We want to thank you all for the encouraging and positive comments!! We are grateful that this video has been inspiring and helpful! We LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!! Share this video with everyone you feel it may help or may need some extra encouragement! xo, Kelsey & Kendra
Hi beautiful ladies!! Love you both! I always comment before I watch you ladies’ video and during, if I feel the need to. 😍😍 I can’t wait to view it and see what y’all are going to talk about. Bf I watch though, I’m going to say what I wish I learned in my 20’s. I’m 38 now, so that’s taking it back a while! So, what I wish I’d learned in my 20’s was that it’s ok to be me and to be who I am as a person and not to let anyone try and change who I am as a person. I also wish I’d enjoyed being by myself as long as I could and travelled the world because I do enjoy traveling and seeing different places and different ppl.
Where Nitra B is in life is where u ladies should be, she's successful & happily married with 2 beautiful children. Time flies u guys should consider losing the whole codependency thing with each other and brain storm on solo lives and careers. Even your amount of followers has plateaued that should tell you guys something
*i’ve been watching you guys since you were teenagers and now you’re 30… that’s crazy. i was a freshman in high school, now i’m 25. thank you for being my virtual older sisters* 🤍
Been 32 since March and what I learned from my 20's is a few things: - To give myself credit for my efforts, in everything - To literally be my own bestfriend, because I needed to treat me better. - To give up being so damn reminiscent of the past and things I can't change; time moves quickly and I need to enjoy the NOW and create my OWN happiness. - To bulldoze expectations of me and my life everyone puts on me or expects of me and just LIVE FOR ME.
We want to thank you all for the encouraging and positive comments!! We are grateful that this video has been inspiring and helpful! We LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!! Share this video with everyone you feel it may help or may need some extra encouragement! xo, Kelsey & Kendra
I’ve been following you ladies for a long time and y’all have definitely grown and helped me learn a lot! I’m not 30 yet I’m only 26 but I feel like I’ve accomplished a lot. I beat cancer, brought my first car, rented my first apartment, graduated college once so far, and I inspire people to live a simple self loving life❤️ I’m loving forward to seeing more of you ladies🤎
I love this. Thank God for growth !! I love seeing us talk about self love, being self aware, loving who the person your becoming. I’m turning 35 in a few weeks and I started reflect on things I accomplished. For me it was continuing to love myself before needing to be on a relationship because I see everyone else in one. I learned that I need live in the present and not feel pressured to having kids and getting married. Whew Chileeee … Also saying NO. That was a big one when I turned 30. If family or friends couldn’t or don’t understand why you are saying no then you need to reevaluate that relationship. 🤎 y’all !!
I just turned 31 last week and of course, I'm still learning a lot and growing as a woman. For me, I had to learn that you are not defined by what others think of you. Growing up and in my 20s, I've really struggled with low self esteem and letting what others say about me get to me. I'm still working on it with therapy but now, I know that I'm a dope person, no matter what.
My daughter's is 31 also. She has struggled in those same areas you mentioned and so did I in my 20s and 30s. One day you realize you can't make everyone happy so why try. These folk are not God.
I absolutely loved this video! I’ve been watching you both since I was in high school & I’m 23 now!!I love seeing your growth & the many things you both accomplished. The point you both made about living in the moment & being grateful for what you have now really stuck with me because it’s so true! Thank you! 🤍✨
I feel this video was definitely right on time. I'll be 30 in a few months and definitely had a LOT of moments when I felt I was behind my peers cause I had pressure from society or social media or my family too. I'll simply say a recent conversation with a friend showed me that the grass isn't always greener on the other side and to learn to be content where I'm at. The things meant for me, God will bring them and align them seamlessly My 20s were marred with a lot of fear and depression and anxiety, so I'm determined to do a total 180 for my 30s ❤
Guurrrll my anxiety and depression got worse in my 30s because I realized bad decisions cost! It made me more afraid to make decisions because I didn't want to make the wrong decision.
Welcome to your 30's! It's all uphill from here, and you're just getting started. My twin brother and I are...wait for it...45! (Bday is 7/11 :D) And I remember the excitement of turning 30, feeling really grown up, and anticipating what my 30s would bring. I also recall turning 40 and going to the local 7/11 for my free slurpee LOL (uneventful). But each decade brings a wealth of reflection, and appreciation for the experiences that life brings. Here's to the next chapter......
I turned 30 back in August and was very excited to reach that milestone in life. I was feeling like the character Jone from girlfriends when she was reflecting over her 20s and felt like she wasted those years and didn't have as much fun as you by society's standards are supposed too. I've learned to always enjoy life and that is what I will continue to do.
I just turned 28( December 8) and i now feel like i have a hang on life. College and a career full time & just moved into my own place. I’m not exactly where I want to be exactly in my career but with the power of prayer it will come 👏🏽
I really resonate with being a homebody and being comfortable in that. It's important to tap into what makes your feel fulfilled. And at 23, going to the club every weekend is not fulfilling to me. I had to learn to stop trying to be the person other people want me to be and be myself in that regard. Don't get me wrong I like to party, but a lot of times it's just too much for me. It also forced me to be more strategic with creating friendships with people who are similar to me in that way. Love that point y'all made!
Absolutely agree about creating a peaceful environment, that is very important to me. Great video, you ladies are light years ahead of me at you guys' age. I had to learn the power of "NO" and maintaining peace in my 40's. You ladies are so mature and awesome. My 20's were rough, I learned to take care of me, strive for my goals and never let anyone rain on your parade.
