What actually happens when you let go.
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
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My 3 relationship rules:
1. Let go of loved ones. They will come to you.
2. Ignore disrespectful people (keep out of my life).
3. Chase no person. Let them come to you.
As a former clingy empath seeking constant validation, I’m amazed that people are now seeking my attention without even trying. It’s because I never give out FREE attention anymore and put 100% energy back to myself.
@@Jesusisking235 Wonderful!! Happy for you ✨💖✨
My inner child is so hurt & i always looked for validation & finally ended up getting abandoned.
Doing the work. 16 months out. Grieved the so called relationship, grieved the loss of myself too. In order to heal you have to feel. Happy to be alone. Unattached. Independent not codependent. Growing and learning, working on myself. I’m just doing me now. For once in my life.
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I wish i could do that
Keep going Louise I know it's tough. You will see the light again x
13 months. In the same zone. We are capable of letting go and choosing ourselves.
Well done, it gives me hope
This is probably your best video
Remember, God will give you exactly what you want if it was meant for you and quickly
Never does it say quickly
Lmao always the same shit meant for you , if it was not why it came lol
It’s like when you have a job and it’s easier to find a job vs. when you don’t. You’re less needy.
No. My cousin has a very good job but she's looking for another and she never got it. She still had to stay in her toxic job.
Yes, that happens a lot.
@@freshdumplingbecause her toxic job makes her “need” a new one instead of desiring what’s right
@@-_pi_- what's the difference between that? It's healthy to need a new job than stay in a toxic one. This guy is a long haired guy who is preaching pop woo woo stuff without no evidence and you're a follower of that and you sound sad.
@@freshdumpling I didn’t say I believe anything. Just playing devils advocate from that perspective
This video isn’t even half way over and I’m healing from it, great teachings
This is helpful. My take away is be happy now, and all the things that make you happy will come to you.
I let go of the want/need for a love relationship after being with the wrong man off and on for +11 emotionally abusive years. 2 weeks later I met Ed and he treats me like gold. Thank you Lord and universe!! ✨✨✨
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Hope you’re doing well with your new relationship. Just to let you know that after listening to those videos, I came to a conclusion that if you had been in a long toxic relationship .. you will be attracted to the new nontoxic relationship for awhile than you will feel that something is missing in this relationship which is the toxicity .. so you will leave this partner and find someone that has that a little bit of toxicity to make you feel your life is normal to you. The cycle will go on and this is why girls attracted to the toxic men. Then always will say I made the wrong choice :)
So happy for you !
2 weeks after and coming to conclusions? slow down
This is such good content. Honestly, spot on. Addiction and attachment is the same thing. Addiction to codependency. Loss of self worth, etc. Once you spend time on your own and detach from the codependency and attachments, you realize your worth. It's like constantly adding clean water to a water glass that still has dirty water in it and then drinking from it. Who wants to drink dirty water from a glass? Not me.
I did focused practises for a while. I just affirm or think very generally now. Thanking the universe for solving my long standing troubles and filling my life with miracles. Being grateful for sending me love and happiness. Being happy because I'm blessed.
It relieves a lot of overthinking about the details of our manifestations and there isn't as much resistance.
And blessings flow in and I get what i want.
Im trying to teach others this as well,letting go helps you sooooo much and literally does make you magnetic
Hi, Aaron! Great talk about non-attachment 👍. I appreciate the distinction you made between attachment, detachment and non-attachment. It’s like a bicycle riding down a gentle hill on a curved road … pedaling heavily creates too much force risking a crash (attachment), riding the brakes (detachment) creates too much drag and immobility, and gliding keeps you moving forward in balance with the elements. (non-attachment). Happy gliding, everyone!! ❤
That’s a great metaphor
A great visual anology easy to remember 😊
You dropped this video exactly when i needed it!
I can hear the FEELING of your words in this message today. Very, very connected and I thank you more than I can express.
Thanks so much for this. I felt like today I needed to hear this, especially what you said about relationships and not having time to heal in between. At the age of 39 I have rarely been on my own since 16 years. Now is the time. Thanks for giving me hope.
