Boundaries for Bachelor Parties | Episode 13 | Give It To Me Straight
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- Опубліковано 6 сер 2024
- Are having strippers at a Bachelor party harmless fun? or could it jeopardize your relationship? In this week's episode, Jon and Alex answer listener questions on how to keep your Independence when going to college with your partner, how to ask for a raise, falling out with friends, trading one addiction for another, and settling with a sexless marriage.
Alex has it right, no strip clubs are boundaries for many peope including me and many of my friends. John can acknowledge relationships are different and have different boundaries...except for when it comes to strip clubs? That's just making excuses to go. Clearly Alex doesnt care if John goes, but i love that Alex is still empathetic to other women who really wouldnt like it.
Just because its culturally acceptable, doesnt make it ok or right for everyone. Theres a lot of messed up things in our culture.
I think going to a strip club and actually getting a lap dance performance from one of the strippers are two different things and nowadays it's more common for bachelorette/bachelor parties to involve strippers and erotic performances especially aus and has been on the rise after magic mike movie
@@lonelysoul2329 yea it’s a different thing going to a strip club and getting a lap dance - but some people aren’t ok with either, and that’s totally fine. What Alex is saying is that some people aren’t ok with it, and that should be respected as a boubdary in the relationship. Doesn’t matter if it’s more culturally acceptable now - doesn’t mean it’s ok. Lots of men end up cheating at bachelor parties
@@samco63 yea !!you would be surprised to know how many cheat on their bachelorette parties but yes goes both ways and should definitely be considered a boundary if your partner is not okay with it and not demean them by saying insecure and all that when it's actually different
@@lonelysoul2329 oh yea, I imagine it happens on bachelorettes too… I just haven’t been to many and none with strippers, but I’m sure it happens also! Exactly, I think it’s whatever each couple is comfortable with.
Damm it. I was supposed to put the phone down and go to sleep 😂
Yea it’s 11pm lol
Same 😆
I’m sex in the city there’s an episode where Carrie tells her friend to leave her husband and her friends say something that stuck w me forever and it’s saved me so many times
Miranda: Telling your friend to leave her husband is something you just don't do.
Samantha: If she does break up with him its your fault. If she doesn't break up with him, she knows that you think that she should and, therefore can never speak to you again. Either way you're screwed
42:24 I read a post once that said foreplay starts way before it’s sexual. Kissing her forehead in the morning, making her coffee, texting her throughout the day etc Make her feel loved. There may be a disconnect there. Make her want you.
this podcast is underrated. so glad i discovered you guys😊
not SURPRISED that i loved every second of this
Thanks for the divisions! Great for finding stuff again to share
Wohoo! Just in time for my morning coffee! 🎉 Greets from 🇸🇪
Love y’all so much!!!!
The microphones are great, you guys sound crystal clear. However I would suggest that you record in a room that doesn’t create an echo🙂
Love you guys! Hope you had a great time on your trip!
How to negotiate a pay raise: Get an interview with a different company, get an offer from them, tell your employer you got an offer - either your company will give you a counter offer to get you to stay with them or you go with the new company making more money.
You won't get the money you're looking for if you simply stay with your current company, no matter how many extra hours you put in.
Ughh I love them they are so funny 🤣
When the hell did “waiting in line” become an experience??😂
So good to hear Alex’s sex drive is higher. Mine is higher than my husbands and we’ve been together for 21 years. I’m always negotiating and trying to make it creative 😅😢
For the girl whose asking advice for another possible outlet for her husband. There are supplements or drink powders, or drinks out now that are natural that can have the same affect as feeling "buzzed" or achieve the relaxation that they get from cigarettes/cigars. Look into that!
Where do I sign that petition John?
#newchair
Never understood the purpose of bachelor/bachelorette parties. We had a joint party and it was great. Nowhere does it say these parties are necessary. Just don’t do them. 🤷♀️
Me: I'd take the coyote home
Alex: I'd take the coyote home 🤣
Alex is my spirit animal lol my answers are always the same as hers
Moving ??
HARRY POTTER WORLD IS LEGIT! My wife and I used to go every December for my bday and the whole place was decorated for Xmas. ALWAYS pay the extra hundred for the speedy VIP pass thing. I went on the Hogwarts ride SEVEN times and those poor schmuks at the back of the line just looked at us with envy as we zoomed by over and over... to the front of the line.
We had a Super Bowl party & one of our guests brought their dog & let them on the couch when my own dogs aren’t even allowed on the couch.
It was a friend of my in laws so I was too afraid to speak up. I thought that shit was straight up rude.
Bringing dogs to someone else's homes is a BIG no no, whether they have dogs or not. I had my stepfather's brother bring his obnoxious dog (without telling us) on top of his annoying six yo son to a big family gathering and it was a mess. The kid running around messing with the dog and playing very loudly. We have a dog who is usually very calm but became suuuuper stressed by the other dog and was super down for days. A dog is not a kid and can stay alone for 2-3 hours. If you can´t leave them alone then just don't go and stay with them.
Wait, moving out of your house in a week?!
I'm curious about this too!
pitbulls don't have lock jaws....no dogs do! but love you guys! :)
I need to see footage of harry potter world so I can see the misery on his face...my husband along with many others would be dragging their feet and whiny like a child. 😆
Fun fact: Coyotes don't hurt humans. Look it up.
Dyson vacuums are trash, to be honest.
39:21 dude just needs to suck it up. He’s probably bringing his snafu kids around to other people’s houses and little kids are messy and annoying.
Um, you can’t leave kids alone at home, whereas a dog - yes
@@sevinjgamarli um they’re called baby sitters.
from what i’ve seen through a couple of their videos, they don’t seem like a good match for each other
You need to really know them, watch it from the start. They’re perfect for each other
Is Alex pregnant? She is slower than usual in this episode :)