I’m 30 and what I’ve learned in my 20’s is patience , gratitude, and most importantly established an unbreakable bond/relationship with Christ! Cheers to our thirties ladies and may God bless you with the desires of your hearts ♥️ 🥂
It was so easy for you two because you have each other it’s a little harder when you’re by yourself or an only child. You just have a wonderful relationship with each other and both of you love to do the things and appreciate what you have, and how you got there. I will always say that having a twin, it’s something that everybody doesn’t experience & lucky to have each other❤️
Kelsey & Kendra , ya'll BEEN! grown. You're not following what most 20 yr old's are doing. I was just looking at the video of y'all with the popeye's mulkbang. Love y'all, so proud of ya'll and proud of what y'all accomplished at an early age. You're beautiful women.
I love this video. I feel like I grew along with y'all. Ive been watching y'all since i was 16 and I'm 26 now. Yall are the big sisters I never had. I feel like I accomplished a lot in my 20s but still have more ways to go. I became a nurse at 21, homeowner at 23 and started my hair care line this year at 26. Once everything is set and stone I would love to send you ladies some products!
I love this! And I’m even more excited b/c a lot of what y’all said I learned too! I just turned 30 this year and a few things I’ve learned are: 1. Saying no without having an excuse & not feeling bad about it 2. Self care in the sense of actually caring for my inner self. Emotional, spiritual, relational, financial, physical etc. 3. How to truly let go of things I can’t control 4. To let God be God & move out His way. To let God really lead me 5. To ask for & go after what I want regardless of how others feel about it 6. To accept ppl for who they are without being mad at them for who they are. I can’t cut everybody off 🥴 7. To make sure that when I tell others yes I’m not telling myself no 8. To not be so hard on myself & to talk to myself how I’d want others to talk to me 9. To speak up and use my voice. If I don’t advocate for me then who will? 10. To pause & be quiet when angry. Not everything needs to be addressed 11. Communicate better 12. To set expectations for individuals based on who/how they are to avoid disappointment. 13. Self love and self care aren’t synonymous. I’ve always loved myself but just learned how to actually care for myself. 14. Learning to be a better steward of my coins 15. A whole lot of patience & temperance 16. How to rest. Enjoy the moment & stop always looking to check the next thing off my list 17. I haven’t mastered this but to take control of my first thoughts in the morning. No jumping in my feelings about whatever issue as soon as I wake up 18. To not ignore the red flags in any relationship whether it be romantic, platonic or familial I’m sure I have more but I think I left enough lol 🙂
Im 27 and a lot has changed since I was 20. I can say that im more self aware. Unfortunately I wasted time in certain relationships in my 20's but thank God for growth! I spend the majority of my 20's abstaining from sex 🙌🏽 now I look forward to living my best life in the latter part of my 20's . I realized that I'm ONLY 27.
I turned 30 in June and I second everything you said!! Two of the biggest things I learned was not giving toxic energy room to grow in my life and I have a RIGHT to my feelings and expectations. I would allow people to guilt me for setting boundaries or cutting off friendships/relationships or family members. I truly thought I was just mean for years (because I let people tell me I was) because I was setting boundaries and losing friendships based on things I felt were disrespectful to me. Just because they don't understand how it hurt me doesn't mean I made a bad decision in letting them go.
I turned 30 this year. One thing that I didn't realize until my later 20s was that I need to parent myself. When I became an adult and had the freedom to do what I wanted, I did whatever I wanted, even if it wasn't the best for me. Now that I'm older, I realize that all of the things that my parents taught me were for a reason. I need to take better care of myself and follow routines or I will get to a very unhealthy place that's hard to get out of sometimes. I also realized that I can be all that I need. I don't need to wait for someone or something to make me happy. I can be happy now because happiness is a choice.
I turned 30 in July!!! I wish I was more financially literate in my 20s!!! I am now and I will be debt free in May 2022!!! 🙌🏾 Took a lot but I’m almost there!!! God does provide!!! The man also shouldn’t complicate your life!!! 🙄Overall, I am excited to be 30 and for what’s coming next!!! Thanks for the video ladies!!! P.s. I still love juice!!! 😂
Definitely learned in my twenties to live for myself. I’m 32 and not married, no kids, no house but incredibly content. This video was comforting and refreshing
I’m so late lol. But I turned 30 in Feb. I’ve been watching since the first apartment. I feel like we grew up together lol. But that word no was a big lesson for me in my 20s. I learned what I want out of a partner. I got married, had kids, got divorced and have continued to elevate my life and my mind since. I learned what I want from my career. And I learned that your life and your path is truly your own. Not only did I learn that, I embody that now and I’m so grateful. Love you guys!!
Hey y'all! I'm 24, and I think our 20s definitely can be a crazy stage in our lives. I really love y'all comments on self-love and relationships! Your significant other definitely should complement, not complete, your life.
I'm so here for this video. I've been watching you ladies when yall was still living with your mom. Love seeing positive, very well put together ladies ❤
I learnt so much during my 20s. I bought my first appartment, alone. Traveled alone. I learnt about myself. I think 20's is about growth, you leave your parents you are focusing about knowing yourself. I loved my 20's, sometimes it was hard but it was worth the journey.
I’m 26 and I know I’m headed in the right direction because everything you all said are things I’ve learned as well! God bless you two and may the next decade be as fulfilling and grand as the last one!
My 20s were a while back. I learned I should have waited on a relationship. I learned how to pay bills. I learned how to be a mom. Ya'll are right behind my daughter. She just turned 31 and she is a fall baby too.
I’ve been watching you two since the old Apartment. I’m so proud of your journey and how much you’ve grown and accomplished in your 20’s. I’m a cyber Auntie that’s been cheering you on and can say I’ve learned a lot watching your channel. Your 30’s will be another year of discovery and can’t wait to see it! As always I’m Praying for your growth and continued success
I love that you guys are thirty, flirty and thriving!!! Im not 30 yet (in my mid 20's) and am so excited about what the future holds. I live life on the edge, there is no manual to MY life. I don't care what other peoples dream is and what they think standards are. I am writing my OWN book and am so happy for a sound mind and positive attitude towards life. I live life with no pressure. Everything will happen just as it's supposed to. Imma leave with this. "There was a woman who was married with kids at 25, but divorced at 30" "There was a different woman who didn't get married and have kids until 35 but lived happily ever after" everyone has a different story no one's story is the same. I am so content with whatever the future holds. Love y'all!!! Y'all are so blessed and so fortunate to have each other. It's truly amazing.
