I signed up for Antia’s program on Monday 11/25/24 and I haven’t been able to find/access the link. I fear that it may have been accidentally deleted in my spam folder. My name is Teresa Kestran. I would really appreciate it if you would re-forward the link to my email and I will watch for it. Thank you in advance!
I agree. We are in survival mode. I am a widow. I see the younger girls in my workplace: working, studying trying to make something out of themselves not to depend on anyone. It starts with our fathers. We don’t feel safe anywhere.
Women were never safe. Women were safe maybe in post war U.S.A, but that's a small time frame and only one country in the world but they were still treated as second class citizens. It was not better for women in the past, the bible and my grandmothers history tells me so.
Its comments like these that remind me how privileged I was to have a good safe father and I am able to relax into a safe man. I'm so sorry you've had this experience ❤ but I commented to let you know there are good safe men, they are out there they exist and I hold onto that hope because I was lucky enough to have that for a moment in my life. Love you dad wish you were here..now I have to find ways to protect myself too from these unsafe men since you've been gon3.❤❤
Women have had to adapt bc less men fit the bill. It’s not like we want the poor bargain of working two full time jobs…corporate/self employed and being the CEO of the kids/home/relations. People change then divorce or die also but the kids still need to be provided for.
These principles absolutely work wirh a healthy masculine man. At 75, I'm finally with the first man who is into his healthy masculine energy. When I am open and vulnerable with him, he'll say eirher, "I hear you . . . ." , or "I understand what you're saying," and then provides encouraging words of comfort or advice. I've never been able to communicate this easily or deeply with a man while in my feminine energy.
@Gotoworkkk Yes. I wasted 55 years of my life on broken, narcissistic men because I didn't know any better. I have healed and am finally ready for a healthy relationship. It's never too late.
Hard to be vulnerable if a man is looking for his angle. I think men KNOW women are naturally more vulnerable. Hate to say it, but knowing this is useful to "be vulnerable" without being TRULY vulnerable if you know what I mean. Some of us can't be vulnerable until we KNOW it's safe.
The deepest desires of the masculine are to be trusted & respected and the deepest desires of the feminine are to be adored & cherished. Often the best way to shift your dynamic with men and have a man love and adore you is to show him trust and respect first through your openness & vulnerability (even if it feels scary). However I would add the *very important* caveat that if a man isn't showing care for your heart over time when you are truly in your feminine energy he is likely a "broken" man and you have to set a boundary with yourself in that situation and be willing to walk away. That is how you can truly be "The Queen" that is both highly vulnerable, open and respectful while also highly valuing and respecting herself.
In that sense, I didnt have to work hard to be vulnerable with men. My natural temperament was vulnerable. Nothing makes me feel more vulnerable than being with a man. When im alone or independent, I have nothing judging me, potentially rejecting me, and I only have safe practices. And then you be with men, and their presence is danger, they bring you to places you wouldnt otherwise go, they arent as anxious and cautious and walk around at night or leave their doors open. I feel i need their protection because they are bringing me to situations that need protecting. On one hand, its scary. On the other hand, its a leap of faith, with the hopes and dreams that he'd give me everything ive ever wanted. Companionship, a family, support, love, care, attention. I just gotta hold his hand and get out of my comfort zone. And in that sense, being vulnerable right off the bat makes things easier. You see that switch in the eyes of predators, oh, fresh meat, shes so easy to manipulate, so vulnerable. Then you can quietly make an exit and give a short and stern goodbye. I always try to make sure before going on a date with them, but they do always switch up their tune. Theres just a slight predatory nature in all men, especially when it comes to potential intimacy partners. They arent as invested in the long term. Short term benefits are more than okay for them. Thats why you gotta push back having sex as much as you can. Kiss and all that, but dont end that chase, because after that, its no longer a chase to get more of you. It becomes a chase of fulfilling his entertainment. Its better to go through that phase when theres kids and he doesnt have as much time in his hands.
We will never know it’s safe for sure. I’ve married twice without premarital sex, both ended in total disasters. The last one reads the Bible everyday and said the devil was trying to use him to kill me. He has his own church. He helps people, does a lot of good in the community. We will never know for sure. That’s the risk we take, and it’s necessary for Love to be real.
Reasons why men are attracted to vulnerability in women: #7 Men are turned on by a woman's vulnerability and openness. #6 Vulnerability separates the men from the boys. #5 Vulnerability is a sign of high self-worth in a woman. #4 Vulnerability signals trust and respect as a devotional offering #3 Vulnerability evokes masculine depth and breaks his distraction patterns. #2 Vulnerability activates a man's Hero instinct to protect and provide. #1 Vulnerability creates a space for him to pursue you.
