Why You Never Pursue Women Who Blow You Off

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  • @paulthomas2178
    @paulthomas2178 11 місяців тому +265

    This applies to anyone who doesn't reciprocate and isn't interested in friendships or romantic relationships.

    • @LulaRoberts
      @LulaRoberts 11 місяців тому +9

      👍🫵💯

    • @eduardopena6000
      @eduardopena6000 11 місяців тому +2

      💯

    • @TheFiestyhick
      @TheFiestyhick 11 місяців тому +12

      Yes, even for much business encounters, one can't be chasing people like a loser chump

    • @CreatingExcellence
      @CreatingExcellence 11 місяців тому +1

      Business too

    • @TheMan733
      @TheMan733 11 місяців тому +17

      You hit the nail on the coffin with that one I cut all ties with fake people who want to be friends or chicks that want to play games and make pretend they like you or keep you In back up in case in things don't work out with the other guy I just block them on social media or even on my phone and they will never hear from me again.

  • @McK9999
    @McK9999 8 місяців тому +19

    Sheeesh.. that Chad Thundercock rly gets around 😮

  • @skullkid692
    @skullkid692 11 місяців тому +135

    A girl I asked out on a date 2x and gave me excuses with no follow up was upset when I stopped paying attention to her. Don't let them fool you guys. Sometimes they just like the validation and free attention.

    • @mctow9249
      @mctow9249 11 місяців тому +16

      @skullkid692: not sometimes, but EVERY single time!

    • @mrquick6775
      @mrquick6775 11 місяців тому +25

      Same thing happen to me. A woman that refused to go out after I asked her out twice and she then ignored my texts for three days. I texted her again, then she waited ten fycking days to text back, but she apologized profusely, but something told me not to buy it, because for a total of almost two weeks she never replied back. So that suggests that either I wasn’t on her mind or, she was trying to gain power and make me chase.. So.. I never replied back. Finally, after that she waited two months and texted me back. I told her that I was no longer interested. Because I could innately tell that she was just looking for validation. Plus a friend I knew told me that she was dating a guy she met at the club a really good looking tall guy, and I knew instantly she was putting me on the back burner. Later found out the guy she really liked pumped and dumped her! 😂 👏
      When they blow me off I’m done no exceptions..
      Peace and blessings’

    • @MrBrandonLau
      @MrBrandonLau 10 місяців тому

      @@mrquick6775the validation argument is only what is going on at surface levels most of the time. Ever time a girl has blown me off when I was sure they liked me, I later had them reciprocate my interest and found out that when they were blowing me off there was another guy they were still involved with or they were hung up on. It’s possible for women to be interested in more than one person even if they are only physically dating one person. Once you understand this you become less bitter, so when they come around again you can give them another chance.

    • @csmgmobile
      @csmgmobile 8 місяців тому +1

      💯💯💯

    • @DarkroomMedia007
      @DarkroomMedia007 7 місяців тому

      @@mctow9249
      Not true it's ALL women, you are going too far with that. I just disconnected with a guy who slide into my DM asking me relationship-oriented inquiry questions even my bra size and zodiac sign, he started breadcrumbed me to death. Hitting me with the old lame excuse claiming *"I'm busy and try to respond with thoughtfulness not half a**'ed effort"* to throw me off. I stopped giving him free attention and validation on tap after 3 weeks. I am ready for a relationship, he was ready for the star treatment only. I told him I noticed he never ask me anything about myself and I'm busy too but made time to reach out, pursue, give encouragement, share his business on my social media page, like, share and comment on his FB posts, and be patient with responses coming back to me 3 days later for a simple question I asked,. like GTHOH!! bye!! no more.

  • @mikesmods
    @mikesmods 11 місяців тому +104

    😂Loved the roast Corey, exactly what I needed. You nailed it she's exactly that! Kryptonite. Aside from the coffee dates and sex part, we had sex/sleepovers about a few times a week since she's moved here, up until the pull back and that illusion of action kicked in.(was trying to keep the email shorter) I agree she dangles the carrot and I always fall for it. Hearing that email read back to me really does make it seem like I didn't apply anything I've learned. I'll work on applying the material a lot better. Never expected to be featured in a video, so thank you!!

