How we met... and broke up!

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  • @greggronemeier1256
    @greggronemeier1256 5 років тому +47

    Learning how to "adult". That should be good for at least 6 video's !!!

  • @petercarlson811
    @petercarlson811 5 років тому +36

    Kudos Seth! It takes balls to do what you did in the airport. But it paid off :)

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      RIGHT?! It was a total ballsy move but I’m so glad he did!

  • @Nicole-lm3nk
    @Nicole-lm3nk 5 років тому +9

    Oh wow. I had no idea you broke up. I’m glad it ended up working out for you both, you seem like a great couple! I wish you both the best! Shortly after I started dating my boyfriend, my father passed away. It really is a difficult thing to handle in a new relationship, but i believe it made our relationship stronger and showed me that he was someone I could count on in hard times. It’s been five years, and although there’s been ups and downs, I’ve always known it’s worth it. Thanks for always inspiring people and brightening the world :)

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      I know it was pretty hush hush while we figured it all out!
      It's so hard to handle and yes, I believe if you can make it through you do come out stronger.
      Wow thank you for your nice words!!

  • @foggybottomz
    @foggybottomz 5 років тому +7

    And I love how you both have such high self-esteem where you are comfortable first with yourselves and then with each other. Authenticity is everything. Yes I want to see you learn how to adult. I thought I knew what I was doing at 26...29... Now I'm 33 and now I feel like I'm just beginning to figure it out. So don't fret at being 29. We all have our own journey.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      Thank you so much!!

  • @fairaies1786
    @fairaies1786 5 років тому +19

    I love how honest you two are ♥️ love your videos

  • @mariogravina4495
    @mariogravina4495 5 років тому +4

    Spending a few days in Vegas for R&R and the video title totally caught my attention. The trick in life is not just growing, but growing along with someone, at a rate that you can both utilize and benefit from whatever life throws at you. Much like climbing a mountain, there is that trust and reliance that one develops along. Mad love to both of you

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Love the analogy! I agree 100% I'm going to change just as much as he is, so we have to figure it out TOGETHER!

  • @craigsnider198
    @craigsnider198 5 років тому +3

    I started to write this and then ... He tried to drive across the Mississippi...with no bridge! You guys are nuts, lol.
    You guys covered alot of ground, true, in a short time! It makes me happy to hear your commitments to each other and the acknowledgement " It takes work". See? You're "adulting" already!
    Good luck guys, this will be fun to watch.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      HAHAHAHAHA I know that was not our best idea..
      haha youre right! We are adulting already!

  • @johnsexton3841
    @johnsexton3841 5 років тому +39

    This adulting thing is a trap! Quick, turn around!

    • @blackbirdbutterfly
      @blackbirdbutterfly 5 років тому +2

      John Sexton one of my favorite quotes is “keep growing up but don’t get old”. your comment made me think of it :)

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +2

      aahaha DONT DO IT!! I'm excited to do it a bit, but you'll never take my travel!

    • @johnsexton3841
      @johnsexton3841 5 років тому

      @@heyshayla Never let them take your travel away! As for growing up, it is not all that they make it out to be, so no, do not to that either.

    • @johnsexton3841
      @johnsexton3841 5 років тому

      @@blackbirdbutterfly , are you sure you have that correctly there? It should be "Never grow up and don't act or think old"

    • @blackbirdbutterfly
      @blackbirdbutterfly 5 років тому

      John Sexton yes. it means that you can keep growing up as in age but don’t get old as in don’t let age stop you from doing what you want in life

  • @horseshowgrl1
    @horseshowgrl1 5 років тому +35

    The man has perfect teeth

  • @missbarbiegal19
    @missbarbiegal19 5 років тому +3

    Just found your videos :) but wow, you guys have a beautiful story! People always tell me not to use bumble because people just want to hook up on there, but you guys are a perfect example of how anything is possible and how if you really want something or someone you'll make it work!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      I think people do just want to hook up on there. I'd even gotten messages explicitly asking. On one hand, I was like WTF then other I was super grateful because they were honest I just told them I wasn't into it and that was that! No awkward date with assumptions, and if I had been into it, how easy would that have been! haha I liked the upfront vibe.
      I went on a few days and was like eh, but I think dating is fun! You can totally make it work I've heard of quite a few success stories!

