People really have to take everything in love when it comes to Tony Gaskins's advice. His advice will save your money, mental health, house, car, children, family, from going to jail 👀 (in case you're ready to slap someone), job and so much more. I've lost alot dealing with unstable men and I can't afford to lose anything else. Thank you Tony Gaskins for the advice as always. 👍🏾
Ladies, Don’t ever let a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once. Move on, dismiss this grown boy. Stop settling for less when God have better for you.
@@kimsmith819 Yes, it really is. That's were healing takes place. Once we make up our minds up to leave, and begin to focus on us; and detach ourselves mentally, we can move forward.
Ladies, don't let a man tell you he doesn't want you, more than once. He won't use those words, but he WILL let you know he doesn't want you. Move on with your life. Let him go.
🤣🤣🤣🤣. 🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️ I do!! He gives me my boost of energy. I’m going through a break up and let me tell you between God, Tony, Redefined TV, Steven Furtick and Devon Franklin mannnn listen. I’m good!!! But Tony gives me the real raw no filter advice 🤣🤣🤣
So he needs a break, huh...😒? Lets do him one☝🏽 better, leave him all the way ALONE. When he don't know who or what he wants, decide for him. So many times, we are called to be our own HERO. Peace & Blessings🙏🏽
The last relationship i was in, he broke up with me for what I think is non sense. Accusing me of cheating and i didnt do that. None the less I said ok thats fine, no problem. Going forward I need space. Don't call or text me. I need these feelings to die. I haven't called or text him either.... boy bye!!!! Unfriend on all social media, delete text thread, delete pics... ZERO existence to me!!!! He can go...... I deserve better. He's not my future and im good with that.
@@mymakersdaughter6041 thank you! I have to say it constantly when he cross my mind! The gym have my life saver. Ive been mentally plastering his face on the punching bag and beating it with a bat.... therapy!!!
@Lytanyoun Wallace He was either PROJECTING his cheating ways onto you or he is EXTREMELY INSECURE. Either way, I'm glad he is no longer in your life causing you UNHAPPINESS.
Found someone else period. When He needs a break. You as the woman make it forever cause he is telling you. you're not the one. Save yourself the pain and embarrassment.
“ A man who is NOT a man, want women to be THEIR FAN. “ My God 🙏🏾👏🏾😌 hallelujah. Thank you Tony for calling out the tricks of the enemy. This word right here will stick with me for LIFE. ❤️
See, what she's doing wrong is waiting on him to decide the fate of their "relationship." Don't ever put that in his hands. Moving on and walking away is power. Don't give him a week to decide anything and definitely never beg for him to come back. Great video!
Nope. He doesn’t want you sis. GOD HAS BETTER FOR YOU! This man is not worth the pain you are internalizing from his rejection. Let him play with someone else’s heart and mind-please take several steps away from him. You ARE NOT an option-you are someone’s only option. That man will find you! Stop giving him chances, walk away, and let God have control. This man is manipulating you, dragging you along, and confused. He told you twice he didn’t want you, BELIEVE HIM!!!!!!! Please waste ZERO more mins on this man and give him the break he wants-FOR LIFE! You have no time for games. Thank you sir, goodbye!
Girl leave run if you have to I am telling you this is a grown confused boy I had to deal with that for 7 years let me tell you it was freaking hell run run run take my advice
@@beccasection thank you girl yes I learned the hard way but through it all I am stronger and wiser person and in a very healthy place thanks to God and Tony Gaskins and my life coach Tina I would not be in this healthy place if it wasn’t for them
Hi I am going through this currently. I am 26 and I have been with for 4.5 years and he asked for a break for 6 weeks. He did this around this time last year as well. I feel so hurt. And everything he’s saying in this video is how I have felt and currently feel. I always thought my emotions when he would leave weren’t normal until I started watching TG. I was in denial about the abuse, but I understand now. I have had him blocked for a week since I agreed to the break. I didn’t beg or chase. I love him but he said last year he needed to take a break to get himself together with his career and education. But now, he’s using the same excuse. I now realize it’s bullshit. He still has no job and no career. I leave him, but he never lets me leave for good. I need to really leave him this time. I’m asking for strength and these comments give me comfort. Please pray for me.🙏🏽
I tend to flip the script on this type. When they're acting like they want a break or space but can't discuss it like grown adults, then I mirror their energy, or I agree we're on a break until they can figure out what it is they want/need. I use that week of silence to mourn and move on. The return always shocks them. Nope, I'm not mad. I'm not in the mood to talk either. I go on about my business.
Never let a man see you cry, never tell a man your weaknesses, never give a man your secrets...They may one day be used against you. Never let a man deminish your value, break your spirit, steal your joy, play with your emotions, or blind you from your purpose... If he does not amplify and nourish any of the previous, then that man is not for you. Lastly, such a man(Purpose Mate) cannot be sought out, he must be revealed.
Please leave! My relationship was like that, and it's true that a person can get psychotic from being abused! I started to abuse him back eventually, and it's even worse of a feeling then being abused. Leave while you still have your sanity! Life is going to be just fine without him!
