Struggle love at its finest. She held him down while in jail, paid for everything, was the ride, provided a home, stayed OVER TWENTY YEARS no marriage and he cheated and talked bad about her behind her back, that's how he repaid her. Ladies get some self esteem.
AGREED! I mean we all, most ppl want to have love and be in a relationship but, I'll be damned! If I entertain a "relationship" like this just so that I won't be alone! Loving yaself is a hell of a drug!!!🗣
She seems like a nice lady but it’s sad and unfortunate that her self esteem is so low… I would rather help take care of a needy family before a grown man
How was that shameful? You point that out and not the fact she stayed with him through jail time and cheating. But shouting a number is shameful? Lmao get your priorities straight
@@brackenrobertson799 THATS WHYYY I CALLED IT SHAMEFUL BECAUSE OF WHAT SHE ALLLOWED HERSELF TO BE PUT THRU YES HE IS A BUM IN OUT JAIL YES HE CHEAT BUT SHE CHOSE TO STAY AND FINANCE HIM FOR 19 YRS NO RING NO REAL COMMITMENT THATS WHY ITS SHAMEFUL WE AS WOMEN NEED TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR OURSELVES AND WHAT WE ALLOW OTHERS TO CONTINUE TO DO TO US. YES HE IS A DUSTY BUM I AM NOT PRAISING THAT BUT DONT EXPECT A BUM TO BE YOUR PRINCE
As soon as he said she came up to his job and got him fired I knew her case was DONE. If you know anything about judge Mathis you know he does not play that about getting people fired
Especially since dude was a convicted federal felon she got him fired bcuz she jealous. Mathis knows it ain't easy for them to get a decent job and only dead end jobs like he had working at dunkin donuts
ABSOLUTELY! I've seen cases when Judge Mathis was about to drop that gavel for the plaintiff and he found out they went on the job for their money, some of the plaintiffs raised hell on the defendants job and JM ran that plaintiff out that courtroom quick!😆😆
He treated her like the sponsor she was. Her insecurities are showing this entire episode and it’s because he played on her kindness and love. She’s bragging about 19.5 years and I wouldn’t mention that again. Let go and start heading.
They were laughing at you because they knew you were mothering a grown man (financially and emotionally), while he was talking bad, cheating, and lying to you. 🤡
This is sad, she has no self esteem, or pride, just listening to her, and she STILL lost the case. This man did not use her, she gave to him willingly.
Yeah, I was surprised by that. I didn't know you owe once you come out of jail like that. Mathis said "yeah, they took care of you". Learn something new every day.
There is something missing upstairs with this woman. She needs professional counseling and to move on with her life. The verdict was made by the Judge. That doesn't mean i believe the guy. I think he's a hustler, he definitely used her all of those years and he's a serial con artist to be frank!!! Best wishes to her in the future.
I agree with you. She could barley answer JM questions, let alone get her story straight. I do not believe the defendant. He is used to standing in front of judge. Therefore, he knew how to setup his argument. He took advantage of the plaintiff.
@@tenille2529 If she had kept her mouth shut at the end, she probably would've won her case. Talking and doing way too much caused her to pay financially !!!
@@birdchoyce4332 I think she did hurt her case by going to his job; however, the defendant knew she was in love with him. He took advantage of her love for him. Just because a person not wise enough to protect themselves from you don’t mean you should take advantage of them.
Who is telling women that they should carry men like this? There's a difference between (1) supporting and loving your s/o and (2) being an absolute fool for someone to walk all over. Nothing you do for someone can make them love or respect you--either they love and respect you themselves, or they don't. Dropping a man off at work, picking him up, paying for everything, waiting for him to get out of prison--that sounds more like a mama than a s/o to me.
It’s the AA culture. It tells women to be ride-or-die and to have long suffering through a man’s struggles. It tells women not to pressure men to be better. It tells women they aren’t quite good enough.
He should pay her for her things. He owes her that after all she's done for him. He used her and although she allowed it... he didn't have to accept it. When you do wrong, wrong comes to you! Be kind to others! It pays off... either way.
@@theredwhoop9372 First.. stop putting all WOMEN (female is a gender), in the same box! He owes her common courtesy... Yes she chose a "thug" as you called him, he still needs to treat people with the respect he wants.
@@drapertraci7 he owes her nothing. She started of saying his family was saying she is his sugar momma. He didn’t force her to do anything for him. But she had no proof and she got him fired from his job.
@deon3133 I get what she did... I also get what he did with the storage unit! She deserves to learn from her mistakes... no doubt... but had he not continued to lead her on while he was trying to get his... she wouldn't have ever been at his job. Oh wait... she was there to pick him up! Lol Every action has a reaction... good or bad. He didn't have to pay her for the storage, but all things fair and all she did for him in 19 years... I think giving her that money was the least he could do. I get that some won't agree, and I'm ok with that. At this point, it doesn't matter... he got away with it.
@@treasurepearls4112 She didn't have any evidence, email, text message to prove her case. He won because she admitted to having a volatile conversation with his female coworker in the parking lot. She could've kept her mouth shut and maybe the case would've been dismissed, imo !!!
I definitely agree 💯 percent..I was looking for this comment I thought I was the only one who saw that. JM was looking for any reason to get him off. I think she should've got her money
When she said “he don’t really like me” I think she’s right. I think she has been feeling that way the whole time and I don’t think he ever denied it, she’s just convenient.
