Wow, Lisa thank you I came upon this video today after setting my foot down on a situation and to a person who was hurting me and tried to revenge me for something they didnt even know that they had no right or reason to revenge me on but i stood my ground and turned this person away from entering my household and cause me more suffering along with causing suffering to my kids. I told this person that i would not let him enter my home again until he asked for forgiveness and respected me and my kids who are his too and really demanded that he let me live my life happily and freely and demanded he change and look at life with us as a blessing and stop hurting us because we need to live in peace and freely and stand tall and with pride and viewing this just confirmed that my path is in the right direction. Thank you and thank God!
“If you don’t give yourself rest, then the world thinks that you don’t need rest. Your rest has less value if you give it away. Be more comfortable with your nos”
"If you want your 'yes' to have any value, you have to be comfortable with your 'no'." That hit me. Harder than anything I've ever heard in my life. I was sitting at work trying so hard not to cry. They penetrated me at my core. Because I have been living my life having everybody around me making my decisions for me and more than half of those decisions I regret. Because I said yes when I needed to say no. And I've said yes to way too much that has been pulling me down and pushing back away from leaping over that edge. I was inspired by a recent friend who told me about your work and I thought to myself, "I just gotta see what she's about!!" I am telling you right now... I did not expect you to be this impactful on my life. Watching your videos makes me feel like I need to meet you face to face and soak up all your wisdom! It feels like I'm this small little human who needs help. And a lot of times I don't even want to admit it. But for a split second, I was looking through the lense of the real me and how I see my future. For a split second, all possibilites of being the me I want to become opened up in view. But I'm scared. I'm so scared of making mistakes. I'm so scared of becoming successful. I live in fear and its so hard to leap. Sometimes it feels like theres not enough passion to leap. And sometimes fear is too much that it makes it even harder. However, there is something inside me that keeps pulling me to learn. It keeps urging me to seek out my passion and to fight for what I love. And you have helped made all of this so much easier for me. The more I listen to you, the better it gets. I don't know how you do it! But it's incredible, Lisa. Thank you!
You are an angel! Anyone who changes someones life for the better is an angel. Thank you for changing peoples lives. You are an inspiration. Bless you.
" I don't teach from a mountain top, I teach as I am walking up the mountain with you." Lisa Nichols This is one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard. Sending love, you have my respect and admiration. 🙌🏻🙏🏻
One of my favorite religious leaders once said "a friend is someone who helps you be better" or something like that ... I live in a lonely life at times but desire so badly a tribe of those who encourage me to be the woman I dream of. I've made a habit of calling you, and a handful of others my friends. I listen, I learn, I go and grow... Thanks for being a true friend Lisa!
Julia Cowell I hear you loudly re how you live n the need for positive connections the encourage the best you to live loud n proud! Happy days ahead! x
So understand... Yes I need to me my cheer leader but there are days you just need one person in your corner.. Still looking for my tribe through. Keep it pushing you'll get there we all will. Peace 😀
I can truly understand what you mean, to too have quite an isolated life most of the time because I recognise the value of the right tribe. Good luck to you I'm sure you're tribe is on its way 😉
Maybe its time to make your own tribe....only you would know what you need from a tribe....so my initiating one....you will find out that there is more people like you trying to find a tribe...and there YOU WILL BE WITH YOUR TRIBE READY TO WELCOME EVERYONE WITH THE SAME NEEDS!!!
God bless you Julia Cowell one of my millions of friends.I give a friend to you who never leaves nor forsakes and keeps your spirits lifted at all times.Jesus Christ and also the music of Fred Hammond that you can feed your spirit.God bless you always and forever Keep your head up remain encouraged.
“I wanted my smile to be true and authentic, and so, I forgave myself. Every day, I forgave myself again for the same thing I forgave myself for the day before.” Got my crying tears. Thank you. I needed to here every single question and answer. Thank you.
Wish I had heard this years ago ,at 74 I have learned the hard way as a giver pleaser till no man valued me enough to treat me decent. Abuse was familiar. Thanks for your wisdom
Im crying with love from your words. I have been using drugs and alcohol. I have hurt people. I have hurt myself for too long. Smile in front of my tears. Love you Lisa. Thank you
The GREATEST # BOL I've had out of many...Lisa, you stated you were about to "sentence yourself to a very dim, dark future" bc of the guilt you felt about putting your son in danger. I am a bright, brilliant, creative, powerful, compassionate woman - who is LIVING that self-imposed sentence. 10 years ago I was in law school. For the past 6 yrs, Ive lived my life in isolation, leaving my apartment one day a week, not interacting w anyone - not coming thru on my Divine Assignment - its a cycle of guilt causing more guilt. I'm miserable, but havent changed it. I know I've wandered far from my essence. I'm now 52 yrs old and I have days where I'm beginning to fear I just might die with my "music still inside me." I'm just starting your course, "28 Days to Results," and I will do the Mirror Work exercises. I've got a great contribution to give, that I know. IDK what's got me "stuck," it just may be living out a sentence I imposed on myself for my own...stuff. Any other guidance?
Dear Lisa, I was on the verge of drowning myself in deep sea water. I didnt wanna die but I wanted an escape. My mind was draining the soul out of my body. I felt hopeless and worthless. Despite being on psychology therapy, it didnt help me at all. I was scrolling through Facebook one day and i came across your video "These 3 sentences will change your life". I've watched so many inspiring videos but nothing made any sense to me. At first i watched your video because i really loved your English accent. I'm an admirer of language. But once i watched the video, i felt alive. I felt that im breathing again. I realised that your video actually spoke to my soul. In July last year, i looked at myself in the mirror and i hated the reflection. I realised that i actually hated mirrors since i was very young because i didnt like the way i looked. If i stare long enough into my eyes in the mirror, i tend to cry because i feel sad for myself as im going through so much hardships. Ive always been an ambitious person but all my ambitions drowned coz i cant think clearly. My mind was a mess. On that day, it striked me that if i hate myself, the way i look and my first impression on myself, how would anyone else love me or even want to be a friend of mine. I was such a negative person. I used to be this cheerful girl who made everyone happy but I've lost that girl now. That day, i decide to buy myself a huge mirror and look at myself, look at all my flaws and how can i make them better. But to this day i havent done it because i was afraid of being happy about myself, afraid that it wouldnt last. As the new year begun, i promised myself that im going to give myself the happiness and peace i wanted and to have a great year. Right now i happy that my mirror idea was similar to what you have done to yourself. I know that i have started in the right place in my transformation pathway. I'm glad I came across your video, and i know now that im not alone and there is still hope for me. Just do me a favour and keep doing what you're doing now coz the world needs more love. The world now is dying of depression. Reach out to people they need help. Lisa Nichols, thank you so very much from the bottom of my heart. Love you from all the way here in Malaysia.
Yegeshweriy Karunagaran You did not lose yourself ...you are this cheerful girl and you deserve love and happiness so be ambitious and shine to let the world to know how great you are.
You're amazing, Lisa! It was amazing to hear you say" go back to the steps you took before, to get to the successful place you're right now, for surely retaking those rightful steps, will surely, take you to another level of glorious success". Keeping shining and blessing your world, Lisa! Thank you and remain blessed always!
I applaud you for what many are too afraid to say... I am here to tell you that you are here for a purpose. Look at yourself every day and tell yourself you are beautiful. When you walk pass a mirror, compliment the woman in that mirror. You are beautiful and you can't wait for someone else to tell you, start telling yourself and soon you will realize that no matter who notices it, you already know that you are beautiful 😍😍😍
Dear Yegeshwiry, you should write if you aren't writing already. What you wrote really pulled me in. And pace yourself. Perhaps you start with only a 2 second glance and say,"beautiful " . Then you can go from there
Oh my goodness, Lisa Nichols, you really touch my soul with the things you say and how you say them. You are such a gorgeous person. Thank you for having had the courage and conviction to have left your 'community' so that you could move ahead and be where you are, because now, you are able to transform hundreds of thousands of lives...
I'm crying here too Lisa...you truly are a gift to us. I say thank you for giving me the courage to forgive myself and love me. I connect so much with your heart. I love you😘
FEAR - Find Answers And Readjust.... Something I made up to honour my chatter when I first began to follow you 20 months ago and make myself the lead role in my life again. I'm so grateful for You, Lisa, I have learned and grown so much since and still going 😁
God brought you into my life exactly when I needed to hear your message the most. I'm terrified for the huge life changes I HAVE to make. But for the first time in too long, I have courage & hope. If you did it, I can do it. Thank you for sharing your experience, strength & hope with this broke, scared single Mama. Thank you, Lisa. Thank you for letting God use you to be the vessel for His message to me.
