Marry compatibility and companion =,100% happy marriage. Am happily married n we content. No third party no big egos. Hence happy my marriage. Love n self we that. Never fought...no sidekicks. I will come for interview
I don’t think I can love a man enough to stay with a man who’s whole family hates me, it sounds soo draining. this lady is soo strong for that😢. I wish her the best
Duuude. An aunt if mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅
Duuude. An aunt of mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅 My sistas y'all are strong sham. May the Most High Keep giving you the strength you need to keep sane ❤
I enjoyed this so much ladies. I hope mrs M and hubby move out of Virginia soon. I think it’ll help with their marriage so much. Mr M won’t have too much access to the family
I enjoyed the conversation. It shows that there are many dimensions to marriage. It's not just about cheating. There's also family dynamics but the key is for the 2 people who made vows to stick together
Listen you just retold my story. I believe that he has to be with family because they actually miss that home time it might hurt a tiny bit but the fact that he has your back is everything! I lost all the nicesness, the so called love from in-laws because I stood my ground when I was bullied by my sisters inlaw! One sad thing about females they thrive in putting each other down! It’s so sad. I’ve been body shamed I’ve been told ke jisitse mo guy and that I’m a daughter of a witch heeehhh😂 bahlali! I’m still with my husband because he had and still has my back! Kunzima guys! I don’t wish this even upon my worst enemy!
Bona wena hee o buwa story saka ke re the whole family ho tloha le ka bana ba teng but I stood my ground ka re you know what enough is enough luckily I come from a family e close and supportive ka itswarella ka bona and I became stronger Shame my husband have his own mistakes le ena e le motho but he’s super supportive and loving to me as his wife but ha ke sa rate ntho ha ke rate and I make it a point hore ya utlwahala 😂😂😂
This has to be the best podcast ever😭❤️❤️.... This one hour wasn't even enough... Your conversation was flowing so well and man you just got to love Mrs M there's just something about her ❤️❤️
The way I am so considerate how I speak with my man neh not him but everyone around me entlik, this podcast really made me say I must keep it up,and him the way he is so considerate about how he say things to me nd he wants me to be happy all the time. A tongue can break a lot of things neh am glad you both noticed your contributions nd u owning up well done mommies.
I don't believe marriage to be always bliss but unhappiness shouldn't be coming from your spouse, partners need to be fight against what life throws at them. There are happy marriages without cheating scandals
I love u girls 😊...I love that u love ur husbands and ur marriages in ds times whr ppl are discouraged to get married.may ur marriages flourish and glorify God more and more
Made sure I sit down with my glass of wine when watch this. Thank you so much my beautiful ladies. 15 years married this year and I want 60 more years with the same man. We are not perfect but we are making it work. #marriage❤
A proper My husband this my husband that content 👌👌 bona op die kop! 😂❤ Ge rere "Kgoshi e mpushang" 😂😅❤ Can we have two episodes per week because wow! 🥰😍♥️ I grew up in that Mamazala and Rakgadi drama and it's hectic... I understand fully what she is talking about...even worse for my mom because papa ke moshala lapeng, waking up everyday in a house full of people who just hate you for no reason...a father in a polygamous marriage and the other wives being loved but not your mom #sigh but it is much better when your husband supports and loves you fully❤ Realeboga samma mmereko o mmotse o dirang ❤ ska hlephisha Modimo ago okeletse 🙏🕯️.
I fully disagree with there is no happily married. There definitely is disagreements dont mean you not happily married. Two different people doing life together definitely there will be disagreements
I was married at the age of 20 nd because of my sister's in laws things turn to sour nd i didn't have mother in law and because i was young by then i end up leaving that family, and my father was like you knw i didn't like you getting there at ur age so its either you stay there and keep crying or come bck home your the only child i have,but looking at things now those nonsense fights will be fixed but thy took advantage of me cz i was young,Mrs M nd Mrs Law keya lerata for standing for yourselves ❤❤
Duuude what a story. An aunt of mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅 My sistas y'all are strong sham. May the Most High Keep giving you the strength you need to keep sane ❤
“I don’t know if there’s such a thing as happily married somebody, because of the ups and downs - that is marriage, I believe in calling it a thriving marriage, we do have happy times 100%, and the happy times surpassed the bad times” ~Promise Makunyane Love this perspective of the definition of marriage, Hopefully many people will learn something from this profound sentence, it is changing what we expect marriages to be 🔥🔥🔥
I just watched this episode today, I am not married, but I am behind you ladies. We are fighting for the marriage 💯%, loving our husband's and giving them the respect they need 😊
It is important to create your own Christmas tradition with your spouse and kids, there is a reason why you are married and have started a family. This thing of always going to mamazala's house is not so good because it means your kids are also going to be spending their Christmas holidays at your house with their spouse and not at their own homes or rotationally
Mrs M u did a wonderful thing to want to have a good relationship with ur inlaws don't think it was a bad move it's just that it was unfortunate they didn't feel the same way I clap hands for u 👏 loving soul ❤
@@Ownnarrativepodcast please do...its almost a year later and we are still lost for a significant amount of time during the conversations...yet we don't want to miss out. Love from Uganda, the Pearl of Africa.
