My friend want ppl to love him more than he loves hisself but he doesn't show us nothing but his sexualized version of love I think his idea of love is only with sex/woman
BOL!!! I lost an amazing person because o hated my self!! And I translated that into my relationship. “I’m not good enough” “I’m not pretty enough” “I’m a burden!” And the more he tried to convince me I was wrong, the more I thought he was just saying what I wanted to hear and didn’t meant it! I put the entire responsibility of my happiness in his hands. He ended things, and I was angry, but then, I started to realise he did what he had to do for him! He was exhausted and lost. Fast forward 6 weeks and I realised that he did what he had to do for him and inadvertently did what he had to do for me! In 6 weeks I worked so hard on loving me that I realised had he not ended things, I would have never had the drive to better me and start loving me!
The other BOL for me is I am learning to truly fall in love with myself deeply. I am learning to not rely on others for any kind of validation. I need to trust my own deep validation for my own self. It isn't out there. It will never be out there! It is in me. So I have been learning how to embrace managing being single, in every sense of the word. I need to embrace being ALONE with SELF. I am still healing so much from past relationships. I am trusting to listen to myself more and just relax. Thank you for your words Lisa!
I am so grateful for the advice and guidance that you give. I only realized now, at 34! that I should not rely on others to validate me. It is a battle I fight everyday. I can wake up so happy and positive but one negative comment from someone else can change my state of mind completely and break me down. I still have a long way to go. You always seem to give me the right guidance exactly when I need it. Thank you 🙏🏼
"Before you madly fall inlove with another person, fall madly inlove with you coz then you'll bring that love into the relationship" this touched me and I am thankful because it has taught me to love me first. Thank you Lisa. You just don't know how much I needed to hear these words at this particular time. Self love.
Lisa I remember the first time I saw you in the SECRET...I knew you were special and that you would be a blessing to people all over the world and that you are indeed... Thank you and blessings be with you always🙏💓👏!
Thank you!!! I loved the part about looking to meet the need under your partner’s emotional words of anger, hurt, or fear. Sometimes we get caught in the heat of the moment, and how right we are, forgetting the possibility for service, in that growth because of the current challenge.
Lisa thank you! I am post-depression, post-suicidal and pro-maximizing my potential as a motivational speaker who has been overdone and overcome the enemies within and without and fully recognize after re-cognizing my being/worth and mission that I have much to offer those like the person I was a real life example of now is the time to Become all you were created to be.
“I am not perfect... I learned how to perfectly manage my imperfections “! Wowwwwwwwww that hit apart of my soul I didn’t know I had. You read my spirit. I always knew I didn’t want to be perfect but I didn’t know how to articulate that I wanted to perfectly manage my imperfections! Wow, now I’m ready to conquer the day! Subscribed!
I had to watch this twice. It was so powerful for me because I was never loved by my mother so I never had that example of what it feels like to be loved unconditionally. But I can love myself that way. Unconditionally. And I cried. It was powerful. Thank you.
Dear Lisa, I was taking notes and had an a hah moment when you said, when there is anger- what does that person need or desire? I have never looked at anger that way. Thank you. Then I was still writing and you where at the end of you show saying, you might be the only person today telling me that you believe in me and love me... I STARTED CRYING. Thank you sister from another mister. xoxo
Lisa you are a true blessing! You have no idea how much your words of encouragement and love have spoken to my heart. I am just recently in self discovery mode. I have to really learn how to love myself again. I have been married to the same man for 14 yrs, dating for 3 years prior. I am now realizing I have to show him how I need to be loved by my own example of loving me. WOW!!! BOL! FOREAL FOREAL!
Lisa... when u said I am ur sister... OMG that hits me to the core. I got my NO MATTER WHAT book today and I could feel your presence in each n every word of it. I mean it... I thank God that he made me find you at the very right time of my life. Before someone fall in love with u.... fall in love with urself that nobody could love you more that yourself.... ahh blown my mind 😀
I truly appreciate you and LOVE being within your tribe. Thank you for believing in me. It does my ❤️ wonders!!! BOL!!💪🏾👑 You’re such a phenomenal force 🌺
BOL! Greetings from South Africa. Lisa, UA-cam introduced you to me Nov 20, 2016. My journey to recovery to life started that day. I saw one of your interviews. It changed my life. All of me is now a remake. Relationships, all of them, have changed. I love it most when you speak from your heart.