Oh I needed TO BE TOLD this! Thank you ❤
“Let Go & 🌟TRUST🌟🌌”
is exactly my lesson
Thank you for sharing as I’m going through this soul lesson right now in general for my entire life roadmap to unfold
Divine timing as always with your message 💫
The content you shared is wonderful. Thank you very much. If we can let go of everything, we will be free.
This is so true. I was always at my best when I rolled the dice and had some faith
I don't know how will I thank you Aaron. You changed my life brother ❤
I agree with this 💯 percent. When I was single and I didn’t want to to go out with any guys and just have fun that’s when I met guys. I found my husband 😊
I love your explanation of the difference between non attached and detached. Your work is such an eye opener and Ive learned heaps already. Thank you so much ❤
My whole wheels were stolen yesterday, and I felt so defeated, I really needed this. I needed to let go of that feeling it was so overwhelming...Thank you Aaron!
Pray for those that stole from you. They must really be hurting in order to stoop this low.
What’s for me will be for me. I’m always being guided to what’s good for me
Every second you are helping others with these videos thank you 🙏🏾
Aaron I have listened to your content for several years and it has always been great and engaging but your content this year is above the bar. It totally resonates with me and I hope it’s resonating with many. It’s the next level of information. Thanks so much please don’t stop doing your UA-cam videos.
I really love your clear teaching on attachment. Very in-depth and inspiring. Make me reflect myself more. Thanks.🙏🏻
There is something so earnest about you I enjoy and learn because of your sincerity
love the empath content as a empath myself
Whenever we become attached and then find ourselves in the position where we must let go of something-all that energy that we've poured into the attachment we must then pour into ourselves, from a place of deepest self-love and self-respect.
In my yoga teacher training, the yogic philosophy of *Aparigraha* really impacted me, meaning non-clinging or non-grasping. We all can hold on so tightly to things/people/identity/circumstances, especially those that ultimately aren't meant for us. It's not always easy to do, therefore why it's a continual *practice* of non-attaching, and often detaching 🙏
Seems like whenever I don’t watch these videos and forget about them for a minute then my life falls to peace’s and here I am again just listening is calming 🤙🏼
Same here !
Thank you so much for this. I'm having to let go of a friendship that means a lot to me, and this video is helping me get through the pain.
I bought this book based on your recommendation and so far it's great. I'm only a few chapters in but it's been very helpful so far. I'll need to read it again. Thank you for mentioning it.
I enjoy this video. I have so many attatchment issues and have really bad history or dating and avoidant attatchment issues. This video is inspiring and gives me ideas to work on in therapy with my therapist
WOW, so much truth and value in these 20 minutes!!
When you actually let go off your ex, the bliss is unexplainable. It's like embracing God, light-weighted freedom. This is true when one lets go off anything.
Literally needed everything about this right now. Super helpful to truly heal from recent life events that shouldn’t have affected me so much in the first place. I just have to let go of her and especially the “story” of her that got convoluted in my head.
In this context, it would be interesting to take a look at the concept of "sunken costs". If you have already invested a lot in a person or project (time, energy, attention, money) or have given up something else that was also important to you, then it automatically becomes more difficult to let go of. The unhealthy belief pattern, which is also pushed in society, says that the more you have to fight for something, the more valuable it is. I am currently in the process of freeing myself from this pattern.
Great Video! Thank you☺🙏
A lot of the things that you talk about in your videos resonate with me and how I think. I feel attachments to friendships that have failed as well as romantic relationships! It is hard to let go of things that do not serve me well because of the memories that we had while we were together. Thank you for your personal stories on your videos! We all go through similar thought processes because of how we have always been taught and have been programmed! Have a wonderful Saturday! ❤
Been watching your old videos this morning!! I needed a review and a reminder😁 0:33
..... this was just mindblowing. Everything I needed to hear.
.. Thank you Aaron.
Glad you mentioned Tony de Mello! he was one of my first mentors when my awakening started. Blessings your way dear Aaron! ✨💛🌙
Aaron, thank you for sharing your story and journey and all you have learned. Its made a huge difference for me. The first video I ever watched was about letting go. I was researching to understand what a friend was going through and I ended up realizing so much and have been learning from you ever since and even attended one of your live events. Been following about 2-2 1/2 years now. Thank you.
