The usual positivity is great, but these talks are very valuable too. And even when you gotta get real, you guys seem to handle it with grace...which is something I personally struggle with sometimes. MERRY CHRISTMAS PRISCILLA!
I am totally astonished by you guys. Seriously, i cant even put it into words. Im in complete awe of how amazing you are. The patience and positivity you exhibit is awesome and you articulate all the aspects so well. Youre truly a blessing to so many!
It's very evident in your voice and demeanor how much you love and care for Abbie (and of course Isiah). You both are awesome! The team effort, the thoroughness, documentation, and evaluation is impressive. Prayers and positive intentions for all. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for speaking so openly and honestly. I have the upmost love and respect for your family. Repeated vomiting is so dangerous. Even purposefully vomiting once can lead to the esophagus rupturing in severe cases /: and that scares me. The acid burning and her fingernails scraping up her esophagus.. poor girl. No matter what anyone says you're doing the absolute right thing. I hope this gets better soon! Talking about the hard things is what makes you so real.
Thank you guys so much for getting real about what's going on with Abby and her autism. I was wondering when a vlog like this was going to come because you guys are so positive all the time it didn't show the other side of things. I really appreciate your willingness to be transparent and I think what you're doing as a solution is really awesome. I wish you all the best, and hope Abby gets through the gagging and the screaming part of this journey you guys are on. Thanks for everything.
I grew up with a very awesome girl with aspergers ( i may have spelled it wrong. ) And she was literally so incredible. She wore two wendys styled braids every day. As well as she had a fear of growing up. She hated opra and didnt want you to sing her happy birthday. For 14 years we grew up together. And i was always her 2nd best friend. She has benefitted my life in so many ways. She referred to her syndrome as her magical power. We are now 18 amd 19 and i visit her on a weekly basis to watch disney channel. And i pray that it never ends❤
I wonder if Chloraseptic spray for the throat would help her? Like the numbing medicine you give for a cough? Not for all the time but it may be soothing for her every now and then.
This was a wonderful talk, Priscilla and Asa. Thank you. I can sympathize on how difficult it can be to talk of SIBs. I have been emotionally struggling this week with the memories and other various after effects of 13yo son's severe SIBs and aggression toward others on and off over the past 9 years. I really needed to hear how you have dealt with this issue and it's given me a little bit of hope. Like you we have an entire team tracking "data" and we brainstorm regularly to come up with strategies to extinguish these behaviors. In trying to emulate your optimism I see now that we are making progress, albeit slow with some regressions over the past year.
So many positive, respectful comments here. You handled this serious topic with bravery and sensitivity. You did the right thing to address this issue and you preserved your child's dignity while doing so. You have a gift for this, you know? There are people who really needed to hear this. A child can become dehydrated and seriously malnourished if this behavior continues unaddressed. I know not all parents are as vigilant as you are. It takes a whole lot of work to parent any child if the job is to be done well.
I'm so happy you liked the ornaments! Thanks so much for the link! I teared up watching Priscilla tear up when reading the letter. If you guys would like something else custom done for your tree let me know. Also another great vlog!
You are a beautiful couple , wonderful parents who have beautiful wonderful and smart children. You inspire me and my journey with my young son with autism and my 16 year old sibling of autism. I can relate to you and it’s so comforting. Thank you 🙏🏻
Yesterday I told my friend that I have autism and she didn't know what autism is and she thought I have a disease or something but I explained it to her
My daughter was born with Cornelia De Lange Syndrome. She has a lot of SIB ,she hits herself a lot, and she recently took a piece of a broken CD and cut the entire lower lip away from her jaw. it required stitches and it was just awful. Nicki also gags and has a lot of reflux issues. she throws up at least 3 times a day. part of her syndrome is, is she doesn't feel pain like a "normal" person, which allows her to do a great deal of damage to herself. thank you for sharing this, I really hope things get better for you guys!!
I love when you huys show us how to be calm and patient in difficult situations. Everyone can figure out how to do it when things are pleasant, but we all need role models for how to act when things get hectic.
yes, the same here, puberty had added sib on my son, yes, the gagging and pica increased also, so I know how you guys feel.... there are times where I try to ignore it to see if that would do it, but it seems that he just has to do it. Yes, the vomiting comes with the gagging, I am hoping this behaviours will subside....
Again, hard to watch, but so very glad you are letting the world see what life looks like for some of us on this journey!! No sevant for us who paints pictures for millionaires. Our angel has put her head through the wall, busted her ear drums, and then we visited an ER that refused to actually treat her because she was in a tantrum. They asked us to go home!! Thank you!
I really love you guys! My son was diagnosed at age 2, almost 15 yrs ago. We have been throughout the stim ringer. Just when you think one is over, another one shows up. His worst one was "the chin rub". He would rub his chin on his shoulder constantly. Clothes on or off. His chin would bleed, scab over, and bleed again plus the odd head movements. It seemed like forever until we were able to get that one to go away. Our kiddos have bad times but they also have good times. The good times help us parents keep going. I commend you for staying strong and keeping the positive attitude...as much as you can. The days will get better. Stay strong! Love you guys!!!
