How To Recover Attraction After Over Pursuing & Acting Dopey

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  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery Місяць тому +90

    *By pulling back, prioritizing personal growth, and creating a sense of mystery, you can reset the tone and re-establish a healthy dynamic.*

    • @rahulkukar3929
      @rahulkukar3929 20 днів тому +1

      Thank you!! Coach is good and knows what he’s doing, but he really goes about things the long way, and doesn’t get to the point - too wishy-washy for me!!

  • @Slimc74
    @Slimc74 Місяць тому +25

    Every man should be honest with themselves about alcohol. No alcohol the way to go

  • @jroll5858
    @jroll5858 Місяць тому +11

    “I tried to be charming & mysterious”
    The key word here is “tried” & she sees through his BS.
    It sounds like she was trying to leave her BF & possibly even broken up & she wanted to go for this guy but he constantly talked & acted his way out of her attraction to the point that her BF was looking like the better choice

  • @ghostccc8089
    @ghostccc8089 Місяць тому +24

    Why in the FK do guys get stuck on women they aren’t exclusive with?? If she hasn’t brought up being exclusive, continue to prospect for other women. It really is that simple…. If the one you want wants to be exclusive, then go for it, but continue evaluating.

  • @zaurmedzhidov
    @zaurmedzhidov Місяць тому +83

    Dudes be like “i read the book 25 times”

    • @danieltrottier8599
      @danieltrottier8599 Місяць тому +6

      Dude needs to listen to the audio book in the car every day.

    • @andrebaxter4023
      @andrebaxter4023 Місяць тому +10

      He’s definitely lying if he went as far as to reach out to Corey for advice. He would have been able to self diagnose with the knowledge from the book.

    • @Giorg189
      @Giorg189 Місяць тому +3

      I was initially surprised how well the book works. I first read it online on pdf, then I purchased the physical copy. Bro knows what he says and writes. Videos are very useful as well.

    • @RKelsey7
      @RKelsey7 9 днів тому +1

      Some people are so clueless it doesn't matter. They'll gloss over the same thing 7 times and not get it. Or worse, think they get it then blame Corey for their misinterpreting it.

  • @cl1489
    @cl1489 Місяць тому +67

    Bro never ages

    • @JoeMNPT
      @JoeMNPT Місяць тому +14

      lol-he does. Go back and watch a video from 10 years ago. He sounds like he was 18 then.

    • @jeremiahplunk1609
      @jeremiahplunk1609 Місяць тому +5

      I’ve noticed! And I’ve followed him since early 2016

    • @csllover
      @csllover 13 днів тому

      It’s the green juice

  • @SLIME-qo1hf
    @SLIME-qo1hf Місяць тому +36

    All his behaviour made sense once he said “chai tea latte” 😂

    • @MuscleBandit
      @MuscleBandit Місяць тому +4

      haha yup....

    • @davidmckesey7119
      @davidmckesey7119 Місяць тому +3

      I am pretty masculine but I love a chai lol

    • @mhaas281
      @mhaas281 Місяць тому

      ​@@davidmckesey7119 me too and my morning latte

  • @ElearningDigest
    @ElearningDigest Місяць тому +23

    “I read the book 250,000 times. Is it okay for me to act like a simp?”

  • @oliver7011
    @oliver7011 Місяць тому +14

    Don't drink to go from 3% man to 1% man.
    Lose weight, keep your brain, don't self medicate.

  • @brianbondy5667
    @brianbondy5667 Місяць тому +3

    Coach Wayne, made my #1 spot on " spotify wrapped podcast".

  • @Tom-cp6yj
    @Tom-cp6yj Місяць тому +6

    There's no going back when the goose is cooked! I learned that firsthand..

    • @jroll5858
      @jroll5858 Місяць тому +2

      100% correct. He needs to learn from this & move on

  • @MichaelPressler970
    @MichaelPressler970 Місяць тому +3

    This is the video I needed today

  • @stephen3473
    @stephen3473 29 днів тому +1

    You are a fuckin badass dude. Still getting great numbers on UA-cam and giving great advice after all these years. Thank you for everything you do.

  • @cjvasquezp
    @cjvasquezp Місяць тому +3

    just for the title I knew it was going to be fun

  • @achpel2278
    @achpel2278 Місяць тому +11

    Cheers to you, coach, from another tea drinker!

  • @1977raider
    @1977raider Місяць тому +1

    I'm glad the election is over so now I can focus on me...Had to win that election & thank goodness of the winner 🏆 🙏

  • @777lucifero
    @777lucifero Місяць тому +1

    Very similar thing here, ongoing.
    1. got along really well, we both find each other very sexy. It started as casual, as we're both probably leaving soon for other locations. I got too attached, and she left after couple weeks. She said right out, go with whoever you want, we're not dating anymore.
    2. So I did, day after I was with another girl, and the first one knows about it. She got hurt by that, so I understood she actually still wanted to.
    3. A few weeks later (and another girl imbetween, but she knows only of 1), we chat again and we start dating again... there's clearly attraction on both sides, it's always chill and fun together too. Again, I let my guard down and show too much affection (we've been seeing each other almost every day). So about 10 days ago, she left me again. Mentioning, look, we chose each other cause we know we're leaving soon, but clearly you like this a bit too much (but i think she does too?).
    4. 3 days ago, after a week of no contact from both sides, I send her a pic of the tatt i just got (she had asked, send me that when you actually get it, been talking about it for long). Doesn't seem she wants to date anymore, but she came right away to help with putting cream on it (hard to reach on my own) for the past 3 days. Also, tomorrow going shopping together in the morning, i need to look for a gift for a birthday.
    Now I'm just a bit confused, she's distant and just ''friendly'', I'm just playing it cool and not pushing or trying anything. Also in a week I'm going down to another city, then I won't be back for a long time (probably a month and half at least), and then i'll be back out for long again not long after that. She also might leave for the u.s. (we're in italy now), so it's an improbable story to continue. But can't really help it, like her more than any other.

