How I tricked my brain to like doing hard things
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This is a video about how i tricked my brain into liking difficult things. It's about building habits and being consistent at the gym. It's also about how to read when you hate reading.
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"...then I lost my hair..." Saitama confirmed.
Lol i had the same thought
😂😂😂😂
When he said that, it resonated on an emotional, soulmate, kind of level.
I’m just surprised how many one punch fans there are.
@@zissler1 I'm not. I have seen people who do not watch anime talk about one punch man. It's quite popular outside the community.
Why am I always so motivated to get my life together at 4am in the morning 🤦🏾♂️
cus at that time u probably start to think about your decisions and your life overall
Especially in 3 am lol I remember I was in my bed and I had a sudden urge to learn russian
How come this comment was made 1 month ago and we all starting replying today
Your Average Tuber lol yeah
@@lex5055 I laughed out loud
the irony that I watched this instead of going to the gym like I planned
the video is like 10 min, could've just gone after
you should go to the gym because you are a healthy person and healthy people go to the gym, mate
@@ChrisHops22 but healthy people also watch this video
the way is watching this video in 2 parts in the gym while having breaks.
Yes, I watched this instead of studying... I could've studied after, but I had little breaks during the course of watching this, during which I surfed reddit and read the news, so this took a full day to watch. I'll try again tomorrow.
“The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less.”
- Socrates.
Less seeking more and more developing enjoying less - genius
Thankfulness is the key to happiness! There is a nice "kurzgesagt" video about it ("the secret of happiness", i can highly recommend)
Vey well said
@@leonwust8713 plz share the link
@@shehzadshinwari6526 ua-cam.com/video/WPPPFqsECz0/v-deo.html (probably a bit late but here it is)
My father told me when i was a young man " all things are hard until they are easy" I lived by that but sometimes things can get hard again. Never stop moving or moving becomes harder.
“Never stop moving or moving becomes harder.” I like that.
@Marianne True, but the saying was related to all things in life really. Like doing a new job, sometimes you might stress and struggle then suddenly 6m or 12m later things you stressed out about are just a casual task.
Your dad was prob drunk that doesn't make any sense bruh
@@issammelzi728 well it sounds like you've never done anything with your life then to experience the feeling.
@@issammelzi728 dang homie chill out
In a nutshell: develop a system, not a goal.
Not just that tho - I've fantasized about the system as much as I've fantasized about the end goal.
That reminded me of Scott Adams advice; don't have a goal, have a system.
Okay but how do you conflate all the people (David Goggins for example) who are like, VISUALIZE THE END GOAL AS CLEARLY AS POSSIBLE AND NEVER LET GO OF IT
Damn there is so many good comments on this video.
@@sveha6271 a system starts with a vision; it's half vision and half habit
Hey, sorry about Thor. But there is always Thanos
Step 1: Become a Ballchinian.
Step 2: Get neutered...
Johnny sins is better
@J. Lee lmaooo
It was inevitable...
And Mark Zuckerberg
Bullet points :
-Do not focus on the end goal(1:00) : You'll never reach it and it's not motivating enough in day to day life)
-Abundance mindset > Scarcity mindset(3:20) : With scarcity mindset you approach a goal as sth that you don't have,which is the most times outside of your character and feels unnatural. Abundance mindset helps you approach it as sth that improves a whole sector of your life,for instance your health, because you care about this sector.
-Utilize Habit-Bunching(5:53) : Build a haibit around another habit that doesn't require effort or that you enjoy (for example make a habit of reading a chapter of a book before you go to bed or when drinking your afternoon coffee)
Thanks
Thank you!
You da real mvp
Bruh
Yes I like that idea of building a new habit with an old habit
Like my dad always said “you wanna be successful? Learn to love to work”
It's true. My first job was less than 20 hours per week and I just hated having to go to work. I had to make my own schedule and I procrastinated and did the bare minimum, did as little as I could get away with. My next job was at UPS, I had to show up and work extremely hard manually, still part time. But it was different because it felt like I was actually doing something with my hands instead of stupid computer based auditing. Still sucked, though. I kinda liked showing up and bullshitting with my coworkers, who were generally friendly. My next/current job is fulltime, and twice the payrate too. My coworkers are all great, and after switching shifts and getting to know a couple of them we've actually hung out outside of work a few times. Now, I really like my job and I have learned to love working.
