Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by: 1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing. 2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways 3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions. Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
My husband gave me the "I love you but am not in love with you" talk at the beginning of October. I was horrified and totally disoriented by this but after watching so many of your videos and not only having a change of heart but a change of action, he told me he loves me last night and that he wants to go through life with me hand in hand. Thank you for everything, you are a truly incredible person and teacher 🌷
When negativity strucks into my marriage, I just go back to why, what, when and how I feel in love witg my husband. I met him when I was 19 and now I'm turning 45. Marriage is a work in progress, commitment is the key. ❤ Thank you for reminding me my role. God bless us all and you Sir for doing the effort in creating this video especially from a man's point of view. God bless you're family.
@@TheMarriageFoundation Yes, I'm learning with God's help to treat my husband as I would want him to treat me always. It's not easy at times but it helps me to have peace and a better marriage. I thank you for all your videos and wanting to help others have a better marriage. God bless you and your family!
Oh Paul.. You are amazing.. I just found you today, i wish i found u earlier would hv found lots of happiness.. You are really making my mind n heart calm
So, out of curiosity, how exactly do you propose a woman remain positive and loving all the time with a man who is negative, depressed and does not follow through on things he has promised he will do -- big, important things which will affect and secure their future? He has been this way for 15 years and I have tried being positive and loving, tried being patient and have suggested counseling to him. He won't go. At your suggestion, I am not supposed to talk to anyone about this, not supposed to talk about my feelings and am supposed to sit with this alone and just keep smiling, being loving and positive to him and ignoring the problem, right?
It can be a struggle to be around one who is as described but you should only do what will actually help yourself, him, and your marriage. Being loving describes a stylized action, not an open loving heart. Learn to love without conditions and you will both benefit.
It's been long time ⌛️ I've been negative and nagging he has held on so much I'm blessed he didn't leave me ❤ so know I'm fixing myself and my marriage
What happens when you always try to put put the positive hoping for the same response but your husband doesn't reciprocate it. I have learned to put layers into my heart so when he does something positive, I can't see it.
Yo are describing the mind's creative ways of blocking you from your own heart, it is usual because we are not taught the science of marriage and love. I think you would do well with one of my books or the course for women. It can change your life to hear the good news about marriage. themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
I thank the Lord he led me to your videos , Jesus is talking to me , I been praying he would change me and make me a better women and wife to be.Amen 💞🤗🙏
I learned a lot from your videos and OMG how beneficial it is for my marriage, but my husband is afraid that I won’t be consistent with the loving positive changes, and he is afraid that I have high expectations from him in return, although I told him that I will love him forever and Im not giving up on him and we are in love and marriage it’s not business therefore Im not expecting anything in return but he can’t believe me! How can I reassure him that I am not giving up on loving him unconditionally and Im not expecting anything in return ??
Is a wife supposed to help her husband with his insecurities? For instance, I have abandonment issues from childhood and my. Long and short of it. I hate waking up alone. After I got married to my wife , I figured all nighters would end but they haven't she goes out all night i sleep alone and wake up alone. When that happens it triggers tons of negative emotion and I have ager tword her and my day is usually bad. Is it unfair for me she want her home?
There are reasons why a man who married a woman has lost his dedication to the marriage and although you are doing your best you do not know enough, not your fault, to please him. Use our knowledge in your marriage and he will come around.
It may be the case, but often runs deeper to her thinking which is the springboard for all actions. Try taking a negativity fast for 3 days where you do not allow any negative thoughts to stay in your mind. See what happens.
Love is within each of us and is impossible to expose someone to their innate state of love, as is the soul. So, just demonstrate your love without attachment to his receptivity. Be sure, however, your expressions are true and not muddled by other expressions at other times.
God? You think He is mortal?? OMG! You have to do your part and get your marriage together not look for pettyy things to disagree with :) themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
My wife consistantly asks me to stop doing things that make her "uncomfortable", things that are important to me and a big part of my life. What is acceptable when she asks me to change my life, to the point where i give up everything that is important to me so she can feel more comfortable? How do you solve these disputes, what is reasonable and what is abusive? Should you truly change everything about yourself for your partner?
People who change for the better are always better off as are those around them. Your wife's admonishments are probably good indicators of things you would be better off changing.
Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by:
1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing.
2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways
3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions.
Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
My husband gave me the "I love you but am not in love with you" talk at the beginning of October. I was horrified and totally disoriented by this but after watching so many of your videos and not only having a change of heart but a change of action, he told me he loves me last night and that he wants to go through life with me hand in hand. Thank you for everything, you are a truly incredible person and teacher 🌷
You are fortunate to have made the changes without needing the course for women, good job!
U break down points so clearly with clarity. Most women of today's time need to see ur videos.
Thank you! I try.
"Infuse your marriage with love and positivity"...Love it💗God bless you Paul for all your wonderful teachings🙏
I am blessed, too. as are you 🙏
When negativity strucks into my marriage, I just go back to why, what, when and how I feel in love witg my husband. I met him when I was 19 and now I'm turning 45. Marriage is a work in progress, commitment is the key. ❤ Thank you for reminding me my role. God bless us all and you Sir for doing the effort in creating this video especially from a man's point of view. God bless you're family.
Thanks for sharing! Marriage is so fulfilling and joyful when you understand it, yourself and him
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This is such amazing advice! Thank you Paul, this really speaks deeply to me and gives me hope I can continue to get better and better.
You're so welcome! Wouldn't this be a great topic for middle school girls?
Wow, this is for the grown and mature! I'm going to do this!
Amen. Love is all that matters in everything in life.
Yes, and learning how to manifest that love in our marriage is a self-serving service and obligation.
