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  • Опубліковано 7 гру 2022
  • The plaintiff says he moved in with the defendant two weeks after they began dating, and she even changed her last name to his on social media. He says he moved out after three months, but he’s suing for unreturned property and an illegal eviction. The defendant insists her ex moved in after two months but then kicked her door in. She’s countersuing for two unpaid loans, damaged property, and emotional distress.
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  • @araineacutebrownnurse7315
    @araineacutebrownnurse7315 Рік тому +1189

    No one falls in love faster than a man with no place to live

  • @khorediathiam1976
    @khorediathiam1976 Рік тому +691

    I’m weak. He really said she was moving too fast but moved in with her😭

  • @scottrogue946
    @scottrogue946 Рік тому +874

    When people repeat back a question you just asked them, they are buying time to think of a lie 🤥 😂

  • @conniechoward
    @conniechoward Рік тому +522

    If someone wants to move in with you within 30 days of knowing you, they are homeless or on the verge of being homeless.

    • @vatricegeorge
      @vatricegeorge Рік тому +1

      Or in the military, do not want to stay in the barracks and willing to use their baq to pay the ladies rent. Living in a military town I've seen this so much. I find it crazy not knowing the men well but I know folks who do it and marry them in a few months.

    • @theghettocinderella
      @theghettocinderella Рік тому +15

      & on top of that she knew he was living with a female ALREADY during their talking stage…she ignored the red flags smh

    • @floridagirl386
      @floridagirl386 Рік тому +3

      @@vatricegeorge baq?

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 Рік тому

      The other woman is stupid????

    • @antoinette1985lynn
      @antoinette1985lynn Рік тому +12

      Yup once they start to realize the woman they are with is getting tired of him he starts looking for a new victim and keeps going thru the same cycle
      He probably has about 9 women a year

  • @terry4161
    @terry4161 Рік тому +764

    Never move in with a person that has never lived on their own and is over the age of 30.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому +61

      Or never move in with anyone you’re not married to

    • @veronicastigger7947
      @veronicastigger7947 Рік тому +17

      @@Proverbspsalms made that mistake but we are now married so it worked out for me 😁

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому +15

      @@veronicastigger7947 sometimes it does. However, I’m confused as to if it was a mistake, but yet it worked out.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Рік тому +15

      @@veronicastigger7947 Are you saying it worked out because you are now married or because he straightened up his act and became a provider?

    • @veronicastigger7947
      @veronicastigger7947 Рік тому +6

      @@Proverbspsalms I meant we have our son before marriage sorry about the confusion

  • @MsYBBG
    @MsYBBG Рік тому +262

    So he had no job, no place to live, and no vehicle. He moved in with her within two weeks and said SHE was moving too fast? Lol
    Boooooyyyyy the audacity.

    • @pharoh32
      @pharoh32 Рік тому +20

      They both are crazy

    • @tj4970
      @tj4970 Рік тому +11

      Ya when he said that I was like you moved in with HER🤷🏽‍♀️😂

    • @cosmiccoachingandsolpsychi4553
      @cosmiccoachingandsolpsychi4553 Рік тому +23

      @@pharoh32 she's not crazy. She's vulnerable. There's a huge difference.

    • @bludiva27
      @bludiva27 Рік тому +14

      After getting kicked out his last woman's house.

    • @pharoh32
      @pharoh32 Рік тому +9

      @@cosmiccoachingandsolpsychi4553 she moved in a man she hardly knew into her home. Where I’m from that’s crazy behavior.

  • @pharoh32
    @pharoh32 Рік тому +613

    Women stop doing this it never works out in your favor.

  • @filmtressmu8552
    @filmtressmu8552 Рік тому +921

    He tells the judge, "We moved in together." WRONG, he moved into her place. I love how we as women learn how 'Scrubs' operate by watching these court shows. She is correct, "He IS a bum that uses women." Now, on top of all that misery and using her, he gets $2000 dollars. I'm taking notes. Never move a desperate man into my home.

    • @urnotfromvictimville2543
      @urnotfromvictimville2543 Рік тому +69

      I'ma dude and can't agree with you more

    • @brennenjones6658
      @brennenjones6658 Рік тому +56

      I agree with you wholeheartedly. Keep the hobosexuals away at all costs but where she messed up at was that she should have simply boxed his stuff up and had it ready by the front door.
      He pulls up, you put his stuff outside and keep it moving.
      Oftentimes emotions get the best of people in these situations when there was an easy resolution in the first place.

    • @SamuelsReview
      @SamuelsReview Рік тому +28

      I'm learning ANY man, desperate or not. 😂

    • @melyndaduh3501
      @melyndaduh3501 Рік тому +4

      @@SamuelsReview
      Good for you. 🤗

    • @queencharlibee1991
      @queencharlibee1991 Рік тому +1

      She knew he was a bum when he moved in, don't talk about him now that yall separated. U knew he was a bum when he was in ya guts and in ya fridge, knock it tf off lady.

  • @missbae_
    @missbae_ Рік тому +272

    That dude don’t give a DAMN about that lady, not even as a friend smh

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 Рік тому +22

      He dnt give a damn ab his own life.