Since finding your videos, the one thing which really spoke to me was how you found a way to build a future while you were still in the pain. I am trying to do that now, before I would be scared of change, of walking towards the path I know was meant for me. But now, I push myself beyond my limits and am breaking the cycle of those before me to work towards the future I want. I have realised many times this year, that all the skills I have learned and the accomplishments I made cannot be taken from me. Thank you Lisa, for proving that you can live your truth, without another's permission, without letting fear hold you back. Thank you for existing, and I shall exist, authentically, unapologetically too.
You reminded me that I have a right and responsibility to have my boundaries in place and inform people how they may or may not be able to treat me....
For the first time since I can remember, I'm taking the first full week of the year off from work and family. My employer has consistently solidified their intent to NOT help me move up in the organization. To the point, I'm working in a dead space and have been for SEVEN YEARS. During this time off, my home is getting some much needed attention, I'm doing yoga and nurturing my mind and heart with helpful messages. My expectations by the end of this seven day hiatus are: 1. Write down what I want and need. 2. Assess the tools that are readily available to me now. 3. Find out what is needed for me to fulfill #1. 4. Go get it. Thanks for being part of this process.
Hello Ma'am you were born to bring divine light to mankind. You are a blessing. I discovered you few days ago, it's a divine encounter because I am even in a prayertime concerning birthing out my God-giving vision. Stay blessed ❤
This is a comment I have been planning to write for the longest time since I discovered Lisa Nichols. To introduce myself, am jarkie from Kenya, yeah in Africa, the first time I listened to Lisa was when she was be in interviewed and my mind was so blown, my #BOL came out inform of tears and how sobbed, being a person that was emotionally reactive, always playing the victim and playing a back role, a supporting role in my own life film. Since I listened I sort out to not have it that way any more, I was riddled with depression and feeling sorry for myself. Lisa, you got me to believe in myself, accept myself and for once in my 23 years love myself fully inside and most especially outside. Through this journey that happened all through the half part of 2018,i have achieved internal peace I have never experience, I have confidence I have never had, I have wisdom I knew I had but was hidden by all the frustration. Lisa, you helped me recognize all the voices in my head that reduced me, a person meant for so much greatness to a person that thought my life was worthless, a person that thought about taking their life so many times and had even settled for harming themselves. Lisa, now I smile like smiling is how I breath, now I intentionally choose to have a great everyday I wake up, now I take a step back before reacting and believing that I am the author and I choose how my story plays out. I have not had a depressive episode in almost an year, I praise myself and my body every time I look in the mirror. Every Monday before I start a new week, I charge myself with your classes, and from that I get a phrase to work on and live by that week. I have even started working out for myself, to balance waves and channel the negative energy, something I would never have done. Lisa, you took my hand and lifted me out of a pile of nothingness that I had created that I thought was a place I will never get myself out. Lisa, you showed me that that pile was just my creation, and being imprisoned there was my choice and I got break out anytime I wanted, If I choose to. Lisa, you helped me wipe off all the negatively charged labels I had put in myself, and you helped me see that am only as weak as the label I choose to live under. Lisa, you helped me work through all the negative self talk, and now I evict them and I choose to address what fear voices out by the knowledge and skills I have achieved. Lisa, you helped me come to a place of peace in order for me to accept my purpose in this life. Lisa, you helped me allow myself to accept the mission to touching and changing lives through how I live my own. Lisa, you helped me revolutionize my life. Lisa Nichols, thank you so much, so so much for helping me truly see myself. Thank you
"Replace fear for information" "If you want your yes to have ANY VALUE, you NEED to be more COMFORTABLE with your no" 'Inspiration always fits" " 7 reasons why you forgive yourself everyday" this is what spoke to me the most after watching this, thank you. I take out 15 to 30 min out of my day everyday maybe even 3 times a day when I need that extra push of inspiration/motivation to keep going and not give up, to listen to a speaker or influencer and so far you and David goggins are my daily go to's. The world is one big community and each person is bigger than themselves our purpose comes down to one thing to make our world a better place.
You have become one of the women I admire more because you have your ego intact. You deserve every success you have and I believe when you say sister, you really mean it. I watch many other speakers and they are great, they help others, however the ones that resonate with me are the ones that have been through the struggle of the deep dark times. The wisest ones know that we are one. You do, I do. Your ability to articulate the winning steps you took, make you a stand out. In my opinion, you are one of the greatest communicators of our time. You have surpassed your mentors in oration skills. Thank you for your life and work. Your greatest days are yet to be, you are just getting started sister.
I havent been a person for a long time. I didnt know that I was me and that I was mistreating myself by not acknowledging me. I let people do things and I let myself do things that make it hard to forgive myself. But when you said I am the example to show the world how to treat me, you brought me to tears. Because I treated myself so bad, giving away my yeses way to easy just to please everyone. Thank you for beeing such a powerfull mind Lisa that can analyze the things and willing to share it with me from the bottom of your heart! I can feel you so much!! I feel you!! I love you for beeing the women that you are. I wish you everything that words cant even describe and money cant buy! You help me so much to grow!! You are like a mother to me that I never had!! I love you from the bottom of my heart!! Keep soaring so I'll always know where to go if I'm lost!!
I loved how you broke down chatter & fear - don't be afraid, just answer the "concerns" with the strategy and enable chatter & fear to do the job of protecting you in a reasonable and practical way. This method has helped me cope with anxieties that I did not understand.
Lisa Nichol I thank "GOD" for you! Before I months before I first watched these videos ( which would be this morning) I knew I needed a mentor and a covering! I had no idea that you lived my life! I am that mother on public assistance! I have had no income since February 2014! I was a valiant surviver; now I am a valiant thrived! I can do this! My future is sure! My ash ha moment was when you spoke of learning to say no to others so that I can say yes to me! I just told myself yesterday I have to help myself so that I can help the people I love! To you Lisa Nichol and your team "GOD" BLESS YOU ALL!!!I NEED A MENTOR!PLEASE SAY YES SO THAT I DON'T HAVE TO ASK YOU AGAIN AND AGAIN!! MY HANDS AND HEART ARE TRULY BLESSED! MOST PEOPLE THINKS INCAN DO ANY !I PROMISE TO USE MY SKILLS AND KNOWLEDGE TO BE A BLESSING TO YOU! I AM DETERMINED NOT TO DIE WITH MY DREAMS! MY LATTER DAYS WILL BE GREATER THAN MY FORMER! IT IS TIME TO LIVE( NOT JUST ON THE OUTSIDE.) I AM READY! SINCERELY, LAVERNE SAUNDERS
I forgive myself for hating myself and not giving myself yes for many years since today. I forgive myself for betraying many times on me... I am crying on what you taught me. Thank you so much, Lisa You are like my mother who always tell me how to love me and honor......
I saw you when you came to visit Universal Centre of Truth in Jamaica and I was blown away by your energy and love!! Kudos to you and the work you do. Thank you..continue giving us what we all want and need to hear!
I came across your video my yes means yes and my no means no. I know to take care of myself. I was holding myself hostage for a while. Not worried about it anyone judging accepting me, not forcing anyone to love me. my resilience is coming back. I'm getting this book today.
Ma'am you had this session like there was a white flag on the horizon! Ohhh I would have STALKED YOU mam! ....what I learned from this show is that your journey is never over. I have been following you for a year now... And I found u when I was searching for change but didn't know where to start. You have helped me to do some things like "renew my mind" and "forgive myself"...my *aha* moment today was seeing Matt there as your support and seeing the intimacy of your truth... That the encourager needs encouragement ....#tribetribetribe! This is a journeynot a destination and who you journey with matters! ... #bol #journey
Lisa, I’ve been viewing your you tube videos for over two years. When I saw your first video; I think it was a Ted Talk or Wells Fargo or something; it was before your visual transformation; you’re always beautiful then and now, but it woke me up; it was like a shock to my system. I was near dead with the regular life routine and accepting what people and life gave me and you made me realize I matter and it’s okay to feel like I matter. Thank you.
This is what home feels like. And 23:19 - hit rewind 4 times. Lisa, Matt and what they all stand for... incredibly beautiful, delicious food for the soul.