There's a certain thrill to being able to get lots of stuff done, being fast, and doing quality work. There's a hope in the back of your mind that someone will notice and the idea excites you, maybe someday you'll get a promotion, and you know the whole time that you're getting paid a decent living wage to try. It's a similar thrill to what I get from getting good at a video game, it makes you feel like a badass.
I mean I could go on about how I've been dealing with procrastination in general too but this is already way too big
well said
Do the right work and this part is easy.
James Armistead Double spy undercover that will happen when you love the work itself and have nothing to do with goal whatsoever. Ever thought about this?
Thank you Poppa!
this guy is one of the most genuine, helpful, huggable youtubers out there. im really thankful to have stumbled upon your channel. much love from Morocco
+1 from morocco
The entire comment section wants to hug him lol
Try Emmymadeinjapan
… yep huggable 😉
I've actually never heard some of these tips before. We love a non-cliche video. Also, love your personality and humour for me. Thank you.
he is great at being non cliched
that's exactly how I feel about this video too! very enlightning.
I know he's SUPER CUTE in all his self Depreciation which makes him so much more authentic,,SUPER SMART and AMAZING (and still super HOT! LOL)
I'm surprised nobody has mentioned this yet, but one of the keys to enjoying stuff is knowing the deeper meaning behind what you're doing. For example exercising, you should research a bit about anatomy, human biomechanics and how the body functions, and how all the muscles work together. It'll make exercising a totally different experience. The same thing applies to other activities, If you take a walk in the forest you might not think too much about the trees and plants around you, but if you take the time to go read about forest life and nature i general, you're going to notice things you never would've before, and therefore taking a walk in the forest becomes a completely different and much more enjoyable experience. You can apply this process to many aspects of your life.
hopefully this will help you and make you enjoy and appreciate stuff and life more :)
wow gr8 comment! i totally agree!
How do I apply that to school??
@@emmadora9509 Read about what you are learning, for exemple, if you are reading(idk), about Imaginary numbers, read where they are used and why they are used. Yeah. I think that ist it. Read where the thing you are learning is used and why is used.
I agree with this, I’ve exercising routinely for about a year and 6 months and the work outs have become infinitely more interesting the more I learn about muscles and the human body
Most important tip imo
This is fucking genius and has probably came about at the perfect time in my life.
same here agree with you
Sounds like he just summarizes some self-help book and regurgitates it as original content with an annoying hint of arrogance plus sponsors. I'm starting to really hate this guy
@@solarlight10 Sure he does, but his summarization is what we need instead of spending all that time studying those ideas and practices ourselves right? The videos are short and simple and frankly, I think we dislike the guy because he's telling us what our lazy side doesn't want to hear. Nobody wants to be told what's best for them if it requires them changing themselves.
@@solarlight10 When in the video does he say this is his own creation? If no one wants to read books then this is the perfect video for them
@@solarlight10 who pissed in your cornflakes mate
“Learn to love the process.”
Sure if you are the process😁
Its not that easy
69 likes...I don't want to make it 70
That's My problem, My routine is hard as fuck because I want to be the person at the end of the sacrifices, but it's tough as fuck, how do people like the process? The process of being a professional Makes You study like for 3000 hours of your life, the process of being ripped requires a diet. I can't understand how people like this, so I do It anyway but I struggle a lot and take some breaks off
Ivan Pardo we gon get thru it
with the release of Avengers: Endgame I actually hit my goal of looking like Thor...
Lol, I get it.
Haha funny!
@Vizman216 He is talking about the endgame Thor where he is fat af
lol im more like Tony
Funny guy
“And then I lost my hair”
Beard: am I a joke to you?
He looks really good without hair , tbh
@@JK-cj3qe Agreed
one of the very few channels that never actually waste my time
Check out pursuit of wonder and Exurb1a if you haven't yet... It just popped in my mind as channels that never waste my time.
Matteo Muscas They’re so entertaining
I totally agree
Very true!
@Дмитрий Берсенев Pick Up Limes & also Matt D'Avella = good self-improvement channels
*Stares deeply into the mirror*
"I AM a giant beast"
Epsilon's Dilemma 😂😂😂
Are you a giant beast yet? Please report your findings.