    • @trullypretti
      @trullypretti Рік тому

      She don’t give a damn about her self

    • @aprillotts2781
      @aprillotts2781 Рік тому +5

      He just needed somewhere to flounce his azz 🙄

  • @tratrazy1633
    @tratrazy1633 Рік тому +281

    I wish she would've went to Judge Judy he wouldn't have got shit.

    • @slimdeleon6732
      @slimdeleon6732 Рік тому

      damn you salty? lol

    • @tratrazy1633
      @tratrazy1633 Рік тому +21

      @@slimdeleon6732 Nah but yo m....... nevermind 🙄

    • @z3nkin
      @z3nkin Рік тому +34

      @@tratrazy1633 These three trash bag carrying dusty will always protect their own.

    • @RiseofPhoenix
      @RiseofPhoenix Рік тому +4

      @@tratrazy1633 😂😂😂

    • @healingheartsministry8602
      @healingheartsministry8602 Рік тому

      But she didn't and she gave him the 2000 and continuously called and stalked him afterwards. I know for a fact she did.

  • @myraclez7612
    @myraclez7612 Рік тому +232

    Can I sue for emotional distress after hearing this case?

  • @ceporah6233
    @ceporah6233 Рік тому +475

    She gave a stranger a key to her house and her car 🤷🏽‍♀️ Idk why women do this. Hopefully this was a learning lesson for her.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому +5

      Probably not

    • @King_Solomon215
      @King_Solomon215 Рік тому +34

      She most likely didn't learn a thing. She lonely and desperate. The next fake knight in shining armor that comes along will probably use her the same. I pray she goes to counseling and heals from her trauma. It's making her make poor decisions in life

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому +6

      @@King_Solomon215 exactly! They never learn. They just move onto the next.

    • @deejai1173
      @deejai1173 Рік тому

      Desperate as hell

    • @jtracyrobinson
      @jtracyrobinson Рік тому +13

      You know why women make decisions like this. She wanted a man or a piece of a man.

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 Рік тому +93

    I wish someone would be borrowing my car and not bring it back when I say so.
    “Hello, police? I’d like to report a stolen vehicle.”

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Рік тому +215

    He definitely kicked that lady door in !! But did she really list HIM as her emergency contact? He can’t even depend on himself lol

    • @Valencia5_11
      @Valencia5_11 Рік тому +15

      Right 😂😂😂😂 and with no car how the hell is he gonna get to the emergency 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @YAHsaves777
      @YAHsaves777 Рік тому +16

      It’s sad she had no other support

    • @kiawilliams5541
      @kiawilliams5541 Рік тому +5

      Yessss! This is the comment I've been waiting for😁. My thoughts exactly!

    • @krisredlee
      @krisredlee Рік тому +6

      She really thought she found the one. I hope she recovered well.

    • @crystaljackson6366
      @crystaljackson6366 Рік тому +4

      I feel so bad for her.

  • @dannykchanell_
    @dannykchanell_ Рік тому +265

    HE DEFINITELY KICKED THAT WOMEN'S DOOR IN

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 Рік тому +7

      No proof at all 😂😂😂😂

    • @urluvizmyluv1999
      @urluvizmyluv1999 Рік тому +1

      I think when he put his key in and saw the chain was on he probably rattled the door but he lived there and she had no business having the chain on from the inside. He still should be responsible for the repair.

    • @julianiwhite
      @julianiwhite Рік тому +6

      Naw lol she lied about that. He had the key + she said the chain was on. We saw in the picture that chain was in pristine condition 😂 and from experience that’s not how it would look. The only thing that was messed up was a large wood chip.

    • @emonyahurtado9606
      @emonyahurtado9606 Рік тому +2

      Yes he did...and he got all his belongings escorted with the police

    • @dionerhodes1308
      @dionerhodes1308 Рік тому +1

      She shud of just put all his mess outside & been done with it. 4 some reason some ppl love drama. 🙄

  • @pache7216
    @pache7216 Рік тому +142

    living off a woman driving her car, then have the nerve to complain about the relationship is moving too fast,,, she owns u playa!!!

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 Рік тому +4

      Well she allowed it. Now she gotta pay 2000 lol

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Рік тому +1

      A dust 19 all I see😒

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 Рік тому +9

      @@kayshawnsimmons5585 but so many women know the guy is dusty from the rip but still move him in. Then when it’s over they try to clown the guy but knew upfront what he was about from day 1

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Рік тому +5

      @@deon3133 Believing they can help him get on his feet. Thinking all he needs is a good woman to lift him up. If women stop wanting to help it will save a lot of head and heart ache

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 Рік тому +2

      @@kayshawnsimmons5585 she so much of a good woman that when he was trying to get his stuff she wouldn’t let him.

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 Рік тому +301

    “We moved in together.” No sir, you were about to be put out and needed a place to stay so YOU moved in with her. How is she “moving too fast” but you had no issue coming to live with her after a few weeks? I’m glad JM called him on his nonsense

    • @MZSEQUOYA
      @MZSEQUOYA Рік тому +21

      @MINA E. YASS! I knew JM was gonna go there with DUDE. JM can't stand no BUM ASS MAN, LIVING OFF WOMEN! He ALWAYS calls that BS out!

    • @ms.ashley999
      @ms.ashley999 Рік тому +6

      Exactly this!

