heyy, im living in turkiye and im a minor but ı love ur content and it helps me to give my friends better advices. i have a close friend who is 16 and his "ex" bf is 21, and he was giving her the bare minimum and always accused her w taking everything so seriously. ı was like, girl he is 21 he is a pedo dump him💅 and told her that there is amazing man out there, and her ex is not one of them. and i kept talking w her about that topic and she broke up w him🙏🙏 and she is happier rn. and i continue giving my friends advices about relationships and tell them that noone is perfect u love someone w their flaws but not every flaw is loveable so find somene who has lovable flaws💅💅. SOOOO TYYYY
Gina, you can absolutely be authentic while also working on yourself- becoming more confident, resilient, and constantly growing. When you focus on self-growth and maintain your boundaries, you not only attract the right people, but you also become even more attractive and empowered in the process.
@@SaveTheMessenger I do agree with that. Since I've entered the dating scene, though, despite my goal to not play games what happens is that I get played. You have to be vulnerable to be authentic but unfortunately it means a lot of heartache. I think it's a hard balance to navigate, being authentic and vulnerable while also being smart, strong and resilient as you said. And keeping your dignity. Ha.
I love when men try to step in and help. I was at the grocery store getting something heavy off a high shelf. My mom was at a distance watching me and told me afterwards that all the men there were watching and getting closer to step in if I needed help. One guy got beside me and had his arm out just in case. I had no idea, but it was so sweet knowing they were all watching and waiting to help 😂
Gisele Bündchen is a smart woman. Family | Professional | Nature lover Self Discipline | Healthy Eating Meditation … and much more. Not afraid to leave relationship that didn’t work and move on.
Be yourself. Don’t over share or act on every intrusive thought but the little things that are different, ppl in general just appreciate. Create those wild or beautiful moments and adventures with yourself and others 🥳
I just hit 60 years old and have been happily married for years. This is not the normal content I listen to but decided to give this video a go.....I can tell you young ladies he's giving great advice....and it all holds true during a long-term marriage...This advice is gold whether you are in the dating scene or want a happier husband.♥️
Eternal Sunshine is one of my all time favourite movies. It’s very painful and makes me cry a lot especially since my husband died but it’s so well done.
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I don't know how I ended up in enemy territory lol, I was just watching the best Topuria KOs and this video was the top recommendation, But since I'm already here, this video is 100% correct. This Israel guy is doing amazing work in giving you this info. And I'll leave you another seductive phrase I once heard: "I feel so protected around you"
Relationships, the healthy ones, grows in authenticity. Any woman can use this phrases and there are a lot of men searching adulation and seductive submissions. Usually in these cases only one woman is not enough...
❤ Ismael, Thank you so much I for your videos! I am married and next year we will have our 20th wedding anniversary. I just like watching your videos because your advice applies to a lot of other relationships as well. And I LOVE the structure of your videos. And the awareness. I am a yoga teacher and your videos will be a great inspiration for coming up with my own videos. I started teaching ladies 60+ years and thinking of you I always greet them with "Good morning ladies" when I walk into the room and I leave with "Bye ladies. See you next week."❤
I wish I found this channel before my last relationship, I really fumbled a great guy. But I am slowly getting back into dating and I am planning to learn from my experiences
Yes, absolut truth. I seen this with my last ex and his female 'friend' he invited to my hiking group while we were together. What a lesson. Never again I would be soo stupid and kind.
Thank you for telling us the truth, Ismael! I love how clear you make the message, and tell exampels, so its easy to understand. Its about to find the right men and work together with him. And let the wrong ones go, so they can go and find their right partner ❤
I do not think this applies to Narcissists. I told my Narcissist husband that I doin't sleep well whenever we didn't sleep on the same bed,then he resorted to permanently sleeping in another room. But I am strong today by God's grace
Hear hear! Honesty means nothing, being transparent means nothing, giving your full attention, give yourself and themselves space for energy to flow means nothing, being your authentic self means nothing, being flexible and unattached to outcomes means nothing.
I like the advice about personalizing a compliment. I’m going to try to make that natural and automatic. Because usually that is what is meant by the generic observation but the personalization really gives it depth. Great advice!
@@jackdeniston6150 You don't know what she's like on a personal level. So how can you make a comment like this? I've had many male friends who go for the materialistic and superficial only to complain about them time and time again that they cost them money and then settle for the nice ones eventually. So what was the point of dating those type in the first place? Insecurities? Mommy issues?
