“Whenever we don’t understand a thing or have control over it” we objectify it or give it a name to make us feel better. I’m sorry you went through a tough situation.
Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave, and I can't stop thinking about her. I love her so much, and I've tried everything to get her back, but nothing seems to work. I'm frustrated and feel like I can't picture my life with anyone else. I've made every effort to move on, but the thoughts of her keep overwhelming me. I don’t know why I'm sharing this, but I miss her deeply and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I can relate to your situation. My own 12-year relationship ended, and like you, I couldn't let go. I did everything I could to bring her back. Eventually, I sought help from a spiritual counselor who assisted me in reuniting with her.
I’m sorry for what you’ve been through.. life is a choice.. you must accept the fact that she chose to leave you. I’ve been there (only 2 yrs of relationship but he was my best partner ever, broke up bcs his parents didn’t like me bcs they asked a fortune teller or smth that we weren’t meant to be), i was too broken to pull myself back together.. i’ve been single for 5 years now, i’m proud to say i’m healed and ready to build a relationship with someone new. Cry until you feel better & let everything out. I “tortured” myself at the gym until i cry.. i lost 35kgs (i was an obese, which is a good thing). Find new friends, find new hobbies like golf surfing cooking or anything, learn new languages, upgrade yourself, maybe adopt a new pet, watch funny movies, make more money, visit places you used to visit with her & make new memories with friends until those places no longer reminds you of her, travel the world or simply meet old people at the park and listen to their stories / advices, volunteer in a charity program, visit & donate an orphanage spend time to laugh with the kids and they will remember your kindness for a long time. If she loves you she would never leave you and if she left you that means she doesn’t love you. Hard pill to swallow but that’s the truth. Time will heal, no matter how slow. Hang in there bcs better days are coming, your happiness was never depended on her. I hope your heart get well soon bcs you deserve to be happy 🌼
Let her go…your forever person is put there and its not her. And thats ok. You will feel better…you’ve survived everything bad thus far, and you’ll survive this too
The truth is that everyone is different and this is a nice guide to work with in my opinion. I didn't know what love was until I realized we spent all of our time together. They don't even gotta say their name on the phone, or they could say it's me and you know it's them. They could be on the phone or doing other things and holding your hand at the same time. Both feel natural and every day. You becomes we when making plans. You get up they are like what when you know you gotta go. They say so soon? No matter how long you're there. They buy you clothing your size that you like AND look awesome in. Healthy jealousy of another person that is sniffing around. They protect you, cover you with their arm when stopping too fast when you got a seatbelt on. They open a cardoor instinctively. They wanna make you laugh. These are my experiences but just me and could differ. Many men or women could do similar characteristics but like snowflakes. I appreciate this man's effort and it is infinitely helpful.
Omgggg thank you especially on today. ❤I nearly checked myself into the VA. This helps not just with relationships, but all things and people in my Life. Profound thank you
they treat us how we treat ourselves, if we are cheating ourselves out of the self love we deserve and is not Faithful to ourself, they will treat us the same.
The stage of "surrender" happen in different times with one person or another. So that creates an imbalance, because there is always one thar is waiting for the other
This is so weird bc im not straight and they are but there is this just unconditional love between us that i cant explain. When we are apart there is this pull between us where we miss each other. Our personality is literally the same that im lk where has this person been. We are so open with each other with no walls or weirdness. Before them i dealt with someone that wanted to posses me and control me. Its lk night and day. I dont want to ruin the friendship by telling them how i feel even though i know i can but it just feels so right.
Been wondering for a while now who's been taking the camera behind the scenes? Glad I finally saw now, from the reflection on the glass. 😂❤ Love it. Great vid tho.
German Shepherd is not a Wolf. They probably lookalike because dogs and wolves are close species. But as it comes to attitude and personnality, it's truly different. You can't domesticate a wolf.
My Mom is the ego, still at 74, and I'm 45. It's lame as shit. Then they get older, and you get older. And ways have to be put away. We still have 20 yrs of this battle, and I don't have energy for it. Lame 🇨🇦💕
ok so let’s say you went out and they ask you the next day what you did: should you say i went out to the bar or say i stayed home and watched tv ? tee hee…😊
So what? Congrats, a guy is in love with me… it’s great and all, but “Love” is not enough. It’s beautiful, but It does not equal compatibility. Also… people are only human, and this is a harsh world so being able to fully surrender your ego and let all of your walls down like that would be incredibly rare. Many people have been badly hurt and broken in some form or another and aren’t fully capable of such deep intimacy as soon as they start to love. That doesn’t mean they don’t love you. If they believe they love you and are doing what they can then they do.