@@TheMarriageFoundation Yes, I'm learning with God's help to treat my husband as I would want him to treat me always. It's not easy at times but it helps me to have peace and a better marriage. I thank you for all your videos and wanting to help others have a better marriage. God bless you and your family!
Bless you too 🙏
I love your videos. They are so wise and have really inspired me to live my life in love. I truly want to do this for the rest of my life.
Oh Paul.. You are amazing.. I just found you today, i wish i found u earlier would hv found lots of happiness..
You are really making my mind n heart calm
Love this channel!! Everything you talk about is 💯 true. Thank you for turning my marriage around. 😊
We are blessed by His wisdom when we apply it and the highest wisdom is love
A fantastic video thank you , god bless you
Thank you, Paul Friedman. God bless you too.
You are very welcome
So, out of curiosity, how exactly do you propose a woman remain positive and loving all the time with a man who is negative, depressed and does not follow through on things he has promised he will do -- big, important things which will affect and secure their future? He has been this way for 15 years and I have tried being positive and loving, tried being patient and have suggested counseling to him. He won't go. At your suggestion, I am not supposed to talk to anyone about this, not supposed to talk about my feelings and am supposed to sit with this alone and just keep smiling, being loving and positive to him and ignoring the problem, right?
It can be a struggle to be around one who is as described but you should only do what will actually help yourself, him, and your marriage. Being loving describes a stylized action, not an open loving heart. Learn to love without conditions and you will both benefit.
To God be the Glory forever, thank you 🇿🇲
This is such a powerful message thank you so much
Thanks for this video
It's been long time ⌛️ I've been negative and nagging he has held on so much I'm blessed he didn't leave me ❤ so know I'm fixing myself and my marriage
Determination to make inner changes will make your life and marriage joy filled. We are here to inspire you and help you
I wish my wife would watch this. 😢
Thank you for all your work!
It is my way to serve, thank you. 🙏
What happens when you always try to put put the positive hoping for the same response but your husband doesn't reciprocate it. I have learned to put layers into my heart so when he does something positive, I can't see it.
Yo are describing the mind's creative ways of blocking you from your own heart, it is usual because we are not taught the science of marriage and love. I think you would do well with one of my books or the course for women. It can change your life to hear the good news about marriage. themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
Thank you so much for your massage.. .. Love can find away in as Blessing ...
I thank the Lord he led me to your videos , Jesus is talking to me , I been praying he would change me and make me a better women and wife to be.Amen 💞🤗🙏
I learned a lot from your videos and OMG how beneficial it is for my marriage, but my husband is afraid that I won’t be consistent with the loving positive changes, and he is afraid that I have high expectations from him in return, although I told him that I will love him forever and Im not giving up on him and we are in love and marriage it’s not business therefore Im not expecting anything in return but he can’t believe me! How can I reassure him that I am not giving up on loving him unconditionally and Im not expecting anything in return ??
The best way is to never stop your efforts of self-improvement. It's not your job to assure him, only to love him.
@ thank you for replying and it’s a great reply
What happens when your spouse is not seeing the love
Thanks
Thank you
Which is worse: "I love you, but I don't really like you." or "I like you, but I am not in love with you."
Doing nothing to help and transform your marriage is a sad thing... themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
Is a wife supposed to help her husband with his insecurities? For instance, I have abandonment issues from childhood and my. Long and short of it. I hate waking up alone. After I got married to my wife , I figured all nighters would end but they haven't she goes out all night i sleep alone and wake up alone. When that happens it triggers tons of negative emotion and I have ager tword her and my day is usually bad. Is it unfair for me she want her home?
It does not sound like your wife is actually married to you
What can a wife do if her husband admits that he is only committed 60% in his marriage yet he knows his wife is more then 100% committed?
There are reasons why a man who married a woman has lost his dedication to the marriage and although you are doing your best you do not know enough, not your fault, to please him. Use our knowledge in your marriage and he will come around.
It may be the case, but often runs deeper to her thinking which is the springboard for all actions. Try taking a negativity fast for 3 days where you do not allow any negative thoughts to stay in your mind. See what happens.
@@TheMarriageFoundation
Wow how to take the negativity fast
Where can I find the man’s role video?
please search in the main directory
Wat if the wife has troubles of her own.?
not a soul on earth has no troubles.
I need more tips on the greater power 🔋
I would like to help though I'm not sure what you are looking for.
@@TheMarriageFoundation awesome 👍 that would be great. How do we talk?
leave your messages here. My hourly rate is on our website if you wish a phone conference.
What happens when my husband is not seeing the love what do I do?
Love is within each of us and is impossible to expose someone to their innate state of love, as is the soul. So, just demonstrate your love without attachment to his receptivity. Be sure, however, your expressions are true and not muddled by other expressions at other times.
@@TheMarriageFoundation Thank you so much. God bless 🙏
I am finding that I may have chosen the wrong man. Period.
One of the biggest things that disagree with there are three people in your marriage one of them being God and he is the head
God? You think He is mortal?? OMG! You have to do your part and get your marriage together not look for pettyy things to disagree with :) themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
I just want to be happier! But it's the opposite
You SHOULD be happier. Try one of the books, or get the course for women.
A wife has a choice in a marriage: make your husband a king or a pauper.
Although true it is not helpful for those who struggle. One must "do" themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
Thank you i send this to my wife
that is a bad idea. One should only notice their own roles and not have expectations of their spouse.
My wife consistantly asks me to stop doing things that make her "uncomfortable", things that are important to me and a big part of my life.
What is acceptable when she asks me to change my life, to the point where i give up everything that is important to me so she can feel more comfortable? How do you solve these disputes, what is reasonable and what is abusive? Should you truly change everything about yourself for your partner?
People who change for the better are always better off as are those around them. Your wife's admonishments are probably good indicators of things you would be better off changing.
So how is it going?