  • @olgal9902
    @olgal9902 5 років тому +16

    You guys are so cute together❣️ thank you for sharing your love Adventure!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      aw thank you, and thanks for watching!!

  • @devinkaauwai8906
    @devinkaauwai8906 Рік тому +1

    Haha seeing this pop up and comparing it to your mom + dad life can from a few months ago is priceless

  • @courtneyrodulfo7761
    @courtneyrodulfo7761 9 місяців тому

    Okay your last clip had me STRESSEDDDDD!!! We recently went on a super long road trip with kids and ran into some flooding at one part and had to try to turn around and I was so scared 🙈

    • @courtneyrodulfo7761
      @courtneyrodulfo7761 9 місяців тому

      Also here because it was a suggested video from your video about not complaining about our husbands and other tips and I just loved seeing y'all all the way back here too 😊

  • @Adam-hf6kb
    @Adam-hf6kb 5 років тому +3

    Great little summary. What's the 2nd academy? Also, don't drive through flooded roads!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Thank you!!
      The second academy is a police academy!
      Welp we learned that after the fact hahah

  • @cassiforest9191
    @cassiforest9191 4 роки тому +1

    I have been watching your pregnancy journey and this vidoe just popped up as suggested for me so I watched it 🤣 y'all have apparently ALWAYS been a hoot.

  • @8cweed
    @8cweed 5 років тому +1

    I can’t get over how you guys are such a great couple! Also the last part in the water, you filmed that?! You: “ No!” lmao!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      haha thank you and I know.. it wasn't our best idea!

  • @parttimenomad2864
    @parttimenomad2864 5 років тому +1

    What a nice, honest story. You guys seem made for each other.
    My question for a Q&A is - have you done anything you regret while on your travels?

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Thank you!! No, luckily I've had really good experiences on my travels, I credit it a lot to not drinking to much and being aware of my surroundings!

  • @samieileen
    @samieileen 5 років тому +1

    You two are adorable. Of course you made it through such a deeply difficult loss together - you're super supportive and really love each other.

    • @samieileen
      @samieileen 5 років тому +1

      OMFG that NZ road tho. Damn, if you can survive that you're good for life.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      hahahahaha

  • @interestedinstuff
    @interestedinstuff 5 років тому +4

    Great video. Love your story. Wouldn't mind a similar story for me. Ha. Years back I did a trip with my girlfriend at the time and her Mum said that any longish trip will either cement or kill any relationship. She was right.
    Re the end.. made me shudder. Here in Australia we have people drive across flooded causeways and disappear off to get dead a lot. It is a constant warning here not to drive across causeways. You guys aren't dead so it must have worked out, but defo made me shudder. Stay safe humans.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      It's totally the truth! Its a total make or break!
      OMG I was thinking the same thing! I was like this van is going to get swept away or a branch is going to come get us or something.. it was not a smart move!

  • @kassgal7213
    @kassgal7213 5 років тому +1

    Hi Shayla! I loved this video! I will be very interesting to see your life, while traveling and while not traveling and the thing about adulting and what you have learned so far while not being an 'adult' and your opinion about life etcetera.
    I hope it makes sense 😜
    Oh and I tagged one of your videos in a post in the GLT group

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      It totally makes sense!!
      Thank you so much for sharing the videos! I appreciate it so much!

    • @kassgal7213
      @kassgal7213 5 років тому

      Living On A One Way you are the best!

  • @alyssaface
    @alyssaface 5 років тому +3

    Aw you guys! Happy to see you two together as always

  • @zackatk77
    @zackatk77 5 років тому +1

    I love relationships stories! Especially ones that have bumps in the road. It's neat to hear how people's lives come together and the trials they go through. Sad that part of it is Seth's mom passing away. 😥 That's never an easy thing to live through.
    Making pour-over coffee and cleaning the bathroom counts as adulting right?

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      Totally, it's the only way! If everyone believes that the only good relationships are perfect ones then they're going to think something is wrong with them... NOT the case!
      It totally counts!

