    We have very similar type if adhd, for those who don't know there are favors of adhd.
    I'm also a Dave, well David, well Davo.
    I believe my ideas are clever and insightful. I also fall in love with overhauling systems, hyperfocus on a category or subject, accept my failures at break neck speed and still have a positive attitude. I also can work from morning until evening and can't sit still unless I'm hyperfocused.
    What commenter's don't get, and won't read this far, is what an incredible work ethic you have.
    It is your superpower, to keep pushing forward.
    People stop worrying about him, it's so judgmental. He's putting himself out there. He will figure it out.
    Just like all of you do.
    If anything this place should be a place to say, thanks, and I also made silly mistakes, nice to know I'm not alone.
    Stop trying to fix Dave....it's not our job. Watch or don't watch. Share as equals or don't. ADHDave is not broken any more or less than anyone else.
    Keep on content producing!!!

  • @americanarbitrage
    @americanarbitrage 2 місяці тому +2

    One of the best parts of Dave’s videos…is guessing when he is farting while recording.

  • @lisarogers9488
    @lisarogers9488 2 місяці тому +2

    I do not yell you as I like to hear what you are doing and I love to hear about what is happening in Florida

  • @lisarogers9488
    @lisarogers9488 2 місяці тому +2

    I am disabled with autism so I know how disability it is

  • @valeriesantos8178
    @valeriesantos8178 2 місяці тому +3

    Arm-chair resellers❓😁

  • @lisarogers9488
    @lisarogers9488 2 місяці тому +2

    This is why I support Dave and his family
    Dave’s beard is tidy next to my partners

  • @nu2ucollections
    @nu2ucollections 2 місяці тому +1

    Id love to see you try a close cut beard

  • @jedidan8391
    @jedidan8391 2 місяці тому +2

    That's what you get for going Samsung over Google Pixel, lol. I use my Google Pixel for all my photos for eBay.

  • @planetmilkshake
    @planetmilkshake 2 місяці тому +2

    Watching from Australia Dave and I love your channels! Don't listen to the haters, I love your content and look forward to all your new videos. I discovered you a couple of months ago and have been watching all of your old videos too.

  • @keritremblay8043
    @keritremblay8043 2 місяці тому +3

    omg haters gonna hate! You're doing great! Find me someone who makes NO mistakes in life. I don't even sell, I just like your videos! I started watching your cooking videos and somehow found another world of videos to watch lol

  • @KevieG
    @KevieG 2 місяці тому

    I really appreciate your honesty! Love ❤️ from Texas

  • @jenaton5767
    @jenaton5767 2 місяці тому +1

    Dave….please share with me the names of UA-cam Channels Creator x5 …/ whatnot/ Homeschooling Dad of 3/ EBay/ Mercari/ Poshmark…plus several I other endeavors of yours I missed AND devoted father, son, husband and brother ….i would love to watch them! Ya you might have too many pans burning on high but that’s what makes you appointment UA-cam watching…the worst thing that will happen to you eBay will ding your account and it will cost you $$$, but then openly talking about it on UA-cam….cha Ching …viral video….hmmmmm who’s laughing all the way to the bank. You are not perfect, self admitted and that’s why you have legions of fans…you are just like us that screw up our business and are not perfect

  • @BargainResellShawn
    @BargainResellShawn 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for being real. If I did a video on all my mistakes in reselling, it would be a documentary

  • @PaulaJDW
    @PaulaJDW 2 місяці тому

    I love how you're honest. It let's me know I'm not alone. 😊

  • @trobarge
    @trobarge 2 місяці тому

    When I first started crosslisting it became a big problem. I am getting better at it now.

  • @user-xl6cb8fb3v
    @user-xl6cb8fb3v 2 місяці тому +1

    Dave honestly I have learned so much from you. I am new to reselling. I have made some of the same mistakes that you have. And I don't even have ADHD, I don't think lol. But just know people learn a lot from you and many other utube resellers. Keep up the good work. We ALL make plenty of mistakes. Love that you admit to them😂😂

  • @LeftLaneFinds
    @LeftLaneFinds 2 місяці тому +1

    Let he/she who has not made a mistake reselling throw the 1st insult.
    I make mistakes all the time. 😅😊

  • @rubazaar891
    @rubazaar891 2 місяці тому

    Cancelled 2 orders last year on EBAY, a Christmas stocking for $45 mouse chewed hole, and after the shipping change someone ordered a 8 dollar trinket box free shipping and would have cost me almost 10

  • @gemflipper
    @gemflipper 2 місяці тому

    Hi, I think the last time I had to cancel an order on eBay or anywhere because I didn't have the item was about 3 years ago. Just got to tighten up your processes. However i think cross-posting even with an app can lead to some of these issues. I've tried cross posting I just don't like it Plus I come from the computer software world and I just don't trust it to delist my items. I do sell a Poshmark and mercari but those items live there only and they have their own spot on my shelving system.