    • @Kemelya
      @Kemelya Рік тому +4

      Right

    • @Thisismyhandle423
      @Thisismyhandle423 Рік тому

      Translation: She was good enough for a place to stay and some sex here and there, but I’m not all that into her and she was trying to be exclusive

    • @bethanyyates1138
      @bethanyyates1138 9 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @LeolaGlamour
    @LeolaGlamour Рік тому +204

    I screamed when he admitted to being a couch bum 😂😭

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Рік тому +19

      Just another begging dusty who acting like she need him😒😒

    • @desxo9089
      @desxo9089 Рік тому +8

      rightttt talking abt he here and there🤣🤣🤣

    • @temdailey
      @temdailey Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @candyjones4499
      @candyjones4499 Рік тому +2

      Yes i knew he was a hobosexual when he first walked in court

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Рік тому +2

      @@candyjones4499 he does emote the hobo Vibe

  • @misterbee66
    @misterbee66 Рік тому +214

    It is funny that the judge says that he can only grant judgments based on the law when he is biased on many occasions; he does not always grant judgments based on the law.

    • @labremoore
      @labremoore Рік тому +24

      Don't you hate that? But yet we are still tuning in smh

    • @biggchill8176
      @biggchill8176 Рік тому +10

      man you just told some truth

    • @biggchill8176
      @biggchill8176 Рік тому +28

      @@labremoore i tune in for the crazy people and stories not because JM gives fair judgements

    • @elwin38
      @elwin38 Рік тому +1

      @@biggchill8176 🤣🤣😆😆

    • @jasminej6281
      @jasminej6281 Рік тому +21

      He judges based his emotions he was already annoyed with her and was short the whole time. Yes she’s slow but no need to be so worked up

  • @Bloombaby99
    @Bloombaby99 Рік тому +40

    The men in our community are so lucky to have women so willing to take care of them like children but let them tell it, their lives are so hard....😂

    • @timothyjacob6381
      @timothyjacob6381 5 місяців тому +1

      Graduated college, grad school, pharmacy school and have been a practicing professional for 18 years making 205K last year. And, so do many of the black men in my circle. Perhaps you meet what you attract and by your comments filled with generalizations, perhaps the only men you attract are these said “children/men” as good black men like me and millions of others want nothing to do with the likes of you. Okie dokie. Think that covers everything. 🙄

  • @fwb1012
    @fwb1012 Рік тому +85

    18 months she was building herself back up from an abusive relationship and then jump into another relationship with a BUM🤦🏾‍♀️ When will they learn?🙄

    • @mckinneymisses78
      @mckinneymisses78 Рік тому +4

      Yeah because atp she should have just chilled and took it super slow..with anyone 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @fwb1012
      @fwb1012 Рік тому +3

      @@mckinneymisses78 Yes she should have

    • @JM_HUh
      @JM_HUh Рік тому +4

      I wish ppl weren’t afraid of being single. I always need 3-5 business years between relationships 🥴 u can have fun but stop having kids & “relationships” with everyone who comes along

    • @fwb1012
      @fwb1012 Рік тому +3

      @@JM_HUh Yes!! They would learn so much about themselves if they just take some time to be alone.

    • @JM_HUh
      @JM_HUh Рік тому +2

      @@fwb1012 exactly!! Ppl don’t even know what they want or who they are but expect others to 🥴

  • @traciemartin3785
    @traciemartin3785 Рік тому +361

    It's so sad how this man used this woman repeatedly, because he's too lazy to take care of himself, and in the end he's able to get even more out of her without proof of how much his clothes & things were worth. It seems he's playing on her, because she's seems to be a bit slower than normal. I pray she learns from her mistake. Smh.

    • @convowithashnicole
      @convowithashnicole Рік тому +24

      I mean by golly geesh, just look at the homeless man hoodie🤦🏽‍♀️Speaks Volumes

    • @Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol
      @Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol Рік тому +12

      🙈🙉It's sad how she she didn't show him the door or the window in the beginning,she's a prime example of damage goods=Stray dog looking 4 love,take anything😂

    • @pookulj
      @pookulj Рік тому +34

      .....I feel bad for her but, why date a man with no job, money or a place of his own. He had 3 strikes from the beginning and she ignored the signs

    • @jessicatobias9371
      @jessicatobias9371 Рік тому

      @@Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol truth 😆😆😆

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Рік тому +8

      JM taught her an expensive lesson. I wish she didn’t play herself.

  • @rimixbyricomusiq
    @rimixbyricomusiq Рік тому +127

    She ‘s been through a lot 😢

    • @m.waymire
      @m.waymire Рік тому +10

      With this one she only has herself to blame.

    • @cc3956
      @cc3956 Рік тому

      I wanted to hear her back story, look like she was snot

    • @1stisraelitessweetness17
      @1stisraelitessweetness17 Рік тому +4

      Yes, she have been threw alot, looking past the bs, she's strong have a great heart, as well, she'll get threw anything. Blesses to her🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽, and your comment brought me to comment Lol! God Bless you as well, peace. 💜🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @kayk2899
      @kayk2899 2 місяці тому

      @@m.waymireI agree she should be held accountable for her actions. And he too should be held accountable for preying on her and taking advantage of someone who is a domestic abuse survivor. He is a user, he picks his victims and uses them for his advantage.

  • @misslornamae
    @misslornamae Рік тому +55

    This guy is a career user

  • @1234532785
    @1234532785 Рік тому +144

    It's clear that he used this woman. I hope she finds self love soon.