Recognizing Autistic stimming behaviors at my granddaughters bowling tournament kept me relaxed and able to cheer for and enjoy the kids . I know now, I don't need to worry for them. She is 11 yrs with Polymicrogyria and I am proud of the things she can do. I learn best by watching, thank you.
#teampriscilla for sticking her tongue out and keeping a straight face. And I too love decorating for Christmas. Wonderful explanation in the video. You all are doing fantastic!
I couldn't watch for a couple of weeks and I'm two vids in my catch-up....the amount of information and education is so immense! You guys are simply amazing, not only with autism but child rearing in general. Your wealth of knowledge will and is helping thousands of people. As always, love you guys! X
Thank you so very much for sharing this. To put something so personal out there for the sake of educating the public is extremely admirable. Thank you so very much for allowing us to be a part of your journey. After making my way through each and every video, I feel so connected to all of you.
I just want to say that Isaiah and Abbie are extremely blessed to have you two as parents. You both are very involved and show the love and constant care which all parents should exhibit. My son doesn't have SIB but if he ever does, I know exactly who to go to for support and advice. You guys are amazing. I can only imagine how exhausting it is but y'all are doing great!!! Much love
Thank you thank you for being so real and brilliantly helpful! I am a mom of a child with dual diagnosis of CP & autism and an OT. I only discovered your channel a couple months ago after reading Earlyvention’s newsletter sharing a link to your review of their fabulous product and community program. I am hooked! I am so grateful for your vlogs addressing the hard stuff. While your solution may not be the exact solution my child or my students need, I am taking them in for future reference. Your ideas that are created with experience, care, love and deep understanding of you child. Your family, your attitude and dedication to connecting with others are all truly inspiring- for me both personally and professionally. Thank you, thank you! I’ll be watching and sharing!
That's awesome and I'm so glad you've found value personally and professionally. For sure, every child responds differently to different solutions. I think the main point is that there IS a solution to nearly every challenge. Thanks for watching and sharing.
I can't wait till you can do this full-time. You do an amazing job at consistently putting out content but I could deal with a video every day because I swear I go through withdrawals LOL
Thank you so much for your honesty. We have identical twins with autism and I have been looking for answers to some SIBs that one of them is exhibiting. This has been so helpful. Bless you all and thanks again!!
We are parents of an autistic 12 yo girl and you have helped us a great deal! Thank you for your courage and especially for making us feel as if we are not alone on this journey! We think you guys are great, thanks so much!!
My name's Dara, I have aspergers, OCD, anxiety and depression. Your videos are really inspirational, I really love your family. Thanks for being awesome
it's truly amazing how you guys still manage to smile and think of the positive on everything. Strong family with a great since of humor. prayers & love sent your way
Solidarity y'all - Ella is on to picking her lips until she bleeds 😞 it always resolves itself eventually like you guys said it's just so hard when you're going through it ....I hope this passes sooner than later ❤️
I wanted to step outside my 'zone' and post a comment to thank you guys for your honest to life videos, I have two children with ASD on extreme ends of the spectrum, I guess i was lucky that the elder of the two was the easiest, but it has been a godsend to find you at the same time my youngest is being diagnosed. To see a child like Abbie who is so happy with herself (If that makes sense) gives me so much hope. So thank you, thank you, thank you. I truly hope you guys continue to grow and share your story with the world.
Y'all are exceptionally loveable/helpful people. I appreciate the way you guys face an obstacle...even if it requires coming up with a self-made invention to "tackle" the issue. The person who sent the engraved gifts .....I felt like she was speaking for me. I, too, found your videos due to a need for information....a feeling of desperation because it was becoming more and more clear that our 4 yr old grandson was on the spectrum. I pray that y'all never feel worried about others' reactions when contemplating sharing some of the challenges and y'all's ways of handling them. Besides the charming personalities of each and every one of you that is so entertaining...the more serious subjects shared are REALLY helpful to so many that feel alone in these nonstereotypical challenges. You guys DO make everything feel as if whatever has to be faced....it can be done...and done with hope and positivity. I can't find enough words to express how much I appreciate y'all. One more thing..... Priscilla, I'm right there with ya on Christmas, girlfriend...I LOVE everything about it...from the decorations....to the food...and especially the spirit of giving! MERRY CHRISTMAS and Happy Holidays to all you guys!!!
As the family that sent the gifts we also saw your videos just prior to diagnosis and again j repeated those words I needed to see Abby now and watch her grow into the smart amazing girl she is now that in itself gives our family hope for our future as I watch my two year old struggle to communicate and feel pain I also know she will lean to tell us how she feels thank you mass squad you'll never begin to understand how much hope you give families everywhere
Thank you guys so much for talking about this. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to have to continually work though it. Best of luck y'all ❤️❤️❤️
Any human being with an ounce of intelligence or sensitivity can tell this is a terribly difficult topic/issue for you to deal with. I really hope all the comments you receive acknowledge this and commend you for taking the more difficult but ultimately the best and safest method possible for your beautiful daughter. You're incredible parents. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank You! My little guy has started with self injurious behavior. This is new to me and I love the options you give for restraining the behavior. I have tried redirection and re-enforcers but have not been successful. He bangs anything he picks up to his top teeth and has broken one. I love your positive outlook and this gives me hope! God Bless!
