Talk to Men Using These Simple Phrases To Build Deep Attraction

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  • @SaveTheMessenger
    @SaveTheMessenger  10 днів тому +30

    Thanks to all of you that have subscribed to my channel.
    It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.

    • @cay4029
      @cay4029 10 днів тому +3

      heyy, im living in turkiye and im a minor but ı love ur content and it helps me to give my friends better advices. i have a close friend who is 16 and his "ex" bf is 21, and he was giving her the bare minimum and always accused her w taking everything so seriously. ı was like, girl he is 21 he is a pedo dump him💅 and told her that there is amazing man out there, and her ex is not one of them. and i kept talking w her about that topic and she broke up w him🙏🙏 and she is happier rn. and i continue giving my friends advices about relationships and tell them that noone is perfect u love someone w their flaws but not every flaw is loveable so find somene who has lovable flaws💅💅. SOOOO TYYYY

    • @enjoy7024
      @enjoy7024 10 днів тому

      New to your channel but I think you are topnotch at what you do!

  • @GinaGuitarist
    @GinaGuitarist 10 днів тому +82

    It's unfortunate that being honest, vulnerable, and yourself doesn't work...which is why I'm here lol

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  10 днів тому +33

      Gina, you can absolutely be authentic while also working on yourself- becoming more confident, resilient, and constantly growing. When you focus on self-growth and maintain your boundaries, you not only attract the right people, but you also become even more attractive and empowered in the process.

    • @GinaGuitarist
      @GinaGuitarist 9 днів тому +7

      @@SaveTheMessenger I do agree with that. Since I've entered the dating scene, though, despite my goal to not play games what happens is that I get played. You have to be vulnerable to be authentic but unfortunately it means a lot of heartache. I think it's a hard balance to navigate, being authentic and vulnerable while also being smart, strong and resilient as you said. And keeping your dignity. Ha.

    • @user_abcxyzz
      @user_abcxyzz 9 днів тому +7

      It does work. The wrong ones are dismissing themselves. There are more mr wrongs than there are mr rights

  • @hannahkevilynn8138
    @hannahkevilynn8138 9 днів тому +17

    Be yourself. Don’t over share or act on every intrusive thought but the little things that are different, ppl in general just appreciate. Create those wild or beautiful moments and adventures with yourself and others 🥳

  • @dozakomedije4757
    @dozakomedije4757 9 днів тому +72

    3 things that worked for me:
    1. I started ignoring bad thoughts.
    2. I read books on Femilys.
    3. I stayed consistent no matter what.

    • @stephanndon
      @stephanndon 9 днів тому

      ty for share!

    • @Bright-It
      @Bright-It 9 днів тому

      Gisele Bündchen is a smart woman.
      Family | Professional | Nature lover
      Self Discipline | Healthy Eating
      Meditation … and much more.
      Not afraid to leave relationship
      that didn’t work and move on.

    • @megsup167
      @megsup167 2 дні тому

      ???

  • @ElenorWallin
    @ElenorWallin 10 днів тому +16

    Thank you for telling us the truth, Ismael! I love how clear you make the message, and tell exampels, so its easy to understand. Its about to find the right men and work together with him. And let the wrong ones go, so they can go and find their right partner ❤

  • @juangraciaofficial
    @juangraciaofficial 8 днів тому +6

    I don't know how I ended up in enemy territory lol, I was just watching the best Topuria KOs and this video was the top recommendation,
    But since I'm already here, this video is 100% correct. This Israel guy is doing amazing work in giving you this info. And I'll leave you another seductive phrase I once heard: "I feel so protected around you"

  • @fembot521
    @fembot521 10 днів тому +6

    Eternal Sunshine is one of my all time favourite movies. It’s very painful and makes me cry a lot especially since my husband died but it’s so well done.

  • @GloriaCote-o1c
    @GloriaCote-o1c 10 днів тому +12

    Ismael, this great video demands another listen. I love you and how you speak directly to me. Your advice is priceless!

