Thank you Lisa. I lost my daughter recently and I just could not understand why. I wasn’t mad at God just confused. In my reflection I found a lot of great memories of her and our family times together and severs lessons she had taught me over the years one of which was the importance of forgiveness. You just help me some more to realize her tasks were completed and I MUST use her memories and lessons learned to bless others
Thank Lisa Nichols, for sharing your work and inspiring the Masses; what an amazing human being you are ❤. I'm dyslexic and dyspraxic; I'm a lone parent; I work full time in healthcare sector...I'm an immigrant, leaving far away from home. I left my home and my country when I was 18years old, lived in different countries, thus I still looking for my tribe, and a place I can call home. I'm a badass woman who conquered and achieved so many amazing things and still chasing my dreams. I know I was born for greatness and to live an amazing life but I'm my worse enemy. I doubt myself a lot and I waste too much time reliving my failures. I'm not afraid of hard work, I have people around me who admire my coragem, determination. I don't see myself like a brave and courageous person, I just treat every achievement as I had no choice but to do it anyway. I'm resilient and strong but I get scared sometimes for being too strong, I don't like showing my vulnerability to people in case they try to take advantage, then I have to fight them, no like physical fighting but walk away or face them and verbally put them in their place, it can be tricky when you have a strong accent. My plan now that I found your work and wisdom is to listening and relistenning and keep listening until I get to a place where I'm supposed to be mentally and physically. Thank you so much for sharing your amazing journey and for the work you do on inspiring the Masses ❤
Two take from this dialogue, being on a past instead of in the past. When on the past this propels your to your future while being in the past, it holds you captive, this is big because right now am declaring that am no longer going to be in my past but on on my past oh yeh oh yeh...completing a relationship instead of breaking up Wao , that gives the experience power and the completion powerless. I have been captive to my past relationships, I know that looking at it as a completion give me hope to look forward to lies ahead. Thanks Lisa.
#BOL I had a loss, I won't keep using my energies thinking why things did not work out cuz Things happened for a reason: we completed our time together. I will keep moving on and fuel myself with gratitude and new perspectives! #YesYES!
"Knowing when to lean on your faith" . deep. Wise. We all need to hear that sometimes. So we don't feel crazy, more importantly , we don't miss divine intervention, the climax of living.
How are you always so positive? Life whipped my bum and led me to you and I am thankful. I have failed and I gave up but gut wouldn't let me rest, I am meant for more than this so I am watching your videos gathering strength to get up and allow myself to fail. Give yourself a thousand chances and when you get to 999 reset the clock.
"If something ends, its because, its complete..." wow... that was sending ripples in the memorys in my past, like a domino effect, and shifted so much!
Never looked at managing doubt in that way before especially in relationships. Very logical but also removes an emotional pressure but you comfort zone
An good take on how to look at loss ,I loss my husband a few years ago and he was my first love , married 22 years ,I had a realization om day and told myself that the time we shared together was a beautiful Blessing and the time he was here with me was beautiful He loved me for real and vice versa , I was trying to heal and I heard someone say that he had been here and served what his purpose was in both of our lives ,I was hard to hear but it did help me start my healing
I was way too discouraged because of my past path but when u told me one of the comments," am standing on my past and not in my past," I SWEAR THAT LITERALLY BROKE MY CHAINS!!!!!!! I was like wooooo😐 hold up, am not in my past?? THANK YOU SO MUCH. YOU SERIOUSLY HAVE NO FREAKING IDEA HOW HARD I NEEDED THIS
#BOL- regarding completing relationships- “the cycle is complete.” Wow! What a revelation. Everything that needed to happen did & now it’s time to move forward.
#BOL I have been frozen in fear of failure for a few years now. I’ve been criticized for my failures because there used to be a time when I didn’t. I used to be fearless and I finally got to a point of not even trying anymore. Big plans? Why implement them because you’ll just fail again. I’ve been lead to believe that failure was a disaster and you’re not good enough anymore. Not that it just happens and the key is to learn from it and move on and not wallow in it.
I am telling you once I decided to quit, the next time I settled to quit again and again. Because it was easy to quit. However, the moment I decided to face that challenge, to do whatever it took to win over the challenge, I felt like a warrior. Thank you Lisa for re-confirming my right decisions not to quit anymore.
Lisa your perception of failure almost made me cry because I seen failure as a fall. You are so inspiring and positive. This is really something I needed to hear. I will take my failure as a lesson and look at it in a more positive way. Thank you for being who you are!
I cherish your words; these words from my newfound amazing teacher #LisaNichols "Every failure is another step towards your greatness" Every rejection (And I say this as a person who was rejected for my transgender identity. I had thousands of people funding and joining campaigns to distance me from my offsprings and I was ostracised by thousands of people) You are what you create and that creation heck its goin' be a road to climb. But flying takes falls. Dont let the numbers get in the way. The number is just a distraction. 💚💚💚💙💙💙💜💜💜
Got myself into hardship and I’m shifting between a drive to find a way to move past it and a place of fear and judgement over bad decisions. When you said “My gifts today was born out of my failures yesterday,” it moved me to tears. Thank you Lisa. I love you 🙏🏼🤍
Lisa, you have totally disrupted me this morning in my thinking 💭. I have never had anyone tell me that my loss is complete in a way that it is ok to move on. I have been trying to free myself from past relationships but not knowing how to do it has kept me in a cycle of confusion and depression. I have much to separate myself from now that I have a new mind set on how to move forward. Thank you for being my sister in prosperity because my mind has prospered this morning! Blessings to you and your family, Christine
Lisa, you have been such an inspiration and God sent to my life. I'm professional woman who once owed her own successful business, for over 17 years. After getting a divorce, I closed the business and took a 9 to 5 government job. I needed something more stable as i raise my 2 daughters. Now, my daughters are grown and doing well. However, I was recently released from my job after 19 years. Something in my spirit I knew it was time to go, however I stay on for the money and convenience. Now, I feel as if that journey is "COMPLETE"...because of what you've shared! I just want to say THANK YOU for helping to re-light the FIRE in my soul...in my spirit...in my heart! I know I'm destined to help lots of people and make a difference in the lives of many. YOU ROCK!!! PLEASE, KEEP OF THE GREAT WORK!!! BLESSINGS AND HUG, JOYCE S.