I now truly love myself, Lisa. I realized self heal helped me a lotttt in truly accepting myself and lovinggg myself unconditionally. I love me bigger, greater bolder! What a fresh air i am breathing now and always!
Wow! I searched "how to truly love yourself" and found you first and I will never regret for my decision. Your voice is so calm, nice and like ASMR to my ears. I liked your words "Don't ever expect someone else to love you better than you are loving yourself." By now, I have been doing so many things to love myself and sometimes things get worse and I start feeling that all of my attemts were useless. That I am not truly loving myself. So, I was waiting for someone to love me and to complete me. I always wanted to feel that 100% love from myself. I always wanted to feel everything that I learned from my psychological therapies, motivation videos, works with the mirror. I did all of them. But I couldn't fully and truly feel that love. Now your words also motivated me. They gave me a hope that I'll still and again and again continue my journey to self love. And I will always remember: I am complete. I don't need relationships or anything else to feel complete. I need them just to sharpen my love and my strength. Thank you!
Thank you Lisa!!! I needed this after a horrible brake up and lots of mental and physical pain you helped me remember I need to love myself again. I’m ready to take the step to be a better and amazing me
WOOOOOW......YOWZAH! #BOL "I'm a better version of myself and my greatest self is emerging?!" WHOOOHOOO...I so needed to hear that. I've been looking for this, for you for quite some time now and I am so very thankful I'm here, present and open to receive. I had a moment of "compassionate clarity." I realized I was pouring so much into everything and everyone else, being mother, wife, daughter, etc...that I totally forgot about me. I was hardwired into thinking this was how it is to be done, period. Now, I'm focused and determined to fall in love with who I really and discover my true purpose. I'm committed to doing this sacred work of loving and respecting myself so that I can give my best to my children, my husband, etc... I'm excited about this revelation and from the bottom of my heart, I thank YOU!
Wow! This video was TRUE confirmation about embracing one's Self and Love Journey. You are truly a gem Lisa for enlightening us on approaching, experiencing and appreciating our path in life through your videos, workshops etc.
One of the best statements I've ever heard is to be the first example of how to love me! Lisa that feels so good to just say sit in and love in. Thank you
I pull the expectation out of it and make loving myself more fiercely. Bringing the love that is needed in order to keep growing in self love. Thank you Lisa Nichols....
OMG! 10:17 BOL! The best gift I can give yourself everyday is to wake up mindfully knowing I am choosing to be with this person in my life. I am not blindly in love
YES YES YES!!!! Do the work of understanding your wholeness and completion on your own, it's an individual process. I truly believe you come into a relationship to allow the other party to experience the overflow of your heart and love for yourself!
Something I've been doing since this past summer 🌞 2023 is think of times when I've been really proud of how I handled myself in different situations. Then I think about what I want to say . Then I get in a good light ( my favorite is outside) I make sure I'm looking my best while I'm looking into the camera 🤳🏽 of my cellphone. I start talking making a short video. Some are 13 minutes, some half hour or 3 minutes. I save the best one's to listen to later and remind me of how strong and courageous I have been, just getting BETTER with time. I am totally honest in my videos taking my time. This has really been a blessing for my soul. The woman I was years ago is NOT the woman I am TODAY. ❤️
OmG..Lisa I will follow your teaching..I just got to know about you yesterday..I am 25years old from Nigeria... I just got a mentor...Thank you for being in this generation...God bless you real good.
Lisa Nichols, thank you so much for this message. My BTOL was when you said"Self Care is not selfish"! The last 4 years my family & I have suffered a lot of loss, heartbreak, trials and transitions. All this time I take care of everyone else, because its who I am. This morning I was telling my husband I feel broken & empty and I need to take care of myself. Then God leads me to listen to this message. Thank you so much. I needed to hear this, firmly but lovingly, from Him and you today.