    • @AkinolaWilliams
      @AkinolaWilliams Рік тому

      He didn’t use her.

    • @kscott8479
      @kscott8479 Рік тому +3

      @@AkinolaWilliams AND DID 🤣🤣

    • @AkinolaWilliams
      @AkinolaWilliams Рік тому

      @@kscott8479 no he didn’t. She got sex out of him and also wanted to steal his name to use as a married woman. There is no greater betrayal than that

    • @vatricegeorge
      @vatricegeorge Рік тому

      He did but she chose to date him. I'm sure men who are more suitable for her have pursued her, she's running around chasing a man she thinks looks good or got swag.

    • @tratrazy1633
      @tratrazy1633 Рік тому +1

      She needs to love herself first.

  • @belleame1064
    @belleame1064 Рік тому +48

    Judge revealed who he was to everyone in less than 2 minutes. Women, it's important that we ask relevant questions and listen to the response. Please stop attempting to nurture grown men. Support and nurture are two different things. Fix yourself, Everything else will fall in place.

  • @AngelRenee88
    @AngelRenee88 Рік тому +19

    He got uncomfortable with her changing her name on social media saying she was moving too fast but moving into her home wasn’t moving too fast?

  • @isaidwhatisaid2750
    @isaidwhatisaid2750 Рік тому +46

    "Me and her hit it off.".. ie: He found a dummy.
    🤡🤡🤡🤡

  • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
    @Rainsnowreadysetblow Рік тому +56

    I don't know how ppl move in with each other so soon. Any little noise and I jump, let alone having a whole stranger in my house. To each their own but NO.

    • @Crystal-Love
      @Crystal-Love Рік тому +4

      And he’s driving her car 🙄

    • @coolmoneymitch1046
      @coolmoneymitch1046 Рік тому +1

      Lmao @ - any little noise I jump let alone a whole stranger in there!! Lol

  • @3smiles3
    @3smiles3 Рік тому +69

    He wanna mooch but not have any real ties to a woman smh

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 Рік тому +19

      Or ties to a job, a car, reality, adulthood or responsibility in general

    • @3smiles3
      @3smiles3 Рік тому +2

      @@K_Cole0128 facts

    • @kunaiuchia5926
      @kunaiuchia5926 Рік тому +1

      Probably making his next move on the next woman smh gone from 5pm-8am? No job, and she was allowing it? Silly, Silly Rabbit 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @thejah-rican-queen946
    @thejah-rican-queen946 Рік тому +32

    He gets to live for free and sue smh

  • @keyunadeshay5259
    @keyunadeshay5259 Рік тому +101

    Judge: What you do with your place ?
    Plantiff: I’m sorry ?
    We already know where judge was going with this 1 minute in 😂

  • @eyegettit3535
    @eyegettit3535 Рік тому +192

    I love how judge Mathis trapped him up to confess he was a Hobosexual (homeless male seeking housing/room&board from a female)
    These kind of males are Just shameful smh...

    • @mitulu74
      @mitulu74 Рік тому +8

      🤣that part

    • @AkinolaWilliams
      @AkinolaWilliams Рік тому

      Why? He was providing a service

    • @supaacoopa6187
      @supaacoopa6187 Рік тому +11

      @@AkinolaWilliams what was he providing? A migraine & lawsuit

    • @marleonetti7
      @marleonetti7 Рік тому +10

      well i have noticed that only in the african american community are roles reversed , the females are the income and not the males . but its the opposite in all other cultures and communities .

    • @eyegettit3535
      @eyegettit3535 Рік тому

      @@marleonetti7 I wonder why ?

  • @TheBlacktygar
    @TheBlacktygar Рік тому +49

    Be careful what you ask for lol he wasn't ready but needed a place to stay

  • @adriennethomas5181
    @adriennethomas5181 Рік тому +18

    HE IS SO MESSY 🤣😂😅

  • @convowithashnicole
    @convowithashnicole Рік тому +22

    I said, "Self, this is gonna be a good one"!
    Myself said, "uhuh"🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

  • @CEOgpoole87
    @CEOgpoole87 Рік тому +23

    Nowhere to stay with a hat and shoe fetish

    • @eyegettit3535
      @eyegettit3535 Рік тому +7

      That might be the reason his homeless , his priorities is mixed up

  • @lareinanueva
    @lareinanueva Рік тому +92

    This is the MAJORITY of BM and I see it ALL THE TIME!Never have a place to call their own then move in on women and try to run things. Eating all your food, using up your utilities, wanting to drive your car and don't even PAY THE COST TO BE THE BOSS. Ladies leave these ninjas in the streets where they belong!

    • @lindawatts5731
      @lindawatts5731 Рік тому +19

      Don't forget they don't even put gas in the car, used up all the gas, then bring it home on empty, sad 😥 however women need to take responsibility also and quit inviting these losers to live off of you.

    • @DJ-vj4vi
      @DJ-vj4vi Рік тому +8

      Facts I stopped dating them.

    • @Shawn-ds9ug
      @Shawn-ds9ug Рік тому +1

      Wait a minute, sister, if the Majority of the BM you hang around are homeless bums, you need to check yourself. What attracts these kinds of men to you? Because as a black woman, the MAJORITY of BM I know are well educated and OWN their homes! My father owned his home and so did my uncles! Are there trifling BM out there, yes. This we know for sure! But there are PLENTY of trifling men in all races! Stay on code! I am a black woman, and I am proud of the black men I know. Desperate people do desperate things. Heal your soul, and men like this wont be attracted to you.