    • @AkosM
      @AkosM 11 місяців тому +3

      You should also look into learning some mindfulness practices that will help you handle your inner saboteurs better. A Liberated Mind from Steven C. Hayes would be a good start

    • @Tobinounet
      @Tobinounet 10 місяців тому +1

      So, how did it go?

    • @mikesmods
      @mikesmods 10 місяців тому

      I continued no contact didn't reach out to her on thanksgiving and she texted me merry Christmas the other day with a "I miss you" gif attached. She's coming over this weekend for dinner and drinks. For now on I will let her come to me and apply some more self control lol@@Tobinounet

  • @johnhall8081
    @johnhall8081 8 місяців тому +12

    There is no benefit to these nonsense games. You cannot be in an actual relationship with someone who only wants you when you don’t want them back.

  • @cryptopharmacist7983
    @cryptopharmacist7983 11 місяців тому +65

    For this one girl I recently dealt with… three dates were set (first two by me, 3rd by her) and got an excuse every time the day of… I then completely ghosted her, muting her posts and stories and she still is reaching out liking my posts… all she wanted was attention and validation and I don’t play that way. Corey preaches it, give women time who give you the time and attention that you find attractive as well

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 11 місяців тому +3

      You tried three times to set a date? I'm pretty sure Corey teaches to try only two times to set a date. Rejected twice? Walk away. After that, she has to be the one not only to reach out but also to bring it up. Otherwise, after 2-3 messages back and forth, you tell her you've gotta go. Keep in touch. Then walk away. Then you rinse and repeat until she either brings up getting together or disappears for good.

    • @cryptopharmacist7983
      @cryptopharmacist7983 11 місяців тому

      @@craig8304 to be real, after the 2nd failed date, she actually did reach out and asked when I was free, she wanted to have a chill night in getting pizza and a movie … she then found another excuse to not show up (having a bad day) And I found an excuse to ghost her messages.

    • @Frank.Melendrez
      @Frank.Melendrez 11 місяців тому

      @@craig8304He said the 3rd attempt was from her. He did only try twice therefore, he didn’t do anything wrong.

    • @ghostccc8089
      @ghostccc8089 11 місяців тому +3

      You’re crazy for going for that third one…. I have a girl a second chance, she delayed and I was so obviously done with her. She sent me her fking address the next day and said to swing by some time after she gets done with work, I’ll still never see her, NEXT.

    • @cryptopharmacist7983
      @cryptopharmacist7983 11 місяців тому

      @@ghostccc8089 I know but water under bridge now that I got a new gf who never pulled any of this crap… things happen for a reason sometimes

  • @ludensregisluciscaelum7636
    @ludensregisluciscaelum7636 11 місяців тому +61

    Sounds like she takes him for granted and enjoys controlling him, probably because he gives her attention and validation when Chad does not pay her attention and she feels a little bit insecure.

    • @Wolfe949
      @Wolfe949 11 місяців тому +3

      Yes and women like men who feelings are unclear.

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 11 місяців тому +4

      Yep. His own fault for not being direct and decisive and acting more like a friend than a lover.

  • @Dleclaringveto9987
    @Dleclaringveto9987 7 місяців тому +5

    In my opinion, this girl belongs to the streets. Its so clear she's using this guy whenever she needs something to do. She literally had him helping her move. Dude, ditch this girl and never contact her ever again and even if she tries to contact you, just block her. She DOESN'T like you and she's NOT into you. Guys need to start letting these girls learn.

  • @incometools8355
    @incometools8355 11 місяців тому +18

    It's been around 2 months and i'm on my 8th read with the audio book.I had a girl from a completely different part of the country work up enough money to buy a ticket and see me for a week. We were dating before when i was using your strategies and when I left that part of the country she pursued me 100%!!! I appreciate these videos so much Corey I know you get these messages all the time but I honestly can't thank you enough for all the content. I literally watch everyday!

  • @introman1016
    @introman1016 11 місяців тому +6

    Coach had the enlightenment at 31-32y.o. that's me now too. I've gotta be on the right track!! Lol

  • @Midnight-Mike
    @Midnight-Mike 9 місяців тому +3

    Your analysis reminds me of just how ridiculous dealing with manipulative women can be. It’s like men hold onto hope way past what a reasonable mind should allow. Comedy gold bro.