I just have to say! I am completely in awe! Not just at the fact that y’all are amazing parents, but wonderful human beings♥️ None of my children have autism. But man! I am so drawn to your videos and have been watching so many of them. As I just recently stumbled upon this channel. Both of your children are extremely lucky to have y’all as parents♥️ you guys are simply beautiful people!
One of the many things that I love About ya’ll is that you understand that Abbie has bad days or is in a “mood.” As “typicals” we have bad days too! Everyone does. Maybe Ab’s days are more extreme but I just love how you’re understanding as to her “moodie days.” I don’t have anyone with autism in my family but i volunteer with kids/adults with autism or other disorders. But I follow you guys and love all the insight you give!! I know this is an old video, but keep it up!!! 😉 I know you will 😉
Thank you for being so real. The word restraint As for me and my house, we use restarainnts for is a hard word for any parent to say but truth be told all parents use restraints even parents of neurotypical children. Parental controls on computers are restraints. Curfews are restraints. I am a retired OB nurse who experienced first hand children in their early teens coming into have babies. What always amazed me was the amount of friends with her that were out after midnight or longer on a school night. Thank you for being the parent who honestly cares and digs in when the tough gets going.
Love this real talk video and impressed by the professionally monitored and planned use of restraints. Are there any plans to upgrade her car seat to one with wide straps?
Quote Asa: "..Priscilla is all of whoville wrapped up into one person" Hahaha that bit was gold!! 😂😂😂😂😂💖 I picked up on that reference there from 'The Grinch that Stole Christmas' ❤💜
I am so glad that you guys decided to share this with your viewers. Our son has repeated bouts of this same stim and we are also at our wits ends figuring out how to extinct it. So many excellent ideas in here we cant try. THANK YOU!!!
Thank you for sharing this information because it's so important to educate ourselves on those with special needs❣ You guy's rock and I love your patience and compassion for others. Great roll models for young parents with special needs children❣
love watching your vlogs. you inspire me not only to be a better austim mom but a better UA-cam vlogger as well. The information you share pushes me to do better for me son. Thanks a lot.
We have been dealing with a behavior for 17 years, now. We've tried everything and nothing sticks. I'm convinced we'll never know what's causing it. Just when we think maybe, just maybe it's over it rears its ugly head again! I believe when our kids act out they are suffering in some way. It's so frustrating and heartbreaking. I hope you guys can get the gagging eradicated and Abby feels better soon.
You are both very cool, but we can see the hard work behind all your loving care - thank you for telling us about it - parents of autism or not - the tough truth and also the solutions behind the struggles - you are a beautiful family, God Bless you.
I'm with Priscilla. It's Christmas all year long in my heart. I hope things with Abby's SIB calms down soon. You guys are a wonderful family. Isaiah is awesome.
In my opinion you guys are just doing what you have to do to keep Abby safe! Its sad that you might feel people would judge you for trying to keep your baby safe. It's so very obvious that you guys are loving caring parents, I applaud you for coming up with ways to keep her safe💗
Thank you for teaching others about autism. My cousin has high functioning autism and his dad is in the army. It's hard but routines have helped a lot. I also have a slight sensory disorder so learning about people on the spectrum is super informative. Praying for you guys. God bless :) ❤️ Also, Priscilla's hair is absolutely gorgeous. Such a beautiful woman.
Omg you guys are still soooo amazing! I absolutely love your WHOLE family! I capitalized whole because all of you together creates a whole, like puzzle pieces fitting together into a beautiful work of art! I love the bloopers/randomness at the end of the video!
I work with developmentally disabled adults who have various sibs. One method used with our population is a pair of mittens (which is a long long process just to get approved, requires documentation, recommendations from physicians and psychologists, court approval, etc.) They kind of look like boxing gloves but they prevent individuals from making themselves throw up or from hitting themselves. And everytime they are used we document what led up to the behaviors, what interventions we attempted prior, etc. I never realized this was an issue until I started working in this field. I never realized how tough outside criticism was until I took my guys out in public and people stare and question why it is they have their hands covered. They assume it's abusive when in reality it's done for their own safety. I'm an advocate for the individuals I care for and watching your videos teaches me how to do my job more effectively when it comes to discussing these things.
Holy moly... I am now wondering about our son. He constantly gags or throws up...He has ASD... I never knew this could be a STIM.... so much to investigate now.
19:20 Awww. I’m crying now. You guys are great. What a great letter. You are a great example of how no family or loved one is every the same as the next. No matter the difference, we should still love and care for them.
I really just want to say thanks for ur video, my son has autism, we live in Australia and are starting the transition to school for nxt year, so far it been an up hill battle, can’t even get him threw the front gate but have lots of support in his therapist, teachers and the school we will get their. You video’s give me hope so thanks for making them.
