My Husband's Family Supported My Husband's Cheating, He Would Go Out And Not Come Back Home.
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It’s like you are talking about my ex husband. He would go fetch his daughter, leave her with me and go to groove. The last time he did it he even locked us in the house and came back around 7am. That was my last straw and I left for good that week. I will come share my story 1 day❤️
What a pig! So sorry you had to go through that
They are so Selfish, Ungrateful and Entitlement mentality!
Yoh 😢
Hope you've healed ninja😢 thats really sad.
Can't wait
My ex husband used to disappear for the whole weekend and come home in the morning hours of Monday..im happy he's out of my life..that bastard
😂😂😂😂😂It's the bastard for me
That's bastard Moghel 😂😂
I just was always scared of marriage until today and im 45 and dating a 53year old divorced man for 6 years now. It's working for us Oprah and Stagman vibes, I still freak out about marriage 😂😂😂
Hi Ninja, I would like to give some constructive criticism. I wish that this interview had a flowing strategy, like allowed the guest to tell us when her and the guy met, how they met, the positives of their relationship and when everything was good yet with redflags, when things started changing basically an insight into the marriage - the behavior etc, what the in laws would say, an insight into how the divorce went, how she is now and the inlaws etc... Like I feel like in your recent interviews you're not asking the relevant questions😭cause even the one ku Owamie ent. You didn't ask the lady what was said exactly in the ndumba which is the main purpose and gist of the interview 😭😩. But I'm not saying you're doing a bad job, I would just like to kindly ask that you note these for future
@@TheeMsutu exactly my sentiments. Hope she sees this. It’s like ninja doesnt reaserch/prepare before the interview. Its giving just come tell your story sizobona phambili. That time this was such an interesting guest. Even the start of most of the interviews seem a bit awkward, like shes not sure how to break the ice or where to start.
@@TheeMsutu 💯
@@Thandi899you are so right!!!🥹🫵🏾I hope Owamie really sees these!!!
Mhmm, her interviews are very choppy
And I am 1 of the sister-in-laws zika Simphiwe. All the things u state will expose her part in the failed marriage but bcs it's her platform, sizothula. Kodwa nje, she and my brother need to both heal.
"Its like giving your husband a gun and hope he won't shoot you" yoh Owamie! 🔥🔥🔥
Owami has grown shem, the quality of questions she is asking... wow!!
No one notices your sadness untill it builds up to anger, then you are labelled the bad person.
True
Very true
True and be labelled as "a bitter " women
Very true!
Very true
I think we need to have a segment where you interview mothers-in-law... Hay ngekhe
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😂😂😂right
😂😂😂😂Dankie
True. There are women who are married but single. Deprives of the fun side of marriage and even sex while the husband is doing everything outside , having amazing sex outside and enjoying traveling with another. Please let's love ourselves . owning a certificate when hubbys heart, time and sex owned by the other woman is not marriage. U r being played . u r married to that piece of paper not the person
I love this lady man. She’s calm, intelligent and articulates herself so well. His loss
Very calm❤
I never understand married men who leave their wives and go to groove, should there be a break in uthi who's supposed to protect your family 👀
So true, imagine coming back home and your wife, daughter and nanny were raped because you were at groove…
Owamie your content on his channel is so necessary! Keep doing the Lord's work, you are called to do this.
Akere marriage is an “achievement” used to flaunt over other women? Women marry walking red flags just for the sake of being Mrs validation only to become motivational speakers when it ends. It’s exhausting. Women need to prioritise and love themselves more. Being a wife is not the ultimate sign of achievement and happiness in life. Men don’t fuss and obsess over marriage and relationships the way women do
True.
