That’s why when my husband paid lobola for me 13yrs ago and I was only 19 I stood my ground with my in-laws .when my dad gave speech he said daughter if you go through difficulties come back home as he understood that I was young,he took further by paying for my varsity fees even when I was in marriage.four years later we separated bcz he lived for his family and he never took anything I say.after 2 years he realised that all the good life and beautiful things he had in his life was bcz of me.he came back to my family to ask for forgiveness and I gave him 2nd chance .we living happily and he realised that he has to please himself,our 2kids and me.i hope when he realises it won’t be too late for him.mostly m proud of you for the decision you took and wishes you all the best going forward
This story reminds me of my cousin who was married in Limpopo, being a Motswana. She never knew her in laws because they didn't want her as she is motswana. When the hubby died, she was not even allowed to go to the funeral. She only found out later, after being married for over 20 years, that the guy had another wife in Limpopo.
It's sad how the in-laws treat us especially mothers and there daughters. I think they should not let their sons to marry in the 1st place. My ex mother in law asked me to pay back lobola because I'm the one who filed for divorce. Tjo ku ningi in marriage guys😅
Portia...sorry sesi 💔..o itlhokomele tlhe..baska gobolaya those people...if possible tlogela diphatlho tseo tsa ko polokwane and move on with your life..God will bless you even more..ke dintho tsa lefatshe your life comes first..❤❤❤o be strong this shall pass..
One other thing sesi Portia, narcissists will want to turn you into a narcissist yourself. You will be bitter and angry even though you are not that person. So my advice is to leave them. Do right on your side and be the good person the bigger person leave them to take everything. I know it’s not graceful on your end especially because no one marries to divorce and lose. But please my sister 🙏🏽🙏🏽choose peace and do right on your side. God’s will will prevail. His is not a nyaope or anything. One day is one day
Her family was supposed to do their part with the portions that were supposed to be taken to her in-laws irrespective of who is going to receive them and who was invited. In life do things accordingly don’t mind what their actions so your path is clear
0:40 My advice to people if you want anything pray to God, and have faith he knows what is best for you, the problem is we don't pray, and if you don't pray u invite the devil to destroy you, so if you want a future husband or wife pray to God he will give you the right one trust me,,,
Sister in Laws who got divorced and come back to their childhood homes ba opisa hlogo shem! They often bully their brothers' wives. I was never going to allow her to walk all over me!! I am not a pushover. Almost 30 years later they still fight me. My children are adults but ntwa ga e fele.
Portia take them to court these people are wicked. Your story sounds like Queen Lee's I saw you on own narrative with Promise and I thought of Queens story. Hold on God will reward you
Queen Lee Lesotho mona ha u le mojalefa meaning you are the elder brother in your mothers house and your father is also the elder brother you inherit habo ntate oa hau that's your grandfather's house. That house becomes fully yours and your children. but if bo Rakhali comes back from their marriages you were expected to welcome them and feed them akere u jele all their parents belongings like land, but the elderly executed that with love now u can refuse and no one is gonner do anything 😃
Joh sis Ke hloile ho nyalwa ke last born nna ha qeta ho ba romella le Di siblings Di atla Di tlo kadima each nd every month le Bana ba bona ba tla o feral dibete ba dimand
I really enjoyed this, I wish the host understood Sepedi more because hai shame she was lost at some point, missed really good points. Please work on it host especially since you're Sotho
Makoti is here to build he house / marriage not her mother in law's house neither her marriage. So let mother in law let go of the son and start his life with his wife. The family house is for family all should contribute and maintain it
Sis in law is naive………were you going to make those babies alone? Why she was not shouting “let’s make a lot of babies” to her brother when he sees him?🤔
Nna i was in vat n sit, my ex boyfriend molested my 9 years daughter. After ka roiwa hlapa engwe ke ausi wa gage wa lekompo, a feletsa a roga le ngwanaka o a tlaishitsweng ke abuti wa gage, lena mapedi in laws can act so crazy. Like they condoned their brother's behavior who has molested and tried to rape a minor, where as they are parents to girls...to this day i am still woowing, i knew ba tletse bokompo ne, but i never thought they can go this extra
Taba ausi Le abuti lithata hobane balouoe hona hona ke boloi bo serious ene ntate Molimo omoholo hobane ausi oa phela abuti orata molisali oahae fla boloi jooo 😢😢😢😢😢
I don't understand why you and husband couldn't help his family to extend their home so that they are sorted before you build your own house. Now you build a big house in your inlaws grounds while they don't have a proper home 😢
Tjo! Your stories are very similar. So you both understand the pain you suffered from siblings and Moms-in-law.😢
As someone who struggles with anxiety... I know for sure marriage especially in-laws is something I'm scared of... for my mental health
That’s why when my husband paid lobola for me 13yrs ago and I was only 19 I stood my ground with my in-laws .when my dad gave speech he said daughter if you go through difficulties come back home as he understood that I was young,he took further by paying for my varsity fees even when I was in marriage.four years later we separated bcz he lived for his family and he never took anything I say.after 2 years he realised that all the good life and beautiful things he had in his life was bcz of me.he came back to my family to ask for forgiveness and I gave him 2nd chance .we living happily and he realised that he has to please himself,our 2kids and me.i hope when he realises it won’t be too late for him.mostly m proud of you for the decision you took and wishes you all the best going forward
This story reminds me of my cousin who was married in Limpopo, being a Motswana. She never knew her in laws because they didn't want her as she is motswana. When the hubby died, she was not even allowed to go to the funeral. She only found out later, after being married for over 20 years, that the guy had another wife in Limpopo.
