It warms my heart, pure wisdom and a beautiful face. I was in it only 18 months, 6 months no contact and 3 months taking her back. The worst time and error of my life. I absolutely understand people who are in it for longer. There is no need for shame. Two years later i understand fully the damage i took. I was dating for a year and i only met women who objectified me in one way or the other. I had no other chance than to do the same back to them and there were a lot of them. This society is done. Now i met the first girl who honers me as a person. She is authentic and even more beautiful than the toxics. Her body has more than i ever wished to create if i could. I can't say that less attractive peopke are less toxic. She locked in with her eyes and never stoped. She never told me what she went through, but i know. She feels save around me and gives me more than i need. Never trust people who don't trust you. If i would date in the future 99% wouldn't get my time any more.
11 years, off-and-on. 100% true. I did all that Danielle said. When I finally divorced him I was losing my hair, I had to wear a 24-hour heart monitor, I had dropped 50 lb and I couldn't afford to drop 50 lb. I was throwing up four and five times a day. I had no job and I had a wonderful job when I met him. Once I divorced him I found the job of my dreams. And years later I was foolish enough to try one more time with him and within 3 weeks was sick again. It is now over and he is gone because I learned about trauma bonds and covert narcissists. Thank God for that!
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I hear that quite often with victims of narcissism , because the relationships are so incredibly detrimental to your health! I don't think it's talked about enough, but I'm so happy you moved on and have found some peace. God bless and stay safe!
Yesterday I succesfully executed the riptide method that you described in lne of your videos. Months of planning and waiting for the right oportunity. I am now free from her drama manipulation ,pathological lying cheating and having my finances drained. Peace feels good!
0:35 described me. It was horrible. I was a completely different person at work because we had fun and camaraderie. I couldn’t act like that at home. I’d be silly with my kids and get fussed at.
But Danielle, you said, "you can't talk someone out of their whole personality," but from what you said before that, about how people involved in (or just leaving) long-term relationships with narcissistic people are shells of their former selves, having abandoned their interests, wants, needs, feelings, et cetera. So, it sounds like "talking people out of their entire personalities" is exactly what narcissists do.
The deception is getting you to like them the man turning you into their opponent then you hurt defend make better as they laugh and at this point you've become the enemy which is the exact role the seek out and justify the horrid treatment you get..then the toddler " reframe" is they are the victim and life is good and on and on and on
*Maybe if I'd read the newspaper that morning I wouldn't have been attacked by a Pit Bull on my bikeride to work.* *Maybe if I'd check the mail more often my lawnmower would start.* *Maybe if I'd bought her 2 LEXUS's my wife wouldn't have ran off with our Washing Machine Mechanic.* "The Smoker You Drink The Player You Get" Joe Walsh circa era 1973
Being in a relationship with a narcissist is like being on a trip to the abyss of hell.
Thanks Danielle for this excellent video, much appreciated ❤
Thank you Danielle for reminding me!
Brilliantly said! Thank you 🙏 God bless you ❤
It warms my heart, pure wisdom and a beautiful face. I was in it only 18 months, 6 months no contact and 3 months taking her back. The worst time and error of my life. I absolutely understand people who are in it for longer. There is no need for shame. Two years later i understand fully the damage i took. I was dating for a year and i only met women who objectified me in one way or the other. I had no other chance than to do the same back to them and there were a lot of them. This society is done. Now i met the first girl who honers me as a person. She is authentic and even more beautiful than the toxics. Her body has more than i ever wished to create if i could. I can't say that less attractive peopke are less toxic. She locked in with her eyes and never stoped. She never told me what she went through, but i know. She feels save around me and gives me more than i need. Never trust people who don't trust you. If i would date in the future 99% wouldn't get my time any more.
11 years, off-and-on. 100% true. I did all that Danielle said. When I finally divorced him I was losing my hair, I had to wear a 24-hour heart monitor, I had dropped 50 lb and I couldn't afford to drop 50 lb. I was throwing up four and five times a day. I had no job and I had a wonderful job when I met him. Once I divorced him I found the job of my dreams. And years later I was foolish enough to try one more time with him and within 3 weeks was sick again. It is now over and he is gone because I learned about trauma bonds and covert narcissists. Thank God for that!
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I hear that quite often with victims of narcissism , because the relationships are so incredibly detrimental to your health! I don't think it's talked about enough, but I'm so happy you moved on and have found some peace. God bless and stay safe!
Thank you, Danielle! Your videos make me feel seen and sane again! 🙏 You are amazing for sharing this gift! 💞
You try and explain to people what it was like, and listen to how crazy it sounds.
Yesterday I succesfully executed the riptide method that you described in lne of your videos. Months of planning and waiting for the right oportunity. I am now free from her drama manipulation ,pathological lying cheating and having my finances drained. Peace feels good!
0:35 described me. It was horrible. I was a completely different person at work because we had fun and camaraderie. I couldn’t act like that at home. I’d be silly with my kids and get fussed at.
I don't see anyone blaming themselves. Victims grow on trees.
Absolutely true! 😢
This is so true
Thank you! ❤
A very gross sense of entitlement
But Danielle, you said, "you can't talk someone out of their whole personality," but from what you said before that, about how people involved in (or just leaving) long-term relationships with narcissistic people are shells of their former selves, having abandoned their interests, wants, needs, feelings, et cetera. So, it sounds like "talking people out of their entire personalities" is exactly what narcissists do.
The deception is getting you to like them the man turning you into their opponent then you hurt defend make better as they laugh and at this point you've become the enemy which is the exact role the seek out and justify the horrid treatment you get..then the toddler " reframe" is they are the victim and life is good and on and on and on
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*Maybe if I'd read the newspaper that morning I wouldn't have been attacked by a Pit Bull on my bikeride to work.*
*Maybe if I'd check the mail more often my lawnmower would start.*
*Maybe if I'd bought her 2 LEXUS's my wife wouldn't have ran off with our Washing Machine Mechanic.* "The Smoker You Drink The Player You Get" Joe Walsh circa era 1973
Another very good video explained in a very straightforward manner.