5 Tough Reasons He Is Not For You | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares '5 Tough Reasons Why He Is Not For You
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1.Emotional not practical
Compatibility
_Faith
_Character
_Companionships
2.Blinds you from other good options around you.
3.Neglect due process
_Building rlships and friendship
4.Selfish...(one sided love never works)
_Interests must be there..
_It must be mutual
_Desperation doesn't help
_Engage in conversation with
other people
✓Infatuation is instant.true love takes time
✓Wen u see someone in the first time and like the person..its_Attraction
✓ Don't confuse attention and intention
✓Real time is important to know someone.
✓Wen it's infatuation u have an idea of the person not the real person.
Hello there
God bless you for the summary❤
Thank God i came on UA-cam today 🥺💔I feel this video was made for me.Thank you pastor.
Please pastor,how do i get the book who should i marry???
😮 25:56 26:12
We're nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator. 😂
Thank you Sir.
Let’s be real, some people actually put their children in a school cuz they like the uniform 😂
Love at first sight does not exist but attraction at first sight is very true.Hiw can you love someone you just met and never knew from anywhere? Infatuation is sharp sharp as e dey hot while true love takes time. These are words on marble pst.k
'We are pencils in the hands of the creator'…😂😂😭😂
Wale Adenuga Productions that year😄
Indeed, I've never been bored listening to PK! This man is a gift to the body of Christ! 👌
Nevaa
Sincerely ❤
Can never
Thank you, pastor Kingsley for the eye-opener message. You can be single and emotionally occupied. This has been my story for 2 years now. This helped, GOD BLESS.
Omo, this is me ooo. i fell for someone and i was just thinking only about how i felt not necessarily about the other party. love this thanks PK and PM
What are we? We are pencils😂. Always learning from you and I never get used to the fun sir.
Came here for ds comment
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😂😂 and I was eating
I wan choke
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I know this video was made for me coz 😂 I can relate to everything. This is my present situationship and I’ve even been praying to God to lemme know if I should go ahead. So thank you Jesus coz it’s a U turn from here onwards 😂
Congratulations 🎉
😂😂 same here. Did you also do that prayer of "God if he's not the one take him away" 😅
Yes o. Wow looking back at this comment from just 2 weeks ago and I can say he was never the one 😊
I'm happy for you😊
INFATUATION is usually instant but TRUE LOVE takes time.
Don't confuse ATTENTION with INTENTION.
Infatuation is usually instant, there's attraction at first sight. True love takes time. Hmmm
I really pray the hearts of as many single persons will be open to understand this teaching and be guided by it, so they make the right choice.
Amen❤
AMEN 🙏
Amen 🙏
I just want to thank my God, Jehovha for making it possible for me to see this video just on time . I was facing the same challenge and now I have got my answer glory be to God . Thank you pastor Kingsley
Isn't God so amazing? This is exactly the massage my heart was longing for at this particular moment 🙏 thank you so much man of God for this valid information 🙏....especially about one sided love.
The actual message I need right now as well and I'm enlightened already. Thank you PK 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Yeah.
Can a relationship founded on wrong reasons be salvaged after a fallout? 'specially when there are intentions to do it the right way.
I'm referring to any kind of relationship.
Thank you Sir
Someone can be chasing you to snatch your purse. 😮😮😮Pst Kingsley, you are good at what you are doing.
Lmao! PK 😂😂! Thank you for this. With these sound teachings, I pray my marriage will be blessed and preserved.
Single but emotionally occupied..this hit hard.Thank you Pastor❤
My flesh is saying I should send the link to a lady that was seriously crushing on my fiance but my spirit just gave me bombastic side eye 😒🤣🤣🤣
😅😅
it's selfishness to love someone who doesn't love you back the same way you love them.