I am a high school teacher of English, definitely not the type of your ex-writing and speech teachers :), from a culture totally different from yours in a different part of the globe. I am addicted to watching your videos and not afraid to say that I cried many times while doing so. The first time I saw you was with Tom Bilyeu and Steve Harvey. I downloaded your videos and listen to them while in my car and get emotional every time you talk about rock bottom for I can literally relate. Broke, broken, and depressed and then you came along to give me a gleam of hope that that's where to begin. I''ll work it out and get back one day to add another right comment here telling you that I did it. You are a true inspiration. I just wanna say I love you and hope to meet you one day.
hi Lisa!! Sending you so much love! I'm a model/dancer in NY so I have to constantly keep reminding myself that "everyday you get a thousands second chances" and not to succumb to perfectionism but instead manage my imperfections perfectly... #BOL you really have changed the way I have come to see myself in a more whole and healthier way! God Bless sister
Dear Lisa,i learn a lot from you,i am in the process of finding myself,knowing who i am,what i want and all my heart desires and future endeavors. i lost myself after meeting my baby daddy who put me down in everything i do,since i left him, i have enjoyed all the freedom im getting.making decisions for myself,not needing anyones validation. Thank you lisa for your encouragement on self love.As you said we are all work in progress.BOL!!
I just started watching your videos. I’m grateful to have found you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and enlightenment. I’m still learning the phrases and terms but thank you for your reassurance and teachings and comfort 💓🥺👉🏾👈🏾
A relationship is not to complete you, it's to complement the completeness in you. And so many words you said that tauched my whole spirit, I was so zoomed in your talking that when you started to end I was like.. ooh...I was so mesmerize I am new but I will going to listen more often!!!
#BOL I always say that I can’t be in a relationship with someone because I can’t imagine being intimate with someone. But I’ve just realised that it’s not them, it’s that I MYSELF cannot imagine someone looking at me and wanting to be intimate with ME. Love you Lisa
Since I knew you my life has change and I become very confident and have standard,,now I am teaching the world how to treat me,loving myself most and standing my power when someone choose not to choose me.......what I can say is THANK YOU A LOT SISTER. I am from Tanzania
I love you Liza , I just loved it when you said :"Before you madly love someone else , you must madly fall in love with you "❤. These words felt like smone is holding my heart . I've been always a loving person trying to please ppl around me , but there was always something missing , I was umpty from the inside .. And now I know exactly what to do to make this soul full ❤ . Liza , thank you for showing up in my life
I am learning to lead with love. A lot of my emotions were shut off at a young age out of protection, and now that I revisit and learn to feel safe within my own mind I am learning to love myself. I realize now how many people in my life had a skewed understanding of love. I want to find beauty in everything and everyone, I want to choose love over and over, and learning to hold onto that is my current practice. Thank you for sharing, I love you!
Wow! BOL!! "to wake up and say, i, chose this person, let me speak like, engage like,live like I chose them again" really like a rock stuck in my throat. I am sticking this on my mirror! THANK YOU,LISA!
Lisa I've been watching you for the last three months but you just a blessing in my life. Trust me you are my role model forever and I pray to God that some day I will meet you. #BOL#AHA#YANA. Am Leilah from Uganda
"I own my bright light and I own my shadow" #BOL #BOOM. so eye-opening that I can own the good, the bad and the growing parts of me and use them to become a better version of myself. I'm 19 years old and I feel blessed to have all this useful information at my disposal as I become an adult. sending love from Trinidad & Tobago.
Sophie Navarro you so much nailed it right on the head. Love can always be found in you. No one, I mean no one can ever love you more than yourself and it's detrimental to love another person more than yourself... disastrous!!! That's the biggest mistake I have ever made I think. Best of luck on your journey. Take Care.
I’m a work in progress and learning to love myself without validation. I struggle with this but you put things into perspective. It’s like you understand me!!! You’re my mentor and you don’t even know it.
I am learning so much with you Lisa. I started to tell myself every morning I am choosing this man it's a choice that I am doing. And I learned it from this conversation.
Thank you Lisa, "OMG! I still can not believe I'm watching your videos FREE!. As someone whose motivating the high school learners "Lisa, you have no idea how much I got motivated by you"
Few days I`m making the Excersises with the mirror.........I feel myself..............absoluteley Yes....... We need more Excersises.............also to writing down the negative thoughts.........I couldn` t believe it.....I`m moving forward! Those physical Excersises are necessary.....