Mrs M n Mrs Law❤❤aah shem this was beautiful 🎉. As a Mrs...I'm proud to be one bcz of this episode! I wish I was d third one there...wldnt u have loved my Swati adding flavour to DT beautiful language of URS??? Invite me pls next time. I'm a believer of love n marriage!!!❤❤❤
Wow this lady with a green dress is flawless 🔥🔥 This marriage is full of drama!! May you guys outgrow it one day cause i don’t see a forever with so much negativity surrounding the marriage
The comments here praising this lady are scary- this lady found it okay that her husband got into a relationship with her whilst he was still hooking up with his baby mama, the husband tells you if you leave he will kill you, he has multiple baby mommas. So many red flags that people are ignoring. I get why this lady is accepting of these red-flags because her behavior screams semi-toxic. You don't risk getting a criminal record for the sake of not wanting to be disrespected.
ladies thank you, you building me, as makoti it's true we striving but spiritually I wanna grow with hubby. Am reflecting a lot on being better better Wifey
I mostly create boundries for those that I care about so there are no grey areas, to preserve and maintain healthy relations with those that are dear to me. My 2c opinion is those that I don't really care about need no boundries created. They are not that important .
It's interesting how Promise always assumes that people who are not married are problematic. When this lady said her sister-in-law is problematic, she automatically assumed the sister is not married. And she always says OH, when she realized she married. It's weird. It's not the 1st time she does it.
I don't think she meant it in a bad way but it's really strange & painful to be troubled by someone who knows the dynamics of marriage. Wives kinder understand when someone that has never been married hlokoloza u cos most don't understand boundaries and what is expected from them.
When Promise said "What is kopa" this reminds me of my mom and my husband 😂😂😂. My mom ke Mosotho and Hubby ke Mopedi, he would say "What is qoba?" (Avoid) hearing it from my mom 😂😂😂.. Those 2 likes talking but hardly understands each other and I should be the translator😂😂😂
Loving the narrative mara all i want to say is do not say u will never fight with your inlaws because they not your bloodline.. Other than that cheers to happy marriage 🎉
Mrs M has such a beautiful skin tone ❤️🥰 gorgeous, gorgeous women!!
And a soothing voice, she is super articulate!
I loved the conversation❤
I don't have a problem with the bad marriages you bring here, they teach us what to look out for and to spot the red flags
I love this podcast ❤have been married for 24 years and I'm 45.i have learnt a lot from you young ladies.frm Botswana ❤thank you
Congratulations sis! May God continue to bless your marriage❤❤.
Marry compatibility and companion =,100% happy marriage. Am happily married n we content. No third party no big egos. Hence happy my marriage. Love n self we that. Never fought...no sidekicks. I will come for interview
You are welcome please come
Please do! Would love to hear such positive stories ❤😊
Beautiful podcast. Marriage is so beautiful 🎉😊
My 4yrs relationship is exactly like that😊
Am glad you stood your ground. The trauma that comes with enduring the abuse from in laws can be too much.
I don’t think I can love a man enough to stay with a man who’s whole family hates me, it sounds soo draining. this lady is soo strong for that😢. I wish her the best
U and me both. It's draining
Duuude. An aunt if mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅
Duuude. An aunt of mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅 My sistas y'all are strong sham. May the Most High Keep giving you the strength you need to keep sane ❤
I think she's coping because the husband protects her until he doesn't then it will be too much
Yes but it's still draining my sister. That's why bare "okase kgone marena a 2"
I enjoyed this so much ladies. I hope mrs M and hubby move out of Virginia soon. I think it’ll help with their marriage so much. Mr M won’t have too much access to the family
This lady is in love...the confidence and assurance is make sure
My husband and I have PHD in putting boundarries. Ha ho dlallwe mo haka. No one even knows what going on in our lives, both his family and mine.