“we are homosapiens” as a response to “what are we?” is crazyyy 😂😂😂😂😂
I just love this man if all youth will have the opportunity to listen to this man before they enter a relationship owwww
😂😂 Pastor Kingsley, "we are pencils in the hands of the creator"
Wow😇 wat an enlightened message God bless u sir,ve really learned frm ur messages especially d infatuation
Buy gun and kidnap him.... 😂
Maybe she wants to put her faith to work.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
God bless you sir 🙏
Accepted the proposal of a guy whom i hv known for abt 6 mnths now, started as friends and i fell in love with him with my head, cuz am open to some of his flaws but then he accepts his flaws when confronted, n requests for help to mke it ryt... praying things work out.
Praying over you guys that God is the foundation of you coming together. Take time, unrush yourselves
Infatuation is instant. Love is a gradual process!
Wonderful lessons
You’re single but emotionally occupied!!!
Deeeeeeep!!!
Thank you PK 🙌🏽
I was a victim of the things mentioned here, but thank God for your teachings, I came out of them, especially infatuation. Thank you, Pastor K.
Thank you so much for being a blessing to our generation. I have learnt a lot from your videos.
“Someone can be chasing you to snatch your purse” haha😄
PK 🙌🤭 Such enlightenment!!
Thank you so much for this timely knowledge. 😊
Pastor K. You the the Jesus of our dating & marriage. Thank God for sending you to save us.
Sir, seeing the girl and being attracted by her then how do i follow and study her to say that I love heeeeer!
As long a someone is interested in you and wants to be with you, you can only know what the person wants you to know about him/her. Because people act up when they are interested and usually hide their shortcomings and advertise their qualities.
That's why as much as we can, we shouldn't start with visuals when knowing people. We should conceal the visuals and other external triggers as much as we can. Thus shielding ourselves from any emotional connections.
There is a way to implement that. It's called inside out courtship.
People start to know others anonymously inside with all the internal values. And it's after they have found enough people with whom they match inside that they consider seeing themselves outside just to assess external things when they are ready for marriage.
This approach works very well and it will improve relationships tremendously if it can be implemented at a large scale.
Please how do I get ur books to buy 🙏I'm from Ghana
We are PENCILS ✏ in the hand of the creator 14:07 😂🤲🏾
„WHO SHOULD I MARRY „ is actually the book am reading at the moment. I have read it before but it’s worth reading over and over again.
Please where did you buy it from?
@@Juicewithjuu i got all of the books from Amazon.
Thank you
The author please
Is there a re link to read the book
Everything said in this video is just a photocopy of what 99% of ladies do. Thank you pastor. I'm learning and changing 🙏🙏🙏
Is it right to be friends with someone (for 8 months) that says he loves you and wants to marry you but you want to know more about him before accepting his proposal.
Na korean movies deceive young ladies pass
😂😂
I always enjoy your teachings,God bless you for us,how can I have opportunity to talk with you one on one,I seriously need your cancel
Thank you very much for this wonderful message. I know I am guilty of most of the things you talked about. I have a question: How can someone distance themselves from becoming attached or falling for someone even without knowing the person? Because I realized that even subconsciously it still happens.
PK, i have never been tired of following you right from silverbird and having pastor M also, God bless you sir
Yeah me too... then He was really slim but making irresistible sense even up till now. The Anointing is always fresh and real.💪💪💪
Yes o. Right from silverbird channel
Some persons can actually pretend for a very long time just so they get what they want, o yes
Someone can be CHASING YOU to snatch your purse😂😂
Amen, this was so encouraging thank you sir, may God more wisdom 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for this video sir. Every part was a blessing, even the jokes spoke to me. God bless you real good sir !!!!
How about when someone loves you but you don't have feelings for him, he has 90%of the good qualities to me, should I marry him😢.
Keep listening to you so I also teach others....i pray i can also stand teaching about relationship and marriage
PK has scattered this table to pieces 😂
Really appreciate this video
Hope the information can actually enter
If it’s not infatuation I find it hard to stick around long enough to see the guy for who he is
Everything they do irritates me but I know it’s not the behaviour
Because if that same behaviours exhibited from someone I was infatuated with I would embrace it and enjoy it
Thank you for this beautiful message, I did learn a lot.