Lisa Nichols! Thank you! Thank you for allowing me to breathe! Thank you for giving me back my NO today. I’m sitting here in a pickle because I said yes when I was supposed to say no! I found myself saying yes too much that it gave my no less power. God bless your grandmother, her words gave me my power back! Thank you! I’ve always just wanted my dreams to come true but building it on cement is much better, I want it to last! May you continue with your work. I love you❤️.
So many people have said at the age of 25 you will discover who you are and you will turn into the woman you are destined to be. That used to frighten me and worry me as I did not know how I would discover myself. Ever since I came across you and your life story and then all these videos, you have helped me through my journey on self discovery and I am well on my way to being the amazing woman I know I am destined to be. Your words and tips and most importantly your kind soul has helped me in many many ways and I truly and firmly believe god sent you my way as guidance. Thank you for sharing your love
I am crying right now. 😭 I have been struggling with self worth for the longest time. It affects every aspect of my life. When you said look in the mirror and tell yourself why you forgiven yourself. That hit me pretty hard I think that I've tried forgiving everyone else that I forgot to forgive myself. I needed this I was scrolling through all the motivational videos and this one stopped me. You are truly amazing Lisa Nichols I hope I get to meet you soon.😍😍😍
Wow thank you for this truth of “giving my yes more value by being more comfortable with my NO!” People pleaser - here!🙋🏽♀️ I have taught people to expect me to be there and give all my time away because I have all my Yes’s away. I am going to actively apply checking my opportunities with my goals and if it doesn’t serve me for this moment it is a NO! So I’ll be evicting pleasing everybody and the guilt that usually tags along with not pleasing everybody! THANK YOU!!!! The truth you are serving is divine and so necessary! God bless you!
Ms. Lisa Nichols thank you so much for valuing US ... teaching us LESSONS .. keeping us in touch with what reality is bringing us TODAY, TOMORROW and in the FUTURE . I know your words of inspiration will bring us to something BIGGER.. to the peak of HAPPINESS...Thank you for helping me so much in forgiving myself....Thank you for being the oxygen that we need to STOP and THINK AGAIN when we are in anger...Thank you so much for boosting POSITIVITY in my life.. in our lives.. You are such a great woman..makes me want to leap like the way you do. I LOVE YOU ! I'm PROUD to say to the world I am inspired by LISA NICHOLS.
YES, YES, YES! The chattering voices. This is right on point, but here's how to focus better: The next time you hear chattering voices in your head and you're trying to mentally shut them up; focus on the sound of the voice. Is it a masculine voice, a feminine voice? Is it a voice of a child? A masculine child? A feminine child? Is it a cartoon character voice or the voice of one of your favorite movie actor or actress? I pay attention to ALL my thoughts and I've found an old commercial that was playing over and over in my head from childhood! Every experience is in you. Without all our experiences who are we? By understanding what voice is speaking to you will help you eventually find YOUR voice and after you learn YOUR voice you'll be able to better understand how to cypher your thought processes and be great!
I pray that God continues to bless you! I'm a wife ,mother of 4 a business owner and a daughter of a sick mother. I'm trying to learn how to love and give to myself. I'm reading No Matter What and listening to you almost everyday.Thank you Lisa!
I TOTALLY agree! Fear is not an enemy. I dare say that none of our emotions are enemies. In the context of self mastery, our emotions always contain information. The key is learning how to read those emotions and what they're telling you. They tell you about things that you're not consciously aware of. "Go get the information that fear is telling you that you need, and fear will be satisfied and go away." Put the plan in place that your fear is telling you that you need. Yes! That's part of the road to living your dreams, I've found. Thanks Lisa!
Hi Lisa... I just received a piece of bad news 2 weeks ago. Something shocking. I was kicked to the curb. I had no one to help me get back up. I am half way 'UP' and still recovering. Just wanted to say that by listening to you.. understanding what you say.. digesting it.. and more importantly by taking ACTION every day, I have managed to overcome one obstacle and just had a micro-win today. I am proud of my micro win -- .. You are rights. .WORDS are powerful.... and what you share in this TRIBE is invaluable....WORDS can change your life. Again.. love you Lisa..
I am so glad to hear you say, your yes is a valuable answer that should not go out void. And truly our no has the greatest value because saying no gives you control over your life. This why I had to made a turning point in my life after doing the mirror conversation. I love ❤️ myself so much more. I to forgive me for all the hurt and pain that I brought in my life, as well as others. Thanks 🙏 so much Lisa for all that you do and all that you have been through, because it has all worked out for your good.
Lisa, you are awesome! You amaze me with how intelligent you answer questions unplanned for. You have such wisdom. Every video I watch with you gets me excited and I walk away with a little more wisdom every time. Thank you!
I don't usually comment but I felt compelled to do it after your request. What spoke to me about this video was that of in order for our yes to have any value, us having to be comfortable with our no. I have been dealing with the consequences of this not having been the case for me 0 and havung given resentful, overburdened yeses- and the cost is too high. I am setting it as an intention and commitment to, going forward, only saying YES if it is a grateful, loving one. Thank you !
Im 33 i stopped using Alcohol stopped using cocaine stopped gambling and i was lost and through mindvalley and Lisa Nichols ive found my strength and purpose and im working 7 days a week 2 jobs so that i can achieve my dream. Thankyou Lisa for letting me feed from your soul. I Love you❤
Hi Lisa, I try and tell everyone I meet with such enthusiasm that their eyes light up in anticipation of pulling you up on "UA-cam" which makes me smile, since I know they will be thoroughly blessed. My takeaways from tonight's episode "Teach People How to Treat You" are many: It is clear that I must embrace mirror work and forgive myself for a lot of things I have been holding myself hostage over, knowingly and unknowingly. Another profound moment for me is that I am used to "being on" for everyone and everything not realizing that my Yes to everyone was losing its value because at times I did it grudgingly and resentfully, because I was tired at the time they asked although I genuinely meant it when I told them they could call on me, anytime. Again not wanting to displease others, I always acquieced. Also, not getting proper rest was another big one. Awhile back, I started going to bed at 10:00pm to get 8hrs of sleep because deep down I realized thay it was necessary for me in order to function at my optimum level, but then I fell off that wagon and opened myself up once again, to my detriment, which resulted in me not giving myself the first opportunity to care for me. It is so amazing how we blame others for what we really have authority over and have mistakenly given away. I now understand that there is no guilt in taking care of me; there is no guilt in demanding respect from others who think that it is okay to be disrespectful just because I refuse to respond in kind. It is okay to stand up for myself even if others are taken aback because my new posture is foreign to them because of the way in which I misrepresented myself in the past over things I was well deserving of. Like so many others who have commented regarding your impact and assistance in transforming their lives, I join them in saying "I love you" and "Thank You" for being so transparent and authentic about your personal journey which teaches us (those who are willing to listen and change) that God can also use us for the good of others as we navigate through our imperfections and frailties and social, physical, environmental, mental, financial, and spiritual woes we encounter in life. I can feel your genuine heart for all of God's people as you effortlessly raise your voice in harmony with ours as one who has been there, at times is still there, and knows how to be abased and abound in bad times and in good times. (Philippians 4:12). Just know that your inner resolve and humility shines brightly for all of us to see!!! God bless you Lisa Nichols!!!😊😇💯💕
You could see the deep connection of friendship in both of your eyes that was so heartfelt and genuine. Your wisdom knows no bounds but I loved it when you talked about looking at yourself in the mirror and forgiving yourself. It was my A-ha moment. Thank you x
I’m a person who can accomplish anything. Therefore friends think I can do anything they need. It’s bothered me that I’ve been a yes person. Now I know I can say no. I need to build my online business and I’ve not had the time. Thank you so much for opening me eyes and heart. I so appreciate you Lisa. I’m also trying to learn your snaap. Blessings
This woman is 🔥... She holds the 🔑’s to the Kingdom 4 real ‼️‼️‼️ Lady Lisa I even see you after your speaking engagement weeping because you carry so much love & burdens for people . But God always replenishes you by giving you what you need. I’m praying for your Charge and Strength in Kingdom Serving WOG because you’re the bomb.com 😊
Thank you Lisa! And Matt, for this beautiful episode. I'm grateful to God for you and the powerful message he has placed within you to be given to us, to the world.