Same thing happened to me, the minute I started standing up for myself I became an enemy. Yah people neh
Yep. Me too Sis
I enjoyed the conversation. It shows that there are many dimensions to marriage. It's not just about cheating. There's also family dynamics but the key is for the 2 people who made vows to stick together
So no one is going to talk about her beauty
Listen you just retold my story. I believe that he has to be with family because they actually miss that home time it might hurt a tiny bit but the fact that he has your back is everything!
I lost all the nicesness, the so called love from in-laws because I stood my ground when I was bullied by my sisters inlaw! One sad thing about females they thrive in putting each other down! It’s so sad. I’ve been body shamed I’ve been told ke jisitse mo guy and that I’m a daughter of a witch heeehhh😂 bahlali! I’m still with my husband because he had and still has my back!
Kunzima guys! I don’t wish this even upon my worst enemy!
Bona wena hee o buwa story saka ke re the whole family ho tloha le ka bana ba teng but I stood my ground ka re you know what enough is enough luckily I come from a family e close and supportive ka itswarella ka bona and I became stronger Shame my husband have his own mistakes le ena e le motho but he’s super supportive and loving to me as his wife but ha ke sa rate ntho ha ke rate and I make it a point hore ya utlwahala 😂😂😂
Can't wait to get married n give my husband the respect he deserves ❤ . Dear my future husband i think am ready now.....YES I DO🎉😊
Amen, let it be so
This has to be the best podcast ever😭❤️❤️.... This one hour wasn't even enough... Your conversation was flowing so well and man you just got to love Mrs M there's just something about her ❤️❤️
I just came across this podcast few days ago and you I’m so locked in,I even downloaded more than 5 videos to watch offline
This was a beautiful conversation. Thank you wives! Peace above all
My two favorites in one room. Love you both ladies ❤❤❤
The way I am so considerate how I speak with my man neh not him but everyone around me entlik, this podcast really made me say I must keep it up,and him the way he is so considerate about how he say things to me nd he wants me to be happy all the time. A tongue can break a lot of things neh am glad you both noticed your contributions nd u owning up well done mommies.
I don't believe marriage to be always bliss but unhappiness shouldn't be coming from your spouse, partners need to be fight against what life throws at them. There are happy marriages without cheating scandals
Agreed. We have living testimony of happy marriage without cheating scandals et c
Soo refreshing,breath of fresh air.An episode that spoke positively about marriage.
Love women who know their stories. Love you guys ❤
I'm Namibian living in Sweden who luuuurve your podcast & follow, Promise. Can you please have English sub titles when you switch to your language❤.
Sorry i will
Thanks for this I also follow from Kenya the subtitle will do Soo well
I don't believe there is any bad marriage families need to stop interfering and their sons run their own families
Nice episode, am for wife’s thriving in their marriages. When is ndivhu T going to be interviewed? Am still waiting
Mrs M's sister in law reminds me of mine.. Lmao these people cannot even tell you why they do not like you..
They never have an explanation. Even if you call a meeting, they deny it😂😂😂😂😂
Promise is so beautiful 😍😍😍😍Yoh I can’t even concentrate.Love your podcast and the conversation it flows.
Loved the conversation ❤ Promise Welldone I like that you even ask deeper/brutal questions 👏👏👏 big ups to that🔥
I love u girls 😊...I love that u love ur husbands and ur marriages in ds times whr ppl are discouraged to get married.may ur marriages flourish and glorify God more and more
Looking up to you ladies ❤
When she said me and my husband over shared😭😭😭I felt it Ai but me and my husband also learnt to 🤐
Onething I love about you Promise is that you are a learner, you always give what people are looking for, may you strive and strive❤
Made sure I sit down with my glass of wine when watch this. Thank you so much my beautiful ladies. 15 years married this year and I want 60 more years with the same man. We are not perfect but we are making it work. #marriage❤
A proper My husband this my husband that content 👌👌 bona op die kop! 😂❤ Ge rere "Kgoshi e mpushang" 😂😅❤
Can we have two episodes per week because wow! 🥰😍♥️
I grew up in that Mamazala and Rakgadi drama and it's hectic... I understand fully what she is talking about...even worse for my mom because papa ke moshala lapeng, waking up everyday in a house full of people who just hate you for no reason...a father in a polygamous marriage and the other wives being loved but not your mom #sigh but it is much better when your husband supports and loves you fully❤
Realeboga samma mmereko o mmotse o dirang ❤ ska hlephisha
Modimo ago okeletse 🙏🕯️.