Also the talk that you guys had about Abbie and the restraints was super informative and helped a lot with understanding people with autism more. Would love more detailed autism centered talks that discuss the downfalls and solutions. The sweater is an brilliant idea.
Thanks for uploading these videos. We're another family that really appreciate the information and experiences you share. It shows us what to look out for as your 4yo grows and gives us some ideas of how to handle it if it should come up. With this gagging thing, our little guy doesn't do it, but it is good to know that it is something that might happen and to know what to do if it does. I just find it very comforting knowing there are people out there who have walked down this road and are still walking down this road. Your positive attitude is inspiring. Good luck with the current challenges.
Ya'll have seriously just given me so many ideas. I have wanted to ask ya'll about stuff like this, but I didn't want to be the "Debbie downer" of the group. I do wish ya'll could do some of these types of videos of like, how do you handle the huge tantrums at home and in public. I mean in a way that won't take away Abbie's dignity. But ya'll do such wonderful videos. We all see your families love. We know how amazing you are. I for one would like to see some of the other side too. Thank you for this video :) . #LoveAbbie
Love your hair Priscilla, thank you for letting us in, I'm sure it wasn't easy I find it much easier to deal with things than I do talking about them ❤
She is amazing in abstract!!! Many think by looking at it that it's easy although it may seem that way by glance it's quite the contrary. I can see why she got 1st place!! You should if u haven't already get her doing more because if she's pulling off these pieces at her age i couldn't even imagine her progression over yrs to come but 1things for sure she'd kick ass at it.
So proud of you guys. You two, your family and team are sooo inspirational anf motivating!!! Thank you for sharing these videos and give us a glimpse into your life! 💜
I am dealing with my son biting himself, its really escalated lately. I have a dr appointment tomorrow, but I am nervous to ask about restraints because people respond so harshly. His poor little hands are just wicked bruised up all the time.even though its an older one, this video helped me with some encouragement and some ways to open a dialogue w the doctor.
My son gags himself to try to get out of going to school. He is usually congested when he does it. My son takes a lot of medicine for anxiety. Currently we are dealing with bullying at school and I'm waiting to find out what the school is going to do about it.
Totally understand what you guys are saying. It must be so difficult but you have to do what you need to do to keep your child safe. I think anyone with common sense would agree. You guys are AMAZING parents!!! So Positive, happy, honest, full of real life humour and always push forward. So inspirational...Love you all so much. Teena ❤️🇨🇦❤️
Asa and Priscilla l applaud you both!! You handle each and every situation with such integrity, honesty and class. I thank you for explaining your current situation. And l pray that you are able to make this latest stim extinct and quickly. My heart and my prayers are with you always. God bless you both! And Isaiah you are an awesome older brother. Be proud young man you are truly blessed. Your parents have raised a great young man!! My prayers are with you also.
Thank you for sharing the arm restraint Abbie uses to keep herself safe when she gags. I worked with a student with Lesch Nyhan Syndrome who actually bit the tip of his finger off during self-injurious behavior. This PVC-lined sweatshirt would have worked well for him. Please know that your interventions sometimes apply for people with Autism and other diagnosis as well.
It's an Abbie-stract painting :)
+alisarusty Nice!
alisarusty hahaha that's perfect
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yes.
The usual positivity is great, but these talks are very valuable too. And even when you gotta get real, you guys seem to handle it with grace...which is something I personally struggle with sometimes.
MERRY CHRISTMAS PRISCILLA!
I am totally astonished by you guys. Seriously, i cant even put it into words. Im in complete awe of how amazing you are. The patience and positivity you exhibit is awesome and you articulate all the aspects so well. Youre truly a blessing to so many!
It's very evident in your voice and demeanor how much you love and care for Abbie (and of course Isiah). You both are awesome! The team effort, the thoroughness, documentation, and evaluation is impressive. Prayers and positive intentions for all. Thank you for sharing.
"She is all of Whoville wrapped into one" best line ever😂.
Thank you for speaking so openly and honestly. I have the upmost love and respect for your family. Repeated vomiting is so dangerous. Even purposefully vomiting once can lead to the esophagus rupturing in severe cases /: and that scares me. The acid burning and her fingernails scraping up her esophagus.. poor girl. No matter what anyone says you're doing the absolute right thing. I hope this gets better soon! Talking about the hard things is what makes you so real.
jeommy kin uh I'm a guy.. not that guys can't be beautiful but you literally can't even see me dude.
I can't even put into words how much I love Priscilla. Besides my own mother I hope to be half as awesome of a mom as her to my own son.
Priscilla you are looking fabulous!
I thought the same. She's gorgeous!
Thank you guys so much for getting real about what's going on with Abby and her autism. I was wondering when a vlog like this was going to come because you guys are so positive all the time it didn't show the other side of things. I really appreciate your willingness to be transparent and I think what you're doing as a solution is really awesome. I wish you all the best, and hope Abby gets through the gagging and the screaming part of this journey you guys are on.
Thanks for everything.