😂😂This comment. Yoh violence ke my dhiye😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hao bathong😂😂
This is facts hey. And those who fail in marriage come back and say the same thing
Tell them wena chomi😂😂
😢Mmmm i nearly lost my 46yrs old dauhter through marriage. She was hospitalized bcoz of derpression for 3weeks in hospital and when she came out she devorced and completed her degree. Now she bought a house and living a happy life with her two kids 25 nd 13
I was depressed and admitted and new that it was time to divorce
TJO MAMA WENA UR HOW MANY YEARS ?ON SOCIAL MEDIA WUU M NIT JUDGING
😢Simphiwe u describing my marriage of 12 years with my ex. The pain, the humiliation, the mental abuse. Yooooh guys
Ncese oe ❤
I love this girl.She is so intelligent and inspirational.
Owami has really good questions, she covers everything and leaves no crumbs!
My marriage ended there and there,,weekend getaway,,coming back home on sunday as if nothing happened and it was his first time,,to just vanish for a weekend, guess what on Monday i went straight to the divorce lawyer😢😢this things is not alright at all
You're a very strong woman. I pray all women one day/eventually get the same determination.
I salute you dear, he messed around and found out💪
Hau
I'm really proud of your strength. You're a force to be reckoned with. You'll be okay ❤️❤️
@Ponchables Thanks cc,,we need to choose us first
I love this lady from tiktok! So excited to watch
What is her name on ticktock
@@PanaNorBobo Empresssims0
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Hello Queen Ninja,thank you for the wonderful episode..I was in a relationship with someone who would abuse me physically,emotionally and still Cheat on me and i still wanted to be married to him but God did not allow it to happen..I now thank God that i left that relationship.God Is Good All The Time..
I think I’m in the same boat now
Ba bogadi a se ba genu shame😅 Learnt this the hard way myself, that time I considered and loved them the same way I love my own relatives😊 Their son is never wrong in their eyes shbubu, even if he's a serial cheat!
And they always know when their son is cheating.
@@kamogelokoloane5182 They definitely do majority of the time.
My ex narcissistic husband does this currently with the kids, drive straight go drop them at his cousin's place then they both refuse me access to my own kids, then I have to literally go to Police station and report them, he did it recently on the Father's day, he has never spent time with the kids never and his family side with him. I will never regret leaving that toxic marriage
How old are the kids
Hope this get better. This poor behaviour is encouraged and it’s very bad.
Owami pls let ur guest tell their stories.stop telling ur own stories
I have a sister in -law my brother will never bring another woman around me, I wouldn't care what his reasons were 😊
That’s why you are @brideofchrist 😂❤️
I believe you😊❤🎉 brideofchrist
Same, I would expose him immediately
I am that sister that nobody wants cause on God I'm exposing the truth idc
Futhi lento yokulwela abantwana bese bayoshiyiwa nama girfreinds and wives is pure nonsense 😢
Hmm...🥃Divorce is a complex and multifaceted experience, not an end goal or achievement in itself. However, it's important to recognize that every situation is unique, and sometimes divorce may be the healthiest option for all parties involved, especially in cases of irreconcilable differences or when there are harmful circumstances present.
You worded it perfectly
I think as women some of the behaviour that we accept and tolerante while dating is the exact behaviour that causes problems when married. We also need to accept our responsibility for this part.
SAY IT. women will ignore all the red flags, when ish hits the fan, they blame the in-laws. You allow it, it becomes a habit
Big up girl for encouraging women to go to school.I support you 100 percent
Scream! Finally 🌻❤️ this is such a lonely journey at least ladies will have support.
I went through divorce, in the midst of it I lost my mom, in loosing my mom her family turned against me because of jealousy . Even their ants will gossip about me. I kept my distance in a broken heart, but with a belief that God will work out. I still believe in a miracle , gradually things are falling into place. I learned not to over share ,I learned to keep to myself . Things got better with Therapy
When you are a follower and your people find their way to each other ❤.