  • @photoguy8985
    @photoguy8985 2 місяці тому

    You recognize that you make mistakes - that is the first step. The question is what are you going to do about it? Making a mistake once is fine but if you repeat the same error you need to look at your process and try something new.

  • @CM0211
    @CM0211 2 місяці тому +1

    Why not use some painter's tape on your golf clubs and create a unique sku for them? I bought some Americana Heritage silverware and sold it in 2 days. Great sale.

  • @postcardguy
    @postcardguy 2 місяці тому

    Great Tuckers Island Lighthouse you sold.
    The island was off the coast of Long Beach Island in NJ. The ocean mysteriously swallowed up the entire island over time and it is no longer existent

  • @FlippinMatt
    @FlippinMatt 2 місяці тому

    I think I've only canceled 2 orders in the past 4 years of selling on eBay because I couldn't find the item. However, I was only selling on eBay.

  • @user-qi2kk4gy5o
    @user-qi2kk4gy5o 2 місяці тому

    I think your amazing and I like that your honest. Please don’t change a thing. People are just jealous that you have a great life. 😊

  • @bethsrn97
    @bethsrn97 2 місяці тому

    Dave, Thank you for sharing your mistakes. It lets everyone know that we're all human. I love your channel because you keep it real. Thank you. The people complaining just really have nothing better to do and it says more about them than you. Keep doing what you're doing.

  • @user-zg5sr2zh7j
    @user-zg5sr2zh7j 2 місяці тому

    I have not had to do a cancellation of a sale on ebay because I am very Paranoid!! However I have spent HOURS searching for a sold item that I could not find!! Many Times I have had that happen, I just got lucky and eventually found the item in time to ship it. So now I am very paranoid about placing my listed items where I can find them so it does not happen often anymore. I think all resellers go thru that. And for me 8 items sold in a week is a good week. I only have 150 items listed. I hope it picks up for you soon. Diane

  • @ExplorewithEast
    @ExplorewithEast 2 місяці тому

    I do not cancel eBay sales. Ever. I’d ship something and then give them a full refund explaining I was sorry for the inconvenience.

  • @losttreasures73
    @losttreasures73 2 місяці тому

    I for one am glad your an open book. Makes me feel better about me making mistakes. When you sell big volume mistakes happen. I sell on average 500 a month and things will happen

  • @monicacochran5200
    @monicacochran5200 2 місяці тому +2

    GREATLY enjoy your videos. Now SLIGHTLY negative teaching moment: Oneida is pronounced with silent "e" as ow·nai·duh. 😊

  • @TravisInDallas
    @TravisInDallas 2 місяці тому

    I've only had to cancel 1 order in 3 years because of an error in the listing. Have had 1 INAD for same reason. So 2, my bads in 3 years. I've only sold 1,500 items though.

  • @Trashcatrescue
    @Trashcatrescue 2 місяці тому

    I don’t understand why other people find the need to put others down when they’re already understanding that they did something wrong. Saying this as Someone who is medicated for ADHD and still suffers from many symptoms. I’m guessing that people just don’t understand how hard it actually is to have ADHD.

    • @madmax8620
      @madmax8620 2 місяці тому

      Do you think he has ADHD and is he treated for it??... because I dont medicate and I can barely function to do 1% of what he does, so is that how he has this ability??!

    • @Trashcatrescue
      @Trashcatrescue 2 місяці тому

      @@madmax8620 sorry that should have said *as someone who is medicated

    • @madmax8620
      @madmax8620 2 місяці тому

      @@Trashcatrescue ok..?...well it DID say that, so yet my question wasnt answered...?
      ,

  • @catorch2450
    @catorch2450 2 місяці тому

    Have you tried checklists? Maybe a whiteboard with boxes for every platform you need to check daily.

  • @joytoyouandme4593
    @joytoyouandme4593 2 місяці тому

    Having adhd requires putting processes in place. Which in turn will become habits. In a world where multi purposing is touted strength many of us need to get back to basics and focus on one thing at a time

  • @barbarapond1510
    @barbarapond1510 2 місяці тому +2

    I find it rude to complain about your personal appearance and your ADHD. I have adult children with it and it honestly makes me angry on your behalf. I think if people can't comment without being unkind and rude you should delete their comments. If they want to give ideas and constructive ways to help that's fine up to a point. You are not on UA-cam to be abused by those that are unhappy with their own life. This of course is just my opinion. 🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩

  • @karenslater343
    @karenslater343 2 місяці тому

    Dave just do you ,that’s why I’m here I have autism and I find your videos interesting as I’m on a reselling journey . It was gardening two years ago it might change again soon as I’m not good at it. I don’t make much money but I have a job to pay my bills so not a problem.

  • @collectmoe
    @collectmoe 2 місяці тому

    I’ve definitely had to cancel a few orders 😅😅😅.
    Thanks for your videos. Just started UA-cam as well. And I never noticed how many mistakes I’ve made until I started recording. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.