Thank you sir for this. Have been in a long distance relationship/ marriage for the last 6 years now although we make sure to spend time with each other physically yearly and by the grace of God this year will be the end to this distance. It hasnt been easy but our communication is very strong and we always pray together and for each other. Cant wait to finally be with the love of my life
I dont actually agree that it doesn't last when both partners come together, it depends on the individual. If you are creative at distance then you can do great when you both are together. Infact it has been proven that sometimes people need short space to rekindle their love because those who stay continually get bored a times with each other.
@@radhiyamwaugali7175 honestly I would say that it is Our faith in God that is still keeping us strong. We don’t play with spending quality time together virtually . We talk on video at least 1 hour everyday and continue to text or voice call throughout the day, our policy is apart from God we are first in each other’s life before anyone or anything else’s ,We know each other routine .Another thing we do is no matter what we always try and spend time together physically every year and when we spend time together we try to just make up for lost time. Yes plane ticket is expensive because we live in two different countries but losing each other is more expensive. And do not underestimate the power of talking about your spouse, if you are in a long distance relationship and nobody knows then there is a problem. Finally we pray every other day, we share what we are going through and pray for each other and for our relationship.
I feel like this video is for me. I belong to the third category. Doing my PhD in medical school in United States and my fiancee is in Nigeria. He has my time zone and there's two things I do; School and communicating with him. He loves talking and we spend two hours of his sleeping time talking and video calling. He's joining me by the end of the year for us to wed here and we've been together for four years. LDR comes effortlessly for me probably because we discuss everything and most esp we've been celibate all our lives. He enjoys reading my homework & presentation even when he has no idea of pediatric infectious diseases and we pray together sometimes. Honestly, it takes intentionality to keep LDR
I'm the same too my girlfriend is from Kenya we have been together for two years now and we are looking forward to getting married this year in September we spend a lot of time talking and video calling despite the time zone but we love each other very deeply
LDR becomes fun when you really understand your partner. I had lots of issue but i found a better way to communicate my feelings. Through couple questions games, where you add your preferences, next your partner has to guess. Lovify being my personal favorite, we got to know a lot about each other :)
I didn't know when tears almost ran down my chicks, it's really not being easy at all, honestly, I thank God for the wonderful daughter of his, he blessed me with. it is not easy. It is been God, & he alone deserves all praise, & It is soon ending by his grace.
I'm meeting my fiancé whom I met online 6 months ago for the first time today. I'm happy to say that we've established all the points in this video before it's release. We love listening to PK and PM and we've learned a lot along the way. Thank you so much sir.
One of the things I love about Pastor Okonkwo is, he practices practical Christianity. Anyone can relate to his uncommonly good teaching styles. Truly, Pastor Kingsley is God's gift to the world. The burden of long distance relationship is easing due to internet and other social media platforms. Being in a long distance relationship without plans to quickly bring the relationship in the real world is very dangerous for the head and the heart. Because, when it comes to LDR, face-to-face is better than Facebook
😭😭😭Can I just cry here? The distance ehhn can be so difficult sometimes, wish my fiancé can watch, these are things I have been trying to say. Thank you pastor K
Never knew I can handle a long distance relationship...but now I'm doing is successful and I can say that I love it. And thank you sir for your teachings so far
Ahhh ahhhh I don’t know if my heart can take long distance relationships, I’ll worry to much 🥺. I’d rather have someone I can smell and hug whenever I want to, atleast the same country. You’ve made me understand that I’m this way because my love language is quality time…….
Sir, i agree with you, LDR isnt easy, i remember texting you over the challenges i was facing in the first few months, 2 years down and i was out. Yes we had a firm foundation, 5 years in a relationship and he relocated out of the country, 2 years in LDR and we were totally two different people, not to discourage anyone but LDR is not for boys for true, its for Men, you can do it at your own risk.
I never really thought I would be in a long distance relationship but it sort of found me Pastor Kingsley. It's been 3 years plus now and you bare right it's tough and hard work. It's been topsy turvey attimes...We really need prayers and advice on this...I never thought the love of my life will be in a long distant...it's well
LDR is challenging but worth it with teh right person. Was in unplanned LDR situation for almost 2 years cause of pandemic. I’m grateful that I’m finally with him now and married a little over a month ago 🥰
Great to watch...... handling a long distance relationship at the moment too.......not so Rosy to have him out of sight though...lol.....but we have both been doing well with communication......most times, we stay together on video call when he is to cook, from start to finish, talk about Sunday service experience, he handles some online stuffs for me.....he has access to my mail..........and yeah, LDR is expensive.....lol....data must be available.....I pray to join him soon and just tie this knot......lol....I love man......thanks for sharing sir
I'm blessed with this, as a sailor being away from your partner is something you have to work on due to life at sea but with this video and God I'm sure we will make it if we for sure agree to work on it and be disciplined. Thanks 🙏
God bless you pastor K, I'm in the third group of long distance relationship too, and my partner has been amazing with all the points above. Thanks Dee I love you
Honestly long distance relationship takes a lot of hardwork. I was in a happy relationship before I traveled out, Apparently we both could not keep these golden rules you highlighted. I can totally relate.