Haven't noticed. Rather been fucked over sideways time and time again. And I've ALWAYS been real, and shown my vulnerability. So much for that claim ...
@@agataloca you have to wait to see if they earn your trust before you can be vulnerable with them. Even so, you will get hurt as people make mistakes.
You probably didn’t give the guy with genuine feeling a chance because you think ‘I can do better, this is too easy, he seems boring I can’t submit to him he doesn’t get it’ And carried on chasing a guy experienced at finessing women for sex Try using logic, speak to none western women about their opinions on men and how to grateful to be a woman Hope this helps
I have been dating a guy for 5 weeks now that is growing in his masculinity by the week. Ive been single for 5 years, but after learning thru this kind of content (and this podcast specifically) the true desire of men is vulnerability, I began to transform. I feel sold. I grew up in middle school and high school with feminism being highly promoted. I was told all my youth men desired confidence and independence. Now that I understand I can simply be myself, my feminine self, dating has become so much easier. I can interpret what is happening now, I understand every exchange, I dont question them. As my love interest has been doing more and more for me, I never would have known in the past this meant I was provoking his masculinity and his level of care for me by simply being vulnerable. I am so baffled that it was alwaya this simple and I just know the "rules" of the tango. Now that I understand men's desires, I understand how to better navigate them. The proof is in the fruit!
This is very dangerous. The last thing a vulnerable person should do is put their vulnerability on a silver platter and hand it to someone regardless of how well they know them. No human being, let alone a man, is that safe.
I did this. Ended up with a narcissistic sociopath that hurt my daughter and rejected me and his unborn son 1 month before he was born while he dumped my retirement into his car, bought whatever he wanted, and gave the rest away to other single mothers he wanted attention from. It was dangerous but I feel like the whole relationship was like jumping out of an airplane with no parachute so I could see that I could fly. Everything has been 100x better since our marriage/relationship ended and he showed who he really is. Win win for my kids and myself. Love and light to all❤
My husband hates it when I show vulnerability. His single Mom used up that part of him. He forces me to go into my masculine energy and handle things. I’m so tired of it. He’s just a little boy all the time when there’s any trouble.
My ex was the same way - always letting me fall when I needed a soft place to land. I was in survival mode. After being single a long time, my new boyfriend is totally different in the best way. He was high-ranking in the military, and when I show vulnerability, that man IS my hero. He never talks over me, belittles, or argues. He is 6'6" in cowboy boots and he is so incredibly gentle and understanding with me. I swear he's the whole package. Our second date we were gazing into each other's eyes and it was like our hearts connected without saying a word just standing next to each other. I got emotional and cried a bit. He held me and teared up too. He said, "I hope this works out because I'm falling hard already." I said, "No one else will ever measure up to you. I am so thankful we met." I have never felt this with anyone before. He's not saying how amazing he is, he's showing me and I'm seeing it for myself. I just can't believe I finally met my prince ❤
@@renewyourmind1815that’s so beautiful ♥️🥰 happy you’ve found that kind of love • it gives the rest of us hope☺️😉 may God bless you both with all the love, happiness, connection + peace your hearts can handle
Thought I’d found my King. We have been talking for years as friends. Then we developed feelings for each other. I had no idea he would shut down and run when we got close. He has been hurt and is a Fearful Avoidant. Essentially being on his own without real love from even his family who abandoned him his whole life. I don’t blame him. I understand him. But at the same time, he doesn’t take care of my heart. He breaks my heart. We just saw each other for the first time in over 30 years and we had a wonderful time. But now he’s in hiatus mode. It absolutely breaks my heart. He doesn’t seem to care much about that. I can see he is amazing as a person. He does love me. But he is broken. Badly. I don’t know what to do? I’ve fallen for him. But I do wonder if it can work for us? I know he’s trying. But still…
People can feel worthy and be high value while still being apprehensive about opening up because of past hurts. We should be able to ease into things without being told we’re damaged or not worth the trouble.
Something has changed. I see more and more men who are afraid of spiders and cannot take on a burglar. I’m not sure if it’s the plastics, soy, pesticides and whatever else hormone disrupting substance I’ve read about but men need to figure that out if they want to attract and keep a woman. Many men in their 30s are less man than my grandfather was in his 80s. I’m talking physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and fiscally. A woman who can take care of herself is only going to keep an asset not a liability or burden.