  • @bobross1829
    @bobross1829 11 місяців тому +33

    Yep, this happened to me too back in the day. Dated a girl on and off for like 5 years. Super hot, just could never close the deal. Did not know at first, but I was like Mr. Backup. She would chase guys she liked more and when that fell through she would give me the "hey, whats up?" text and it would start again. The first time I put her on a pedestal and blew it, just like Corey described. But the next two times I actually did play it cool and tried to be a challenge but it was just like she never really respected me and thought she could do better (even though I make way more money than her and have a good job). Last time she was blowing me off and saying she was "too busy" and saw on social media she was seeing other guys and called her out on it for lying and have not talked to her since.
    I learned from this once you screw up you need to move on and find someone new and do NOT screw up. I know every guy so wants that magic thing that will change her mind and correct a bad impression, but I really do think once a hot woman sees you are weak and cannot handle her, it just never goes away. Even when I learned some of this knowledge and tried being a challenge, flirty and funny, it was like she resisted it like she thought "nah, you are a nice guy and I know who you are"
    She was really hot and looking back on it, that is why I put up with it. But she has never been married and is in mid 30's and had a bad alcohol problem, so I definitely put her on a pedestal and ignored huge red flags.

    • @ThePsycoNinja
      @ThePsycoNinja 10 місяців тому +3

      Thanks for telling your story. Great advice. And i made the same mistakes

    • @karlz9162
      @karlz9162 10 місяців тому +3

      Same here 😅

    • @dixenherize6969
      @dixenherize6969 9 місяців тому +2

      It doesn't matter if YOU make more money than her 🤦🏻🤦🏻 you saying that as a way to say that she thought she could do better, but you literally saying she can't because you make more money than her, means absolutely nothing....you assume her mind state is that she can do better than you, would mean that whoever shes trying to get with would need to make more money than you 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻🤡🤡🤡 and the funny part of that meaning something to you or you thinking that that means anything at all is funny..you could make all the money in the world that doesn't mean she's gonna think of you any higher than the next guy you goof

    • @dixenherize6969
      @dixenherize6969 9 місяців тому +1

      And it's pretty clear you do not know what you're talking about and just making up stuff because you aren't even saying things that align with the lessons in the videos for one, but you trying to say the things you said at the end up your little story about how if you screw up once you need to move on right away is just ridiculous and not good advice what so ever either, and then you trying to throw shade on her by saying she's hella hot and In her mid 30s unmarried is odd for you to know these things if you don't constantly keep tabs on her and everything, but then to say she has a real bad alcohol problem is pretty petty dude. I'd be willing to bet that that's not even true too.... You got burnt dude, we all did. It's okay, and it's okay to admit she hurt you. But stop lying to yourself man

    • @bobross1829
      @bobross1829 9 місяців тому

      @@dixenherize6969 You sound really insane.

  • @brianbutterworth8186
    @brianbutterworth8186 11 місяців тому +1

    I enjoyed the face palm and the come on man’s it brought back memories of some of your older videos coach.

  • @RamLosAngeles-im5rq
    @RamLosAngeles-im5rq 11 місяців тому +18

    Coach got that calm demeanour. Read the book fellas, its free and you learn many things from life. “The quality of your life is in direct proportion of the quality of people you constantly hang around with.”

    • @mkowboy13
      @mkowboy13 11 місяців тому +2

      U bet I’ve read 3 times kinda pissed the gf off recently but that’s most likely why I need another 7 times to go lol

  • @shadowbotz4293
    @shadowbotz4293 11 місяців тому +12

    I’ve reached the point where if they cancel on me once..peace out ✌️. Too many chicks out here to deal with flakes.

  • @gavinoneill721
    @gavinoneill721 11 місяців тому +6

    You are absolutely brilliant, the best men’s coach I’ve come across

  • @jamarsam9217
    @jamarsam9217 11 місяців тому +2

    One of his best videos I ever seen

  • @Wolfe949
    @Wolfe949 11 місяців тому +6

    I love how you tell it like it is.. no sugar BS...

  • @illinoisgreg
    @illinoisgreg 11 місяців тому +25

    That dog impression was horrifying. Mostly because it was accurate.

