Both Of Our Children Are Trans | MY TRANS LIFE
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- Опубліковано 27 лип 2019
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PARENTS of two transgender children say they are not pushing an agenda, but instead supporting their kids with acceptance and love. James, 11, and Olivia, 7, live with their parents, Ben and Sara, in Berkeley, California. The family are sharing their story with the hope of normalising the narrative surrounding trans children.
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When i was 8 all i could ever think about was why the moon chasing me everywhere i go
I'm 13 almost 14 and i still think that😭
Honestly 😭😭
So true!😂
Amen
wait it dosent chase me ?
At the end of the day, they still have 1 son and 1 daughter
Just did the ol *switch-a-ro*
Exactly it doesn't matter if you want to change your gender as long as your happy
Yeah we know a female(the boy) and a male(the girl)
Children are perfect as they are, you have to teach kids to accept themselves for who they are! Just because you don’t fit in with popular trends doesn’t mean you’re anything else besides what you are. It’s sad these kids will never learn how to accept themselves and build real confidence
Now the son is older which is worse than the daughter being older
Recently my four year own son identified as a pony. We are currently building him a stable in the back yard and feeding him on a diet of straw. We are so proud of our brave little pony and are fully supporting him in his journey in living life as his true authentic self.
Exactly. Unfortunately, all surge in autism is explained by the same parenting strategy
Four your own , learn how to spell
@@shanelka8304 of course you saying autistim is why people are trans
@@jhope_is_sun6587 no. I mentioned atuism only as a product pof bad parenting , the same as with trans delusions
that is literally equivalent to this video
2:05 “Can we go to the pool?”
“No.”
“Can I change my gender?”
“Yes.”
Underrated comment 😂😂🤣
i like how happy music played after that
Underrated comment
@@Robloxian_2019 yeah it is
Love this comment
“Can we go to the pool today?”
“No”
*depressing music starts playing*
😂😂
😂
LOL😂
😂😂😂😂😂😭🤣👋
Audrey Gonzaga 💀
When I was 5 I didn’t even know what gender was
Exactly, so how did these parents know what their kids really truly wanted if the kids don't understand the concept of gender roles? 🤔 That is a big question
Same!!
@@HUYI1 not everyone was stupid enough to not know what gender is at 5 years old.
you didn’t know what gender meant, but you knew what it was
Goof
The fact that the oldest was pretty much “jealous” that the younger was “trans” as well, tells you all you need to know. They like the attention, as kids usually do
Yup
I hate to say it but that comment got me too, I noticed it straight away.
Yeah, it goes to show that the kids simply cannot understand the true scope of what they're doing. It's on the parents who are absolutely harming their children over their own ego and ideology
Listen buddy,
You want them to follow your strict unchanging Abrahamic gender rules. That isn’t traumatizing?
If you want them to follow YOUR Abrahamic Deuteronomy 22:5 rules (instead of freedom to be creative and make their own), then respectfully, SHUT. UP. Nobody wants to hear you. Adhere to your Abrahamic gender roles on YOUR own. Don’t force others to be like you or dress like you. Your Abrahamic dictatorship that has been taking control of most history will soon be over. You can dress according to the religious Abrahamic male vs female code, but YOU CANNOT FORCE IT ON EVERYONE ELSE.
True
How is this not considered child abuse? This is heartbreaking
Exactly. It is
@@lazzatbastar3497 its is not gross and no its not child adsue they did this and the mom anf dad did wa it RIGHT
@@user-mj4ng4uo5n first can you edit you're comment? and it is abuse because these kids are well kids and one of them can't have kids ever again in their life
@@user-mj4ng4uo5n You have been brainwashed by all this crap. Child sterilization and mutilation is wrong.
@Georgina Jennings new user 3 days old i see also it is abuse and most people in the comments said it was abuse so maybe you should keep your opinions that can hurt kids
As a trans guy, this is not okay. These children show no signs of actual gender dysphoria. I came out at 11, and my mom sent me straight to therapy. It sucked, but I understand why she wouldn’t allow me to transition medically until I was 18. This isn’t okay.
They are stupid these kid might end up committing suicide their mom is an idiot
You have an awesome mother
what is the point in transitioning after puberty? You will look like the gender you were born with
@Nah but then whats the point in transitioning? If you do it after puberty then you won't look much different . I 've seen people transition after puberty they still look like the same sex they were born with , so my question is what is the point?
sapphire divine before puberty, you’re a little kid. you don’t know what you are or who you are yet and don’t know if it’s a phase. when you’re older after puberty, you’ve figured yourself out and know what you want to do with your life and what gender you are or would like to be. when you’re a kid you’re too immature to make those decisions
I'm a trans man and I must say this seems very off. Makes me very uncomfortable
I agree totally!
Lmao well that’s hypocritical
its bcus maybe you don't have parent that support you and you were hiding in the closet for the longest time of your life. glad you r coming out n so you can judge other people that seeking their self! yikes
Why?
Same here, I find it weird that there is two kids who are trans it seems extremly off
when i was 8 i would scream at minecraft creepers for blowing up my base
good for you??
😂😂 same
okay and???
@@mooopy4887 i wasnt thinking about changing gender or being trans back then, i was a normal kid
@@macbookxp529 ok but not everyone is like you yk??? some people suffer from gender dysphoria
When a parent says to themselves "I'm going to create unnecessary hardship in my child's life, because SoCiAL ProgReSS!" you know there is a serious, serious problem.
STOP Being transphobic
@@BeatBoDLX2010
stop putting kids on pills!
Stupid.
@@BeatBoDLX2010Stop encouraging children to mutilate their genitals and become apart of a hated minority especially during their important developmental years....