Ive been watching you Queens since 2015. Watching this made me so emotional. To watch you elevate. Im 30 as well. Im finally not afraid to move out on my own. Ive allowed negative people in my family to fill my life with fears. After losing my granny a month ago it hit me like a wave of realization. I had to tell myself sis get tf up! I love you guys may more blessings ventures and sights behold you Queens.
Whew!!!! Yal literally spoke my ENTIRE life in this video. I turned 30 this year as well, one of the biggest lessons I've learned is that those people you think you can't live without YOU ABSOLUTELY CAN!! I always allow God to not only to remove but replace any and everything that is not for me. Thank yal for this video, looking forward to the next one 🥰🙏🏾❤
Before actually turning 30 I wasn’t really feeling good about 30 because of pressures that other people put on me. But now that I’m 30 I love it. I’m happy and truly don’t give af about what anyone has to say. Much more at peace!
I love this video, I recently turned 28 & have been doing a lot of reflecting myself. I still have a little less 2 years before I close out this chapter but I've evolved soooooo much! Your 20's are really the shaping years!
I have less than 3 years to go before my 30’s but watching this video made me realize just how grateful I am. I am so busy trying to be like someone else and how I never accomplished all the things that I’m suppose to at this age that I forget that I have done some amazing things and accomplished some of my goals. I really needed this video. I also love watching all of your old voogs because I feel like I learn something new everytime and it’s like I feel like I’m prepared for whenever God tells me it’s time to move out
12:30 I so agree with you. If you feel like someone is holding you back. Just let him/her go. I don't care if it's family, friend or lover but don't try to be a therapist or a money expert for that person, it's not your job AND sometimes we need to love/heal ourself so don't drown together. When you let it go, you will open your eyes and see what life can offer you.
Great video! Love listening to you guys reflect. I’m 53 and love your videos. I’m just now learning to say no, and was funny when Kendra said she look forward to saying no, lmbo.
I’m turning 34 so its kinda crazy to think that you guys are 30! One thing that I really like about you guys is how “normal” you two are. For influencers/content creators you guys really don’t act like some of the others do in their video. There is a authenticity to you guys that I really enjoy and I love that you guys are so close. It’s beautiful to see. Many blessing to you and may God continue to His face upon you two.
You know it is such a blessing that you guys have been able to accomplish life lessons in such a short time, some older people are still learning these lessons. I would agree you guys were definitely old souls, I believe that's what made me love watching you guys, you guys, never tried too much, you just were your genuine self all the time. It's so amazing that God will cause people to love you and show you that being yourself is enough!!! Goals for my channel!
I resonate with this one a lot. I'm turning 30 in January. All year I've been dreading it but in the past week I've just realized how lucky and blessed I am to even be alive this long. My 20's were rough but they were eye opening too. I just hope my 30's are more healthy and peaceful.
I’ll be 30 in Feb been watching you guys since the y’all still lived at home. I would also say I’ve grown a lot, different prospective, more comfortable with myself. Grateful for my upbringing and in awe of how my family was able to do it, especially my mother. I’m nervous about turning 30 trying not to beat myself up about my accomplishments and give myself credit for how far I have come. Going into my 30’s I want to set new goals and work harder to attain them. Continue pushing myself and be more intentional in everything in every aspect of my life and live more in the moment. ❤️ y’all are truly inspiring
You two are so poised and mature. You're excellent examples of young women living in their truth!! Be comfortable saying NO. 💕 Stay grounded and grateful - cheering you on from Michigan.
Love this ❤️. I've been following you for a long time. I'm 9 years older and I will tell you that your 30s are way better than your 20s. Y'all are lucky to have each other, I didn't have any friends and my family is older so they couldn't relate to me. Good luck to your 30s 🙏🏾
I love this! I’ll be 30 in 3 days and I’m excited about my 30s. I’m with you both on just being grateful. For the past 3 years I’ve been journaling daily and I always end with one thing that I am grateful for. It has taught me a lot and I’m always reminded that though things might not be how I need them to be everything is on purpose and I’m exactly where I need to be. Just be present at all times and enjoy each moment, there is always something to be grateful for. Much love to you both, very inspiring.
I remember when y’all first moved out. I was really young, like 13 or 14. I have always looked at you guys as the fabulous big sisters I never had. I’m 23 now and getting ready to move out. Much love, and many blessings. ❤️
I turned 30 in July and I’m looking forward to this next decade. One thing my 20’s taught me was to give myself grace & that you can create new versions of yourself at any moment. I can absolutely agree with learning to live in and appreciate the present moment 💕
30 girl here! Lol omggggg been following you guys almost 8 years - we’ve literally grown together lol I agree- TASTE has expanded and my maturity elevated. I am ready for a new decade, loving it!
I thoroughly enjoyed this . I am 26 and I am truly wanting to move into my own space so that I can truly have the capacity to reflect and have peace . I feel that there is lots of growth in isolation.
I’ve been subscribed since the coral wall in y’all’s 2nd apt, I love this type of video! Seeing y’all from y’all’s 20’s to now, makes me so proud of you ladies, I’m 33 but y’all are really my inspiration ♥️
Loved this video!!! I turned 26 on 11/08 and I am actually running from 30. I achieved a lot in my 20s so far and I enjoy youth, it feels like you have so much time to still achieve so much, it feels good to know that I am still young enough to make mistakes and have time to fix them. Not to say that 30 is running out of time, I've just always viewed 30 as "having life together" and 30 looks mature. Society views the 30s as the time to settle down. I am not quite ready for those expectations, and I want to be "prepared" which of course is crazy and fairytale like because you can never be too prepared or too together for anything.