We did video calls like a huge part of the day and had meals together.. its hard work but if you invest in the relationship you will be able to maintain the relationship or even make it better when you finally reunite.. Put God First
Thanks you Sir , for the teaching Have been in a long distance relationship for 4years now officially....we see one’s in a year ( 2months out of 12months) It has not been easy...A lot of sacrifices ve been made, we did our introduction January 2022... Praying to God for his perfection in our life, n for d end of d Distance too Thank Sir
This video is really necessary in this day and age of everyone trying to check out of Nigeria. I feel like more and more Nigerians are in one way or another ending up in this boat as people go for further studies abroad or migrating for better job opportunities
Being searching for this for a long time now...came right in time...I really will love to watch the interview with the couple that were in a long distance relationship....PK you really are a blessing to the body...more grace Sir
Hi Pastor K and Pastor M, Thank you so much for investing in people's lives. You guys are blessing to this generation. I became your fan through my wife. I have enjoyed your teachings. I just finished listening to the video of those young couples. Although we have been married for 8years now. I was still blessed by the testimony. We were on a long distance to but ours was the third one. I started dating before I left Nigeria to UK, although ours went for 5years, but in that 5years we kept the communication going. I use to call her twice a day everyday for those years. Also I would go to Nigeria every other year to see her. For me COMMUNICATION is one of the biggest key to a successful long distance relationship but I will not advised even my worst enemy to go into it except if necessary. So thank you for sharing. Just thought I share my own experiences too. God bless you sir
Thank you sir for this......I just got out of a rough Long distance....I've realized my mistake.....there was no planned end for us over 5 years still isn't back and he even has a child....this is very insightful
5 years, way too long even in a face to face relationship of 3-4 years; a waste of time. Minimum 2 yrs. Most know within first 6-9 months. Reason they already been through the learning process and have made a decision, and now ready and mature.
Thank you Sir. I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm glad we both are practicing the five steps you mentioned. Like you said it's not easy, however we have to put in the work.
Thanks you sir. I have added more to what I have. The truth is that I'm a serious relationship we communicate every day like in the morning and some times at noon and at night. My woman is a designer sometimes I followed her to church to market to shop even eat together etc. I have not mate her physically but the truth is that I love what is happening around me and I have learn to be open transparent and trust worthy to her. I live with friends and following the information about praying together is what I need to find a way to it because it lacking since we don't do it together. I find out she love it when I adore her and call her sweet names. Sometimes when she is going somewhere we do talk on audio call because it seems she is showing off or something that is what I don't normally do but from now I will add it in our discussion so that we both will know how to handle it. Throughly I'm blessed listening to your words of advice. God bless you sir.
Thank you so much for this PK. This is encouraging for me who has been in my current long distance relationship (LDR) for 8 months now after my last failed LDR in 2020. My ex went off to marry a colleague at her office after I had introduced her to my parents...loool. Not like I was a bad boyfriend, she always kept saying I wasn't the one at fault...😂😂. And funny thing is she used to attend DCC when we were together. I don't know if she still does since she's married now. However, everything you have said is what we've been implementing in my present relationship and it's working really well. It's been quite difficult, but thank God for such an understanding woman He has given me. We even share activities including our devotions in the morning. I also make sure that every morning, I send her a note of prayer or a love note. That's how it has been for the last 8 months. Nevertheless, I'm already finalising plans to move to her location before I hear another story that touch...lol. It's not been easy but we have survived thus far. Glory to God. I'll be updating this comment when we finally get married. Thank you PK.
Dropping this comment too so I can be updated too 💁🏽♀️ Sorry about your ex, good job with your relationship and may God bless you both and keep you.. Goodluck with your relocation plans too ❤️❤️
In a long distance by mistake,.followed a job opportunity that some how regret. But this message has encouraged me to keep praying that the distance comes to an end.
I'm feel blessed 🙌🏿 I av been in a long distance relations for 4 years now without physically touching my boyfriend. We talk almost every time on the phone but we are hoping that we don't have to separate after all this affort; God help us all please.