  • @kevhauser
    @kevhauser 7 місяців тому

    Banged her up against the Drapes!!! LOL your best yet Corey! Cheers

  • @DavidPavlovich2
    @DavidPavlovich2 2 місяці тому +1

    Everything about this video is hilarious 😂

  • @_bigmoneyscheme_6556
    @_bigmoneyscheme_6556 7 місяців тому

    Following no contact is soooo hard!! But it’s the only course of action.

  • @JM-jt7yg
    @JM-jt7yg 10 місяців тому +3

    Still crack up hearing Coach's impressions😂

  • @Chad_Thundercock_
    @Chad_Thundercock_ 11 місяців тому +4

    I've seen a few of your videos, and I'm still trying to figure out how you know so much about my conquests, and diet. Just to clear things up, he wasn't invited in on her birthday because I was on my way there to destroy her pelvis.
    P.S. I always unclog the toilet out of courtesy, as long as there's a plunger present.. Also the drapes are nice, although the ones nearest to the bed don't appear level. I hope there are no hard feelings with OP..

  • @anthonymckinnon2890
    @anthonymckinnon2890 9 місяців тому +1

    Corey,you really should think about stand up comedy 😂😂😂 great work!

  • @hsafranify
    @hsafranify 10 місяців тому +2

    This was hilarious! Those wings and beer Chad polished off - was from a 5 flusher - restaurant rating (5 trips to her toilet)!

  • @andrewmontgomery8428
    @andrewmontgomery8428 11 місяців тому +5

    The moment I realize they aren’t authentic, I completely sever ties

  • @Frank.Melendrez
    @Frank.Melendrez 11 місяців тому +5

    Excellent video. The principals in this video reminds me of some of Coaches older videos on being stuck in friendzone, women who jerk you around, how over pursuing leads to rejection, ghosting, the clueless gay male girlfriend… and the Harry Hondas! Haha.
    Good refresher for all of us, especially myself.

  • @LulaRoberts
    @LulaRoberts 11 місяців тому +5

    What you staying is the truth 💯.

  • @vincem2320
    @vincem2320 11 місяців тому +14

    Thx Coach I just realized as hot as this girl is that I’m dating, she’s not what I’m looking for in a potential partner. Read the book 3 times in a month on my 4th read

    • @LulaRoberts
      @LulaRoberts 11 місяців тому +4

      👍🫵

    • @cryptopharmacist7983
      @cryptopharmacist7983 11 місяців тому

      I swear some women get thru life based on their looks and think their looks is gonna help them keep a guy… no I gotta also mentally connect with you. Plus, this hot girl I saw over the summer gave me the worst BJ of my life and I was completely turned off

  • @MasonJamoka
    @MasonJamoka 11 місяців тому +6

    Lol back tickling, should’ve said you should try my back shots. 😂

  • @Paperroutefrank-xt8tq
    @Paperroutefrank-xt8tq 7 місяців тому

    He said well you snore to much maybe you can sleep on the couch. Lol look at his voice and tone of voice when he makes that statement! Coach Corey Wayne is the best doing it period. So smooth

  • @craig8304
    @craig8304 11 місяців тому +9

    All the men in the world can read Corey's book 10-15 times. Still, only 3% will really get it and be able to apply it consistently. So there is still no competition for them.

  • @Reeferschiefers
    @Reeferschiefers 11 місяців тому +4

    This is straightforward and also hilarious!

  • @parishsmith3732
    @parishsmith3732 9 місяців тому

    Cory telling it how it is yet again keep it up buddy!!)

  • @dforce7597
    @dforce7597 3 місяці тому

    Love the title

  • @cesarvillegas3274
    @cesarvillegas3274 11 місяців тому +4

    Unclog Thundercocks beer and wings 🤣🤣🤣

  • @charlesr8115
    @charlesr8115 11 місяців тому +3

    This is by far your funniest video yet, couldn't stop laughing 🤣

  • @curtishutcherson2472
    @curtishutcherson2472 11 місяців тому

    I'm dailed in Coach "OG" Corey Wayne. I need it.