What kills me is when they have the audacity. Theyll literally drag you through mud by your upper lip. leave you high and dry. Then try to fix their lips to come back to see if you still stupid. I let someone drag me through the mud once. I mean I was just letting myself be stupid for someone that was not even close to what I needed. Finally Blocked all their access me. After what they did I pray they don't try to come back. They'll get their feelings hurt and my butt to kiss respectfully.
Girl, you not the only one. I've been through that ONCE... And I promise tough, there's a First and LAST time for Everything. "Fool me once, We can't get Fooled again."
This woman is allowing herself to be strung along.. aka he’s putting you on hold while he plays around and keeps you as a “ just in case girl”......... , It’s sad, because this letter and so many others really just highlight low self esteem and desperation for a partner. Never accept a gray area with anyone. Anything shy of a yes backed up with actions is a No! Ladies love yourself first and stay busy with goals..... and the rest will follow...
Tony is telling the truth. She needs to leave him immediately. My child's father is like that, very childish. I was about to be on the first 48 because he just brings the worst person out of me. Luckily, I have it where he has limited contact with me and my son. My son's father got a demonic spirit attached to him and just waiting for the spirit to take him. God got me and my son
Yes girl..My daughter's dad has a demonic spirit in him not on or near. His eyes started turning black once I didn't understand it back then it was like his pupil was filling with black like it was being poured in. His bm eyes was Jet Black once! It was crazy but yeah she is a full blood demon & jealous of me & my daughter. So now I'm just bouts to change my # completely & block him & her forever.. he does things purposely like put the phone on mute or hold while my daughter was t lkn to him then 2day later call & said his phone died 😤 if it did the call would of ended.. he really think I'm stupid😮 after tht.. blocked his calls..smh THTS dishonorable
GOD changed Tony. Not any human being. He's said seeds had been planted by his parents though. I guess HE used those seeds as points of contact at the appointed time.
Latino men use this as a form of control. The man always has the choce if he wants you. He is a old school style latino. They keep women dangling in a string. This is all about culture upbringing that he has seen from his Male family. Sad, she can't change him. Just leave.
Interesting part of Latino men in the Mexicans is that the mother will pick his wife. This is a tradition that will always remain. He will date as many till his mom chooses her, then they marry. He can marry who he wants, but it will be very hard for his mom and family to get along. Sad, but it happens to this day in Mexican culture. I know this is the same with Costa ricans.
I just became a UPS seasonal driver and I literally have your video's on all day. I'm sure people think I'm crazy because I'll just bust out laughing out of no where 😂😂😂 Thank you so much Tony for what you do. May GOD continue to use you🙌🏽🙏🏽
It sucks that he was trying to make it seem like he was letting her down easily. He’s found someone else and left all the hints and clues that he was ready to go, while being manipulative. He literally handed her the red flags. Love can be so blinding sometimes.
Relationships can be a life or death. It can give you life or it can drive you to an early grave...stress or physical...people learn by listening or you will learn by experience
There's nothing "good" about a "man" who places your heart on hold to play you like a fiddle. Find your self worth and walk away from this humiliation for good.🙏👑❤️ Good advice in regards to Mr. Gaskin's message.
The young lady needs to say, ,"tengo que irme!" In english, "got to go!" I hope she makes the right decision. She will save herself a whole lot of heartache and time that she can't get back. Our latin culture teaches us to stay through thick and thin but it becomes very unhealthy. Sadly, I know this. Thank you Tony for taking time to minister to her!
Honesty must be present. God SEES every single action of us. Never play with the feelings of a human kind. The dishonest and unfaithful person will never live a life God has prepared for them. Here it is important to mention that there is a divine reward from heaven to those who put into practice the fidelity and are FAITHFUl . 🙏🏆🥇💎
When people come to your channel they have to have a discerning spirit to understand you always speak according to what your spirit says. They aren’t interested in getting help from your point of view and they just trying to stay stuck ..You can’t come to your channel and stay stuck! In your words POINT BLANK PERI-OOD!
Greetings from Canada ! Probably one of your youngest viewers (19) glad I've found your channel, I've been watching for a few months and believe you've reached me through the grace of god . Asé
WOW TONY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m going to watch this video over and over again!!!!!! This is exactly what I have been going through for the past 2 1/5 years with a grown boy! And funny how were Hispanic too. I’m so glad you decided to read that girl’s email because it was god sent!!! I’m no longer with him it’s been a month this is either the 3rd or 4th time he breaks up with me, I can’t even remember because it’s happen way too many times! I’m trying everyday to get over him and watching you is helping me realize my worth. Thank you a million times for this video Tony!!!!
Thank you so much 🤯 Eyes wide open. “It’s fun for him. He likes seeing you cry for him. He likes seeing you stressed. He likes breaking you down because he feels like nothing. He feels like a punk. He feels insignificant. He is not a man so he wants to debase you to make you feel less than him.”