The day i get a man i will be my husband this my husband that gang .such a nice interview .
In the meantime..,My boyfriend this,my boyfriend that😊
I fully disagree with there is no happily married. There definitely is disagreements dont mean you not happily married. Two different people doing life together definitely there will be disagreements
I was married at the age of 20 nd because of my sister's in laws things turn to sour nd i didn't have mother in law and because i was young by then i end up leaving that family, and my father was like you knw i didn't like you getting there at ur age so its either you stay there and keep crying or come bck home your the only child i have,but looking at things now those nonsense fights will be fixed but thy took advantage of me cz i was young,Mrs M nd Mrs Law keya lerata for standing for yourselves ❤❤
Love love her... she doesn't sell only the good side of marriage ❤
The yellow dress mam😊❤❤❤ u look so beautiful
The most honest podcast of wives ever❤🎉
I love both you ladies...i see a very good friendship there❤❤❤
Duuude what a story.
An aunt of mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅 My sistas y'all are strong sham. May the Most High Keep giving you the strength you need to keep sane ❤
“I don’t know if there’s such a thing as happily married somebody, because of the ups and downs - that is marriage, I believe in calling it a thriving marriage, we do have happy times 100%, and the happy times surpassed the bad times”
~Promise Makunyane
Love this perspective of the definition of marriage, Hopefully many people will learn something from this profound sentence, it is changing what we expect marriages to be 🔥🔥🔥
I just watched this episode today, I am not married, but I am behind you ladies. We are fighting for the marriage 💯%, loving our husband's and giving them the respect they need 😊
It is important to create your own Christmas tradition with your spouse and kids, there is a reason why you are married and have started a family. This thing of always going to mamazala's house is not so good because it means your kids are also going to be spending their Christmas holidays at your house with their spouse and not at their own homes or rotationally
Mrs M looking all types of gorgeous😍
Your experience is like you married for 10years 😢. I got married 6 months into relationship ❤
Lovely dresses ladies. Great content ❤
Mrs M u did a wonderful thing to want to have a good relationship with ur inlaws don't think it was a bad move it's just that it was unfortunate they didn't feel the same way I clap hands for u 👏 loving soul ❤
Ndicela umyeni bethuna, I enjoyed every aspect of the conversation. Ndicela utshato bo🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂
Cela nono uzomthola…lenyalo le monate though sometimes kuyababa 🌶️
@@nomarussia5085 I'm ready for everything sis, I am.
Forgive and teachable spirit in your marriage. You will truly thrive❤️
Thats what i always say u can't last in marriage if you cannot forgive
Promise o montle batho.
Enjoying this podcast❤
This is my second favourite episode. I love love you both💅🌸‼️
This is the content we want. Married women 🔥 not negatives njalo🤷♂️
Oh I enjoyed the show,thank you ladies ❤
Promise is so pretty, yooh!❤
Actually that’s the best time to go for therapy, when both of you are happy and in a good place with each other.
Yoh this story sa Mrs M is similar to mine when it comes to in-laws..
Same here my dear
Same here yazi one day we need to meet and just cry 😫😫
Greetings from Kenya. I really love your show kindly translate in English whenever someone speaks your native language. Thanks in advance
Thank you, I will
Trust me as South Africans we also do🤨
Please...love from Namibia
@@Ownnarrativepodcast please do...its almost a year later and we are still lost for a significant amount of time during the conversations...yet we don't want to miss out. Love from Uganda, the Pearl of Africa.
Owww promise is so cute and funny 😊❤
My mom's dynamic with her mother-in-law😂
I love you my ladies❤❤❤❤yoh This conversation is so deep and helpful. Big ups Mrs M🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤😊
If ur in law hate u and they will never like u no matter how hard ur try to be make the relationship
Mrs M n Mrs Law❤❤aah shem this was beautiful 🎉. As a Mrs...I'm proud to be one bcz of this episode! I wish I was d third one there...wldnt u have loved my Swati adding flavour to DT beautiful language of URS??? Invite me pls next time. I'm a believer of love n marriage!!!❤❤❤
I'm watching this and some of the things being said here.....make me realize just how blessed I am to have the makoti that I have.....😇🙏
I'm looking forward to welcoming my daughter in law in the near future. God willing.
