" If a guy likes you it's gonna be pretty obvious. If you're questioning if a guy likes you or not, most of the time he doesn't like you." ABSOLUTELY FACT.
Lol so true. When my husband started liking me i knew beyind a shadow of a doubt. Until then he did not at all and we were just friends hanging out every week, and i could tell that... I kept my hopes quiet and let God do things in His timing. My husband says he had no idea i was even liking him lol. I wanted it to be God's way and in His time so i did my best to keep it before Him and sat still. Hard for me to do, but God helped me..
So this is a bit dangerous. I'm fairly loud and ig with girls that translates to flirtatious. I was always out grabbing a bite or hanging with gals, but often wasn't interested. I want trying to lead anyone on, but just friends having fun
I've been praying for a Godly husband. Maybe if all of us singles in the comments can pray for each other's future spouses..Because, satan doesn't want kingdom marriages.. Let's pray bold prayers in faith that God is going before us ❤️
I love the reminder to seek out counsel. My husband is one of nine and it’s been nice to have some of his siblings marry before us and they are couples that we believe are living a Christ-centered life so it’s nice to bounce ideas off of them and discuss how they are doing life. Not in a comparison way but more navigating life’s challenges together! I think many young Christian’s will benefit from your mentorship, Nate and Sutton. I think you’re a bit crazy to pick up this new venture with 3 little ones, but you might as well get paid for what you are already doing via messages.
Proverbs 15:22 “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” I so agree with mentorship! Our Lord tells us to go and MAKE Disciples. I mentor women at my home in our prayer room. I teach and encourage wives through the Bible. I am so happy you guys care about helping others live encouraged lives! Our Lord told us that He has come that we may have life and life more abundantly! I absolutely believe that you must have counsel in your life to help you navigate difficulties but mostly so you can share and learn in the word of God together and have others praying with you and for you! Another video that bears fruit to our Lord! Thank you and Sutton! P. S.
Such a good idea! Some will be bugged that it cost... BUT not only are we taking up your valueable time, it would also cost more then that to go to a good Christian therapist or counselor for advice and a good talk. The fact that it cost will make people not play around with your time :) smart thinking. You want to help people but want to stay serious about it in a way. ♡♡ makes lots of sense to me! (I looked up therapist/psychiatrist/counseling near me and average cost is up to $200 for one hour session. But extensive therapist thats for like mental health etc is even more)
I’d love to know your guys’ thoughts on when to start parenthood after marriage/ a video on prepping for parenthood. Im 25, he’s 30 & we’re 6 months married and have a deep desire to be parents. BUT everyone tells us to focus on investing (I’m a new realtor), traveling and enjoying each other for at least 1-2 years. We aren’t preventing, and not really ‘trying’ either, but we want heed counsel given to us while trusting and obeying God. & If you guys do answer you can use my name 😂
Be fruitful and multiply. That's what you want. That's what your husband wants. Most importantly, that is what God wants because he tells us that in His word. Don't listen to the world. People are full of bad ideas.
Your hearts for God are inspiring. In a day and age when time is so expensive you decided to spend some on calls with strangers so you can honor Him more. Thank you for being children of Grace worth admiring. I needed this today
I really appreciate you guys sharing your experience, wisdom and putting advice out there which has helped me tremendously. And the thing Sutton said, I was thinking the same about how amazing the internet really with the way that we can all connect and grow from different sides of the world and God has guided me to your channel!
This was a great video!!! I wish so much that more people would take an interest in older people that have been through so much and have wisdom that can help them in their trials and triumphs!!!!! I encourage you to keep making these God-centered videos! They are so informative and fun and honest. So much more than other family videos, which, some are fun, however, your videos touch the stuff of life! You are sharing your experiences, thank you!!! I'm gonna book a call!!!! God bless you for sharing HIM!!!!
My wife and I have watched your videos together for a decent amount of time now but we are very disappointed to see that you are charging while offering ministry opportunities. Jesus said in Matthew 10:8 to freely give as you have freely received. It is not of God to charge a mandatory fee for Christian ministry. You guys should set up a cash app or venmo account and allow people to donate in response to these sessions Instead. Having a separate business is totally fine but making a business out of ministry is not of God. When you do genuine ministry God will lead people to donate. You don't have to charge. I say this in love. Please hear me out and reconsider.
Letting people donate the amount they want does sound like a good idea. But I think they also made it that you have to pay right away to prevent trolls or haters from booking some sessions.
I think it's ok for a girl to show interest to let a guy to know that shes interested. This can open the door for him to ask her out. But at the end of the day, I believe that he needs to be the one to do the pursuing. If a man really wants a girl, he won't stop until he gets his prize. In the meantime, both parties need to be praying that Gods will be done.....I'm looking forward to more of these types of videos. This was a good one.
WOOO very excited to talk with you guys! If God wills that, its going to be great! Always great to see another video of you guys talking about topics and pointing it to Jesus!