Blessed day to you all my Queen sisters in Christ. When we are spiritually filled, we'll NOT put up with less than we are worth, we don't ignore red flags and we apply our brother's Tony wisdom to our lives. I pray that the Lord will remove the blindfold that the enemy has placed over our sees. In order for us to see what the enemy is hiding from. Let us hear what they are not really saying out loud, but our spirit will detect its time to let that individual go. Amen I got my divorce 2 months ago and the best thing I've ever done was fully devote myself to the Lord over everything and self loving myself. I discovered Tony and everyday I'm vowing to educate my mind with his wisdom. I didn't even know grown boy existed until I tried dating one recently and he was giving me empty promises. I let his go and then I said let me educate my mind because I want a Kingdom man and I need to see wolf behind sheep clothing.
This one’s kind of tough. This message doesn’t have to do with my situation, but I needed to know about this debasing. It’s like a man go ghost and come back, he’s debasing u? Kind of. Thanks Tony, for the message. Oh, and he may be conceited. And thank u Tony, you’ve helped me find healing and prepared me in leaving a relationship. I’m now, in the moving on process.
If a man loves you then ALL of his actions are coherent with his words! He says to her "I love you" but only ONE action seems coherent with that: him crying! There are FAR MORE actions that are NOT coherent with that: him breaking up with her several times and not giving a fuck about hurting her or losing her. Him asking for "a week" and not giving a fuck about letting her in the dark and about how lonely and hurt this makes her feel! And we don't even know if his crying was for real, or just fake crying to gain her sympathy cuz he might think she's gullible enough to then let him get away with ANYTHING cuz to her his crying is already "proof" that he must "love" her! Let's keep it real: If he wanted her, he would never risk losing her and hurting her feelings by breaking up so many times! Instead he would have married her a long time ago! But he just sees her as a placeholder, a willing toy to be taken off the shelf and be put back on it whenever he feels like! Girl just RUN! Contrinuing with him is like walking into a dead-end street. It will never lead you to your goal of marriage and in the end you have to turn around and go all the way back to being single anyway! Only with more wasted time and hurt! He will use you up as long as he can and then throw you away until he finds a newer toy and/or a woman he actually wants to marry. You'll end up alone anyway. So you might as well leave NOW that you're still young and have more chances to find other men!
Tony Gaskins You’re Helping Me Give Myself Closure as Well as Be Alert for GrownBoys While I’m Healing. Especially Considering my Soon to be Ex is a Big Grown Boy.
I already knew what he was gonna say while reading the email. A man knows immediately if your his Wife within minutes./.. come on now... 😆😂 Gone bout yo business~ TG
I wish I would wait on a man to break up or tell me he need a break...come on ladies...we way better than that! He your husband if he giving you his passcodes not hiding and changing them 💯 “Cheat in peace,” you on it Tony!
Tony, even when it is shocking and hurts, I am grateful for and appreciate your messages. Unbeknownst to you, you gave me eyes to see and the strength to leave. Many blessings to you and your family. Keep laying it out here.
Dear Tony, I hope you email these ladies bike (back😂) with the title names, so that we know for sure they hear your message. I pray they ALL listen and put on their track shoes. Thank you for your service Sir. God bless ya.
Tony, abt 4 months u saved me time n heartache 4rm a younger grown boy. I just so happen 2 watch one of ur vlogs. The vlog I watched was abt "grown boy" games. He (grown boy) was playing just abt all of the " grown boy" games on me. N come 2 find he was messing with another female family member also. Needless 2 say I dodged a bullet . Whn I say thank you, Tony. I really mean it, I feel like ur my younger brother 4rm another mother.
This is a very serious situation. I hope she sees the video and stops this sad excuse of a man. Love can lift you up but it will also break you down. Thank you for what you do. 🙏🏽
The very first sentence I was done. You are waiting for him to decide if he wants to break up with you? Seriously, and for the third time? Sis please tell this man to kick rocks with sandles on✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽
Hallow Tony,thanks I actually wanted to ask the same thing,on behalf of my sister. The guy told her that he needed some space of two months,he claimed he was going to work with his father.He even told her to take some of the house things saying he had given them to her,then he said was going to be back after two months. Then when my sister called him,he said he wanted to be alone,I told my sister to stop picking up his calls but she cant listen,but this teaching today will put my sister in shape.Thanks alot
We need to be more careful about certain men. we keep close to our heart. It seem like we fall in love with the man before he ,really feel true love for us. God made us strong in so many way, that it seem like we have forgotten the true essences of our purpose of being woman. We are from womb of Gods heart, soul and mind. don't let that man dragging you into the ground. Or beaking your spirit. Don't be a lost soul. And have a dependency for that weak man , Who don't care about your worth are your feeling. So first care about yourself, then find your purpose. You need to listen too Tony and stop leting him tear you down .just to pick you up when he feel like it. Walk to the other side of the bridge. And burn it .so he can't fellow you and make a fool out of you anymore. He's insane and his world is toxic. I hope you were listening to Tony too night. I hope you are ok after all of this. Be bless
I agree, it's the hard core, straight to the point of your delivery that woke me up. No other dating advice and channel spoke to me and helped me understand like you do. Keep on talking how you do, no pampering needed. Its the tough love that is getting me the help I need to heal my heart and date appropriately moving forward.