@@BeatBoDLX2010 lil bro is so brainwashed he thinks that HE NEEDS to defend this pride thing at all cost for no freaking reason, like bro you sound like an npc not a human being 💀
There is *SUPPORTING,* and then there is *SUGGESTING.*
Allison Linner right ! Ima need someone to run me the statistics on BOTH your children being trans ????...... because that seems off especially after the older one said “ well it was MY THING”....👀👀👀
Kevin Lopez no it’s not
UNC Kaitlyn Gaming It is because clearly these kids are being influenced by the parents.
Yes I agree
Kreamean Mpoof I don’t think so!
The parents are just accepting them.That doesn’t mean that they are actually influencing their children...
Also I believe that it wouldn’t make any sense,’cause it’s kind of hard to raise a trans kid!Bullying, prejudice and not being able to have a biological child.
I don’t know...
The boy doesn't look healthy, dark circles under his eyes, seems depressed... not really happy....
Which boy? 🙄🤣
Yea because you’re a licensed psychologist and know what’s going on in his life .
Green For Life YOUR SO RUDE
Romana Volny - How much sleep do you think you’d get if you shared a room with your 7 year old little sibling?
I mean, he's like almost a teen. When I was his age I was depressed and suicidal and tired all the time. I'm not surprised anyway, trans people have a very high rate of depression and suicide. That's a proven fact. Even when people have a support system. It just is what it is.
If I ever feel like a bad parent I’m
Gonna come back to this.
Yes, my mum guilt is evaporating minute by minute!!
Yeah, it's easy to be harsh on yourself and it's good to remember that you're doing far better than you could have been
I died when the mom said “my son sometimes would identify as half boy and half gorilla 😭💀
Her & her mom are both gorillaz tho
When I was 5 I thought, before the 80s, the world was black and white.
Ok
Same
Wait, it all wasnt in black and white?
@@kye4216 Never has been
Same
This is not how 11 and 7 year olds talk.
Essie Tay actually it is
Every child is different! Alot of kids are mature! Grow up!
Watch the vid again, this time without prejudice
Idk
@@diegovillalobos5364 What prejudice? I am around children their age almost everyday due to work and family.
Horrific. Most kids don’t know how lucky they are to be born to decent parents.
Their parents love them and they are happy and healthy, I don't know what is wrong with that. They have the ability to change their minds later if they want; remember they haven't made any permanent changes yet. And would you rather the kids be mentally suffering?
~:~
@@harshmnr The older one was going to start taking hormones. They are not suffering mentally. They are kids who don't understand the world yet. People like you affirming this are the problem.
@@harshmnr if they are going through with this you realize that their ability to start a family is completely vanished the second the change happens personally i dont think its right to let a child make this decision because they dont understand that after it happens they will no longer be able to start a family and coming from a child myself that is horrific
@@harshmnr their parents can love them but are still utter idiots. james was beginning hormones which, yes, was not permanent changes YET but were still planning on it. and their parents are taking it far beyond social transition with the hormone blockers. children are still discovering themselves, and changes that are hard to reverse at a young age are problematic in the future.
Amen
When my son was 7 he wanted to be Darth Vader. I guess I should have changed his birth certificate accordingly to these people
Yup. You should’ve brought him to the Sith Academy on Korriban, bought him a lightsaber and funded his journey to the Dark Side.
@@himwhoisnottobenamed5427 ok please tell me your being sarcastic, please.
I was trapped in a woman's body 9 months later I was out
Lol🤣🤣
Haha!! 😝
This comment deserves thousands of likes
Nick Franco haha 😭💀
🤣🤣🤣
I feel like it’s highly unlikely for two siblings to be trans. I think the younger sibling was either influenced by the older sibling, the parents, or both. However, the older sibling was probably influenced by the parents to begin with. There is more here that doesn’t meet the eye.
Exactly 💯 I stated the same thing in my comment
the younger one was for sure influenced
Its true tho like when I was younger I always followed whatever my older sister did if she was to do something like this I would follow being the copycat I was so that probably is the case here
Rebel Baby bruh you need to look at the facts. When I was a kid I got influenced by my brother a lot
Totally agree. Glad you can see and sense that. It's very apparent.
what are the chances that you have TWO trans kids??? something is off
*This is exactly how to ruin your kids lives*
"Olivia said she was transgender from the age of four". I guess she saw how much attention her brother got and she wanted attention too?
I think so
Exactly!!!!! its messed up
I think so
Could be. But I've seen/read about Transgender kids (around Age 4 and up) already so.. who knows?
Honestly I think it's very very possible not because of the age but simply because of the attention although there is still a small possibility that they are trans
For me the father seems depressed because the wife doesn't let him talk.
Maybe he feels nervous in front of a camera
Maybe he wants to escape this madness, but doesn't know how?
He's lost control over his household so of course he's depressed.
My daughter says that's why her dad is always depressed 😂
I think the mother seems depressed, because she needs to do all the talking, while he is just sitting there.
Parents need to be arrested and jailed for child abuse. The doctors prescribing the drugs need to be arrested and jailed for child abuse. These kids will no doubt hate themselves and their parents.
I find this so eerie. The kids look depressed, the mum has obviously fed all this information to them and the dad just creeps me out. It's cruel.
I did some research for a current-time update. James still uses he/him pronouns. Olivia is now using they/them pronouns.
what did you research
@@AwakensYT lol whats terrible
Sylvanian stop motion star The post I found was from about a month ago.
2736 They didn’t do anything to the boy he knows for himself that he’s a boy. I can’t believe people actually think they are confusing them that’s just stupid.