That would go for men to sometimes women can be a liability!!! let’s be fair!!!! I have a friend that’s very sick. He had a wonderful job he made tons of money works expensive clothes and everything but lost it all because of a major health crisis but you’re saying he don’t deserve to be loved.?? 🤦♀️. let’s look for strength and character not strength in numbers!! Characters the most important thing you have all the money in the world that man treat you like crud and throw you off the boat!!! Not all men in the olden days that classy either so let’s be real!!!
Of course they're attracted to our vulnerability, they can take advantage of our feelings a lot easier when we have our guard down. Never again will I put myself in that position.
Glory!!! After so much struggles I now own a new house with an influx of $360,500.00 every month God has kept to his words,my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place. God bless America 🇺🇸
Hallelujah!!!! Your channel has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻.I was owning a loan of $37,800 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (Oscar), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $8,000 and got my payout of $340,500 every months.God bless Mildred Evelyn Rooney 🇺🇲
Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $355,500 every month and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah🙌🏻❤️🇺🇸
If you operate out of fear and protect your heart, you aren't operating out of the soft strength of feminine energy, you WILL attract exactly the kind of men you don't want to.
I abruptly woke up this dawn cos of anxiety I took my phone and texted him on WhatsApp I knew he was asleep but texting him brought me comfort He replied me in the morning Called me a little later to question me why I didn’t call him but only texted He is always looking for ways to solve my problems It’s so beautiful
you should do a video on how i want to respect my man, but his man-child of not closing food boxes and leaving dropped food over the floor. it's really frustrating.
I’ve heard this concept before but I never heard it broken down in such a well and easy understandable manner. Makes sooo much sense and yes it also sounds very scary 😩😮💨
Unless he felt taken advantage of by his prior partner/s. Then they are guarded and hold back their support, even though it’s clear I need it and am energetically open to it.
I have preached this for many years! Long before Bene Brown blew up! Women breath with the earth…when they remember that…its sacred. Look up the original relationship video from the light at the center! Love this guy! Want to meet him!
I already was thinking of the song "I Need A Hero" by Bonnie Tyler the first time you mentioned hero.. and I've already planned to listen to it afterwards, too. Great minds! 🤣
Thank you for your video. I have a question: What if the man begins by being empathetic and caring when I’m vulnerable, but then tells me he cannot give me what I need after a couple of months, and gradually shuts down and completely discards me? I am really confused about why he told me he was 100% committed and began planning a future with me, and then suddenly ghosted me. He said a number of times he wanted to make me happy, and I thanked him and expressed to him openly when I felt happy. But as time went on, my vulnerability seemed to push him away and he stopped saying things and doing things he used to say and do before….all in a period of 4 months. It was a huge roller coaster and heartbreaking for me!
When I would share with my now X and be open, honest, vulnerable with him and share secrets of my heart, or how I really felt about certain things he would later use it against me as a weakness. He was broken, a narcissist. Loved to brag about how smart he was, how he was always right, how he was a real man...a know-it-all who contantly belittled me and talked poorly about everyone.
Yeah, that know it all is the brain surgeon that kills a patient because he’s too ignorant and close minded and that’s not intelligence honey that’s ignorance!!!!
Al lacking and flexibility in the mind can happen with certain brains, but the biggest problems when they won’t be flexible when you try to help them see things like the gray areas instead of the all black and white
@Portia620 oh yeah, definitely for him. In his mind the answer was either A or B (both his ideas) there was never a third option, only two choices, and that was. Or I was exaggerating or lying.
@Portia620 oh, to me, he was of average intelligence and in some areas, a little more aware, but HE thought he was the smartest man around. And we argued all the time, because I would see his flaws and argue different points, and he hated that.
Can you please make a video on what to do when he comes back after a break up ? All the videos on the internet are unhealthy but I believe you can do a healthy video about this topic ! Thank you
Women have been in SURVIVAL MODE since the dawn of time. Read the bible. It gives an accurate description of the desperation most women were living under, then, and every generation since then. Maybe post war U.S.A. was different but that was an anomaly not the standard throughout time.