❤💪🏻
With a voice crack 😂
Bruce Willis in FRIENDS
This
Is it just me, ore are a lot of people trying to get there shit together right now
Everyone feels like they aren't productive enough even though they're working 40+ hours
I hate to be "that guy" since I'm a millenial but I really think technology is the problem. Everyone I know is addicted to their phone and would rather sit around scrolling through facebook than do anything else. Going to the gym or reading a book simply CANNOT compete with the internet in terms of reward sensations to our brains. Many people are starting to realize that it takes hard work and self-discipline to break free from the addictive influences of the internet. I am saying this as someone who gave up facebook earlier this month and went straight to youtube. Still working on it.
@@Nicole-tc3kd Two chrome extensions that basically do the same thing, but paired together killed off a wicked bad youtube addiction that I'd been dealing with for half a year after I had kicked facebook and reddit. Crackbook revival, and Mindful Anti Distraction. They break the instant dopamine hit cycle. I like to put crackbook at a 10 second wait, but the 3 seconds worked for other things before I grew more patient. You'll notice that you'll have clicked on videos, and within the 10 second delay you won't even remember what the video was, you were barely engaged, but you just wanted to click something. Also recommend using uBlock Origin to nuke the recommended videos on youtube's homepage. That and use the block element tool to nuke the youtube icon up in the top left corner. No need to keep going down the rabbit hole once you've gotten bored. It's time to leave. Only problem with blocking the front page is that you lose the content on channels pages, haven't figured that out, but it's not a big problem. Good luck out there
I think a lot of us are starting to realise how bad our technology addictions are. So much time is spent on social media, video games and watching videos and we don't realise how it's affecting us.
I would bet a large sum of money that it has a lot to do with why people feel so run down and are depressed. Better habits equal a better life.
I like your comment but your profile picture spooks me. Then again, I've got a weird name... Welcome to the internet.
This is an amazing concept: do not focus on goals but on habits instead. I learned it by myself when struggling with yoga, working out and fancying a beautiful, strong and flexible body. I came to realize that it's quite pointless to set yourself a goal on things like working out, reading or playing an instrument. None of these are concrete goals, but buildable processes. After two years of practicing yoga consistently (1 to 1.5 hours every day), I forgot about getting flexible or how my body looked like, and without realizing it, I can now do poses I would have never dreamed I would be able to do a couple of years ago. I love doing yoga, it makes me feel like a ballerina. You are right: the key is to enjoy the process and forget about the goal. If you keep consistent, you will achieve it anyway. By the way, I guess it was not a coincidence to pick The Power of Habit as the book you put next to your coffeemaker to get it read...
you should dm him. it seems you would make a great couple. You both need to bang ASAP!
Hey Ms how are you doing?
This man does not look like he listens to Migos. I just can’t imagine it.
In the kitchen, wrist twistin' like a stir fry 🎶
I see what u saying but it kinda don’t but it do
“When we dance, the journey itself is the point, as when we play music the playing itself is the point. And exactly the same thing is true in meditation. Meditation is the discovery that the point of life is always arrived at in the immediate moment.”
― Alan Watts
RadioactiveBob Thank you so much for this. I genuinely really appreciate it.
my man
Alan Watts was the shit.
This is a very powerful description of what meditation and living the present actually is.. thanks for this!
Could you please explain that a little bit, I couldn't quite understand the last part.
I have heard this advice "learn to enjoy the process" many, many times. But, to my frustration, no one ever explains how.
Thank you.
Go and read James Clear's book, its amazing
@@The_Most_Average_Joe I'll check it out after I build the discipline to read lol. Seriously though, thanks for the recommendation.
@@richardtrapnell1717 I'm in the same boat as you! So I downloaded audible, and used my one free book to get it. Now I listen when I'm driving or riding my bike and am completely addicted.
@R-Type Hahaha! Yes! I've got a massive problem with wanting to go onto the next book cause they're so interesting and I forget to properly implement what I've just learnt.
Thanks for reminding me :)
Well - I'd say it helps to be "mindful" about what the process is and go from there. Like, I want to make awesome drawings and be a great artist. I can't do that without _actually_ making a whole bunch of drawings.
So I *pay attention* to what feels nice about drawing - it's peaceful, I get to create something with my own two hands, it brings me closer to my goals - and from there it's much easier to think "would be nice to be creative and chill out right about now" instead of "I have to practice drawing :/".