I really love how real she is and how she’s also acknowledging her flaws and part
Just this other day. I was making my calculations of my marriage life, you know I cried over how God really loved me even bfr I knew Him. Becos for starters, God saved me from killing a person n get to jail, cos really, marriage life can turn you into a monster, a person that you really never was. 😢 I really can relate my baby. I guess I must be as old as your mom, but marriage hurts started ages back, but if you cnt endure nonsense you are never wired like that. We really thank the Love Of God upon us. That's the Greatest Love Of All
The way im addicted to owamis page😢😢 i so wish I could meet you🥺❤️❤️❤️
Married but single i felt that😢😢😢
The story had a potential, but it just wasn’t told well. I’m comparing it to all the other stories that were told in the this very same platform.
Marking the register 1st😊
Present Ma'am.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Simphiwe is also such a great MU. Wish you all the best Sims, you are a beautiful lady and deserve all the happiness in the world.
Your show is very interesting mam. Just try to interrupt your interviewe less and allow them to speak, and you should speak and ask questions when necessary🙏🏾🚶♀️
I need to come share my story 😩 I was married alone, yoooh weeeh 😂😂
My story is very triggering 😭my in laws never loved me from the beginning’ I was comforted by the fact that hubby loved me until he had a glf that my mil took her in to stay with her😂 yati sometimes it feels unreal but then I still can’t get my mind to accept that drama
The way our husband's treats us it's like marriage is for the stupid women,I'm on deppression medicine because I'm trying to be strong 😢
Simphiwe is such a grounded lady. This guy lost a good woman.
Say tht again ❤
Believe me, his family always knows
Ninja I love the green and white background please use it on both you and the guest
Nyala onyele 😭
😂😂In happy's voice
Her Majesty is that you?😂
Hey Owamie, can I still come share my story on your channel? Although I’ve already kind of told it on my channel yesterday, is it acceptable?
Ninja please invite @nthabeleng_Kopo. I just came from her channel🔥🔥
This matter right here really hits home 🏠 and I am at that stage where I am leaving with someone but leaving alone . Not married but been together 8 years . I broke the engagement and to be honest , it’s the best thing I did not wanting to marry this person. 😢
The dad’s side of a family always doing deputy satans duties to women who are married to their son/relative….. Hayi fok!!
Big ups to this type of content Owami, you’re doing great. Such an organic interview👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Deputy satans 😂😂😂😂. You made me laugh while I was crying. This lady's story is trigger for me because I went through the same thing.
@@maytshifularo5415 They are😂😂😂😂 I’m glad I put a laugh in your emotions, I hope you’re ok from whatever that made you cried❤️
We are still going to have a lot and lot of podcasts in our lifetime. The youth of today to be honest we are starting marriage on a wrong foot. We only want a marriage tittle we don't prepare for marriage. We refuse pre-marital counselling thinking we are too much in love and marriage is not a playground. The problems the guest is talking about you can easily see that there was no pre-marital counselling here.
My dear youth please no matter how much you are in love with your partner, get pre-marital counseling first by your pastor and a professional marriage counsellor. And ladies avoid marrying groovists at all cost, they hardy change
I dont think I wl participate in this marriage era sorry I cnt be in the toxic situation
Yoh kuningi it's nit worth it honestly 😢😢
Yah owami i must point out that am impressed with the way u do your work u improving language competence wise yoyr vocabulary etc its tops by the way am a language teacher u shifting levels continue dear 🎉🎉🎉🎉
sign in Queen ninja 🎉
"Foundation was not sticking on my skin"😂😂 Owamie nenzani lapho emshadweni
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& one thing about owami she will compliment her guests🥰🥰
Wish our continent Africa had such wise women, then life would be good. You are everything Cc.🎉
There are times when I even think I should just give him his lobola bc bcos everybody is now thinking that he even educated me, meanwhile I had to work my way out n ended up with 2 degrees n a diploma. But today, I'm here, everybody regards me with respect n believe you me, my children hv grown up n trust me we are oceans apart bcos of divorce, that's sm of the results when one got married to an elite in the community. Everybody blames you forever.