Matter fact says he hates her. Poor woman was con from the door...he watched her move in; living in his mother's house 🏠 & slid right in. Ladies be oh so careful.
I think when women realize that men are different. They lose feelings after the chase/intercourse... So many don't like and even hate women they sleep with, married to and get pregnant. If u tell them no and hold off on sleeping with them u will see quickly how they feel about you.
@@euqinom8561 I needed to see this comment from you . Was just involved with a guy that I liked & he wanted to sleep with me this past weekend .so I asked him can we go to the movies or something this week . Since he was expecting something from me I figured asking for something so simple shouldn’t hurt ,Not gonna lie I was gonna sleep with him but after he sent this emoji’ 🤯’ & I hadn’t even met up with him yet to see how he felt it really hurt my feelings so I never read his messages again. Your comment puts everything in perspective for me Thank You❤.
@@Dieee4des oh wow, that's great you're understanding your worth. Most of us women been in similar situations, we live and learn. I live by these sayings... "You teach ppl how to treat u", "When a person shows you who they are, believe them the 1st time", and "Never let a man tell u more than once, he don't want you" Saved me a world of heartache. Be blessed ❤️
@@susiesolangesimpson2828 I’m only going on my experience with my uncle and his now wife. The love they have for each other is truly amazing. I guess it’s not common but I see your point also. Just wanted to show it is possible
She was getting more than just having him. Perhaps he validated her worthiness, here and there her attractiveness and value as a human being. 19.5 years? It was about her more than it was about him to her. He was feeling an internal void of her’s that’s for sure.
He’s the definition of a Baby Boy and she really fell for his games and lies she needs to get some self esteem cause he played TF outta her used her like a Suga Mama 🥴🥴🥴
How do you come in and say he has never paid for anything and that you took care of him for 20 years but you trusted his broke ass to cover your storage fees for 2 years, I wish tf I would. If I don't trust you to be financially stable I'm not trusting you to oversee anything of mine. NEVER!
Ladies... Please make sure your standards and boundaries are set before getting in relationships. This woman is a testimony of what happens if you don't. So sad
Standards, self worth, self respect, boundaries and just how to date in general we must teach our children early on. For girls and boys. It all starts with self belief. I hope she heals and finds someone who treats her with decency, but also that she learns discernment.
She knew he really didn't want to be with her so she let him have control over the storage as her way of really just being able to see him or talk to him... She was hanging on to something that was over
@@myshanamakisi6063 you probably old and foolish too and tryna jugge her, But she is a fool for fighting at someone employment site. But any adult could be guilty of that. I still say it's good she had a man who made her feel and act like a young woman. She ruined that. Now she looking stupid
I know she's very old fashioned. Probably stayed in house across from his momma & his family watching eyes. She practiced never going out, still using landlines so she don't miss collect calls from manipulating, lying, conniving, con-artist, controlling criminal. He'll get his one way or another. Ladies, if a Man don't have his own everything he's not for you. Dang all those years wasted for a FELON.
🚨She knew what she had on her hands… she just wanted to brag to her friend about her lil tenderoni. 🤦🏽♀️ He was running circles around her and didn’t even care to hide it bringing the other lady to his friends auto shop. Both really need to grow up (and not play the victim role towards eachother)
💯 Exactly! She telling the story with the energy that she knew nothing but clearly she knew all along. She just didn't really care enough to let him go. Instead she let him treat her like that for 20 yrs🤦🏾♀️
I think that the defendant knew that the plaintiff is a little challenged (mentally) which made it even more easy to take advantage of her. Damn, holding a man down (financially) and he didn’t even MARRY you? She has to be a person of diminished capacity to continue to let that happen to her.
She should have stayed home and not let the world see how foolish she is. She knew early in the so called relationship that he was no good and still kept him. She’s too old to be so foolish.
She’s the fool because a man treated her like shit? How about we stop blaming the women in these situations and hold men accountable for being garbage. Your moral compass is OFF
@@brackenrobertson799 yes she is a fool If she doesn't learn to heal herself and have boundaries then this will keep happening. She has to take accountability for herself!
@@gggreens 🙄 you must be a man because pigtails is a hairstyle, usually for little kids. You’re making yourself look illiterate, I’d rethink the comment. We could probably fill an omnibus with words you don’t know.
Cheating during covid is the very reason my daughter's father got his walking papers smh. Contrary to what he thought, my being pregnant reinforced my worth & his lack there of!
This is nothing to say in public. Rather than try to figure out what the issue is between both of you, you chose to be a single mom to a newborn. That’s shameful. Y’all need to work it out. Unless your unbearable attitude was the cause of him wanting to get away from you. In that case, breaking up was the best think for both of y’all
@@charcoalcowboy I'm going to ask your close minded, egotistical self to watch your tongue. It's apparent you're slow. I clearly said he cheated! Since I know who I am and whose I am, I let him go. Only a worthless narcissist would think I should've done anything different. Do yourself a favor & stay off my comments!
She shoulda known better ! Tf …eww…you’re 11 yrs older than him …chasin his broke ass around when there ARE men your OWN age that are waaaay finer AND self sufficient! And then she called the other woman’s husband but couldn’t confront the mf who was in a relationship with her ?! Someone please make it make sense !! I’m 41 and I have NEVERRRR checked a female about a guy…unless she was disrespecting my man..but you ALWAYS check the cheater ! You can’t check someone who doesn’t owe you fidelity !!