Well, let me tell you bro, she doesn't feel safe, or valued or respected, at large. That's a state not a concept. When she have time to be that? Yall, environment, stress, not dependable, not honest, not trustworthy-from the top. Choose exploitation, mind games, compromising positions to put her in to make her feel LESS SAFE. Amd THEN tell us yoi like vulnerable. Honey--yall are going about it the wrong way. And no, you cant force her. Nooo, that's not how that works, either. NOT ONE WOMAN, IN THE USA, THIS APPLIES TO, THIS MOMENT. She aint got TIME to mess with your trifling a** OR BE "VULNERABLE". CHILE, PLEASE. 😅 And THEN you wanna kill pregnant women, too? WTF?!! Suuure, let us go ahead and be "vulnerable" for you. Not if she values her self respect dignity, OR LIFE! (Im sure you're well intentioned. Trying to elicit MORE out of her. Already compromised. And NOT FEELIN IT.) You dont strap someone down and say, "honey, be vulnerable for me."😦😳 Put it on the list of things to get to. Considering survival is #1 and that requires safe environments, it might take a minute. Masculine energy. It's not a switch, like on a lamp. We're NOT ROBOTS. Be vulnerable he said. HOW?
True vulnerability activates the Hero instinct in a man (unless he is a "broken" man which is about 10% of men, in which case it will not work and you will have to walk away). That is the only way to activate that protector & provider energy in the men around you and in "your" man if you have one, otherwise a woman will only tend to attract "boys" looking for a mommy or men who don't value her or treat her well unfortunately. It takes courage and a leap of faith but over time it will bring a beautiful shift in your relationships.
I agree 100% but many get taken advantage thats why many women are hurt. Woman are vurnable. Please teach men to be more playful and not take thier egos seriously ❤
I was vulnerable with him for 2 months he said that he likes me but he is still healing from a break up that he had like a year ago and so what I did was pull back I stopped if he don't wish to talk to me that's fine he what got me thinking is when he said he missed how I use to send messages of missing him or checking up on him and I didn't want to anymore I'm not chasing bye
Do you have any videos about connecting to your own feminine energy? I have always been a tomboy and I’m a female currently in the military. I have a very direct approach to communication, and I think my personality is off putting. I feel so lost when you’re talking about feminine energy. I don’t even know if I understand what you’re even talking about half the time. I feel like that’s an area in my head that isn’t on anymore. Help?
Feminine energy resides in your womb and your heart, not your head... Listening more than you talk, moving slow, not forcing things to happen and doing things that get you out of your head and into your body increase your feminine energy. Spend time in nature, nature is the epitome of feminine energy. Masculine energy is 'doing', feminine energy is 'being'. Go with the flow more and don't compete... As a woman feminine energy is natural for you. Hope this helps 🙏
This channel talks a lot about it's the women's job to inspire the man to simply "be a good man." Huge red flag if a man needs to be so called inspire constantly. It is much more healthy and self-sustaining for women and men, to inspire themselves to be a loving, supportive and self-sustaining self-inspiring spouse. This channel is like softcore red pill manosphere content.
to imply that a man who watches basketball or plays video games is a form of escapism that a woman should provide is such a strange take... i want a man i can do those things with
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I signed up for Antia’s program on Monday 11/25/24 and I haven’t been able to find/access the link. I fear that it may have been accidentally deleted in my spam folder. My name is Teresa Kestran. I would really appreciate it if you would re-forward the link to my email and I will watch for it. Thank you in advance!
I agree. We are in survival mode. I am a widow. I see the younger girls in my workplace: working, studying trying to make something out of themselves not to depend on anyone. It starts with our fathers. We don’t feel safe anywhere.
Women were never safe. Women were safe maybe in post war U.S.A, but that's a small time frame and only one country in the world but they were still treated as second class citizens. It was not better for women in the past, the bible and my grandmothers history tells me so.
Its comments like these that remind me how privileged I was to have a good safe father and I am able to relax into a safe man. I'm so sorry you've had this experience ❤ but I commented to let you know there are good safe men, they are out there they exist and I hold onto that hope because I was lucky enough to have that for a moment in my life. Love you dad wish you were here..now I have to find ways to protect myself too from these unsafe men since you've been gon3.❤❤
Women have had to adapt bc less men fit the bill. It’s not like we want the poor bargain of working two full time jobs…corporate/self employed and being the CEO of the kids/home/relations. People change then divorce or die also but the kids still need to be provided for.
@@elainec5333truths. 🙏
These principles absolutely work wirh a healthy masculine man. At 75, I'm finally with the first man who is into his healthy masculine energy. When I am open and vulnerable with him, he'll say eirher, "I hear you . . . ." , or "I understand what you're saying," and then provides encouraging words of comfort or advice. I've never been able to communicate this easily or deeply with a man while in my feminine energy.
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@Gotoworkkk Yes. I wasted 55 years of my life on broken, narcissistic men because I didn't know any better. I have healed and am finally ready for a healthy relationship. It's never too late.