    • @scottrogue946
      @scottrogue946 Рік тому +13

      She tried to turn a homeboy into a husband. He for the streets 😂

    • @Lilyrose23
      @Lilyrose23 Рік тому +19

      You're either a self-hating black person or white racist passing for a black woman, but anyways labeling "the majority" of black men as this guy is ignorant. Being a bad person has nothing to do with race, bums exist in all colors, the problem is that some women/men refuse to acknowledge that there are men who'd rather not work, benefit from women in exchange of companionship.

  • @jamingjohnson2275
    @jamingjohnson2275 Рік тому +22

    I do not understand. How can someone with no job, paying no rent, can be illegally evicted?

    • @logent80
      @logent80 10 місяців тому +1

      She needed to give him a 30 day notice or if he really did kick in her door, she could have gave him an emergency eviction..

    • @TB-ev2hg
      @TB-ev2hg 10 місяців тому

      In most states, after 30 days a person is no longer classified as a guest but an occupant, a resident. You have to give at least a 30 day notice to evict them.

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 8 місяців тому

      Sqatters right after a month?

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Рік тому +21

    I can hear my gma and my mama now “ ain’t got a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of”
    It’s bad when you dnt own a pot to relieve yourself and dnt have a window to use to disposed of the urine.
    The defendant and the plaintiff both sound desperate and messy. The plaintiff probably makes a living off of suing for being illegally evicted.

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Рік тому +20

    Lord this man didn’t have a home, a job or a car. He still doesn’t have a home. He’s living from place to place

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Рік тому +10

      But acting like he a prize🤡🤛🏿

    • @brininahoward5445
      @brininahoward5445 Рік тому +3

      @@kayshawnsimmons5585 These Kings that they talk about so much. Ridiculous!

  • @TheBlacktygar
    @TheBlacktygar Рік тому +33

    We got to do better brothers and take her ourselves and stop moving in with those women

    • @miagillespie3497
      @miagillespie3497 Рік тому +17

      I agree more black men need to step up and take their place and be true men take responsibility. Get your shit together and stop using these desperate women.

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Рік тому +68

    I don’t believe many parents are raising their sons to be responsible members of society. When I met my husband he had his own place, graduated from college and working. Don’t get it twisted!! I met men like the plaintiff in past but it starts when they’re young. He’s too old for excuses though ! Get your life together sir!!

    • @hillaryconsultingservices
      @hillaryconsultingservices Рік тому +3

      Some black raise their daughters and love their sons. My ex mom babies hums, takes from his sister to give him vehicles etc. while she catches the bus or Uber. I’ve been happily single post divorce.

    • @thepatrioarchy
      @thepatrioarchy Рік тому

      ​@@hillaryconsultingservices Bingo, single mothers are to blame. The original commenter did not want to call out the mother but quick to call me.

    • @deeniemediainc9959
      @deeniemediainc9959 Рік тому

      We are also failing at teaching our girls and young women how to vet men, understand the games they play, and normalize walking away w dignity when they see red flags. I ère phases on just getting m’en with no context or nuance or options.

    • @aprilhamilton3689
      @aprilhamilton3689 10 місяців тому

      He is a bum and didn’t deserve anything from the lady.

  • @EBMSCHOLARS
    @EBMSCHOLARS Рік тому +14

    He has been moving from one woman’s home to another for years? 😳😭🥶

  • @RachelReaiah
    @RachelReaiah Рік тому +28

    I almost fell out when he was honest about his housing situation. Honest about living off of people... well, he's honest.. she allowed herself to be taken advantage of. Man, we all want genuine love and sometimes have issues identifying the counterfeit.

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 6 місяців тому

      He wasn't honest about his living situation. JM had to pull the truth out with pliers 😂😂😂

  • @becky9231
    @becky9231 Рік тому +18

    The plantiff is a bed surfer..But he had $30 in his bank account.. He's a certified, fixer upper, like flipping a house.. Vehicle, housing, food, cash , emotional distress ETC..This is what happens when you allow someone to your table with a empty plate..🥺🙄