I grew up with a very awesome girl with aspergers ( i may have spelled it wrong. ) And she was literally so incredible. She wore two wendys styled braids every day. As well as she had a fear of growing up. She hated opra and didnt want you to sing her happy birthday. For 14 years we grew up together. And i was always her 2nd best friend. She has benefitted my life in so many ways. She referred to her syndrome as her magical power. We are now 18 amd 19 and i visit her on a weekly basis to watch disney channel. And i pray that it never ends❤
I hope you two are still friends 💜
nice story! other people fail at life because they are so greedy in all things..we need more frugality in our world! thank you!
I wonder if Chloraseptic spray for the throat would help her? Like the numbing medicine you give for a cough? Not for all the time but it may be soothing for her every now and then.
This was a wonderful talk, Priscilla and Asa. Thank you. I can sympathize on how difficult it can be to talk of SIBs. I have been emotionally struggling this week with the memories and other various after effects of 13yo son's severe SIBs and aggression toward others on and off over the past 9 years. I really needed to hear how you have dealt with this issue and it's given me a little bit of hope. Like you we have an entire team tracking "data" and we brainstorm regularly to come up with strategies to extinguish these behaviors. In trying to emulate your optimism I see now that we are making progress, albeit slow with some regressions over the past year.
I really admire how intentional your parenting is. Keep up the great work! Thanks for sharing your family with us.
So many positive, respectful comments here. You handled this serious topic with bravery and sensitivity. You did the right thing to address this issue and you preserved your child's dignity while doing so. You have a gift for this, you know? There are people who really needed to hear this. A child can become dehydrated and seriously malnourished if this behavior continues unaddressed. I know not all parents are as vigilant as you are. It takes a whole lot of work to parent any child if the job is to be done well.
Indeed, it's sometimes necessary to protect these children from themselves.
It's amazing to see parents who put so much love and effort into their children.
I'm so happy you liked the ornaments! Thanks so much for the link! I teared up watching Priscilla tear up when reading the letter. If you guys would like something else custom done for your tree let me know. Also another great vlog!
man thats a father...! he is so patient and calm managing the whole thing like a boss
So I’ve been binge watching all of your older vlogs. I can’t watch a movie more than once but I can watch the same Maass vlogs more than once! 😁
You are a beautiful couple , wonderful parents who have beautiful wonderful and smart children. You inspire me and my journey with my young son with autism and my 16 year old sibling of autism. I can relate to you and it’s so comforting. Thank you 🙏🏻
Also, Priscilla your highlights look so beautiful! And I love one of you curl your hair is so pretty. You both look so healthy I can't get over it
When Priscilla said "Fun times!" during the oil change in the car - she sounded SO much like Isaiah - no doubt you 2 are related!
Yesterday I told my friend that I have autism and she didn't know what autism is and she thought I have a disease or something but I explained it to her
Our son does the gagging. We had him scoped ( his throat) and he didn’t have reflux either. I like the hoodie idea! Great job! Thank you. 😃❤️
hi all i can say is that you guys are the best parents. Isaiah and Abbie are sooooo blessed to have parents like you. God Bless!!! MUWAH
It hurts my heart to see Abbie struggling and in turn you all struggling. I live for your videos everyday. Thank you for all that you do!!!
My daughter was born with Cornelia De Lange Syndrome. She has a lot of SIB ,she hits herself a lot, and she recently took a piece of a broken CD and cut the entire lower lip away from her jaw. it required stitches and it was just awful. Nicki also gags and has a lot of reflux issues. she throws up at least 3 times a day. part of her syndrome is, is she doesn't feel pain like a "normal" person, which allows her to do a great deal of damage to herself. thank you for sharing this, I really hope things get better for you guys!!
I love when you huys show us how to be calm and patient in difficult situations. Everyone can figure out how to do it when things are pleasant, but we all need role models for how to act when things get hectic.
Good talk Maas family! Priscilla you looked so extra pretty during the sit down today! #MaasSquad #TeamPriscillia
yes, the same here, puberty had added sib on my son, yes, the gagging and pica increased also, so I know how you guys feel.... there are times where I try to ignore it to see if that would do it, but it seems that he just has to do it. Yes, the vomiting comes with the gagging, I am hoping this behaviours will subside....
Another great video! One of the realest families on youtube for sure. Thanks guys!
Again, hard to watch, but so very glad you are letting the world see what life looks like for some of us on this journey!! No sevant for us who paints pictures for millionaires. Our angel has put her head through the wall, busted her ear drums, and then we visited an ER that refused to actually treat her because she was in a tantrum. They asked us to go home!! Thank you!
I really love you guys! My son was diagnosed at age 2, almost 15 yrs ago. We have been throughout the stim ringer. Just when you think one is over, another one shows up. His worst one was "the chin rub". He would rub his chin on his shoulder constantly. Clothes on or off. His chin would bleed, scab over, and bleed again plus the odd head movements. It seemed like forever until we were able to get that one to go away. Our kiddos have bad times but they also have good times. The good times help us parents keep going. I commend you for staying strong and keeping the positive attitude...as much as you can. The days will get better. Stay strong! Love you guys!!!