Oh my my, I learned a different perspective of looking at failures or loss. "I am complete" This perspective brings about closure, and readiness for the next chapter of life.
Thanks Lisa for this breakthrough moment for me. I’ve been hurting for the longest time coz my husband left me when I needed him the most after completing my treatments for cancer. He just disappeared for a few days and when I managed to get a hold of him on the phone via sms he told me that he didn’t want me anymore. He had fallen in love with someone else and wanted to be with her. Now I get it that the time I had with him was complete; we had done and enjoyed through the years together and we re simply complete. It’s not a break up or a loss but an experience and life lessons that have completed. It’s time to forgive myself, forgive him and to bring the great lessons I’ve learnt forward. I love you Lisa and I cry listening to every videos you share.
I love the emphasis on failing forward. What you said about failing means you were brave enough to take a leap and that when you fail a lot shows that you were up to having a big life, stood out to me. Thank you.
I love how you’re helping me to have a new mindset-a new way of thinking! Thinking positively, not taking “failures” as failures or “loses” as loses. But seeing everything as a divine experience to which you can appreciate and improve upon. Once you said don’t say “break up” say “complete” that was a BOL for me. It’s helping me to let go of someone who isn’t good for me and know that our experiences weren’t in vain. Thank you !
What a beautiful way of looking at the situations and relationships we dwell on negatively as a way of sweet release. Knowing and believing that even with an unsatisfied ending in your eyes it was needed to help you grow and develop a greater you. ❤
Lisa thank you! I ADORE what you are doing! I cried buckets when you spoke about stepping in to your quest. I realise how I was not only teetering on the edge of the cliff, I was standing 10 yards back, spending all my time waiting for permission to be clever enough, good enough, inspiring enough, qualified enough. Now.... I wait no longer. I give myself that permission, I give myself that approval and I hold myself accountable to the person I want to become! Thank you Lisa
Lisa, I must say that I am soo blessed to hear you articulate what is in my heart about success and failure! It is by way of divine revelation that I understand failure to be necessary and a prerequisite for success. I love what you said about failure being an indication of how many areas you play full out in!! That is awesome and again such a confirmation of God's revelation to me! #Committedtoplayingfullout
“We’re complete” changed everything. Those words allowed me to view ‘Break-ups’ in a new perceptive, in a positive way, to release all the hurt that I have allowed myself to dwell in. Now I understand how to let go completely and I will be able to do so. Thank you for your time and words ☺️
also the part where you were talking ab having a structure plan for your passions. I’m a upcoming singer but I’ve never taken it seriously until now, until I realized everything I’m passionate ab you can be wrapped up in the this gift of mine. it’s not enough to say well this is what makes me feel good and I’m good at it so it’s has to work. No it’s going to take strategic planning, consistent effort and drive in order for my goals to come to fruition.
Lisa, another great hit. What's more, having just gotten through a serious bout of depression, self esteem crisis, and crutches, I've pulled out. My Landlord, of all people, saw my anomie and said, simply, "reach out and ask for help'. I did, and my family and friends have all stepped up to the plate in amazing ways. I haven't got a new purpose figured out yet, but I'm resolved to practice and speak only positive thoughts, even to myself. I will fail, and I will slip, but that's a first self-esteem goal I can be proud of becoming adept at. I like 'fail forward', that's an evocative thought!
I have the information yet the doubt is still there. When I delved into the reason why, it came down to fear of failure. After what you said about loss, I had an ah ha moment. I have had so many losses in my business and relationships, and heart ache including PTSD from abusive relationships, that I am afraid to make a plan with the information I have available. When you said about loss and every moment as complete, struck a chord with me.I was looking at loss, failures, lessons I learned as a reflection of my self worth. You see as a little girl everytime I made a mistake, I was told I was good for nothing, stupid, and a bunch of other negative adjectives. So what I learned today is that I have to commit to falling in love with myself and celebrating my fail forwards because I dared to take action. As for my mistakes, they do not reflect my self-worth. They are simply lessons to learn to do better and bring joy into the future. It's been over 3 decades, so today I embrace that little girl and tell her "you are good for a lot of things and extremely smart and talented, congratulations on failing forward and making mistakes because success is around the corner regardless of your age.". Thanks for that ah ha moment
I needed this in my life; I am tired of holding back my brilliance for doubt. I just need to "fail forward", and love the journey, live my life living in my destiny. I got from this that part of my success is in the failures, but I have to be willing to leave my safety zone: it takes the out of ordinary to get the extraordinary!!!
Sometimes, I have pushed myself to change my focus, so I don't waste time on negativity. Once, I switch my focus to good energy, I feel so much better.
I must say, that you must become my daily vitamin. This is just another powerful message to live by. When people say it starts with your mindset, I struggle with that because I usually do not know how to respond, positively, during storms. I must continue to practice until I automatically look at "so-called" setbacks as opportunities to fail forward. Saying a relationship has come to completion instead of "we broke-up," is so so powerful...your quotes need to be put on bumper stickers fasho!