Good that you stood up for yourself
I hope that the engaged lady wasn't paid lobola for. Because if so, she is the legal wife. 👀 I hope. And please check properly on that aspect 🙏
Relax
I am learning so much from your perspectives. ❤
I love you so much ladies❤❤our tribe,bo my husband this my husband that.
Wholesome conversation ❤
Wow this lady with a green dress is flawless 🔥🔥 This marriage is full of drama!! May you guys outgrow it one day cause i don’t see a forever with so much negativity surrounding the marriage
This was so beautiful to watch ❤
I really enjoyed this talk❤
I understand it's a convo but promise needs to give her guest spotlight to talk freely without interfering she's cut Mrs M so many times
My life literally , hated just cos me and my husband love each other and we have 6 beautiful kids 😌
I enjoyed watching this episode. May God send me a husband hle🥰
The comments here praising this lady are scary- this lady found it okay that her husband got into a relationship with her whilst he was still hooking up with his baby mama, the husband tells you if you leave he will kill you, he has multiple baby mommas. So many red flags that people are ignoring. I get why this lady is accepting of these red-flags because her behavior screams semi-toxic. You don't risk getting a criminal record for the sake of not wanting to be disrespected.
Like who mentioned killing?😳something is wrong with you clearly your hearing and understanding is off I pity you
@Mrs_Motseoile she said it in Sotho.
5 years to come when she comes crying or she's dead that's when people will come back here and listen attentively. Bob the builder
@@Mrs_Motseoileshe said it. You just missed it family😂😂
@@NCarterMedI’m Mrs Motseoile darling you clearly have selective listening because I didn’t say that😂
Mrs M is beautiful
Mrs Law an Mrs M my two faves❤❤❤❤
Thank you ladies for the beautiful show❤❤❤
So sweet on new year resolutions😅😊❤.Enjoyed this
Ahhh my faves, this was so beautiful to watch ❤️❤️❤️
I've devorced mine after 25 years of narcissistic marriage with his family alongside. I took my sister in-law to court after a mpitse moloi ha ka😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ladies thank you, you building me, as makoti it's true we striving but spiritually I wanna grow with hubby. Am reflecting a lot on being better better Wifey
I love it here❤, thank you Mami
Hi promise I love your podcast so much❤❤❤watching from Namibia ..
Watching from Kenya . Please translate when you switch languages. Much love.
I love the honesty ❤
Tjo hle, thank you for this.
I mostly create boundries for those that I care about so there are no grey areas, to preserve and maintain healthy relations with those that are dear to me. My 2c opinion is those that I don't really care about need no boundries created. They are not that important .
Beautiful ladies 👌The background also bright and beautiful ❤
I'm not a podcast fan but I had to watch this one❤️😍. I love you ladies
It's interesting how Promise always assumes that people who are not married are problematic. When this lady said her sister-in-law is problematic, she automatically assumed the sister is not married. And she always says OH, when she realized she married. It's weird. It's not the 1st time she does it.
No, I thinks she wanted to understand cause I’m sure they’re certain things you can’t inflict on a fellow married women.
I don't think she meant it in a bad way but it's really strange & painful to be troubled by someone who knows the dynamics of marriage. Wives kinder understand when someone that has never been married hlokoloza u cos most don't understand boundaries and what is expected from them.
I understand her, in most instances unmarried sis in laws are always the problem, boils down to Jelousy
When Promise said "What is kopa" this reminds me of my mom and my husband 😂😂😂. My mom ke Mosotho and Hubby ke Mopedi, he would say "What is qoba?" (Avoid) hearing it from my mom 😂😂😂.. Those 2 likes talking but hardly understands each other and I should be the translator😂😂😂
😂that's nice and funny conversation rite there
My favourite people…Mrs M and Mrs Law🎉
Loving the narrative mara all i want to say is do not say u will never fight with your inlaws because they not your bloodline.. Other than that cheers to happy marriage 🎉
I love it here❤when love wins
Three times Promise asked the question 'Are you not scared that it will happen to you too?'
Because it will happen.
@@phutimadibana9224Exactly!!
Enjoyed the interview ❤
Danm shes tough! 3 different baby momas
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂yoooo I can't beg people... I hope God gives me the strength to be as strong as the guest 😅