If you're going to do long distance, have money ... Data is not cheap, all the video calls and phone calls, and other things inclusive... Relationships become alot easier when the resources are there and available
I needed to hear this 5 months ago... I'm glad to know that we're on the right path anyway. My partner and I agreed to talk everyday, and by God's grace, we've kept to it. If you're watching this and you're in a relationship like this, take this advice seriously. Living it, and Pastor K is 100% on track.
Am so blessed coming across this video. Am about to enter into long distance relationship and am confused about it. But this video settles all confusion. Thank you so much sir. Am blessed 🙏
You will b fine. Once you n your partner decide that you two want each other, and you pray about it and involve God in your relationship , it will work out well .
I have been in a long distance relationship with my soulmate and we been together non psychically yet for almost two years but by the grace of God we will be together happily married hopefully by 2022
I feel guilty and laugh soo hard when He says "don't look at me like that. You are the one who signed up for this"! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 God bless you Sir. Each session of yours is a blessing 🙌
Honestly sir I was praying so that you will make a video on long distance relationship and here I connected to the internet, it was the first notification from UA-cam that popped up, God bless you sir.!!! I need it now, cause am in one
Thank you Pst Kingsley! I just got off a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. Our communication wasn't really good tho... Twas boring sort of... Thank you for this video! ❤️&💡
Long distance relationships are not difficult to handle, you just need to 1= communicate through phone calls, whatsapp and video calls 2= You just need to be transparent and for any appointment you cannot meet, inform the person as earlier as possible for whatever reason. This is not too much.
Have u met sm1 who can't hold conversations, boring, always have negative thoughts and expecting the effort to be mutual even when u as the guy always have a hectic day.....like it's just a mess, I pray not to regret starting this cos it has begin to be love out of pity, I av totally fall out of love just can't run out #i_need_help
@@zayyadabdulazeez439 oops, please get her educated on your LDR professionally preferably. And if possible you can both talk about it, and be realistic about what you both want. From there, you'll both know what to do or how to go about it. All the best.
I'm currently in a long distance relationship that has lasted for almost 2 years now and it's been rocky lately..Thank you for this video You just saved our relationship God bless you
Thank you Pastor K! I've been in a long distance for almost 3 years. I'm ok, but my life partner is quite difficult. He is definitely ready for us to meet in person. We video chat and talk as much as we can. But I'm looking forward to traveling to Nigeria this year. I thank God for us being transparent , disciplined and able to communicate. We will definitely have to add things that we can do together.
wow so encouraging, been in a long distance relationship for over a year and God has kept us strong we are excited for a future when we can be close, grateful for this season of individual and relational growth , this relationship has taught me not to give up and to remain intentional ❤🙏
I’ve always thought that it will not work But after listening to you I’m confident I can do it and it will work if we both decide to do the work This is so informative and educative Thank you pastor Kingsley 🙏🙏
I have been in long distance relationship with my husband and at first it was not easy because we couldn't handle and control our imontions I could spend long time crying when I could think of him but WHEN WE STARTED PRAYING TOGETHER WE BECAME HAPPIER Thaks to Jesus
The don’t look at me like that is making me laugh and at the same time feeling guilty. Thank you pastor you’ve been a blessing to me. Anytime I watch your video. The is transformation in my life
Thanks very much for this sincere heart advice I'm currently in a distance relationship. May God Almighty help me to apply this powerful ideas to sustain my marriage before it breaks beyond repair thank you pastor Kingsley.
Thank you so much for this knowledge sir. I'm actually in a LDR and in second category. Really glad myself and the lolm have established most of the points stated by PK. I'm always blessed by your teaching sir. God bless 🙌
Infact P.K ...you are God sent. I have been on a crossed road on this matter for sometime now. I have been married for almost 13yrs now and I have never stayed apart from my hubby but the immigration wind has been blowing and my hubby is so interested in it..I am so scared because my love language is more of act of service and quality time...not sure i will do well in a foreign land. But with what I have heard today..hmmm we need to reconsider ooo. God bless you for us...
I am in the third category and it’s hella hard cos we were close initially before the long distance had to happen. In addition to chatting everyday, we call each other spontaneously. I also take pics and send to him whenever I am out and about so I can provide as much transparency as possible. We see each other once or twice a month cos we stay in different states. I am 3 hours away by flight but the plane tickets ain’t cheap 🤣. However, we have resolved that we are important to each other so we gotta put in the work! Anyways, I am low key looking for a job in his state of residence cos I need this distance removed.