I have no luck dating. The men I'm talking to just want fwb or hookups. So I don't see them again. Most of the men I don't get past talking to them online because I can tell what they're looking for. I'm 57 and single for a few yrs. 😅
Hi Ismael love your videos. What you say in this particular one I experience with my husband. He doesn't spend much time with me but he spends more time with his parents. I have been living with him for nearly ten yrs but he hasn't changed. I would like to have your advice. Thanks
Hey! So I've been confused and a bit on the brink of madness, lol. You see I like this guy and we attend the same extra coaching. I'm usually introverted around the male gender, provided I've grown up around woman with a sister and an all girls school. Men somewhat scare me and I find it annoying that how I just shut up or unwillingly fumble when a boy initiates a conversation with me. I could be being delusional because of how much I like him but I find his demeanour strangely different with me. I mean, we have other girls there too and he does talk to them freely, laughs or even crack jokes in the class to make us laugh but when it comes to me, he cannot even bat me in the eye let alone talk to me without a stutter or a visible gulp. We do talk but that' close to nil. If you do find this comment, kindly help me. I'll elucidate further once you reply to me. Thanks!
It's offensive...Is he your husband? Does he pay for it? If Not , I would respond " Much more than your income could pay!" And then close the relationship.
Thank you for telling us the truth, Ismael! I love how clear you make the message, and tell exampels, so its easy to understand. Its about to find the right men and work together with him. And let the wrong ones go, so they can go and find their right partner ❤
No man should care about how much you make,but if you feel he could be the provider you need.Just say I don't make alot,plus I volunteer and help with baseball team or something like that.Then ask him back...Do you feel how much a woman makes is important in a relationship?...Do you want to combine finances with your future wife???.
@@grette4156 it all depends on what you want.If you want him to cover the heavier bills,and you handle small expenses,that is something you will decide.Hypergamy serves women because we have children at a cost,and when after 25/30 years the man doesn't want the marriage You and your kids will be covered.There are many instances that a good,high earning man will lose his money but if the relationship is a healthy one,a woman will always be by her mans side.A woman should always partner with a man that is willing to take care of her from the onset,this arrangement will maintain the balance of the relationship.You respect him,He cherishes you.
@@grette4156 well from the creature of human till now men where supposed to be the providers and they shouldnt beg us wwomen for money. They are the one who should provide. I thiobk the men who are asking us our money are just like a little girl and not grown up yet. They have mommy issues and see us as their mom. I dont wanna be honestly in that place.
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heyy, im living in turkiye and im a minor but ı love ur content and it helps me to give my friends better advices. i have a close friend who is 16 and his "ex" bf is 21, and he was giving her the bare minimum and always accused her w taking everything so seriously. ı was like, girl he is 21 he is a pedo dump him💅 and told her that there is amazing man out there, and her ex is not one of them. and i kept talking w her about that topic and she broke up w him🙏🙏 and she is happier rn. and i continue giving my friends advices about relationships and tell them that noone is perfect u love someone w their flaws but not every flaw is loveable so find somene who has lovable flaws💅💅. SOOOO TYYYY
New to your channel but I think you are topnotch at what you do!
It's unfortunate that being honest, vulnerable, and yourself doesn't work...which is why I'm here lol
Gina, you can absolutely be authentic while also working on yourself- becoming more confident, resilient, and constantly growing. When you focus on self-growth and maintain your boundaries, you not only attract the right people, but you also become even more attractive and empowered in the process.
@@SaveTheMessenger I do agree with that. Since I've entered the dating scene, though, despite my goal to not play games what happens is that I get played. You have to be vulnerable to be authentic but unfortunately it means a lot of heartache. I think it's a hard balance to navigate, being authentic and vulnerable while also being smart, strong and resilient as you said. And keeping your dignity. Ha.
It does work. The wrong ones are dismissing themselves. There are more mr wrongs than there are mr rights
Be your best self plus be strategic.
it works when you are dealing with actual men. All these people are truly talking about males aka immature men not real grown up men~
I love when men try to step in and help. I was at the grocery store getting something heavy off a high shelf. My mom was at a distance watching me and told me afterwards that all the men there were watching and getting closer to step in if I needed help. One guy got beside me and had his arm out just in case. I had no idea, but it was so sweet knowing they were all watching and waiting to help 😂
3 things that worked for me:
1. I started ignoring bad thoughts.
2. I read books on Femilys.
3. I stayed consistent no matter what.
ty for share!
Gisele Bündchen is a smart woman.
Family | Professional | Nature lover
Self Discipline | Healthy Eating
Meditation … and much more.
Not afraid to leave relationship
that didn’t work and move on.