  • @MsBadshoe
    @MsBadshoe Рік тому +27

    Yeah we as woman need to love ourselves and do better take our time with men

  • @danettechavis
    @danettechavis Рік тому +18

    That's messed up! He just walked in there and lied and comes away with $2,000 AFTER making it plain right from the beginning that he jumps from "house to house" living off women??? That's a damn shame. How is it not "pain and suffering" if you in a state by yourself and ONLY person you know "cuts your phone off" knowing you were about to have "life threatening surgery"? The way that man operate he was probably "hoping like hell she died during surgery" so he could have her apartment for himself!! And how was evicted when he claims "they broke up" from the time he told her "I need a break"? So that was his decision to LEAVE not hers. So whatever rent he owed and was suppose pay when he got a job - is OWED and DUE! Because he also stated in court he is NOW EMPLOYED and living with various people and needs help. WHAT THE HELL WAS JUDGE MATHIS THINKING DURING THIS CASE!!? I Believe he DID kick the door in but I don't believe she told the TRUTH as to WHY he did it. Maybe that's the reason the judge didn't order him to pay for it. Because the truth would have sounded like this: "I got tired of his non-working black ass leaving here at 5pm every day and coming in 8, 9, and 11 a.m in the morning and I gotta get my ass up to take the chain off the door and let him in. That particularly morning, I decided to leave his black ass out there - and WOULDNT GET UP to OPEN THE DOOR and TAKE THE CHAIN OFF! He got mad and decided he was going to KICK THE DOOR IN AND THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HE DID!! HE CUSS ME OUT FOR NOT OPENING THE DOOR AND I SWORE I NEVER HEARD HIM KNOCKING I WAS IN SUCH A DEEP SLEEP. HE APOLOGIZED FOR HIS ANGER AND SAID HE THOUGHT I HAD A MAN IN THE BED WITH ME. HE TOLD ME HE WAS SORRY AND HE WOULD PAY FOR THE DAMAGE AND I BELIEVED HIM, UNTIL HE TOLD ME HE "NEEDED A BREAK" AND DECIDED TO LEAVE ME. HE WASN'T EVICTED IT WAS HIS DECISION TO LEAVE. HAD I EVICTED HIM ALL HIS THINGS WOULD HAVE BEEN OUTSIDE THE FRONT DOOR!! YES, I WAS HURT AND YES I CURSED HIM OUT AND THREATENED NOT TO GIVE HIM HIS BELONGINGS. BUT WHEN HE CAME TO MY HOUSE WITH THE COPS THE FIRST TIME, I DECIDED HE "AIN'T WORTH IT" AND HE'S NOT. HE GOT NOTHING I NEED NO WAY. SO, I PACKED UP ALL HIS THINGS AND WHEN HE CAME WITH THE COPS THE SECOND TIME HE TOOK HIS THINGS WITH THEM WHICH HE IN FACT STATED. THIS MAN WHO I TOOK INTO MY HOME, LET LAY IN MY BED WITH ME, WITHOUT A DIME EVER BEING GIVEN TOWARDS RENT, CARED SO LITTLE FOR ME - HE DIDN'T CARE IF I DIED IN THAT HOSPITAL DURING SURGERY. BUT TO CUT MY PHONE OFF SO THAT I COULDN'T REACH ANYBODY ELSE EVEN IF I WANTED TO, IS AS "LOW" AS YOU CAN GO. YOUR HONOR, EVEN A DOG DESERVES BETTER THAN THAT. YOUR HONOR, I DON'T WANT NOTHING FROM THIS MAN, OTHER THAN WHAT HE OWES ME AND WHAT HE OWES ME IS RENT - WHICH HE DID STATE WOULD BE PAID ONCE HE GOT A JOB. HE DIDN'T HAVE A JOB THEN BUT HE GOT ONE NOW. AND ACCORDING TO HIS OWN STATEMENT THAT'S WHEN HE WAS SUPPOSE TO PAY ME . JUDGE MATHIS, I REST MY CASE...Lol!!! THANK YOU...

    • @margearettarmstrong4779
      @margearettarmstrong4779 Рік тому

      Judge Mathis did right the only pain and suffering she needs and got was for being stupid you don't take care of grown men you take care of yourself and children 💞

  • @copperrose1506
    @copperrose1506 Рік тому +12

    Why is 2 weeks the magic number for move in, crazy

  • @PrettyColorsDoe
    @PrettyColorsDoe Рік тому +16

    What a pathetic excuse for a man! Practically a homeless munch & he got the nerve to say “I got a hat & shoe fetish.” EMBARRASSING! & the nerve of him to sue for an illegal eviction smh. Just sad!

  • @convowithashnicole
    @convowithashnicole Рік тому +15

    JM is freaking crazy y'all! He asked him, what happened to his place after he moved in with the defendant. Did the previous landlord let u off early🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's been a while since he had his own place🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm not doing this with the judge TUDDAY y'all

  • @TruestLovely
    @TruestLovely Рік тому +21

    He gives dl vibes....Imagine allowing a man to move in with you, especially at her wise age. I hope she learns from this relationship and the prior relationship.

  • @NubianP6
    @NubianP6 Рік тому +92

    ° *Jobless, car-less, about to be homeless guy she barely knows moves in with her after only a few weeks.*
    ° *Proceeds to borrow HER car to go and “hang out”…with his still unemployed self.*
    ° *She childishly changes her last name to his last name on Facebook, AND ignorantly makes him her emergency contact…all within this short period of time.*
    ° *She gives him $475, ”just to have money in his pocket”, because…he’s unemployed.*
    ° *He starts staying out all night…with HER car, and is allowed to just roll back up in the place at will. She tolerates it.*
    ° *Homeless dude now claims he “needs space”. She then proceeds to drop his car-less self off, so he can go lay up in somebody else’s space.*
    ° *Plaintiff gets “all up in her feelings” because homeless, car-less, jobless dude didn’t check on her after surgery, when truth-be-told, he couldn’t have cared less, and still doesn’t.*
    ° *Unemployed dude claims to have a “hat and shoe fetish”, despite not having a dedicated place to lay his head, or prop his feet.*
    ° *Plaintiff calls Tenisha “stupid”…just like she was”.*
    Moral of the story: People who are about to be put out of where they’re at “fall in love” REAL quick. Don’t be a sucker, and stop trying to create love where there is none.