  • @indoorandoutdoorendurance3889
    @indoorandoutdoorendurance3889 5 років тому

    When I saw the title I thought this would be "clickbait" for sure. I saw this video when it came out a while back, and I hadn't watched it. I finally, after seeing it a few times, decided I would watch it, and it actually turned out to be pretty interesting in more parts than not. I just finished watching it, and not only was it inspiring, it helped me seek insight.

  • @cuppyn
    @cuppyn 5 років тому +11

    Also NEVER drive through a water covered road!!!!!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      I knoooooow... that NOW!

  • @capowable
    @capowable 5 років тому +2

    Broke up for a while? No way :O I first watched a good chunk of the NZ videos to start following. Good on yous :D

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      YES! Right after NZ, thank you!

  • @cuppyn
    @cuppyn 5 років тому +1

    So excited for you both to be home!!! Stuck hanging with Dave and I!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      ME TOO!!! We can't wait to hang out with you two!!

  • @kmac004
    @kmac004 5 років тому +1

    OMG that ending clip through the flooding just gave me HELLA anxiety!!! AHHHH... "Turn around, don't drown."

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      I knoooooow it gave me anxiety when I was editing it!! Hahah

    • @hope2882
      @hope2882 4 роки тому

      Is there a video on the flood story? I vant find it in your new zealand videos, please link! Great videos!

  • @thewave1918
    @thewave1918 5 років тому +1

    OMG! The end clip!!!! The fear in your voice Shayla 😂😂

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      I was pretty freaking terrified!

  • @ilovegermany99
    @ilovegermany99 5 років тому +5

    Please note your video was 11:11 min long. You get all the wishes!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      I totally realized this after I posted it, 11:11 came up another time before the video... heres to 2019!!!

  • @STEV3N84
    @STEV3N84 5 років тому +1

    You both.... one word: sugar! 😏Nice that you have found together again, after the difficult situation. Know the situation of seth all too well. good luck to both of you🙏🙂

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      Aw, I'm sorry that you know the situation, it's a difficult one! Thank you :)

  • @LeighAnneMarie
    @LeighAnneMarie 5 років тому +1

    Congrats on your impending graduation and best of luck with the move back!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      I showed this to Seth, he says Thank you!

  • @foggybottomz
    @foggybottomz 5 років тому +1

    I've only watched half so far but I Love the story and the pictures and enthusiasm so much.

  • @30AndAWakeUp
    @30AndAWakeUp 5 років тому +2

    I didn't know Seth was in the military....like him even more now! Im a vet as well!

  • @elizabethmejiasala6490
    @elizabethmejiasala6490 3 роки тому +1

    "Who says I love you to people, and then they're not in a committed relationship?" LMAO
    *awkwardly smiling*
    Uhhh meeee lol mind you, I knew my husband for years now, but after our first date as friends, I said I love you and we've been together ever since. Got engaged, married, and fist baby on the way!
    When you know you know, there's no playing around lol
    Loved this video!!!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  3 роки тому

      BabHhahaha amazing 😂😂🙌

  • @ForeverFashionGirl21
    @ForeverFashionGirl21 5 років тому +2

    this video was hilarious 10/10 loved having seth as a guest

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      GOOD!!! I'm so glad you liked it!

  • @Livingeidolon
    @Livingeidolon 5 років тому +8

    The look she gives Seth at like, 3:19...Good lord.

  • @emilypoull7586
    @emilypoull7586 5 років тому +1

    I'm going to Northern Ireland this spring!! Any tips or recommendations?

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Totally we have a whole video on Ireland ! ua-cam.com/video/78JaPCwfNV8/v-deo.html

    • @emilypoull7586
      @emilypoull7586 5 років тому

      @@heyshayla Thank you so much! I can't believe I missed this!

  • @lizzy2930
    @lizzy2930 5 років тому +1

    Adulting sucks!!!!! Blaze your own path.

  • @Livingeidolon
    @Livingeidolon 5 років тому +8

    So, when are y'all getting married??

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      hahaha

    • @Livingeidolon
      @Livingeidolon 5 років тому +4

      @@heyshayla I'm just saying. You kept looking at Seth like a lioness eyeing a gazelle all video.

    • @8cweed
      @8cweed 5 років тому

      No rush! But I thought he was gonna propose on the video ... omg Im getting nervous just thinking about it for you.