Wow. #BOL!!! I had to pause on this part. You gave me such a beautiful insight on my doubt and it’s bc I don’t have all I need to start so I can I continue studying and working as I’m a single mom of a infant to make this dream and vision of mine come true. I’m a stay at home mom as well, working on ways to possibly put him in daycare part time so I can continue with my writing and deep passions to get this spark back inside. This has been the biggest challenge ever, I’ve never done this before. You have helped me greatly and have poured so much hope back inside of me. Thank you. This was my message, that “nugget” that tells me not to give up but to keep studying and working hard and when it’s time I’ll know it. To truly trust the process of it all. Much much Gratitude to you and yours. ⭐️🙏❤️
My moment of 🤔 was to stop saying the cliche term " we broke up." I've said that a few times in my life not realizing it was just simply complete...the relationship is simply complete! I'm still whole and so are they...I hope...lol. But, I know that I am. It's not what people say, but how they articulate what they say and you have the gift of speaking life to things in a way of real understanding. Thank you, Lisa! My virtual coach 4life!😊
I've been having an argument the same argument with my husband for years. Now I know that it should not be an argument but just a beautiful brilliant idea that I have to spare with others. And that's okay. I am taking that from this lesson thank you so much Lisa from my mending ❤
#BOL YES, YES Ms. Lisa! YES, YES! My gifts were truly born from yesterday's failures. Or like I like to say..."There are no failures, there's only opportunity for growth!" And Lisa, "I'm a big girl now"
the part where you said- when you “lose” someone that doesn’t mean either one of you is lost, only that your experience with each other has ended. I lost someone I cared very deeply for, and since he’s been gone I’ve only ever felt like I didn’t have enough firm to get to know him, caught up in regret in not sound more time with him. Hearing this has allowed me to see our relationship in a new light, accepting that whatever we had was all that was meant for us, nothing more nothing less. It’s been hard to accept that I missed out on what could’ve been, but I have to accept nothing was stolen from me. I simple reached the end of our journey together, it only hurts so much bc I expected sm more. I think knowing this now going forward teaches me to just be and accept things for what they are instead of being let down by my own expectations.
I am in my focus of concern way too much..........I have avoided healthy conflict.......I also looked at speed bumps as stopped signs. Battling all now as to how can I get through the next 3 semesters in college all while living in a toxic environment.......Trying to focus on what I can change and more on who I am becoming and less on who I am slowly leaving behind.
Thank you Lisa Nichols for your words of wisdom. My BOL was realizing every person that has come into my life and who is no longer in my life was not a breakup! It was an experience that made me complete! This idea of "complete" changed every negative experience into a positive one for me! THANK YOU! Also you said, failure means I was brave enough to jump! I love this positive transition, because I feel encouraged to leap again!
#BOL “Doubt is in the planning of failure.” Lisa I finally found the pattern 🤭 I love research. I spend copious amounts of time finding information but the execution of my desired results has been shaky. Self Doubt is the pattern. I believe in the facts; now I have to believe in my ability make my falls a setup for a come up, leap again, and fly.
Even the strongest break, and I appreciate your message! I took a chance at love, failed miserably ( loved a narcissist) it broke me for two reasons. When I thought I was whole, I wasn’t, because I would not have chose him. Secondly, my children, I failed by bringing the worst man around. I always hid it all from them, so this message is allowing me to forgive myself, celebrate that I’m stronger and that I was strong enough to get out. Strong enough to overcome the embarrassment.. I failed and I’m real uncomfortable with that, but I trust the process in my life.
Abundant Blessings to you dear Lisa! Your teachings are life changing. You touched my heart and awakened my reality that although I know intellectually that conflict can be healthy, I allowed conflict to become a stop sign and not a speed bump!!! Thank God for opportunities for growth.
Lisa , I must say i really have not looked about Doubt and Faith in this way.Thank you so much . I got power listening to your life story when I was broke.
"Is it really a failure, or it a really a lesson wrapped in sandpaper?" So eloquently stated! Thank you for your inspiration. Subscribed with bell notification.😍
I found my fortune when I found you, I hope I will be able to make you proud , when you say make a plan , for the fight, I have,I must get a word from you daily, Thanks for your episodes.now I know what my future looks like it is possible my decision is made I will do it afraid.until I win can I work not for food but for growth??? Yes !Yes!!! I am happy and grateful now that you take my doubt away I fail forward so many times .but you give me hope Thank you Lisa.YANA
Thank you Lisa! This video is exactly what I needed to hear! There so many gold nuggets in here. I’m still processing them all coz they’re all so juicy. So I am failing forward and choosing to stand on my past and not to be in it! and have a strategy following WITH my heart’s desires, not just following the good feeling. That was a huge AHA for me. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!
I love hearing you speak. I had to take a break from my college studies and turn to your videos to get some inspiration. I am on academic probation,and I am in my first semester,i have fallen behind and my deadline is in a few days. I work grave,i have health problems that make me exhausted constantly,and a household w children who constantly need me. I need some encouragement asap. I love u. I wish i could meet you Ms. Funding my dream 😊
This your home this is your tribe she says, mother darling I adore you💙💚💛🧡💜 I found my way back to me by finding lisa Nichols and my divine, and the entire universe ' s creator.
I can't even tell you how much this video helped me to have a new mindset and to see failure in a whole different way not as a setback but as a lesson that i must learn from and then move forward , I THANK YOU SO MUCH.
WOW! How I needed this lesson #BOL - I have been struggling with the loss of my mother, close friendships & business relationships -- and never would I have thought that the answer to my struggle is to accept that the cycle is completed and that WE (yes! yes!) are both complete. Today, I accept the relationships come to a completion & honor that at completion I'm not only complete BUT they are also complete too. Amen! I will forever remember this nugget and share it cause everyone experiences loss at some point in life! Thank you to my sister in prosperity and possibility #lisanichols
Lisa, I take so much inspiration in you and your words. I have a #BOL moment when you said "don't say we broke up, say we're complete". This is a truly beautiful way of expressing what, to many, is a time shrouded in just the things you've covered - doubt, hurt, self questioning. By instead reinforcing that your relationship with that person is complete, all the above is avoided, you maintain your self love, the threads of goodness that were part of that relationship and the positivity and presence to move forward. Loved this so much, thank you!