Recognizing Autistic stimming behaviors at my granddaughters bowling tournament kept me relaxed and able to cheer for and enjoy the kids . I know now, I don't need to worry for them. She is 11 yrs with Polymicrogyria and I am proud of the things she can do. I learn best by watching, thank you.
You all are still positive. Thanks for sharing.
my favourite part of your vlogs is after the beep!! I love how hilarious you are together, and Priscilla? you. are. gorgeous.
#teampriscilla for sticking her tongue out and keeping a straight face. And I too love decorating for Christmas. Wonderful explanation in the video. You all are doing fantastic!
The gifts from Johavi made me choke up as well, Priscilla! #teampriscilla 💝
Priscilla you are naturally GORGEOUS!!!!
Also wanted to add that you guys are so BRAVE and AMAZING! I have learned so much from you guys. Thanks for sharing so openly!
I couldn't watch for a couple of weeks and I'm two vids in my catch-up....the amount of information and education is so immense! You guys are simply amazing, not only with autism but child rearing in general. Your wealth of knowledge will and is helping thousands of people. As always, love you guys! X
Thank you so very much for sharing this. To put something so personal out there for the sake of educating the public is extremely admirable. Thank you so very much for allowing us to be a part of your journey. After making my way through each and every video, I feel so connected to all of you.
I'm a great grandmother and my great grandson is non verbal autistic. This is a very informative video . Thank you ,for helping me to understand
Loved absolutely everything about this video. Although I have to say the after the beep segment is always best!
I just want to say that Isaiah and Abbie are extremely blessed to have you two as parents. You both are very involved and show the love and constant care which all parents should exhibit. My son doesn't have SIB but if he ever does, I know exactly who to go to for support and advice. You guys are amazing. I can only imagine how exhausting it is but y'all are doing great!!! Much love
Thank you thank you for being so real and brilliantly helpful! I am a mom of a child with dual diagnosis of CP & autism and an OT. I only discovered your channel a couple months ago after reading Earlyvention’s newsletter sharing a link to your review of their fabulous product and community program.
I am hooked!
I am so grateful for your vlogs addressing the hard stuff. While your solution may not be the exact solution my child or my students need, I am taking them in for future reference. Your ideas that are created with experience, care, love and deep understanding of you child. Your family, your attitude and dedication to connecting with others are all truly inspiring- for me both personally and professionally. Thank you, thank you! I’ll be watching and sharing!
That's awesome and I'm so glad you've found value personally and professionally. For sure, every child responds differently to different solutions. I think the main point is that there IS a solution to nearly every challenge. Thanks for watching and sharing.
I can't wait till you can do this full-time. You do an amazing job at consistently putting out content but I could deal with a video every day because I swear I go through withdrawals LOL
Thank you so much for your honesty. We have identical twins with autism and I have been looking for answers to some SIBs that one of them is exhibiting. This has been so helpful. Bless you all and thanks again!!
We are parents of an autistic 12 yo girl and you have helped us a great deal! Thank you for your courage and especially for making us feel as if we are not alone on this journey! We think you guys are great, thanks so much!!
My name's Dara, I have aspergers, OCD, anxiety and depression. Your videos are really inspirational, I really love your family. Thanks for being awesome
The editing is getting better and better Asa! Keep on trucking! Positive will always outweigh the negative :)
it's truly amazing how you guys still manage to smile and think of the positive on everything. Strong family with a great since of humor. prayers & love sent your way
I love the "real talk" as much as everything else. Thank you for sharing and posting about everything.
This was one of my favorite videos and plan on sharing it with the families I work with. So well said and so important to hear.
Solidarity y'all - Ella is on to picking her lips until she bleeds 😞 it always resolves itself eventually like you guys said it's just so hard when you're going through it ....I hope this passes sooner than later ❤️
I wanted to step outside my 'zone' and post a comment to thank you guys for your honest to life videos, I have two children with ASD on extreme ends of the spectrum, I guess i was lucky that the elder of the two was the easiest, but it has been a godsend to find you at the same time my youngest is being diagnosed. To see a child like Abbie who is so happy with herself (If that makes sense) gives me so much hope. So thank you, thank you, thank you. I truly hope you guys continue to grow and share your story with the world.
I love your family. And your relationship, showing everyone the hardship but how to still have an outstanding relationship ❤
Y'all are exceptionally loveable/helpful people. I appreciate the way you guys face an obstacle...even if it requires coming up with a self-made invention to "tackle" the issue. The person who sent the engraved gifts .....I felt like she was speaking for me. I, too, found your videos due to a need for information....a feeling of desperation because it was becoming more and more clear that our 4 yr old grandson was on the spectrum. I pray that y'all never feel worried about others' reactions when contemplating sharing some of the challenges and y'all's ways of handling them. Besides the charming personalities of each and every one of you that is so entertaining...the more serious subjects shared are REALLY helpful to so many that feel alone in these nonstereotypical challenges. You guys DO make everything feel as if whatever has to be faced....it can be done...and done with hope and positivity. I can't find enough words to express how much I appreciate y'all. One more thing..... Priscilla, I'm right there with ya on Christmas, girlfriend...I LOVE everything about it...from the decorations....to the food...and especially the spirit of giving! MERRY CHRISTMAS and Happy Holidays to all you guys!!!