Thanks Pastor Kingsley, this is so apt, God bless you. Long distance relationship is hard! Love languages are hard to speak from a distance sincerely. Bottom line is marriage is not ideally supposed to be from a distance,however we want to look at it.
This is beyond my expectations. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was absolutely astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
I have being in a love distance relationship for 5years...married for 3years...it has not being easy but our strong point is discipline ...we don't attend functions that make each other feel insecured...we try to communicate as often as possible....that point that it different when you actually stay together physical is so true.
Sir get out my conversation! Lol I am currently in a long distance relationship and we do mostly all these things he can call anything but he’s respectful enough to send a message when he knows I’m sleeping. But I was talking to a lady and she laughed at the fact I choose to be faithful to someone in another country. I suppose that’s why she’s alone! It’s work indeed but God gives me strength and the long distance won’t be forever! Blessings
Hi l got my relationship was fixed back again with the help of a great man my ex is back to me we loving and happily together again after many years of separation, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 48 hours.
Papa, I think it's not just about giving your partner details to make them earn your trust. Permit me to switch to pidgin: "If the person like make im carry CCTV for body dey waka, person wey no wan trust you no go trust you". Trust is a DECISION you make the moment you start courting / dating.
1) communication
2) transparency
3) shared activities, 4) discipline, 5) planned end
Thank you sir for this. Have been in a long distance relationship/ marriage for the last 6 years now although we make sure to spend time with each other physically yearly and by the grace of God this year will be the end to this distance. It hasnt been easy but our communication is very strong and we always pray together and for each other. Cant wait to finally be with the love of my life
Please how do you do it cos my wife to be is being transferred and I would love to learn from you so we can make it work
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I dont actually agree that it doesn't last when both partners come together, it depends on the individual. If you are creative at distance then you can do great when you both are together. Infact it has been proven that sometimes people need short space to rekindle their love because those who stay continually get bored a times with each other.
@@radhiyamwaugali7175 honestly I would say that it is Our faith in God that is still keeping us strong. We don’t play with spending quality time together virtually . We talk on video at least 1 hour everyday and continue to text or voice call throughout the day, our policy is apart from God we are first in each other’s life before anyone or anything else’s ,We know each other routine .Another thing we do is no matter what we always try and spend time together physically every year and when we spend time together we try to just make up for lost time. Yes plane ticket is expensive because we live in two different countries but losing each other is more expensive. And do not underestimate the power of talking about your spouse, if you are in a long distance relationship and nobody knows then there is a problem.
Finally we pray every other day, we share what we are going through and pray for each other and for our relationship.
I feel like this video is for me. I belong to the third category. Doing my PhD in medical school in United States and my fiancee is in Nigeria. He has my time zone and there's two things I do; School and communicating with him. He loves talking and we spend two hours of his sleeping time talking and video calling. He's joining me by the end of the year for us to wed here and we've been together for four years. LDR comes effortlessly for me probably because we discuss everything and most esp we've been celibate all our lives. He enjoys reading my homework & presentation even when he has no idea of pediatric infectious diseases and we pray together sometimes. Honestly, it takes intentionality to keep LDR
I wish you the best dearie.
I'm the same too my girlfriend is from Kenya we have been together for two years now and we are looking forward to getting married this year in September we spend a lot of time talking and video calling despite the time zone but we love each other very deeply
How does he handle his sexual life
Good video I love this communion.
Llll
I am glad...the passed weeks have been crazy, long distance is not for the faint hearted and requires work and effort! CHAI!
😂😂
Bring your phone along to the event! 😂😂😂 You are the one who committed yourself to LDR!
LDR becomes fun when you really understand your partner. I had lots of issue but i found a better way to communicate my feelings. Through couple questions games, where you add your preferences, next your partner has to guess. Lovify being my personal favorite, we got to know a lot about each other :)
'Go with your phone to that event 😂😂😂'
Past. K, you make learning about relationships very easy and practical.
LDM is a blessing 🙌 🙏
I didn't know when tears almost ran down my chicks, it's really not being easy at all, honestly, I thank God for the wonderful daughter of his, he blessed me with. it is not easy. It is been God, & he alone deserves all praise, & It is soon ending by his grace.
I can't peck u on ur Cheek Baby, cus i'm far😭😭😭😭
Please we need a video of how to handle ourselves when we are finally together after a LDR.. God bless u, sir.
I second this!
I too
I agree too
I third this 🙋
Yes I agree with you
Thank you for this Sir. Just got into a long distance relationship from being Physical..🥺🥺..But I trust God to keep us together. Amen
I'm meeting my fiancé whom I met online 6 months ago for the first time today. I'm happy to say that we've established all the points in this video before it's release. We love listening to PK and PM and we've learned a lot along the way. Thank you so much sir.
