youtube is dead the entire internet realises this all yt does now is stop and pause and not play it is dead! also you can't comment much or have any controversal content and the algorythm sucks it is dead! I am out of here the end.
I agree with everything you shared. I wanted to add 2 cents on accountability. I recently learned this too i.e., sometimes too much introspection leads to a spiral of self-blame which results into tons of mental health issues from a pain or pleasure form of self-discipline. That is emotional immaturity too cuz sometimes there is noone to blame including ourselves and 'xyz' didn't work out for who knows what reason. Not trying to solve or hyperfixate on it is okay. Just throw that project, relationship, personal flaw or insecurity in the bin and move-on. The best gift you can give is choosing peace. Learning to differentiate between what/who needs our attention and action is key. Honestly your videos feel like a well thought out journal entry unlike the countless draining & clickbaity podcasts on the internet. So continue your yapping, we love it!! 🫶🏽
I so much agree with what you mentioned about too much introspection !And it is so difficult to become aware of it and stop self blame or blame !Still working on it !
I agree with you and sadly can confirm I do not have all these traits and I find it hard to sometimes control my emotions. I love your videos and would love people to all around learn more things like this than how to dress right.
Education in social and socio-economic topics >> idk why, but even if you are relatively lonely, it makes you feel better. dealing with the suffering of others and to stand up for it is self-fulfilling!
ive been recently struggling with "knowing how to handle conflict" and i love how you pointed it out in such a clear way that even helps how to actually solve it. Thank you so much! Definitely gonna check out your other videos ❤
ahhh keeping up with who you are and trying to be better is definitely a 'muscle' you have to keep training. mindfulness and self-awareness are so important but some days are just harder than others 🥲 this was a lovely video!! I definitely needed this.
i had a really bad episode the other night and i found your video that time and it made me feel safe and regulated. it made me realize i have the power to improve my life. so glad to know you have a new video. 💗 flowers for you! 🌷🌸🌺
Loved the traits you mentioned and very well articulated:) Thank you for sharing them .Listening to them,it is great to see how much I grew and also how much more work there is to be done !Very well done and thanks again !
IT was so hard for me to hear this because i have all these traits within me and my character, but severe childhood, youth and tweens Trauma has put some kind of filter over it so it never really got released. All that is left is this ambivalence. Today emotional intelligent and two days later the opposite. And how it would be to have that filter off of me. Sometimes i feel its too late to start all new, even though i never left my twenties at Heart, though i'm way much older.
02:10 this is one thing I struggle with because I've had some experiences with people where there was a person who is specifically really aggressive with me. While I try to rationalise it; I console myself, even know that that's just how they are and that doesn’t have anything to do with me. I still wonder what exactly made them come off in that way toward me while they don't treat others like that. It's hard not to take it personally when it is a very personal attack. I suppose, it's just something that I've experiences in my childhood and it's the way I was raised and treated as a child so it's triggering but yeah.
Ah I’m so sorry! Perhaps something about you triggers their trauma or ways they feel inadequate in their own life :( unless you’re out to get them it’s def not your fault
Hi😊 thank you for making videos that help other people! I’m sure you have other ideas and are making videos already, but I was wondering if you could think about maybe making a video on how to be a friend, what healthy, normal friendships look like aimed at people who feel a bit socially underdeveloped or akward please? thank you!
Ah that's incorrect. My brother had ADHD and my parents full on supported him. Established rhythm, schedules, empathy, attention, support, etc. He's pretty good now, calmer than before, productive, has a kid, but he's still got ADHD. I hope you don't conflate the two. @@MT-uf8xh
I know that I would love this video, but sadly I can’t concentrate with all the words on the screen. My assumption is that you are ND, I am too and I wish ND people would understand that captions don’t help everyone and that the option to turn them on/off is better for everyone! Especially as we are never listened to in real life!
not really. me personally I hate UA-cam subtitles. they're always inaccurate. subtitles made by the op also makes me understand the content better than UA-cam subtitles bc not everyone is a native English speaker :) u can't please everyone so maybe just zoom the video in to the point where u can't see the words anymore. u don't necessarily need to look at the video anyway if ure fluent.
I’m not ND but English is my 3rd language so I watch everything with subtitles always and I wanted to include them in all my videos. Maybe my videos just aren’t for you, and that’s ok
UA-cam is such a life saver.
We deserve each other. Not to keep running into grown versions of children
youtube is dead the entire internet realises this all yt does now is stop and pause and not play it is dead! also you can't comment much or have any controversal content and the algorythm sucks it is dead! I am out of here the end.
@@stratocasterblue tell me why the stop & pause thing just happened to me lmfaoo 😂
no it ruined me
I just realized I learned nothing from my parents, it's all from UA-cam 😢❤
I agree with everything you shared. I wanted to add 2 cents on accountability. I recently learned this too i.e., sometimes too much introspection leads to a spiral of self-blame which results into tons of mental health issues from a pain or pleasure form of self-discipline. That is emotional immaturity too cuz sometimes there is noone to blame including ourselves and 'xyz' didn't work out for who knows what reason. Not trying to solve or hyperfixate on it is okay. Just throw that project, relationship, personal flaw or insecurity in the bin and move-on. The best gift you can give is choosing peace. Learning to differentiate between what/who needs our attention and action is key. Honestly your videos feel like a well thought out journal entry unlike the countless draining & clickbaity podcasts on the internet. So continue your yapping, we love it!! 🫶🏽
Yes 💚 ty
I so much agree with what you mentioned about too much introspection !And it is so difficult to become aware of it and stop self blame or blame !Still working on it !