Hola tony i like your videos i am from Mexico, i am base in Houston Texas I have learned a lot with your videos You're like a father ,brother to me May God bless you
Keep going hard Tony 💪🏽it’s the hard stuff ppl don’t want to talk about because the answers are hard .. let the lord continue to use u bro cause we all fall short of the lords grace & we need ppl like u to show that just because u god fearing don’t mean u can come over here with nonsense & not get this work.. alright,ok in ur voice 😂
“Bye Boy bye” is what that grown, stanky, musty man need to hear 👂. Brother Tony is on point!!! Stay straight up Bro Tony, all facts...Be Blessed y’all🙏🏽😊😇
Be Blessed Mr Gaskins Because you often hear this nonsense around you....but you have been together for such a long time....keep trying because after all these years it,s a pity to break up...bla bla bla Therefore explaining things how they really are and look like is very healthy and safe Thank you Mr Gaskins.
Truth. All is fair in love and war and it can most definitely end up on the news. Bless you coach to just keep going the world needs more of real for real walking among us.
Tony G. ...I always learn from your videos...always is something to learn. Thank you. and...you are so charismatic...funny. May God bless you and your beautiful wife and kids.
People really have to take everything in love when it comes to Tony Gaskins's advice. His advice will save your money, mental health, house, car, children, family, from going to jail 👀 (in case you're ready to slap someone), job and so much more. I've lost alot dealing with unstable men and I can't afford to lose anything else. Thank you Tony Gaskins for the advice as always. 👍🏾
Here here... I agree . with every word you wrote.
Facts sis!
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Agreed
I agree with you. A lot of people need the truth, but don't really want the truth.
Ladies, Don’t ever let a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once. Move on, dismiss this grown boy. Stop settling for less when God have better for you.
Amen !!!
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Yes, yes, and yes. This is so true
My grandmother told me growing up, never let a man tell you twice he don’t want you.
This back and forth is toxic, and a waste of time. He's tying up your time, and your mind. Work on you sis, and let this man go.
Its tough on our mental and financial status to 😥
@@kimsmith819 Yes, it really is. That's were healing takes place. Once we make up our minds up to leave, and begin to focus on us; and detach ourselves mentally, we can move forward.
Great advise! I don't understand some of these women. I'm like REALLY 🤔?
@@theunknownsource8317 Some women just need to learn their worth, that's all.
A man’s inconsistency and confusion is the answer you need. Count your losses, block him and move on to greener pastures.
Not greener pastures chilleeeee 😩😭😭
Okayyyyyyy
M having his baby 😭😭
Exactly. Blocking really helps in the healing process. It looks petty to men but it helps break the soul tie.
Need someone that’s at least trying to water the grass 💦 😂🤣
True love doesn't need breaks. Period.
Facts
Word
Then you have never really loved......
Jesus went to the garden of Gethsemane to get away from loving people. So yes, love needs breaks too.
When i hear “hey hey hey Tony Gaskins here” I know the video finna be lit 🔥💯
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Lol! Right!!!
Ikrrr!!!!
"Just poppin in" makes my day!!
@@xandrasquier1023 🤣 yes
Ladies, don't let a man tell you he doesn't want you, more than once. He won't use those words, but he WILL let you know he doesn't want you. Move on with your life. Let him go.
Who else needs a dose of Tony Talks every day? If you don't (GO ON BOUT YOUR BUSINESS...TG VOICE)
🤣🤣🤣🤣. 🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️ I do!! He gives me my boost of energy. I’m going through a break up and let me tell you between God, Tony, Redefined TV, Steven Furtick and Devon Franklin mannnn listen. I’m good!!! But Tony gives me the real raw no filter advice 🤣🤣🤣
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So he needs a break, huh...😒? Lets do him one☝🏽 better, leave him all the way ALONE. When he don't know who or what he wants, decide for him. So many times, we are called to be our own HERO. Peace & Blessings🙏🏽
Oh, that’s good!!
Allllll the way alone!
Yes, Make the decision for him when he’s confused by walking away. That’ll give him clarity.
The last relationship i was in, he broke up with me for what I think is non sense. Accusing me of cheating and i didnt do that. None the less I said ok thats fine, no problem. Going forward I need space. Don't call or text me. I need these feelings to die. I haven't called or text him either.... boy bye!!!! Unfriend on all social media, delete text thread, delete pics... ZERO existence to me!!!! He can go...... I deserve better. He's not my future and im good with that.
Say that as many times as you need to because that is 💯 truth!
@@mymakersdaughter6041 thank you! I have to say it constantly when he cross my mind! The gym have my life saver. Ive been mentally plastering his face on the punching bag and beating it with a bat.... therapy!!!
@@lytanyounwallace708 🤗
@Lytanyoun Wallace He was either PROJECTING his cheating ways onto you or he is EXTREMELY INSECURE. Either way, I'm glad he is no longer in your life causing you UNHAPPINESS.
Found someone else period. When He needs a break. You as the woman make it forever cause he is telling you. you're not the one. Save yourself the pain and embarrassment.
Exactly!!💯
Facts!!
100% true facts
Teach that truth: when someone say they need a break most likely they are interested in pursuing someone else.