1. Emotional vs. Practical-- beyond chemistry into compatibility, companionship (friendship), and character.
a) Compatibility-- faith, purpose in life.
2. Falling in love blinds you to other good options.
3. You neglect due process. Building friendship.
4. Real relationships should be built on more than one person. Requires mutuality.
5.
Please how do I get ur books to buy 🙏I'm from Ghana
Single but emotionally occupied 😆😆
That got me pastor K🤓🤓🤓🤓
You inherit all assets and liabilities. I like this, no lie in the statement. Absolute truth
OMG...!!! We are pencils indeed o...my father 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Please how can I get the hard copies of the books especially Common Love lies that can stop you from finding true love??
Imma listen to this again till all of it sinks in. True till u separate the outside with what's inside u might just b doing ut wrong. Cos when u get to see the real inside of this person. N it's contrary with thier outside then u need more known him or her
Don't confuse attention with intention! 😊
Okay 😂it’s Asthma OO
PK said that in one of his videos 😂😂
Please am dating a guy who once was not working for a long time but still staying with him and now he's working for almost a year now and has never spend just 1 dim i mean 1 dollar with me, I was supporting financially when he didn't have nothing but now that he's working he don't even mind. Please what should I do
We are pencils in the hands of God😂😂😂. We are home sapiens
When are we going to start getting online counseling
We are Pencils in the hands of the Creator oo🤣😂😂
20:15 - It is asthma; not love. 😂
PK this so insightful, I learn a lot from you daily..actually I just got out of that kind of relationship two months ago...
Sir, my location is akure in ondo state, where can i get your books sir?
What are we? We are homosapiens 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love this couple of Kingsley and Mildred
thank you pastor K for this message, very short but fully loaded with wisdom. I hope to learn more.
Lllom
We need a list of questions to ask a prospective Spouse to help us know if he is a right partner 😄
I’m sure he has a book on that
Exactly 🥲😂
PK GOD bless you richly. Your teachings have drastically changed my life.
The part you said “go and buy gun” made me laugh out loud😂😂❤️.
What if you’re in a relationship but you feel like you fell for someone who you’re not sure he fell for you in a similar manner?
Just finished watching. Someone please summarize the points. Thank you 🙏🏿
Asthma is worrying you 😂😂😂
Few things to say sir, can you ever know everything in marriage before really get into marriage.
What about those in old time that marry without relationship.
What if you get marry and u didn't fulfill all these list of reason
You will never know wat marriage is like until you get to experience it that’s the truth
God bless you Sir... You two and your ministry are such a gift ❤❤❤❤
Don’t confuse attention for intention
😂😂
It's asthma that is doing you.,
Great teaching mixed with comedy, thank you PK 😂😂😂😂
You're a wonderful teacher, thank you sir ❤
Don't confuse attention with intention👀👀👀
Now I see my errors, faults, mistakes, selfishness and manipulation. Thank you sir
Thank you sir. I am so blessed sir
😂😂😂😂 it's asthma that's doing you
We are homosapiens 😂😂
Pastor K coming through with the insight and humor😂😂. Love it. God bless you🙏🏾!!
😂😂😂😂 you are so hilarious Pastor. I’m afraid of relationship. I’ll stay by myself for now. It’s too much work🤦♀️🤣
Sir I'm in a relationship with someone and we love each other but we're of different Faith and I'm always scared of that.
Am heart broken pastor my woman was dramatic and disrespectful I just found it she has another Guy which is why she gave me Drama I learned the hard way
God bless you sir. Pls I want to ask, How can one hand a partner that keep malice in every little miss understanding?
IS IT BETTER NOT TO MARRY?:- ua-cam.com/video/XoI8J6pKc_4/v-deo.htmlsi=Bf0aqGGN0QcrDxum
Pk also has a way of communicating the truth in a relatable way!!
Thank you sir
One sided love is dangerous.
I can't proceed if I'm not love and also if I don't love as well.
If it's not mutual, Im off