Lisa, I don't usually comment even though I watch your videos every day. Today I simply had to. What you said about relationships being complete brought tears to my eyes. I have been tourturing myself with feeling deep loss for all the friendships that didn't make it past college and loneliness with a weight I can barely breath under. Now I understand that I need to treasure what we had and view it as all it was meant to be. Now I can move on. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You.
I just love what you do Lisa, and how passionate you are about helping others through your life experiences. #BOL you're so right when you say that 'failure' is not a bad thing and it needs to be celebrated, because it means you took a chance in life and now you have an opportunity to hit reset and try again. Im going to make sure that this time around and n my life I'm going to leap toward my dreams and not look back, and if I get it wrong so be it. You have to get it wrong before you can get it right. Love you so much Lisa, and team!
Hello Lisa! You help me find the words to describe my feelings, my intuitions, my AHAs. Thank you, you are a blessing! I started following you when the “universe” directed me to your video on the types of relationships months ago. And even at the time I still haven’t fully understood it. Now when you said, know that it (relationship) is COMPLETE instead of broken, failure, separated ways and even the word finished. I think when you say finished it lacks commitment and you did it because of just compliance. But when you say complete, there was a purpose. And it’s complete period. It can be a chapter in your book of life. Or the whole book itself. So you either write another chapter or just totally put that book in your shelf because it is complete and write another, totally different book. Continue to inspire others my sister in possibilities and prosperity! 🙏🏼😊
#BOL 'give your fear the permission to be with you while you walk, you'll never worry again how to over on fear'. Thank you Adorable LISA NICHOLS. This right on time for me, since I am creating a new relationship with money as a wife.
Leap and the net will appear, just have no expectations of what the net will look like. I've used this motto in my life and realized the harder the fall, the more spiritual growth and soul evolution took place. I love your message. Keep shining sweet Sister!
Lisa your videos move me in ways I cannot explain. I’ve needed to hear this message as I’ve been struggling with overcoming fear and leaning into my intuitive pull. I now know that my fear is simply a way of telling myself that I need to do more research and collect more information. I plan on spending more time collecting information to help accomplish my goals as well as strongly leaning on my faith. I know by doing those two things I’ll have the necessary tools to be the woman I am destined to be. Thank you, Lisa!
Lisa, recently I was very confused and I am lost. I totally experiencing those things that you discussed and you know what I made the right decision of watching your video. I realized so many things “Fail Forward” that’s my favorite line. Thank you for inspiring people/us.
LISA! I have watched this several times but today I got my #BOL "maybe your speed bump, became a stop sign" Lisa, i need to go back to practise my Road sign recognition!! Sometimes the little bump feels like a life threatening injury, especially when it's in relationship over foundational issues that keep repeating like ground-hog day!! HOWEVER-I am just beginning in my understanding of recognising the difference between a bump and a stop. And dealing with my emotions in the Chaos. Thank you for speaking HOPE into my situation. You are a blessing to my life! Much Love, Chelle xxx
Loving You Everyday Lisa those relationships that are gone in my life are complete it hurts but we did what we needed to do now its time to move on. I thought I had moved on but I needed your wisdom Apreci-Love Jag Bless Psalms 68:4
#BOL!!!!! I have been seeing this man for a couple of months and I'm smitten... It's about to get interesting I'm a Mexican Jew and he's black raised in the south... Now I'm from Aurora Co and I've never met a man like Chris the more time I spend with him the more I get attached thank you for smashing any doubt about me and him. No more fear no more doubt
Just what I Needed to stop doubting a confrontation I had with a Senior family member. It was after that ugly moment I stumbled upon You and the Tribe. She told me to get ok with my Self but never told me how. Tho we have not spoken I know that Moment was needed. Thank You Sis.
#BOL!!!! "...My Gift Today Was Born Out Of My Failures Of Yesterday..." This phrase resonates perfectly with me. Sometimes I get caught up in trying to be perfect in everything I come across, and try to run away from failure. Thank you for sharing on how I should embrace failure and focus on the three good areas and two areas of improvement. Phew! I am so relieved...
Thank you Lisa. I lost my daughter recently and I just could not understand why. I wasn’t mad at God just confused. In my reflection I found a lot of great memories of her and our family times together and severs lessons she had taught me over the years one of which was the importance of forgiveness. You just help me some more to realize her tasks were completed and I MUST use her memories and lessons learned to bless others
Wow. this was DEEP! No break up the relationship was complete. Wow
Thank Lisa Nichols, for sharing your work and inspiring the Masses; what an amazing human being you are ❤.
I'm dyslexic and dyspraxic; I'm a lone parent; I work full time in healthcare sector...I'm an immigrant, leaving far away from home. I left my home and my country when I was 18years old, lived in different countries, thus I still looking for my tribe, and a place I can call home. I'm a badass woman who conquered and achieved so many amazing things and still chasing my dreams. I know I was born for greatness and to live an amazing life but I'm my worse enemy. I doubt myself a lot and I waste too much time reliving my failures. I'm not afraid of hard work, I have people around me who admire my coragem, determination. I don't see myself like a brave and courageous person, I just treat every achievement as I had no choice but to do it anyway. I'm resilient and strong but I get scared sometimes for being too strong, I don't like showing my vulnerability to people in case they try to take advantage, then I have to fight them, no like physical fighting but walk away or face them and verbally put them in their place, it can be tricky when you have a strong accent.
My plan now that I found your work and wisdom is to listening and relistenning and keep listening until I get to a place where I'm supposed to be mentally and physically. Thank you so much for sharing your amazing journey and for the work you do on inspiring the Masses ❤
Two take from this dialogue, being on a past instead of in the past. When on the past this propels your to your future while being in the past, it holds you captive, this is big because right now am declaring that am no longer going to be in my past but on on my past oh yeh oh yeh...completing a relationship instead of breaking up Wao , that gives the experience power and the completion powerless. I have been captive to my past relationships, I know that looking at it as a completion give me hope to look forward to lies ahead. Thanks Lisa.