    • @ew0711
      @ew0711 Рік тому +21

      This 👆🏽 right here, is the absolute truth 🙌🏽 💯 and I read every word of it 🤣😂🤣🤭

    • @savonhdtv268
      @savonhdtv268 Рік тому +12

      Gurl... And the church said Amen! You Betta preach sis!

    • @MrsDymples76
      @MrsDymples76 Рік тому +7

      ✅✅✅✅✅✅

    • @kynathomas4809
      @kynathomas4809 Рік тому +8

      🎤 dropped!

    • @m.waymire
      @m.waymire Рік тому +4

      Well thats what she wanted thats what she got.

  • @ericgreen6704
    @ericgreen6704 Рік тому +10

    This is a prime reason why you do not move in with someone that you barely know .

  • @mogetit5999
    @mogetit5999 Рік тому +29

    Expensive lesson to learn. I’m actually glad she lost, hopefully this is a wake up call.

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Рік тому +24

    JM was annoyed with both litigants 😂😂😂

  • @professionalgrade5999
    @professionalgrade5999 Рік тому +15

    Her picker is off I think she is a good woman which is so hard to find but she picks garbage. Listening to her last abusive relationship I hope she will find a good man that knows her worth.

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Рік тому +17

    This brother is irresponsible, unstable and should be avoided at all cost. If women expected more and placed reasonable demands on men we wouldn’t see repeat cases like this.

    • @theadvancedforce1017
      @theadvancedforce1017 Рік тому

      Seems like you bash brothas by default. Seems like you agree with sistas by default. You are the bias 1 here.

    • @leilah.janice4828
      @leilah.janice4828 9 місяців тому

      He’s a great father tho 🤭

  • @Ask4Alli
    @Ask4Alli Рік тому +6

    “Things were moving too fast” but you moved in with her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sir

  • @msmaam912
    @msmaam912 Рік тому +26

    I was stupid for one man, one time. It was fun lol but I’d never do it again. It was easy to sue her though, he found a duck. Even though he’s pathetic.

    • @msmaam912
      @msmaam912 Рік тому

      @Nero The Chosen lol I love you too 🤣🤣

  • @goodwill374
    @goodwill374 Рік тому +8

    2 minutes in and he already told us what type of guy he is

  • @siehop88
    @siehop88 Рік тому +15

    That karma gone hit him hard

  • @ericfrost7517
    @ericfrost7517 Рік тому +15

    2 weeks is way too early to be moving in with someone, still a stranger to you…how deep can you get to know someone in two weeks. People be silly

  • @Realist79
    @Realist79 Рік тому +20

    He's my 1st cousin, I have no words. Smh

    • @eugeniaboone5602
      @eugeniaboone5602 Рік тому +1

      The Realist Really? That's insane. He's always been that way.

    • @Realist79
      @Realist79 Рік тому +8

      @@eugeniaboone5602 Yes. His father passed away 2018) and my dad (passed away 2017) are brothers. Yes he's been doing this for years.

    • @bethanyyates1138
      @bethanyyates1138 9 місяців тому

      Omggggg

    • @Realist79
      @Realist79 9 місяців тому

      @@bethanyyates1138 yep it is what it is.

  • @mikalatrice7962
    @mikalatrice7962 Рік тому +13

    How you leave a domestic relationship to meet a stranger and let him just take over your life

    • @Neenaross214
      @Neenaross214 Рік тому

      She was an idiot lol hopefully she is wiser now!!

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris Рік тому +23

    Brakes shoulda been screeching on this situationship!!

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 Рік тому +3

      A football field of red flag 🚩🚩🚩😂😂😂

  • @whoisdickieschnabel
    @whoisdickieschnabel Рік тому +41

    This guy is a scammer. He has no record of having a place in his name. This woman is so vulnerable I am praying she's okay. She added this stranger, this con as her next of kin while she's in the hospital. I hear the weakness in her voice. He probably hoped she wouldn't make it to court and he'd get a default judgment. She doesn't seem interested in playing games. He's evil to me. I wish she hadn't been so eager for love.

  • @Valencia5_11
    @Valencia5_11 Рік тому +6

    I wish I had $1 for every litigant that comes to JM that’s “Move In” ready 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @bakeembakeem
    @bakeembakeem Рік тому +17

    I feel for her, former dv relationship and now a total loser, only wanting to be loved and appreciated

  • @queenebonyqueenebony
    @queenebonyqueenebony Рік тому +18

    How could mathis find in this boy’s defense-she should’ve gotten paid for the damage to her door and the loan.

    • @25stallions15
      @25stallions15 Рік тому

      Exactly

    • @cochrancochran66
      @cochrancochran66 Рік тому

      Because he came with proof... she did not. Unfortunately

    • @Amy-ej2px
      @Amy-ej2px 11 місяців тому

      His evidence/her own words. I was rooting for her, though.