Lol, she just roasted Asa so hard in the last 10 seconds of this video! Some of us are just naturally this cute! Yasss, Sis!
As the family that sent the gifts we also saw your videos just prior to diagnosis and again j repeated those words I needed to see Abby now and watch her grow into the smart amazing girl she is now that in itself gives our family hope for our future as I watch my two year old struggle to communicate and feel pain I also know she will lean to tell us how she feels thank you mass squad you'll never begin to understand how much hope you give families everywhere
Thank you guys so much for talking about this. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to have to continually work though it. Best of luck y'all ❤️❤️❤️
That painting is so beautiful and I think it's very good to be real. You truly handle everything with grace blessings
Any human being with an ounce of intelligence or sensitivity can tell this is a terribly difficult topic/issue for you to deal with. I really hope all the comments you receive acknowledge this and commend you for taking the more difficult but ultimately the best and safest method possible for your beautiful daughter. You're incredible parents. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank You! My little guy has started with self injurious behavior. This is new to me and I love the options you give for restraining the behavior. I have tried redirection and re-enforcers but have not been successful. He bangs anything he picks up to his top teeth and has broken one. I love your positive outlook and this gives me hope! God Bless!
I just have to say! I am completely in awe! Not just at the fact that y’all are amazing parents, but wonderful human beings♥️ None of my children have autism. But man! I am so drawn to your videos and have been watching so many of them. As I just recently stumbled upon this channel. Both of your children are extremely lucky to have y’all as parents♥️ you guys are simply beautiful people!
One of the many things that I love
About ya’ll is that you understand that Abbie has bad days or is in a “mood.” As “typicals” we have bad days too! Everyone does. Maybe Ab’s days are more extreme but I just love how you’re understanding as to her “moodie days.” I don’t have anyone with autism in my family but i volunteer with kids/adults with autism or other disorders. But I follow you guys and love all the insight you give!! I know this is an old video, but keep it up!!! 😉 I know you will 😉
I work at a library and I was thinking, I'd love to read a book about Abbie and your family. I can't get enough of you guys!
Carly Johnson I would definitely buy a book if they wrote it
Thank you for being so real. The word restraint As for me and my house, we use restarainnts for is a hard word for any parent to say but truth be told all parents use restraints even parents of neurotypical children. Parental controls on computers are restraints. Curfews are restraints. I am a retired OB nurse who experienced first hand children in their early teens coming into have babies. What always amazed me was the amount of friends with her that were out after midnight or longer on a school night. Thank you for being the parent who honestly cares and digs in when the tough gets going.
Love this real talk video and impressed by the professionally monitored and planned use of restraints. Are there any plans to upgrade her car seat to one with wide straps?
Quote Asa: "..Priscilla is all of whoville wrapped up into one person" Hahaha that bit was gold!! 😂😂😂😂😂💖 I picked up on that reference there from 'The Grinch that Stole Christmas' ❤💜
I am so glad that you guys decided to share this with your viewers. Our son has repeated bouts of this same stim and we are also at our wits ends figuring out how to extinct it. So many excellent ideas in here we cant try. THANK YOU!!!
Thank you for sharing this information because it's so important to educate ourselves on those with special needs❣ You guy's rock and I love your patience and compassion for others. Great roll models for young parents with special needs children❣
love watching your vlogs. you inspire me not only to be a better austim mom but a better UA-cam vlogger as well. The information you share pushes me to do better for me son. Thanks a lot.
We have been dealing with a behavior for 17 years, now. We've tried everything and nothing sticks. I'm convinced we'll never know what's causing it. Just when we think maybe, just maybe it's over it rears its ugly head again! I believe when our kids act out they are suffering in some way. It's so frustrating and heartbreaking. I hope you guys can get the gagging eradicated and Abby feels better soon.
You are both very cool, but we can see the hard work behind all your loving care - thank you for telling us about it - parents of autism or not - the tough truth and also the solutions behind the struggles - you are a beautiful family, God Bless you.
I’ve never been this early before! In love with the channel! Thank you for the knowledge and smiles 💜
I'm with Priscilla. It's Christmas all year long in my heart. I hope things with Abby's SIB calms down soon. You guys are a wonderful family. Isaiah is awesome.
In my opinion you guys are just doing what you have to do to keep Abby safe! Its sad that you might feel people would judge you for trying to keep your baby safe. It's so very obvious that you guys are loving caring parents, I applaud you for coming up with ways to keep her safe💗
Thank you for teaching others about autism. My cousin has high functioning autism and his dad is in the army. It's hard but routines have helped a lot. I also have a slight sensory disorder so learning about people on the spectrum is super informative.
