Let's Talk About Sex: The Reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity | Grace Wetzel | TEDxStLawrenceU

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  • @jessicaascano9381
    @jessicaascano9381 4 роки тому +8751

    When you're single and still watch this.

  • @dsmay6404
    @dsmay6404 4 роки тому +2933

    One moment of silence for those who came with their parents to this tedx without knowing topic

  • @asandax6
    @asandax6 5 років тому +945

    The reason people are quiet is because They are so so focused in taking mental notes

  • @carmenbalko1372
    @carmenbalko1372 Рік тому +120

    I AM an 89 year old Granny and by golly never in my Life did I ever believe Woman would finally Hear THE TRUTH…OMG SO GRATEFUL…ALL WOMAN SHOULD HEAR THIS…I MEAN ALL …I SO APPRECIATE THIS VALUABLE INFORMATION…❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

    • @bl8896
      @bl8896 Місяць тому +5

      You don't SOUND like an 89 year old granny

  • @Chad_Thundercock
    @Chad_Thundercock 6 років тому +4843

    She makes a few good points, but there is one glaring issue with her assumptions.
    Biology and evolution don't give a single, cross eyed, red headed damn about 'social constructs' and 'gender roles'. Men orgasm easier than women becuase if men don't orgasm, they don't reproduce. Women can reproduce without orgasm, so the selective pressure of orgasm is not a factor.
    So yes, it's absolutely possible, and even probable, that women have a harder time reaching orgasm due to biology. But it's not that women are hard to bring to orgasm, but that it's so comparatively easy to bring a man to orgasm.
    Want to get off more often? Tell your partner what you like and need. Help out, even. You're adults. Take responsibility for yourself.

    • @Newstatejournal1
      @Newstatejournal1 6 років тому +156

      Well said!

    • @robertgabuna355
      @robertgabuna355 6 років тому +60

      Rick Cutshall
      Agree...

    • @sanjayvasnani4612
      @sanjayvasnani4612 6 років тому +73

      Cannot Agree more!

    • @praneetjoshi8541
      @praneetjoshi8541 6 років тому +266

      Rick Cutshall .. Disagree. The assumption that a guy's orgasm is easier than a girl's is a complete myth.
      It's exactly the same time. Please listen to the video again.

    • @raymukhtar6806
      @raymukhtar6806 6 років тому +131

      Praneet Joshi TRUST me lady, it does NOT take a man 4 minutes. THAT is not science lmfao

  • @infidelheretic923
    @infidelheretic923 5 років тому +4350

    I wonder if this was all secretly directed at her boyfriend.

    • @CL-uf9xw
      @CL-uf9xw 5 років тому +113

      @ Infidel Heretic
      I wonder if you watched this whole thing thinking "She's hot, what did she say?"

    • @amedina6162
      @amedina6162 5 років тому +15

      @Waterlec lol it probably was detected to her boyfriend lol. Good one.

    • @GypzyJack
      @GypzyJack 5 років тому +30

      @Waterlec The front row was empty. He must have got embarassed and fled the scene!

    • @marvickfranca
      @marvickfranca 5 років тому +1

      Kkkkkkk

    • @lelandraymaley3
      @lelandraymaley3 5 років тому +25

      Infidel Heretic I don’t perceive this girl as straight?

  • @aidanrezvani9295
    @aidanrezvani9295 4 роки тому +840

    I'm going to single handedly fix this problem.

  • @Africa96tv
    @Africa96tv 3 роки тому +287

    Yho, the silence in this room was of another level.

    • @michaelmelamed9103
      @michaelmelamed9103 3 роки тому +22

      IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DO CLAPPING WITH ONE HAND

    • @James_Fly_Tying
      @James_Fly_Tying 7 місяців тому

      Clap them cheeks with no hands

    • @badmrwolf6716
      @badmrwolf6716 5 місяців тому

      🤣🤣🤣😂​@@michaelmelamed9103

    • @RokzyReal
      @RokzyReal 12 днів тому

      😂😂😂​@@michaelmelamed9103

  • @tylerdurden2832
    @tylerdurden2832 6 років тому +2030

    Ok UA-cam, I've watched it. You happy?

    • @tianqihu4756
      @tianqihu4756 4 роки тому +11

      you dog,me too

    • @aadityaacharya5902
      @aadityaacharya5902 4 роки тому +21

      The first rule of fight club ...............

    • @kartikeyatiwari8661
      @kartikeyatiwari8661 4 роки тому +13

      @@aadityaacharya5902 is you don't talk about fight club

    • @jayantchaudhary177
      @jayantchaudhary177 4 роки тому +9

      @@kartikeyatiwari8661 you just talked about fight club

    • @notgayatall5454
      @notgayatall5454 4 роки тому +8

      @@jayantchaudhary177
      You just talked about them talking about fight club. Which is technically talking about fight club.