The “12 dudes” caption got me 😂
Bro same 😂😂
That was incredible
When you start rewiring your mind and emotional processes and let go of the subconscious minds programming you will definitely start to experience change
Thank you, man. Needed to hear this. 🙏
Video came at the right time for me as Ive been stuck for too long. Ill have to listen to it more and more in order for it to really have it stick for me.
💥💜💥 Powerful points! Thank you for the breakthroughs! 💥💜💥
Aaron!! This is an awesome video! I loved it so much! THANK YOU! I’m a member of High Vibe Tribe and I’m forever and ever grateful ❤
Good video, being able to let go and believe is an amazing journey of believe.
Wonderful explanation!! I definitely needed to hear this today. I’m also a bit curious about how you can tell when you’re being pushed away by another person, because THEY are in that “wanting” energy and attached to a certain outcome. 🙏💫
This video is a timely one!Thank you so much for your wisdom,Aaron!❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love the Grandma connection with the marker. So funny😅
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This was really well articulated and useful. Letting go… Thank you 🦋
Today I listened to Neville goddard, later in the library I read Joe Dispenza and it all is so true and empowering!
Then I took some Osho 😂 I read one Sentence...it was something like " the unknown is aliveness and the known is dead"
Straight, my heart started to jump & shine, happiness blubbles up and there I AM .
Always funny when the "try to get somewhere in my life" gets totally outshone by this simple aliveness 🎉
Nothing to get, nothing to lose ... like in a dream ❤️
I need to listen to this daily!!! Helpful video and am aware but I get into this victim mentality...
This actually happened to me the past few years, after a sudden break. And is now again internally actual as an overview and detach the last strings to this trauma. At 13 my mother emotionally detached from me to protect me from fear of her illnes (cancer). Out of love. But I feit it and I lost the warm contact I always had with my mother. My dad has always been emotionally unavailable. Now 46 and healing from the fear of people leaving me. I've became highly aware of the real me. People see that awareness shining outward. I always inspired in my appearance. Now I start enjoying.
So sad to hear your story 😢
Now I am interested in your drawings, you should share them, I think your grandmother and mother would love that! My mother passed away as well in 2019, she had an massive aneurysm in 2003 and lived for 16 years after however with a brain injury. Your videos are so insightful, this video hit home big time. I want to do the 6 month thing that you have coming up for sure, trying to find the funds everyday. Thanks again for all the insight, its true what you are saying here for sure. I joined high vibe tribe too.😊
I think there's a difference for men and women. No matter what happens in this life I'm living, I will forever be attached with my daughter. She grew inside of me, lived inside of me and came into this world from my body. I feel when something is not right with her because of the energy we share. That being said, I have found the middle so I'm not on either side of the extreme.
Stories… now i understand… thank You. ❤️
My dad used to read De Mello over 25 years ago, ha ha ha, you got a good eye for great stuff. Well said!
Great video. Your explanation is so clear. It makes sense. Thanks man! ❤
This was very helpful thank you.
I have watched your video over 5 times thank you Aaron 🙏🏻❤
You are brilliant!! Thank you for helping the 🌎 world❤
You rock, Aaron!! This was excellent..I know it's true..Actually applying it is the challenge, at times..
Thank you Aaron🙏🕉♥️ I will surely buy those books on Letting go..
Thank you Shiv Baba Universe Angels ❤🕉🙏
Thank you so much for this, I needed this advice so much!
How timely is this message 🙌🏼🥺
Great explanation as always. Thank you 👍🏻
Really. I am all in seriously to be in Kafka-mode. His magnificent story The Hunger Artist is all about non-attachment.
This video healed me , thank you .
It has actually happen to me my ex sold my dog, to this day I still don’t know where she is. Besides what he did, I just want to say thank you @aarondoughty for this wonderful journey and see you evolve and helping me in so many different ways - Thank you, much love, peace and namaste 🙏🏼💜
Horrible.