  • @domingacanilang2929
    @domingacanilang2929 7 днів тому +2

    That's so beautiful advice, Thank You Ismael ❤❤❤ God Bless You and Your Beautiful Family

  • @katherinebarnes4091
    @katherinebarnes4091 8 днів тому +1

    I like the advice about personalizing a compliment. I’m going to try to make that natural and automatic. Because usually that is what is meant by the generic observation but the personalization really gives it depth. Great advice!

  • @TamarSWalker7
    @TamarSWalker7 10 днів тому +4

    This is brilliant!

  • @ChristineNonn
    @ChristineNonn 10 днів тому +2

    ❤ Ismael, Thank you so much I for your videos! I am married and next year we will have our 20th wedding anniversary. I just like watching your videos because your advice applies to a lot of other relationships as well. And I LOVE the structure of your videos. And the awareness. I am a yoga teacher and your videos will be a great inspiration for coming up with my own videos. I started teaching ladies 60+ years and thinking of you I always greet them with "Good morning ladies" when I walk into the room and I leave with "Bye ladies. See you next week."❤

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  9 днів тому

      Thank you, I’m so touched that my videos resonate with you and inspire your own teaching-it means a lot.

  • @PrettyTasha-k8q
    @PrettyTasha-k8q 8 днів тому +1

    Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  8 днів тому

      Sometimes sharing helps lighten the burden, even if just a little. Healing takes time-be kind to yourself during this process.

  • @kautharnoor2844
    @kautharnoor2844 9 днів тому

    Thank you Ismael, another awesome video. I actually do a lot of your tips already, but I just enjoy watching you talk and your advice 🙂

  • @ThuNguyen-hm7xl
    @ThuNguyen-hm7xl 9 днів тому

    Oh I love the message in this video
    Dont care too much about outcome, it is more important to build unforgetable memories
    Love from Vietnam

  • @sakshichauhan585
    @sakshichauhan585 8 днів тому +4

    Most men chase the women who doesn't show much interest in them or have an attitude

  • @ijeomachristiana9109
    @ijeomachristiana9109 3 дні тому +1

    I do not think this applies to Narcissists. I told my Narcissist husband that I doin't sleep well whenever we didn't sleep on the same bed,then he resorted to permanently sleeping in another room. But I am strong today by God's grace

  • @TamarSWalker7
    @TamarSWalker7 10 днів тому +5

    Have to chuckle that you know our tendency to multi-task!🤭

  • @lynghee159
    @lynghee159 5 днів тому +1

    You completely miissed the point of what your comment lady was stating.

  • @harry13berry
    @harry13berry 10 днів тому +2

    😅 2nd...WHY is it rainy all the time? N.Y.❄️🎄?
    I tell you a good one: My brother used to tell me "Women are chocolate, but you are lemon! Talk to a guy like talking to a puppy". Still, can't do that 😅

  • @marthazulu1869
    @marthazulu1869 9 днів тому

    Thanks ❤

  • @swethanayaka6128
    @swethanayaka6128 9 днів тому +9

    Why nobody is talking about men flaws!!

  • @helenamarhounova1120
    @helenamarhounova1120 6 днів тому

    Oh you the sweetest ❤❤thank you❤❤

  • @MariaCreselda
    @MariaCreselda 10 днів тому

    Love this reading...Thank you..Godbless you and to the rest of the family as well...Godbless you all and Godbless us all Amen 🙏❤️😘❤️🫂🤩🥰🤗😍😊.

  • @Earthoceanfire435
    @Earthoceanfire435 10 днів тому

    You great!

  • @HashiniJayasuriya-g7x
    @HashiniJayasuriya-g7x 6 днів тому

    Hi Ismael love your videos. What you say in this particular one I experience with my husband. He doesn't spend much time with me but he spends more time with his parents. I have been living with him for nearly ten yrs but he hasn't changed. I would like to have your advice. Thanks

  • @kristinefernandez1760
    @kristinefernandez1760 10 днів тому

    Hello sir, thank u❤

  • @verarobinson6759
    @verarobinson6759 10 днів тому

    Very good

  • @Anca587
    @Anca587 9 днів тому

    🙏❤🥰Thank you ! ❤

  • @lolybaby-t4n
    @lolybaby-t4n 7 днів тому

    Heyy İsmael kindly make a video on how to deal with avoident partner, is there any way to get out of it?