???
ty
@@Bright-It...🙄
Be yourself. Don’t over share or act on every intrusive thought but the little things that are different, ppl in general just appreciate. Create those wild or beautiful moments and adventures with yourself and others 🥳
I just hit 60 years old and have been happily married for years. This is not the normal content I listen to but decided to give this video a go.....I can tell you young ladies he's giving great advice....and it all holds true during a long-term marriage...This advice is gold whether you are in the dating scene or want a happier husband.♥️
Thank you for this!!!
Eternal Sunshine is one of my all time favourite movies. It’s very painful and makes me cry a lot especially since my husband died but it’s so well done.
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
Sometimes sharing helps lighten the burden, even if just a little. Healing takes time-be kind to yourself during this process.
I don't know how I ended up in enemy territory lol, I was just watching the best Topuria KOs and this video was the top recommendation,
But since I'm already here, this video is 100% correct. This Israel guy is doing amazing work in giving you this info. And I'll leave you another seductive phrase I once heard: "I feel so protected around you"
Israel guy?
Relationships, the healthy ones, grows in authenticity. Any woman can use this phrases and there are a lot of men searching adulation and seductive submissions. Usually in these cases only one woman is not enough...
❤ Ismael, Thank you so much I for your videos! I am married and next year we will have our 20th wedding anniversary. I just like watching your videos because your advice applies to a lot of other relationships as well. And I LOVE the structure of your videos. And the awareness. I am a yoga teacher and your videos will be a great inspiration for coming up with my own videos. I started teaching ladies 60+ years and thinking of you I always greet them with "Good morning ladies" when I walk into the room and I leave with "Bye ladies. See you next week."❤
Thank you, I’m so touched that my videos resonate with you and inspire your own teaching-it means a lot.
Ismael, this great video demands another listen. I love you and how you speak directly to me. Your advice is priceless!
I appreciate you, Gloria.
I wish I found this channel before my last relationship, I really fumbled a great guy. But I am slowly getting back into dating and I am planning to learn from my experiences
Most men chase the women who doesn't show much interest in them or have an attitude
Yes, absolut truth. I seen this with my last ex and his female 'friend' he invited to my hiking group while we were together. What a lesson. Never again I would be soo stupid and kind.
Thank you for telling us the truth, Ismael! I love how clear you make the message, and tell exampels, so its easy to understand. Its about to find the right men and work together with him. And let the wrong ones go, so they can go and find their right partner ❤
I do not think this applies to Narcissists. I told my Narcissist husband that I doin't sleep well whenever we didn't sleep on the same bed,then he resorted to permanently sleeping in another room. But I am strong today by God's grace
Don't ever confide in a Narcissist, you are destroying yourself.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that, but it's inspiring to hear that you're stronger now.
Hear hear! Honesty means nothing, being transparent means nothing, giving your full attention, give yourself and themselves space for energy to flow means nothing, being your authentic self means nothing, being flexible and unattached to outcomes means nothing.
Well said. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Oh I love the message in this video
Dont care too much about outcome, it is more important to build unforgetable memories
Love from Vietnam
I like the advice about personalizing a compliment. I’m going to try to make that natural and automatic. Because usually that is what is meant by the generic observation but the personalization really gives it depth. Great advice!
I'm so glad you found the advice helpful.
That's so beautiful advice, Thank You Ismael ❤❤❤ God Bless You and Your Beautiful Family
Amen
Your content is amazing. Thanks for keeping it real 😊
Have to chuckle that you know our tendency to multi-task!🤭
This is brilliant!
Being nice, caring, giving, empathetic, hardworking and simple doesn’t work.. seems men like materialistic and superficial women
100%
Bang on💯✅
Not true. But many are not believers
You imagine you are, but you are not. You are manipulative, and we Men can tell. Materialustic and Sf are at least honest.
@@jackdeniston6150 You don't know what she's like on a personal level. So how can you make a comment like this? I've had many male friends who go for the materialistic and superficial only to complain about them time and time again that they cost them money and then settle for the nice ones eventually. So what was the point of dating those type in the first place? Insecurities? Mommy issues?
Thank you Ismael, another awesome video. I actually do a lot of your tips already, but I just enjoy watching you talk and your advice 🙂
Thank you so much. I'm glad you're already putting the tips into practice.
I have no luck dating. The men I'm talking to just want fwb or hookups. So I don't see them again. Most of the men I don't get past talking to them online because I can tell what they're looking for. I'm 57 and single for a few yrs. 😅
You got me with the auto tune😎😅😊🎉
Love this reading...Thank you..Godbless you and to the rest of the family as well...Godbless you all and Godbless us all Amen 🙏❤️😘❤️🫂🤩🥰🤗😍😊.
God bless you too😊
What a cool video👍
You completely miissed the point of what your comment lady was stating.