How:
1. Operate from an abundance mindset rather than a scarcity mindset (The process is a habit part of your personality)
Reason why u go to gym is because you are an active person
Habit bunching:
Do it when you are doing a fun habit
"Goals are for losers, winners have systems."-Scott Adams
That's not very encouraging
@@davidmoore5004 Yes it is. You just have to understand it. Goals will never make you happy. Systems will.
@@Brian-vk1hm Nah bruh. At least in my opinion
Just misunderstanding, such as robert kiyosaki’s “saver’s are losers”. So research about the quote and y’all will understand.
"Amateurs wait for inspiration.Professionals just practice"-Hannes Grossmann
I just finished a book yesterday called : How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, and a big chunk of it is about having systems rather than goals ... anyway thanks for your videos :)
Great book!
Is it worth the read?
@@slushyybtw9036 Yeah ! big time !!
Whose it by? i will check it out (:
@@kelseykramer1783 Scott Adams
Glad to have you back, it's been awhile
Joey, I can't thank you enough! Your videos are the key. I didn't realize that until I grew up a bit. Here I find myself and thoughts expressed in a filmic way. Sometimes I just forget how I got here where I am now, but your videos remind me.
I used 'streaks' for a while. Taught myself French for over 2 years, every damn day, went through a bunch of courses, several workbooks, textbooks,... Worked out for 277 days straight. Took freezing cold showers for 260 days straight. Read classic literature every day for 450 straight. And a bunch of other stuff. The only goal with all of it was, 'keep this shit going.'
Jan Veidt “keep this shit going” that’s a very respectable line.
Bro that's actually inspiring. I'm starting to take cold showers too and I'm gradually building on top of it. It's great to hear your success
Hey Jan, that's incredible. I think you'll inspire a lot of my readers with your streaks, so I'd like to feature you on my blog. May I interest you for an email interview? :)
@@alkhan9150 Sure, I'm game. Expect lengthy responses. What's the blog?
@@alkhan9150 I'm also interested to read this.
Just started watching your videos, thank you for this kind of great content!❤️ You’re helping so many people
Skip to 3:20 for the actual useful info
@@yousofalyahya3127 lol she watches the videos.
@@yousofalyahya3127 got this
hell yeah
"Then I lost my hair." I swear to god he is just Saitama
HitzCritz lol! 😂 I thought of OPM aswell!
Lol same, my first thought was "well obviously you were doing something right"
What's saitama?
@@Amharizz A uncomprehendably powerful person from the Anime _One Punch Man_ who trained himself so hard that his hair fell out.
@@hitzcritz Oh ok
Usually videos like this are just a lot of water with some obvious advice and some bullshit metaphors, but this has new useful information and doesn't waste time on repeating the same thing over and over. Well done, thank you!
Kinda did something similar when quitting sugar. Wanted to have a cleaner diet so when I had a sugar cravings I started considering it to be a good thing, like having a sugar craving indicates I’m not getting as much of it so I’m now a person who’s not eating sugar. Mindset was a huge thing and just willing yourself to do most things for me at least doesn’t really work.
Thanks for all the amazing content!
Justin Foster
Oh thank you for that one
Justin Foster wait what? i’m trying to do this rn
Brandon Pinto no nut november😃
Have you grown to dislike sugar as well? When I go without sugar for a few months, all fruits seem sweeter than they are. But sugars in things like soda and candy became bad, the taste was too strong and not pleasant to eat, so I didn't crave anything processed.
would be awesome if this could work on me. i secretly define myself by my sugar craving. i could only go off it for 2 weeks and it was a horrible feeling of loss and sacrifice. i can't switch my mindset to see it as a benefit and not a loss.
“Enjoy the process”, perfectly said.
How to trick my brain into doing hard things:
1) Don't fantasize on the end goal but enjoy the process. The feeling of fantasizing being a Greek God is different from actually going to the gym, which demotivates you from working out.
2) Come from an abundance mindset and not a scarcity mindset. Saying I NEED to practice is a scarcity mindset which makes doing things feel like a chore.
3) Use habit bunching. Combine the habits you're already doing with the habit you want to cultivate. If you drink coffee every morning you can bunch it together with reading a book while making/drinking coffee.