I agree with you and sadly can confirm I do not have all these traits and I find it hard to sometimes control my emotions. I love your videos and would love people to all around learn more things like this than how to dress right.
Oh this is crazy, I was literally looking up videos on emotionally immature people.
What a coincidence 🫶🏻
Education in social and socio-economic topics >>
idk why, but even if you are relatively lonely, it makes you feel better. dealing with the suffering of others and to stand up for it is self-fulfilling!
ive been recently struggling with "knowing how to handle conflict" and i love how you pointed it out in such a clear way that even helps how to actually solve it. Thank you so much!
Definitely gonna check out your other videos ❤
ahhh keeping up with who you are and trying to be better is definitely a 'muscle' you have to keep training. mindfulness and self-awareness are so important but some days are just harder than others 🥲 this was a lovely video!! I definitely needed this.
i had a really bad episode the other night and i found your video that time and it made me feel safe and regulated. it made me realize i have the power to improve my life. so glad to know you have a new video. 💗 flowers for you! 🌷🌸🌺
Awe I’m so glad it helped you 😭💚💚
Just commenting for the algo since this was good.
I wish you talk more about Emotional intelligence 🙏💜
I really love how calm her voice is while explaining everything based on the topic per video ❤
thank god i'm a more emotionally intelligent than i thought but unfortunately this made me realize that my parents aren't 💀
Great job explaining so nicely and including your life as an example! Thank you!
algo was good to show me a gem of a channel like this.
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I was researching Emotional Life and this came up. Thank you!
Loved the traits you mentioned and very well articulated:) Thank you for sharing them .Listening to them,it is great to see how much I grew and also how much more work there is to be done !Very well done and thanks again !
how sweet ! tysm for commenting
girl... your videos are LEGIT
Gurl thank you so much for this valuable video...i get older sister vibes from you....your videos are therapy to me 🫂
Lovely video; one thought, you can thank us for listening without apologizing or dismissing your work
Aw how kind! 😭🫶🏻 I’m just being a fool
So glad i found your channel ❤
i have 5 from these things. I'm learning on 3 of them. someday I'm gonna achieve all of them :). but i know it will take times and I'm okay with that
IT was so hard for me to hear this because i have all these traits within me and my character, but severe childhood, youth and tweens Trauma has put some kind of filter over it so it never really got released. All that is left is this ambivalence. Today emotional intelligent and two days later the opposite. And how it would be to have that filter off of me. Sometimes i feel its too late to start all new, even though i never left my twenties at Heart, though i'm way much older.
02:10 this is one thing I struggle with because I've had some experiences with people where there was a person who is specifically really aggressive with me. While I try to rationalise it; I console myself, even know that that's just how they are and that doesn’t have anything to do with me. I still wonder what exactly made them come off in that way toward me while they don't treat others like that. It's hard not to take it personally when it is a very personal attack. I suppose, it's just something that I've experiences in my childhood and it's the way I was raised and treated as a child so it's triggering but yeah.
Ah I’m so sorry! Perhaps something about you triggers their trauma or ways they feel inadequate in their own life :( unless you’re out to get them it’s def not your fault
I try not to play board games with porcupines.... They always have more points.
i really love listening to your thoughts, so thank you
i love you’re channel and character side note your skin is beautiful
AWE tysm 🥹🩵
thank you so much for this video!
you’re so nice thank you
this was extremely eye opening thank you!
Hi😊 thank you for making videos that help other people! I’m sure you have other ideas and are making videos already, but I was wondering if you could think about maybe making a video on how to be a friend, what healthy, normal friendships look like aimed at people who feel a bit socially underdeveloped or akward please? thank you!
that is such a good idea thank you so much !!!!
Thank you for this video! Very insightful and helpful ❤
Great video ❤
just realized i'm emotionally dumber than i thought i was lol gotta work on that! thanks for the eye opener!
Algo comment. Good content!
Hermoso ❤
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7:22 ❤️
this is only for neurotypical btw
hi! can you please elaborate on this?
Maybe they are neurotypical because they were nurtured. I’m starting to think that ADHD was actual emotional neglect growing up.
Ah that's incorrect. My brother had ADHD and my parents full on supported him. Established rhythm, schedules, empathy, attention, support, etc. He's pretty good now, calmer than before, productive, has a kid, but he's still got ADHD. I hope you don't conflate the two. @@MT-uf8xh
How do you keep your skin glowing?
I admire your dedication for your work 🤍
does she have this on spotify?
when you are the opposite out of all them except one 💀
I know that I would love this video, but sadly I can’t concentrate with all the words on the screen. My assumption is that you are ND, I am too and I wish ND people would understand that captions don’t help everyone and that the option to turn them on/off is better for everyone! Especially as we are never listened to in real life!
not really. me personally I hate UA-cam subtitles. they're always inaccurate. subtitles made by the op also makes me understand the content better than UA-cam subtitles bc not everyone is a native English speaker :) u can't please everyone so maybe just zoom the video in to the point where u can't see the words anymore. u don't necessarily need to look at the video anyway if ure fluent.
I’m not ND but English is my 3rd language so I watch everything with subtitles always and I wanted to include them in all my videos. Maybe my videos just aren’t for you, and that’s ok
i stumbled upon your channel today and i really love your content.Keep going 🤍
thank you that was so valuable 🥹🫂