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS 11 місяців тому +4

    The fun bus leaves the station with or without the woman... 🎉

  • @stonestephh
    @stonestephh 11 місяців тому +1

    Coach Wayne is the best 😅

  • @itsjustnopinionok
    @itsjustnopinionok 11 місяців тому +4

    16:19 me with every girl i liked from the time i was 17 to 40. I came across CW at 50. Now im 55

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 11 місяців тому +13

    The longer you wait to take action, the more attraction a woman tends to lose. In his case, it suggests he either lacked confidence or sensed she wasn't very interested. Regardless of the reason, he could have spared himself years by making a move sooner. Sometimes, even if a woman initially sees you as a "5," one decisive move can elevate your standing. It seems like he remained in the 5-6 range until she ultimately saw him as no longer an option. At this point, he's more of a genuine friend to her. By the way, Home Goods is impressive.

  • @NKUSoccer07
    @NKUSoccer07 11 місяців тому +4

    Seal corey is the best corey!

  • @stevekamala
    @stevekamala 9 місяців тому

    nailed it coach

  • @bodyemcal
    @bodyemcal 11 місяців тому +7

    I was after this chick who blew me off last year, i started ignoring her, and now she blows up my phone and is always asking to see me.

    • @chriscarr7397
      @chriscarr7397 11 місяців тому +7

      The best things you can do, is never engage in any conversation with her. Block her on everything. Don't let her rope you back into her life. Don't let her manipulate you in anyway. Plus, don't let her talk to you about her crappy problems. Move on and don't ever look back. Plus, whatever she's got going on with her or the choices she's making, is her problem. "Not yours!!" You need to have self-respect for yourself. And no more "Mr. Nice Guy."

  • @projectbbeats3327
    @projectbbeats3327 11 місяців тому +3

    Corey's humor man😂😂😂 something that's worth waiting for

  • @myscure
    @myscure 11 місяців тому +8

    Just dont get back with her if she was with another man, thats disgusting

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 11 місяців тому +1

      He can still have casual hookups, though.

  • @lozantius
    @lozantius 11 місяців тому +3

    Never!!!! When ever you chase woman they run away! Let them come to you! Work on yourself and watch them flock to your success!!!

  • @steeztv6230
    @steeztv6230 11 місяців тому +1

    The best dating coach out there. I love your book

  • @buffalosolider206
    @buffalosolider206 11 місяців тому +16

    if she can tell you think she's the best you've ever gotten she will not be as attracted as if its just another day in the life.
    the best relationships I had were when I truly didn't care about losing the girl once I lost this she walked all over me.

  • @Drillaz1
    @Drillaz1 11 місяців тому +4

    You are the best

  • @craigr1966
    @craigr1966 11 місяців тому +3

    I want to send Cory an email so he can mock and patronize me too😅

  • @gymleaderdj9102
    @gymleaderdj9102 11 місяців тому

    Thanks coach I just became best friend with a really great girl

  • @HititFromTheBank
    @HititFromTheBank 10 місяців тому +2

    Chad Thunders beer and wings 😂

  • @elcucui2933
    @elcucui2933 8 місяців тому

    So true!, "Hey!" 😂😂

  • @Izumi_Ikebukuro
    @Izumi_Ikebukuro 11 місяців тому +4

    Morning coach

  • @Kryzmatic1
    @Kryzmatic1 11 місяців тому +6

    That's right guys: "Never pursue a woman who blows you off aka fellatio..." After she blows you off, run away guys... Lol... Just joking...

  • @BillyT531
    @BillyT531 11 місяців тому +2

    Brutal, but hilarious! 🤣🤣

  • @ElearningDigest
    @ElearningDigest 11 місяців тому +13

    “I read the book 800 times. Should I chase her like a beta male?” 😂

  • @beritmason8567
    @beritmason8567 11 місяців тому +2

    why can't he court her properly and then after a time, ask for her hand? what is this back and forth with no marriage in sight?

  • @janellehill370
    @janellehill370 8 місяців тому

    I love how every guy that emails you says the same thing verbatim I’m a good looking guy I never have a problem getting women I have women chasing me all the time blah blah blah yeah if you were half as good as you thought you were, you you wouldn’t be needing someone to coach you through your dates. FYI.

  • @aleksandar.tepsic
    @aleksandar.tepsic 11 місяців тому +7

    Anyone else think Corey should do live call in videos?

