I Don’t Do Open Relationship.
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
- In this video I will be sharing my views, thoughts, and experiences I had on Open Relationship. It’s one of the things I have come to realize that I find it hard to embrace or accept when it comes to to dating in the gay scene. #gay #gayscene #gaylife #gayopenrelationship #lgbt #gayvlog
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Hey man . I in some way relate to that as I am also from 2000 era when digital was just not the thing . But u have to accept that it was tough back then as well . Sure true connection was very real and mental connection was prevalent than a mobile connections . I would sit for hours just to get that one phone call from someone that I loved . I waited days just the day that special one come back from holiday so that we can just talk and hold hands .
Those days are not there but u have the whole world with u now and I believe that true relationships are still there. It’s just that it’s less then those of superficial fragile relationships that stay for a month and move onto next .
But hey you have lived and experience all of it .
Loss for them who are not loved by you .
Stay positive , happy . Live your life to the fullest. I am glad that I found your channel to watch a real man telling real stories .
Best of luck ❤
Hi Swarup Dey, I am glad to hear that you enjoyed my video and resonated with you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts in the comment. I’ve come to realize that the true love relationship is very hard to find nowadays, and I must try to enjoy life to the fullest even if I am not in a relationship. Only time will tell if Mr Right will come into my life again. Take care, and good luck to you too. 🫶🍀❤️😊
greg again. I could tell that your story was hard to tell. Maybe due to my age I cant picture that for myself. I dont mind dating, but once im starting to see someone consistently I think it should be monogamous. Im in therapy (frequently) now, therapist is gay/about 35....and once I am ready I will be seeing if he has any advice for an app that would have me looking in the right place. in the past I was on Adam for Adam, but of course my goals were different that what that app was used. I dont really fit in any area fully (so I feel) and I think it's ok to wait until I find a good fit. I think in life it's so important to both love someone and have them love you. I enjoy learning about you/hearing your thoughts!
@@1pelicanmarsh Greg, the current gay culture has become so open relationship oriented that monogamy is increasingly becoming a minority. Most of guys that I want to meet me are either married or in open relationships, or that they are twinks looking for a hot daddy with money…,it’s frustrating to go through this in the modern gay scene….that’s why the dry spell of my love life is hard to break. lol
@@winglee1976 I bellieve what you say but am disappointed to hear that (both for you and myself/my prospects). I think my dry spell is approaching a couple years now.
Hi, Wing. I'm a mature German man; 53 yrs old. When it comes to dating, I have tried various dating apps. Sometimes I hooked up and had a good time but mostly it was a waste of time. Call me old fashioned, but I also prefer the "old school" way of meeting people like you mentioned. Like you, I prefer a monogamous relationship but find it increasingly difficult. Online dating apps lack all the adventure and fun that dating once had and people have become lazy when it comes to communicating with each other. As we get older, unfortunately the rules change. You know what you want and you have your boots on the ground. If someone wants an open relationship, it's not a real relationship. Just my two cents. Don't give up.
@@nastynippelz Hi Dave. Nice to hear from you all the way in Germany, glad my video resonated with you. Thank you for commenting and sharing your thoughts, all the best to you. Take care. 🫶❤️😊
Timing is really such a big factor, Wing
Good morning Wing,
I feel the same way that you do. In a relationship, it's monogamy or nothing at all. I guess I'm selfish, I don't want to share my man, my lover! I want him all to my self to love and nurture! I'm a very loving and caring man who deserves someone who believes as I do and who will be faithful to our commitment to each other. Wing, you deserve the same as well! You would think a good looking man as you are would not have difficulties finding a monogamous committed relationships. We must stay true to what we believe is good for us! I enjoy your videos so much!!!
Good morning Roy. Glad to hear this video resonated with you, and thank you for sharing your thoughts in the comments. I agree with the “all or nothing at all” totally. Maybe I had several monogamous relationships already, so I just don’t feel like I have been deprived of that kind of committed relationship. It is much harder to find that kind of relationship nowadays. I believe if I was meant to fall in love again with the person that is meant to be my next partner, it will happen eventually. Until then I still have to find happiness and fulfillment as a single gay middle aged man. Have a good day. 🫶❤️😊
Hi Wing, thanks for putting out this video. This really struck a chord with me as a mature Asian man. I'm so glad that I'm not the only one who has the same "old fashioned" belief about monogamy. FWB... Seriously? You cannot reach the level of intimacy and mutual respect from a loving relationship if one of you is still shopping around. It's not a sacrifice to be monogamous... What you get in return of being one together is priceless. Love your videos!
@@gawan-stories4u thank you so much for viewing and such a wonderful comment. I am not alone, we are a minority in the category of gay men with old fashioned relationship values and beliefs in monogamous relationships as the most meaningful way to love a partner. Take care. 🫶❤️😊
This is basically how me and my ex broke up in 2014. He pretty much came to me one day and as he put it told me he could “love multiple people.” I was really blindsided by this. Though I knew something was up as towards the end as he was spending lots of time in the bathroom on his phone and going outside talking to people I didn’t know. I should’ve known the biggest red flag was that he did everything to make sure I did not see his phone! Be careful guys! Some of these men are not upfront from the beginning that they’re poly! They will use you then dump you once they find something better.
Needless to say Wing you seem like such a kind soul, I’m sure the right man is still out there for you! ❤
@@pault9544 Hi Paul, sorry to hear that you had a bad breakup with your ex. We are all vulnerable to fall victim to men who wanted to fool around and lie to us, they don’t deserve us. It is truly much more difficult to find an ideal partner who shares the same interests and relationship values and goals these days. Thank you for sharing and viewing my video. Take care and good luck to you! 🫶❤️😊
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Red flag with long distance relationship!
@@harold1901 true. I had tried LDR once in the late 1990s before, it was an on and off thing that lasted 2 years.
Wing, you have too much integrity to go for that, You should pack up your things got first plane back to Toronto.🤔☹️😡
Paul, that was the first time I was directly affected and hurt by the open relationship culture/person I was with. I didn’t have the mentality to be like him. ❤️😊
Sad story! Be patients Mr right is coming to u this Christmas just cross ur finger❤️❤️❤️
@@kimitarosugawara40 hi Kimitaro, thank you for viewing, commenting, and the good wish for me. Will keep you posted is Mr Right shows up by Xmas. Take care. 🫶❤️🎄
its a sad state of affairs
@@store-i4p I concur. Thank you for viewing and commenting. 🫶
have twitter please
sir weng you have twitter
@@rowellarpilleda1700 you mean X lol.