  • @rohitk2390
    @rohitk2390 4 роки тому +1064

    Dear youtube, i am single,why am i being recommended this? Is universe sending me some type of signal?

  • @michaelware1649
    @michaelware1649 4 роки тому +87

    Men are not mind readers, generally speaking, women need to speak up, and let men know what they want, different women like different things, I think most men would be happy to oblige!

    • @likad.5156
      @likad.5156 8 місяців тому +12

      Most. But some would call it a complaint...

    • @leonniceday6807
      @leonniceday6807 5 місяців тому

      Wait till you grow older... Not knowing is formidable excuse ;).

  • @Exxplore_the_NorthEast
    @Exxplore_the_NorthEast 4 роки тому +256

    Singles give attendance here

  • @seangpinyoung2719
    @seangpinyoung2719 6 років тому +152

    Not me,I never fake anymore!
    The longer you live the more brave and stay true to yourself always! Just tell him! Lol.

    • @dbsk06
      @dbsk06 5 років тому +5

      IKR lol

    • @notgayatall5454
      @notgayatall5454 4 роки тому +10

      You go girl! Be a part of the solution and not the problem.

  • @rayana4250
    @rayana4250 6 років тому +2066

    "Today, I'm gonna be talking to you about sex".
    I'm genuinely surprised no one in the crowd yelled "YES!" after that bold statment
    DISCLAIMER: I have no idea why this video was recommended to me. Honest.

    • @BM_brb
      @BM_brb 6 років тому +45

      Rayan A, they yelled inside their heads.

    • @indobekicot5731
      @indobekicot5731 6 років тому +10

      They recommended this to me also, Idk

    • @Raj-np1sc
      @Raj-np1sc 6 років тому +6

      Yeah...recommended to me also...lol...wtf!

    • @ItsSalman98
      @ItsSalman98 6 років тому +1

      😂😂

    • @lezysul
      @lezysul 6 років тому +1

      Lmao, same here 😥😥😥😐😐😐

  • @Prodiggy23
    @Prodiggy23 6 років тому +441

    What she did really well in this talk, unlike many other equality discussions in today's day in age, is she was very open about saying that this wasn't all just because of men or a certain group of people. She did an excellent job in pointing out that as a collective society, men and women, we should change how we look at this issue not to take away the benefits that it already gives but rather add more benefits for the other party involved. Greatly worded and put together talk.

    • @camerondiprose1722
      @camerondiprose1722 2 роки тому +7

      I didn’t see it like that.
      It’s not ever been something I’ve thought about. If I’m there to have a good time, so is she and if the job doesn’t get done one way you step it up and do something else. To some how insist that there’s a systemic problem of men being lazy goes a bit far. It’s certainly not been my experience.

    • @glenwaldrop8166
      @glenwaldrop8166 2 роки тому +7

      Most of the complaints come from having a bad partner or lack of experience.
      Don't sleep around with randos that only care about themselves, that's a huge start.

    • @king.2597
      @king.2597 Рік тому +2

      That's how many equality discussions are

    • @vanhau9674
      @vanhau9674 Рік тому

      1st
      2nd

  • @rixseixe
    @rixseixe 3 роки тому +86

    Talking about equality of pleasure is significant. I think the first barrier to get across this inequality is communication. Speak to your partner - your likes, your dislikes and all that make you feel happy and content. The act is for both to enjoy - that is what all of humanity does.

    • @since1876
      @since1876 2 роки тому +4

      Hey, man, I'll do my best, but if she can't get there in 2.5 minutes, that's why Jesus invented vibrators.... 🥺

    • @likad.5156
      @likad.5156 8 місяців тому +1

      What if my partner says "I haven't heard any complaints from others "?

    • @rixseixe
      @rixseixe 8 місяців тому +4

      @@likad.5156He should be with others. What is your partner doing with you?

  • @TheUltrazone23
    @TheUltrazone23 4 роки тому +345

    Is my girlfriend working at UA-cam secretly? This was recommended to me!

  • @th3b0yg
    @th3b0yg 6 років тому +965

    I'm so tired of hearing about how we're victims of ideas that exist. Take responsibility for your own life and fulfillment. It's not a competition, it's a collaboration. Collaborate with someone who's good to you and it's probably going to be good.