  • @torren6576
    @torren6576 5 років тому +1

    She's a catch Seth, good on ya man.

  • @kiroprakticar_duse
    @kiroprakticar_duse 5 років тому

    amazing, how much energy you have, how much positive energy you convey ...
    bravo 👏

  • @monamoore5471
    @monamoore5471 5 років тому +3

    Plz be together forever 💜💙

  • @sarah98214
    @sarah98214 5 років тому +1

    hey shayla i've been trying to hunt down your specific blanket it's the same one in this picture instagram.com/p/BrvdY4BFDL0/? can you please let me know where you got it?

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Girl, it's my favorite! Sorry I'm so late to reply because of the link it got stuck in my "spam"
      amzn.to/2IgrdLb

  • @francescadiana
    @francescadiana 5 років тому +1

    If that outro is not the best sales pitch ever created for a vehicle then I don't even know

  • @emilytholson4561
    @emilytholson4561 3 роки тому +1

    The story of how you met is so similar to mine it is creepy lol. I'm 7 months pregnant now 💖

  • @chrisgatica640
    @chrisgatica640 5 років тому +1

    What’s your largest patreon donation? Juuust curious.....

  • @SoloSailer
    @SoloSailer 5 років тому +1

    The part at the end with the water and the car🥺🥺. That’s a big fat NOPE

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Should have been a fat nope for us too!

  • @chrisgatica640
    @chrisgatica640 5 років тому +1

    I watch all of the commercials in full just for you! Lol

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      THANK YOU Chris!! haha

  • @inequil1026
    @inequil1026 5 років тому +1

    Best and cute picture of both of you @ 5:31; this is a keeper; best and funniest part @6:49

  • @annewhittemore3771
    @annewhittemore3771 4 роки тому

    My husband’s dad passed away the month after we started dating, and then his sister just a few months later. It was a lot.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  4 роки тому

      Oh man, I'm so sorry to hear that. It IS a lot, it either makes or breaks you I think.

  • @angiewoo9732
    @angiewoo9732 4 роки тому

    It looks like you guys have the same eye color. That's pretty cool :)

  • @karltainui5962
    @karltainui5962 4 роки тому +1

    I am a big fan (sorry for your loss) am a kiwi keep safe

  • @billnict1
    @billnict1 5 років тому +2

    Turn around, don't drown.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      RIGHT! We just saw a car drive through it too so we figured we were good.. we were mostly lol

  • @tessjones5987
    @tessjones5987 5 років тому +1

    Traveled the world and found eachother close to home. Hmm. Seems meant to be.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      awww hahah thank you Bumble! haaha

  • @SleepingElephant
    @SleepingElephant 5 років тому +1

    At the end... learn to turn around... I did in Utah......Don't want a tow truck to come get me in the moutains when I was solo.

  • @laurenrootsaert5110
    @laurenrootsaert5110 4 роки тому +2

    I started watching your pregnancy/baby videos cause I'm pregnant, now I'm watching all your old videos. But anyway, my husband pretty much did the same thing, told me he was "all in," and just started referring to me as his girlfriend. We made a joke that he "relationship raped" me cause I didn't consent. Maybe it's not that funny now that I think about it... Hahahaha

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  4 роки тому

      Hahahah too much here to even comment on 😂😂😂

  • @kmac004
    @kmac004 5 років тому +1

    Have you ever used or heard of Scotts Cheap Flights?

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Omg yes that’s how we flew so cheap to nz and our upcoming trip to Mexico!

  • @brentayers3132
    @brentayers3132 5 років тому

    First adult thing: driving through flooded roadways is a bad idea. You know when you see people being rescued on the news from hurricane flood waters? That was you two. LOL! Love your channel.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      hahahah "first adult thing:"
      Yes we've leanred... it's ALWAYS a bad idea.. hahahaha

  • @AKI94able
    @AKI94able 3 роки тому +1

    So nice

  • @mtrotter325
    @mtrotter325 5 років тому +1

    Son of a gun, you both are so forking cute that I couldn't wait until the end to write that...
    Shoot, now I hope the video ends well... 😄😄

  • @MyraHart1943
    @MyraHart1943 5 років тому +1

    I love you guysss

  • @ForeverFashionGirl21
    @ForeverFashionGirl21 4 роки тому

    wow this video is almost two years old now crazy

  • @tobytannerite4448
    @tobytannerite4448 5 років тому +1

    Haven't said hi in awhile.HI!