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People fall in love to whom they pray, with whom they pray and for whom they pray 🙏🏾
Whom we pray it will help
One of the things I love about Pastor Okonkwo is, he practices practical Christianity. Anyone can relate to his uncommonly good teaching styles.
Truly, Pastor Kingsley is God's gift to the world.
The burden of long distance relationship is easing due to internet and other social media platforms.
Being in a long distance relationship without plans to quickly bring the relationship in the real world is very dangerous for the head and the heart.
Because, when it comes to LDR, face-to-face is better than Facebook
😭😭😭Can I just cry here? The distance ehhn can be so difficult sometimes, wish my fiancé can watch, these are things I have been trying to say. Thank you pastor K
You can share it to him
Yes dear, share it
@@nanaabenadarkowaah1800❤️ i did, I pray he watches
@@missrichy664❤️ oh I did, I pray he watches 🙏
Same here 😌😌
Long distance relationships is serious work...God will strengthen us!
Amen
Amen
Never knew I can handle a long distance relationship...but now I'm doing is successful and I can say that I love it. And thank you sir for your teachings so far
Ahhh ahhhh I don’t know if my heart can take long distance relationships, I’ll worry to much 🥺. I’d rather have someone I can smell and hug whenever I want to, atleast the same country. You’ve made me understand that I’m this way because my love language is quality time…….
I feel you girl💔
This so me....
Sir, i agree with you, LDR isnt easy, i remember texting you over the challenges i was facing in the first few months, 2 years down and i was out. Yes we had a firm foundation, 5 years in a relationship and he relocated out of the country, 2 years in LDR and we were totally two different people, not to discourage anyone but LDR is not for boys for true, its for Men, you can do it at your own risk.
And it's not for girls it's for women.
I never imagined in my life to be in one, but am in one and sacrifice is the key word. Thank you pastor K
I never really thought I would be in a long distance relationship but it sort of found me Pastor Kingsley. It's been 3 years plus now and you bare right it's tough and hard work. It's been topsy turvey attimes...We really need prayers and advice on this...I never thought the love of my life will be in a long distant...it's well
You are hitting all the points Sir. Long distance requires sacrifice and commitment. I am currently in one..
God bless you PK 🙌🏽
LDR is challenging but worth it with teh right person. Was in unplanned LDR situation for almost 2 years cause of pandemic. I’m grateful that I’m finally with him now and married a little over a month ago 🥰
Great to watch...... handling a long distance relationship at the moment too.......not so Rosy to have him out of sight though...lol.....but we have both been doing well with communication......most times, we stay together on video call when he is to cook, from start to finish, talk about Sunday service experience, he handles some online stuffs for me.....he has access to my mail..........and yeah, LDR is expensive.....lol....data must be available.....I pray to join him soon and just tie this knot......lol....I love man......thanks for sharing sir
I'm blessed with this, as a sailor being away from your partner is something you have to work on due to life at sea but with this video and God I'm sure we will make it if we for sure agree to work on it and be disciplined. Thanks 🙏
Awwn, am dating someone in that line of career, we blessed.
I feel you brother, placing God in it is amazing and with dicpline it will definitely work well.onward together brother Ahoy!!
God bless you
putting in d work is everything
I’m blessed sir! Thanks for sharing this message
I got this “If you are not faithful in relationship, you can’t be faithful in marriage”
"Other voices start talking to your spouse when your voice is absent"👌👌👌
God bless you pastor K, I'm in the third group of long distance relationship too, and my partner has been amazing with all the points above. Thanks Dee I love you
Honestly long distance relationship takes a lot of hardwork.
I was in a happy relationship before I traveled out,
Apparently we both could not keep these golden rules you highlighted.
I can totally relate.
do you need help on how to get her back I know of a very powerful man of God that can help you out message him now for help.
We did video calls like a huge part of the day and had meals together.. its hard work but if you invest in the relationship you will be able to maintain the relationship or even make it better when you finally reunite.. Put God First
Its 17:00 till the end for me. Top notch and raw truth. Raw truth!
Thanks you Sir , for the teaching
Have been in a long distance relationship for 4years now officially....we see one’s in a year ( 2months out of 12months)
It has not been easy...A lot of sacrifices ve been made,
we did our introduction January 2022... Praying to God for his perfection in our life, n for d end of d Distance too
Thank Sir
This video is really necessary in this day and age of everyone trying to check out of Nigeria. I feel like more and more Nigerians are in one way or another ending up in this boat as people go for further studies abroad or migrating for better job opportunities
I strongly agree to this!