    • @pladselsker8340
      @pladselsker8340 6 років тому +31

      Couldn't say it any better

    • @MrRedwingsfan16
      @MrRedwingsfan16 6 років тому +70

      All she is saying is for people to be more aware of others, if you really care for a person this should be instinctive. Yes we should take responsibility for our own happiness, and like she said, a woman should feel empowered enough to ask, but the reality is, a lot of women feel awkward. We don't live in a perfect world, and it takes communication and a little bit of empathy to move in that direction

    • @th3b0yg
      @th3b0yg 6 років тому +47

      MrRedwingsfan16 or to hit the same idea from the other direction, buck up and stop thinking of yourself as a victim. It's incumbent upon you to pursue the happiness you desire. It's not incumbent upon others to provide it. But they might provide it if you ask.

    • @emmanuelp.8730
      @emmanuelp.8730 6 років тому +47

      Robert Johnson women dont get it.. Somehow they believe that men are mindreaders..

    • @MrRedwingsfan16
      @MrRedwingsfan16 6 років тому +20

      Robert Johnson that's a very good realization, but unfortunately not everyone's brain works the same way. That's why people like you that have realized that, can only do the best they can to help others realize that. Hence my point of empathy and awareness go a long way.

  • @ishwindersinghwalia6769
    @ishwindersinghwalia6769 4 роки тому +138

    This was much needed!
    Thank you for opening up a conversation about it!

  • @reader38
    @reader38 28 днів тому +20

    Who is watching in january 2025 and being single 😂

  • @Pikachu-cv4ju
    @Pikachu-cv4ju 4 роки тому +1286

    Nice session of SEDx...😅

  • @0669able
    @0669able 4 роки тому +171

    Very well said and very well put . Extremely well delivered on a subject least talked about ,and least demanded by wemen.
    Hats off to her for making the awareness of equality of this commodity for both sexes. Hurrah to her.

  • @frankmeintjes5012
    @frankmeintjes5012 4 роки тому +380

    Bottom line ladies take control and tell your partner what you want. If he listens he is a wise guy.

    • @hamzamoussaid4347
      @hamzamoussaid4347 4 роки тому +11

      Haha if the women take control of her man she will never have orgasm from him

    • @seradin8029
      @seradin8029 4 роки тому +15

      @@hamzamoussaid4347 what?

    • @Mia199603
      @Mia199603 4 роки тому +7

      They often don't so that's that.

    • @Nimrodel84
      @Nimrodel84 3 роки тому +12

      It's not very easy to say what you want when everything in your life told you that you are not allowed to ask those things.

    • @frankmeintjes5012
      @frankmeintjes5012 3 роки тому +17

      @@Nimrodel84
      You must realize that it's your life your needs your body. You have the right to speak your mind. It is not sinful or wrong but it's your right.

  • @keylas3525
    @keylas3525 3 роки тому +32

    That's a voice that needs to be heard on repeat. Thank you.

  • @retlaw4003
    @retlaw4003 4 роки тому +532

    Is there anyone single listening to this?

  • @TNTsundar
    @TNTsundar 5 років тому +24

    People don’t quite understand when someone says “It’s hard to satisfy a woman”. I only ask them to watch this video - just once.

    • @fluttersheesh8884
      @fluttersheesh8884 4 роки тому

      She actually quotet, that by themselves women and men need approx. equal time amount to reach orgasm. So what are you saying ?

    • @puppypi9668
      @puppypi9668 4 роки тому

      @@fluttersheesh8884 I think he's agreeing and saying that he shows people this video to set them straight :')

  • @将軍九八.彁
    @将軍九八.彁 6 років тому +1410

    She's been dating the wrong men.

    • @FranCambeyro
      @FranCambeyro 6 років тому +31

      Jason G no doubt about it! 😉

    • @melindabota1201
      @melindabota1201 6 років тому +122

      Jason G she is not talking about herself. Have you missed all the statistics she mentioned?

    • @rilist23
      @rilist23 6 років тому +40

      She wasn’t talking about herself

    • @RAG718
      @RAG718 6 років тому +18

      then why do so much research and spend the time talking like this,, some how someway her wrong men affected her...

    • @MegaARYARAJ
      @MegaARYARAJ 6 років тому +6

      Frustrations u know

  • @katie2845
    @katie2845 5 місяців тому +2

    I love this!! What a thought-provoking presentation. She’s got it figured out!

  • @markterrazzino7300
    @markterrazzino7300 4 роки тому +1364

    In my opinion, my girlfriend's pleasure is more important than mine. without her, I don't get the pleasure.

  • @asithaperera377
    @asithaperera377 4 роки тому +684

    If this is recommended to you, there is high chance that you are single or long distance relationship 😂😂

  • @commonman8582
    @commonman8582 4 роки тому +102

    3:33 me in every presentation

  • @PsychPerusal
    @PsychPerusal Рік тому +5

    this topic is not discussed much but it is very very important. thanks for speaking up on this. i really learned a lot today.