"Our time together, our experience together was complete." What a beautiful perspective.
#BOL I had a loss, I won't keep using my energies thinking why things did not work out cuz Things happened for a reason: we completed our time together. I will keep moving on and fuel myself with gratitude and new perspectives! #YesYES!
"Knowing when to lean on your faith" . deep. Wise. We all need to hear that sometimes. So we don't feel crazy, more importantly , we don't miss divine intervention, the climax of living.
How are you always so positive? Life whipped my bum and led me to you and I am thankful.
I have failed and I gave up but gut wouldn't let me rest, I am meant for more than this so I am watching your videos gathering strength to get up and allow myself to fail. Give yourself a thousand chances and when you get to 999 reset the clock.
The message that blew my mind is when you said you look at loss as being complete. That is just a revelation and so healing.
"If something ends, its because, its complete..." wow... that was sending ripples in the memorys in my past, like a domino effect, and shifted so much!
God’s confirmation comes when we seek to understand our life’s assignment.
This was mine. Thank you Ms. Lisa!
Never looked at managing doubt in that way before especially in relationships. Very logical but also removes an emotional pressure but you comfort zone
An good take on how to look at loss ,I loss my husband a few years ago and he was my first love , married 22 years ,I had a realization om day and told myself that the time we shared together was a beautiful Blessing and the time he was here with me was beautiful He loved me for real and vice versa , I was trying to heal and I heard someone say that he had been here and served what his purpose was in both of our lives ,I was hard to hear but it did help me start my healing
I was way too discouraged because of my past path but when u told me one of the comments," am standing on my past and not in my past," I SWEAR THAT LITERALLY BROKE MY CHAINS!!!!!!! I was like wooooo😐 hold up, am not in my past?? THANK YOU SO MUCH. YOU SERIOUSLY HAVE NO FREAKING IDEA HOW HARD I NEEDED THIS
#BOL- regarding completing relationships- “the cycle is complete.” Wow! What a revelation. Everything that needed to happen did & now it’s time to move forward.
#BOL I have been frozen in fear of failure for a few years now. I’ve been criticized for my failures because there used to be a time when I didn’t. I used to be fearless and I finally got to a point of not even trying anymore. Big plans? Why implement them because you’ll just fail again. I’ve been lead to believe that failure was a disaster and you’re not good enough anymore. Not that it just happens and the key is to learn from it and move on and not wallow in it.
I want to fail so I can grow! I want to fail so I can succeed! Failure means I took a leap of faith! Thank you for your wisdom and advice!
I am telling you once I decided to quit, the next time I settled to quit again and again. Because it was easy to quit. However, the moment I decided to face that challenge, to do whatever it took to win over the challenge, I felt like a warrior. Thank you Lisa for re-confirming my right decisions not to quit anymore.
Lisa your perception of failure almost made me cry because I seen failure as a fall. You are so inspiring and positive. This is really something I needed to hear. I will take my failure as a lesson and look at it in a more positive way. Thank you for being who you are!
"My gifts today are born out of my failures from yesterday " WOW!! #BOL #YANA
Turning the missteps into stepping stones is so powerful and productive
I cherish your words; these words from my newfound amazing teacher #LisaNichols
"Every failure is another step towards your greatness"
Every rejection
(And I say this as a person who was rejected for my transgender identity.
I had thousands of people funding and joining campaigns to distance me from my offsprings and I was ostracised by thousands of people)
You are what you create and that creation heck its goin' be a road to climb.
But flying takes falls. Dont let the numbers get in the way. The number is just a distraction.
💚💚💚💙💙💙💜💜💜
Got myself into hardship and I’m shifting between a drive to find a way to move past it and a place of fear and judgement over bad decisions. When you said “My gifts today was born out of my failures yesterday,” it moved me to tears. Thank you Lisa. I love you 🙏🏼🤍
Lisa, you have totally disrupted me this morning in my thinking 💭. I have never had anyone tell me that my loss is complete in a way that it is ok to move on. I have been trying to free myself from past relationships but not knowing how to do it has kept me in a cycle of confusion and depression. I have much to separate myself from now that I have a new mind set on how to move forward. Thank you for being my sister in prosperity because my mind has prospered this morning!
Blessings to you and your family,
Christine
Lisa, you have been such an inspiration and God sent to my life. I'm professional woman who once owed her own successful business, for over 17 years. After getting a divorce, I closed the business and took a 9 to 5 government job. I needed something more stable as i raise my 2 daughters. Now, my daughters are grown and doing well. However, I was recently released from my job after 19 years. Something in my spirit I knew it was time to go, however I stay on for the money and convenience. Now, I feel as if that journey is "COMPLETE"...because of what you've shared! I just want to say THANK YOU for helping to re-light the FIRE in my soul...in my spirit...in my heart! I know I'm destined to help lots of people and make a difference in the lives of many. YOU ROCK!!! PLEASE, KEEP OF THE GREAT WORK!!! BLESSINGS AND HUG, JOYCE S.
Oh my my, I learned a different perspective of looking at failures or loss. "I am complete" This perspective brings about closure, and readiness for the next chapter of life.
Couple the intuitive knowing with a plan. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Whooo!
“Take a chance on yourself at the risk of failing” whewww needed that one
Yessss…..BOL! I am standing on my story.
As long as I have watched your videos - this is the one I missed.
#BOL
I love the concept of turning "break up" into completing the relationship. I will use and share this🙄
Thanks Lisa you’ve help me confirm in my own mind that I stand on my past in order to move forward. I refuse to stand in it any longer.