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Hard to be vulnerable if a man is looking for his angle. I think men KNOW women are naturally more vulnerable. Hate to say it, but knowing this is useful to "be vulnerable" without being TRULY vulnerable if you know what I mean. Some of us can't be vulnerable until we KNOW it's safe.
The deepest desires of the masculine are to be trusted & respected and the deepest desires of the feminine are to be adored & cherished. Often the best way to shift your dynamic with men and have a man love and adore you is to show him trust and respect first through your openness & vulnerability (even if it feels scary). However I would add the *very important* caveat that if a man isn't showing care for your heart over time when you are truly in your feminine energy he is likely a "broken" man and you have to set a boundary with yourself in that situation and be willing to walk away. That is how you can truly be "The Queen" that is both highly vulnerable, open and respectful while also highly valuing and respecting herself.
Exactly
In that sense, I didnt have to work hard to be vulnerable with men. My natural temperament was vulnerable.
Nothing makes me feel more vulnerable than being with a man. When im alone or independent, I have nothing judging me, potentially rejecting me, and I only have safe practices.
And then you be with men, and their presence is danger, they bring you to places you wouldnt otherwise go, they arent as anxious and cautious and walk around at night or leave their doors open. I feel i need their protection because they are bringing me to situations that need protecting.
On one hand, its scary. On the other hand, its a leap of faith, with the hopes and dreams that he'd give me everything ive ever wanted. Companionship, a family, support, love, care, attention. I just gotta hold his hand and get out of my comfort zone.
And in that sense, being vulnerable right off the bat makes things easier. You see that switch in the eyes of predators, oh, fresh meat, shes so easy to manipulate, so vulnerable.
Then you can quietly make an exit and give a short and stern goodbye. I always try to make sure before going on a date with them, but they do always switch up their tune.
Theres just a slight predatory nature in all men, especially when it comes to potential intimacy partners. They arent as invested in the long term. Short term benefits are more than okay for them. Thats why you gotta push back having sex as much as you can. Kiss and all that, but dont end that chase, because after that, its no longer a chase to get more of you. It becomes a chase of fulfilling his entertainment. Its better to go through that phase when theres kids and he doesnt have as much time in his hands.
We will never know it’s safe for sure. I’ve married twice without premarital sex, both ended in total disasters. The last one reads the Bible everyday and said the devil was trying to use him to kill me. He has his own church. He helps people, does a lot of good in the community. We will never know for sure. That’s the risk we take, and it’s necessary for Love to be real.
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Reasons why men are attracted to vulnerability in women:
#7 Men are turned on by a woman's vulnerability and openness.
#6 Vulnerability separates the men from the boys.
#5 Vulnerability is a sign of high self-worth in a woman.
#4 Vulnerability signals trust and respect as a devotional offering
#3 Vulnerability evokes masculine depth and breaks his distraction patterns.
#2 Vulnerability activates a man's Hero instinct to protect and provide.
#1 Vulnerability creates a space for him to pursue you.
Haven't noticed. Rather been fucked over sideways time and time again. And I've ALWAYS been real, and shown my vulnerability. So much for that claim ...
Thanks!
@@agatalocaagreed but we must be very careful and still be authentic and vulnerable but pay close attention to the signs.
@@agataloca you have to wait to see if they earn your trust before you can be vulnerable with them. Even so, you will get hurt as people make mistakes.
Vulnerability is being truthfull. Truthfull to your soul. And speaking from that source. And doing from that source.
Yeah and then they lie, use and abuse you. So be careful who you open up to.
Exactly.
You probably didn’t give the guy with genuine feeling a chance because you think ‘I can do better, this is too easy, he seems boring I can’t submit to him he doesn’t get it’
And carried on chasing a guy experienced at finessing women for sex
Try using logic, speak to none western women about their opinions on men and how to grateful to be a woman
Hope this helps
I have been dating a guy for 5 weeks now that is growing in his masculinity by the week. Ive been single for 5 years, but after learning thru this kind of content (and this podcast specifically) the true desire of men is vulnerability, I began to transform. I feel sold. I grew up in middle school and high school with feminism being highly promoted. I was told all my youth men desired confidence and independence. Now that I understand I can simply be myself, my feminine self, dating has become so much easier. I can interpret what is happening now, I understand every exchange, I dont question them. As my love interest has been doing more and more for me, I never would have known in the past this meant I was provoking his masculinity and his level of care for me by simply being vulnerable. I am so baffled that it was alwaya this simple and I just know the "rules" of the tango.