And thank you Joey Schweitzer, the face behind Better Ideas for creating this video :)
Btw I’m learning English at the moment. Should I say don’t fantasize “about” instead on “on”?
@@Vinckw Yes.
Generally, yes, but frankly, english as a language does what it wants, so play with it and see what sticks.
@@Vinckw One usually fantasizes about something. I think you meant "focus on." It sounds a little odd, but it's understandable.
@@Vinckw Fantasise about learning English ! FantasiZe about learning American English ;)
Bullet points :
-Do not focus on the end goal(1:00) : You'll never reach it and it's not motivating enough in day to day life)
Utilize Habit-Bunching(5:53) : Build a haibit around another habit that doesn't require effort or that you enjoy (for example make a habit of reading a chapter of a book before you go to bed or when drinking your afternoon coffee)
“Don’t wish for it; work for it.”
that coffee tip is so simple but i Never would have thought of it... excited to try it out
This is the switch that made me realize:
"Stagnation breeds destruction - you have to keep moving. You have to love the daily discipline of going to battle every single day and finding fulfillment and pleasure in the thing in the present moment for its own sake.
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I appreciate this reminder more than you'll know.
Yeah, it made me think about people who win the lottery and how they end up "crashing and burning", bankrupt, and with no friends left. That is, the people who handle the winning POORLY which can't be everyone. I have no doubt that some are sensible and that doesn't happen.
“Do not let the perfect be the enemy of the good.” -Voltaire
I'm starting to identify so much with you. It started with 12 rules for life, then the power of habit, then your mindset in this video and now you seem to be a fan of both John Mayer and Post Malone. Love your videos! Your editing game is also getting better so keep up the good work!
"Do I have an addiction? Yes."
Mood af
THIS DEEPLY RESONATED IN ME..."you need to keep moving...to love the daily discipline of going to battle, every single day, and finding pleasure and fulfillment in the thing...in the present moment for its own sake...if you are able to do this ...THAT'S THE HAPPY PLACE" ...THE THING ITSELF WILL GENERATE ITS OWN MOTIVATION" ....super thanks and God bless!
1. Don't focus on the end goal. Start acting like you are a person who enjoys and loves to do what you want to do.
2. Habit bunching. Pair a new (good) habit with an already existing one.
The only video on UA-cam giving actual tips on productivity.
Translation: "I really wanted to look like Thor, instead I ended up looking like Saitama"
Yeah lmao
Literally the album I’m stuck on is Post Malone’s Hollywood is bleeding so now I’m definitely only going to listen to it at the gym haha
I just heard it's Circles on Vh1 yesterday and I'm really looking forward to checking out that album.. Circles was really really good.. Posty is dope, honestly..
You're AMAZING bro. Thanks for the knowledge !
"its like the most boring thing I've ever encountered in my life!" i felt that!
Its not boring if you push yourself into unbearable pain lol
I love treadmills. I can push myself as hard as I want.
I’ve been in a rut for the past few months. This is the most practical and salient advice I’ve gotten to help motivate me. It’s pragmatic as opposed to frou-frou, which I appreciate.
video: "try not to focus too much on end goals"
school system: (forces end goals on me in the form of assignments)
me:
An end goal is graduation. Assignments can be enjoyable with the right mindset, you do enough of them well and suddenly you're graduating.
What I realized so many years after the fact is that while the school system is far from perfect, it can actually be instrumental in training our self-discipline, work ethic, and time management skills. Those skills could later be applied to whatever you decide to do in life. That's another way of looking at schooling that might make you see it in a way that makes it more useful and beneficial for your future plans. It's like practice for getting stuff done later in life in your career/business/etc...
Leave the school then Your life will turn
@@awesomebychoice7603 Wow... So I'm gonna need to spend 6 years developing mediocre discipline and a few other skills?
“And then I lost my hair.” Best line ever! 🤣
I love eating so I’ll just combine that with going to the gym.
Actually a really good idea
Eat at the gym XD
oh no xD
Eat dumbbell XD
mike kill all HAHHAAH perfect
I came up with a quote the moment I saw this vid. “It’s better to suffer now, instead of feeling regret and misery after not doing it.”