  • @lawrences2541
    @lawrences2541 3 місяці тому +1

    15:45 😂😂 damn

  • @dorian3044
    @dorian3044 9 місяців тому +1

    Chad Thundercock’s morning dump 💩 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @RoosterRaw
    @RoosterRaw 11 місяців тому

    Haha a great video Corey mate. Spot on with great humour. Take note my brothers some pearls of wisdom. Stay safe y’all.

  • @ptrsrfns
    @ptrsrfns 11 місяців тому +15

    I think she is just stringing him along cause she knows he likes her and she just likes the attention and validation he gives her. He should move on. I mean who tf says "if we date..."

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 11 місяців тому +1

      Women who know that they like you a lot but don't understand why they're not feeling a certain way (due to the guy acting weak and more like a friend) might say something like that. It's like they're hoping that you'll soon become a man and sweep them off their feet. Meanwhile, their interest is slowly going down.

  • @jamest681
    @jamest681 4 місяці тому +1

    If this girl keeps leaving him, her interest level must be pretty low. There does not seem to be a lot of room for error with her.

  • @JohnSmith-ij4xe
    @JohnSmith-ij4xe 11 місяців тому +5

    Funny part is I never have as am more shy and have always kept to myself when I was younger. Often times I would just look at them and laugh 😂 as they were never the ones I wanted anything to do with as their attitude was a turn off. To me they were just hook up ones but never anything more and if they said I can get any guy I would just walk away then they would throw themselves at me and I would keep walking as I wanted nothing to do with them. Yes am odd but when I was younger I had no clue and I didn’t realize I was doing what women wanted in a guy. I was just being me and I stay away from women that annoy me as I have always put my energy into my goals and never a woman.

  • @johto
    @johto 11 місяців тому +4

    I have had these same cycles with my crazy EX GF few times over the 10 years. Everytime it gets easier, cause she gets fatter and more crazy LOL

  • @timothymurray1236
    @timothymurray1236 11 місяців тому +1

    Chad Thundercocks beer and wings 🤣

  • @Ericwolf520
    @Ericwolf520 3 місяці тому

    Lmao Corey at 18:22 🤣

  • @louiethompson4108
    @louiethompson4108 7 місяців тому +1

    @18:23 😂😅🤣😂

  • @gregorystinette8271
    @gregorystinette8271 10 місяців тому +1

    I gave up on human beings & got a dog & am much happier. Woof !

  • @bankzybeats
    @bankzybeats 4 місяці тому

    18:23 LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @andrewbroadbent1206
    @andrewbroadbent1206 11 місяців тому

    I'm in the same boat with a new hot girl , I have taken my foot off the 3% gas and I need to pick it back up, I say to myself she is blowing hot and cold but that may be when I am overchasing, thx for the smack coach 🇬🇧

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 11 місяців тому +1

      Don't over-pursue then. Just choose not to

    • @OPCollecting
      @OPCollecting 11 місяців тому

      Its cause she has other dudes in the picture

  • @Bubba-ij5ot
    @Bubba-ij5ot 10 місяців тому +1

    Yes the guy has done a lot of chasing, but.... the girl has to take responsibility for leading him on consistently with bs lines

  • @MoltenMetalGod7
    @MoltenMetalGod7 11 місяців тому +4

    You’ll rarely go wrong by walking away regardless of how attractive a girls is.

  • @vaguesemantics
    @vaguesemantics 9 місяців тому

    I lost it at 20:45 😂

  • @coreyrenik6419
    @coreyrenik6419 11 місяців тому +4

    It takes time to build a mental equivalent to experience the life you want for yourself

  • @idjoensjjz
    @idjoensjjz 11 місяців тому +5

    she comes back and tries to get close to me or talk to me, stalks me on instagram but pulls back if I do a move. It's the same with ex friends, they try so hard to know details about my life or talk to me but talk behind my back. It's hard out there tbh

  • @ptc3619
    @ptc3619 11 місяців тому +4

    There was a woman I was sleeping with and dating last year. She’s a quiet Borderline but is in therapy. One day she was gone. She had reached out occasionally but I couldn’t get her back out, another person obviously. 6 + months went by and she reaches out. Long story short we went out a few times with her doing almost all the pursuing. I said I’m only interested in intimacy and not friends. She agreed. The last time we went out we made it back to the hotel but there was no intimacy. I was caressing her face, rubbing her back, my arm over her front and chest but it just wasn’t progressing on her end she mainly just laid there close and let me touch her. After that moment I cut my losses and didn’t care anymore. We haven’t spoken since. Worst case of blue balls I’ve ever had.