  • @softersideofc.c.5655
    @softersideofc.c.5655 Рік тому +6

    Sis After this I hope the cape is BURNT 🔥

  • @carolharris5455
    @carolharris5455 Рік тому +8

    How can a man mean that much too you in two months 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @cashville7949
    @cashville7949 Рік тому +6

    That lady got the nerve to say Tanisha stupid lol 😂 😅😅😅

  • @reginarose9017
    @reginarose9017 Рік тому +3

    “I have a hat & shoe fetish” …. Ummmm you don’t have anywhere to stay , dude lol

  • @svwhett1
    @svwhett1 Рік тому +14

    he a sad person, his parents are happy for him

  • @lonagurl1
    @lonagurl1 Рік тому +5

    Child and if he said baby I want you back you’ll let that bum come live right back with you!

  • @yolandajones6789
    @yolandajones6789 Рік тому +7

    Listening to both of them talk in circles, repeat themselves, and not answer JM's questions the first time he asks is making me dizzy. If that man said one more time, "I had a key"...

  • @Lilyrose23
    @Lilyrose23 Рік тому +23

    It's tragic to see women who go from bad men to bad men knowingly because they're used to the drama and feel so lonely without a man. Most of them knowingly choose bums hoping they'll stay, but bums have higher standards than them. The bums know there are more of them out here looking for a man like them so they are never loyal.

  • @roshandacarter3252
    @roshandacarter3252 Рік тому +8

    Sometimes you got to lose to win.

  • @_Essentially_abena
    @_Essentially_abena Рік тому +15

    The audacity to call another woman stupid after you let this man move in after 2 weeks and put money in his pockets “just to have” 😭😭😂
    Girl STOP!

  • @siehop88
    @siehop88 Рік тому +7

    Damnnnnn. I’m so lucky I was taught early not to be a “fun dummy” a man could neverrrrrr fool me like this 😂

    • @missbae_
      @missbae_ Рік тому +5

      He didn’t fool her, she fooled herself 😂 I don’t believe he ever paid her any real attention besides sex sometimes to shut her up

  • @ddduv1
    @ddduv1 Рік тому +11

    Okay bump all the other stuff why did she make him her emergency contact?

  • @hlewis566
    @hlewis566 Рік тому +16

    Bum bum bum

  • @cheleftb
    @cheleftb Рік тому +11

    Stop being thirsty ma'am.

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Рік тому +4

    She made him sound like biggie “kick in the door waiving the 44” 😂😂😂😂

  • @KINGDOMDAUGHTER
    @KINGDOMDAUGHTER Рік тому +7

    Shacking up and taking care of any man or person and calling it "in a RELATIONSHIP"
    have people not heard of dating & courting whilst collecting data on each other inorder to get to know each other outside of what is deemed as okay to be shacking up and taking care of

  • @reniekarenee1068
    @reniekarenee1068 Рік тому +5

    People are so bad at telling stories when they’re trying to leave their part out 😂

  • @urluvizmyluv1999
    @urluvizmyluv1999 Рік тому +5

    He should have a "keep a home" fetish.

  • @hakeemtheplace2959
    @hakeemtheplace2959 Рік тому +5

    He is a sorry excuse of a man.

  • @pookulj
    @pookulj Рік тому +6

    The defendant had the nerve to call his current girlfriend stupid.....she the one that was stupid too

  • @RamiyahParks
    @RamiyahParks Рік тому +14

    She said he hadn't started working yet but @3:29 when JM asked who he was staying with now, he admitted that he had just started working... So at best she should have been granted the $475 loan. He definitely took advantage of her vulnerability. Smh!

    • @candyjones4499
      @candyjones4499 Рік тому +1

      She cant be granted the money because she have no evidence and if she had text messages about the money loan or a recording she would have gotten that. She basically said she gave it to him to put in his pocket so it was a gift

    • @Amy-ej2px
      @Amy-ej2px 11 місяців тому

      @@candyjones4499 When she said that she gave him money for whatever, that doesn't automatically make it a gift...if that's what you're saying. JM said that bc he said he'd pay when he got a job and doesn't have a job now, he can't be forced to pay...Good catch, @RamiyahParks!

  • @jplaya2023
    @jplaya2023 Рік тому +10

    When Suge Knight get out

  • @Valencia5_11
    @Valencia5_11 Рік тому +3

    “I thought your were here with another man” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Why did JM sound like a superhero when he said that 😂😂😂😂

  • @1ewalks
    @1ewalks Рік тому +4

    No she didn’t call the other woman stupid 😂 . Pot meet kettle. Smh

  • @vicdiesel6544
    @vicdiesel6544 Рік тому +8

    This why u don't let these men live with you .... let a man be a man!

  • @AngelRenee88
    @AngelRenee88 Рік тому +3

    This man said he had a hat and a shoe fetish. He need to have a house and a car fetish. Moving backwards 😂

    • @deidregray8880
      @deidregray8880 Рік тому +2

      THE comment I was looking for!!!! 🎯😂

  • @dollazandsense
    @dollazandsense Рік тому +25

    City boys up again 😁

  • @queenjocelyn4711
    @queenjocelyn4711 11 місяців тому +2

    He is the example I give to my son when I explain how important it is for him to be independent and to always pay your own way. My kids have wanted to work and make money like mommy since they were young kids though. Even my daddy was surprised at his work ethic when he went to go work for him when he turned 16💚

  • @diofiglio1
    @diofiglio1 Рік тому +5

    Dude went from one woman's house to another......and she thought he would be a good fit......some women have low self esteem

  • @cynthiafreeman2995
    @cynthiafreeman2995 Рік тому +3

    LMAOOOOOOOO he mad she changed her name to his 😂