Why narcissists think you’ll never leave them

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  • Опубліковано 27 січ 2025

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  • @charlesdavid-p1y
    @charlesdavid-p1y 13 днів тому +200

    This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had , I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on , I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.

    • @DianaJovita
      @DianaJovita 13 днів тому +1

      The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

    • @charlesdavid-p1y
      @charlesdavid-p1y 13 днів тому +1

      Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?

    • @DianaJovita
      @DianaJovita 13 днів тому +1

      Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.

    • @charlesdavid-p1y
      @charlesdavid-p1y 13 днів тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.

  • @natscat4752
    @natscat4752 11 днів тому +1

    You literally made me laugh out loud with the rubber band analogy 😂 so so true. Don’t fall for it my friends.

  • @Vercanya
    @Vercanya 13 днів тому +7

    After I had dumped my first boyfriend (who had cheated on me etc), he wrote to me this super loving message where he was all "I get now how much I hurt you, you were the best I ever had, *yada yada*" as if he was a whole different man suddenly. It was ridicilous because during our relationship he had been was dismissive, entitled, misogynistic and and constantly critical of me. He even had said that my sister was exactly his type! And now he wanted me back? Hell no.

  • @lilfairycupcake
    @lilfairycupcake 13 днів тому +3

    its like reliving a human nightmare.

  • @honestmicky
    @honestmicky 13 днів тому +6

    Thanks Danielle for today's excellent message, much appreciated ❤

  • @janedoe5229
    @janedoe5229 13 днів тому +4

    I remember one time, our little boy was injured and I had to take him to the emergency center to get stitched up. He was okay, but I was a wreck. I begged my husband not to go to band practice (his hobby) and please stay home with me. He called me clingy. I got on my knees and put my hands together in prayer and BEGGED him to stay home. He accused me of pulling nonsense and being overly dramatic, and he left anyway. That was the night my heart broke in two, and I no longer loved him or cared about him. I ignored him and started planning to leave. He said it was so nice that I was no longer clingy and desperate, always wanted to stay home. In retrospect, I should have served him papers, changed the locks, and put his stuff on the lawn.

  • @amylouise5867
    @amylouise5867 13 днів тому +1

    Thank you great message ❤

  • @timd-s1p
    @timd-s1p 13 днів тому +4

    Here's my thing--this is not confusing to me. I don't threaten to do things to people--I do them. I'm running my life, Grumpy--not you. Sayonara.

  • @IzabelaWaniek-i1x
    @IzabelaWaniek-i1x 13 днів тому +2

    Spot on! Exactly the case.

  • @Nonfiction.Reader
    @Nonfiction.Reader 13 днів тому +2

    Truth. 👏

  • @seameology
    @seameology 13 днів тому +2

    Yeeeah, no. Couldn't do that. Gone.

  • @willshredd
    @willshredd 13 днів тому

  • @Ron-is5td
    @Ron-is5td 13 днів тому

    Your top matches everything you're walking past - especially the green tile wall...
    Serendipidy, or planned?
    Stay safe.

  • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
    @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 13 днів тому +2

    As a self aware diagnosed narcissist, I'll vouch for this video. I'm just curious though has anyone read her book? Anybody have any opinions, thoughts or insights on it?

  • @TomHuckACAB
    @TomHuckACAB 13 днів тому +6

    Whoever was Danielle's BF was the luckiest guy in the world. Talk about blowing the chance if a lifetime!

    • @johnmaurer2035
      @johnmaurer2035 13 днів тому +1

      Obviously, I don't personally know Danielle. But if she was your neighbour, coworker, acquaintance, friend, partner, etc. Then, you would value the relationship.

    • @Arcturus549
      @Arcturus549 12 днів тому +1

      Social media isn't real life. This is why guys are used, you can't take rose tinted glasses off.

    • @johnmaurer2035
      @johnmaurer2035 10 днів тому

      It's a general impression that I get.​@@Arcturus549

  • @Imnotyourdoormat
    @Imnotyourdoormat 13 днів тому +4

    Professor Sam Vaknin has said the vintage "Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf" Movie is the very best analogy on these matters

  • @manlyhallresearch9785
    @manlyhallresearch9785 8 днів тому

    Liar by Henry Rollins.

  • @janedoe5229
    @janedoe5229 13 днів тому

    And if you are in a conservative religion, where divorce is "forbidden", then they KNOW you "can't leave". And you stay trapped for YEARS.

  • @freeslavemind
    @freeslavemind 13 днів тому +3

    FIRST