2736 the children are clearly happier this way. That’s the opposite of child abuse
The weirdest thing in the video to me is the fact that they are eating dozens of cocktail weenies for breakfast.
B R I want to do that often. Maybe I just should.
@@brittaolson6550 Go for it
That's the weirdest?? Lol
Lol I was thinking the same thing. Like why so many? Lol
Its sausage 😂
this is child abuse. when these kids hit the real world and realize that their parents have groomed them into this. parents should be in prison. i bet the parents haven’t told the kids that trans people have a 40% suicide rate. people think a woman can be a man and a man can be a woman. they lied to their kid in the worst way.
I agree
Just looking at the father sitting on the couch, he looks depressed & miserable. 👨 👨🍼
did you know that hate generally is more likely to cause $uicide than parents who are doing their best?
Maybe you should shut up and live your life. Plus why are you watching this if you hate trans kids. It is dumb and self depreciating for you to be watching this if you are just trying to hate on a situation that is irrelevant to you. Leave the kids alone, that means you leave them alone. Thanks buddy.
i think a man can never be a woman and a woman can never be a man, but you can identify as one. and the parents really should tell their children that honestly, or just not let them medically transition at all! i understand social transition but medical things at a young age when children are discovering themselves is nuts
When he was 8 years old. Sick. These parents should be slapped until they come to their senses.
Russian roulette beetween both parents
Being trans was "MY THING..." hmmm, interesting statement.
Yes I agree. To me that is a worrisome statement.
@@missyharrison3868 incredibly worrisome.
I mean, they do share the same room
Dude, how many younger siblings do you have?
@@drebae95 it looks like the kids share a room and the parents sleep in the living room on the reclining portion of the couch.
I support transgender people 10000000% but this just seems off.
Yeah
It's way off , when I was 8 I literally wanted to be a dinosaur
@@landencockman3064 I still want to be a dinosaur I'm 18 now
@YaGirl Kk theres a thing called trolling
sketchy ' Same I had my doubts when I was younger but I’m not trans
I’m not gonna lie growing up, I would act very boyish . They would tell me in kindergarten i would act like a boy. I felt like I didn’t fit in with girls. I dislike dresses I was 6 at the time. I always felt like a boy. I told my parent at the time. They told me “just because you like the things you like doesn’t mean you are not who you are, don’t let them ever tell you such thing, don’t ever question yourself why you like the things you like” at that moment they gave me a hug and told me they love me. Since growing up I really doubt myself I label myself “gender-fluid” I thought I was bi and because I was boyish I thought that was normal. Label myself into a gender, sexuality. I was confused at age 13. Now I’m 22. I’m a mom. Im a women. Society label gender, sexuality if your being a boy or girl. But I do know just because you like dinosaurs or you like racing with boys in the park, or video games, or you want you hair short. Doesn’t mean your a boy. But accepting your self loving your self with all those qualities. That’s you. ❤️
This post makes me feel happy
My youngest is now 18 years old. I had 3 kids that dropped these “hints” and had one very Tom boyish daughter. I sent them all this video to watch, and asked their thoughts. They thanked me for being a good parent, and not ruining their life’s because they all turned out to be straight. My oldest which was the Tom boy has been in a relationship with a man for 6 years and fixing to have a family, and is extremely excited. These parents are doing irreversible damage. Children cannot consent.
There’s a difference between a boy and a tomboy so you don’t really have an argument.
@@sambugos4237 when I was a kid growing up in the eighties I wanted to be a boy, I didn't feel like a girl at all, and even told my friends that I would have my breasts surgically removed when I was older. If I had heard of social transition and puberty blockers I would have begged my parents to get them so badly because I didn't want to be a woman.
Thank God I never heard of those things before! I grew up, became a happy adult and I'm a mother of 2. My life would have been so different and a constant struggle for "feeling like my true self" and seeking for validation.
Most kids grow out of it. There's your argument.
Just because you grew out of it doesn’t mean everyone else will. We’re all different, quit making it seem like each individual behaves the same way, just because it was a phase for yourself doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone else.
@@sambugos4237 well if you take a look at statistics, on the low end, ~77% of kids grow out of gender dysphoria. on the high end, it’s ~93%. trans people are like .5% of the population. what are the odds this woman actually has two trans kids?
You are a good parent for saving your kids.
I went through a tomboy stage from 7-11... I do wonder if I would've ended up trans if I grew up in this family
S S tomboy and transgender is a very different thing. Like I say don’t say anything if you aren’t trans. You don’t know what they think.
It's not the same being a "tomboy" than a transgender.
I always feel like a girl but I just didn't like girly things. I was a tomboy but I never felt like I wasn't girl.
All of my cousins were boys and I guess that's why I didn't like girly things but I never thought I should be a boy and these kids' cases are different obvisouly
Ya but I believe S S is referencing that you go through phases, may have not used the best example because people would of course find a way to turn that around because they disagree. But ya they are too young come on, if anyone thinks different, I feel sorry for your kids or if you have any.
There is a difference between being a tomboy and having a strong feeling that u r the wrong gender
Sameee. Never wore skirts, shorts or dresses. Had my head shaved when I was 5, I was soo scared of looking like a boy. I would wear a black beanie EVERYWHERE
Dad’s sitting in the couch looking defeated...😐
that's because he's been defeated.
Bufftygirl 72 doesn’t everyone tho,,,
That's cuz ima girl
That dad just have a look like. I cant wait for these kids to grow up so i can leave this crazy women
you obviously didn’t listen to what he was saying tho look maybe they won’t be trans when they’re older but at least the kids know their parents love and support them either way. if you can’t love or accept your kid if they’re trans then you shouldn’t be a parent. they’re doing the right thing. they’re not pushing them to stay trans, or making them be trans.