    • @richardthompson2563
      @richardthompson2563 10 місяців тому

      Borderline women are the worst to deal with. Can't stand them. Unpredictable . Abusive. Explosive. Cruel. Mean. And not normal while they mask up to other people, acting like they are the most normal, happy, bubbly, and sparkly people you ask for. This done all the whole as they destroy the people they love.

  • @fitnesshigherselfhealthand7102
    @fitnesshigherselfhealthand7102 11 місяців тому +8

    That’s my same problem, I get a lot of women but I play it cool when I’m not really into most of them. When one comes along that I really like I lose my coolness. How do I remain as cool as I do with women I don’t really like as much?

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 11 місяців тому +6

      Learn to exercise emotional self-control. Picture them taking a massive dump, and understand they're just human.

    • @andi8489
      @andi8489 11 місяців тому +1

      @@craig8304 🤣🤣🤣

    • @dalen52
      @dalen52 10 місяців тому

      Kiss other women in front of her

  • @yungdynamic471
    @yungdynamic471 11 місяців тому +2

    That's messed up. Telling this man "if we date" but they are going to all these places like they are a couple 😂🤦🏾‍♂️ he ended up being the friend that he rejected being.

    • @zuhairreza
      @zuhairreza 11 місяців тому +1

      So you think she was stringing him along? Just enjoying his attention and validation? But couldn’t it be the case that she wanted to be friends first and see where the relationship went and if she had attraction for him?
      I didn’t watch the entire video yet, just halfway through now, but also, I’m not an expert on this topic, so excuse any obvious question.
      However, I was in a similar situation. I think I like being friends first (not in a fake way, like with the intention to date the girl later) and see if I like the girl as a girlfriend, but admittedly that didn’t work out for me in the past. I should also note that in the past, I didn’t have enough confidence to ask girls out directly, but now, since I improved my finances, looks, clothing style, etc., I find it quite easy to ask out a girl directly on a date (I did that recently at work but unfortunately, the person wasn’t right, and she let the managers know I made her uncomfortable… long story, but I learned my lesson to take my time with this and really gauge someone’s interest in me first. However, it still shows I can ask someone out, for which I’m proud). Anyway, regarding my situation, in my last year of college, some years ago, I (who isn’t usually social and extroverted) fell in love with a female friend I have been hanging out with a lot to various places and began to see her as a girlfriend. I asked her if we could date (through text, which may not be best for it, I know now) and her reaction was.. she was thinking and deciding a lot, what to say, was taken aback, I could see typing back and forth, deleting the message, typing again.. and then she let me know she sees me as a friend only and is “not interested in anything further”. The reason I said my life story is because we did exactly what you said here, we did “couple things”, from looking at each other to laughing, talking, taking pictures, hugging (I don’t remember if I ever kissed her). So, in my mind, after all that, I thought she was interested, so when she said not interested, it hurt a bit and was disappointing at first. Some months later, though, I got over it. I stayed in touch with her in the sense I have her number and have her on my Facebook, but I’m not actively reaching out to her as a friend and trying to get with her or pursue her when she clearly said she’s not interested. My question is, was she also just using me for attention and validation? Or, couldn’t it be the case she was using the friendship to see if there is attraction between us and if she thinks of me as a boyfriend? Because, the way you wrote your comment, “telling the man ‘if we date’ but they’re going to all these places like a couple…”, which is similar to my story with my friend, makes me feel I was just used or strung along. Any thoughts? 😤😒😕

    • @crnivuk7092
      @crnivuk7092 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@zuhairrezayou waited too long bro. If we don't kiss on first or second date i am gone...