“ A man who is NOT a man, want women to be THEIR FAN. “ My God 🙏🏾👏🏾😌 hallelujah. Thank you Tony for calling out the tricks of the enemy. This word right here will stick with me for LIFE. ❤️
Tony, please do not change for anyone. Your advice is invaluable and personally I prefer your style of delivery. Be blessed.
Once a guy tells me he needs a break I think it’s broken now ... I’d rather wait for a man that wants to fix it and move on.
“ Men who have not become a real man want you to become a fan”
Whew a word!👏🏾
See, what she's doing wrong is waiting on him to decide the fate of their "relationship." Don't ever put that in his hands. Moving on and walking away is power. Don't give him a week to decide anything and definitely never beg for him to come back. Great video!
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Nope. He doesn’t want you sis. GOD HAS BETTER FOR YOU!
This man is not worth the pain you are internalizing from his rejection. Let him play with someone else’s heart and mind-please take several steps away from him. You ARE NOT an option-you are someone’s only option. That man will find you!
Stop giving him chances, walk away, and let God have control. This man is manipulating you, dragging you along, and confused. He told you twice he didn’t want you, BELIEVE HIM!!!!!!! Please waste ZERO more mins on this man and give him the break he wants-FOR LIFE! You have no time for games. Thank you sir, goodbye!
Girl leave run if you have to I am telling you this is a grown confused boy I had to deal with that for 7 years let me tell you it was freaking hell run run run take my advice
@@beccasection thank you girl yes I learned the hard way but through it all I am stronger and wiser person and in a very healthy place thanks to God and Tony Gaskins and my life coach Tina I would not be in this healthy place if it wasn’t for them
You didn’t use any punctuations
Fun-ny...🤷🏽♀️🤣
@@vanitajones6533 thank you for the unnecessary comment
If that bothers you so much go ahead and make the corrections
Hi I am going through this currently. I am 26 and I have been with for 4.5 years and he asked for a break for 6 weeks. He did this around this time last year as well. I feel so hurt. And everything he’s saying in this video is how I have felt and currently feel. I always thought my emotions when he would leave weren’t normal until I started watching TG. I was in denial about the abuse, but I understand now. I have had him blocked for a week since I agreed to the break. I didn’t beg or chase. I love him but he said last year he needed to take a break to get himself together with his career and education. But now, he’s using the same excuse. I now realize it’s bullshit. He still has no job and no career. I leave him, but he never lets me leave for good. I need to really leave him this time. I’m asking for strength and these comments give me comfort. Please pray for me.🙏🏽
It’s best to....GONE BOUT YOUR BUSINESS...🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️
A relationship can either give you life or drive you to the grave - TG
I tend to flip the script on this type. When they're acting like they want a break or space but can't discuss it like grown adults, then I mirror their energy, or I agree we're on a break until they can figure out what it is they want/need.
I use that week of silence to mourn and move on.
The return always shocks them. Nope, I'm not mad. I'm not in the mood to talk either. I go on about my business.
Great
This is exactly what is supposed to happen. When they start playing games, play along and move on with your life.
Never let a man see you cry, never tell a man your weaknesses, never give a man your secrets...They may one day be used against you. Never let a man deminish your value, break your spirit, steal your joy, play with your emotions, or blind you from your purpose... If he does not amplify and nourish any of the previous, then that man is not for you. Lastly, such a man(Purpose Mate) cannot be sought out, he must be revealed.
Please leave! My relationship was like that, and it's true that a person can get psychotic from being abused! I started to abuse him back eventually, and it's even worse of a feeling then being abused. Leave while you still have your sanity! Life is going to be just fine without him!
What kills me is when they have the audacity. Theyll literally drag you through mud by your upper lip. leave you high and dry. Then try to fix their lips to come back to see if you still stupid. I let someone drag me through the mud once. I mean I was just letting myself be stupid for someone that was not even close to what I needed. Finally Blocked all their access me. After what they did I pray they don't try to come back. They'll get their feelings hurt and my butt to kiss respectfully.
Girl, you not the only one. I've been through that ONCE... And I promise tough, there's a First and LAST time for Everything. "Fool me once, We can't get Fooled again."
Ain’t tht the mess. Letting some bird who don’t meet your standards drag you thru the mud?🤣 It means we gotta work on ourselves when this happens
He had the whole telemundo drama going on... 😂😂😂
Leave this TOXIC Man... He is damaging to your spirit, You deserve a man who truly love and respect You 🙏 GOD Bless You 🙏
This woman is allowing herself to be strung along.. aka he’s putting you on hold while he plays around and keeps you as a “ just in case girl”......... ,
It’s sad, because this letter and so many others really just highlight low self esteem and desperation for a partner. Never accept a gray area with anyone. Anything shy of a yes backed up with actions is a No! Ladies love yourself first and stay busy with goals..... and the rest will follow...
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Tony is telling the truth. She needs to leave him immediately. My child's father is like that, very childish. I was about to be on the first 48 because he just brings the worst person out of me. Luckily, I have it where he has limited contact with me and my son. My son's father got a demonic spirit attached to him and just waiting for the spirit to take him. God got me and my son
Amen. Blessings to you and your son. So glad you did not do First 48. Your son needs you in his life outside of prison.