  • @caischcer
    @caischcer 4 роки тому +96

    3:36 That was weird. Did she sneeze or something? It appeared to me as if she was laughing for a second

    • @youareconnectingshivamkumar
      @youareconnectingshivamkumar 4 роки тому +33

      Because No One is Laughing or Cheering. She feels awkward bcoz no one is giving any sign of emotion.

    • @ivanbreak
      @ivanbreak 4 роки тому +153

      she had an orgasm

    • @notgayatall5454
      @notgayatall5454 4 роки тому +49

      @@ivanbreak
      Thank you kind sir. For making me laugh.

    • @hondedtij6761
      @hondedtij6761 4 роки тому +15

      She forgot what she was about to say

    • @freefallwefall
      @freefallwefall 4 роки тому +10

      @@hondedtij6761 Agreed. She panicked on stage for a split second before recovering gracefully.

  • @johnnyandrew4515
    @johnnyandrew4515 4 роки тому +90

    this video's especially recommanded to singles -youtube

    • @danial3192
      @danial3192 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂

    • @Macklinrk
      @Macklinrk 4 роки тому +2

      Nice one Johnny ..nice one 👌👌 😂😂

  • @rajibdhungana
    @rajibdhungana 4 роки тому +125

    I don't have interest in the video but now since UA-cam has recommended me 10 th time. The universe is wanting me to watch this video.

    • @GutsXGriffith
      @GutsXGriffith 4 роки тому

      Nepali jasto xau ta

    • @rajibdhungana
      @rajibdhungana 4 роки тому

      @@GutsXGriffith Haha without doubt

    • @munnabhaiyya9515
      @munnabhaiyya9515 4 роки тому +1

      same

    • @jonnymcgrath4816
      @jonnymcgrath4816 4 роки тому +2

      You know you got recommended this cuz you’re watching something similar to it. 😅

    • @munnabhaiyya9515
      @munnabhaiyya9515 4 роки тому

      @@jonnymcgrath4816 no i watch ted talks sometimes that's why this got recommended to me

  • @catkeys6911
    @catkeys6911 3 роки тому +400

    I don't know about anyone else, but for me, the woman's pleasure was always the main goal. They deserve all the pleasure we can give them.

  • @unstoppablezone4980
    @unstoppablezone4980 5 років тому +56

    Asking for what you want is a great way to get it. :)

  • @hensuwis2160
    @hensuwis2160 4 роки тому +532

    Why I am seeing this ? I don't even have a gf .

  • @ramona.vargas7298
    @ramona.vargas7298 6 років тому +624

    It's a simple case of lack of communication & understanding of the the men & women involved.

    • @christianschwalbach7561
      @christianschwalbach7561 6 років тому +6

      Ramon Vargas pretty much

    • @amberkosterewa7029
      @amberkosterewa7029 6 років тому +30

      Or lack of concern by the male party

    • @oscarl.3563
      @oscarl.3563 6 років тому +2

      Sounds terrible, maybe you need to treat them better.

    • @SanVB
      @SanVB 6 років тому +32

      You said it! I don't see this as a Big social problem as she puts it, like if you and your partner communicate properly then this doesn't exist. I still find the talk interesting and very useful.

    • @sirgrotto8714
      @sirgrotto8714 6 років тому +3

      Jac Debaires I agree as long as everyone communicates and properly then things should be fine.

  • @SullenDaiz
    @SullenDaiz Рік тому +4

    I hope it's ok to share, because more people need to hear this.

  • @akiragrant8243
    @akiragrant8243 2 роки тому +25

    This lady is absolutely first class. She really is.

  • @masterofgaming71BH4
    @masterofgaming71BH4 4 роки тому +147

    I like how everyone is so silent.

    • @Muba7680
      @Muba7680 4 роки тому +3

      Yaaa i love that

  • @thinkingape7655
    @thinkingape7655 6 років тому +48

    I’d be curious to see how Grace’s presentation evolves over the 40+ years. Hopefully she keeps her notes.

  • @aaronmolinafletcher3756
    @aaronmolinafletcher3756 4 роки тому +7

    Its a matter of educating and listening each other.

  • @ShortfaceBear
    @ShortfaceBear 4 роки тому +170

    First 3 minutes sounded like a lawyer's disclaimer

    • @ellismartiskainen7729
      @ellismartiskainen7729 4 роки тому

      yes

    • @Purple_Neon
      @Purple_Neon 4 роки тому

      True

    • @dzfattnutz
      @dzfattnutz 4 роки тому +4

      Sadly you pretty much have to do this before you speak about pretty much anything nowadays..

    • @just83542
      @just83542 3 роки тому +2

      @@dzfattnutz woke, cancelled, social justice, yadda yadda...