Temporary discomfort >>> long-term regret
“I enjoy understanding”
- George Costanza
Having a playlist I am only allowed to listen to when I workout truly is helpful. I've been working out consistently for 2 months now and I find that if you really like the music you're listening to you will want to workout just so you can listen to that song that's been stuck in your head. It has been especially helpful to change my mentality around exercise. To cultivate a positive association with exercise, I wrote down how I felt after every workout (energized, happier, proud, achieved etc.) for a month to where now I just know that when I go to workout especially on days that I don't want to, that I'll feel better (mind and body) afterward. Also, allow yourself to have days where you just can't lift as much, do as many reps, etc. Use your body as a guide to how much you can go that day because what's important is that you put in effort to keep the daily habit even if you didn't show up 100%.
I thought I knew the whole "love the process" thing already but this vid really broke it down for me, thank you
Same :D
but how I apply it to my studies?
@@AryanKumar-jo1pz I'm changing how I look at studying like less of a task that I need to finish and instead focusing more on why it's important and in turn I'm learning to enjoy the actual content, rather than the outcome
Hope that helped
@@howsikka5814 Thank you! Maybe this will help me focus a bit more and enjoy the journey itself.
I've seen you grow a lot and you deserve it, I'm proud of you.
“You are in fact... a giant beast”
Great content and great humour man!
''Whatever you think your identity is, you will operate accordingly''. This opened my eyes so much. Thank you.
Whenever I think about whether or not to train, my brain searches for reasons why I do not have time for it.
To avoid that I say to myself "stop!" and instead of thinking about it I start doing it immediately (at least take the first step)
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I can do that in many cases like whether or not read, learn, study at the moment. This method works for me almost everytime.
Exactly! We always think that we have to "feel" a certain way in order to do something that may be hard or uncomfortable. If we all did this, then nothing would get done, no one would get anywhere. It's important to realize that you can start doing something no matter what you're feeling in that moment. You'll usually find that what your brain thought was so terrible actually isn't so bad. So don't listen to the voice in your head that says, "that's too hard, I can't do it." It won't get you anywhere. Just start performing the action and tell your brain to shut the hell up :)
count backwards when you have that state of mind! 5..4..3..2..1.. activate! and stop doing what you are doing and START. after a few times you will jump up at 0 automatticly. your brain works in reverse at the moment it is trying to stop you doing something...
try it yourself.
god bless
The depth of his thinking is motivating enough.
wish i could talk to this guy every day, so many negative emotions throughout my life its so hard to begin to even think like this
If you READ, find "The Power of Positive Thinking" by Dr. Normal Vincent Peale. Published 1952. And, yeah, a lot of the examples are from the 40's and 50's, so it may sound "old" and "quaint" but the principles have stayed the same. It's one of the most-read books in the world. For years, I had it in audiobook form, too, on cassettes, and I'd listen to one in my vehicle as I drove. Coincidentally, yesterday, I went on Amazon and bought (used) the book on CD's because I want to go back to listening to it. I've been HUGE on reading for decades now, and it's the BEST book I've ever come across on learning "positive" thinking. (You can see if your library carries it, check it out, and read a bit to see what you think, so you don't spend $. Also, google "Norman Vincent Peale" and see what's up about him. Famous figure. And, don't be put off by fact he's a minister. I'm an atheiest and still have gotten SO much out of his books because they are so PRACTICAL. (They're NOT about "praying" your way out of anything including negative thinking. PRACTICAL ways of looking at what's going on in your life, instead. All the books written since his, on "positive thinking" are just "re-hashes" of what he wrote.
3:8 Whatever you think your identity is, you will operate accordingly.
There is so much to be learned from that very sentence.
I love it how you keep on helping me think simpler when I have the tendency to overcomplicate things, even when I think I don't. I'm glad I've subscribed to you.
"I really wanted to look like Thor... and then I lost my hair." ICONIC.
Becomes the wrong hero, but okay XD
One of the reasons i am scared of going to the gym. Is that it accelerates hair loss to those predisposed to it.
@@zexoman430 so... in 20 years your either bald and skinny, or bald and ripped lesser of two evils right lol
@@artprentice877 but i would be already married with kids if i am bald and skinny
@@zexoman430 lol good point I suppose. plus you can save on food cost because you would require less calories in a day.
I’m so good at practicing, that I binge videos on how to stop practicing as an excuse as to why I can’t start actually implementing the techniques to stop practicing
I have a sticky note on my computer that reads “Embrace the suck.” It motivates me to keep grinding.