The parents are the ones with the issues here not the children
No child under the age of 18 should go through this because they are too young to understand the permanent damage that's going to be done later in there life I don't understand why parent actually support this it's just wrong
They really both pulled a reverse uno card on themselves 😂
SlickMilkAnimates hahahh 😂😂🤣
_NO_ _U_
SlickMilkAnimates im trans but I laughed at that comment
@@dxoq7404 lol
No a switch deck card
When I was 5 I was crying because my dad didn’t cut the crust off my sandwich.
Omg 😵😭😂
Oh my god dude dotn put that on UA-cam my children are crying I’m crying that so sad
@@adityaparashar5154
🤣🤣🤣
Sad..
When was 8 I asked my dad why obama was running the country wrong and why is his healthcare plan unconstitutional because of the penalties for not having it.
A TRANS CHILD IS THR SAME AS A VEGAN DOG. WE ALL KNOW WHO IS MAKING THAT DECISION.
No, children know they are trans.
This is child abuse. Children don’t know what trans means and their parents forced this on them.
A moment of silence for the Dad
Irving Zisman I think his balls went in with the cocktail sausages
Best comment on here
Divorce papers.
Your pathetic human being Irving
@Complex Ez why-do-you-care
This woman is literally asking an 8 year old about her/his PLANS FOR HAVING CHILDREN
Hes 11 i think in this video
And what about it? It's not like he's gonna have children soon, it's just that we need to think about the possible consequences before doing anything.
He's 12
This child literally made the decision to be TRANS, isn’t that a lot more serious than asking about his future plans for having children later in life??
His** and yes it sucks cuz he doesnt know if he would want them in the future but one thing is for sure he has gender dysphoria and it help A LOT to transition bit by bit
For over two years I thought I was trans. It caused a ton of stress and increased my mental illness. I realized that I’m not trans and got this sense of freedom that I don’t think I ever felt. I’m praying that these kids aren’t dealing with the same stress I had to go through.
Thats good I can relate with this comment
Congrats. A few years ago, I too considered myself trans when I surrounded myself in an lgbtq group who encouraged this. I even had one friend who suggested I inject hormones into myself because I was uncertain of my gender. If it wasn't for my parents, who had noticed I was different and found I was considering myself trans online, and helping me realizing I wasn't I was just surrounded by the wrong people, idk where I'd be today. I have never once reconsidered by gender and I am very strong and affirmed in my manhood.
A vast majority of adolescent kids who have gender dysphoria decide against it later on. Telling kids to get injected hormones and extremely risky surgeries with major complications that legitimately ruin their body, is indoctrination and glorified child abuse. This movement is completely evil when you poke through the holes and realize what they are actually pushing. They are not pushing universal acceptance, they are pushing to completely ruin impressionable children's bodies and make them infertile forever.
I am very happy that you went back on your decision and I wish you the best
@@Zewind Yeah you kinda lost credibility when you called it a "movement" pushing an agenda. Being trans is something you are, nothing more, nothing less. You're either trans or cis.
Transitioning is a choice for some, and isn't a choice for others. You're also lying about regret rates - the transition process has one of the lowest regret rates of all time for basically every procedure, including HRT. The regret rate is 0.5-2% depending on country. The global regret rate for having children is 10%+.
Puberty blockers aren't dangerous in the least, their only effect is delaying puberty.
Once a person is of legal age, they are no longer a kid, and HRT + surgeries should be completely up to them - these do not ruin the body. Yes, infertility is a potential side-effect, and trans people understand that. Infertility isn't a curse or a bad thing if you don't want kids, and even if you do, you can deposit sperm to a sperm bank, or eggs for that matter. Or adopt.
The "think of the children" argument is so tired and irrelevant it's baffling people still make the attempt. The surgeries, unless necessary for life saving purposes, are only made on adults, and they're not "risky" surgeries. Any surgery is by default more risky than not having one, at least short term, but these surgeries aren't new or experimental. They're just regular surgeries. And for people with bad gender dysphoria, lifesaving.
Also, taking HRT for a day or two won't do anything to your fertility. Literally nothing. And your body will tell you exactly what it thinks of the hormones VERY fast, way before any permanent changes take place. So anybody "on the fence but kinda sure" who tries HRT (in a safe way) will know very fast if they're trans or not, because if you're not trans, you'll experience gender dysphoria and body disassociation when you take the "wrong" hormones.
@@jessiesfrosties Yeah you completely missed the mark there. All my claims have actual proof if you need it. Unlike you, who is extremely brainwashed and didn't provide any proof just made up things to counter my claims. The fact that you are detesting the sick and twisted things like gender changing surgeries and puberty blockers on kids that will ruin their life, that being appealed to impressionable children, just makes you look like a horrible person who cares more for unconditional acceptance. Here is a news flash for you. A person who really cares about you will not be accepting of everything you do, they will steer you clear of things they know will harm you. I am sorry that you think this way and I hope you try to be open minded one day and consider how awful this push for biological changes on children is. Good day
Okay but that's not everyone
Guess their father is nothing more than a piece of furniture in the house
The whole family looks miserable
Nutty Professor seriously
Nutty Professor the father looks disappointed his wife def wears the pants !!
Except for the mother, she's pretty ecstatic about all the attention she's getting. Bringing in the cameras and wearing all the special regalia and everything.
They do
Sorry don't agree at all.
Can't wait to hear what these two have to say in 15 years.