"If you are sad, they are sad" "if you are happy, they are happy" "if you are angry, they are angry" UNFORTUNATELY THIS IS BEING CO-DEPENDENT!!! it is completely toxic and unhealthy. I suggest you all learn more about mental health and health relationships. I love your channel because I think you are funny but gotta keep it real.
The whiteboard😂😂😂😂😂 it’s working overtime 😂😂😂 how did he even understand the chaos 😂😂😂😂😂
That's exactly what I thought as well😮
Ahahahaaaaaaaaa
😂😂😂😂😂haha yeah he only knows
Lmao 🤣
White board is his notes and processing 😅
I married a psychopath. Everything went too perfect too fast. Now I am in therapy and trying to date again.
“Whenever we don’t understand a thing or have control over it” we objectify it or give it a name to make us feel better. I’m sorry you went through a tough situation.
So sorry you went through that God will place the right person in your path who will love and take care of your heart ❤
And they still cheat
Facts
cheat back sis😂
be his soulmate😂
by cheatin back
😭😭😭😭
Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave, and I can't stop thinking about her. I love her so much, and I've tried everything to get her back, but nothing seems to work. I'm frustrated and feel like I can't picture my life with anyone else. I've made every effort to move on, but the thoughts of her keep overwhelming me. I don’t know why I'm sharing this, but I miss her deeply and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I can relate to your situation. My own 12-year relationship ended, and like you, I couldn't let go. I did everything I could to bring her back. Eventually, I sought help from a spiritual counselor who assisted me in reuniting with her.
His name is Fatherabulu. He has remarkable powers and can help you too.
I’m sorry for what you’ve been through.. life is a choice.. you must accept the fact that she chose to leave you. I’ve been there (only 2 yrs of relationship but he was my best partner ever, broke up bcs his parents didn’t like me bcs they asked a fortune teller or smth that we weren’t meant to be), i was too broken to pull myself back together.. i’ve been single for 5 years now, i’m proud to say i’m healed and ready to build a relationship with someone new. Cry until you feel better & let everything out. I “tortured” myself at the gym until i cry.. i lost 35kgs (i was an obese, which is a good thing). Find new friends, find new hobbies like golf surfing cooking or anything, learn new languages, upgrade yourself, maybe adopt a new pet, watch funny movies, make more money, visit places you used to visit with her & make new memories with friends until those places no longer reminds you of her, travel the world or simply meet old people at the park and listen to their stories / advices, volunteer in a charity program, visit & donate an orphanage spend time to laugh with the kids and they will remember your kindness for a long time. If she loves you she would never leave you and if she left you that means she doesn’t love you. Hard pill to swallow but that’s the truth. Time will heal, no matter how slow. Hang in there bcs better days are coming, your happiness was never depended on her. I hope your heart get well soon bcs you deserve to be happy 🌼
Let her go…your forever person is put there and its not her. And thats ok. You will feel better…you’ve survived everything bad thus far, and you’ll survive this too
If you could, try talking to someone who is good to you. Or pray to God .. This helped me
I'm so thankful he talks about toxicity and ego. So true! Thanks for dropping these gems
The truth is that everyone is different and this is a nice guide to work with in my opinion. I didn't know what love was until I realized we spent all of our time together. They don't even gotta say their name on the phone, or they could say it's me and you know it's them. They could be on the phone or doing other things and holding your hand at the same time. Both feel natural and every day. You becomes we when making plans. You get up they are like what when you know you gotta go. They say so soon? No matter how long you're there. They buy you clothing your size that you like AND look awesome in. Healthy jealousy of another person that is sniffing around. They protect you, cover you with their arm when stopping too fast when you got a seatbelt on. They open a cardoor instinctively. They wanna make you laugh. These are my experiences but just me and could differ. Many men or women could do similar characteristics but like snowflakes. I appreciate this man's effort and it is infinitely helpful.