So true
Wonderful! I love where Pastor K, said why are u looking at me like that. You are d one who signed in for long distance relationship. Smiles!
Literally screaming..hahahaha I love this.. I'm in a long distance relationship and this was what was needed.. 😆😆😆
Thanks pastor K, I just broke up from my long distance relationship! Didn't know I was dating myself all along...it really hurts
I feel you sis!
the end prayer was so needed. Thank you so much
Being searching for this for a long time now...came right in time...I really will love to watch the interview with the couple that were in a long distance relationship....PK you really are a blessing to the body...more grace Sir
We need interviews with successful people in a long distance relationship especially how they handle their sexual life
Aptly said, Pastor. PK. It's never an easy journey to be in a LDR.... Intentionality and been disciplined makes it easier. Thank you pastor PK.
Hi Pastor K and Pastor M, Thank you so much for investing in people's lives. You guys are blessing to this generation. I became your fan through my wife. I have enjoyed your teachings. I just finished listening to the video of those young couples. Although we have been married for 8years now. I was still blessed by the testimony. We were on a long distance to but ours was the third one. I started dating before I left Nigeria to UK, although ours went for 5years, but in that 5years we kept the communication going. I use to call her twice a day everyday for those years. Also I would go to Nigeria every other year to see her. For me COMMUNICATION is one of the biggest key to a successful long distance relationship but I will not advised even my worst enemy to go into it except if necessary. So thank you for sharing. Just thought I share my own experiences too. God bless you sir
I need advice on how to handle your sexual life
Thank you sir for this......I just got out of a rough Long distance....I've realized my mistake.....there was no planned end for us over 5 years still isn't back and he even has a child....this is very insightful
5 years, way too long even in a face to face relationship of 3-4 years; a waste of time. Minimum 2 yrs. Most know within first 6-9 months. Reason they already been through the learning process and have made a decision, and now ready and mature.
Thank you Sir. I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm glad we both are practicing the five steps you mentioned.
Like you said it's not easy, however we have to put in the work.
Have been in it for so long that am use to it ,it requires hard work. Commitment, communication and faithfulness and trust
Thanks so much for this message, I am currently in a long distance relationship for 6 years now, l pray I come out of it soon.
Thanks you sir. I have added more to what I have. The truth is that I'm a serious relationship we communicate every day like in the morning and some times at noon and at night. My woman is a designer sometimes I followed her to church to market to shop even eat together etc. I have not mate her physically but the truth is that I love what is happening around me and I have learn to be open transparent and trust worthy to her. I live with friends and following the information about praying together is what I need to find a way to it because it lacking since we don't do it together. I find out she love it when I adore her and call her sweet names. Sometimes when she is going somewhere we do talk on audio call because it seems she is showing off or something that is what I don't normally do but from now I will add it in our discussion so that we both will know how to handle it. Throughly I'm blessed listening to your words of advice. God bless you sir.
8 years and I still get blessed each time I listen to you🙏🏾
Thank you for marrying a woman that is a role model to many daddy. Much love for you and mummy from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲
Thank you so much for this PK. This is encouraging for me who has been in my current long distance relationship (LDR) for 8 months now after my last failed LDR in 2020.
My ex went off to marry a colleague at her office after I had introduced her to my parents...loool.
Not like I was a bad boyfriend, she always kept saying I wasn't the one at fault...😂😂. And funny thing is she used to attend DCC when we were together. I don't know if she still does since she's married now.
However, everything you have said is what we've been implementing in my present relationship and it's working really well. It's been quite difficult, but thank God for such an understanding woman He has given me.
We even share activities including our devotions in the morning. I also make sure that every morning, I send her a note of prayer or a love note. That's how it has been for the last 8 months.
Nevertheless, I'm already finalising plans to move to her location before I hear another story that touch...lol. It's not been easy but we have survived thus far. Glory to God.
I'll be updating this comment when we finally get married.
Thank you PK.
Dropping this comment too so I can be updated too 💁🏽♀️ Sorry about your ex, good job with your relationship and may God bless you both and keep you.. Goodluck with your relocation plans too ❤️❤️
@@Wanny4show amen...that's so kind of you. Thank you so much...😊. And yes, you will surely be updated.🤗
This is beautiful...thanks for putting in the work.
@@victoriaijeomalekwa1615 🙂...thank you.
Awwwn congratulations 🎉 in advance
In a long distance by mistake,.followed a job opportunity that some how regret. But this message has encouraged me to keep praying that the distance comes to an end.