They are happy
No father figure
@@josieoftheweek exactly they don’t understand what it means
TRUTH 100%
Rude
“Can we go to the pool?”
“No.”
*sad music*
I thought people could see me through the TV screen til I was 12.
That dad looks miserable
Hay Black He looks miserable like Bruce Jenner did before he transformed into Caitlyn.
Yeah something about him seems off
RedDead102 in a a couple years he will be pulling a Bruce. Bet on it
Hay Black i was thinking the same thing.
I’m happy I’m not the only one who thought this 😂😂😂😂
they went from brother and sister to brother and sister!
Yes :)
You mean brother to sister to sister and brother
Oof
🤔
Will im confused?
This is child abuse. As Ben Sharpio said, children cannot consent to having sex so how can they consent to changing their sex?
It's not child abuse. It's wrong to deny consideration for gender affirming care for transgender youths with gender dysphoria who are desperate for it. Of course changing gender and intercourse with another person are not the same thing.
@@bobdavis4848 a lot of the time, this type of stuff ends up being a phase. if it turned out to be, these parents would be responsible with doing nearly irreversible damage to their children. thats not to say that they shouldnt rule out gender affirming care, but at this age i think it would be fine to socially transition.
@@ThreeRobloxians Gender dysphoria is never a phase. Extensive psychological counseling is given beforehand to everyone seeking gender reassignment, to make sure they truly have the dysphoria and are not going through a phase. One of the ways some parents damage their children is by withholding gender affirming care when it’s been proven the children really need it. It’s up to the individual children and parents. It’s not for an outsider to go against their wishes and to make the decision for them that merely trying to social transition is enough. If it happens at a young age, they have more of their childhood remaining to enjoy being their real selves they know they need to become.
@@bobdavis4848 im not talking about gender dysphoria. lots of the time, this is a phase, and not gender dysphoria. and the parents never mentioned anything about counseling, which is dumb because i understand that gender dysphoria is never a phase, and the children show symptoms of gender dysphoria, but these children didnt seem to be given counseling (or it was something i just missed)
4:32 so blockers to prevent thoughts that should be normal. to prevent havoc and confusion, when she realizes everything was a lie..
It is not hard to lie to children. When I was a child, I convinced my 8 year old brother, who is 100% Japanese, that he was an Italian man. Let children like things without telling them that they're the other gender. That is true acceptance
As much as that would be nice, it’s not gonna be like that yet, but even if it does happen, what if they do feel like the other gender? Isn’t it better to support them? Rather then ending up with a child who feels suicidal and commits suicide? Better for the first route in my opinion
Or maybe let them be themselves and support them regardless of what they identify as
@@newtlyme7820 “let them be themselves”, this is the problem with you people. it is YOUR job as a parent to guide your child without giving in to their stupid ideas. children have these ideas when they are young where they are experimenting with dif ideas ect., but it is your job to teach them right from wrong. 9/10 they will grow out of it. it’s the truth. this should definitely be illegal, especially hormone blockers for gods sake.
@@soapy7619 as long as it isn't hurting anyone it's not a big deal. And considering how trans people are actually born with brains matching their identities, it's cruel to just plain out disrespect your child just because of your political bias. It is YOUR responsibility to support your child either way. All that these kids go through is a name change and a pronoun change. That's it. It's completely reversible, you're not worried about the kid, you're just worried about seeing something that's outside of your little box of normality.
@@soapy7619 also, the hormone blockers are reversible as well.
Bruh when I was 8 I didn’t know what trans gender was all I cared about was why girls had cooties
Derek fan 1096 Omg lol 😂
@Aidan Donohue
libtard destroyed 😎 now let's go ban abortions
Aye finally a chat that has a brain 😂😂
I wondered why boys had cooties 😳✋
You would if you felt what they and I feel
Original message: "Only girls can play with dolls and only boys can play with trucks!"; Later message: "Boys and girls can play with dolls or trucks, it's all fine!"; Current message: "If you play with dolls you're a girl, and if you play with trucks you're a boy, or neither, or both, or maybe a cat or something"
STOP I'm nonbinary!!!
@@BeatBoDLX2010 what makes you feel that you are nonbinary?
@@BeatBoDLX2010 bro do you expect us to baby you when you tell us that like your not supireor than us dude
When i was 8 i was trying to wonder how i teleported home after sleeping in the car
Mom, can we change genders? Yes..
Mom, can we go to the pool? No..
Me: 🙂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😅
There probably was good reason but still funny
This is parenting
Lol 💔❤️🔥😂😂😂😂.-
My dude is just trying to color.. like bro leave him alone let him color his treehouse
right i think the kids should just be kids i mean damn let them figure it out on their own dont make their whole childhood about sexuality. it shouldnt be like a lifestyle yk
Kassia not what I was saying but ok
@@beautiful10381 um ok?
@@mrblaz1893 ??? Something confusing about what I said ?
Ya just let him draw
Just so people get it straight, being a tomboy and being trans are two WILDLY different things. I was the tomboy of all tomboys as a kid (even my older brother tells people that I went early in the "draft" when teams were chosen despite my being the only girl 😆), but I never questioned my gender; I just wasn't a girly-girl... and I still wasn't when I got voted "best looking" and "cutest hairstyle" as a senior in high school. Decades later, I still prefer combat boots over pumps, but I've always been a female and strictly dickly in my sexual preference 😊. People who identify as a trans man wouldn't have that experience (and their sexual preference could be wildly different too). My point? It's complicated - and it's highly unlikely that it's a "phase" if a little girl keeps insisting that she's a boy for years on end.
Thank you for pointing out the difference. I don't think the video's children are going through phases either.