    • @faisalshahx
      @faisalshahx 3 роки тому +1

      She didn't want to be attacked by the lgbt community

  • @psurrett1
    @psurrett1 Рік тому +7

    Thank you for this very educational talk Grace!

  • @gohorarsen5938
    @gohorarsen5938 5 років тому +617

    *LGBTQ HAS LEFT THE CHAT*

    • @transfornation3187
      @transfornation3187 5 років тому +102

      You forgot 50 extra letters.

    • @kayceeprag
      @kayceeprag 5 років тому +16

      You forgot to add the I and A. 😂

    • @tuxmode
      @tuxmode 4 роки тому +47

      It's LGBTQABCDEFHIJKMNOPRSUVWXYZ

    • @lelexoxo303
      @lelexoxo303 4 роки тому +32

      James Jucutan Keyboard smash doesn't get you anywhere. Just say LGBT+, done.
      LGBTQIA+ for long. Tadaaaa, magic.

    • @jaylolo3716
      @jaylolo3716 4 роки тому +12

      @@lelexoxo303 it's not keyboard smash..it's alphabetical

  • @nakulkathare3556
    @nakulkathare3556 2 роки тому +4

    FANTASTIC VIDEO … I did understand everything but here I am still SINGLE 😂

  • @marysullivan2884
    @marysullivan2884 4 роки тому +8

    Nothing to do with content random rant warning - this college is in the middle of NOWHERE! I used to do their audit when I worked with PWC in the 00s. I spent my entire month of August in this empty college town for four years - needless to say myself and my team spent a great deal of time all alone in the bar at the Best Western. I do not miss you St. Lawerence University. I really needed to get this out I’m sorry everyone.

  • @godsparticle7657
    @godsparticle7657 4 роки тому +16

    The pressure on the husbands who went home with their wives after this seminar. 😂

  • @kirtipurohit1237
    @kirtipurohit1237 4 роки тому +142

    the audience is so dead..I could literally imagine the audience just staring at me with no interactions ,no laughs and nothing .If it would have been me ..I'd literally die out of those glares from people

    • @myearsgotyouthsystem8802
      @myearsgotyouthsystem8802 4 роки тому +14

      That's what you call emotional attention, cause it's all about equality!

    • @alexv259
      @alexv259 4 роки тому +10

      See, because of the subject matter the presenter was talking about, Kirti expected, very incorrectly, to see the audience breathing faster (as not “so dead”) with lots of moaning😧

    • @alvinzady764
      @alvinzady764 4 роки тому

      yeah how are you?

    • @Akashnow
      @Akashnow 4 роки тому +8

      They are relating the talk to themselves 😁

    • @anmolpandey9173
      @anmolpandey9173 4 роки тому

      Yeah

  • @abuxxx3607
    @abuxxx3607 4 роки тому +61

    her boyfriend is the luckiest! she will be the commander during the act!

  • @SreyRc
    @SreyRc 4 роки тому +33

    Was rather insightful! It takes courage to talk about these topics upfront. Props to her for the lecture!

  • @N8_R
    @N8_R 5 років тому +48

    0:24 How did she not laugh at that pun in front of all those people?

  • @snehabhat4876
    @snehabhat4876 3 роки тому +87

    We need more discussions like this 🔥

    • @viperbite-g
      @viperbite-g 3 роки тому

      yes!

    • @peerzadaraies4028
      @peerzadaraies4028 3 роки тому

      Absolutely yes.. Where from u

    • @volodymyrzakolodyazhny
      @volodymyrzakolodyazhny 3 роки тому

      And, possinly, practice and laboratory works? )

    • @SaiKiran-en2zm
      @SaiKiran-en2zm 2 роки тому +2

      Wah re wahhh!!!
      🤪😜
      Yeah absolutely we're educating ourselves and driven by passion for learning new ideas and deep diving into it ...🤝

    • @alostacet
      @alostacet Рік тому

      @@peerzadaraies4028 india from she .

  • @stephenjablonsky1941
    @stephenjablonsky1941 3 роки тому +4

    Hey guys: If you treat a woman like a queen, she will treat you like a king.

  • @Ouhlyh
    @Ouhlyh 2 роки тому +49

    A lot of women are bad at saying what they like. For me, I always focus on the women having a good time too, because I don’t have a good time unless they do too.

    • @Andre-hm5vo
      @Andre-hm5vo 2 роки тому +4

      Sir join MGTOW it's for the greater good for true sanity in this dysfunctional world.

    • @umeshvaid8801
      @umeshvaid8801 2 роки тому +1

      I agree 👍 bro, best of luck 🤠🤞 to everyone, for better Fun

    • @jonvicmamon2529
      @jonvicmamon2529 5 місяців тому +2

      Women doesn't know what they want.