I'm feel blessed 🙌🏿
I av been in a long distance relations for 4 years now without physically touching my boyfriend. We talk almost every time on the phone but we are hoping that we don't have to separate after all this affort; God help us all please.
I pray so ooo 🙏
If you're going to do long distance, have money ... Data is not cheap, all the video calls and phone calls, and other things inclusive...
Relationships become alot easier when the resources are there and available
SMH
I needed to hear this 5 months ago... I'm glad to know that we're on the right path anyway. My partner and I agreed to talk everyday, and by God's grace, we've kept to it.
If you're watching this and you're in a relationship like this, take this advice seriously. Living it, and Pastor K is 100% on track.
I love you so much my pastors
You have a daughter from Uganda 🇺🇬
Am so blessed coming across this video. Am about to enter into long distance relationship and am confused about it. But this video settles all confusion. Thank you so much sir. Am blessed 🙏
You will b fine. Once you n your partner decide that you two want each other, and you pray about it and involve God in your relationship , it will work out well .
I have been in a long distance relationship with my soulmate and we been together non psychically yet for almost two years but by the grace of God we will be together happily married hopefully by 2022
⏮⏮±2349047831758⏭⏭ Hello it's work I can't believe am with my lover again message her she can you too ..........,,,
God bless you sir. Who else is feeling the don't look at me like that
I feel guilty and laugh soo hard when He says "don't look at me like that. You are the one who signed up for this"! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
God bless you Sir. Each session of yours is a blessing 🙌
Hahahahaaa, you're not alone Sis!
Loan me some of the lessons you've learnt so far...
Loan me some of the lessons you've learnt so far...
He even said it twice 😅😂
👆👆👆👆 helped me spy my partner's remotely without his knowledge, I can access all his messages and chats through my device
I follow you from Zambia and your videos bless me alot. Thank you and God bless you Pastor.
Honestly sir I was praying so that you will make a video on long distance relationship and here I connected to the internet, it was the first notification from UA-cam that popped up, God bless you sir.!!! I need it now, cause am in one
Thank you Pst Kingsley!
I just got off a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. Our communication wasn't really good tho... Twas boring sort of... Thank you for this video!
❤️&💡
Long distance relationships are not difficult to handle, you just need to
1= communicate through phone calls, whatsapp and video calls
2= You just need to be transparent and for any appointment you cannot meet, inform the person as earlier as possible for whatever reason. This is not too much.
Not difficult Humm🙄, I believe ure not in it, or ure a man that loves your space so much.
I thought so but eventually that wasn't enough for my hubby
Have u met sm1 who can't hold conversations, boring, always have negative thoughts and expecting the effort to be mutual even when u as the guy always have a hectic day.....like it's just a mess, I pray not to regret starting this cos it has begin to be love out of pity, I av totally fall out of love just can't run out
#i_need_help
How do you handle your sexual life
@@zayyadabdulazeez439 oops, please get her educated on your LDR professionally preferably. And if possible you can both talk about it, and be realistic about what you both want. From there, you'll both know what to do or how to go about it.
All the best.
Thank you for your advice. The best bit… are you capable of handling it? Soo overlooked. Know thyself first. 🙏🏻
Indeed faithfulness is always an issue but through God's Grace am still moving forward,thanks a lot 🥺
I'm currently in a long distance relationship that has lasted for almost 2 years now and it's been rocky lately..Thank you for this video
You just saved our relationship
God bless you
Communication is the key for all relationships.
This was a great one,thank you
I swear this Is so heard... and yes shared activities is amazing.
Thank you Pastor K! I've been in a long distance for almost 3 years. I'm ok, but my life partner is quite difficult. He is definitely ready for us to meet in person. We video chat and talk as much as we can. But I'm looking forward to traveling to Nigeria this year. I thank God for us being transparent , disciplined and able to communicate. We will definitely have to add things that we can do together.
Thanks Pst Kingsley, I love the shared activities part. Makes you get to know your partner's reaction in situations
The most sensible thought on this subject I have seen on UA-cam
Sir, thank you for addressing this issue.
It's a big thing of concern.
Free source of emotional heartaches
wow so encouraging, been in a long distance relationship for over a year and God has kept us strong we are excited for a future when we can be close, grateful for this season of individual and relational growth , this relationship has taught me not to give up and to remain intentional ❤🙏
Kingsley you are just like me. I usually save my gist, for sure I don't have stories for daily chats
May God strength you both to do more of his work pst k and pst Mrs Mildred 🙏🙏🙏🙏 thanks for this great message
Thank you sir.... My fiance and I are blessed...