November baby and 27. I loved this video. A relationship should make your life easier. I’ve also been on a self love journey for a few years now. I too have completely improved my attitude, patience & perspective on life. No longer setting goals based on age but I’ll do it when I’m ready. I’m reading the other ladies 30+ comments & I totally relate
You both have learned so much in your 20s. There are a lot of women over 40 who has not learned have of what you know. I’m still working on saying “no”, without apologizing. Loved this video soooo much
Every single point was spot on, I turned 30 in 2021 aswell and your video helped give me insight and perspective about how I want to move forward in this chapter of my life. Thank you ladies 🤍
Hello girls!!! I'm from the cape verde islands and I've just turned 30 on this pass November 27th. I must say that my 20s were a holocoaster, I became a mom in my 20s, I finished my bachelor's in my 20s, I went to live in diferent countries when I was in my 20s, also been in good and in very BAD relationships in my 20s. Definetely learned a LOT about myself. Now, in this new decade the 30s, I hope I'll just keep growing and maturing and just feel good about myself. Thank you girls for this video ❤, it made me feel closer to you even more.
Can y’all have more discussion around how you did do your self love? Like we’re there books you read that provided your aha moments or different things you wanted to explore more. What we’re the intentional focal points that you were present and mindful of.
I love this video.. I literally did this same reflection after turning 30 this year… I learned to end relationships with family members that are toxic, Self-love, Setting boundaries, I learn ways heal from pass trauma in my late 20’s…
Hey Girls! I wanted to say how much I love you girls, you both are always so inspirational with everything you do! I turned 30 back in May and I definitely learned how to be kinder to myself over the past decade and take more chances. This year I'm choosing faith over fear! Love you both, have an amazing year!
I’m a married girl in the navy at 23 with a baby that I had with in my first year of marriage but I consistently watch you guys and enjoy your content. I really resonate with you two and your advice videos and even though I’m happily married and stuff, it’s good advice that I tell my younger and older sisters. So thanks for just being you guys! 😘
I’m 31. And one of the things I learned in my 20s is nothing or no one is perfect. It sounds silly but it has helped me a lot to being able to love myself more and accept myself more.
Watch you two ladies go from young women to grown women was has helped me . Self love & putting yourself first is so very key to making the life that you can enjoy. If you are not happy with self , how can you expect someone else to be happy with you. Thank you Kelsey & Kendra for sharing your lives with us. I know whatever or whom ever is in your future, it going to be amazing. Happy Holidays 😊🎄❤️
I am a long time subscriber and started watching since you guys were still living at home. I love all your videos but must say this one is a mature, sober, but it makes you smile at the same time video for so many young women out there. You have dropped so many good gems as life lessons and it is a beautiful thing to see how you have lived your life in such a lovely and respectful way and have come into your own. So so proud of you beautiful black women. God Bless you ladies. Bravo. 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😍😍
You guys have grown so much and I can’t believe y’all at 30!! I remember watching you two years ago when y’all were sitting on the floor in your bedroom doing videos til now. Y’all are my favs! I pray that God continues to bless you both. You deserve it.❤️
We want to thank you all for the encouraging and positive comments!! We are grateful that this video has been inspiring and helpful! We LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!! Share this video with everyone you feel it may help or may need some extra encouragement! xo, Kelsey & Kendra
Hi beautiful ladies!! Love you both! I always comment before I watch you ladies’ video and during, if I feel the need to. 😍😍 I can’t wait to view it and see what y’all are going to talk about. Bf I watch though, I’m going to say what I wish I learned in my 20’s. I’m 38 now, so that’s taking it back a while! So, what I wish I’d learned in my 20’s was that it’s ok to be me and to be who I am as a person and not to let anyone try and change who I am as a person. I also wish I’d enjoyed being by myself as long as I could and travelled the world because I do enjoy traveling and seeing different places and different ppl.
Where Nitra B is in life is where u ladies should be, she's successful & happily married with 2 beautiful children. Time flies u guys should consider losing the whole codependency thing with each other and brain storm on solo lives and careers. Even your amount of followers has plateaued that should tell you guys something
*i’ve been watching you guys since you were teenagers and now you’re 30… that’s crazy. i was a freshman in high school, now i’m 25. thank you for being my virtual older sisters* 🤍
Sammeeee sis! I’m 24 and I feel like they’re like my safe haven😂🤍 Growing into a young woman has made me feel better because of them🙌🏾
Yesss same
omg me too!
Same! ❤️
Me too I’m 23 now
Been 32 since March and what I learned from my 20's is a few things:
- To give myself credit for my efforts, in everything
- To literally be my own bestfriend, because I needed to treat me better.
- To give up being so damn reminiscent of the past and things I can't change; time moves quickly and I need to enjoy the NOW and create my OWN happiness.
- To bulldoze expectations of me and my life everyone puts on me or expects of me and just LIVE FOR ME.
Heeey team 1989 😊 i agree with all your points!
@@ennvee1989 something bout us 89'ers ✨💛
1989 to just turned 32 in November lol but yes I’m learning each day to not let go of things so easy unless necessary
All of those points I agree with but the being my own best friend was one that really hit home for me this year.
I’m still in my twenties and I definitely feel the part about reminiscing. It will eat you up and drive you crazy!!!!