    • @Cortez0
      @Cortez0 4 місяці тому

      @@Andre-hm5voI agree. How has it improved your life overall ?

    • @Cortez0
      @Cortez0 4 місяці тому

      @@Andre-hm5voAgreed

  • @shubhamyadav160
    @shubhamyadav160 4 роки тому +13

    I don't know why Google recommended me this even when it knows that I'm single

  • @mihills4168
    @mihills4168 4 роки тому +22

    three words, stamina excitement and the "magic touch" finding the fulfillment satisfaction point.

  • @lesliegurley1057
    @lesliegurley1057 2 роки тому +111

    When it comes to that pressure to have vaginally orgasm, believe me there is pressure on men to make that happen as well. If we are wanting to change societal expectations on women to have a vaginally orgasm we need to change the expectation on men to give her one. A man who fails to do so is typically viewed by society as not being much of a man, even by women.

    • @0114mercury
      @0114mercury 2 роки тому +7

      "A man who fails to do so is viewed as not being much of a man" - who said that? Never heard of this before.

    • @lesliegurley1057
      @lesliegurley1057 2 роки тому +13

      @0114mercury how many times have you heard a man bragging about "banging her so good she never came"? Or when was the last time you heard a woman talking about a guy "rocking her world so good she didn't get off at all"? The truth is you have probably never heard either of those things, and if you have you are definitely one of an astronomically infinitesimal number of people who have, like you and maybe enough others to count on one finger if that many. So, like I said, there is tremendous pressure on men to make it happen.

    • @Dave-x8j
      @Dave-x8j 2 роки тому +6

      @@0114mercury r u kidding???? This is a historic standard. And a man who cant, it so looked down upon. Really?

    • @threestars2164
      @threestars2164 8 місяців тому +3

      Completely imaginary. There is no more pressure on men than there is on women.

  • @aliciawei4809
    @aliciawei4809 5 років тому +10

    This is so true. The focus and expectation is that men feel good, and many men are unwilling to put enough effort into learning what gives women true pleasure. Because oftentimes when women feel good, this isn’t as physically stimulating to men. And since women are mostly willing to accept this pleasure disparity, this just renforces the norm.

  • @shadowboxing1729
    @shadowboxing1729 6 років тому +301

    With my Peter Griffin's voice "Go on..."

    • @johnnycalvino7490
      @johnnycalvino7490 6 років тому +6

      LoFi Hiphop Channel With my Quagmire voice "giggidy giggidy giggidy".

    • @tomterah2566
      @tomterah2566 6 років тому +3

      I approve of this message.

    • @nak3dxsnake
      @nak3dxsnake 6 років тому

      Hahahaha right. I wish she put her email up.

    • @NewLife-qj9mx
      @NewLife-qj9mx 4 роки тому

      LOL

  • @h.fenrus2405
    @h.fenrus2405 4 роки тому +46

    Teach your partner & offer positive yet constructive criticism so that you can help each other. Be vocal & if something isn't happening in real time be respectful to one another & let them know what's happening.

  • @TebohoMosepele-i4d
    @TebohoMosepele-i4d День тому

    Amazing topic the prof has.

  • @magicsinglez
    @magicsinglez 5 років тому +233

    Haha. . .my girlfriend stood up really tall and TOLD me. There’s something more you’re going to have to do down there. . .

  • @krishnabasnet7352
    @krishnabasnet7352 4 роки тому +121

    So I am basically collecting theoretical knowledge before practical... 💘💘💘

  • @Mr.Coldfire421
    @Mr.Coldfire421 6 років тому +1101

    I'm just here because I'm looking for my pet garry, anyone see him?

    • @tubbysza
      @tubbysza 5 років тому +15

      Yeah, I found him in this video suprisingly at 9:11

    • @user-pm6uq3nc4s
      @user-pm6uq3nc4s 5 років тому +21

      Spongebob, It has been one year you wrote this comment, I'm worried, have you found your Garry? Lemme know, Thanks.

    • @christislord7003
      @christislord7003 4 роки тому +6

      Hes in the third row and he said this was his problem for a long time coz you were negecting his needs. 🤣

    • @ramiro94g
      @ramiro94g 4 роки тому +1

      He’s under a rock

    • @Ozen-eu8wb
      @Ozen-eu8wb 4 роки тому +1

      Did you find it mate?

  • @psicolinamx
    @psicolinamx 5 місяців тому +1

    Wonderful topic. Excellent speaker. And great invitation to consider: True gender equality.

  • @davidchristian2368
    @davidchristian2368 3 роки тому +106

    It’s sad that so many men don’t know that the greatest pleasure is giving pleasure.