Praying for you guys. God bless :) ❤️
Also, Priscilla's hair is absolutely gorgeous. Such a beautiful woman.
Such a great vlog❤
Your family keeps it real and honest. The information you share is perfect. ❤
Omg you guys are still soooo amazing! I absolutely love your WHOLE family! I capitalized whole because all of you together creates a whole, like puzzle pieces fitting together into a beautiful work of art! I love the bloopers/randomness at the end of the video!
I work with developmentally disabled adults who have various sibs. One method used with our population is a pair of mittens (which is a long long process just to get approved, requires documentation, recommendations from physicians and psychologists, court approval, etc.) They kind of look like boxing gloves but they prevent individuals from making themselves throw up or from hitting themselves. And everytime they are used we document what led up to the behaviors, what interventions we attempted prior, etc. I never realized this was an issue until I started working in this field. I never realized how tough outside criticism was until I took my guys out in public and people stare and question why it is they have their hands covered. They assume it's abusive when in reality it's done for their own safety. I'm an advocate for the individuals I care for and watching your videos teaches me how to do my job more effectively when it comes to discussing these things.
Holy moly... I am now wondering about our son. He constantly gags or throws up...He has ASD... I never knew this could be a STIM.... so much to investigate now.
19:20 Awww. I’m crying now. You guys are great. What a great letter. You are a great example of how no family or loved one is every the same as the next. No matter the difference, we should still love and care for them.
I really just want to say thanks for ur video, my son has autism, we live in Australia and are starting the transition to school for nxt year, so far it been an up hill battle, can’t even get him threw the front gate but have lots of support in his therapist, teachers and the school we will get their. You video’s give me hope so thanks for making them.
Also the talk that you guys had about Abbie and the restraints was super informative and helped a lot with understanding people with autism more. Would love more detailed autism centered talks that discuss the downfalls and solutions. The sweater is an brilliant idea.
I admire your courageous truthfulness. Very much appreciated.
Thanks for uploading these videos. We're another family that really appreciate the information and experiences you share. It shows us what to look out for as your 4yo grows and gives us some ideas of how to handle it if it should come up. With this gagging thing, our little guy doesn't do it, but it is good to know that it is something that might happen and to know what to do if it does. I just find it very comforting knowing there are people out there who have walked down this road and are still walking down this road.
Your positive attitude is inspiring.
Good luck with the current challenges.
Ya'll have seriously just given me so many ideas. I have wanted to ask ya'll about stuff like this, but I didn't want to be the "Debbie downer" of the group. I do wish ya'll could do some of these types of videos of like, how do you handle the huge tantrums at home and in public. I mean in a way that won't take away Abbie's dignity. But ya'll do such wonderful videos. We all see your families love. We know how amazing you are. I for one would like to see some of the other side too. Thank you for this video :) . #LoveAbbie
Love your hair Priscilla, thank you for letting us in, I'm sure it wasn't easy I find it much easier to deal with things than I do talking about them ❤
Man, learning something new every time I watch this channel. Props to you all xxx
She is amazing in abstract!!! Many think by looking at it that it's easy although it may seem that way by glance it's quite the contrary. I can see why she got 1st place!! You should if u haven't already get her doing more because if she's pulling off these pieces at her age i couldn't even imagine her progression over yrs to come but 1things for sure she'd kick ass at it.
So proud of you guys. You two, your family and team are sooo inspirational anf motivating!!! Thank you for sharing these videos and give us a glimpse into your life! 💜
I am dealing with my son biting himself, its really escalated lately. I have a dr appointment tomorrow, but I am nervous to ask about restraints because people respond so harshly. His poor little hands are just wicked bruised up all the time.even though its an older one, this video helped me with some encouragement and some ways to open a dialogue w the doctor.
My son gags himself to try to get out of going to school. He is usually congested when he does it. My son takes a lot of medicine for anxiety.
Currently we are dealing with bullying at school and I'm waiting to find out what the school is going to do about it.
Totally understand what you guys are saying. It must be so difficult but you have to do what you need to do to keep your child safe. I think anyone with common sense would agree. You guys are AMAZING parents!!! So Positive, happy, honest, full of real life humour and always push forward. So inspirational...Love you all so much.
Teena
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Asa and Priscilla l applaud you both!! You handle each and every situation with such integrity, honesty and class. I thank you for explaining your current situation. And l pray that you are able to make this latest stim extinct and quickly. My heart and my prayers are with you always. God bless you both!
And Isaiah you are an awesome older brother. Be proud young man you are truly blessed. Your parents have raised a great young man!! My prayers are with you also.
It kills me to see babygirl cry and get frustrated yall handle it like angels
I love your realness and positivity.isaiah is a great big brother
Loved the B-roll lol! Beautiful words from the Johavi Family! Will need to check them out!
Thank you for sharing the arm restraint Abbie uses to keep herself safe when she gags. I worked with a student with Lesch Nyhan Syndrome who actually bit the tip of his finger off during self-injurious behavior. This PVC-lined sweatshirt would have worked well for him. Please know that your interventions sometimes apply for people with Autism and other diagnosis as well.