We want to thank you all for the encouraging and positive comments!! We are grateful that this video has been inspiring and helpful! We LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!! Share this video with everyone you feel it may help or may need some extra encouragement! xo, Kelsey & Kendra
I’m 27 and I’ve had to start over twice in my twenties. But I’m grateful for the wisdom that continues to come…
I’ve been following you ladies for a long time and y’all have definitely grown and helped me learn a lot! I’m not 30 yet I’m only 26 but I feel like I’ve accomplished a lot. I beat cancer, brought my first car, rented my first apartment, graduated college once so far, and I inspire people to live a simple self loving life❤️ I’m loving forward to seeing more of you ladies🤎
@@KorliCymoneIsWhoIBe thanks gorgeous ❤️
Dont know you sister, but keep being amazing!!!💜💜
Congratulations!! ☺️
"You gotta come healthy too" - Kendra! A whole word. God bless you both ladies
I love this. Thank God for growth !! I love seeing us talk about self love, being self aware, loving who the person your becoming. I’m turning 35 in a few weeks and I started reflect on things I accomplished. For me it was continuing to love myself before needing to be on a relationship because I see everyone else in one. I learned that I need live in the present and not feel pressured to having kids and getting married. Whew Chileeee … Also saying NO. That was a big one when I turned 30. If family or friends couldn’t or don’t understand why you are saying no then you need to reevaluate that relationship. 🤎 y’all !!
👏🏾👏🏾 that NO one hit me at 30 as well, ohh it feels so good I even add a HELL in front of the No to spice it up sometimes 😂
@@lovelylenay the HELL just give it a little razzle dazzle 😂😂
I just turned 31 last week and of course, I'm still learning a lot and growing as a woman. For me, I had to learn that you are not defined by what others think of you. Growing up and in my 20s, I've really struggled with low self esteem and letting what others say about me get to me. I'm still working on it with therapy but now, I know that I'm a dope person, no matter what.
My daughter's is 31 also. She has struggled in those same areas you mentioned and so did I in my 20s and 30s. One day you realize you can't make everyone happy so why try. These folk are not God.
@@dorismarks7773 you're absolutely right!
I absolutely loved this video! I’ve been watching you both since I was in high school & I’m 23 now!!I love seeing your growth & the many things you both accomplished. The point you both made about living in the moment & being grateful for what you have now really stuck with me because it’s so true! Thank you! 🤍✨
I turned 30 in September and have literally been watching y’all for 10 years… since y’all were in that blue bedroom 😂 the glow up is real
Yesss the blue room! Lololol
I feel this video was definitely right on time. I'll be 30 in a few months and definitely had a LOT of moments when I felt I was behind my peers cause I had pressure from society or social media or my family too. I'll simply say a recent conversation with a friend showed me that the grass isn't always greener on the other side and to learn to be content where I'm at. The things meant for me, God will bring them and align them seamlessly
My 20s were marred with a lot of fear and depression and anxiety, so I'm determined to do a total 180 for my 30s ❤
Amen❤️ i love this for you🤧👏🏾. I needed to read this.
@@siddycity101 awww thank you love ❤ I appreciate it! And glad my perspective helped you out
Guurrrll my anxiety and depression got worse in my 30s because I realized bad decisions cost! It made me more afraid to make decisions because I didn't want to make the wrong decision.
@@jewelsjewels3655 awwww I'm sorry love ❤ as scary as it can appear, we gotta keep trying to work towards the things we desire, even if afraid.
Me too sis! I’ll be 30 in April and I’m ready for my twenties to be done with
Welcome to your 30's! It's all uphill from here, and you're just getting started. My twin brother and I are...wait for it...45! (Bday is 7/11 :D) And I remember the excitement of turning 30, feeling really grown up, and anticipating what my 30s would bring. I also recall turning 40 and going to the local 7/11 for my free slurpee LOL (uneventful). But each decade brings a wealth of reflection, and appreciation for the experiences that life brings. Here's to the next chapter......
I turned 30 back in August and was very excited to reach that milestone in life. I was feeling like the character Jone from girlfriends when she was reflecting over her 20s and felt like she wasted those years and didn't have as much fun as you by society's standards are supposed too. I've learned to always enjoy life and that is what I will continue to do.
I just turned 28( December 8) and i now feel like i have a hang on life. College and a career full time & just moved into my own place. I’m not exactly where I want to be exactly in my career but with the power of prayer it will come 👏🏽
I really resonate with being a homebody and being comfortable in that. It's important to tap into what makes your feel fulfilled. And at 23, going to the club every weekend is not fulfilling to me. I had to learn to stop trying to be the person other people want me to be and be myself in that regard. Don't get me wrong I like to party, but a lot of times it's just too much for me. It also forced me to be more strategic with creating friendships with people who are similar to me in that way. Love that point y'all made!
My motto: "I'm not going to be uncomfortable for you to be comfortable ". No is okay respect my answer just as I respected your question.
I know their mother and father is so proud of the young ladies they have grown up to be 👍👍👍👍
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Absolutely agree about creating a peaceful environment, that is very important to me. Great video, you ladies are light years ahead of me at you guys' age. I had to learn the power of "NO" and maintaining peace in my 40's. You ladies are so mature and awesome. My 20's were rough, I learned to take care of me, strive for my goals and never let anyone rain on your parade.
"I can't bless you with that person in your life" 🙌🏾 that one almost struck a nerve! Loved this!
My mom always did 1. All roads lead to home 2. You can make any place a home!
I’m 30 and what I’ve learned in my 20’s is patience ,
gratitude, and most importantly established an unbreakable bond/relationship with Christ!
Cheers to our thirties ladies and may God bless you with the desires of your hearts ♥️ 🥂
It was so easy for you two because you have each other it’s a little harder when you’re by yourself or an only child. You just have a wonderful relationship with each other and both of you love to do the things and appreciate what you have, and how you got there. I will always say that having a twin, it’s something that everybody doesn’t experience & lucky to have each other❤️
So many gems in this video! You guys remind me all the time that it’s solid to be a chill, homebody, and private person. 👏🏾💎
Kelsey & Kendra , ya'll BEEN! grown. You're not following what most 20 yr old's are doing. I was just looking at the video of y'all with the popeye's mulkbang. Love y'all, so proud of ya'll and proud of what y'all accomplished at an early age. You're beautiful women.