@@bobdavis4848 My heart breaks for those who have to deal with so much discrimination and hate.
@@KB-xp6dq Mine does, too. One of my best friends' father shuns her because she let her trans son transition. I'm cis-hetero and I've spent hours in the past week supporting trans and replying to hateful, misinformed comments.
This is so heartbreaking to watch. I am glad my parents can tell the difference between being transgender and a kid just being a kid
Why is being trans a thing. Just ruining our world.
I’m transgender myself, and honestly neither of these kids look happy.
I have to wonder if children of such a young age should be over facilitated as these two seem to be. I think at that age children who feel like the opposite gender than their chromosomes indicate should be permitted to explore but not required to commit. If my young son informed me that he was in fact a girl I would tell him that he could live like a girl for a while to see if he was sure. I would get him counselling to help him figure things out. But I would not require him to decide for certain and in fact I would not allow him to decide for certain at least for a while. It would not be until he reached puberty where it would become serious decision time and even then there are medications that can delay puberty for a while. The problem I see is that children tend to change their mind a lot and parents tend to demand a child make up their mind so I think what often happens is the parent demand a child pick a gender and stick with it. I would have no problem with my son/daughter changing back and forth regularly or intermittently just to make sure that they are indeed transgender and not simply either a very feminine boy or a very masculine girl. I think that it is difficult to be happy if the parents pressure a child. I don't mean pressure them to change but pressure them to make up their mind. At that age I had no idea what I wanted to be when I grew up and if offered a gender choice I still might not have had any idea what I wanted to be. Children have far more choices today than when I was a kid. What kind of phone do you want? Me: "I get to have my own phone?" Kids didn't have phones in those days. What kind of school clothes do you want? Me: "I get to choose my own clothes?" Kids didn't get to choose that either in my day. What do you want for dinner? Me: "It's my birthday?" Kids ate what their mom fixed for dinner or went without. Too many choices these days and now kids have to choose their gender on top of everything else. Too many choices leads to a confusing childhood. Gender is one of the biggest choices if indeed it's a choice. I'm 60 and I still am not sure what I want to be when I grow up.
It's probably because they're on hormones. These parents basically put them on birth control pills. Look up the side effects to that!
nunya biznez k
fuckdaswine true but you can change your gender identity.
@@tyr4m1 forcing wrong gender identity on children is an abuse.
i don’t think u understand how badly i wanted to be a bird when i was little
Transition into one then. Lmao
What does that have to do with anything? We all have our wants and desires, like how I wanted so badly to be a cat when I was little, but body dysmorphia is a real thing, and that's what makes us feel the need to transition. To be able feel comfortable in our bodies. It's not a delusion or even a decision, like being a girl but wanting to be a boy, it's how the brain is wired, and they can't change that. Like how some people are born only attracted to the same sex, they can't change that. Little 'abnormalities' like that has caused tremendous pain and suffering to those people because of other's ignorance and lack of understanding.
@@acidicrainbow7754 it was just a joke lol chill out
@@blessingczeczuga4867 Even as a joke it doesn't make any sense
Acidic Rainbow I think what they are saying is most kids do not go through dysmorphia and are often confused with the difference with having a feeling that’s more feminine or more masculine. They aren’t transphobic they are just making a joke you misunderstood.
The older sibling not wanting the younger sibling to be trans because they wanted it to be a special thing only they did… 🧐
And these kids seem hella depressed.
Innocent light in children snuffed out by delusional parents/adults. What a shame it will sadly cost those kids a price that they cannot even fathom yet.
The attempt at the mother having an “organic” yet obviously coached conversations for the camera. Makes my stomach turn.
I was desperate to be a boy from the age of around 8, it was all I thought about. I wore boys clothes, played with boys toys and all of my close friends were male. If you had described the term Transgender to me at that age, I would have said that was me. But the feeling slowly passed at around 13 and a decade later I can confidently say I love my body and gender.
smileyguy24 I agree. I was a super tom boy and my mom was even scared I wanted to be boy. I had the short hair, guy friends, boy clothes, hated my body once I hit puberty and started to develop breasts, but as I grew older, I realized I did like being female and got into the girly things..so must of been some weird phase
Same
same! my life would be ruined now if the term transgender would have been around when i was a kid
100% agree. I have been saying for a while that if my family was “woke” like many of today’s parents then i would be a bisexual transgender man instead of a happy wife and mother.
Because maybe you just didn’t vibe with feminine trends! And there’s nothing weird about that, but to reject your body? To reject who you are as unworthy, to say you have to transition to another gender to be perfect, is wrong. It’s unhealthy to grow up so insecure
and I feel terrible for these kids
Why are they eating cocktail weenies for breakfast?
So many of them too!😂
Could be some type of phallic symbology or it could be just... breakfast. Hell, I couldn't tell you! Only they know for sure!
Aww hell...cause it’s good
@@daynal9594 Lol that too! 👍
axel4196 phallic symbology...what...
When I was 11 I didn't know how they got cars into malls
im 14 and i still don't
Imagine allowing young children to identify as a different gender when they are so young they probably can’t even process how changing your gender can affect your entire life and the way people look at you.
yes and imagine not understanding your kids just want attention especially when they say * BEING TRANS IS MY THING *
When my son was younger he wanted a bionic arm. He literally told me that he wanted to replace his real healthy normal arm with a robotic arm and he was *very* serious. He kept saying that he wished his arm was cut off and actually passionatly debated me about it. He could not understand the real consequences of having a missing arm (in *REALITY* ) and how that would affect him.
He is now 16 and thinks he was a total idiot back then and laughs about it.
He now debates me about other things that I'm certain he will in a few years look back on and think differently about.