Now that I understand men's desires, I understand how to better navigate them. The proof is in the fruit!
The guy I was dating didn’t appreciate my vulnerability, he ghosted me when I poured my heart out 😂. Never again 👎
I agree. Been there 2 years ago. He wasn't emotionally available and dishonest about his past and what he was doing behind my back. Never again.
It wasn't your vulnerability that caused an issue - you were with the wrong person.
Maybe you said too much and too soon.
That was a broken-consciousness man. You don't need that in your life.
Being vulnerable isn't the issue. The right man would accept it.
This is very dangerous. The last thing a vulnerable person should do is put their vulnerability on a silver platter and hand it to someone regardless of how well they know them. No human being, let alone a man, is that safe.
That's why it's important to know what to avoid. I don't think people should be in relationships without knowledge of men
Agreed as narcs will ruin our lives!!!
@@Bodangers‼️. Learn about men thru men! I have done that for years!!!!
I did this. Ended up with a narcissistic sociopath that hurt my daughter and rejected me and his unborn son 1 month before he was born while he dumped my retirement into his car, bought whatever he wanted, and gave the rest away to other single mothers he wanted attention from. It was dangerous but I feel like the whole relationship was like jumping out of an airplane with no parachute so I could see that I could fly. Everything has been 100x better since our marriage/relationship ended and he showed who he really is. Win win for my kids and myself. Love and light to all❤
My husband hates it when I show vulnerability. His single Mom used up that part of him. He forces me to go into my masculine energy and handle things. I’m so tired of it. He’s just a little boy all the time when there’s any trouble.
My ex was the same way - always letting me fall when I needed a soft place to land. I was in survival mode.
After being single a long time, my new boyfriend is totally different in the best way. He was high-ranking in the military, and when I show vulnerability, that man IS my hero. He never talks over me, belittles, or argues. He is 6'6" in cowboy boots and he is so incredibly gentle and understanding with me. I swear he's the whole package.
Our second date we were gazing into each other's eyes and it was like our hearts connected without saying a word just standing next to each other. I got emotional and cried a bit. He held me and teared up too. He said, "I hope this works out because I'm falling hard already."
I said, "No one else will ever measure up to you. I am so thankful we met."
I have never felt this with anyone before. He's not saying how amazing he is, he's showing me and I'm seeing it for myself. I just can't believe I finally met my prince ❤
@@renewyourmind1815that’s so beautiful ♥️🥰 happy you’ve found that kind of love • it gives the rest of us hope☺️😉 may God bless you both with all the love, happiness, connection + peace your hearts can handle
@bloom7204 - Thank you. Don't lose hope, ladies! There is a man who will hold you and make you feel secure in the relationship 🥰
@@renewyourmind1815this is beautiful!!! ❤
Thought I’d found my King. We have been talking for years as friends. Then we developed feelings for each other. I had no idea he would shut down and run when we got close. He has been hurt and is a Fearful Avoidant. Essentially being on his own without real love from even his family who abandoned him his whole life. I don’t blame him. I understand him. But at the same time, he doesn’t take care of my heart. He breaks my heart. We just saw each other for the first time in over 30 years and we had a wonderful time. But now he’s in hiatus mode. It absolutely breaks my heart. He doesn’t seem to care much about that. I can see he is amazing as a person. He does love me. But he is broken. Badly. I don’t know what to do? I’ve fallen for him. But I do wonder if it can work for us? I know he’s trying. But still…
People can feel worthy and be high value while still being apprehensive about opening up because of past hurts. We should be able to ease into things without being told we’re damaged or not worth the trouble.
I really need a hero/ king in my life to be happy again.
Something has changed. I see more and more men who are afraid of spiders and cannot take on a burglar. I’m not sure if it’s the plastics, soy, pesticides and whatever else hormone disrupting substance I’ve read about but men need to figure that out if they want to attract and keep a woman. Many men in their 30s are less man than my grandfather was in his 80s. I’m talking physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and fiscally. A woman who can take care of herself is only going to keep an asset not a liability or burden.
That would go for men to sometimes women can be a liability!!! let’s be fair!!!! I have a friend that’s very sick. He had a wonderful job he made tons of money works expensive clothes and everything but lost it all because of a major health crisis but you’re saying he don’t deserve to be loved.?? 🤦♀️. let’s look for strength and character not strength in numbers!! Characters the most important thing you have all the money in the world that man treat you like crud and throw you off the boat!!! Not all men in the olden days that classy either so let’s be real!!!