Girl well just in case you need help to be on the run after first 48, holla at me 😂😂 j/k but yes I get that part about bring the worst outta you 🤦
Yes girl..My daughter's dad has a demonic spirit in him not on or near. His eyes started turning black once I didn't understand it back then it was like his pupil was filling with black like it was being poured in. His bm eyes was Jet Black once! It was crazy but yeah she is a full blood demon & jealous of me & my daughter. So now I'm just bouts to change my # completely & block him & her forever.. he does things purposely like put the phone on mute or hold while my daughter was t lkn to him then 2day later call & said his phone died 😤 if it did the call would of ended.. he really think I'm stupid😮 after tht.. blocked his calls..smh THTS dishonorable
Yasss sis 👏🏾😌 I’m so glad you are blessed enough to recognize that demonic spirit. 👏🏾 Be safe and keep on keeping on. ❤️
My boyfriend just told me he need a break. Go figure, right on Tony.
GIVE IT TO HIM!!
I don't believe in breaks. It's called break UP.
Girl, make sure it's a permanent one. Make sure you have a funeral for him, cause that man is DEAD, Gone, and Out of Existence.💅🏾
@@miunicorn1324 you right about that, he ain’t seen me since the day he told me he needed a break.😏
@@saphireflowers3382 Exactly!!
We are very thankful of miss gaskins she changed tony and he is a blessing to our community. God bless your family 🌺
GOD changed Tony.
Not any human being.
He's said seeds had been planted by his parents though.
I guess HE used those seeds as points of contact at the appointed time.
😂😂😂😂 I know it’s going to be good,When Tony looks directly in the camera..
Latino men use this as a form of control. The man always has the choce if he wants you. He is a old school style latino. They keep women dangling in a string. This is all about culture upbringing that he has seen from his Male family. Sad, she can't change him. Just leave.
Interesting part of Latino men in the Mexicans is that the mother will pick his wife. This is a tradition that will always remain. He will date as many till his mom chooses her, then they marry. He can marry who he wants, but it will be very hard for his mom and family to get along. Sad, but it happens to this day in Mexican culture. I know this is the same with Costa ricans.
Wow...learn something new everyday.
I literally freakin HOLLLLLLEERED at his Mexican/Hispanic impersonation. Tony is a whole mess out here in these UA-cam streets 🤣🤣🤣
Too Shay, Yesss!!! And when he did the school yard depiction I bout cried!!!! You hear MEEEE!!! He is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes! 🤣 🤣 🤣
I did too!! Literally started screaming!!
Me too! A whole mess! LOLOLOL
😆😆😆😆😆
"If a man don't want you, and for the third time he don't want you, you have to give him your butt to kiss. 💋." TG
Don't forget the sound effects "muwah" 💋
I just became a UPS seasonal driver and I literally have your video's on all day. I'm sure people think I'm crazy because I'll just bust out laughing out of no where 😂😂😂 Thank you so much Tony for what you do. May GOD continue to use you🙌🏽🙏🏽
Me too
No más. Tony dice, NO MAS.
Correcto!
I’m here eating my soup and cracking up at tony imitating the Mexicans . I’m Hispanic so this is funny 😂😂
It’s the Spanish for me at 12:45 on google translate nearly took me out 😂.
All the way owttttttt!!! 😩😂
It sucks that he was trying to make it seem like he was letting her down easily. He’s found someone else and left all the hints and clues that he was ready to go, while being manipulative. He literally handed her the red flags. Love can be so blinding sometimes.
True. He is not a good guy. He played blues clues. Asked her to play Mrs. Colombo and Matlock. He knew she would stay. Very sad!
Relationships can be a life or death. It can give you life or it can drive you to an early grave...stress or physical...people learn by listening or you will learn by experience
There's nothing "good" about a "man" who places your heart on hold to play you like a fiddle. Find your self worth and walk away from this humiliation for good.🙏👑❤️
Good advice in regards to Mr. Gaskin's message.
The young lady needs to say, ,"tengo que irme!" In english, "got to go!" I hope she makes the right decision. She will save herself a whole lot of heartache and time that she can't get back. Our latin culture teaches us to stay through thick and thin but it becomes very unhealthy. Sadly, I know this. Thank you Tony for taking time to minister to her!
While Tony was reading the email, I got this overwhelming sense of compassion come over me for her. I hope she learns and grows from this.
Honesty must be present. God SEES every single action of us. Never play with the feelings of a human kind.
The dishonest and unfaithful person will never live a life God has prepared for them. Here it is important to mention that there is a divine reward from heaven to those who put into practice the fidelity and are FAITHFUl . 🙏🏆🥇💎
Amen. I strongly BELIEVE this. 👌
Tough brotherly love is needed to shift there generational relationship curses that we continue get into because of lack of knowledge
We are the prize. When we realize that our walk, perspective & thoughts are different. Sis let him go! Like yesterday! Thanks Tony!
When people come to your channel they have to have a discerning spirit to understand you always speak according to what your spirit says. They aren’t interested in getting help from your point of view and they just trying to stay stuck ..You can’t come to your channel and stay stuck! In your words POINT BLANK PERI-OOD!