    • @vk92007
      @vk92007 3 роки тому +1

      Ja na I couldn't agree with more on that!

    • @ChristThroughTheLens
      @ChristThroughTheLens 3 роки тому

      Lmao spoken by a man I'd bet a million dollars is circumcised

  • @junrebs
    @junrebs 6 років тому +741

    Good talk but it would be better if she prepared visuals of what she was talking.

    • @acrowd9796
      @acrowd9796 6 років тому +7

      thats what she said

    • @XXxDarkGotenxXX
      @XXxDarkGotenxXX 6 років тому +27

      Love this comment

    • @zvck808
      @zvck808 6 років тому +28

      I know, what you did there ;)

    • @tanmayp1692
      @tanmayp1692 6 років тому +3

      U need a manual well ur partner is the manual listen and explore together she knows what she wants just read the signs just like treasure hunt hot and cold

    • @rutheragonoy2062
      @rutheragonoy2062 6 років тому +5

      Doodle Master watch it on cornhub

  • @tambell6270
    @tambell6270 6 років тому +536

    She reminded me of the young girl in “ The Incredibles” movie. 🤗🤗

    • @thomaswhite4231
      @thomaswhite4231 5 років тому +30

      Violet. Oddly enough, her parents first super suits were red and blue... which makes violet.

    • @Userykp
      @Userykp 4 роки тому +3

      Haha 😂

    • @josephyoung1803
      @josephyoung1803 4 роки тому

      @@thomaswhite4231 hey Googleqqaqa~~₩

    • @radityomuhamad2526
      @radityomuhamad2526 4 роки тому

      Damn bro! That's right

    • @cutiejoy12
      @cutiejoy12 4 роки тому

      Hahahaha

  • @atmaram1038
    @atmaram1038 2 роки тому +2

    Wonderful speech. Highly illuminating

  • @aussiekelamate4609
    @aussiekelamate4609 4 роки тому +14

    I'm waiting for my game to be updated whilst watching this , Wohooo

  • @waraksabalak2500
    @waraksabalak2500 4 роки тому +42

    I dont care what shes talking about but I like the way she's explain.

  • @nellynguma
    @nellynguma 2 роки тому +12

    Wow, she's so eloquent. Loved the entire Ted talk. Very insightful 👏👏

  • @johnnywalker91
    @johnnywalker91 3 роки тому +2

    it was a good discussion, i would like to point just one thing. Men and women are one species not two different. Men and women are equal. These differences of gender, colour, country are just mental boundaries existentially they do not exist. we need to treat everyone equally whether it's Men , Women or any other life form. We all are equal, we all are life, we all are conciousness. Down with all the differences.

  • @newgen2898
    @newgen2898 4 роки тому +39

    TRUST ME, EVERYONE'S SINGLE HERE

    • @zschow9259
      @zschow9259 4 роки тому

      fergot ta change fb relationshi[p status

    • @inspectorlunge3887
      @inspectorlunge3887 4 роки тому

      @New Gen UA-cam could also be deleting non-singles' comments as part of a social experiment. They are known to do things like that.

  • @leticialopes769
    @leticialopes769 4 роки тому +39

    it's so sad that the majority of the comment section is literaly from guys that should've learned something from the talk but didn't give a f

    • @conscious_competence3703
      @conscious_competence3703 4 роки тому +4

      Im trying to understand it because i think shes making good points.

    • @nordlyssrlys6945
      @nordlyssrlys6945 4 роки тому +2

      Maybe you're wrong

    • @echastee
      @echastee 4 роки тому +4

      Their takeaway: women better let us know
      Real takeaway: men should be making orgasm an equal priority and some women won't ask because they don't feel comfortable.

  • @NoJeansBob
    @NoJeansBob 3 роки тому +57

    I thought this was incredibly well presented. I was impressed by the arguments made for aiming for equity in pleasure shared, but also by her grammar. These days, it's ever more difficult to listen to anyone speak who doesn't say "like" 500 times, but this woman did the English language proud. Very eloquent, very articulate, and indeed I would agree that irrespective of the observable truth that it is easier in general for a man to reach orgasm than a woman, the intention to please each other should be equal to intention of taking pleasure. The tryst should not be wholly satisfying to a man who only cares about his own orgasm, and vice-versa.

    • @carolgeorge6409
      @carolgeorge6409 2 роки тому

      Agree about the “like”

    • @kumarsuresh1972
      @kumarsuresh1972 Рік тому

      I thought this 10 day enjoy funny tests no tests u yes pleasure Inquiry

  • @abdulhakeemabdulhabeeb7396
    @abdulhakeemabdulhabeeb7396 2 роки тому +2

    Amazing passage ♥️👏🏿👏🏿

  • @alanbhattarai
    @alanbhattarai 4 роки тому +10

    I need these types of students(Audience) when i teach about reporoductive system

  • @20MinutesCZ
    @20MinutesCZ 3 роки тому +131

    Loved it. So true. So on point. And the confidence on stage is amazing to watch.