Yohhhhh😩😩😩that’s sad 💔💔💔
Mara 🥺🥺🥺 im motswana too hope things don't change cause my husband ke Mopedi
It's sad how the in-laws treat us especially mothers and there daughters. I think they should not let their sons to marry in the 1st place. My ex mother in law asked me to pay back lobola because I'm the one who filed for divorce. Tjo ku ningi in marriage guys😅
@@salaminahmatjila4732 just imagine dear. It's true, they musnt allow their sons to get married
yho lol
You ladies look beautiful not forgetting the amazing studio 🎙️ wow❤🎉
Yhoo, some people are miserable and transfer that misery to others
Portia...sorry sesi 💔..o itlhokomele tlhe..baska gobolaya those people...if possible tlogela diphatlho tseo tsa ko polokwane and move on with your life..God will bless you even more..ke dintho tsa lefatshe your life comes first..❤❤❤o be strong this shall pass..
Hugs to you Portia, you were married to a cheater who's from a rotten family
God please discipline my future in-laws before I even meet them because I'm not the one haiii😂😂😂
No ga se Limpopo fela this happen to me two.Ke mo Pretoria Hebron😪
Ijoooo bathong if le sa nyake bomakoti y le sa no bolela go feta gore le tlaixe bana ba batho?
Sorry for everything sisi, they even threat their own tribe like that wow... the problem is that they are so very much bitter
Iam also surprised that they treat their own tribe like that cause bapedi are terrible in laws
I just wish this lady a win case ba bogadi ba sele tuuuu
One other thing sesi Portia, narcissists will want to turn you into a narcissist yourself. You will be bitter and angry even though you are not that person. So my advice is to leave them. Do right on your side and be the good person the bigger person leave them to take everything. I know it’s not graceful on your end especially because no one marries to divorce and lose. But please my sister 🙏🏽🙏🏽choose peace and do right on your side. God’s will will prevail. His is not a nyaope or anything. One day is one day
Her family was supposed to do their part with the portions that were supposed to be taken to her in-laws irrespective of who is going to receive them and who was invited. In life do things accordingly don’t mind what their actions so your path is clear
Joo Queenlee story sa ausi enwa se bohloko hle ka nako I got full 4 grown up daughters😢😢
0:40 My advice to people if you want anything pray to God, and have faith he knows what is best for you, the problem is we don't pray, and if you don't pray u invite the devil to destroy you, so if you want a future husband or wife pray to God he will give you the right one trust me,,,
Nna i just give you credit for waking up from the dream of thinking that one day one thing will be fine. O na le botho xem
Sister in Laws who got divorced and come back to their childhood homes ba opisa hlogo shem! They often bully their brothers' wives. I was never going to allow her to walk all over me!! I am not a pushover. Almost 30 years later they still fight me. My children are adults but ntwa ga e fele.
People are loving at me because of my separation with my husband. So i dont care anymore thanks mamotaung
Portia take them to court these people are wicked. Your story sounds like Queen Lee's I saw you on own narrative with Promise and I thought of Queens story. Hold on God will reward you
What about us who don't understand Sesotho.... Or is this channel for sothos or pedi only.... That time I'm so interested on this topic mmxm
What is the name of the show?And learn Sesotho or sepedi...
I think subtitles would help
You will never win with in-laws and their boy child im talking from experience 😢
Qeen lee u are brave
When queen says Haaaaaa Haaaaa🤣🤣🤣
Hence mamazala it's always in Limpopo maPedi especially
You can say that again
What does platter for all mean in your introduction
Eish I feel sorry for you girl. You will be in my prayers
Sesi o bone ba seke ba gobolaya baloyi bao modimo o gona RAPELA GOD BLESS YOU AMEN
Jo! the issue ea ho aha ka habo monna is such an unfortunate thing, I am a victim. That thing doesnt happen in Limpopo only.