I just got out a 6-year relationship and I'm learning so much from you! Learning to love me is hard because all I've known was being with someone else. Please keep the wisdom coming because this is the only thing that's keeping me on track!
Oh man has this helped me ! My hubby shared a video from fb with me and since then I can’t stop listening to you Lisa ! And I already feel a shift in the way I am now starting to see myself and beginning to love myself .... I know its flowing on and thru the new me ... I had a lady in the supermarket randomly approach me and say wow your beautiful... I love your skin ... and I thought wow I must be more confident and carrying myself with more confidence now because I could hear myself agreeing with her and that’s normally not how I would feel .... so I’m gonna turn up the thermostat and keep loving me 💝
#BOL to love myself maybe painful, but doing it will bring the eternal joy that only my soul can give to myself. This journey to self love is on! I ❤ Lisa!
I always thought I loved myself more than I actually am. I have put up with too much in relationships. I need to say no more and value me more. Thank you for opening my eyes. ❤️ u Lisa.
yes YEEEESSSSS!!! OH YES!!! #BOL I have been looking for someone to love me when I wasn’t even loving myself!! I stopped loving me to love everyone else! But I’m back!! I LOVE ME FIRST!! I’m in tears at work because I FINALLY GET IT!! Thank you Lisa!!
Your info that you share is a blessing to my mind! You talk to my heart. Every word is like another feather for my bruises, wounds and scars of life. Thank you!
B.O.L :A relationship is not designed to complete you.A relationship is designed to compliment your completeness. WOW!!!!! For years I have been looking for in partners what I could only give myself. With money, the family, material gains where I felt like I was supposed to be happy but I wasnt and I always felt like that I was missing something and ai thought if they were doing more of something then maybe I would be happy and it didnt work . When I started to begin working on me only then is when things started to change. This was a powerful message altogether and I it! Another key point: Before falling madly in love with somebody else first, fall madly in love with yourself.
B O L !!! yea its my job to complete myself . All things are possible with GOD . Thank you For allowing me the Blessings that help me to get up and stand up knowing I am a part of a loving and caring Tribe.
#BOL "Never expect someone to love you more than you love yourself." Preach.
Amen!
My friend want ppl to love him more than he loves hisself but he doesn't show us nothing but his sexualized version of love I think his idea of love is only with sex/woman
I learning to love myself. but sometimes it is so hard when the world gives you the feeling like no one loves you.
Love yourself first and then a lot of people will be in love with you.
"I own my bright light and I own my shadow" how beautifully said ♥️
BOL!!! I lost an amazing person because o hated my self!! And I translated that into my relationship. “I’m not good enough” “I’m not pretty enough” “I’m a burden!” And the more he tried to convince me I was wrong, the more I thought he was just saying what I wanted to hear and didn’t meant it! I put the entire responsibility of my happiness in his hands.
He ended things, and I was angry, but then, I started to realise he did what he had to do for him! He was exhausted and lost. Fast forward 6 weeks and I realised that he did what he had to do for him and inadvertently did what he had to do for me! In 6 weeks I worked so hard on loving me that I realised had he not ended things, I would have never had the drive to better me and start loving me!
No one can love me more than I love yourself. I learned this, eventually.
I'm a young man, and when I tell I have been inspired and educated from this sister. I truly have changes to make. #bol #relationship
#BOL I'm not perfect , I'm just learning to perfectly manage my imperfections 🤷🏾♀️ #yesyes
The other BOL for me is I am learning to truly fall in love with myself deeply. I am learning to not rely on others for any kind of validation. I need to trust my own deep validation for my own self. It isn't out there. It will never be out there! It is in me. So I have been learning how to embrace managing being single, in every sense of the word. I need to embrace being ALONE with SELF. I am still healing so much from past relationships. I am trusting to listen to myself more and just relax. Thank you for your words Lisa!
You can do that
You is doing good
I am so grateful for the advice and guidance that you give. I only realized now, at 34! that I should not rely on others to validate me. It is a battle I fight everyday. I can wake up so happy and positive but one negative comment from someone else can change my state of mind completely and break me down. I still have a long way to go. You always seem to give me the right guidance exactly when I need it. Thank you 🙏🏼
The sentence that hit my soul, was when you said The way you love you is the 1st example of the way they get to love you. That speaks such volume!!!!