Perfect Timing! Just got to the cafe w/ intent to journal & reflect on my Self work for 2018. A PERFECT way to start. Cuz last year was a Beat Down. So tired of being a doormat...and tryna recover my Self Esteem. Yes-- Thank you for carrying forward that healing Voice.
I’m not much of a person with words, at least not yet, like many commentators who beautifully rendered their appreciation for you. But I want to comment on how real and personal your messages are. Lisa, this is the first time I see you, but I feel connected to you. Thank you for being you.
Me by the end of this episode: 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!!!!!!! My heart has been BLESSED!!!! Soooooooo enriched.... Thank you both and each and everyone else involved in this production for blessing my life!😘 May God bless and enrich you in return❤️.
Lisa said it perfectly... Give is great... Doing is wonderful. It's the best part of being human but when you get to where you would like to say no because you need to rest or in someway take care of yourself... The "yes" cannot always be... Sometimes you have got to say no... And the way she said it... It's not really being true to not have the "oh yes! I would love to do that" or "I sure can help you" and to think about it: no one wants a tired yes or a worn of begrudging sure. We need to regroup and refresh. These are not her exact words I know yet it's what I understand it to be. When she did that "you know what it's like if feel like your a burden to someone as they help you. I think she said her Grandma said there is no power in your yes if you have no " no". Lisa used to try to make people happy. Say yes to them. And made mention if you need to be going to bed... To take care of you... Then do that... If you don't take care of you.. People will treat you that way... Call anytime. People see how you treat you. So true!! (And that's wonderful that Lisa clarified that it's not in a self centered egotistical way but to LOVE you well and right. I'm kinda paraphrasing in my own words here.
Lisa, my heart feels like it is coming back together. I love when you said you don't preach from a mountain top but you are with me walking up the mountain. I felt another wind come back into my body. I love you Sister💖🌱🌿🌳
Sitting at work listening to you as I am going through a dark moment where I don’t see a way out. You made me cry, but I learned so much from this video. I need to forgive my self, I am 40 years old and for 19 years I’ve been a prisoner of guilt, blame and shame. I need to let go and forgive my self. I am so grateful for you Ms. Nichols. May God continue to bless you so people like my self can benefit from your speaking engagements.🙌🏾🙏🏽
What I love about this, Is Fear is needed and has to be addressed, to fuel me, and information is key. Make fear the NOTHINGNESS that it is. I thank God for you Lisa Nichols 🙏🏾
How do you love yourself & have faith!! Not need others validation? And get past the love of your life leaving you because of insecurities partly created by him & i still blame myself one year later, ok i will try the forgiveness for myself everyday continuously!!! I know its a long tough journey & has been prior to my 51 years .Thankyou Lisa ❤
Lisa I've never heard fear talked about in this manner. This is a new and poignant way of looking at and assessing fear. I love this! #ReplaceFearWithInformation
Thank you very much for this video. I was feeling very depleted today. This made me remember I have value. Thank you for your motivation and kindness. You and your team are saving lives, and I appreciate that greatly. Thank you.❤
If you don’t give yourself rest the world wont give you rest and grandma dropped a jewel on you , sis i love you and need you to keep talking to my spirit. Honestly I stumbled upon you funding my dreams and it spoke to me on so many different levels, i look at it again and again each time taking something different away each time , I have also shared it with my six children from the age of 36,29,27,26,21, and 19 years old. Friends co-worker s and even total strangers i have said Lisa Nichols just UA-cam her she will change you life for the good after she make you cry. You are a blessing and keep feeding me and giving me the truth , your words have power , and your words are one size fits all . I’m a 52 year old woman and live in Harlem in New York its hard and sometimes family and friends cant help you. Thank God there’s you Sincerely Sonja
Never met a Lisa I didn't like! But this Lisa has changed my mind about everything. She is real and I love the spot where she said to talk to your self in the mirror it has been powerful to me.
Lisa is so humble and REAL! I love u and I only just met u. Please come to the Caribbean to do a show. I promise u I would attend with all my friends. I don't have a US visa :(
I'm sure I've said this before but it bears repeating. Dear Lisa, God knew who to trust with this! You are so genuinely self aware and gracious that it begs others to seek that kind of love for themselves. I've known that there was gifts I was responsible to share on a field much bigger than the field I was comfortable playing on. But I NEVER fully accepted, forgave and gave myself permission until I joined this tribe. S&W2017 was like a coming out party for me and I can't thank you enough. Because of what I learned watching this show and then being in the room in San Diego my path has lit up! I was coaching clients less than 2 weeks later after being buried under shame and fear for over 14 yrs! Thank you and God Bless you! I'll always consider this my home. Always. #LoveMyTribe
Ms. Lisa Nichols, I just found by chance 12-28-18. I still trying to catch my breath, but I do want to say this & it's all I will say. I will sit in your presence one day very soon and when we meet I have a gift for you, that even you will have difficulty accepting. It's a gift so I can't tell you what it is. it greatest honor any person could & will ever receive. I hope U will allow me to honor U. I'm your biggest fan. I will say no more because I have a lot of work to do before our meeting. But I will be watching, paying attention & learning while I get ready to meet U. I love you to the end of my days and beyond thank for showing me how to & why too. Much love, light, & respect. My Sister. I so proud of You.
YES! YES! sister Lisa. Love it and I love you for keeping your light shinning on. You are just what the doctor recommended me my daily dose of Vitamins.
I was lead to you. I have been battling in my mind what is my purpose. I have listened to so many videos and I promise I have never been so inspired. This isn't the first one that I've listened to but one of the ones I've enjoyed the most. Thank you for your transparency. I have been sharing my story with others in hope to help others like you. You really drove me home. I feel like I can truly do anything. Thank you for giving me that superhero mentality. I hope to just hug you one day just to tell you thank you. You have changed my life. I will be forever grateful! With love and many blessings!!!
#bol "Ive mastered my smile in front of my tears" but I want it to be authentic. I want the smile I create for other people's comfortability to come from real comfort in me. Thank you for the oxygen.
These epiphany moments are what I call evergreen sharings; valuable always. My 3 takeaways: “Fear is really informing YOU!” "If you want your 'yes' to have any value, you have to be comfortable with your 'no'." " I don't teach from a mountain top, I teach as I am walking up the mountain with you." Thank you.
At age 86, you inspire me TO DO MORE!
♥️♥️♥️♥️your comment inspires me even more
Joe Sabah wow ❤
Joe Sabah Joe you inspire me to want to do more and be more. Wow!
Amen, God Bless!!
Great
Wow, Lisa thank you I came upon this video today after setting my foot down on a situation and to a person who was hurting me and tried to revenge me for something they didnt even know that they had no right or reason to revenge me on but i stood my ground and turned this person away from entering my household and cause me more suffering along with causing suffering to my kids. I told this person that i would not let him enter my home again until he asked for forgiveness and respected me and my kids who are his too and really demanded that he let me live my life happily and freely and demanded he change and look at life with us as a blessing and stop hurting us because we need to live in peace and freely and stand tall and with pride and viewing this just confirmed that my path is in the right direction. Thank you and thank God!
“If you don’t give yourself rest, then the world thinks that you don’t need rest. Your rest has less value if you give it away. Be more comfortable with your nos”
Wow..
That message have so much strength and power behind it gratitude
Isn't it funny that when we are treating ourselves real bad,we demand that we be treated well by people🤔😳. Love from Kenya,Lisa. 😍
Wow that's so truee!!
"If you want your 'yes' to have any value, you have to be comfortable with your 'no'."
That hit me.
Harder than anything I've ever heard in my life. I was sitting at work trying so hard not to cry. They penetrated me at my core. Because I have been living my life having everybody around me making my decisions for me and more than half of those decisions I regret. Because I said yes when I needed to say no. And I've said yes to way too much that has been pulling me down and pushing back away from leaping over that edge. I was inspired by a recent friend who told me about your work and I thought to myself, "I just gotta see what she's about!!"
I am telling you right now... I did not expect you to be this impactful on my life. Watching your videos makes me feel like I need to meet you face to face and soak up all your wisdom! It feels like I'm this small little human who needs help. And a lot of times I don't even want to admit it. But for a split second, I was looking through the lense of the real me and how I see my future. For a split second, all possibilites of being the me I want to become opened up in view. But I'm scared. I'm so scared of making mistakes. I'm so scared of becoming successful. I live in fear and its so hard to leap. Sometimes it feels like theres not enough passion to leap. And sometimes fear is too much that it makes it even harder. However, there is something inside me that keeps pulling me to learn. It keeps urging me to seek out my passion and to fight for what I love. And you have helped made all of this so much easier for me. The more I listen to you, the better it gets. I don't know how you do it! But it's incredible, Lisa.