My Mom used this phrase and it is definitely true...."Ain't nothing worse than an old fool". In your younger years we may do some foolish things, but damn!!!! This lady probably knocking on 60 and taking care of this man. She complained about him not providing, but gets the man fired from his job! She can't be mad at anyone but herself...not this man.
Granny you wasted 19 and some change on that bum, proudly stating you paid for everything, even after hearing the horrible rumors about yourself and continuing to smile about it!!! Smh Smmfh 🤦🏿♀️
I thank god my mama gave her girls the game. She ain’t the only dumb woman it’s plenty of them. Old and young these women beg men for attention all in their dms being thirsty you couldn’t imagine. I thought men were supposed to do the wooing.
You need to re evaluate that thought.. times are changing that old way not going to work anymore, internet on the scene now more knowledge easy access , the game has flipped, that plaintiff got caught in the game she missed some valuable rules ,she lose
Do you really believe that was the situation buddy was a bum and probably got fired for harassment because you don’t even have termination papers no write ups just straight fired Nawl ? For the company’s liability purposes at least
Dang, I was on her side until she denied the altercation at his job, there was no way he made that story up, I was hoping she was going to get herself out of being responsible for him losing his job.
You're right and the Judge had the nerve to grant him his countersuit and dismissed her case🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I'd have to beat someone up for this had it been me!
Being a good woman is not for the benefit of others, it should be for yourself and if you're a Godly woman, it's to please the Lord. Not sure why ppl keep living to appease others. Too many People are trifling. They love you one day, betray you the next.
Stop being a GOOD WOMEN to BUMASS NIGGAS. PLENTY MEN GET THEY ASSES UP DAILY AND TAKE THEIR ASSES TO WORK LEGALLY ... but nah yall want the hustlers and d boys. Then when it don't work out...yall want sympathy.
That's how some of these trifling guys are SMH 🙄! Had the nerve to be embarrassed of her and countersuing her for emotional stress🙄🙄🙄my eyes were rolling everytime he spoke🤭
Men and women. When you see a person treating you differently in a negative way when they are around their family members. That's a sign to end it with them.
How do u feel sorry for her(plaintiff)?? She knew everything about her guy(defendant). She had a whole son and made him her husband🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Insecurities and low self esteem at it's bestest lol! Nevertheless, they both sounded real crazy! They got what they needed from one another for 19 and a half yrs!
LOL!! Judge Mathis says lock down was how he learned he could be with his wife 24/7. My spouse and I drove over the road truck for 21 years as a team. That is being together 24/7 because we even stayed in hotels for time off instead of paying rent and utilities on a place. We thought lockdown was a piece of cake!!
An altercation is you telling someone to get away from you and your car🙄………..JM LOVES giving his convict buddies money or the case when he knows they’re dead wrong! 🤨🤦🏽♂️
JM ruled against her bcuz he caught her in a lie about causing him to lose his job. She knew the assistant manager was bcus he was one also. Then she acted confrontational with how she acted towards her Pay attention to the very end
@@donovanwilliams29 In no way shape or form did he prove even slightly that she caused him to loose his job, telling a women that’s approaching your car to get away from you is not cause to get another person fired……that’s just stupid to believe a manager(I’ve been one)would fire a worker for someone else being at your job and saying get away from my car!
@@dennissmith7214 They all(employees) know who she is already and she's provoking the animosity towards all the employees she starting trouble with 1st saying she not his cab but yet she's arriving 1 sometimes 2 hours early, why be there so early if you not looking to be friends anyways. She could have been somewhere else doing something else to avoid any problems but yet she's at his job and getting into verbal exchange when she could've just ignored them . So Mathis saw through her BS and said she provoked the confrontation with her actions and ruled correctly She caused him to get fired
This is a lesson that keeps repeating itself for women with low self esteem.19 yrs doesnt mean the affection is mutual, I doubt he ever paid a dime for anything. How naive can love be? Wow Moms u can do better im sure
Ma’am, Ms… You are too old to(actually at no age should one do that) be showing up to someone’s place of work. Any time you feel compelled to do such a thing; you need to leave that relationship 🙃
Stayed with him for 20yrs blocking her blessings. Ladies!!! The word said ' You Are Worth More Than Rubies' when I understood that! But from the time I heard made him lost his job, I knew she lost the case.
Struggle love at its finest. She held him down while in jail, paid for everything, was the ride, provided a home, stayed OVER TWENTY YEARS no marriage and he cheated and talked bad about her behind her back, that's how he repaid her. Ladies get some self esteem.
AGREED!
I mean we all, most ppl want to have love and be in a relationship but, I'll be damned! If I entertain a "relationship" like this just so that I won't be alone! Loving yaself is a hell of a drug!!!🗣
She’s A Fool 😂😂😂
Taking scrubs
To whole new level 🤦🏿♂️
@@Sunshine134chick weakness AF especially when he was in jail but I ain't judging lol
Periodt!
She seems like a nice lady but it’s sad and unfortunate that her self esteem is so low… I would rather help take care of a needy family before a grown man
same here….love is blind?
Absolutely, I was naïve when I was young, but I learned quick……😳
@@TonyaJones0788 glad to hear! 😊
@@gracemunich1476 it’ll take over your mind
@@Crystal-Love 😅
She really believe shouting 19.5 years over and over isn't shameful
When people are in their emotions, they aren't thinking about that. She's angry at him but at herself.