Thanks Lisa for this breakthrough moment for me. I’ve been hurting for the longest time coz my husband left me when I needed him the most after completing my treatments for cancer. He just disappeared for a few days and when I managed to get a hold of him on the phone via sms he told me that he didn’t want me anymore. He had fallen in love with someone else and wanted to be with her. Now I get it that the time I had with him was complete; we had done and enjoyed through the years together and we re simply complete. It’s not a break up or a loss but an experience and life lessons that have completed. It’s time to forgive myself, forgive him and to bring the great lessons I’ve learnt forward. I love you Lisa and I cry listening to every videos you share.
Yes, Audrey! Your relationship was complete and now it is time to forgive in let go. I believe in you! Be blessed.
I love the emphasis on failing forward. What you said about failing means you were brave enough to take a leap and that when you fail a lot shows that you were up to having a big life, stood out to me. Thank you.
I love how you’re helping me to have a new mindset-a new way of thinking! Thinking positively, not taking “failures” as failures or “loses” as loses. But seeing everything as a divine experience to which you can appreciate and improve upon. Once you said don’t say “break up” say “complete” that was a BOL for me. It’s helping me to let go of someone who isn’t good for me and know that our experiences weren’t in vain. Thank you !
❤Lisa thanks. I didn't look at doubt that positive, girl! You have rescued me. This thing will never control my life again no...
See you is a joy and hope I admire you courageously , thank for your words
What a beautiful way of looking at the situations and relationships we dwell on negatively as a way of sweet release. Knowing and believing that even with an unsatisfied ending in your eyes it was needed to help you grow and develop a greater you.
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Justina so true, energy grows where energy goes!
succinct and beautiful. Thanks for this comment
Adorable!!!to the bone! So truthfull!!! Thanks a zillion Lisa!!
Lisa You bought faith to my doubt thanks #BOL#
Lisa thank you! I ADORE what you are doing! I cried buckets when you spoke about stepping in to your quest. I realise how I was not only teetering on the edge of the cliff, I was standing 10 yards back, spending all my time waiting for permission to be clever enough, good enough, inspiring enough, qualified enough. Now.... I wait no longer. I give myself that permission, I give myself that approval and I hold myself accountable to the person I want to become! Thank you Lisa
Lisa, I must say that I am soo blessed to hear you articulate what is in my heart about success and failure! It is by way of divine revelation that I understand failure to be necessary and a prerequisite for success. I love what you said about failure being an indication of how many areas you play full out in!! That is awesome and again such a confirmation of God's revelation to me! #Committedtoplayingfullout
Estifanos Berta-Samuel "failure a prerequisite to sucess" #BOL. That resonates with me on many deep levels...
Thank you for your words . They make my heart happy and I feel whole when I listen to you .
“We’re complete” changed everything. Those words allowed me to view ‘Break-ups’ in a new perceptive, in a positive way, to release all the hurt that I have allowed myself to dwell in. Now I understand how to let go completely and I will be able to do so. Thank you for your time and words ☺️
We are complete. That is so powerful.
also the part where you were talking ab having a structure plan for your passions. I’m a upcoming singer but I’ve never taken it seriously until now, until I realized everything I’m passionate ab you can be wrapped up in the this gift of mine. it’s not enough to say well this is what makes me feel good and I’m good at it so it’s has to work. No it’s going to take strategic planning, consistent effort and drive in order for my goals to come to fruition.
Lisa, another great hit. What's more, having just gotten through a serious bout of depression, self esteem crisis, and crutches, I've pulled out. My Landlord, of all people, saw my anomie and said, simply, "reach out and ask for help'. I did, and my family and friends have all stepped up to the plate in amazing ways. I haven't got a new purpose figured out yet, but I'm resolved to practice and speak only positive thoughts, even to myself. I will fail, and I will slip, but that's a first self-esteem goal I can be proud of becoming adept at. I like 'fail forward', that's an evocative thought!
Hii m from India.. really feel energetic everytime when I listen you...luv you and thank you
I have the information yet the doubt is still there. When I delved into the reason why, it came down to fear of failure. After what you said about loss, I had an ah ha moment. I have had so many losses in my business and relationships, and heart ache including PTSD from abusive relationships, that I am afraid to make a plan with the information I have available. When you said about loss and every moment as complete, struck a chord with me.I was looking at loss, failures, lessons I learned as a reflection of my self worth. You see as a little girl everytime I made a mistake, I was told I was good for nothing, stupid, and a bunch of other negative adjectives. So what I learned today is that I have to commit to falling in love with myself and celebrating my fail forwards because I dared to take action. As for my mistakes, they do not reflect my self-worth. They are simply lessons to learn to do better and bring joy into the future. It's been over 3 decades, so today I embrace that little girl and tell her "you are good for a lot of things and extremely smart and talented, congratulations on failing forward and making mistakes because success is around the corner regardless of your age.". Thanks for that ah ha moment
I needed this in my life; I am tired of holding back my brilliance for doubt. I just need to "fail forward", and love the journey, live my life living in my destiny. I got from this that part of my success is in the failures, but I have to be willing to leave my safety zone: it takes the out of ordinary to get the extraordinary!!!
Sometimes, I have pushed myself to change my focus, so I don't waste time on negativity. Once, I switch my focus to good energy, I feel so much better.
Aunt Lisa your videos pop at the perfect moment I'm greatful for you 🇿🇦
I must say, that you must become my daily vitamin. This is just another powerful message to live by. When people say it starts with your mindset, I struggle with that because I usually do not know how to respond, positively, during storms. I must continue to practice until I automatically look at "so-called" setbacks as opportunities to fail forward. Saying a relationship has come to completion instead of "we broke-up," is so so powerful...your quotes need to be put on bumper stickers fasho!