Straight to the point Señor Tony😁😉
😂😂😂
When Tony read the text in the fake Spanish words.. I screamed out loud 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me too!! I can not with him😂😂🤣🤣
@@jacquelinewilliams6572 lol
Greetings from Canada ! Probably one of your youngest viewers (19) glad I've found your channel, I've been watching for a few months and believe you've reached me through the grace of god . Asé
Key word! He’s not the prize you are. know your worth. And go on about your business.
When u went into the breakdown about her waiting and hitting translate to reach out to you I hollered, you play way too much 😭😭😂
Girllll that was funny 😂😂😂
21/22min in also funny but true & sad
The part where Tony was typing in spanish...priceless 😂
Frfr!! 🤣🤣🤣
I love how authentic Tony is......
WOW TONY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m going to watch this video over and over again!!!!!! This is exactly what I have been going through for the past 2 1/5 years with a grown boy! And funny how were Hispanic too. I’m so glad you decided to read that girl’s email because it was god sent!!! I’m no longer with him it’s been a month this is either the 3rd or 4th time he breaks up with me, I can’t even remember because it’s happen way too many times! I’m trying everyday to get over him and watching you is helping me realize my worth. Thank you a million times for this video Tony!!!!
Thank you so much 🤯 Eyes wide open. “It’s fun for him. He likes seeing you cry for him. He likes seeing you stressed. He likes breaking you down because he feels like nothing. He feels like a punk. He feels insignificant. He is not a man so he wants to debase you to make you feel less than him.”
When his eyes roll up in his head ...bout to be funny.😂😂
Smacks lips....ohhhhhhh
@@msshay421 That one does me in😅😂!!!
@@msshay421 one of my faves 😂😂😂
I love Tony for his advice but the fact that we can get great insight AND a comedian mannnn listen ! It’s a win win! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🤣🤣
Blessed day to you all my Queen sisters in Christ.
When we are spiritually filled, we'll NOT put up with less than we are worth, we don't ignore red flags and we apply our brother's Tony wisdom to our lives.
I pray that the Lord will remove the blindfold that the enemy has placed over our sees. In order for us to see what the enemy is hiding from. Let us hear what they are not really saying out loud, but our spirit will detect its time to let that individual go. Amen
I got my divorce 2 months ago and the best thing I've ever done was fully devote myself to the Lord over everything and self loving myself. I discovered Tony and everyday I'm vowing to educate my mind with his wisdom. I didn't even know grown boy existed until I tried dating one recently and he was giving me empty promises. I let his go and then I said let me educate my mind because I want a Kingdom man and I need to see wolf behind sheep clothing.
Never be someone’s option. If you ain’t a priority, you ain’t it.
"He a little soft... bc when yall both stood there huggin & then cryin!" 😅🤣😅🤣😅🤣
He got a lil SIMP in his blood
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Thank you for being the type of brother i never had!
Never let a man tell u twice he don't want you. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
This one’s kind of tough. This message doesn’t have to do with my situation, but I needed to know about this debasing. It’s like a man go ghost and come back, he’s debasing u? Kind of. Thanks Tony, for the message. Oh, and he may be conceited. And thank u Tony, you’ve helped me find healing and prepared me in leaving a relationship. I’m now, in the moving on process.
Ya, that’s what’s going on in my situation. Thanks for more clarity
If a man loves you then ALL of his actions are coherent with his words! He says to her "I love you" but only ONE action seems coherent with that: him crying! There are FAR MORE actions that are NOT coherent with that: him breaking up with her several times and not giving a fuck about hurting her or losing her. Him asking for "a week" and not giving a fuck about letting her in the dark and about how lonely and hurt this makes her feel!
And we don't even know if his crying was for real, or just fake crying to gain her sympathy cuz he might think she's gullible enough to then let him get away with ANYTHING cuz to her his crying is already "proof" that he must "love" her!
Let's keep it real: If he wanted her, he would never risk losing her and hurting her feelings by breaking up so many times!
Instead he would have married her a long time ago! But he just sees her as a placeholder, a willing toy to be taken off the shelf and be put back on it whenever he feels like!
Girl just RUN! Contrinuing with him is like walking into a dead-end street. It will never lead you to your goal of marriage and in the end you have to turn around and go all the way back to being single anyway! Only with more wasted time and hurt! He will use you up as long as he can and then throw you away until he finds a newer toy and/or a woman he actually wants to marry.
You'll end up alone anyway. So you might as well leave NOW that you're still young and have more chances to find other men!
This was a word!
Tony Gaskins You’re Helping Me Give Myself Closure as Well as Be Alert for GrownBoys While I’m Healing. Especially Considering my Soon to be Ex is a Big Grown Boy.
Man so many woman need to hear this!! Thank you Tony for breaking it down!
I already knew what he was gonna say while reading the email. A man knows immediately if your his Wife within minutes./.. come on now... 😆😂 Gone bout yo business~ TG
I wish I would wait on a man to break up or tell me he need a break...come on ladies...we way better than that! He your husband if he giving you his passcodes not hiding and changing them 💯
“Cheat in peace,” you on it Tony!