Too many sex jokes
grando boy grando boi is not grando in bed
grinding tasks that you think suck isn't the same thing as learning to love the process though
Sounds gay bro
I have that pinned to my brain. It doesn't do shit.
Wow, man! You just changed my entire perspective on habits and how Instead of relying on temporary motivation, we can simply find enjoyment in doing the things we want. And you did all of this in just a 10-minute video!😊😁
Whoever disliked this video clearly has a scarcity mindset
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whoever disliked this video clearly isn't jacked
What is a scarcity mindset and how does this apply to this video?
I disliked it because he copies the exact same concept and title from another channel called "better than yesterday". I don't like copycats.
@@scraegle4776 3:20
"I really wanted to look like Thor - then I lost my hair..." 🤣🤣🤣
I think this is also the reason that "New Year's Resolutioners" bail out of the gym after a month. Their motivation and goal is "hey I'm gonna lose weight" with no consideration of the work that entails.
I have never seen a video or read a post that has helped me the way your videos have...thank you for creating this content and helping people like me
Thank you so much, man!! i've been struggling from this problem for so long!
i used to tell my self i need to practice more to get better at drawing, or i need to read more books to get smarter, and that made me hate what im doing, because it makes me feel like i must do those things everyday to achieve what i want, which is an annoying mindset.
THANKS AGAIN !!
This mentality of loving the journey is like videogames, when you play that awesome game that you just bought, you don't want to finish it, you want it to be eternal, the secret as you say is to enjoy that small moment.
You pretty much explained everything about what just happened with me, I bought a game a month ago (Visual Novel), did all the routes and saved best route for last, but I found myself spacing the gaming sessions so much that I went from playing around 2 hours per session to around 30 minutes per session. All to delay the inevitable end that is to come. The best route was just that, the best route, and I loved it so much. So when I finally finished it after days of trying to lengthen the enjoyment, I of course felt empty as hell for the next two weeks desperately searching for another visual novel with a similar premise to replace it. In the end, I still occasionally look at that one game at the top of my steam library, remembering what a damn good ride it was.
He's like Saitama, he trained so hard he lost his hair
😂😂
Scherzprinz stolen comment
@@AnonURnot Didn't scroll through the comments, I bet im not the only one who wrote this but feel free to add my 69 likes to your counter ;)
that's what we call a life changing video
thanks a lot!
In my gym the treadmills and things like that have netflix so I have “gym series”. Now I just go to know what happens next on the series that I reserved for the gym. Seriously, I am addicted to netflix.
You go to the gym to watch Netflix? Kind of a redundancy.
@@timmcspillywhop1234 redundancy why? I have Netflix on my tv but I reserve some series so I have more motivation to go. Watching Netflix is not why I go but is just an incentive.
@@timmcspillywhop1234 that's not redundancy at all. That fits the example of listening to Post Malone as mentioned in the video. Using Netflix as a reason to actually work out. Two birds with one stone. Man, I actually will use that method
@@deathpoint3633 You just hacked the system my friend.
@@aman.s.rathore yoo
How to read infinitely:
1.Get coffee and start reading
2.Try not to drink the coffee
3.Now it's cold and you'll have to reheat it
4. Back to step 2
what is up with the distaste for cold coffee everyone seems to have? Cold is just as good imo, sometimes I spread my cup over the span of multiple hours.
@@HomerS95 Cold coffee is fine, old coffee less so. If my coffee goes cold, instead of re-heating it I add ice to it and make it its own thing. Cold can be more refreshing as well.
It's not cold coffee that's a problem, it's lukewarm/room temp coffee that's terrible
I drink cold black coffee, as well as hot black coffee. Sometimes I just spoon folgers crystals into my mouth. There is no stopping my coffee consumption. There is no rule 2.
There's actually an endorphine kick you get from the anticipation of the caffeine, so you're not wrong.
"abundance mindset" heard of that a thousand times, but now I got it. THX
Without a doubt you have the best self improvement channel on youtube. Every one of your videos is a gold mine, tysm.