Exactly no mind games needed
The drawings are killing me but I understand what you mean 😂😅
The red face with the mouth 😂😂😂
This is what we get when we let a man explain love.
😅
😂😂😂
You sir are very emotionally intelligent. Thank you for breaking this down so well!
The whiteboard😂😂😂😂😂 it’s working overtime 😂😂😂
Holy cow!! I have two degrees but your wisdom of relationship and love. Mind blown.
A little bit of crack 😂😂😂 bruh that’s wild AF 😂😂
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂 like why crack 😂
@@mrsebonyabera it's the funniest sounding one lol
@@ProfessorAlex-v1h it was explained so well, I loved it 😍😍😍😍 the terms you used defiantly makes me remember the lesson. ☺️
I'm a woman and this is also how I feel falling in love, thank you for the wisdom!
That was really deep. Thank you for such a thorough analysis
These crack and druggie references have me rolling 😂😂😂😂😂
Can u explain im not sure i got it right im not native
Alex you are effortlessly cute and funny. Thanks for knowledge❤i always find something interesting in your videos
You're so on point, they're not real , especially when you have to impress them to love you.. or someone pretending to love you because of what you're
This is amazing when it happens - surrendering and merging. I find it's rare though.
Omgggg thank you especially on today. ❤I nearly checked myself into the VA. This helps not just with relationships, but all things and people in my Life. Profound thank you
Possess you but not in a toxic way👏🏾💃🏽😅
Love how direct & transparent you made this video!!!! 😊
Really feel his energy in this video! It’s infectious!
I love how much your videos have evolved. You should definitely be a college professor.
He is my college professor
He'd be a great professor.
Love this coming from a male perspective. Thanks!
i see the start and already laugh out - all these funny drawings!! 😀 very rarely boring here.
Let's see then.
Alex you are so wise! Thank you. Your analogies are so vivid and helpful! Practical! "Lil weirdo" comment had me rolling!
Be blessed!
Yeah that kid little weirdo😂😂😂😂😂
😂 I definitely chuckled
This was pretty good. I'm watching now while I'm single. I'm going to save it for later & watch it again in 20 years when I go on my next 1st date 😅
I subscribed at the crackhead analogy.
What a great video! Funny drawings but on point 😂
Thank-you, Father Alex, for these golden nuggets🌟🥰
Best explanation I've ever heard! Thank you! I like your style😊
Brilliant explanation!!! Touche
The best love teacher in the world😅
I think this applies to women falling in love too. I definitely experience these stages and then am like oh sh*t when I realize I'm in love.
😂😂😂 this is golden. He knows what he is talking about but the presentation is so bad l love it lol. Keep doing your thang homie. Keep that edge lol.
Best video ever!!
In a strange way the crack references pulls it all together, I can’t explain it but well explained 😂❤
"I don't know why he looks like a druggy"😂😂😂😂😂
This is very insightful.
Great video! Your explanations are so relatable. Keep the good news coming.
they treat us how we treat ourselves, if we are cheating ourselves out of the self love we deserve and is not Faithful to ourself, they will treat us the same.
Thankyou Alex! Great video! Loved the conclusion and follow up of the points at the end too!
His drawings 🥰we love you 😄
Once again father alex great video❤❤❤❤
How about the quote “ where there is fear ,there is no love “?
Bro all of this happened in this order!!! Bae in love 😍
Brilliant video man. You are truly gifted.
“ little weirdo” 🤣🤣
Hahaha .. had to check for comments
In reference to their kid 🤣🤣🤣
For real it's the dopamine we get addicted to
Thank you Alex ❤❤
The stage of "surrender" happen in different times with one person or another. So that creates an imbalance, because there is always one thar is waiting for the other
Your board is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Best video! Insightful
Great video!!!! Almost genius!!! ❤
I'm doing my best to be quiet but sometimes it's hard not to do so
Perfectly said❤
society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
Lol the dog 😂
Glad I leave that garbage 🗑🤣🤣🤣
Hahahaha I deserved better, I DESERVED ME 💅🏻
I hate how this man makes sense. Like its so chaotic and crazy.
Damn man why we gotta be on crack???😂😂😂😂😂😮😮😮
I feel that my ex for a moment in time tried to be real and lower his guard but it didn't last.