Tony, even when it is shocking and hurts, I am grateful for and appreciate your messages. Unbeknownst to you, you gave me eyes to see and the strength to leave. Many blessings to you and your family. Keep laying it out here.
Dear Tony, I hope you email these ladies bike (back😂) with the title names, so that we know for sure they hear your message. I pray they ALL listen and put on their track shoes. Thank you for your service Sir. God bless ya.
Tony, abt 4 months u saved me time n heartache 4rm a younger grown boy. I just so happen 2 watch one of ur vlogs. The vlog I watched was abt "grown boy" games. He (grown boy) was playing just abt all of the " grown boy" games on me. N come 2 find he was messing with another female family member also. Needless 2 say I dodged a bullet . Whn I say thank you, Tony. I really mean it, I feel like ur my younger brother 4rm another mother.
This is a very serious situation. I hope she sees the video and stops this sad excuse of a man. Love can lift you up but it will also break you down. Thank you for what you do. 🙏🏽
Tony you speak nothing but truth ! This right here is godly wisdom !
When you have passion for righteousness, it sounds hard. When you want people free, it is black and white.
The very first sentence I was done. You are waiting for him to decide if he wants to break up with you? Seriously, and for the third time? Sis please tell this man to kick rocks with sandles on✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽
Hallow Tony,thanks I actually wanted to ask the same thing,on behalf of my sister. The guy told her that he needed some space of two months,he claimed he was going to work with his father.He even told her to take some of the house things saying he had given them to her,then he said was going to be back after two months.
Then when my sister called him,he said he wanted to be alone,I told my sister to stop picking up his calls but she cant listen,but this teaching today will put my sister in shape.Thanks alot
The word of the day is : Debase ! 🤣
I can't help but 😂 laugh at Tony sometimes. He is so helpful
We need to be more careful about certain men. we keep close to our heart. It seem like we fall in love with the man before he ,really feel true love for us. God made us strong in so many way, that it seem like we have forgotten the true essences of our purpose of being woman. We are from womb of Gods heart, soul and mind. don't let that man dragging you into the ground. Or beaking your spirit. Don't be a lost soul. And have a dependency for that weak man , Who don't care about your worth are your feeling. So first care about yourself, then find your purpose. You need to listen too Tony and stop leting him tear you down .just to pick you up when he feel like it. Walk to the other side of the bridge. And burn it .so he can't fellow you and make a fool out of you anymore. He's insane and his world is toxic. I hope you were listening to Tony too night. I hope you are ok after all of this. Be bless
4 minutes into the video, my answer; move on and go on about your business. ❤️
Thank you sister Tony 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree, it's the hard core, straight to the point of your delivery that woke me up. No other dating advice and channel spoke to me and helped me understand like you do. Keep on talking how you do, no pampering needed. Its the tough love that is getting me the help I need to heal my heart and date appropriately moving forward.
Yes Tony.. you are "blood raw" but we need it. Thanks Big Bro!
“That boy got all kinda vocabulary words” 😭😭😂
BLOCKEDT, HUSH! & BLOOD RAW! Lawd, we thank you for Brother Tony!
Hola tony i like your videos i am from Mexico, i am base in Houston Texas
I have learned a lot with your videos
You're like a father ,brother to me
May God bless you
That’s right Tony! Tell it like it is! Those who asked will appreciate it! Thank you!
Keep going hard Tony 💪🏽it’s the hard stuff ppl don’t want to talk about because the answers are hard .. let the lord continue to use u bro cause we all fall short of the lords grace & we need ppl like u to show that just because u god fearing don’t mean u can come over here with nonsense & not get this work.. alright,ok in ur voice 😂
“Bye Boy bye” is what that grown, stanky, musty man need to hear 👂. Brother Tony is on point!!! Stay straight up Bro Tony, all facts...Be Blessed y’all🙏🏽😊😇
Gosh, I love this series! Will watch before bed to get some good energy in! ❤️ thanks for everything that you do, Tony!
I love that u told her to get strong before her homework.. u got vocab skills tony debase was a good one I’m adding it to my toolbox
Thank God for your videos! Now I can spot red flags miles away! 🙌🏾
I’m loving this new series Tony 👌🏾
Be Blessed Mr Gaskins
Because you often hear this nonsense around you....but you have been together
for such a long time....keep trying because after all these years it,s a pity to break up...bla bla bla
Therefore explaining things how they really are and look like is very healthy and safe Thank you Mr Gaskins.
Truth. All is fair in love and war and it can most definitely end up on the news. Bless you coach to just keep going the world needs more of real for real walking among us.
Thank you for making it plan and raw. You are correct. A situation like this will drive you crazy. I thank God he gave me the strength to let it go.
That means “no more”! So funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣Thank you Brother 💕🙏
Whew, this letter is all over the place. All in love but...he don't want you sis. Take your crown and walk away
Tony G. ...I always learn from your videos...always is something to learn. Thank you. and...you are so charismatic...funny. May God bless you and your beautiful wife and kids.
Haha, Tony you did a great job counting in Spanish. Thank you for your wisdom!