The story had so much potential but its not well narrated.
Conversation not flowing 😢
Eish life is unfair because we met wrong partners and pretending to be good yet they are destroying you emotionally...physically and spiritually and the in laws approve that cheating.....no peace of mind and eventually depression occurs 😂😂😂
Great conversation ❤ watching from Zambia 🇿🇲
Congratulations 👏 my sister. You opened your eye 👀 and your wiseness to go out on that relationship
I leart a lot from her story but if she shared more I could've learned more
The biggest mistake that many people make is that of thinking that divorced women hate marriage! Yet I believe that married women can learn a lot from divorced women!
Owami please let her talk
Mara what do wives want family to do if you chose a philandering man? Disown him? If he chooses to cheat on Friday and come see his mom on Saturday before going home to you, his mom is just happy to see hher son. They don't talk about him cheating. Just his wellbeing
Ncooo sabonga ngo Yabona Nina 😂😂😂😂😂we love you big time csta,,thanks cc Owami🎉🎉
We here hunny ❤
Looking beautiful as always Ninja😍👌
Can we talk about in-Lawws , yall I get not really protecting girlfriend but a wife yall should be ashamed of yourselves sies hawu
I dey scream! Yes that’s the spirit let’s build and each other as woman!!
The danger of a victim is built for a long time in the cycle of domestic violence
Let's go Queen ! Deputy Ninja signing the F in.
Yaaaassssss Shbooboo!!!!
@cordeliafakude2908 Ninja's Gang gang gang, and that's on period!
What you are talking about it's very true we married women we are too embarrassed to talk about our marriage issues, it's a lot most of us we are not happy but in public we pretend to be okay. We are married but alone in that marriage
This woman reflects a lot about me 💖💖🥰 I’m too focused on getting myself a job, start with my career journey and be financial independent 💚💖🫰 I want to have my own money and live happily 😌
Loving the intro 🎉🎉🎉❤
Ei guys Empress Sims is the girl she think she is❤
I literally couldn't finished this the interviwer interupt to much. Please see one interview off the shining light show it will help you alot on how to allow your guest to talk about their story without interrupting throughout the whole show
Owamie loves the stop light
But as a gent why would you wanna get married if you still wanna single 😭like ? What do you want?😭💔
I really understand pple who throw a Divorce Party.
But I’m so serious when I say the support from strangers is insanely influential.
Please be translating when you guys talk in your language..this channel is international please ..
i wish u asked more questions there is so much left out . this story was just a summary
Ooh Nkosi yami Simphiwe love so much ,as young lady i wish one day i can meet her,she is beautiful and powerful❤,i know her from tiktok ,her words made me to reject that ring, coz things were wooow.
Well done Owamie! You've done it again, queen. And to your guest, thank you for sharing your story. Very empowering!
Congratulations Ninja on this new edition 🎉🎉🎉
Sober counsel! Thank you for being open and frank. Take accountability!
Ninja you are not giving your guest to narrate well. You are talking too much in between
Love the intro,Owamie you are really doing the lord’s work
Well done cc
Sound is perfect and the pictures 🎉😊❤
I think their ex husband also need to be given a platform to give their side of story
The way I clicked so fast. Send our love to her.
Thank you ninja, this was great but also felt so short
sorry babes, nna ke xap ka banna or rather marriage nkampane ka kgwa kele one
Owami is better to devorce than to come out in abox😢😢😢
❤Love her
I cant believe that people subject their spouses to this.
Loving the intro ❤
I loved this and enjoyed it. Thank u Owamie and your guest.
Interesting PC but the interpretations make it difficult to follow, also the story is not about your experiences as the interviewer mara your guest .
Interruptions
MaEeeh. Sims my absolute favourite ❤❤❤❤
Ninja definitely signing in, honey❤️Silaphangoku🥰
Location sila📍
Host please let the guest tell their story..
Girl you had had enough girl