That's amazing.... Thank you so much Sir and God bless you.
I’ve always thought that it will not work
But after listening to you I’m confident I can do it and it will work if we both decide to do the work
This is so informative and educative
Thank you pastor Kingsley 🙏🙏
I have been in long distance relationship with my husband and at first it was not easy because we couldn't handle and control our imontions I could spend long time crying when I could think of him but WHEN WE STARTED PRAYING TOGETHER WE BECAME HAPPIER Thaks to Jesus
Thanks I feel much better I can do it
This is so helpful.
Thanks Pastor K
The don’t look at me like that is making me laugh and at the same time feeling guilty. Thank you pastor you’ve been a blessing to me. Anytime I watch your video. The is transformation in my life
in d_
This video is for me, God bless you sir its well with my relationship in Jesus name Amen.
Thanks very much for this sincere heart advice I'm currently in a distance relationship. May God Almighty help me to apply this powerful ideas to sustain my marriage before it breaks beyond repair thank you pastor Kingsley.
It been 9years and we're still moving I can't wait to be in His arms with our kids this year or next
You have been a blessing in more ways than one. Thanks for helping me sustain love in my marriage
I'm blessed 🥰, I've missed your teachings dear MENTOR. MORE WISDOM KNOWLEDGE AND UNDERSTANDING SIR 👑.
You're a blessings to this generation, thank you for all you do 🙏🙏
Thank you so much pastor for this powerful teaching, I m in a long distance relationship, my husband to be is in the state and I m in Liberia.
Thank you so much for this knowledge sir. I'm actually in a LDR and in second category. Really glad myself and the lolm have established most of the points stated by PK. I'm always blessed by your teaching sir. God bless 🙌
Infact P.K ...you are God sent. I have been on a crossed road on this matter for sometime now. I have been married for almost 13yrs now and I have never stayed apart from my hubby but the immigration wind has been blowing and my hubby is so interested in it..I am so scared because my love language is more of act of service and quality time...not sure i will do well in a foreign land.
But with what I have heard today..hmmm we need to reconsider ooo. God bless you for us...
I'm glad I came across this video. Thank you pastor K.
I am in the third category and it’s hella hard cos we were close initially before the long distance had to happen. In addition to chatting everyday, we call each other spontaneously. I also take pics and send to him whenever I am out and about so I can provide as much transparency as possible. We see each other once or twice a month cos we stay in different states. I am 3 hours away by flight but the plane tickets ain’t cheap 🤣. However, we have resolved that we are important to each other so we gotta put in the work! Anyways, I am low key looking for a job in his state of residence cos I need this distance removed.
Amen 🙏 thanks u sir for ur teaching
Thanks Pastor Kingsley, this is so apt, God bless you.
Long distance relationship is hard! Love languages are hard to speak from a distance sincerely. Bottom line is marriage is not ideally supposed to be from a distance,however we want to look at it.
It is temporary
This is beyond my expectations. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was absolutely astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
I am in a long distance relationship for over 6 or 7 months now is all about trust we trust each other and is going good so far
I have being in a love distance relationship for 5years...married for 3years...it has not being easy but our strong point is discipline ...we don't attend functions that make each other feel insecured...we try to communicate as often as possible....that point that it different when you actually stay together physical is so true.
Sir get out my conversation! Lol
I am currently in a long distance relationship and we do mostly all these things he can call anything but he’s respectful enough to send a message when he knows I’m sleeping. But I was talking to a lady and she laughed at the fact I choose to be faithful to someone in another country. I suppose that’s why she’s alone! It’s work indeed but God gives me strength and the long distance won’t be forever! Blessings
🤣🤣🤣🤣 @that's why she is alone
This was impactful. God bless you PK. More of this for distance relationship.
Having a planned end is a core way to handle Long - distance. Thank you Mr. Kings!
Hi l got my relationship was fixed back again with the help of a great man my ex is back to me we loving and happily together again after many years of separation, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 48 hours.
He was the one who helped me restoring back my ex 3 days ago without delay 🌹🌹
Whatsaap him"**
Thank You PK
Wow! It's the prayer for me at the end☺️. Thanks Papa for your words of wisdom.
Papa, I think it's not just about giving your partner details to make them earn your trust. Permit me to switch to pidgin: "If the person like make im carry CCTV for body dey waka, person wey no wan trust you no go trust you". Trust is a DECISION you make the moment you start courting / dating.
Great Lessons outlined. Thank you Sir. 👍🔥🔥🔥
You don't have people just trust you; rather you earn trust!!! 💯👌