I love this video. I feel like I grew along with y'all. Ive been watching y'all since i was 16 and I'm 26 now. Yall are the big sisters I never had. I feel like I accomplished a lot in my 20s but still have more ways to go. I became a nurse at 21, homeowner at 23 and started my hair care line this year at 26. Once everything is set and stone I would love to send you ladies some products!
Wow, that's amazing! Good for you and good luck with everything!
I love this! And I’m even more excited b/c a lot of what y’all said I learned too! I just turned 30 this year and a few things I’ve learned are:
1. Saying no without having an excuse & not feeling bad about it
2. Self care in the sense of actually caring for my inner self. Emotional, spiritual, relational, financial, physical etc.
3. How to truly let go of things I can’t control
4. To let God be God & move out His way. To let God really lead me
5. To ask for & go after what I want regardless of how others feel about it
6. To accept ppl for who they are without being mad at them for who they are. I can’t cut everybody off 🥴
7. To make sure that when I tell others yes I’m not telling myself no
8. To not be so hard on myself & to talk to myself how I’d want others to talk to me
9. To speak up and use my voice. If I don’t advocate for me then who will?
10. To pause & be quiet when angry. Not everything needs to be addressed
11. Communicate better
12. To set expectations for individuals based on who/how they are to avoid disappointment.
13. Self love and self care aren’t synonymous. I’ve always loved myself but just learned how to actually care for myself.
14. Learning to be a better steward of my coins
15. A whole lot of patience & temperance
16. How to rest. Enjoy the moment & stop always looking to check the next thing off my list
17. I haven’t mastered this but to take control of my first thoughts in the morning. No jumping in my feelings about whatever issue as soon as I wake up
18. To not ignore the red flags in any relationship whether it be romantic, platonic or familial
I’m sure I have more but I think I left enough lol 🙂
Yes. Identifying red flags is a big one for me. So glad I've gotten better at it lol.
I feel a twin talk show coming in the near future, love this topic, and the wine talk towards the end topped it off nicely👌🏾
Im 27 and a lot has changed since I was 20. I can say that im more self aware. Unfortunately I wasted time in certain relationships in my 20's but thank God for growth! I spend the majority of my 20's abstaining from sex 🙌🏽 now I look forward to living my best life in the latter part of my 20's . I realized that I'm ONLY 27.
I turned 30 in June and I second everything you said!! Two of the biggest things I learned was not giving toxic energy room to grow in my life and I have a RIGHT to my feelings and expectations. I would allow people to guilt me for setting boundaries or cutting off friendships/relationships or family members. I truly thought I was just mean for years (because I let people tell me I was) because I was setting boundaries and losing friendships based on things I felt were disrespectful to me. Just because they don't understand how it hurt me doesn't mean I made a bad decision in letting them go.
I turned 30 this year. One thing that I didn't realize until my later 20s was that I need to parent myself. When I became an adult and had the freedom to do what I wanted, I did whatever I wanted, even if it wasn't the best for me. Now that I'm older, I realize that all of the things that my parents taught me were for a reason. I need to take better care of myself and follow routines or I will get to a very unhealthy place that's hard to get out of sometimes. I also realized that I can be all that I need. I don't need to wait for someone or something to make me happy. I can be happy now because happiness is a choice.
“But you know God, He provides! He be show’n out!” “Enjoy the blessings you already prayed for” Amen!!!
These young women are an inspiration ❤️
could you ladies share what you've learned as far as your career and finances?
Oh yes I’m here for this content! I’m 24 living in Atlanta and feel like I’m “running out of time.” I’ve been watching y’all for years 💕💕
I’m 27 now and the most important thing I learned in my 20s is Quality People Only. If someone not serving your life in any way, cut them out.
I turned 30 in July!!! I wish I was more financially literate in my 20s!!! I am now and I will be debt free in May 2022!!! 🙌🏾 Took a lot but I’m almost there!!! God does provide!!! The man also shouldn’t complicate your life!!! 🙄Overall, I am excited to be 30 and for what’s coming next!!! Thanks for the video ladies!!!
P.s. I still love juice!!! 😂
My twenties was hard,alot of credit and bills I had no idea what I was getting into I had to struggle to learn,but I'm thankful I'm here
Definitely learned in my twenties to live for myself. I’m 32 and not married, no kids, no house but incredibly content. This video was comforting and refreshing
I’m so late lol. But I turned 30 in Feb. I’ve been watching since the first apartment. I feel like we grew up together lol. But that word no was a big lesson for me in my 20s. I learned what I want out of a partner. I got married, had kids, got divorced and have continued to elevate my life and my mind since. I learned what I want from my career. And I learned that your life and your path is truly your own. Not only did I learn that, I embody that now and I’m so grateful. Love you guys!!
Just turned 24, Scorpio gang! Loved the video .. I am looking forward to evolving as I make my way through my 20s
Hey y'all! I'm 24, and I think our 20s definitely can be a crazy stage in our lives. I really love y'all comments on self-love and relationships! Your significant other definitely should complement, not complete, your life.
I'm so here for this video. I've been watching you ladies when yall was still living with your mom. Love seeing positive, very well put together ladies ❤
Ikr, we've literally seen them blossom and grow up into amazing women. Love it 🥰💙
Me too. Wow that just reminded me of how long I’ve been watching them.
Wow I didn’t realize they’ve been on yt that long. When I started watching, they were already living on their own. But they shared a car.
I learnt so much during my 20s. I bought my first appartment, alone. Traveled alone. I learnt about myself. I think 20's is about growth, you leave your parents you are focusing about knowing yourself. I loved my 20's, sometimes it was hard but it was worth the journey.
I’m 26 and I know I’m headed in the right direction because everything you all said are things I’ve learned as well! God bless you two and may the next decade be as fulfilling and grand as the last one!
My 20s were a while back. I learned I should have waited on a relationship. I learned how to pay bills. I learned how to be a mom. Ya'll are right behind my daughter. She just turned 31 and she is a fall baby too.