17:12 covert contacts are part of nice
18:24 that is why I went for surrender. No attach or detach - just “I am” … and whatever comes next hahaha 😆
It reminds me of when I was doing my masters degree, there’s this one semester that I was super busy at work and also at home, and my exams were coming up I couldn’t keep track of my studying schedule which is something that is important to me.
Then I was like I’ll just do my best every day and try to pass my tests,,
Guess what!! I got 3.95 out of 4 which was my best result during my masters 🎉
I wasn’t attracted to the outcome 🎉❤
I've watched so many videos about this and read so many things about not being attached to the outcomes, but something in the way you are explaining it here has made it clearer for me. I needed it
Your awesome ❤ thxs for all the free knowledge you share friend. Keep it up 🎉
going through a breakup now, of course I never expected or saw it coming. after putting everything into it and still being blindsided. (long distance) known eachother 12 years and together a year & a half. we were just about to end the distance and he decided nvm, has since become completely avoidant. & i’ve become completely anxiously attached. we still have talked every single day since this happened, until today. last night I was pushed beyond my limit. I know no contact is the best option for me but it is still the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do.
This guy is a freakin true
I'm like the boy following the girl around in the hall. "YOU WANNA GO OUT?" 😂 I'm gonna buy a leather jacket today.
Awesome Aaron, thanks. Another great video.
Thank you for this video ❤
Thank You Aaron
This is the mentel body understending of
what what the l Believe
Of love Jesus in my life more.
I love your videos ! Thanks Aaron !
You are AWESOME!
Love this. ❤ yes HVT GO.
Thank you so much for this video! It makes sense and it works!!
Great wisdom, thanks for sharing.
THIS is wonderful
This is the mental body understanding of what the Buddha was trying to teach but there is two other things to consider and that is the emotion and physical bodies. A great book is the Body Keeps the Score.Just like you said you are not looking and building the love within yourself and oh boy you attract many people that want to fill their cup from yours and another relationship ends like the one before. The Buddha and Christ built their energy so much they radiated it. Attachments that one makes to another that ends up causing trauma is will always needing healing but filled cups make more energy. There is a alchemy to love, brain chemicals like that old movie Chocolat with Depp lol. Once you create love bonds and not let it turn into trauma bonds which might mean being very selective and perhaps having none which is often confused with having less love lol.
i LOVE YOUR VIDEOS ! AMAZING CONTENT
💯🏆 Thank you so much, Aaron. I needed this refresher today! What perfect timing
Believe attachment is apart the human path. It’s our job to use like a tool, balance it out, and not rid it completely. Or how else can one enjoy life? Desire at some point is innate if someone’s hungry needs to eat, to live. Desire for good health forces egotism to workout. Normal. Attachment to healthy concepts is balancing its embedded nature.
Excellent video thank you so much sending you highest love and light 🤍
Thank you Aaron ❤
Thank you so much❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I mean, we have to take this things with a grain of salt. I've never shown interest at all on searching love, and all that I got was being 25 and not even had one relationship. Its for sure that if we look maniatic trying to make things happen, nothing will happen, maybe even get worse, but, we can't stay being on the ''im attracting people'' vibe since its not gonna last forever, people lose interest in you if you don't do anything, and that's how I ended.
12:40 most people are afraid to be alone. Which is weird for me because I have only ever had myself. Like only myself for the entirety of my life so I love myself. Getting a little boring - may need to spice up my life here hahaha - but ya I am good alone. Which is why I am sure source as a surprise for me soon 🤦🏻♀️💯 cuz that is the scary thing with the green go sign.
I was rejected by a girl who I started to like a lot at college. It's been a year and I still get thoughts of her and the multiple moments/interactions I've had with her. After graduating recently and saying goodbye to her, what I am struggling with is letting go of the thoughts of "I could've/should've done better" even though I know deep down I did everything I could. When she rejected me, she told me she wasn't looking to be in a relationship anytime soon and wanted her focus on school and the other things she had going on in her life. I've been fortunate to be able to still put myself out there to other people but when the times come when I'm by myself, and not occupied, the thoughts of her creep in.
U told yourself everything u told yourself about her...when ever the thoughts come answer itt
I really love your music in the background. Is it possible getting the Sound? Thank you for your beeing. Thank you for your words. Thank you for supporting our journeys.