    • @777lucifero
      @777lucifero Місяць тому

      update: after the shopping in the morning, we went for lunch at my place and had wonderful sex.

    • @joshualewis4991
      @joshualewis4991 Місяць тому +2

      You are giving space like you should BUT you're not closing the deal when yall link back up. Be a sexual animal when yall are together then go almost no contact when yall are away from each other

    • @777lucifero
      @777lucifero Місяць тому

      @@joshualewis4991 It did work pretty well, after that sunday shopping in the morning, she was just happy about being together, i could tell, so i invited her over for lunch, she said yes right away.
      At first she didnt even want to kiss, she said we have too many uncertain parts of our future (where we will live, each of us) and it would be dangerous to get attached. But then I pressed the right buttons and after a passionate kiss we had sex all afternoon.
      Then she came yesterday to help me out with the tat again, she was going to just pop by quickly, instead she stayed for dinner, till late night almost morning.
      Probably seeing her one more time before i leave for about a month; she's planning to bring her pijamas this time and just stay over.

  • @devod123
    @devod123 Місяць тому +2

    Mowing the other dudes lawn is a bell you don’t unring. Karma

  • @1977raider
    @1977raider Місяць тому +1

    Guy was drunk dialing- bad way to go you can f up

  • @gregorycurrier8383
    @gregorycurrier8383 Місяць тому +11

    You scored with this girl move on,, let her go back to her boyfriend and wish her a happy life

  • @victorgarcia7722
    @victorgarcia7722 Місяць тому +8

    Let me tell you guys that talking to women when drunk will most likely ruin any attraction 😂. I once ruined a really good thing I had going on with a girl because I got drunk and messaged this girls cousin trying to flirt with her.

    • @Ainttrippin
      @Ainttrippin Місяць тому +2

      I've been drunk many times and never done that. Alcohol aint the problem it was you bruh

    • @MohammedKin99
      @MohammedKin99 Місяць тому +1

      @@Ainttrippinno lol its the alcohol. Clearly you havent drunk text and fumbled before

  • @Jolson17929
    @Jolson17929 Місяць тому +24

    Dang bro, put the booze down. He must’ve been watching too many drunk Kamala videos.

  • @JoeMNPT
    @JoeMNPT Місяць тому +21

    “She even followed me first on instagram”… Is this dude 19?

    • @Bs-cl3qz
      @Bs-cl3qz Місяць тому +7

      That's a sign of interest

  • @anti-wokewarrior1474
    @anti-wokewarrior1474 Місяць тому +1

    chi tea latte doesn't taste like coffee and is amazing.

  • @ghostccc8089
    @ghostccc8089 Місяць тому +2

    6:35 “she showed me her tits,” LMAO

    • @FreeDingus
      @FreeDingus Місяць тому

      It’s giving bobs and vagene. Dude sounds indian with the chai and cringe tikka masala references.

    • @LiamRaphael
      @LiamRaphael Місяць тому

      Yeah wtf are they 16 😂

  • @VinceUOIT
    @VinceUOIT Місяць тому

    Is this an old video? I swear this is identical to one that was recorded years ago

  • @Logan_Burwell
    @Logan_Burwell Місяць тому

    I would of invited her to have dinner with me at my place afterwards..dude messed up with that part lol

  • @shubhamnegi9307
    @shubhamnegi9307 Місяць тому

    Chai Tea latte is that a thing😮

  • @retrofan4life
    @retrofan4life Місяць тому

    Ah thee ol hot beef injection. Favorite move

  • @joeydrakeward4077
    @joeydrakeward4077 Місяць тому

    I don’t know what’s more annoying. The fact he used the words “she let me kiss her” or the fact Coach Corey Wayne has repeated it like 10 times.

  • @user-wt4ql4kr1w
    @user-wt4ql4kr1w Місяць тому

    Ill read it then ill finish the Bible later

  • @davidmckesey7119
    @davidmckesey7119 Місяць тому

    Guys puff them self up so much lol

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS Місяць тому

    Loose lips sink (relation) ships.... 😮

  • @FlorinMcf
    @FlorinMcf 26 днів тому

    😂😂

  • @unifive10
    @unifive10 Місяць тому +1

    If you need to recover attraction she was never that into you in the first place

    • @Ainttrippin
      @Ainttrippin Місяць тому +15

      Wrong. Attraction can rise and fall in women in seconds

    • @bulldogsnewleaf-m7g
      @bulldogsnewleaf-m7g Місяць тому +1

      You can argue if you lose attraction for something that is within your frame or identity you are proud of - then it's not worth re-attracting them...but attraction isn't constant.

  • @iangillis8150
    @iangillis8150 Місяць тому +1

    First ❤

  • @iangillis8150
    @iangillis8150 Місяць тому +1

    First ❤