Y’all are my big sisters in my head lol! Loved this video & watching you grow over the years🖤🖤🖤
I’ve been watching you two since the old Apartment. I’m so proud of your journey and how much you’ve grown and accomplished in your 20’s. I’m a cyber Auntie that’s been cheering you on and can say I’ve learned a lot watching your channel. Your 30’s will be another year of discovery and can’t wait to see it! As always I’m Praying for your growth and continued success
One word after watching this video. AMEN! 🙏 You two ladies have ALWAYS BEEN REAL ONES! 🙌
I love that you guys are thirty, flirty and thriving!!! Im not 30 yet (in my mid 20's) and am so excited about what the future holds. I live life on the edge, there is no manual to MY life. I don't care what other peoples dream is and what they think standards are. I am writing my OWN book and am so happy for a sound mind and positive attitude towards life. I live life with no pressure. Everything will happen just as it's supposed to. Imma leave with this. "There was a woman who was married with kids at 25, but divorced at 30" "There was a different woman who didn't get married and have kids until 35 but lived happily ever after" everyone has a different story no one's story is the same. I am so content with whatever the future holds. Love y'all!!! Y'all are so blessed and so fortunate to have each other. It's truly amazing.
Ive been watching you Queens since 2015. Watching this made me so emotional. To watch you elevate. Im 30 as well. Im finally not afraid to move out on my own. Ive allowed negative people in my family to fill my life with fears. After losing my granny a month ago it hit me like a wave of realization. I had to tell myself sis get tf up! I love you guys may more blessings ventures and sights behold you Queens.
Whew!!!! Yal literally spoke my ENTIRE life in this video. I turned 30 this year as well, one of the biggest lessons I've learned is that those people you think you can't live without YOU ABSOLUTELY CAN!! I always allow God to not only to remove but replace any and everything that is not for me. Thank yal for this video, looking forward to the next one 🥰🙏🏾❤
Before actually turning 30 I wasn’t really feeling good about 30 because of pressures that other people put on me. But now that I’m 30 I love it. I’m happy and truly don’t give af about what anyone has to say. Much more at peace!
I love this video, I recently turned 28 & have been doing a lot of reflecting myself. I still have a little less 2 years before I close out this chapter but I've evolved soooooo much! Your 20's are really the shaping years!
I have less than 3 years to go before my 30’s but watching this video made me realize just how grateful I am. I am so busy trying to be like someone else and how I never accomplished all the things that I’m suppose to at this age that I forget that I have done some amazing things and accomplished some of my goals. I really needed this video.
I also love watching all of your old voogs because I feel like I learn something new everytime and it’s like I feel like I’m prepared for whenever God tells me it’s time to move out
12:30 I so agree with you. If you feel like someone is holding you back. Just let him/her go. I don't care if it's family, friend or lover but don't try to be a therapist or a money expert for that person, it's not your job AND sometimes we need to love/heal ourself so don't drown together. When you let it go, you will open your eyes and see what life can offer you.
Great video! Love listening to you guys reflect. I’m 53 and love your videos. I’m just now learning to say no, and was funny when Kendra said she look forward to saying no, lmbo.
I’m turning 34 so its kinda crazy to think that you guys are 30! One thing that I really like about you guys is how “normal” you two are. For influencers/content creators you guys really don’t act like some of the others do in their video. There is a authenticity to you guys that I really enjoy and I love that you guys are so close. It’s beautiful to see. Many blessing to you and may God continue to His face upon you two.
I really enjoyed this video!!! I learned so much in my 20s as well...I turned 40 last year and I have learned so much over the course of time.
You know it is such a blessing that you guys have been able to accomplish life lessons in such a short time, some older people are still learning these lessons. I would agree you guys were definitely old souls, I believe that's what made me love watching you guys, you guys, never tried too much, you just were your genuine self all the time. It's so amazing that God will cause people to love you and show you that being yourself is enough!!! Goals for my channel!
I resonate with this one a lot. I'm turning 30 in January. All year I've been dreading it but in the past week I've just realized how lucky and blessed I am to even be alive this long. My 20's were rough but they were eye opening too. I just hope my 30's are more healthy and peaceful.
Just turned 30 December 3rd and them 20s was something else! Definitely proud of my growth! Loved the video btw!
I’ll be 30 in Feb been watching you guys since the y’all still lived at home. I would also say I’ve grown a lot, different prospective, more comfortable with myself. Grateful for my upbringing and in awe of how my family was able to do it, especially my mother. I’m nervous about turning 30 trying not to beat myself up about my accomplishments and give myself credit for how far I have come. Going into my 30’s I want to set new goals and work harder to attain them. Continue pushing myself and be more intentional in everything in every aspect of my life and live more in the moment. ❤️ y’all are truly inspiring
Yes saying no and remaining true to myself. Being unapologetically me, happiness is my sanity, and energy is fundamental
I loved this video!!! I turned 40 this year and the wisdom I have learned over the years is unbelievable.
You two are so poised and mature. You're excellent examples of young women living in their truth!! Be comfortable saying NO. 💕 Stay grounded and grateful - cheering you on from Michigan.
Super proud of you both, watching you guys grow into not only beautiful but very wise, confident and such great role models.
I turned 30 November 22nd and I learned a lot in my 20s as far as spending unnecessary money, friends, loving myself and being grateful
That outgrowing friends is okay and also necessary in order for you to ascertain your life aspirations and for them to ascertain theirs.
Love this ❤️. I've been following you for a long time. I'm 9 years older and I will tell you that your 30s are way better than your 20s. Y'all are lucky to have each other, I didn't have any friends and my family is older so they couldn't relate to me. Good luck to your 30s 🙏🏾
I love this! I’ll be 30 in 3 days and I’m excited about my 30s. I’m with you both on just being grateful. For the past 3 years I’ve been journaling daily and I always end with one thing that I am grateful for. It has taught me a lot and I’m always reminded that though things might not be how I need them to be everything is on purpose and I’m exactly where I need to be. Just be present at all times and enjoy each moment, there is always something to be grateful for. Much love to you both, very inspiring.