@@Portia620stop caping for a male. Let him handle his own life Jesus Christ are you his mother?
Totally spot on!! What has happened to our society.
Of course they're attracted to our vulnerability, they can take advantage of our feelings a lot easier when we have our guard down. Never again will I put myself in that position.
Glory!!! After so much struggles I now own a new house with an influx of $360,500.00 every month God has kept to his words,my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place. God bless America 🇺🇸
Hallelujah!!!! Your channel has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻.I was owning a loan of $37,800 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (Oscar), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $8,000 and got my payout of $340,500 every months.God bless Mildred Evelyn Rooney 🇺🇲
Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $355,500 every month and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah🙌🏻❤️🇺🇸
Hello!! how do you make such monthly, am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God.
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested MILDRED EVELYN ROONEY
She's a licensed broker here in the states 🇺🇸 and finance advisor.
I found this video very helpful! I really appreciate it! Thank you! 😊
Welcome!
If you operate out of fear and protect your heart, you aren't operating out of the soft strength of feminine energy, you WILL attract exactly the kind of men you don't want to.
@@lovepeacejoyhappinessYou probably were not able to set boundaries?
You’ll get the weirdos no matter how you are.
I abruptly woke up this dawn cos of anxiety
I took my phone and texted him on WhatsApp
I knew he was asleep but texting him brought me comfort
He replied me in the morning
Called me a little later to question me why I didn’t call him but only texted
He is always looking for ways to solve my problems
It’s so beautiful
Have you ever met this man?
@ yes.been friends for a year
you should do a video on how i want to respect my man, but his man-child of not closing food boxes and leaving dropped food over the floor. it's really frustrating.
I think when you both respect each other hearts and accept and open and communicate the portability will show through in both the man and the woman 💟
Thank you so,so much for absolutely perfect and encouraging advice
Out of so many channels, you are the least manipulative. I don't understand why we are advised to play manipulative games! Your method works. ❤
I’ve heard this concept before but I never heard it broken down in such a well and easy understandable manner. Makes sooo much sense and yes it also sounds very scary 😩😮💨
Awesome message! Thank you!
You're so welcome, glad it's helpful!
Unless he felt taken advantage of by his prior partner/s. Then they are guarded and hold back their support, even though it’s clear I need it and am energetically open to it.
I have preached this for many years! Long before Bene Brown blew up! Women breath with the earth…when they remember that…its sacred. Look up the original relationship video from the light at the center! Love this guy! Want to meet him!
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING.🙌⭐
I already was thinking of the song "I Need A Hero" by Bonnie Tyler the first time you mentioned hero.. and I've already planned to listen to it afterwards, too. Great minds! 🤣
What a wonderful vid thank you 🙏
Thank you for your video. I have a question: What if the man begins by being empathetic and caring when I’m vulnerable, but then tells me he cannot give me what I need after a couple of months, and gradually shuts down and completely discards me? I am really confused about why he told me he was 100% committed and began planning a future with me, and then suddenly ghosted me. He said a number of times he wanted to make me happy, and I thanked him and expressed to him openly when I felt happy. But as time went on, my vulnerability seemed to push him away and he stopped saying things and doing things he used to say and do before….all in a period of 4 months. It was a huge roller coaster and heartbreaking for me!
When I would share with my now X and be open, honest, vulnerable with him and share secrets of my heart, or how I really felt about certain things he would later use it against me as a weakness. He was broken, a narcissist. Loved to brag about how smart he was, how he was always right, how he was a real man...a know-it-all who contantly belittled me and talked poorly about everyone.
Yeah, that know it all is the brain surgeon that kills a patient because he’s too ignorant and close minded and that’s not intelligence honey that’s ignorance!!!!
I’m sure he made you believe that he was smart but close minded people are not very smart really!!!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Al lacking and flexibility in the mind can happen with certain brains, but the biggest problems when they won’t be flexible when you try to help them see things like the gray areas instead of the all black and white
@Portia620 oh yeah, definitely for him. In his mind the answer was either A or B (both his ideas) there was never a third option, only two choices, and that was. Or I was exaggerating or lying.
@Portia620 oh, to me, he was of average intelligence and in some areas, a little more aware, but HE thought he was the smartest man around. And we argued all the time, because I would see his flaws and argue different points, and he hated that.
Fellow dancer here, west coast is cool! And makes tthe hings you say make more sense.
🌈🌟ThankYou! So very helpful!
You are so welcome!
What is the difference between vulnerability and insecurity? That would be a good video.