How was that shameful? You point that out and not the fact she stayed with him through jail time and cheating. But shouting a number is shameful? Lmao get your priorities straight
She yelled most of the episode
@@tpzemrld yes my ears were hurting 😫
@@brackenrobertson799 THATS WHYYY I CALLED IT SHAMEFUL BECAUSE OF WHAT SHE ALLLOWED HERSELF TO BE PUT THRU YES HE IS A BUM IN OUT JAIL YES HE CHEAT BUT SHE CHOSE TO STAY AND FINANCE HIM FOR 19 YRS NO RING NO REAL COMMITMENT THATS WHY ITS SHAMEFUL WE AS WOMEN NEED TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR OURSELVES AND WHAT WE ALLOW OTHERS TO CONTINUE TO DO TO US. YES HE IS A DUSTY BUM I AM NOT PRAISING THAT BUT DONT EXPECT A BUM TO BE YOUR PRINCE
Why he actin like it's not possible to cheat while ur in jail 👀👀👀
Ikr! From my understanding, people from jail gets caught up a lot when it comes to cheating!
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Exactly with both sexes he ain’t gone tell it
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As soon as he said she came up to his job and got him fired I knew her case was DONE. If you know anything about judge Mathis you know he does not play that about getting people fired
Especially since dude was a convicted federal felon she got him fired bcuz she jealous. Mathis knows it ain't easy for them to get a decent job and only dead end jobs like he had working at dunkin donuts
You know it
I knew it was over for when the announcer said it! 🤦🏾♀️😂
His voice cracked and he got a emotional while talking about it.
ABSOLUTELY! I've seen cases when Judge Mathis was about to drop that gavel for the plaintiff and he found out they went on the job for their money, some of the plaintiffs raised hell on the defendants job and JM ran that plaintiff out that courtroom quick!😆😆
He treated her like the sponsor she was. Her insecurities are showing this entire episode and it’s because he played on her kindness and love. She’s bragging about 19.5 years and I wouldn’t mention that again. Let go and start heading.
Absolutely gorgeous smile Ms Joyce Banks….
Dated for that long 😳🥸
She is a fool! Who stays with a man for nearly 20 years that has been unemployed and in and out of jail?
you'd be surpise ..my aunts have friends that have been with men 20 yrs with NO JOB !!!
A very desperate, gullible, weak individual
@@peacefaith560 pathetic. Probably professional mother syndrome
@@peacefaith560 Desperate women
You'd be surprised smh..
Never too old to be a fool ..
He is not into her
~WISDOM~
Some women will throw their entire life away to support and stand by a no good man. It’s sad.
And then wanna sue…. TUH!!!!!
SMH FR & realize it toooOooOoo DAMN LATE
It's real
But Jazzy I dont feel like he's a no good man...she let him do those things...19 yrs come on! She could've left at anytime
@@Angel-nc9tq both can be true. Lot of women stay with no good men.
They were laughing at you because they knew you were mothering a grown man (financially and emotionally), while he was talking bad, cheating, and lying to you. 🤡
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😂🤣😂
Yup!!!
Ain't no fool like an old fool. 😆
@@ayomidel We all get old if we don't die young 😆.
This is sad, she has no self esteem, or pride, just listening to her, and she STILL lost the case. This man did not use her, she gave to him willingly.
Ugh... I hate so much to agree. I feel bad for that sweet woman
@@amandaz9762 me too. Lord have mercy...
Women need to learn to put themselves first
This is what happens when a woman plays wife to a man that is not her husband.
@@queenleorobi8253 ... exactly ... and she lost the case because she went up to his job ...
You'd think that after being made a fool for 19 years that she wouldn't show up laughing throughout the case.
Because she a little off in the mind. A woman doesn't talk that loud, only crazy women do that. Or drunks.
@@mdennis001 her voice is irritating my soul
@@mdennis001 rite
@ Needed To Be Said, she's a loud and proud fool.
She had to Laugh to keep from crying;. Plain and simple
Her hair is so healthy and pretty. I hope she heals and builds her confidence up.. On another note did he say he owes 3mil dollars. Whew
Not her natural color though
@@delonjuan I think she knows that…
Yeah, I was surprised by that. I didn't know you owe once you come out of jail like that. Mathis said "yeah, they took care of you". Learn something new every day.
@@traceysbodytreats257 IT'S called restitution.
@@latonyasmith4395 thank you! I had no idea.
She talking loud just like a old person. He looks like he could be her son.
😂 You right.
I didn’t want to be the one to say it..
He's obviously a good man ,she just too simple minded for his suaveness.
@@gggreens a good man? On what planet? Both the plaintiff and the defendant has issues
@@serious7179 he stayed by the woman who stuck by him, she was too simple when he got out, to understand a free imprisoned man . Yes he's a good man.
There is something missing upstairs with this woman. She needs professional counseling and to move on with her life. The verdict was made by the Judge. That doesn't mean i believe the guy. I think he's a hustler, he definitely used her all of those years and he's a serial con artist to be frank!!! Best wishes to her in the future.
I agree with you. She could barley answer JM questions, let alone get her story straight. I do not believe the defendant. He is used to standing in front of judge. Therefore, he knew how to setup his argument. He took advantage of the plaintiff.
@@tenille2529 If she had kept her mouth shut at the end, she probably would've won her case. Talking and doing way too much caused her to pay financially !!!
@@birdchoyce4332 I think she did hurt her case by going to his job; however, the defendant knew she was in love with him. He took advantage of her love for him. Just because a person not wise enough to protect themselves from you don’t mean you should take advantage of them.