Thanks lisa i do admire your motivational words as you said words are power that's why i make sure to listen to you every single day 🙏🙏
Wow. #BOL!!! I had to pause on this part. You gave me such a beautiful insight on my doubt and it’s bc I don’t have all I need to start so I can I continue studying and working as I’m a single mom of a infant to make this dream and vision of mine come true. I’m a stay at home mom as well, working on ways to possibly put him in daycare part time so I can continue with my writing and deep passions to get this spark back inside. This has been the biggest challenge ever, I’ve never done this before. You have helped me greatly and have poured so much hope back inside of me. Thank you. This was my message, that “nugget” that tells me not to give up but to keep studying and working hard and when it’s time I’ll know it. To truly trust the process of it all. Much much Gratitude to you and yours. ⭐️🙏❤️
My moment of 🤔 was to stop saying the cliche term " we broke up." I've said that a few times in my life not realizing it was just simply complete...the relationship is simply complete! I'm still whole and so are they...I hope...lol. But, I know that I am. It's not what people say, but how they articulate what they say and you have the gift of speaking life to things in a way of real understanding. Thank you, Lisa! My virtual coach 4life!😊
You inspire me to be a more articulate speaker!
Hello from Bulgaria! I love you, Lisa! Thank you for all your videos, just amazing how lovely you are!
My BOL was around a number of things, but seeing loss as completion is freeing. Thanks!
I've been having an argument the same argument with my husband for years. Now I know that it should not be an argument but just a beautiful brilliant idea that I have to spare with others. And that's okay. I am taking that from this lesson thank you so much Lisa from my mending ❤
Thank you Lisa, you always deliver such powerful and enriching messages. "Fall forward", I adore that. Bigger planned risk, bigger planned gain!
#BOL
YES, YES Ms. Lisa! YES, YES!
My gifts were truly born from yesterday's failures. Or like I like to say..."There are no failures, there's only opportunity for growth!" And Lisa, "I'm a big girl now"
the part where you said- when you “lose” someone that doesn’t mean either one of you is lost, only that your experience with each other has ended. I lost someone I cared very deeply for, and since he’s been gone I’ve only ever felt like I didn’t have enough firm to get to know him, caught up in regret in not sound more time with him. Hearing this has allowed me to see our relationship in a new light, accepting that whatever we had was all that was meant for us, nothing more nothing less. It’s been hard to accept that I missed out on what could’ve been, but I have to accept nothing was stolen from me. I simple reached the end of our journey together, it only hurts so much bc I expected sm more. I think knowing this now going forward teaches me to just be and accept things for what they are instead of being let down by my own expectations.
I am in my focus of concern way too much..........I have avoided healthy conflict.......I also looked at speed bumps as stopped signs. Battling all now as to how can I get through the next 3 semesters in college all while living in a toxic environment.......Trying to focus on what I can change and more on who I am becoming and less on who I am slowly leaving behind.
Thank you Lisa Nichols for your words of wisdom. My BOL was realizing every person that has come into my life and who is no longer in my life was not a breakup! It was an experience that made me complete! This idea of "complete" changed every negative experience into a positive one for me! THANK YOU! Also you said, failure means I was brave enough to jump! I love this positive transition, because I feel encouraged to leap again!
#BOL “Doubt is in the planning of failure.”
Lisa I finally found the pattern 🤭 I love research. I spend copious amounts of time finding information but the execution of my desired results has been shaky. Self Doubt is the pattern. I believe in the facts; now I have to believe in my ability make my falls a setup for a come up, leap again, and fly.
Even the strongest break, and I appreciate your message! I took a chance at love, failed miserably ( loved a narcissist) it broke me for two reasons. When I thought I was whole, I wasn’t, because I would not have chose him. Secondly, my children, I failed by bringing the worst man around. I always hid it all from them, so this message is allowing me to forgive myself, celebrate that I’m stronger and that I was strong enough to get out. Strong enough to overcome the embarrassment.. I failed and I’m real uncomfortable with that, but I trust the process in my life.
And success is IRRELEVANT ! Yes Tessss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 BRAVOOOO
Abundant Blessings to you dear Lisa! Your teachings are life changing. You touched my heart and awakened my reality that although I know intellectually that conflict can be healthy, I allowed conflict to become a stop sign and not a speed bump!!! Thank God for opportunities for growth.
Thank you for your work. Am growing into my best version of me right now...
Loved the part about relationships. BOL! It just makes so much sense and takes away all the negativity out of the situation. Thank you Lisa 😀
Lisa , I must say i really have not looked about Doubt and Faith in this way.Thank you so much . I got power listening to your life story when I was broke.
Thank u for being my strength in my time of weakness!!!
"Is it really a failure, or it a really a lesson wrapped in sandpaper?" So eloquently stated! Thank you for your inspiration. Subscribed with bell notification.😍
I found my fortune when I found you, I hope I will be able to make you proud , when you say make a plan , for the fight, I have,I must get a word from you daily, Thanks for your episodes.now I know what my future looks like it is possible my decision is made I will do it afraid.until I win can I work not for food but for growth??? Yes !Yes!!! I am happy and grateful now that you take my doubt away I fail forward so many times .but you give me hope Thank you Lisa.YANA
Thank you Lisa! This video is exactly what I needed to hear! There so many gold nuggets in here. I’m still processing them all coz they’re all so juicy. So I am failing forward and choosing to stand on my past and not to be in it! and have a strategy following WITH my heart’s desires, not just following the good feeling. That was a huge AHA for me.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!
I love hearing you speak. I had to take a break from my college studies and turn to your videos to get some inspiration. I am on academic probation,and I am in my first semester,i have fallen behind and my deadline is in a few days. I work grave,i have health problems that make me exhausted constantly,and a household w children who constantly need me. I need some encouragement asap. I love u. I wish i could meet you Ms. Funding my dream 😊
This your home this is your tribe she says, mother darling I adore you💙💚💛🧡💜 I found my way back to me by finding lisa Nichols and my divine, and the entire universe ' s creator.
Thank you Lisa, I also went through a lot but your words give me hope that I can still rise up from what I've been through..
The "good feeling" of intuition won't last as long as I don't give effort to my intuition! #BOL
I can't even tell you how much this video helped me to have a new mindset and to see failure in a whole different way not as a setback but as a lesson that i must learn from and then move forward , I THANK YOU SO MUCH.