2years down the line, l love this video, falling madly in love with myself daily!! BOL!! Tx my dearest Lisa ❤️
If you don't show up for yourself and love yourself first, others will not. It all starts within. Thanks for the reminder and great video Lisa!
"Before you madly fall inlove with another person, fall madly inlove with you coz then you'll bring that love into the relationship" this touched me and I am thankful because it has taught me to love me first. Thank you Lisa. You just don't know how much I needed to hear these words at this particular time. Self love.
I’m truly getting more unconditional love and support for myself, all in the name of miss Lisa
Lisa I remember the first time I saw you in the SECRET...I knew you were special and that you would be a blessing to people all over the world and that you are indeed... Thank you and blessings be with you always🙏💓👏!
This is a reminder to continue improving at being my own best friend. And to continue to improve how I love myself.
One of the best things I am learning is to love myself which is allowing me to love others more.
I don't want to win the argument, I want to not react to the situation but look at ways to communicate in a better way
Thank you!!!
I loved the part about looking to meet the need under your partner’s emotional words of anger, hurt, or fear. Sometimes we get caught in the heat of the moment, and how right we are, forgetting the possibility for service, in that growth because of the current challenge.
Lisa thank you! I am post-depression, post-suicidal and pro-maximizing my potential as a motivational speaker who has been overdone and overcome the enemies within and without and fully recognize after re-cognizing my being/worth and mission that I have much to offer those like the person I was a real life example of now is the time to Become all you were created to be.
“I am not perfect... I learned how to perfectly manage my imperfections “! Wowwwwwwwww that hit apart of my soul I didn’t know I had. You read my spirit. I always knew I didn’t want to be perfect but I didn’t know how to articulate that I wanted to perfectly manage my imperfections! Wow, now I’m ready to conquer the day! Subscribed!
#PREACH #BOL Relationships are to compliment not complete
I had to watch this twice. It was so powerful for me because I was never loved by my mother so I never had that example of what it feels like to be loved unconditionally. But I can love myself that way. Unconditionally. And I cried. It was powerful. Thank you.
Dear Lisa, I was taking notes and had an a hah moment when you said, when there is anger- what does that person need or desire? I have never looked at anger that way. Thank you. Then I was still writing and you where at the end of you show saying, you might be the only person today telling me that you believe in me and love me... I STARTED CRYING. Thank you sister from another mister. xoxo
❤❤❤ thank you Lisa
Lisa you are a true blessing! You have no idea how much your words of encouragement and love have spoken to my heart. I am just recently in self discovery mode. I have to really learn how to love myself again. I have been married to the same man for 14 yrs, dating for 3 years prior. I am now realizing I have to show him how I need to be loved by my own example of loving me. WOW!!!
BOL! FOREAL FOREAL!
Lisa... when u said I am ur sister... OMG that hits me to the core. I got my NO MATTER WHAT book today and I could feel your presence in each n every word of it. I mean it... I thank God that he made me find you at the very right time of my life.
Before someone fall in love with u.... fall in love with urself that nobody could love you more that yourself.... ahh blown my mind 😀
thank you thank you thank you... I took 2 thing from this today, I am my own rescue. I am 100% complete in this moment.
This message never gets old...When you stated, "Relationships mirror the love you give to yourself..." #BOL
I truly appreciate you and LOVE being within your tribe. Thank you for believing in me. It does my ❤️ wonders!!! BOL!!💪🏾👑 You’re such a phenomenal force 🌺
BOL “don’t ever expect for someone to love you more than you love yourself “ Thank you Lisa I appreciate you
BOL! Greetings from South Africa. Lisa, UA-cam introduced you to me Nov 20, 2016. My journey to recovery to life started that day. I saw one of your interviews. It changed my life. All of me is now a remake. Relationships, all of them, have changed. I love it most when you speak from your heart.
I now truly love myself, Lisa. I realized self heal helped me a lotttt in truly accepting myself and lovinggg myself unconditionally. I love me bigger, greater bolder! What a fresh air i am breathing now and always!
“Turn up the Self-Love Thermostat”
Powerful!!
Love it!!!!
Wow!
I searched "how to truly love yourself" and found you first and I will never regret for my decision.