@@tenille2529 she was picking him up from work. When she was approached by the messy manager I bet he was sleeping with
Who is telling women that they should carry men like this? There's a difference between (1) supporting and loving your s/o and (2) being an absolute fool for someone to walk all over. Nothing you do for someone can make them love or respect you--either they love and respect you themselves, or they don't. Dropping a man off at work, picking him up, paying for everything, waiting for him to get out of prison--that sounds more like a mama than a s/o to me.
The desperate women are telling these type of women that! Low self-esteem!
@@kaylee3867 I believe you. It's sad.
Black women are!
I have never seen women so desperate to have a man!
This does not happen in my country.
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It’s the AA culture. It tells women to be ride-or-die and to have long suffering through a man’s struggles. It tells women not to pressure men to be better. It tells women they aren’t quite good enough.
He wanted a mother, not a woman.
And she wanted a man and got a son🤦🏾♀️
@@convowithashnicole 😭🤣🥴
That part he used her for money 💰 and sex 🥩Fresh outta jail
He’s a lucky man he got a mother who happens to be a woman. He had his cake and ate it. This man defy the odds
Somebody needs to tell her you don't have to yell when a mic is in front of you.
💀 Listen! I had to turn my sound down.
Crying 😭 She so damn loud
Lmao
And it’s a consistent loud ringing in the back of my ears and everything. 🥴
😂😂🤣
Dang grandma you're supposed to be more wise than this 😫
She really did yell throughout this whole episode 😫
Yes, she caused judge messy to yell throughout the episode too.
Lmao
If you get the man fired, how can he pay you back? lol
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That part!!
Simple, he can get another job and start paying it back 😎
He should pay her for her things. He owes her that after all she's done for him. He used her and although she allowed it... he didn't have to accept it. When you do wrong, wrong comes to you! Be kind to others! It pays off... either way.
He don't owe he nothing maybe uou females should leave thugs alone
@@theredwhoop9372 First.. stop putting all WOMEN (female is a gender), in the same box! He owes her common courtesy... Yes she chose a "thug" as you called him, he still needs to treat people with the respect he wants.
@@drapertraci7 grow your own hair second you're very simple minded female just like this female
@@drapertraci7 he owes her nothing. She started of saying his family was saying she is his sugar momma. He didn’t force her to do anything for him. But she had no proof and she got him fired from his job.
@deon3133 I get what she did... I also get what he did with the storage unit! She deserves to learn from her mistakes... no doubt... but had he not continued to lead her on while he was trying to get his... she wouldn't have ever been at his job. Oh wait... she was there to pick him up! Lol Every action has a reaction... good or bad. He didn't have to pay her for the storage, but all things fair and all she did for him in 19 years... I think giving her that money was the least he could do. I get that some won't agree, and I'm ok with that. At this point, it doesn't matter... he got away with it.
The most shocking thing about this case is the new audience member's.
My girl Pam still back there in the black shirt or is that her? Look a lil slim around the neck.
@@KPbouj im weak @ Pam but that's her😂😂😂😂
I don't like it. One of them looks like a knan member.
@@wadilotus 😂😂
Right
She knew that if he got up on his feet he wasn’t going to be with her any longer. That’s why she went up to the job. Poor thing.
While she definitely is a little loopy, I think JM was biased in his ruling smh
Might be the wake up that she needs to ensure this never happens again
I totally agree with you. I don't believe him and he should never got the judgment
I think judge was giving her the lesson she knew who she was dealing with from day one
The best response here.
@@treasurepearls4112 She didn't have any evidence, email, text message to prove her case. He won because she admitted to having a volatile conversation with his female coworker in the parking lot. She could've kept her mouth shut and maybe the case would've been dismissed, imo !!!
I definitely agree 💯 percent..I was looking for this comment I thought I was the only one who saw that. JM was looking for any reason to get him off. I think she should've got her money
When she said “he don’t really like me” I think she’s right. I think she has been feeling that way the whole time and I don’t think he ever denied it, she’s just convenient.
Matter fact says he hates her. Poor woman was con from the door...he watched her move in; living in his mother's house 🏠 & slid right in. Ladies be oh so careful.
I think when women realize that men are different. They lose feelings after the chase/intercourse... So many don't like and even hate women they sleep with, married to and get pregnant.
If u tell them no and hold off on sleeping with them u will see quickly how they feel about you.
@@euqinom8561 I needed to see this comment from you . Was just involved with a guy that I liked & he wanted to sleep with me this past weekend .so I asked him can we go to the movies or something this week . Since he was expecting something from me I figured asking for something so simple shouldn’t hurt ,Not gonna lie I was gonna sleep with him but after he sent this emoji’ 🤯’ & I hadn’t even met up with him yet to see how he felt it really hurt my feelings so I never read his messages again. Your comment puts everything in perspective for me Thank You❤.
@@Dieee4des oh wow, that's great you're understanding your worth. Most of us women been in similar situations, we live and learn.
I live by these sayings...
"You teach ppl how to treat u",
"When a person shows you who they are, believe them the 1st time", and "Never let a man tell u more than once, he don't want you"
Saved me a world of heartache.
Be blessed ❤️
Way minnit....she saw alllllll the RUN GIRL signs right away, but she still stayed 20 yrs? I don't feel sorry for her at all
Right! Sounds like she didn't mind being the fool! She said even his family told her🤦🏾♀️
Something is seriously wrong with her! She was super desperate for a relationship
She would correct you that’s 19.5 🤣😂🤣
@@cyyrious right - 19.5
Twenty years of being used.