  • @I_Am_AI_007
    @I_Am_AI_007 4 роки тому +41

    Everyone's silently trying to figure out how should me and my bae do this, right?

  • @ymous7051
    @ymous7051 4 роки тому +1

    she won hearts u know!

  • @riwajchalise8317
    @riwajchalise8317 6 років тому +213

    End of Third-wave feminism and beginning of fourth! Lot to learn though!

    • @samanvay794
      @samanvay794 6 років тому

      Didn't it already start in 2012

    • @defoperator7993
      @defoperator7993 6 років тому +19

      Riwaj Chalise and the white knights aren’t leaving either lol

    • @panhradu
      @panhradu 6 років тому

      I dont care which wabe it is. I still dont gas.

    • @riwajchalise8317
      @riwajchalise8317 6 років тому

      Def Operator lol they are next year!

    • @Meditatum101
      @Meditatum101 6 років тому

      Probs still 3rd with a hint of insight. Nothing new here

  • @kundanmishra1792
    @kundanmishra1792 4 роки тому +72

    How many teenager are there like me😁.

    • @DIGGY161
      @DIGGY161 4 роки тому +6

      Chup reh

    • @athuld357
      @athuld357 4 роки тому +3

      Ni oru kundan thenne

  • @rishabhroy7740
    @rishabhroy7740 4 роки тому +33

    Summary::
    She was just again talking about equality.....

  • @foreverlivinggood
    @foreverlivinggood 2 роки тому

    The best video I have watched in my entire life

  • @naman8769
    @naman8769 6 років тому +557

    Awful silence in room whole time😅😂

  • @swisstrader
    @swisstrader 4 роки тому +24

    Maybe I’m just an old dude at this stage, but I knew all of this already

    • @Freakazoid12345
      @Freakazoid12345 4 роки тому +2

      What are we supposed to learn from some kid anyway?

    • @sattyre6892
      @sattyre6892 4 роки тому +12

      @@Freakazoid12345 That kid is a woman, with woman parts. Maybe you should have taken some notes.

    • @Freakazoid12345
      @Freakazoid12345 4 роки тому +3

      @@sattyre6892 tell me more about these, "woman parts".

    • @gusidichaitanya176
      @gusidichaitanya176 4 роки тому +1

      @@Freakazoid12345 Google it

    • @Freakazoid12345
      @Freakazoid12345 4 роки тому

      @@gusidichaitanya176 I did and I regret it.

  • @ismailimran1357
    @ismailimran1357 5 років тому +13

    watching this at different speeds was fun!

  • @Michael-mh2tw
    @Michael-mh2tw 2 роки тому +2

    'The claim that the female orgasm is just as natural and should be just as expected as the male orgasm is a controversial one'
    No, it isn't. Stop making up controversies so you have something to talk about.

  • @janhvinarayan1633
    @janhvinarayan1633 Рік тому +19

    This was so well thought and spoken, not everyone likes to talk on these subjects but she did and she did it quite well, hats off to her and I hope she or other speakers will come up with more videos like this 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @shyambalehosur5903
    @shyambalehosur5903 4 роки тому +8

    You r so brave, thank you sharing information🙌

  • @teddybear7853
    @teddybear7853 3 роки тому +17

    Men who would care about women's pleasure might not always be the most confident communicative guys who put us quiet ones into shadow

    • @nomadsland8322
      @nomadsland8322 3 роки тому +2

      Bruh if you’ve read replies here plenty of the women are saying they can’t be bothered to tell their men what they want in bed cause “he should just know”. I wouldn’t hedge our bets on them suddenly thinking “hmm maybe the quiet guys are the ones who would actually listen to and pleasure me”. They largely have that same attitude even if they like us, “he should just know and come talk to me”.

  • @vidyavrattaak
    @vidyavrattaak 2 роки тому +4

    informative... helpful..... very good guide.... loved it... 💯....😊👌👍

  • @aishwarya7173
    @aishwarya7173 6 років тому +28

    If there is one person who doesn't care about anyone than it is Biology.

  • @WorldofFusion360
    @WorldofFusion360 6 років тому +13

    Thanks for the clear explanation .
    From this I got to what it is? and why it is?

  • @samu-ido0825
    @samu-ido0825 3 роки тому +22

    I think most of women fear to ask what they want while men always ask for it .

  • @abhishekmsful
    @abhishekmsful 3 роки тому +2

    3:33 why there is a pause
    Did I miss something????