Your voice is so calm, nice and like ASMR to my ears.
I liked your words "Don't ever expect someone else to love you better than you are loving yourself."
By now, I have been doing so many things to love myself and sometimes things get worse and I start feeling that all of my attemts were useless. That I am not truly loving myself. So, I was waiting for someone to love me and to complete me.
I always wanted to feel that 100% love from myself.
I always wanted to feel everything that I learned from my psychological therapies, motivation videos, works with the mirror. I did all of them. But I couldn't fully and truly feel that love.
Now your words also motivated me. They gave me a hope that I'll still and again and again continue my journey to self love.
And I will always remember: I am complete. I don't need relationships or anything else to feel complete. I need them just to sharpen my love and my strength.
Thank you!
Thank you Lisa!!! I needed this after a horrible brake up and lots of mental and physical pain you helped me remember I need to love myself again. I’m ready to take the step to be a better and amazing me
WOOOOOW......YOWZAH! #BOL "I'm a better version of myself and my greatest self is emerging?!" WHOOOHOOO...I so needed to hear that. I've been looking for this, for you for quite some time now and I am so very thankful I'm here, present and open to receive. I had a moment of "compassionate clarity." I realized I was pouring so much into everything and everyone else, being mother, wife, daughter, etc...that I totally forgot about me. I was hardwired into thinking this was how it is to be done, period. Now, I'm focused and determined to fall in love with who I really and discover my true purpose. I'm committed to doing this sacred work of loving and respecting myself so that I can give my best to my children, my husband, etc... I'm excited about this revelation and from the bottom of my heart, I thank YOU!
Stepping into an empty space, thank you for believing in me and loving me more than me!
Wow! This video was TRUE confirmation about embracing one's Self and Love Journey. You are truly a gem Lisa for enlightening us on approaching, experiencing and appreciating our path in life through your videos, workshops etc.
#BOL
"NEVER expect someone To LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOIRSELF"
One of the best statements I've ever heard is to be the first example of how to love me! Lisa that feels so good to just say sit in and love in. Thank you
knowing that someone cant love me more than I love myself and that love is an unending process
I pull the expectation out of it and make loving myself more fiercely. Bringing the love that is needed in order to keep growing in self love. Thank you Lisa Nichols....
OMG! 10:17 BOL! The best gift I can give yourself everyday is to wake up mindfully knowing I am choosing to be with this person in my life. I am not blindly in love
YES YES YES!!!! Do the work of understanding your wholeness and completion on your own, it's an individual process. I truly believe you come into a relationship to allow the other party to experience the overflow of your heart and love for yourself!
Lisa Nichols thankyou for your words. I am on the journey of loving my self fully and completely.
Something I've been doing since this past summer 🌞 2023 is think of times when I've been really proud of how I handled myself in different situations. Then I think about what I want to say . Then I get in a good light ( my favorite is outside) I make sure I'm looking my best while I'm looking into the camera 🤳🏽 of my cellphone. I start talking making a short video. Some are 13 minutes, some half hour or 3 minutes. I save the best one's to listen to later and remind me of how strong and courageous I have been, just getting BETTER with time. I am totally honest in my videos taking my time. This has really been a blessing for my soul. The woman I was years ago is NOT the woman I am TODAY. ❤️
OmG..Lisa I will follow your teaching..I just got to know about you yesterday..I am 25years old from Nigeria... I just got a mentor...Thank you for being in this generation...God bless you real good.
Hi Lisa, were you reading my mind? This is exactly what I need to work on. Thank you for all you do! I am so grateful for your positive light.
I get teary eyed every time your express, belife, and love for us! "I love you too!"
Praise God for the knowledge He have given you my sister Lisa, God bless
Lisa Nichols, thank you so much for this message. My BTOL was when you said"Self Care is not selfish"! The last 4 years my family & I have suffered a lot of loss, heartbreak, trials and transitions. All this time I take care of everyone else, because its who I am. This morning I was telling my husband I feel broken & empty and I need to take care of myself. Then God leads me to listen to this message. Thank you so much. I needed to hear this, firmly but lovingly, from Him and you today.
MindBlown!! This is a fresh way to relate. That love doesn't complete you but sharpens and deepens your already beautiful SELF!!!