Can’t feel sorry for her. We’ve seen this play out 468733 times the same way. Don’t date men in prison ladies. It’s not that serious 🙄
Not really
They have to show you they are worthy of your time.
@@veronicastigger7947 no
468733 times yaw something else🙃
@@susiesolangesimpson2828 I’m only going on my experience with my uncle and his now wife. The love they have for each other is truly amazing. I guess it’s not common but I see your point also. Just wanted to show it is possible
@@veronicastigger7947 I'm not saying it can't work but 9 times out of ten it's not.
He's been trifling all his life 😩🤣🤦
This is so unfortunate how we use each other instead of love 💕 each other!
True..
One of the best comments on here
Man it's crazy how ppl are really predators. Some men and women need serious discernment because these ppl aren't playing out here.
We must love ourselves first so we can understand when someone else doesn't & to be ok without them.
Damn! Who dates somebody for 20 years? If you're still together after 5 years, it's time to sit down and start making some plans.
Not even 5. 1 or 2 at the longest
if you aint got no job, we aint making no plans !! lol she had me at prison
Her fault dealing with someone like that all those yrs. Got to do better ladies. Guess she just wanted a man that bad
Right NEED A Man
We all need someone to see the good in us.
She was getting more than just having him. Perhaps he validated her worthiness, here and there her attractiveness and value as a human being. 19.5 years? It was about her more than it was about him to her. He was feeling an internal void of her’s that’s for sure.
If y'all blk females didn't love jail birds so much many of you all wouldn't have that issue
He’s the definition of a Baby Boy and she really fell for his games and lies she needs to get some self esteem cause he played TF outta her used her like a Suga Mama 🥴🥴🥴
He did what she allowed
@@niece585 facts
How do you come in and say he has never paid for anything and that you took care of him for 20 years but you trusted his broke ass to cover your storage fees for 2 years, I wish tf I would. If I don't trust you to be financially stable I'm not trusting you to oversee anything of mine. NEVER!
Exactly. It’s contradictory which puts everything she says into question
Ladies... Please make sure your standards and boundaries are set before getting in relationships. This woman is a testimony of what happens if you don't. So sad
Standards, self worth, self respect, boundaries and just how to date in general we must teach our children early on. For girls and boys. It all starts with self belief. I hope she heals and finds someone who treats her with decency, but also that she learns discernment.
The problem is it’s so many ppl like her doing the teaching.
If the storage was hers ORIGINALLY. She shouldn't have needed his PERMISSION for information from the storage company.
She knew he really didn't want to be with her so she let him have control over the storage as her way of really just being able to see him or talk to him... She was hanging on to something that was over
GOD bless her, she seems like a very nice lady…. I feel bad for her , no one should be taken advantage of.
Auntie, you too damn old for this behavior...😒
No sympathy. You got what you wanted.
Played herself! Gots to be more careful.
Age ain't nothing but a number ,perfect example, he brings out the girl in her
@@gggreens well said
@@gggreens with age should come wisdom...hence the term "an old fool"
@@myshanamakisi6063 you probably old and foolish too and tryna jugge her, But she is a fool for fighting at someone employment site. But any adult could be guilty of that. I still say it's good she had a man who made her feel and act like a young woman. She ruined that. Now she looking stupid
It’s funny because I realize she was referring to the text messages as emails 😂😂😂
I wasn't sure what she was talking about. I suspect she doesn't know the difference.
I know she's very old fashioned. Probably stayed in house across from his momma & his family watching eyes. She practiced never going out, still using landlines so she don't miss collect calls from manipulating, lying, conniving, con-artist, controlling criminal. He'll get his one way or another. Ladies, if a Man don't have his own everything he's not for you. Dang all those years wasted for a FELON.
You can’t help a con man.
He will most certainly need her again. And he is lying, she didn’t get him fired. He’s a Bum
🚨She knew what she had on her hands… she just wanted to brag to her friend about her lil tenderoni. 🤦🏽♀️
He was running circles around her and didn’t even care to hide it bringing the other lady to his friends auto shop.
Both really need to grow up (and not play the victim role towards eachother)
💯 Exactly! She telling the story with the energy that she knew nothing but clearly she knew all along. She just didn't really care enough to let him go. Instead she let him treat her like that for 20 yrs🤦🏾♀️
The thing about a Roni Bobby brown voice 😂
@@convowithashnicole bingo! 💯. Sn: That’s a very long time to play dumb.
@@Sunshine134chick 🎶 “my hearttttt. Belongs 2 a roni” 🤣🤦🏽♀️
Not “tenderoni” lol 😂
A lot of women seem to be buying men to be in a relationship! Sad to see it! You are good enough! Leave them No Good for Nothing Bums along!
I agree he is a scrub
I think that the defendant knew that the plaintiff is a little challenged (mentally) which made it even more easy to take advantage of her. Damn, holding a man down (financially) and he didn’t even MARRY you? She has to be a person of diminished capacity to continue to let that happen to her.
Want to be love
@@sharonnewton1195 Don’t we all???
I feel bad for her to be with someone for twenty years it no joke.
Worst times are coming in the world but GREATER is coming in the kingdom 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Make sure you're in the Kingdom!!!!
She should have stayed home and not let the world see how foolish she is. She knew early in the so called relationship that he was no good and still kept him. She’s too old to be so foolish.