That's exactly what i thought...
When i was little i wanted to be Simba from The Lion King but guess what?
10 years later, i'm almost 18 and still not a lion cub.
ƒloriทα LOL!!:)
@@autumnrayz7009 that is not body dysmorphia lmao
Lol yea I think these kids are just crazy
@@emmyily that is a form of body dysmorphia ????? He wanted to transform his body to fit whats in his mind
2:04
This is very off topic, but please do not keep fish in tiny vases like this! Thank you! :)
Avery Chambers Yes! Minimum of 1 gallon per fish
Well it actually depends on how large the fish gets to determine how many gallons it needs.
Avery Chambers thank you, I haven’t had fish in a long time, it’s 1 gallon per inch of fish, not per fish 😊
Tyler Hope Betta Fish do need big space and shouldn’t be kept in this small containers. It is cruel.
Tyler Hope, I believe that bettas should be kept in a 2.5 gallon TANK at the very least (not a bowl or vase). I keep mine in a 5 gallon tank and she’s very happy.
Imagine a dice with 1000 faces. You throw it twice and get same number. Do you know the odds of that?
It's one in a thousand.
@analyzers9335 The first time you 'Throw the die' is a 1/1000 chance but to get the same number again is another 1/1000 chance, which I believe becomes 1/1000 * 1/1000 = 1 in 1 million chance of getting the same number twice. 1/1000000.
@@stebennett3849 Getting a, say, 7 would be 1 in a million. But getting any number twice is 1 in a thousand, because whatever the first number is (u dont care), u have a 1/1000 chance of getting that on the second throw.
They are kids!!!! I used to paint my nails, dress up in high heels etc and thought I was a girl.
However, I am a very happy married man today.
What if my parents allowed and promoted my "phase"? I would be stuck as something I was never intended to be!
I am so grateful to be in africa where this sort of crap is frowned upon. You people are losing your minds.
Bring back mental asylums and send all these parents to them ASAP!!!!!
At 4? Most 4 year olds don't understand the difference yet....Shady
Petite Fireball ikr
At four, I behaved like what most people would consider how a typical rowdy 4 year old boy did, but I never really saw the line between boy and girl until 9 or so. I was raised in a household that treated boys and girls the same until they reached puberty. I agree with this statement wholeheartedly and I wish my community and those who support it wouldn’t treat it as a trend or something to be publicized. I just want to be treated like a normal man, I don’t want “oppression points” for it.
True. But she had an older brother who went through it so She would have learned it more than other kids
@Simmonds I work in headstart and at 4 they are not paying close attention to gender yet. No 4 year old is capable of making a gender "choice".
Simmonds i only fully knew about gender at age 7 💀
Red flag when he says about his younger sibling being trans “ i got a little defensive because I thought that was MY thing”
maybe got tired of the baby getting all the attention.. and thought ... I know...
Little and cute... dont top trans...
Because it is not politically correct to say cuteness is better...
I WIN...
then lil sis says I'm trans to.....
Damn... what was that 1 day....
SCREW IT ... I'm going back to being a girl...
lol
Trans is not red flag, it's sane. I see some feminine characteristics in boys, likewise some girls are masculine. We don't probably express it due to the strangle hold of society
honestly kids aren't stupid.but kids don't care until we insist.
@@rushmipriya Are you saying boys with feminine characteristics must be "girls" and girls with masculine characteristics must be "boys". How CLOSE MINDED!
I thought it was quite wierd as wel that he says 'my parents' instead of 'our parents'
The comments on this video restore my faith in humanity
reported for child abuse.
😂😂😂
How does a child even know the word transgender??
Parents thought them which is sad
Internet, kids these days have more access on learning things easily
@@Katmp3 so a 6 year old is googling transgender??🤔🤔 Don't think so
Hope Harris I mean it’s more open these days and it’s totally ok. I feel like this young only hormone blockers is ok for hormones I would say 15-16 is a good age. I started t when I was 15.
@@hopeharris7389 kids that are like 8+ could I suppose idk
I threw a soupcan at an elderly woman today. It broke her ribs and I guess she's doing pretty badly right now... What should I do?
no
Maybe or maybe she does feel like a girl, or maybe she was and waited for her brother to come out and she felt comfortable
@SaNdY LOUISE WoOdWaRd1969 To be honest, I did. I was always more masculine and all. I wanted to be a boy. Ever since I started first grade and I made actual friends.
If he wanted to copy the oldest, then she should've stayed a boy. Because no random boy says they want to be a girl at age 4-5
SaNdY LOUISE WoOdWaRd1969 it that makes sense but atleast shes happy
This was so deeply upsetting. I actually did a google search and what-do-you know, the mom is now a prominent trans-activist doing multiple media interviews and talks about how her youngest is experiencing vicious bullying in school.
Probably hoping to get a reality show out of it.
I'm conflicted, I like that these kids are obviously loved and listened to. I'm totally up for letting kids dress and act how they like. I'm concerned that medical treatment is happening that's permanent at such a young age really concerns me. Have they spoken to professionals that specialise in transgender, have they had therapy (you can go to therapy re many things like upcoming ops etc not just mental health to talk through things to be sure the decision is the right one). I have always had a masculine energy. I remember being 16, sat in the college hall thinking I really want to become male. I really meant it but it stopped around 3 years later. My daughter is 12, also a masculine energy. She isn't thinking about her gender or other people's genders or gives a toss about the differences, she just accepts everyone. At 8 I wouldn't dream of altering her body chemistry if she said she wanted to be male. I'd support her, even call her he if she wanted but I would not do anything that affects her body until she is old enough to prove she has done all the research and old enough to give consent. 15/16 is one thing, but 8?
