Anger And Resentment In Marriage | Anger Part 1 | Paul Friedman

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  • @TheMarriageFoundation
    @TheMarriageFoundation  5 років тому +15

    Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by:
    1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing.
    2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways
    3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions.
    Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.

  • @taotetyrone
    @taotetyrone Рік тому +5

    You’re speaking directly to my spirit’s heart! EVERYTHING you’re laying down feels like it’s coming from a place of truth and Love. Thank you for these gentle reminders… I will begin to apply what I can here and now. Much Love & Grace to you and everyone connected in this shared experience. 🙏🏾 💗 ☝🏾 😊

  • @reneemoore6249
    @reneemoore6249 3 роки тому +39

    My husband gets very angry when he is overtired. He has angry outbursts at me. Very abusive. Then I freeze up and can't function. That makes him more angry. I tell him what's happening to me and he doesn't seem to have access to his stuff, what is going on with him. So I am in flight response and I white knuckle through. Then his anger subsides eventually and to him, it seems, nothing happened.
    But with me, I have the residual effect and it turns into resentment and hatred for him. I do not like him and I want to avoid this person. I even hate him.
    I dont want to live like this. Its been going on for years and it's getting worse.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  3 роки тому +12

      There are reasons for all but they all come from the same one problem that there is not a foundation of love and happiness in your relationship. Let us show you how to rebuild your marriage, but correctly. You can do it!

    • @afifa3630
      @afifa3630 2 роки тому +3

      It’s his ego

    • @camillapate2513
      @camillapate2513 Рік тому +5

      Hi Renee. Can you please tell me what you decided to do? I’m in a similar situation and would love to know how your last year has gone and what you have done to cope.

    • @mariasupp2915
      @mariasupp2915 Рік тому +1

      @@camillapate2513 Its been 2 weeks. I wish u all the best if your life. It is never always been easy to anyone. U love the person, u just don't give up. Keep fighting. That is why u were here. Me too. Sometimes we need some guidance. We are all humans we intend to forgot .

    • @gaymichaelis7581
      @gaymichaelis7581 Рік тому

      Not understanding your English all the way!?!? Thank you!! ❤

  •  3 роки тому +9

    The spiritual aspect of being a Soul makes perfect sense, it is so beautiful. Why won't God allow for me as a soul to just control my mind and connect to my heart, and feelings of love? I want to overcome the drive to survive, but it ain't working.

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  3 роки тому +4

      We are given that ability but waste it and our will atrophies. Now, it is your trun to make the supreme effort

    • @joedavid82
      @joedavid82 Місяць тому

      You can!

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you again

  • @aartug1
    @aartug1 5 років тому +17

    Thanks for being there for us

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  5 років тому +4

      Thank you It's a great privilege to help people save their marriage.

    • @dogmutty2
      @dogmutty2 5 років тому +1

      Great video!...however, I disagree that we're animals or like animals...I believe we were created in the image of God...anyways thank you

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  5 років тому +3

      @@dogmutty2 We are NOT animals! We ARE souls. You are right! But, and here is the problem, we have "animal" bodies, and that is the source of many problems. Overcome the body's drive-to-survive and you will be in a heavenly state of soul-Love.

    • @dogmutty2
      @dogmutty2 5 років тому +1

      @@TheMarriageFoundation hmm interesting

  • @fr---
    @fr--- 7 місяців тому +1

    Loved it! Where have you been all my life ☺️ Im so happy to have found your channel. Thank you for this clear explanation

  • @eunico3456
    @eunico3456 3 роки тому +4

    Human beings are tripart. Body, soul and spirit. Mind emotions feelings are the soul

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  3 роки тому +1

      True feeling, love, is of the soul. Emotions however are specific software that perform specific duties, almost always without monitoring.

  • @roguestorm2769
    @roguestorm2769 3 роки тому +5

    Really love your calming voice :)

  • @davethefam7420
    @davethefam7420 Рік тому +1

    Please Help My Marriage and my faith is being crushed cause I feel like I sinned so much tords my friends and family. I feel like I'm going to Hell and I don't want to. I Need change in my life 😭

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Рік тому

      Please go to our website and see our offerings themarriagefoundation.org/ everything can be truned around.

    • @laurenfitzgerald3259
      @laurenfitzgerald3259 4 місяці тому

      You are not alone. Help us, Father!

  • @michelleyip203
    @michelleyip203 9 місяців тому

    Tq❤

  • @AdrenalineJunkie2323
    @AdrenalineJunkie2323 2 роки тому +1

    Where is "part 2" ??

  • @robertcarr272
    @robertcarr272 3 роки тому

    i (we) need help! Thank you.

  • @joedavid82
    @joedavid82 Місяць тому

    🔥❤️🔥

  • @Proverbs31_25
    @Proverbs31_25 2 роки тому +1

    reminds me of RIG VEDAS ancient teachings SANSKRIT -
    🥦🍒🥭Ayurveda holistic🥬🥥🍍🫐🥕
    doshas out of balance
    🌪VATA 🌪&
    🔥PITTA 🔥 &
    💧KAPHA💧
    ===
    🌪VATA dosha =the Mind; nerve system; thought; *FEAR; anxiety; complaining; unsatisfied; Caffeine addiction; intestines; digestion; IBS; parasites; dry flaky skin; thin body; cold feet; cold hands; intolerant to wind & cold; lack muscles; a stroke; hyperthyroid; any restriction; how the mind understands experiences; insomnia, nightmares; stuck in comfort-zone; mental health; ADD; ADHD; GOSSIP; DECEIT/Liar; arguing/debating; "Should" questioning Why; memory loss; mental disfunction or high IQ - communication - the intellect - slow thinking or fast thinking skills - listening skills or no listening skills - self righteous
    (RAJASIC GUNA) RAJAS
    ~~~~~
    🔥PITA dosha =the Body; actions we take or don't - movement: Fight; Flight; Freeze; lack self courage & self discipline & self control - Bitterness; Resentment; Frustration; "Expect"; Bossy; Militant; Anger; RAGE🔥; Fever; "competitive" - battle - "i must Win"; Fever🔥Infection; RED RASH; infected bleeding rash; Heart muscle issues /high blood pressure; heart attack; the blood/& muscles - me me mine mine I - I - self protection; warrior -I do myself - detachment
    (TAMASIC GUNA) TAMAS
    ~~~
    💧KAPHA dosha=Emotions/feelings; Attachment; holding on; growth; enlarged; obesity; heavy; excessive; Inflammation; retention/retain; mass; (cancer disease); I MUST HAVE - I MUST KEEP - i must rescue; I must hold on; I "deserve"; I must help people; i must enable; *food addictions-carbs & dairy & *SUGAR ; drug or alcohol addictions; emotional enablers; emotional manipulators; entanglement; hypothyroidism; obesity; DIABETIC 1&2&3; kidney/liver/ reproductive organs/breasts/UTI as a result/ needy;clingy; blaming others for their feelings being hurt; 'heart broken' emotions; vindictive; jealousy; envy; i "need" more support; you hurt *my "feelings"; you need to do this for me; lazy; self entitled; "I Deserve"; "I Want"; hoarding- dogmatism & self opinions & judging others based on emotions that always fluctuate like ocean tides ...
    -attachment
    -SATWIC GUNA -SATVA
    **************
    most difficult to "balance" for everyone is 100% VATA 🌪 DOSHA - the mind & nerve System - deeep years of 'conditioning' since birth
    🌪🔥💧 AYURVEDA -Sanskrit

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 роки тому

      Truth is found in all religions though the application of the truths do not become important to the individual who isn't suffering.