Thank you!
Beautiful
All of me is glad for you!!
You sound like me boo ❤
Tell me about it! Your thoughts resonate with mine. ❤🙆
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You are an angel! Anyone who changes someones life for the better is an angel. Thank you for changing peoples lives. You are an inspiration. Bless you.
I will replace fear with information. Fear is keeping me from creating, loving, and TRULY living.
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Same, blessings!
" I don't teach from a mountain top, I teach as I am walking up the mountain with you."
Lisa Nichols
This is one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard. Sending love, you have my respect and admiration. 🙌🏻🙏🏻
One of my favorite religious leaders once said "a friend is someone who helps you be better" or something like that ... I live in a lonely life at times but desire so badly a tribe of those who encourage me to be the woman I dream of. I've made a habit of calling you, and a handful of others my friends. I listen, I learn, I go and grow... Thanks for being a true friend Lisa!
Julia Cowell
I hear you loudly re how you live n the need for positive connections the encourage the best you to live loud n proud!
Happy days ahead! x
So understand... Yes I need to me my cheer leader but there are days you just need one person in your corner.. Still looking for my tribe through. Keep it pushing you'll get there we all will. Peace 😀
I can truly understand what you mean, to too have quite an isolated life most of the time because I recognise the value of the right tribe. Good luck to you I'm sure you're tribe is on its way 😉
Maybe its time to make your own tribe....only you would know what you need from a tribe....so my initiating one....you will find out that there is more people like you trying to find a tribe...and there YOU WILL BE WITH YOUR TRIBE READY TO WELCOME EVERYONE WITH THE SAME NEEDS!!!
God bless you Julia Cowell one of my millions of friends.I give a friend to you who never leaves nor forsakes and keeps your spirits lifted at all times.Jesus Christ and also the music of Fred Hammond that you can feed your spirit.God bless you always and forever Keep your head up remain encouraged.
Cut off the guilt, the shame and so on. Love you Lisa
“I wanted my smile to be true and authentic, and so, I forgave myself. Every day, I forgave myself again for the same thing I forgave myself for the day before.” Got my crying tears. Thank you. I needed to here every single question and answer. Thank you.
Wish I had heard this years ago ,at 74 I have learned the hard way as a giver pleaser till no man valued me enough to treat me decent. Abuse was familiar. Thanks for your wisdom
Im crying with love from your words. I have been using drugs and alcohol. I have hurt people. I have hurt myself for too long. Smile in front of my tears. Love you Lisa. Thank you
The GREATEST # BOL I've had out of many...Lisa, you stated you were about to "sentence yourself to a very dim, dark future" bc of the guilt you felt about putting your son in danger. I am a bright, brilliant, creative, powerful, compassionate woman - who is LIVING that self-imposed sentence. 10 years ago I was in law school. For the past 6 yrs, Ive lived my life in isolation, leaving my apartment one day a week, not interacting w anyone - not coming thru on my Divine Assignment - its a cycle of guilt causing more guilt. I'm miserable, but havent changed it. I know I've wandered far from my essence. I'm now 52 yrs old and I have days where I'm beginning to fear I just might die with my "music still inside me." I'm just starting your course, "28 Days to Results," and I will do the Mirror Work exercises. I've got a great contribution to give, that I know. IDK what's got me "stuck," it just may be living out a sentence I imposed on myself for my own...stuff. Any other guidance?
'Fear is a creative conversation about the future'. Hmmmmmm!!!
I heard that Lisa.
Thank you for this
Dear Lisa,
I was on the verge of drowning myself in deep sea water. I didnt wanna die but I wanted an escape. My mind was draining the soul out of my body. I felt hopeless and worthless. Despite being on psychology therapy, it didnt help me at all. I was scrolling through Facebook one day and i came across your video "These 3 sentences will change your life". I've watched so many inspiring videos but nothing made any sense to me. At first i watched your video because i really loved your English accent. I'm an admirer of language. But once i watched the video, i felt alive. I felt that im breathing again. I realised that your video actually spoke to my soul. In July last year, i looked at myself in the mirror and i hated the reflection. I realised that i actually hated mirrors since i was very young because i didnt like the way i looked. If i stare long enough into my eyes in the mirror, i tend to cry because i feel sad for myself as im going through so much hardships. Ive always been an ambitious person but all my ambitions drowned coz i cant think clearly. My mind was a mess. On that day, it striked me that if i hate myself, the way i look and my first impression on myself, how would anyone else love me or even want to be a friend of mine. I was such a negative person. I used to be this cheerful girl who made everyone happy but I've lost that girl now. That day, i decide to buy myself a huge mirror and look at myself, look at all my flaws and how can i make them better. But to this day i havent done it because i was afraid of being happy about myself, afraid that it wouldnt last. As the new year begun, i promised myself that im going to give myself the happiness and peace i wanted and to have a great year. Right now i happy that my mirror idea was similar to what you have done to yourself. I know that i have started in the right place in my transformation pathway. I'm glad I came across your video, and i know now that im not alone and there is still hope for me. Just do me a favour and keep doing what you're doing now coz the world needs more love. The world now is dying of depression. Reach out to people they need help. Lisa Nichols, thank you so very much from the bottom of my heart. Love you from all the way here in Malaysia.
Yegeshweriy Karunagaran
You did not lose yourself ...you are this cheerful girl and you deserve love and happiness so be ambitious and shine to let the world to know how great you are.
You're amazing, Lisa! It was amazing to hear you say" go back to the steps you took before, to get to the successful place you're right now, for surely retaking those rightful steps, will surely, take you to another level of glorious success". Keeping shining and blessing your world, Lisa! Thank you and remain blessed always!
I applaud you for what many are too afraid to say... I am here to tell you that you are here for a purpose. Look at yourself every day and tell yourself you are beautiful. When you walk pass a mirror, compliment the woman in that mirror. You are beautiful and you can't wait for someone else to tell you, start telling yourself and soon you will realize that no matter who notices it, you already know that you are beautiful 😍😍😍
Sending you love from my soul to yours. You can do this, one day at a time.
Dear Yegeshwiry, you should write if you aren't writing already. What you wrote really pulled me in. And pace yourself. Perhaps you start with only a 2 second glance and say,"beautiful " . Then you can go from there
Thank you God for allowing Lisa to be the vessel which to help guide the lost and stuck. Love you Lisa, may God continue to bless and use you.
Oh my goodness, Lisa Nichols, you really touch my soul with the things you say and how you say them. You are such a gorgeous person. Thank you for having had the courage and conviction to have left your 'community' so that you could move ahead and be where you are, because now, you are able to transform hundreds of thousands of lives...
I'm crying here too Lisa...you truly are a gift to us. I say thank you for giving me the courage to forgive myself and love me. I connect so much with your heart. I love you😘
glad I wasn't the only 1, lol!
Ughhh Me too. Very humbling.
Seriously hits home. Touched my soul!
FEAR - Find Answers And Readjust.... Something I made up to honour my chatter when I first began to follow you 20 months ago and make myself the lead role in my life again. I'm so grateful for You, Lisa, I have learned and grown so much since and still going 😁
God brought you into my life exactly when I needed to hear your message the most. I'm terrified for the huge life changes I HAVE to make. But for the first time in too long, I have courage & hope. If you did it, I can do it. Thank you for sharing your experience, strength & hope with this broke, scared single Mama. Thank you, Lisa. Thank you for letting God use you to be the vessel for His message to me.
Since finding your videos, the one thing which really spoke to me was how you found a way to build a future while you were still in the pain. I am trying to do that now, before I would be scared of change, of walking towards the path I know was meant for me. But now, I push myself beyond my limits and am breaking the cycle of those before me to work towards the future I want. I have realised many times this year, that all the skills I have learned and the accomplishments I made cannot be taken from me.
Thank you Lisa, for proving that you can live your truth, without another's permission, without letting fear hold you back. Thank you for existing, and I shall exist, authentically, unapologetically too.
You reminded me that I have a right and responsibility to have my boundaries in place and inform people how they may or may not be able to treat me....