They're not getting trans meds at 8.
@@kookootrix1978 the older child is going to begin testosterone tho
As a post op trans women I have to warn you. Dont let your kids receive sugery until they are adults. Its totally hell and is very hard on your body with a real risk of major complications not to mention they very well may feel different when they get old. In all honesty i wish i never would have went through almost 20 surgical procedures and just stayed as i was created.
@@Sophia_Sophisticated don't use them. You can't change your gender.
@@Sophia_Sophisticated what else is there to add?
@@Sophia_Sophisticated
Keep ur penny p
Even when there adults you shouldn’t allowed this in the first place
@Paleo Geology Thank You for sharing your story!! I HOPE you are an activist to STOP this Atrocity that’s going on!!! I wish you the best!!
The dad looks freaking miserable
Dead inside
UnderCoverHunter You hopefully aren't anyone's father with how utterly stupid you are. Seriously, how do you not know how to form proper sentences, and not know the difference between "where" and "were".
Not surprised
Brianna Gordy ok grammar police
imagine he and his wife literally made them sterilised
More appropriate title: “My two children are BRAINWASHED!”
Children don't know what they want. It might be a matter of what you tell them they want.
STOP BEING TRANSPHOBIC
@@BeatBoDLX2010He's telling the truth. Kids need guidance. How can they let them decide to be sterilized even before puberty? It's not phobic to state the obvious.
Clownery...The dad looks dead inside
Yes he does
s u m m e r m a d n e s s 😔 for real though
Agreed. You'd have to be pretty dead inside to do this to your own children. Sad, sad, sad.
I laffed and i don't feel bad about it oops
Well if you lost all control over your household like he has you'd be pretty dead inside too.
The dad looks lowkey dead inside lol
Ikr.... #deadeyedaddy
You look dead inside
@@GothboiKenzy thank you, I try really hard to x
He is dead inside
....thats just a robot speaking
@sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman 😂 😂 for sure hippocampus in making
Y’all supporting this in the comments are absolutely disgusting and those calling this bull crap out, BE LOUDER. We need to stop this crap and put the world back to normal. If not for our sanity, for the children of the next generation
5:20
Guess what? Puberty is uncomfortable for almost everybody, do you think a 10 year old girl who's getting her period is comfortable? Life's uncomfortable get yourself a pillow
Dad looks like he has crippling depression
It looks like he regrets a lot rip
Fr l9l
For real tho 😂
Yep
Well yeah.. I would too if I had to deal with all that.
When i was 5 i thought of joining the power rangers.
same i wanted to be with the wonder pets
When I was 5-6 my parents let me watch Tokyo ghoul because I could handle it and I'm just fine now I'm 12 and I'm a-romantic and asexual and I identify as a girl just because we're young doesn't mean we don't know who we are 😉 don't judge us plz
@arthur m no I won't
When I was 5 I wanted to be a saiyan warrior
I still have the power rangers scooter i got for Christmas when i was 4
The dad looks so depressed, in my opinion i think the mother is just crazy.
for real, I mean look at her face that face should be in a mental institution or even prison.
"we're not going to allow our children to feel fear or shame...."
A rude awakening awaits, kids.
There is something seriously disturbing going on here and I’m not talking about the transgender issue. The overall attitude and atmosphere of this family is so depressing. It’s really sad to watch. The Dad is just floating around on “Yes Ma’am what ever you say” Planet And Mom is just living out on planet Oblivion somewhere. Poor kids.
Dayna Langham I agree. Something is definitely off. I just can’t put my finger on it
I agree.
What do u mean poor kids theyre parents are just letting them be who they are which a lot of trans kids don't get theyre very lucky I'd love to have parents like these they are doing the best they can add parents
George Thomas no...no, I think you are misunderstanding my comment. I have absolutely no disagreement with the fact of these children being transgender (however I don’t believe the younger sibling actually is but I’m not even going to go into that), or the fact that their parents are totally supporting their choices. What I do have am issue with is the way I am interpreting the mother’s “support”. It seems as though she has these kids on display, almost like she’s feeding from their lives and dad is just kinda “whatever mom says”.
I am a parent as well, my oldest is 27, my youngest is 3 so I have experienced parenting at all levels. These kids almost seemed coached on what to say and how to think and that I do have a problem with.
shae baybii yep, that’s exactly what I was thinking.
Nope. Theyre children. I thank god my parents didn't let me get the tattoos I wanted at 8 let alone decide such a life altering decision
I wanted a tattoo of my favorite stuffed animal 😂
Thank you. I love this comment 😂😍
But like you knew you were cis when you were a kid sooooo
Pickle Juice I'm bi actually. But children are too young to decide such big life decisions. The mother was discussing with the eight year old about having kids one day and they're just too young for that kind of pressure and too be worried about any of that. Kids should be kids. If that's taken away too soon more problems arise.
Erika CH smh.... No tattoos are a much smaller deal than ones own gender preference or sexuality. If I were to have gotten a tattoo chosen by my 8 year old self I wouldn't be happy with it in my adult years. These are CHILDREN. They're brains are not fully mature yet to make such a life altering decision. Regardless if it is the right choice for them, they should wait at least until an age of maturity to make such a mature decision.
Child abuse in plain sight.....why are these children still in their care??? So messed up!!!
Your messed up why even click on this vid if u don't care about it
@@jackt4048awareness
Stop being transphobic
@@jackt4048 what about being concerned for the children is implied to be carelessness
@@jackt4048Crazy how you cannot comprehend basic empathy
This is a failure of parenting of immense proportions.