She’s the fool because a man treated her like shit? How about we stop blaming the women in these situations and hold men accountable for being garbage. Your moral compass is OFF
@@brackenrobertson799 I did state that he's no good.
@@brackenrobertson799 yes she is a fool
If she doesn't learn to heal herself and have boundaries then this will keep happening. She has to take accountability for herself!
Her mindset is in the hair. I’m 29 and I’m not wearing pigtails unless I’m dressing up for Halloween.
I’m screaming 😭
@@scottrogue946 I didn’t even see the see through shirt. Lord this lady is a mess.
Where does that stupid word come from.. PIGTAILS" ...? it speaks volumes about the person who uses it as well, 'pigtails lmao
@@gggreens
🙄 you must be a man because pigtails is a hairstyle, usually for little kids. You’re making yourself look illiterate, I’d rethink the comment. We could probably fill an omnibus with words you don’t know.
Yes PONYTAILS, I found that odd for her age to have Two. It's like waiting for him sick her in a time zone.
SHE DECIDED TO TAKE CARE OF A GROWN MAN DESPERATION AT ITS FINEST
Your mother did it
Why are other women so quick to point a finger about how another woman treat her man..idgi
@@gggreens she was pointing the finger at HERSELF the WHOLE EPISODE
@@gggreens uhhh she brought her slow self on National tv.
@@Proverbspsalms EXACTLY the judge had no pity on her rule in man favor
Cheating during covid is the very reason my daughter's father got his walking papers smh. Contrary to what he thought, my being pregnant reinforced my worth & his lack there of!
This is nothing to say in public. Rather than try to figure out what the issue is between both of you, you chose to be a single mom to a newborn. That’s shameful. Y’all need to work it out. Unless your unbearable attitude was the cause of him wanting to get away from you. In that case, breaking up was the best think for both of y’all
@@charcoalcowboy I'm going to ask your close minded, egotistical self to watch your tongue. It's apparent you're slow. I clearly said he cheated! Since I know who I am and whose I am, I let him go. Only a worthless narcissist would think I should've done anything different. Do yourself a favor & stay off my comments!
Karma know your address
She shoulda known better ! Tf …eww…you’re 11 yrs older than him …chasin his broke ass around when there ARE men your OWN age that are waaaay finer AND self sufficient! And then she called the other woman’s husband but couldn’t confront the mf who was in a relationship with her ?! Someone please make it make sense !! I’m 41 and I have NEVERRRR checked a female about a guy…unless she was disrespecting my man..but you ALWAYS check the cheater ! You can’t check someone who doesn’t owe you fidelity !!
I can't stand when Cougars and Sugar Daddies try to sue.
😂😂😂😂
Ha! Judge Greg Mathis👨⚖️ replayed Dude's Game Scenario, Down to a SCIENCE!👑👏😎🤣😂🤣
My Mom used this phrase and it is definitely true...."Ain't nothing worse than an old fool". In your younger years we may do some foolish things, but damn!!!! This lady probably knocking on 60 and taking care of this man. She complained about him not providing, but gets the man fired from his job! She can't be mad at anyone but herself...not this man.
If I owe the government $3.5 mil, just leave me in jail 😭
😂😂😂😂
Looking at him is like judging a book by its cover
Granny you wasted 19 and some change on that bum, proudly stating you paid for everything, even after hearing the horrible rumors about yourself and continuing to smile about it!!! Smh Smmfh 🤦🏿♀️
I don't feel bad for her at all she's mad goofy and hasn't learned anything from that foolishness!!
She can’t blame no one but herself
I never caught something this early lol I'm excited
Me too
What's good JM fam hope everyone is having a awesome day showing major love
👋🏾
@@bellladonna2071 hello there
All will be well. Have a beautiful day 🌼
Stay Blessed Everyone 🙏🏾 @Rellz 👋🏾
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She can't blame nobody but herself. She lost all her good years with this man when she could have had somebody better.🤦🏿♀️
I thank god my mama gave her girls the game. She ain’t the only dumb woman it’s plenty of them. Old and young these women beg men for attention all in their dms being thirsty you couldn’t imagine. I thought men were supposed to do the wooing.
Yet none of you are married
@@theredwhoop9372 I can tell how lame you are by your profile pic like ESG said “boy u gets no play in that gay muscle shirt”
You need to re evaluate that thought.. times are changing that old way not going to work anymore, internet on the scene now more knowledge easy access , the game has flipped, that plaintiff got caught in the game she missed some valuable rules ,she lose
How does 20 years go by dealing with the same crap…..I could never
19.5
Men enjoy supporting women they love. If he's "dating" you, but you are paying, HE DON'T LIKE YOU!
Facts...
This woman was so good to the defendant by taking him under her wings although, she shouldn't have cause him to lose his job.
Do you really believe that was the situation buddy was a bum and probably got fired for harassment because you don’t even have termination papers no write ups just straight fired Nawl ? For the company’s liability purposes at least
@@tinajohnson6713 she's a old ratchet can't have that patrolling the lot.
Dang, I was on her side until she denied the altercation at his job, there was no way he made that story up, I was hoping she was going to get herself out of being responsible for him losing his job.
Right and that puts every single thing she said in question.
Right and that puts every single thing she said in question.
the Plaintiff really made herself look foolish...never phuck with someone's job.
Or never cross those boundaries at someones job. Stay in your lane basically
This is why it doesn't pay to be a good black woman. So many ungrateful souls who don't appreciate a damn thing.