It's World Gratitude Day today & I'm watching this! Thank you! I am grateful for your lessons & wisdom, Lisa ❤
For the first time since I can remember, I'm taking the first full week of the year off from work and family. My employer has consistently solidified their intent to NOT help me move up in the organization. To the point, I'm working in a dead space and have been for SEVEN YEARS. During this time off, my home is getting some much needed attention, I'm doing yoga and nurturing my mind and heart with helpful messages. My expectations by the end of this seven day hiatus are: 1. Write down what I want and need. 2. Assess the tools that are readily available to me now. 3. Find out what is needed for me to fulfill #1. 4. Go get it. Thanks for being part of this process.
Hello Ma'am you were born to bring divine light to mankind. You are a blessing. I discovered you few days ago, it's a divine encounter because I am even in a prayertime concerning birthing out my God-giving vision. Stay blessed ❤
I came here feeling so much hate towards myself. Learning how to love and forgive myself is the greatest gift. Thank you so much Lisa!
Be easy on yourself... Slow down
This is a comment I have been planning to write for the longest time since I discovered Lisa Nichols. To introduce myself, am jarkie from Kenya, yeah in Africa, the first time I listened to Lisa was when she was be in interviewed and my mind was so blown, my #BOL came out inform of tears and how sobbed, being a person that was emotionally reactive, always playing the victim and playing a back role, a supporting role in my own life film. Since I listened I sort out to not have it that way any more, I was riddled with depression and feeling sorry for myself. Lisa, you got me to believe in myself, accept myself and for once in my 23 years love myself fully inside and most especially outside. Through this journey that happened all through the half part of 2018,i have achieved internal peace I have never experience, I have confidence I have never had, I have wisdom I knew I had but was hidden by all the frustration. Lisa, you helped me recognize all the voices in my head that reduced me, a person meant for so much greatness to a person that thought my life was worthless, a person that thought about taking their life so many times and had even settled for harming themselves. Lisa, now I smile like smiling is how I breath, now I intentionally choose to have a great everyday I wake up, now I take a step back before reacting and believing that I am the author and I choose how my story plays out. I have not had a depressive episode in almost an year, I praise myself and my body every time I look in the mirror. Every Monday before I start a new week, I charge myself with your classes, and from that I get a phrase to work on and live by that week. I have even started working out for myself, to balance waves and channel the negative energy, something I would never have done. Lisa, you took my hand and lifted me out of a pile of nothingness that I had created that I thought was a place I will never get myself out. Lisa, you showed me that that pile was just my creation, and being imprisoned there was my choice and I got break out anytime I wanted, If I choose to. Lisa, you helped me wipe off all the negatively charged labels I had put in myself, and you helped me see that am only as weak as the label I choose to live under. Lisa, you helped me work through all the negative self talk, and now I evict them and I choose to address what fear voices out by the knowledge and skills I have achieved. Lisa, you helped me come to a place of peace in order for me to accept my purpose in this life. Lisa, you helped me allow myself to accept the mission to touching and changing lives through how I live my own. Lisa, you helped me revolutionize my life. Lisa Nichols, thank you so much, so so much for helping me truly see myself. Thank you
"Replace fear for information"
"If you want your yes to have ANY VALUE, you NEED to be more COMFORTABLE with your no"
'Inspiration always fits"
" 7 reasons why you forgive yourself everyday"
this is what spoke to me the most after watching this, thank you.
I take out 15 to 30 min out of my day everyday maybe even 3 times a day when I need that extra push of inspiration/motivation to keep going and not give up, to listen to a speaker or influencer and so far you and David goggins are my daily go to's.
The world is one big community and each person is bigger than themselves our purpose comes down to one thing to make our world a better place.
You have become one of the women I admire more because you have your ego intact. You deserve every success you have and I believe when you say sister, you really mean it. I watch many other speakers and they are great, they help others, however the ones that resonate with me are the ones that have been through the struggle of the deep dark times. The wisest ones know that we are one. You do, I do. Your ability to articulate the winning steps you took, make you a stand out. In my opinion, you are one of the greatest communicators of our time. You have surpassed your mentors in oration skills. Thank you for your life and work. Your greatest days are yet to be, you are just getting started sister.
I havent been a person for a long time. I didnt know that I was me and that I was mistreating myself by not acknowledging me. I let people do things and I let myself do things that make it hard to forgive myself. But when you said I am the example to show the world how to treat me, you brought me to tears. Because I treated myself so bad, giving away my yeses way to easy just to please everyone. Thank you for beeing such a powerfull mind Lisa that can analyze the things and willing to share it with me from the bottom of your heart! I can feel you so much!! I feel you!! I love you for beeing the women that you are. I wish you everything that words cant even describe and money cant buy! You help me so much to grow!! You are like a mother to me that I never had!! I love you from the bottom of my heart!! Keep soaring so I'll always know where to go if I'm lost!!
Chidori Yamamoto It is well with you.
I loved how you broke down chatter & fear - don't be afraid, just answer the "concerns" with the strategy and enable chatter & fear to do the job of protecting you in a reasonable and practical way. This method has helped me cope with anxieties that I did not understand.
AH HA! I stopped being a YES girl. And I have seen my value increase. Thank you Lisa!
Lisa Nichol I thank "GOD" for you! Before I months before I first watched these videos ( which would be this morning) I knew I needed a mentor and a covering! I had no idea that you lived my life! I am that mother on public assistance! I have had no income since February
2014! I was a valiant surviver; now I am a valiant thrived! I can do this! My future is sure! My ash ha moment was when you spoke of learning to say no to others so that I can say yes to me! I just told myself yesterday I have to help myself so that I can help the people I love! To you Lisa Nichol and your team "GOD" BLESS YOU ALL!!!I NEED A MENTOR!PLEASE SAY YES SO THAT I DON'T HAVE TO ASK YOU AGAIN AND AGAIN!! MY HANDS AND HEART ARE TRULY BLESSED! MOST PEOPLE THINKS INCAN DO ANY !I PROMISE TO USE MY SKILLS AND KNOWLEDGE TO BE A BLESSING TO YOU! I AM DETERMINED NOT TO DIE WITH MY DREAMS! MY LATTER DAYS WILL BE GREATER THAN MY FORMER! IT IS TIME TO LIVE( NOT JUST ON THE OUTSIDE.) I AM READY!
SINCERELY,
LAVERNE SAUNDERS
Lisa you’re so genuine, inspirational, vulnerable, open minded, supportive, helpful, and kind! Thank you Lisa 😊❤️
I forgive myself for hating myself and not giving myself yes for many years since today.
I forgive myself for betraying many times on me...
I am crying on what you taught me.
Thank you so much, Lisa
You are like my mother who always tell me how to love me and honor......
“Fear is really informing YOU!” You don’t know how helpful that comment was. Thank you 🙏🏿
I saw you when you came to visit Universal Centre of Truth in Jamaica and I was blown away by your energy and love!! Kudos to you and the work you do. Thank you..continue giving us what we all want and need to hear!
I came across your video my yes means yes and my no means no. I know to take care of myself. I was holding myself hostage for a while. Not worried about it anyone judging accepting me, not forcing anyone to love me. my resilience is coming back. I'm getting this book today.
Ma'am you had this session like there was a white flag on the horizon! Ohhh I would have STALKED YOU mam! ....what I learned from this show is that your journey is never over. I have been following you for a year now... And I found u when I was searching for change but didn't know where to start. You have helped me to do some things like "renew my mind" and "forgive myself"...my *aha* moment today was seeing Matt there as your support and seeing the intimacy of your truth... That the encourager needs encouragement ....#tribetribetribe! This is a journeynot a destination and who you journey with matters! ... #bol #journey
zeeb116 love those ah ha moments! What a blessing.
Continue being a true human being, Ms Nicols. Very touching!
Lisa, I’ve been viewing your you tube videos for over two years. When I saw your first video; I think it was a Ted Talk or Wells Fargo or something; it was before your visual transformation; you’re always beautiful then and now, but it woke me up; it was like a shock to my system. I was near dead with the regular life routine and accepting what people and life gave me and you made me realize I matter and it’s okay to feel like I matter. Thank you.
This is what home feels like. And 23:19 - hit rewind 4 times. Lisa, Matt and what they all stand for... incredibly beautiful, delicious food for the soul.
