I like how you break down the different categories here. After doing non-coercive collaborative style for a couple of years it doesn’t feel extreme, if anything it feels like the bare minimum of common decency! -for anybody on the fence, it’s totally worth it! ❤
@@misslexors4153 I can't even tell you how happy I am to hear you call Non-Coercive, Collaborative Parenting the bare minimum! I'm literally smiling ear to ear. I really do want to be boring and not radical! Thank you for this gift!
This is meant to be a genuine question, but are you saying that a parent having any sort of control over a child's life (when they go to bed, not only eating junk food, them not being able to play at night, no access to dangerous objects) is oppressive in of itself? If so, then that's a harmful idea to push onto people since children thrive on routine. If they are not exposed to a specific routine they follow, then they will be more likely to not succeed in life. Another issue is that when children do not have any rules, they tend to at out and are more likely to engage in risky behavior. If not, then I would really appreciate it if could clarify with a response.
@@rebeccayaris5919 have you seen many of my videos? I answer the question and more in many of them. I have over 200 videos on my UA-cam channel! I'm just curious if this is the only one you've seen or if you've seen other ones, before I answer your question.
I like how you break down the different categories here. After doing non-coercive collaborative style for a couple of years it doesn’t feel extreme, if anything it feels like the bare minimum of common decency! -for anybody on the fence, it’s totally worth it! ❤
@@misslexors4153 I can't even tell you how happy I am to hear you call Non-Coercive, Collaborative Parenting the bare minimum! I'm literally smiling ear to ear.
I really do want to be boring and not radical! Thank you for this gift!
This is meant to be a genuine question, but are you saying that a parent having any sort of control over a child's life (when they go to bed, not only eating junk food, them not being able to play at night, no access to dangerous objects) is oppressive in of itself? If so, then that's a harmful idea to push onto people since children thrive on routine. If they are not exposed to a specific routine they follow, then they will be more likely to not succeed in life. Another issue is that when children do not have any rules, they tend to at out and are more likely to engage in risky behavior. If not, then I would really appreciate it if could clarify with a response.
@@rebeccayaris5919 have you seen many of my videos? I answer the question and more in many of them. I have over 200 videos on my UA-cam channel! I'm just curious if this is the only one you've seen or if you've seen other ones, before I answer your question.