Wowoooooo. Falling madly in love with myself before i fall madly in lover with another. You speak to me Lady Lisa. GBU.
I am a high school teacher of English, definitely not the type of your ex-writing and speech teachers :), from a culture totally different from yours in a different part of the globe. I am addicted to watching your videos and not afraid to say that I cried many times while doing so. The first time I saw you was with Tom Bilyeu and Steve Harvey. I downloaded your videos and listen to them while in my car and get emotional every time you talk about rock bottom for I can literally relate. Broke, broken, and depressed and then you came along to give me a gleam of hope that that's where to begin. I''ll work it out and get back one day to add another right comment here telling you that I did it. You are a true inspiration. I just wanna say I love you and hope to meet you one day.
hi Lisa!! Sending you so much love! I'm a model/dancer in NY so I have to constantly keep reminding myself that "everyday you get a thousands second chances" and not to succumb to perfectionism but instead manage my imperfections perfectly... #BOL you really have changed the way I have come to see myself in a more whole and healthier way! God Bless sister
Dear Lisa,i learn a lot from you,i am in the process of finding myself,knowing who i am,what i want and all my heart desires and future endeavors. i lost myself after meeting my baby daddy who put me down in everything i do,since i left him, i have enjoyed all the freedom im getting.making decisions for myself,not needing anyones validation. Thank you lisa for your encouragement on self love.As you said we are all work in progress.BOL!!
I just started watching your videos. I’m grateful to have found you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and enlightenment. I’m still learning the phrases and terms but thank you for your reassurance and teachings and comfort 💓🥺👉🏾👈🏾
A relationship is not to complete you, it's to complement the completeness in you. And so many words you said that tauched my whole spirit, I was so zoomed in your talking that when you started to end I was like.. ooh...I was so mesmerize I am new but I will going to listen more often!!!
BOL!! The BEST VERSION of ME IS FINALLY HERE.. 2018 IS MY YEAR! So glad to have found her.. YESSZZZZZ! CAN YOU FEEL IT
#BOL I always say that I can’t be in a relationship with someone because I can’t imagine being intimate with someone. But I’ve just realised that it’s not them, it’s that I MYSELF cannot imagine someone looking at me and wanting to be intimate with ME. Love you Lisa
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Since I knew you my life has change and I become very confident and have standard,,now I am teaching the world how to treat me,loving myself most and standing my power when someone choose not to choose me.......what I can say is THANK YOU A LOT SISTER. I am from Tanzania
BOL!!!! Today for the first time I've bought something for myself without feeling guilty. Yes, yes!!!!
I love your videos because they contain teachings
I love you Liza , I just loved it when you said :"Before you madly love someone else , you must madly fall in love with you "❤.
These words felt like smone is holding my heart . I've been always a loving person trying to please ppl around me , but there was always something missing , I was umpty from the inside .. And now I know exactly what to do to make this soul full ❤ . Liza , thank you for showing up in my life
I am learning to lead with love. A lot of my emotions were shut off at a young age out of protection, and now that I revisit and learn to feel safe within my own mind I am learning to love myself. I realize now how many people in my life had a skewed understanding of love. I want to find beauty in everything and everyone, I want to choose love over and over, and learning to hold onto that is my current practice. Thank you for sharing, I love you!
Wow! BOL!! "to wake up and say, i, chose this person, let me speak like, engage like,live like I chose them again" really like a rock stuck in my throat. I am sticking this on my mirror! THANK YOU,LISA!
I'm so emotional, I'm 21 & I've lost myself.. You make sense
Lisa I've been watching you for the last three months but you just a blessing in my life. Trust me you are my role model forever and I pray to God that some day I will meet you. #BOL#AHA#YANA. Am Leilah from Uganda
"I own my bright light and I own my shadow" #BOL #BOOM. so eye-opening that I can own the good, the bad and the growing parts of me and use them to become a better version of myself. I'm 19 years old and I feel blessed to have all this useful information at my disposal as I become an adult. sending love from Trinidad & Tobago.
Lesson learnt today too. "Relationships are to compliment not complete."
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4:27 A relationship is made to compliment your completeness
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Sophie Navarro you so much nailed it right on the head. Love can always be found in you. No one, I mean no one can ever love you more than yourself and it's detrimental to love another person more than yourself... disastrous!!! That's the biggest mistake I have ever made I think.