Please start with a clean board - and draw as you go , this is organized chaos 😅
I agree bc I lived it. On point
This is so weird bc im not straight and they are but there is this just unconditional love between us that i cant explain. When we are apart there is this pull between us where we miss each other. Our personality is literally the same that im lk where has this person been. We are so open with each other with no walls or weirdness. Before them i dealt with someone that wanted to posses me and control me. Its lk night and day. I dont want to ruin the friendship by telling them how i feel even though i know i can but it just feels so right.
Sounds like a twin flame connection💜
Sounds like lesbians
😂 great conference meeting
Well said!
Been wondering for a while now who's been taking the camera behind the scenes? Glad I finally saw now, from the reflection on the glass. 😂❤ Love it. Great vid tho.
Thank you lol I was wondering too!!
This is top tier nosiness lol 😂
My german shepherd is a psychopath. I always said he is wild. Wolf 🐺 ❤its in the eyes
German Shepherd is not a Wolf. They probably lookalike because dogs and wolves are close species. But as it comes to attitude and personnality, it's truly different. You can't domesticate a wolf.
@tobe-you-tube6612 No, you're missing what I'm saying. Basically my dog is wild
@Jennifer-o6j8t I understand
2:04 you can see the person who is recording through the window on the right.
My Mom is the ego, still at 74, and I'm 45. It's lame as shit.
Then they get older, and you get older.
And ways have to be put away.
We still have 20 yrs of this battle, and I don't have energy for it.
Lame
🇨🇦💕
How about you Alex? Have you been in Love or do you love anyone in this moment?
Is a child filming you?! 😂
😂😂
I think he’s using his phone and it’s set to send cinematic setting and it does that it’s queued towards movement😅
It's illegal in Mexico. Can't do that
Why u say that
Why would you ask that? Nothing wrong with the camera work.
I think ima just be single for the rest of my life 😅
Trophy wife or “bang maid”
Me fascinó este video❤
He is just f cking awesome 🙌
Yo de chismosa viendo el reflejo de la puerta 🙂↔️
ok so let’s say you went out and they ask you the next day what you did: should you say i went out to the bar or say i stayed home and watched tv ? tee hee…😊
Love teacher
Can you make a video on the mindset behind why guys cheat?
And women are complicated.
A Symbiotec Surrenderance i love that term
So what? Congrats, a guy is in love with me… it’s great and all, but “Love” is not enough. It’s beautiful, but It does not equal compatibility. Also… people are only human, and this is a harsh world so being able to fully surrender your ego and let all of your walls down like that would be incredibly rare. Many people have been badly hurt and broken in some form or another and aren’t fully capable of such deep intimacy as soon as they start to love. That doesn’t mean they don’t love you. If they believe they love you and are doing what they can then they do.
How does Crack keep entering the chat? 😅
Father Alex
😂😂😂 the drawings ...
Please how can I get a man to stop being infatuated with me bc I’m so disgusted I cannot take it no more
Radio silence.
And they can’t text you back
Perfect
What about when they love you but when they feel vulnerable they run away?
This is fairly common. Let them pull back as long as it's a chronic thing. He should be willing to communicate or try.
Literally laughing out loud at the comments 🤣
Awesome
😂
Where’s #6? Am I missing something?
"If you are sad, they are sad" "if you are happy, they are happy" "if you are angry, they are angry" UNFORTUNATELY THIS IS BEING CO-DEPENDENT!!! it is completely toxic and unhealthy. I suggest you all learn more about mental health and health relationships. I love your channel because I think you are funny but gotta keep it real.
Funny, had a guy tell me the complete opposite. Told me it was instant and they know right away, so which is it? Or do yall just be talking? 🙄
I think that's a lustful check box love if it's instant.
not true for me - i do feel love during being with that person, not only in their absence.
It happens usually to men, they fall in love in absence.
@@TerryGuzmanMartinez these strange creatures...
@CeciledeLuire 😁😁😁
@@TerryGuzmanMartinez 😀😁
Very insightful video. Thank you 🙏🏾 💜
Who is that lady filming Alex? Not jealous at all. Just couldn’t fully focus on the message after seeing her. 😅
Mexican sugar mama
The trauma in these comments 😮😢makes me NOT want to even try. 🤦🏽♀️ WTH