FROM EXPIRENCE I DON'T TAKE SIDES, ANGER ISSUES LACK OF GOOD COMMUNICATION 😢
Onyetsoe ke skema ke khanyakho monna ono osekema basadi😭😭😭🙆🙆🙆
Queen Lee Lesotho mona ha u le mojalefa meaning you are the elder brother in your mothers house and your father is also the elder brother you inherit habo ntate oa hau that's your grandfather's house. That house becomes fully yours and your children. but if bo Rakhali comes back from their marriages you were expected to welcome them and feed them akere u jele all their parents belongings like land, but the elderly executed that with love now u can refuse and no one is gonner do anything 😃
Nthwe borang ha kaalo
Batho ba gafa sham , Portia you deserve respect !
Ene the more she’s respectful and quiet they think she’s stupid 💔☹️
Portia God be with you
Some mother in law are greedy, jealous, controlling and more so projecting. let go of your son, he is now someone's husband
Portia why do you try to kill your husband ???
Ngiyazibuzela nje !!!
Sesi o jelwe yooooo
Wickedness of in-laws
She went through a lot.😭
Gonyala ke ngwana moloi😮
Joh sis Ke hloile ho nyalwa ke last born nna ha qeta ho ba romella le Di siblings Di atla Di tlo kadima each nd every month le Bana ba bona ba tla o feral dibete ba dimand
Yho di Inlaws 😢😢
Inlaws and husbands are so dangerous
The content is so good
Sesi, you are dealing with mad in-laws struu 😅
Bitter sister in law😮
To the tsonga is also common
What is çommon. Building in the yard of the in law or what?
I really enjoyed this, I wish the host understood Sepedi more because hai shame she was lost at some point, missed really good points. Please work on it host especially since you're Sotho
Ke mosotho my self but also noticed that the host was lost because of her questions
Makoti is here to build he house / marriage not her mother in law's house neither her marriage. So let mother in law let go of the son and start his life with his wife. The family house is for family all should contribute and maintain it
Banna ba Limpopo don't have back bone
Yoh aowa we keep going back and forth...the story is interesting but goya pele le morao makes me lose interest. Ka mo the host keeps dragging ditaba
Thought I was the only one...confusing...nt telling the whole story ai😢 frustrating
Sis in law is naive………were you going to make those babies alone?
Why she was not shouting “let’s make a lot of babies” to her brother when he sees him?🤔
watseba taba ea ausi ebohloko haholo banna batswanang enoa abuwang kaena bakotsi
Nna i was in vat n sit, my ex boyfriend molested my 9 years daughter. After ka roiwa hlapa engwe ke ausi wa gage wa lekompo, a feletsa a roga le ngwanaka o a tlaishitsweng ke abuti wa gage, lena mapedi in laws can act so crazy. Like they condoned their brother's behavior who has molested and tried to rape a minor, where as they are parents to girls...to this day i am still woowing, i knew ba tletse bokompo ne, but i never thought they can go this extra
9yrs daughter That's painful My Sister😢, did you open case?
@@edwinkotlolo8593 YES
Fela ntate modimo omoholo otla feta mahlomoleng ana ntate modimo wao rata Ausi otlo ehlola ntoa ena
Aowa e Jo lebala bo mmatswale ba go tswa bochum GA ba na order ba talela gore tjeeeer
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ka nnete!!!😂😂😂
Ke nnete.. Ke tswa bochum Keya ba tseba...
Pray as well Portia bcoz it looks like they use muthi as well
This this of In-kaws is getting out of hand now crus
Ge monna asa kgale lapa la gabo ka mogwa woo
Batswarago mosadi wagagwe ka gona,Etloga e go botsa gore o eme kae ka wena
Its either the side chick or inlaw bewitched both u n ur husband
Acheee
😢😢
Portia bo phelo bo boima hotla feta modimo o teng.
Di in-laws ha ba re tseye jaaka batho shame
Nix my sister. Ba re hloile moooo! And for loving their sons.
Bare tsea bjalo ke ditshewana re hloka marobalo
"nwana wa bo mma" it is a disaster to date a Pedi man even if ur a Pedi woman😎
Modimo a be le wena
Mapeli
Similar story to Leisa la maisa
Was he on podcast or where did he shared his story?
@@kamogelotreshia8364 he was on tictok crying
Yhoo, chaba motho.
😫💔yoh
In laws r opportunists
Taba ausi Le abuti lithata hobane balouoe hona hona ke boloi bo serious ene ntate Molimo omoholo hobane ausi oa phela abuti orata molisali oahae fla boloi jooo 😢😢😢😢😢
😭😭😭😭😭
Bathong 😂😂😂😂Drama e kana
I don't understand why you and husband couldn't help his family to extend their home so that they are sorted before you build your own house. Now you build a big house in your inlaws grounds while they don't have a proper home 😢
🤣🤣🤣
This comment though🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mehlolo😅😅😅
In-laws mathata fela
Thobela
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