I remember when y’all first moved out. I was really young, like 13 or 14. I have always looked at you guys as the fabulous big sisters I never had. I’m 23 now and getting ready to move out. Much love, and many blessings. ❤️
I turned 30 in July and I’m looking forward to this next decade. One thing my 20’s taught me was to give myself grace & that you can create new versions of yourself at any moment. I can absolutely agree with learning to live in and appreciate the present moment 💕
Y'all make-up foundation is PERFECT 💯
30 girl here! Lol omggggg been following you guys almost 8 years - we’ve literally grown together lol I agree- TASTE has expanded and my maturity elevated. I am ready for a new decade, loving it!
I thoroughly enjoyed this . I am 26 and I am truly wanting to move into my own space so that I can truly have the capacity to reflect and have peace . I feel that there is lots of growth in isolation.
I enjoy these kinds of videos perfect timing
I’ve been subscribed since the coral wall in y’all’s 2nd apt, I love this type of video! Seeing y’all from y’all’s 20’s to now, makes me so proud of you ladies, I’m 33 but y’all are really my inspiration ♥️
Loved this video!!! I turned 26 on 11/08 and I am actually running from 30. I achieved a lot in my 20s so far and I enjoy youth, it feels like you have so much time to still achieve so much, it feels good to know that I am still young enough to make mistakes and have time to fix them. Not to say that 30 is running out of time, I've just always viewed 30 as "having life together" and 30 looks mature. Society views the 30s as the time to settle down. I am not quite ready for those expectations, and I want to be "prepared" which of course is crazy and fairytale like because you can never be too prepared or too together for anything.
November baby and 27. I loved this video. A relationship should make your life easier. I’ve also been on a self love journey for a few years now. I too have completely improved my attitude, patience & perspective on life. No longer setting goals based on age but I’ll do it when I’m ready. I’m reading the other ladies 30+ comments & I totally relate
Here I am at 25 like wow I hope I am as happy and learn as much as you two have🖤I can’t believe I’ve been watching y’all for so long 🖤🖤love it
You both have learned so much in your 20s. There are a lot of women over 40 who has not learned have of what you know. I’m still working on saying “no”, without apologizing. Loved this video soooo much
Every single point was spot on, I turned 30 in 2021 aswell and your video helped give me insight and perspective about how I want to move forward in this chapter of my life. Thank you ladies 🤍
Hello girls!!! I'm from the cape verde islands and I've just turned 30 on this pass November 27th. I must say that my 20s were a holocoaster, I became a mom in my 20s, I finished my bachelor's in my 20s, I went to live in diferent countries when I was in my 20s, also been in good and in very BAD relationships in my 20s. Definetely learned a LOT about myself. Now, in this new decade the 30s, I hope I'll just keep growing and maturing and just feel good about myself.
Thank you girls for this video ❤, it made me feel closer to you even more.
Can y’all have more discussion around how you did do your self love? Like we’re there books you read that provided your aha moments or different things you wanted to explore more. What we’re the intentional focal points that you were present and mindful of.
I love this video.. I literally did this same reflection after turning 30 this year… I learned to end relationships with family members that are toxic, Self-love, Setting boundaries, I learn ways heal from pass trauma in my late 20’s…
Hey Girls! I wanted to say how much I love you girls, you both are always so inspirational with everything you do! I turned 30 back in May and I definitely learned how to be kinder to myself over the past decade and take more chances. This year I'm choosing faith over fear! Love you both, have an amazing year!
This is great, I have been waiting for something like this. I didn’t know I needed it, but I really did. 😍😍
Thank you for sharing. It’s nice to hear different perspectives because I’m in my early twenties. Love y’all’s makeup as well.
I’m a married girl in the navy at 23 with a baby that I had with in my first year of marriage but I consistently watch you guys and enjoy your content. I really resonate with you two and your advice videos and even though I’m happily married and stuff, it’s good advice that I tell my younger and older sisters. So thanks for just being you guys! 😘
Thank you so much for this video! I too am a scorpio, November 9th and a lot of things y’all shared resinate!
Whew! I love when you ladies do sit downs...so wise and classy. The women that are on this real self love journey truly appreciate you!
I’m 31. And one of the things I learned in my 20s is nothing or no one is perfect. It sounds silly but it has helped me a lot to being able to love myself more and accept myself more.
Watch you two ladies go from young women to grown women was has helped me . Self love & putting yourself first is so very key to making the life that you can enjoy. If you are not happy with self , how can you expect someone else to be happy with you. Thank you Kelsey & Kendra for sharing your lives with us. I know whatever or whom ever is in your future, it going to be amazing. Happy Holidays 😊🎄❤️
Wow I’ve been watching you two since y’all lived at home with your mother 😳 Time is flying! I’m happy to have witnessed y’all growth💜💜
I am a long time subscriber and started watching since you guys were still living at home. I love all your videos but must say this one is a mature, sober, but it makes you smile at the same time video for so many young women out there. You have dropped so many good gems as life lessons and it is a beautiful thing to see how you have lived your life in such a lovely and respectful way and have come into your own. So so proud of you beautiful black women. God Bless you ladies. Bravo. 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😍😍
This was so great 🤍 I’ll be 28 next month and I look back and reflect all the time
These are by far my favorite types of videos from my favorite twins. I cannot wait to see what the next decade brings for you ladies 🤎
You guys have grown so much and I can’t believe y’all at 30!! I remember watching you two years ago when y’all were sitting on the floor in your bedroom doing videos til now. Y’all are my favs! I pray that God continues to bless you both. You deserve it.❤️
Everything that was said in this video it is so so so true. May God continue to bless you all.