    • @zuhairreza
      @zuhairreza 11 місяців тому

      You think so?! Awww, how sad. I am not sure how I felt about her on our first time "hanging out", but sure, I'll remember for next time... thanks! @@crnivuk7092

    • @mrquick6775
      @mrquick6775 11 місяців тому

      @@zuhairrezaParagraphs are your friend bro. If you date the way you type that might be your problem!

    • @zuhairreza
      @zuhairreza 11 місяців тому

      @@mrquick6775 Yes.. thanks for pointing it out! 😂😂😂

  • @scotmockup
    @scotmockup 10 місяців тому

    So what if her love language is acts of service? How do you walk the line between doing too much and not enough?

  • @theshawndavisshow
    @theshawndavisshow 11 місяців тому +1

    I have been to the book 30 times mostly on audible. And I can't figure it out either it's basically stories but how do you make that apply in everyday life everyday and everyday situations

    • @mrquick6775
      @mrquick6775 11 місяців тому +2

      What’s so hard to figure out?? Women are easy to figure out. When they have high interest they: Call, text act like an open book, rearrange their schedules for you, and agree to hook up.
      When they have low interest they: Ignore your text for days on end, give short one liners, make excuses and blow you off, become sarcastic, dismissive, disrespectful and rude!
      Also, your gut will normally lead you to the right conclusion esp with a little experience!
      Peace and blessings’

    • @theshawndavisshow
      @theshawndavisshow 11 місяців тому

      @@mrquick6775 how do you get them there

  • @jeffcannon9753
    @jeffcannon9753 11 місяців тому +4

    Chad Thundercock! 😂😂😂

  • @killswitchrules99
    @killswitchrules99 11 місяців тому +2

    😂😂😂 let him coooook 👏

  • @jimh527
    @jimh527 5 днів тому

    Every guy is Casanova on the internets. 😅

  • @loginusername7
    @loginusername7 11 місяців тому

    He only read my book 10 times… that’s the problem…
    😂

  • @pablogiorgio7479
    @pablogiorgio7479 11 місяців тому

    I dont have any pity for good-looking guys, they dont know what it is evolucionary pressure to get the kind of girl you always dream to be with. Its way harder when you just an average looking guy (you ego just cannot be in the equation)

    • @MADBROW
      @MADBROW 11 місяців тому

      Looks don't matter in the bigger picture. Get your ass in the gym, start a business and level up. Women only care about $.

    • @pablogiorgio7479
      @pablogiorgio7479 11 місяців тому +2

      @@MADBROW Dude, being broke i already had 3 girlfriends (being an average looking guy). I took a long time, thats true. But the 3 were beautiful and hot. Money helps, but is not every thing. Redpill is just not accurate!

  • @wayweh
    @wayweh 11 місяців тому +1

    It's a sad thing to say but some men are slow learners and with them putting the woman on a pedestal it costs time and pain, it's really through pain that they wake up and learn that what they are doing isn't working and they have to change and just read the book and apply it. Apply it. And if you don't apply it as the great coach says, Chad Thunder Cock is going to get it and not you.😅, Great Video Coach. You could have been a Comedian 😅

  • @carpediem4226
    @carpediem4226 8 місяців тому

    I bet Chad Thundercock has read his book at least 50 times.

  • @Dreambig62
    @Dreambig62 11 місяців тому

    Can you setup a patreon?

  • @earthpart3
    @earthpart3 11 місяців тому +2

    sounds like this pathetic "guy" i know who's been friendzoned for 10 years and still has no clue. i dont think this person ever read the book or even watched a video. its crazy he even knows who you are

  • @mr.official115
    @mr.official115 11 місяців тому +2

    💯

  • @ShyMplsMale
    @ShyMplsMale 7 місяців тому

    I see a hot girl and I'm like "that's a walking headache"

  • @FabianLopez777
    @FabianLopez777 11 місяців тому

    Dang!!!
    I dont like Chad thundercock very much! 😢
    I think I just went though this!

  • @jaywonder5155
    @jaywonder5155 8 місяців тому

    23:57 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pierrebriquet
    @pierrebriquet 11 місяців тому

    Hey Coach.. everytime it goes wrong.. I think that the girl is different and start to not do things from these channels. BUT, at least, consulting here I can avoid care too much when things goes wrong, and just act correctly that way. But I'm always impossible to revert things... and that's kind of frustrating. I think what direction can I go?