Some men don’t want vulnerability 🤗🤗🤗
Can you please make a video on what to do when he comes back after a break up ? All the videos on the internet are unhealthy but I believe you can do a healthy video about this topic !
Thank you
Well, if he broke up with you when you take him back, he will break up with you again. That’s 100%.
How do you deal with a situation where he wants to be everyones hero. Just has to please everyone
I really like your videos ❤
Women have been in SURVIVAL MODE since the dawn of time. Read the bible. It gives an accurate description of the desperation most women were living under, then, and every generation since then. Maybe post war U.S.A. was different but that was an anomaly not the standard throughout time.
Well, let me tell you bro, she doesn't feel safe, or valued or respected, at large. That's a state not a concept. When she have time to be that? Yall, environment, stress, not dependable, not honest, not trustworthy-from the top. Choose exploitation, mind games, compromising positions to put her in to make her feel LESS SAFE. Amd THEN tell us yoi like vulnerable. Honey--yall are going about it the wrong way.
And no, you cant force her. Nooo, that's not how that works, either.
NOT ONE WOMAN, IN THE USA, THIS APPLIES TO, THIS MOMENT.
She aint got TIME to mess with your trifling a** OR BE "VULNERABLE". CHILE, PLEASE. 😅
And THEN you wanna kill pregnant women, too? WTF?!!
Suuure, let us go ahead and be "vulnerable" for you. Not if she values her self respect dignity, OR LIFE!
(Im sure you're well intentioned. Trying to elicit MORE out of her. Already compromised. And NOT FEELIN IT.)
You dont strap someone down and say, "honey, be vulnerable for me."😦😳
Put it on the list of things to get to. Considering survival is #1 and that requires safe environments, it might take a minute. Masculine energy. It's not a switch, like on a lamp. We're NOT ROBOTS.
Be vulnerable he said. HOW?
True vulnerability activates the Hero instinct in a man (unless he is a "broken" man which is about 10% of men, in which case it will not work and you will have to walk away). That is the only way to activate that protector & provider energy in the men around you and in "your" man if you have one, otherwise a woman will only tend to attract "boys" looking for a mommy or men who don't value her or treat her well unfortunately. It takes courage and a leap of faith but over time it will bring a beautiful shift in your relationships.
@@MagnetizeYourMan10% ?
more like 90%
I agree 100% but many get taken advantage thats why many women are hurt. Woman are vurnable. Please teach men to be more playful and not take thier egos seriously ❤
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I was vulnerable with him for 2 months he said that he likes me but he is still healing from a break up that he had like a year ago and so what I did was pull back I stopped if he don't wish to talk to me that's fine he what got me thinking is when he said he missed how I use to send messages of missing him or checking up on him and I didn't want to anymore I'm not chasing bye
Do you have any videos about connecting to your own feminine energy? I have always been a tomboy and I’m a female currently in the military. I have a very direct approach to communication, and I think my personality is off putting. I feel so lost when you’re talking about feminine energy. I don’t even know if I understand what you’re even talking about half the time. I feel like that’s an area in my head that isn’t on anymore. Help?
Feminine energy resides in your womb and your heart, not your head... Listening more than you talk, moving slow, not forcing things to happen and doing things that get you out of your head and into your body increase your feminine energy. Spend time in nature, nature is the epitome of feminine energy. Masculine energy is 'doing', feminine energy is 'being'. Go with the flow more and don't compete... As a woman feminine energy is natural for you. Hope this helps 🙏
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That's why Marilyn Monroe was so irresistable (besides her beauty): She was so vulnerable!
Aaaand how’d that turn out for her?
She was irresistible because she was beautiful.
What she was, was impaired by pills and alcohol. Not sorry to be frank about it.
Do men come to you to learn or only women?
This channel talks a lot about it's the women's job to inspire the man to simply "be a good man."
Huge red flag if a man needs to be so called inspire constantly.
It is much more healthy and self-sustaining for women and men, to inspire themselves to be a loving, supportive and self-sustaining self-inspiring spouse.
This channel is like softcore red pill manosphere content.
I wonder who leads this ⬆️ relationship. Like I just get the feeling this guy is PW.
to imply that a man who watches basketball or plays video games is a form of escapism that a woman should provide is such a strange take... i want a man i can do those things with
Listen at this man. He won't lie to you.
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This does NOT work anymore in todays times. Outdated run of the mill advice that was relevant 100 years ago
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You mean the biggest turn on for you, not all men are the same.
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What a load of bs 😂😂😂😂😂