You're right and the Judge had the nerve to grant him his countersuit and dismissed her case🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I'd have to beat someone up for this had it been me!
Being a good woman is not for the benefit of others, it should be for yourself and if you're a Godly woman, it's to please the Lord. Not sure why ppl keep living to appease others. Too many People are trifling. They love you one day, betray you the next.
Being a good person doesn't make you immune to the repercussions of bad decisions.
Stop being a GOOD WOMEN to BUMASS NIGGAS.
PLENTY MEN GET THEY ASSES UP DAILY AND TAKE THEIR ASSES TO WORK LEGALLY ...
but nah yall want the hustlers and d boys.
Then when it don't work out...yall want sympathy.
@@ddavis8988 so true
I believe her! She’s telling the truth! He is a bum!
Don't like the way he treated the woman who held him down and kept it real when he was down and out....
This is why it doesn't pay to be a good black woman. So many ungrateful souls who don't appreciate a damn thing.
That's how some of these trifling guys are SMH 🙄! Had the nerve to be embarrassed of her and countersuing her for emotional stress🙄🙄🙄my eyes were rolling everytime he spoke🤭
Ma'am! No need to yell lol
Cheating on her at the jail. With dudes???
Could’ve been any man/woman that do more than one bid is suspicious to me
Can we talk about alll the new faces in the audience but I still see my Auntie in the upper left corner holding it down lol
She too old to be acting like that
That man showed you not 1, or 3 times he was a bum but that’s what you wanted and stayed
From the thumbnail I thought a mom was suing her son 😳😂
She is 11 years older no twenty five.
Men and women. When you see a person treating you differently in a negative way when they are around their family members. That's a sign to end it with them.
I agree
Judge Mahis was wrong on this one. He still owed her for that storage.
She looks like the comedian Tracy Morgan..like she could be his sister or mom 😅🤣
😩😩😭😭
How do u feel sorry for her(plaintiff)?? She knew everything about her guy(defendant). She had a whole son and made him her husband🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Insecurities and low self esteem at it's bestest lol! Nevertheless, they both sounded real crazy! They got what they needed from one another for 19 and a half yrs!
What’s funny is “bestest”.
@@HARRIS4276 🤣😭
"she had a whole son and made him her husband" that sounds dumb 🤨
I don't know that she has low self-esteem but she knew that he was cheating n using her for her money for 20 years. Now that's crazy!!!
Shout out to the sugar mommy's out there
😆
May you enjoy your choices
You know she old she referring to text messages as emails😂😂😂 bless her heart
LOL!! Judge Mathis says lock down was how he learned he could be with his wife 24/7. My spouse and I drove over the road truck for 21 years as a team. That is being together 24/7 because we even stayed in hotels for time off instead of paying rent and utilities on a place. We thought lockdown was a piece of cake!!
Bet y’all stacked that paper
An altercation is you telling someone to get away from you and your car🙄………..JM LOVES giving his convict buddies money or the case when he knows they’re dead wrong! 🤨🤦🏽♂️
JM ruled against her bcuz he caught her in a lie about causing him to lose his job. She knew the assistant manager was bcus he was one also. Then she acted confrontational with how she acted towards her
Pay attention to the very end
@@donovanwilliams29 In no way shape or form did he prove even slightly that she caused him to loose his job, telling a women that’s approaching your car to get away from you is not cause to get another person fired……that’s just stupid to believe a manager(I’ve been one)would fire a worker for someone else being at your job and saying get away from my car!
@@dennissmith7214
They all(employees) know who she is already and she's provoking the animosity towards all the employees she starting trouble with 1st saying she not his cab but yet she's arriving 1 sometimes 2 hours early, why be there so early if you not looking to be friends anyways. She could have been somewhere else doing something else to avoid any problems but yet she's at his job and getting into verbal exchange when she could've just ignored them . So Mathis saw through her BS and said she provoked the confrontation with her actions and ruled correctly
She caused him to get fired
I’m with her……Oh Wow, come on Judge Mathis!
Me to. This was an injustice
This is a lesson that keeps repeating itself for women with low self esteem.19 yrs doesnt mean the affection is mutual, I doubt he ever paid a dime for anything. How naive can love be? Wow Moms u can do better im sure
She’s adorable, but desperate gets you where she is… cutie pie!🌹 there’s somebody out there for you🙂😉
Lawd, her hollering. Woo Wee.
Based off the thumbnail I wasn’t expecting her to sound like this 😂😩
🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
BTW, Judge Mathis had me rolling thru all this video🤦🏾♀️🤣😭😭😭😩
Ma’am, Ms… You are too old to(actually at no age should one do that) be showing up to someone’s place of work. Any time you feel compelled to do such a thing; you need to leave that relationship 🙃
Stayed with him for 20yrs blocking her blessings. Ladies!!! The word said ' You Are Worth More Than Rubies' when I understood that! But from the time I heard made him lost his job, I knew she lost the case.
19.5
Why did the courts entertain this case?
Girl move on... Just leave that bum
Brother Kevin Samuels is rolling in his grave listing to this.
😂🤣🤣😂😂
Is it low self esteem or UNconditional love kind of like a Mom ? I’m actually asking. I , personally, know the importance of boundaries. Screw that.
I think both sides need to take accountability. It’s not no BW fault or BM fault it’s both ADULT’S fault.
Sounds to me like she did take accountability I didn’t hear her blame him not one time
Came straight to the comments after I heard the introduction 🤣