To see you two be so real and honest made me feel not alone. Such lovely people. Hope to be as brave as you one day Lisa .x
Lisa Nichols! Thank you! Thank you for allowing me to breathe! Thank you for giving me back my NO today. I’m sitting here in a pickle because I said yes when I was supposed to say no! I found myself saying yes too much that it gave my no less power. God bless your grandmother, her words gave me my power back! Thank you! I’ve always just wanted my dreams to come true but building it on cement is much better, I want it to last! May you continue with your work. I love you❤️.
So many people have said at the age of 25 you will discover who you are and you will turn into the woman you are destined to be. That used to frighten me and worry me as I did not know how I would discover myself. Ever since I came across you and your life story and then all these videos, you have helped me through my journey on self discovery and I am well on my way to being the amazing woman I know I am destined to be. Your words and tips and most importantly your kind soul has helped me in many many ways and I truly and firmly believe god sent you my way as guidance. Thank you for sharing your love
I am crying right now. 😭 I have been struggling with self worth for the longest time. It affects every aspect of my life. When you said look in the mirror and tell yourself why you forgiven yourself. That hit me pretty hard I think that I've tried forgiving everyone else that I forgot to forgive myself. I needed this I was scrolling through all the motivational videos and this one stopped me. You are truly amazing Lisa Nichols I hope I get to meet you soon.😍😍😍
Lisa Because of you I have hope and feel like living Thank you let me knowing who I am
"You are a part of my get back up." Thank you...light and love to you.
January 19 2018 is the first time I'm sitting and listening to u.... God is really using you.... You give me heads up miss Lisa nicolos's
Wow thank you for this truth of “giving my yes more value by being more comfortable with my NO!” People pleaser - here!🙋🏽♀️ I have taught people to expect me to be there and give all my time away because I have all my Yes’s away. I am going to actively apply checking my opportunities with my goals and if it doesn’t serve me for this moment it is a NO! So I’ll be evicting pleasing everybody and the guilt that usually tags along with not pleasing everybody! THANK YOU!!!! The truth you are serving is divine and so necessary! God bless you!
I'm forgiving myself.
Ms. Lisa Nichols thank you so much for valuing US ... teaching us LESSONS .. keeping us in touch with what reality is bringing us TODAY, TOMORROW and in the FUTURE . I know your words of inspiration will bring us to something BIGGER.. to the peak of HAPPINESS...Thank you for helping me so much in forgiving myself....Thank you for being the oxygen that we need to STOP and THINK AGAIN when we are in anger...Thank you so much for boosting POSITIVITY in my life.. in our lives.. You are such a great woman..makes me want to leap like the way you do. I LOVE YOU ! I'm PROUD to say to the world I am inspired by LISA NICHOLS.
YES, YES, YES! The chattering voices. This is right on point, but here's how to focus better: The next time you hear chattering voices in your head and you're trying to mentally shut them up; focus on the sound of the voice. Is it a masculine voice, a feminine voice? Is it a voice of a child? A masculine child? A feminine child? Is it a cartoon character voice or the voice of one of your favorite movie actor or actress? I pay attention to ALL my thoughts and I've found an old commercial that was playing over and over in my head from childhood! Every experience is in you. Without all our experiences who are we? By understanding what voice is speaking to you will help you eventually find YOUR voice and after you learn YOUR voice you'll be able to better understand how to cypher your thought processes and be great!
I pray that God continues to bless you! I'm a wife ,mother of 4 a business owner and a daughter of a sick mother. I'm trying to learn how to love and give to myself. I'm reading No Matter What and listening to you almost everyday.Thank you Lisa!
I TOTALLY agree! Fear is not an enemy. I dare say that none of our emotions are enemies. In the context of self mastery, our emotions always contain information. The key is learning how to read those emotions and what they're telling you. They tell you about things that you're not consciously aware of. "Go get the information that fear is telling you that you need, and fear will be satisfied and go away." Put the plan in place that your fear is telling you that you need. Yes! That's part of the road to living your dreams, I've found. Thanks Lisa!
Nana Anan really really true!!
Hi Lisa... I just received a piece of bad news 2 weeks ago. Something shocking. I was kicked to the curb. I had no one to help me get back up. I am half way 'UP' and still recovering. Just wanted to say that by listening to you.. understanding what you say.. digesting it.. and more importantly by taking ACTION every day, I have managed to overcome one obstacle and just had a micro-win today. I am proud of my micro win -- .. You are rights. .WORDS are powerful.... and what you share in this TRIBE is invaluable....WORDS can change your life. Again.. love you Lisa..
I am so glad to hear you say, your yes is a valuable answer that should not go out void. And truly our no has the greatest value because saying no gives you control over your life. This why I had to made a turning point in my life after doing the mirror conversation. I love ❤️ myself so much more. I to forgive me for all the hurt and pain that I brought in my life, as well as others. Thanks 🙏 so much Lisa for all that you do and all that you have been through, because it has all worked out for your good.
Magdaline Williams I needed to hear this. Thank you Lisa Nichols
Lisa, you are awesome! You amaze me with how intelligent you answer questions unplanned for. You have such wisdom. Every video I watch with you gets me excited and I walk away with a little more wisdom every time. Thank you!
Chidinma Attah Thanks 🙏 to you my sister!!
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I don't usually comment but I felt compelled to do it after your request. What spoke to me about this video was that of in order for our yes to have any value, us having to be comfortable with our no. I have been dealing with the consequences of this not having been the case for me 0 and havung given resentful, overburdened yeses- and the cost is too high. I am setting it as an intention and commitment to, going forward, only saying YES if it is a grateful, loving one. Thank you !
Awww... group hug ... I'm crying now too
Im 33 i stopped using Alcohol stopped using cocaine stopped gambling and i was lost and through mindvalley and Lisa Nichols ive found my strength and purpose and im working 7 days a week 2 jobs so that i can achieve my dream. Thankyou Lisa for letting me feed from your soul. I Love you❤
yes YESSSSSS!!!!!!
Hi Lisa, I try and tell everyone I meet with such enthusiasm that their eyes light up in anticipation of pulling you up on "UA-cam" which makes me smile, since I know they will be thoroughly blessed. My takeaways from tonight's episode "Teach People How to Treat You" are many:
It is clear that I must embrace mirror work and forgive myself for a lot of things I have been holding myself hostage over, knowingly and unknowingly. Another profound moment for me is that I am used to "being on" for everyone and everything not realizing that my Yes to everyone was losing its value because at times I did it grudgingly and resentfully, because I was tired at the time they asked although I genuinely meant it when I told them they could call on me, anytime. Again not wanting to displease others, I always acquieced. Also, not getting proper rest was another big one. Awhile back, I started going to bed at 10:00pm to get 8hrs of sleep because deep down I realized thay it was necessary for me in order to function at my optimum level, but then I fell off that wagon and opened myself up once again, to my detriment, which resulted in me not giving myself the first opportunity to care for me. It is so amazing how we blame others for what we really have authority over and have mistakenly given away.
I now understand that there is no guilt in taking care of me; there is no guilt in demanding respect from others who think that it is okay to be disrespectful just because I refuse to respond in kind. It is okay to stand up for myself even if others are taken aback because my new posture is foreign to them because of the way in which I misrepresented myself in the past over things I was well deserving of.
Like so many others who have commented regarding your impact and assistance in transforming their lives, I join them in saying "I love you" and "Thank You" for being so transparent and authentic about your personal journey which teaches us (those who are willing to listen and change) that God can also use us for the good of others as we navigate through our imperfections and frailties and social, physical, environmental, mental, financial, and spiritual woes we encounter in life. I can feel your genuine heart for all of God's people as you effortlessly raise your voice in harmony with ours as one who has been there, at times is still there, and knows how to be abased and abound in bad times and in good times. (Philippians 4:12). Just know that your inner resolve and humility shines brightly for all of us to see!!!
God bless you Lisa Nichols!!!😊😇💯💕
Going 3 months and still on my exercise program consistently! Thanks Lisa
This is absolutely beautiful-your powerful passion and humility is such a role model of who I desire to be!!!!
We treat people kindly so why not we treat ourselves with love and care. Praise yourself, there's no need to listen others praises for good feeling.