1. rather than focus on a goal, try to enjoy the process - stay in the moment and make yourself just start and you'll probably keep going (it doesn't have to be that serious or perfect. "playing" instead of "practicing")
2. operate from an abundance instead of scarcity mindset - e.g. you are an active person, a conscientious person, a meditator, a guitarist - instead of "I need to do this bc I'm not X enough"
3. habit bunching (e.g. floss in the shower, don't listen to book/podcast unless doing the thing)
"floss in the shower" made me question my life choices :D
This guy is a blessing to my life.
Joey, if you read this, please keep making videos because you are one of the few people who has made it so far and can help individuals like me attain the same mindset.
Thank you.
There's a lot of power in choosing what comes after "I'm..." or "I am...". Your subconscious is listening.
You are the UA-camd WE NEEDED . I love it how you break things down .
I didnt have to trick my brain into doing hard DRUGS
That's because it's fun, no motivation needed. Till you're addicted, then that's a different struggle
@@NextLevelMeNow no arguments there
@@NextLevelMeNow ...
Be carefull with playing with fire , you might get burned. God bless, stay sober kids.
Some whoo whoo thing, lol...what
I'm habit bunching right now: having a kick-ass pre-gym breakfast while watching a video about good habits.
Love the habit bunching concept, I will definitely be implementing it into my daily life! Thanks for the great content, love your videos!
THIS GUY IS SUPER CHILL, I LOVE HIM
The saddest thing is to reach a goal, nothing more depressing. In fact the interesting part is ALWAYS the process, the failures, the learning, the restart fresh, etc.
YES ill admit i messed up my first year of college but i want to restart my life for the new year
Yeah man after couple years at the gym I reached my physique goal this shit is depressing
Captain Gainz Productions How so?
ITSLIZZ because I don’t have motivation to keep going now
Captain Gainz Productions ooh:/ I personally havent reached my goal yet so i dont know how that feels exactly but i do know that it all depends on how you feel inside. Do what makes you feel healthy
Hockey player shopping for books at Chapters: definitely a Canadian.
UA-cam is like this massive Canadian conspiracy.
I live near vancouver & I saw like 3 locations that I've been to; you're on it man
"What does getting smarter even look like?"
It looks like looking back on the music you used to listen to and saying "it's not even good music at all."
Days of French 'n' Swedish that’s gay
@@PuffTheMagicHobo Righto mate.
Days of French 'n' Swedish the migos are always good music.
@@nairabee245 Haha, I actually had (and still have) no idea who he is talking about, which is why I didn't name the band again... but I do think that getting smarter and getting better at art (even making docos like this) means you will dislike music that you once thought was incredible.
Days of French 'n' Swedish lol they’re a popular rap/hip-hop group of three guys and I was kidding anyways😂 it’s ok:)
Finally I found a self-improvement channel that is actually relatable and helpful.
This guy is the man I wish I was. He figured out much of the things I've been struggling with well into my late 20s. In a way I both envy him and am proud of him for trying to figure it out and finding a way to become a better person each time. Good job Joey. You keep at it.
so to summarize: develop pavlov condition onto yourself. gotcha
Basically yeah.
Dodge
@@westernlegend4584 ford
@@chefboyardee8278 no. DBZA
@@vaibhavguptawho isnt that some kind of anime?
He looks like a distant relative to binging with babish
i love it how you take it with humor in the scene where you dream about the perfect body, and in general, in all your videos, but at the same time you're talking about something serious. this is really well balanced.
literally atomic habits
To be honest there is a pattern in your every video and that is YOU ARE FUNNY AND SHOWING US OUR EXACT REFLECTION OF HOW WE HUMANS REACT TO SITUATION AND TRUMP IT WITH HUMOUR AND PASSION TO OVERCOME IT you truly make the video from your heart bro I can relate with you 100% this is my third video and YES I AM A ACTIVE PERSON WHO LOVE TO WATCH YOUR VIDEOS WHILE HAVING COFFEE AND AFTER THAT AS WELL !!!!
Daamn.. I already knew this yet I forgot it.. Well, the saying is true.
"In life, if we didn't learn from mistake. It'll repeat itself until you learn it."
I just watched this video again as my teachers began to upload online classes after 3 weeks of Covid-19 break, and I just wanted to say thank you. IDK why, but you're one of the few (I'd say one of three) youtubers I watch their videos more than once, and I'm never bored. I learn something new every time, I understand you in a different way every time, and I think that's one of the many reasons your videos are so great. Thanks again man.