Best of luck on your journey. Take Care.
I’m a work in progress and learning to love myself without validation. I struggle with this but you put things into perspective. It’s like you understand me!!! You’re my mentor and you don’t even know it.
I am learning so much with you Lisa. I started to tell myself every morning I am choosing this man it's a choice that I am doing. And I learned it from this conversation.
Lisa, you're such a remarkable teacher and healer. The love is coming right back to you!!! Peace and Blessings Always.
Thank you Lisa, "OMG! I still can not believe I'm watching your videos FREE!. As someone whose motivating the high school learners "Lisa, you have no idea how much I got motivated by you"
Lisa, thank u for ur teachings. This video is what i needed for today.
God bles you for bringing joy, wisdom, love, harmony, growth.
Few days I`m making the Excersises with the mirror.........I feel myself..............absoluteley Yes....... We need more Excersises.............also to writing down the negative thoughts.........I couldn` t believe it.....I`m moving forward! Those physical Excersises are necessary.....
I LOVE the woman you are! Always so radiant and generous. THANKYOU for sharing your wisdom with us Lisa...
I just got out a 6-year relationship and I'm learning so much from you! Learning to love me is hard because all I've known was being with someone else. Please keep the wisdom coming because this is the only thing that's keeping me on track!
That part! Sending all the love!
Oh man has this helped me ! My hubby shared a video from fb with me and since then I can’t stop listening to you Lisa ! And I already feel a shift in the way I am now starting to see myself and beginning to love myself .... I know its flowing on and thru the new me ... I had a lady in the supermarket randomly approach me and say wow your beautiful... I love your skin ... and I thought wow I must be more confident and carrying myself with more confidence now because I could hear myself agreeing with her and that’s normally not how I would feel .... so I’m gonna turn up the thermostat and keep loving me 💝
I love that you reminded me how I love myself. Shows others how to love me.
Wow ! Thank you . I need to love myself consistently and whole heartedly.
#BOL to love myself maybe painful, but doing it will bring the eternal joy that only my soul can give to myself. This journey to self love is on! I ❤ Lisa!
I always thought I loved myself more than I actually am. I have put up with too much in relationships. I need to say no more and value me more. Thank you for opening my eyes. ❤️ u Lisa.
Girl you better speak to my soul and prune my life. Whew. Thank you for this guidance and the next steps in my Self Love journey.
MY MY MY!!!!! Girl this is a spot on confirmation of what i say to myself and others. Thank you!
You’re amazing! It makes sense some of the chaos in my relationships because never even thought to love myself in it all. Thank you
yes YEEEESSSSS!!! OH YES!!! #BOL I have been looking for someone to love me when I wasn’t even loving myself!! I stopped loving me to love everyone else! But I’m back!! I LOVE ME FIRST!! I’m in tears at work because I FINALLY GET IT!! Thank you Lisa!!
Gosh...I Love You Nichols
You are amazing Lisa, what you say resonates with my inner-self. Thank you for existing!
I am so glad that I listened to this message.
I do love this, I’ve started loving myself but I know I learnt more on being conscious about it watching this. Thank you Coach
Your info that you share is a blessing to my mind! You talk to my heart. Every word is like another feather for my bruises, wounds and scars of life. Thank you!
B.O.L :A relationship is not designed to complete you.A relationship is designed to compliment your completeness. WOW!!!!!
For years I have been looking for in partners what I could only give myself. With money, the family, material gains where I felt like I was supposed to be happy but I wasnt and I always felt like that I was missing something and ai thought if they were doing more of something then maybe I would be happy and it didnt work . When I started to begin working on me only then is when things started to change.
This was a powerful message altogether and I it!
Another key point: Before falling madly in love with somebody else first, fall madly in love with yourself.
B O L !!! yea its my job to complete myself . All things are possible with GOD . Thank you For allowing me the Blessings that help me to get up and stand up knowing I am a part of a loving and caring Tribe.
Haven't watched in years but I'm BACK!!!! Much needed now. Lisa will rescue me!
W💓W! Speechless here. I needed this talk. God bless you, Lisa!
WOW! I own my bright light and I own my shadow!!!