  • @proudbunnygo
    @proudbunnygo 10 днів тому

    Ok we ll learn all the techniques and then talk to Ismael😅

  • @1trueloveforever
    @1trueloveforever 10 днів тому

    Ismael you never disappoint me. You always provide thought provoking and insightful information. As always , i appreciate you

  • @rachealsharma8547
    @rachealsharma8547 10 днів тому +2

    Such amazing nuggets of wisdom ❤
    Please make more videos like this.
    With love from India 🇮🇳
    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @ElsaEdendra
    @ElsaEdendra 10 днів тому +3

    ❤first 0:08

  • @jagpreetkaur-s5e
    @jagpreetkaur-s5e 3 дні тому

    What is the point of pretending to be someone else in front of your love you see a future with that person will obviously know all your phases right

  • @yamaha3859
    @yamaha3859 9 днів тому

    When men ask us our make up money amount how should we respond?

  • @FloraNelson
    @FloraNelson 10 днів тому

  • @akferren1
    @akferren1 9 днів тому +8

    Being nice, caring, giving, empathetic, hardworking and simple doesn’t work.. seems men like materialistic and superficial women

  • @sakshichauhan585
    @sakshichauhan585 8 днів тому +1

    Trust me if you give a man sense of accomplishment or like he is really powerful, he is never going to be into you

  • @NinaSimon-iq7dz
    @NinaSimon-iq7dz 9 днів тому +1

    I need to find a man like gomez

  • @manalipatel821
    @manalipatel821 9 днів тому +3

    They do not engage..they want to do their thing and leave, hopefully that will change ❤

  • @andreaburton7515
    @andreaburton7515 День тому

    A foundation of true friendship, not seduction

  • @jasminmarsh6699
    @jasminmarsh6699 10 днів тому +3

    Iam going to marry you in the next life

    • @FarHa-x7y
      @FarHa-x7y 8 днів тому

      😂

    • @irenegea7644
      @irenegea7644 5 днів тому +1

      No more marriage in the next life, only here in this life.

  • @Rose_Charboneau3619
    @Rose_Charboneau3619 10 днів тому +2

    Thanks but no thanks. 😉

  • @hayaashraf3404
    @hayaashraf3404 16 годин тому

    Don't share too much

  • @KarlyStarr
    @KarlyStarr 10 днів тому

    trusting this over Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening

  • @MICHEALMclemore-f2g
    @MICHEALMclemore-f2g 10 днів тому

    if this hits for you, go read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s next level

  • @EarnestineWillingham
    @EarnestineWillingham 10 днів тому +1

    nobody talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but it’ll flip how you see everything

  • @ElenorWallin
    @ElenorWallin 10 днів тому +2

    Thank you for telling us the truth, Ismael! I love how clear you make the message, and tell exampels, so its easy to understand. Its about to find the right men and work together with him. And let the wrong ones go, so they can go and find their right partner ❤

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  9 днів тому +2

      Thank you, I’m so glad the message resonates with you-it’s all about clarity and finding the right connection.

  • @memorynguni2696
    @memorynguni2696 9 днів тому

    Thanks ❤❤

  • @yamaha3859
    @yamaha3859 9 днів тому +1

    When men ask us our make up money amount how should we respond?

  • @yamaha3859
    @yamaha3859 9 днів тому +3

    When men ask us the our exact salary amount how should we respond?

    • @aminaadam3617
      @aminaadam3617 8 днів тому +4

      No man should care about how much you make,but if you feel he could be the provider you need.Just say I don't make alot,plus I volunteer and help with baseball team or something like that.Then ask him back...Do you feel how much a woman makes is important in a relationship?...Do you want to combine finances with your future wife???.

    • @grette4156
      @grette4156 4 дні тому +2

      What if the guy says yes ? Cuz a lot do want the woman to contribute

    • @yamaha3859
      @yamaha3859 3 дні тому

      @@grette4156 well from the creature of human till now men where supposed to be the providers and they shouldnt beg us wwomen for money. They are the one who should provide. I thiobk the men who are asking us our money are just like a little girl and not grown up yet. They have mommy issues and see us as their mom. I dont wanna be honestly in that place.