You could see the deep connection of friendship in both of your eyes that was so heartfelt and genuine. Your wisdom knows no bounds but I loved it when you talked about looking at yourself in the mirror and forgiving yourself. It was my A-ha moment. Thank you x
I’m a person who can accomplish anything. Therefore friends think I can do anything they need. It’s bothered me that I’ve been a yes person. Now I know I can say no. I need to build my online business and I’ve not had the time. Thank you so much for opening me eyes and heart. I so appreciate you Lisa. I’m also trying to learn your snaap. Blessings
I want to say thank you, You took me from a dark place in my life; to a place of possibilities. I Love you Both!
BOL YES YES......
This woman is 🔥... She holds the 🔑’s to the Kingdom 4 real ‼️‼️‼️
Lady Lisa I even see you after your speaking engagement weeping because you carry so much love & burdens for people . But God always replenishes you by giving you what you need. I’m praying for your Charge and Strength in Kingdom Serving WOG because you’re the bomb.com 😊
Thank you Lisa! And Matt, for this beautiful episode. I'm grateful to God for you and the powerful message he has placed within you to be given to us, to the world.
"If you want your yes to have any value, you have to be comfortable with your no" I felt that deep down within. Thank you for sharing this with ME!
Perfect Timing! Just got to the cafe w/ intent to journal & reflect on my Self work for 2018. A PERFECT way to start.
Cuz last year was a Beat Down. So tired of being a doormat...and tryna recover my Self Esteem. Yes-- Thank you for carrying forward that healing Voice.
I’m not much of a person with words, at least not yet, like many commentators who beautifully rendered their appreciation for you. But I want to comment on how real and personal your messages are. Lisa, this is the first time I see you, but I feel connected to you. Thank you for being you.
Me by the end of this episode: 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!!!!!!!
My heart has been BLESSED!!!! Soooooooo enriched....
Thank you both and each and everyone else involved in this production for blessing my life!😘
May God bless and enrich you in return❤️.
Lisa said it perfectly... Give is great... Doing is wonderful. It's the best part of being human but when you get to where you would like to say no because you need to rest or in someway take care of yourself... The "yes" cannot always be... Sometimes you have got to say no... And the way she said it... It's not really being true to not have the "oh yes! I would love to do that" or "I sure can help you" and to think about it: no one wants a tired yes or a worn of begrudging sure. We need to regroup and refresh. These are not her exact words I know yet it's what I understand it to be. When she did that "you know what it's like if feel like your a burden to someone as they help you. I think she said her Grandma said there is no power in your yes if you have no " no". Lisa used to try to make people happy. Say yes to them. And made mention if you need to be going to bed... To take care of you... Then do that... If you don't take care of you.. People will treat you that way... Call anytime. People see how you treat you. So true!! (And that's wonderful that Lisa clarified that it's not in a self centered egotistical way but to LOVE you well and right. I'm kinda paraphrasing in my own words here.
Lisa, my heart feels like it is coming back together. I love when you said you don't preach from a mountain top but you are with me walking up the mountain. I felt another wind come back into my body. I love you Sister💖🌱🌿🌳
If you want your YES to have any value, you need to become more comfortable with your No. I love that ❤️.
Dear Lisa and dear Team,
Beautiful video. Wisdom nuggets which pump me even more up for seeing you live in SD @mindvalleyreunion in Feb '18. YesYES
Sitting at work listening to you as I am going through a dark moment where I don’t see a way out. You made me cry, but I learned so much from this video. I need to forgive my self, I am 40 years old and for 19 years I’ve been a prisoner of guilt, blame and shame. I need to let go and forgive my self. I am so grateful for you Ms. Nichols. May God continue to bless you so people like my self can benefit from your speaking engagements.🙌🏾🙏🏽
Thank you very, i needed to here that how to start saying NO part
What I love about this, Is Fear is needed and has to be addressed, to fuel me, and information is key. Make fear the NOTHINGNESS that it is. I thank God for you Lisa Nichols 🙏🏾
thanks Lisa and Matt, for giving me this new life! I'm renewed. I feeeeellll soooooo happpppppyyyyyyyy.love u guys
How do you love yourself & have faith!! Not need others validation? And get past the love of your life leaving you because of insecurities partly created by him & i still blame myself one year later, ok i will try the forgiveness for myself everyday continuously!!! I know its a long tough journey & has been prior to my 51 years .Thankyou Lisa ❤
Good to see Matt again. I remember him from the Jam sessions.
Lisa I've never heard fear talked about in this manner. This is a new and poignant way of looking at and assessing fear. I love this! #ReplaceFearWithInformation
I love you Lisa!!!!
Love and light❤
I started treating myself better and saying yes less. Now my world is treating me better. It was difficult to do but I realize that I'm worth it.
Thank you very much for this video. I was feeling very depleted today. This made me remember I have value. Thank you for your motivation and kindness. You and your team are saving lives, and I appreciate that greatly. Thank you.❤
If you don’t give yourself rest the world wont give you rest and grandma dropped a jewel on you , sis i love you and need you to keep talking to my spirit. Honestly I stumbled upon you funding my dreams and it spoke to me on so many different levels, i look at it again and again each time taking something different away each time , I have also shared it with my six children from the age of 36,29,27,26,21, and 19 years old. Friends co-worker s and even total strangers i have said Lisa Nichols just UA-cam her she will change you life for the good after she make you cry. You are a blessing and keep feeding me and giving me the truth , your words have power , and your words are one size fits all . I’m a 52 year old woman and live in Harlem in New York its hard and sometimes family and friends cant help you. Thank God there’s you
Sincerely Sonja
“I was going to sentence myself to a very dark future”
Never met a Lisa I didn't like! But this Lisa has changed my mind about everything. She is real and I love the spot where she said to talk to your self in the mirror it has been powerful to me.
Lisa is so humble and REAL! I love u and I only just met u. Please come to the Caribbean to do a show. I promise u I would attend with all my friends. I don't have a US visa :(
I'm sure I've said this before but it bears repeating. Dear Lisa, God knew who to trust with this! You are so genuinely self aware and gracious that it begs others to seek that kind of love for themselves. I've known that there was gifts I was responsible to share on a field much bigger than the field I was comfortable playing on. But I NEVER fully accepted, forgave and gave myself permission until I joined this tribe. S&W2017 was like a coming out party for me and I can't thank you enough. Because of what I learned watching this show and then being in the room in San Diego my path has lit up! I was coaching clients less than 2 weeks later after being buried under shame and fear for over 14 yrs! Thank you and God Bless you! I'll always consider this my home. Always. #LoveMyTribe
Lisa, you are my newest discovery and I am so glad I found your videos ♥
"Not to feel guilty to soar even if your family doesn't". Tha's so powerful. Thank you Lisa!
Dear Lisa, thank you so much for your work, you are amazing. I love you! Thank you Matt! You guys look terrific together!
Ms. Lisa Nichols, I just found by chance 12-28-18. I still trying to catch my breath, but I do want to say this & it's all I will say. I will sit in your presence one day very soon and when we meet I have a gift for you, that even you will have difficulty accepting. It's a gift so I can't tell you what it is. it greatest honor any person could & will ever receive. I hope U will allow me to honor U. I'm your biggest fan. I will say no more because I have a lot of work to do before our meeting. But I will be watching, paying attention & learning while I get ready to meet U. I love you to the end of my days and beyond thank for showing me how to & why too. Much love, light, & respect. My Sister. I so proud of You.
YES! YES! sister Lisa. Love it and I love you for keeping your light shinning on. You are just what the doctor recommended me my daily dose of Vitamins.
I was lead to you. I have been battling in my mind what is my purpose. I have listened to so many videos and I promise I have never been so inspired. This isn't the first one that I've listened to but one of the ones I've enjoyed the most. Thank you for your transparency. I have been sharing my story with others in hope to help others like you. You really drove me home. I feel like I can truly do anything. Thank you for giving me that superhero mentality. I hope to just hug you one day just to tell you thank you. You have changed my life. I will be forever grateful! With love and many blessings!!!
#bol If I want my "yes" to have more value I have to become more comfortable with my "no."
#bol "Ive mastered my smile in front of my tears" but I want it to be authentic. I want the smile I create for other people's comfortability to come from real comfort in me. Thank you for the oxygen.
J T ...yes, YES!!! I concur!!!👏👏👏
These epiphany moments are what I call evergreen sharings; valuable always. My 3 takeaways:
“Fear is really informing YOU!”
"If you want your 'yes' to have any value, you have to be comfortable with your 'no'."
" I don't teach from a mountain top, I teach as I am walking up the mountain with you."
Thank you.