My darkness sees a bit of light today. Thank you
WOW! How I needed this lesson #BOL - I have been struggling with the loss of my mother, close friendships & business relationships -- and never would I have thought that the answer to my struggle is to accept that the cycle is completed and that WE (yes! yes!) are both complete. Today, I accept the relationships come to a completion & honor that at completion I'm not only complete BUT they are also complete too. Amen! I will forever remember this nugget and share it cause everyone experiences loss at some point in life! Thank you to my sister in prosperity and possibility #lisanichols
Lisa, I take so much inspiration in you and your words. I have a #BOL moment when you said "don't say we broke up, say we're complete". This is a truly beautiful way of expressing what, to many, is a time shrouded in just the things you've covered - doubt, hurt, self questioning. By instead reinforcing that your relationship with that person is complete, all the above is avoided, you maintain your self love, the threads of goodness that were part of that relationship and the positivity and presence to move forward. Loved this so much, thank you!
Lisa, I don't usually comment even though I watch your videos every day. Today I simply had to. What you said about relationships being complete brought tears to my eyes. I have been tourturing myself with feeling deep loss for all the friendships that didn't make it past college and loneliness with a weight I can barely breath under. Now I understand that I need to treasure what we had and view it as all it was meant to be. Now I can move on. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You.
It's good, benefit information
I just love what you do Lisa, and how passionate you are about helping others through your life experiences. #BOL you're so right when you say that 'failure' is not a bad thing and it needs to be celebrated, because it means you took a chance in life and now you have an opportunity to hit reset and try again. Im going to make sure that this time around and n my life I'm going to leap toward my dreams and not look back, and if I get it wrong so be it. You have to get it wrong before you can get it right.
Love you so much Lisa, and team!
Yannick Glover and just think... You did not get it wrong...you just got one step closer to your right!!!
Yannick Glover that is so true it’s never too late
LOVE this! #Reset! Thank you, Yannick! I believe in you! Take the leap!
#BOL DIDN'T SEE EPISODE BUT WHAT MICHAEL JUST SAID FOR VOLUME TO MY SOUL..
Yes YES‼️💞
Hello Lisa! You help me find the words to describe my feelings, my intuitions, my AHAs. Thank you, you are a blessing! I started following you when the “universe” directed me to your video on the types of relationships months ago. And even at the time I still haven’t fully understood it. Now when you said, know that it (relationship) is COMPLETE instead of broken, failure, separated ways and even the word finished. I think when you say finished it lacks commitment and you did it because of just compliance. But when you say complete, there was a purpose. And it’s complete period. It can be a chapter in your book of life. Or the whole book itself. So you either write another chapter or just totally put that book in your shelf because it is complete and write another, totally different book. Continue to inspire others my sister in possibilities and prosperity! 🙏🏼😊
#BOL 'give your fear the permission to be with you while you walk, you'll never worry again how to over on fear'. Thank you Adorable LISA NICHOLS. This right on time for me, since I am creating a new relationship with money as a wife.
Leap and the net will appear, just have no expectations of what the net will look like. I've used this motto in my life and realized the harder the fall, the more spiritual growth and soul evolution took place. I love your message. Keep shining sweet Sister!
Lisa your videos move me in ways I cannot explain. I’ve needed to hear this message as I’ve been struggling with overcoming fear and leaning into my intuitive pull. I now know that my fear is simply a way of telling myself that I need to do more research and collect more information. I plan on spending more time collecting information to help accomplish my goals as well as strongly leaning on my faith. I know by doing those two things I’ll have the necessary tools to be the woman I am destined to be. Thank you, Lisa!
We didn't break up. We are complete, beautiful! I so needed to hear this video today. Thank you Lisa for your infinite wisdom!
Thank you for this. I will certainly need to listen and take notes. I'm feeling all of this 100%
Lisa, recently I was very confused and I am lost. I totally experiencing those things that you discussed and you know what I made the right decision of watching your video. I realized so many things “Fail Forward” that’s my favorite line. Thank you for inspiring people/us.
Lisa mam, thank you so much for your valuable words, I am so happy to see this new side of things which I thought it didn't even existed...
LISA! I have watched this several times but today I got my #BOL "maybe your speed bump, became a stop sign" Lisa, i need to go back to practise my Road sign recognition!! Sometimes the little bump feels like a life threatening injury, especially when it's in relationship over foundational issues that keep repeating like ground-hog day!! HOWEVER-I am just beginning in my understanding of recognising the difference between a bump and a stop. And dealing with my emotions in the Chaos. Thank you for speaking HOPE into my situation. You are a blessing to my life! Much Love, Chelle xxx
#BOL I have to remember who I am!!!!!! My setbacks made me doubt myself but I am here for a reason!!!!! Thank you!!!!
Loving You Everyday Lisa those relationships that are gone in my life are complete it hurts but we did what we needed to do now its time to move on. I thought I had moved on but I needed your wisdom Apreci-Love Jag Bless Psalms 68:4
#BOL!!!!! I have been seeing this man for a couple of months and I'm smitten... It's about to get interesting I'm a Mexican Jew and he's black raised in the south... Now I'm from Aurora Co and I've never met a man like Chris the more time I spend with him the more I get attached thank you for smashing any doubt about me and him. No more fear no more doubt
Just what I Needed to stop doubting a confrontation I had with a Senior family member. It was after that ugly moment I stumbled upon You and the Tribe. She told me to get ok with my Self but never told me how. Tho we have not spoken I know that Moment was needed. Thank You Sis.
#BOL!!!! "...My Gift Today Was Born Out Of My Failures Of Yesterday..." This phrase resonates perfectly with me. Sometimes I get caught up in trying to be perfect in everything I come across, and try to run away from failure.
Thank you for sharing on how I should embrace failure and focus on the three good areas and two areas of improvement.
Phew! I am so relieved...