  • @vincinefallica1619
    @vincinefallica1619 5 років тому +2

    Welcome to the 'Adulting Club'.

  • @Bobby3038
    @Bobby3038 5 років тому +1

    OK, the clip at the end. Yeah, not smart. Seth should know better than that.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      We saw a small car go right before us!! So we were like... eh we got this!
      Apparently not.

  • @trailcat71
    @trailcat71 5 років тому +1

    Very cute! Glad it was a temporary.

  • @kacembechiche963
    @kacembechiche963 5 років тому

    Love u two ❤️❤️❤️

  • @brianrounding4258
    @brianrounding4258 5 років тому +1

    Seth...just saying spend more time around Baby B.... ..its called training....Thank Me Later..

  • @marshallemmett3313
    @marshallemmett3313 5 років тому +1

    1) Y'all are super cute!
    2) I'm an aspirational traveler.
    3) Apologies for not mentioning the above sooner.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      haha no worries, thank you for watching!

  • @pinkydoesstuff7646
    @pinkydoesstuff7646 5 років тому +1

    Yes a new video and the answer to you question is yes I have

  • @DeRocco21
    @DeRocco21 3 роки тому +1

    They both have nice cheek bones

  • @InfoMentors
    @InfoMentors 5 років тому +1

    omg that ending....

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      I know it gave me anxiety again editing it!

  • @19battlehill
    @19battlehill 5 років тому +1

    How much do these "academies" cost????

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      He was in the military for almost 10 years so that helps

  • @beautifulrecovery2337
    @beautifulrecovery2337 4 роки тому

    We've been through all of the things....jk
    Now you're parents ♥️♥️♥️♥️🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @Grampsteestyles
    @Grampsteestyles 5 років тому +1

    You both are meant for each other....both Crack ups in your own way....Umm just a question....has seth tried Poached egg with peanut butter on toast???😂😂😂...All the best from AUCKLAND N.Z

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      hahaha He has and he LOVES IT!!!

  • @tessa_traverses
    @tessa_traverses 5 років тому +1

    SO funny that you said you wanted an irish man like from "P.S., I LOVE YOU" because 1.) I love that movie, 2.) I want one too, 3.) I was even going to move there! HAHA
    You two are the cutest and so glad it has worked out. :)

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Hahaha well the movie just sets it up so well!!

  • @mollychamberlain804
    @mollychamberlain804 4 роки тому

    I wana travel like you!

  • @samburke8595
    @samburke8595 5 років тому +1

    so no Banff?

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Noooo we're kinda jet setting home... super bummed but it's a MUST for when the weather is good!

  • @nish.1111
    @nish.1111 5 років тому +1

    Are you twinflames? Timing of the video is 11.11 😉

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому +1

      RIGHT!!! I noticed this after!

  • @magicmike6961
    @magicmike6961 5 років тому +1

    Shelia hahahahahahahhaha you will fit in nicely in aussie and New zealand

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      I LOVED Australia and NZ!

  • @guyhays3432
    @guyhays3432 5 років тому +2

    Once you learn how to "adult," pleas clue us into the process.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Haha I'll do my best!

  • @tobytannerite4448
    @tobytannerite4448 5 років тому

    Hi.

  • @dharmadharma3960
    @dharmadharma3960 3 роки тому

    11:11!

  • @dollydampman2633
    @dollydampman2633 4 роки тому

    Beers and burgers lol

  • @MsRickylynn
    @MsRickylynn 5 років тому +1

    Your babies should be called Adventure and Ist! Damn!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      hahaha we'll consider it ;) bahaha

  • @19battlehill
    @19battlehill 5 років тому +1

    Kinda grossed out by Seth eating and licking his fingers.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  5 років тому

      Hahahaha he’s notorious for eating in my video s

  • @chientabritchie
    @chientabritchie 5 років тому +1

    1

  • @walterclements8393
    @walterclements8393 5 років тому

    Walter