Hi Ismael love your videos. What you say in this particular one I experience with my husband. He doesn't spend much time with me but he spends more time with his parents. I have been living with him for nearly ten yrs but he hasn't changed. I would like to have your advice. Thanks
Simple, due to manchild behavior. Better to divorce such patriarchal men.
Thanks ❤
Oh you the sweetest ❤❤thank you❤❤
18 years & learning a lot innit.😂❤
I understand the frustration but we only need One guy!
You're right, sometimes it just takes one person to make a difference.
🙏❤🥰Thank you ! ❤
BUILD A CONNECTION,
NOT A SEDUCTION
For your relationship to change you need to cheer change😊
Hello sir, thank u❤
Very good
What is the point of pretending to be someone else in front of your love you see a future with that person will obviously know all your phases right
You great!
A foundation of true friendship, not seduction
❤first 0:08
Hope you stayed until the end.
Hey! So I've been confused and a bit on the brink of madness, lol. You see I like this guy and we attend the same extra coaching. I'm usually introverted around the male gender, provided I've grown up around woman with a sister and an all girls school. Men somewhat scare me and I find it annoying that how I just shut up or unwillingly fumble when a boy initiates a conversation with me.
I could be being delusional because of how much I like him but I find his demeanour strangely different with me. I mean, we have other girls there too and he does talk to them freely, laughs or even crack jokes in the class to make us laugh but when it comes to me, he cannot even bat me in the eye let alone talk to me without a stutter or a visible gulp. We do talk but that' close to nil.
If you do find this comment, kindly help me. I'll elucidate further once you reply to me. Thanks!
Ismael you never disappoint me. You always provide thought provoking and insightful information. As always , i appreciate you
Heyy İsmael kindly make a video on how to deal with avoident partner, is there any way to get out of it?
How do you know he's an avoidant?
Do you think avoidants do not exist ?@@SaveTheMessenger
Ok we ll learn all the techniques and then talk to Ismael😅
Being "Damsel in distress" is a big NO. Dear women, please never do that.
Talk for yourself
They do not engage..they want to do their thing and leave, hopefully that will change ❤
Such amazing nuggets of wisdom ❤
Please make more videos like this.
With love from India 🇮🇳
Thank you 🙏🏻
❤
Trust me if you give a man sense of accomplishment or like he is really powerful, he is never going to be into you
Why nobody is talking about men flaws!!
How to you know i was multitasking 😅 i was really doing it
I need to find a man like gomez
One more point
"Learn the Unspoken Code of Men." ... earthwide.
“Stop multitasking”. 😮 How did you know? 😂
When men ask us our make up money amount how should we respond?
It's offensive...Is he your husband? Does he pay for it? If Not , I would respond " Much more than your income could pay!" And then close the relationship.
Oh shit all of this little things u said so onnpoint and in synch
Ok. I CAN be an actress. He wants that?! Hawhawhaw.
Don't share too much
Iam going to marry you in the next life
😂
No more marriage in the next life, only here in this life.
😂
Thanks but no thanks. 😉
Stop multitaskng😂😂
I cant do this. I hope he’s not doing anything like this either.
Yeah in BS
trusting this over Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening
if this hits for you, go read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s next level
No
nobody talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but it’ll flip how you see everything
Thank you for telling us the truth, Ismael! I love how clear you make the message, and tell exampels, so its easy to understand. Its about to find the right men and work together with him. And let the wrong ones go, so they can go and find their right partner ❤
Thank you, I’m so glad the message resonates with you-it’s all about clarity and finding the right connection.
Thanks ❤❤
When men ask us our make up money amount how should we respond?
When men ask us the our exact salary amount how should we respond?
No man should care about how much you make,but if you feel he could be the provider you need.Just say I don't make alot,plus I volunteer and help with baseball team or something like that.Then ask him back...Do you feel how much a woman makes is important in a relationship?...Do you want to combine finances with your future wife???.
What if the guy says yes ? Cuz a lot do want the woman to contribute
@@grette4156 it all depends on what you want.If you want him to cover the heavier bills,and you handle small expenses,that is something you will decide.Hypergamy serves women because we have children at a cost,and when after 25/30 years the man doesn't want the marriage You and your kids will be covered.There are many instances that a good,high earning man will lose his money but if the relationship is a healthy one,a woman will always be by her mans side.A woman should always partner with a man that is willing to take care of her from the onset,this arrangement will maintain the balance of the relationship.You respect him,He cherishes you.
@@grette4156 well from the creature of human till now men where supposed to be the providers and they shouldnt beg us wwomen for money. They are the one who should provide. I thiobk the men who are asking us our money are just like a little girl and not grown up yet. They have mommy issues and see us as their mom. I dont wanna be honestly in that place.