Thanks for the video, guys! You give such good advice and I always turn to your Chanel at some point when I’m going through a hard time or have a question! So thank you! Speaking of questions... What are your thoughts on getting married young? Do you think a person should have at least a certain amount of life experience before getting married?
Thanks so much for this video, I'm working on preparing myself for the right man. I've also been doing therapy since 2018 to heal from a lot of unresolved truama and grief along with building my faith stronger. Below are questions I'd be interested in hearing your input on: Dating someone in the work place? I lost my parents and brother so young which continues to impact me with grief I deal with at certain times every year, what is the best way to tell someone about that who I date in the future? Should there be a set time? Any advice on emotional boundaries with it? Thanks again 🥰🙏
Hi Nate and Sutton ! I’m happy you guys found each other. My girlfriend and I are from different cultures. I am from India. She is American. I like watching clean comedy movies and sitcoms from my language to keep my mood light and happy. My girlfriend couldn’t understand the language. American shows today are filled with vulgar comedy. It’s very hard to find clean comedy shows. I see you guys have a good sense of humor. What do you guys watch on TV ? If you could suggest some funny shows/sitcoms that you guys watch that would great !
God bless! I was wondering if orthodoxy reaches your region and what are your thoughts about this religion (if you don't mind addressing this subject)! Sending lots of love!
@@nateandsutton Thank you for getting back to me. I have learned a lot from your videos. I think God is also using you to show people that Godly and secure families exist, feels like too many Christian families are broken and disfunctional. How can I can send you a private message? E-mail or DM?
I have a question about teenage dating as a christian. I'm 16 years old and I've been in love with my best friend since I was 13. The feeling is mutual but a year ago when I told him I liked him, he said that he didn't want to date yet because he had a few things in his life he needed to work on including his relationship with God. I completely understand, however its been a year since I told him I liked him, we are still best friends and hangout all the time but I'm starting to feel impatient, we haven't really discussed the possibility of a relationship since last year. I'm finding it difficult to trust that he is genuinley serious about me. I feel like if he actually wanted to be with me, he would've asked me to be his girlfriend by now. he said that he doesnt want to mess me around and that is why he doesnt want a relationship yet, I feel very stuck bcs I don't know if I should stay loyal and wait for someone who doesnt want to commit to a relationship.. He treats me very well and never fails to make me feel special but I feel very confused and sometimes taken for granted bcs he knows that I wouldnt just leave him and therefore I feel like he might be using that to his advantage by taking his time before he makes up his mind about me. is it wrong of me to feel impatient? Am I too young to date? should I wait for him or move on with my life? am I being selfish?
As someone who is also now dating her best friend, I’d actually suggest to not wait on him. This guy and I met freshman year of college, and by the end of the year we were best friends! I had definitely had a crush on him literally since we met. But I ended up dating someone else that year and my friend ended up dating someone else our sophomore year. Neither of those relationships lasted long. My best friend and I started dating the summer before our senior year. Although it took 3 years to start dating, and we dated other people in that time, I’m glad because we both learned a lot about ourselves and how to be our best selves within a relationship. This is just my experience and it might not look the same as yours. But I don’t think you should wait for him if someone else comes along. Don’t put your life on pause for someone.
When I was 14 I fell in love with a girl in my same grade grade 9. She wasn’t interested in me at that time but I loved her all through high school and stayed friends with her. When we were both 19 we magically started dating got engaged and they got married when we were 20. However, as what happens to a lot of people in their 20s we grew into different people. The values of our different families were very different, and we realized that our values made us incompatible. Also because we didn’t have sex before marriage we only realized after our wedding night that I wanted way more sex than she did. I also wanted things that she didn’t want, like sex with music in the background, the lights on etc. What also surprised me in my mid-late 20s was that I met people of the opposite sex who I was much much more compatible with, but I didn’t give myself the time to find those people. May I ask since you’re only 16 what is the rush to date? I assume your a Christian and don’t believe in premarital sex, so what’s the point of dating so young if there’s no lovemaking?
@@AaronFromGuildfordI guess the point is to learn all the other things that are involved in a relationship. If sex were to be the foundation/a factor that our relationship would largely be based on I don't believe it would be a successful one, especially with all the hookup culture that's infiltrated teenagers now, it seems to be all that people want as opposed to a meaningful partnership based on love not lust. Sure physical attraction is very important however its not what matters most. I'm not nesscarily in a rush to date, but he had very strongly indicated and directly told me that he wants to date me and that he is very serious about me. Which I found confusing and it became more and more difficult to trust that he really wanted a relationship as time went on. Shortly after I posted this we did have a discussion about dating and he recently asked me to be his girlfriend. I guess at this age since we are both very serious about each other a relationship gives a sense of security and trust that not dating wouldn't bring. Also boundaries are more clear. Since we're both Christian's it is something that we have both prayed about and feel at peace with.
I have 2(twin) son's that are 25 years old. I pray that God will bring to them a nice girl, time is ticking, college is over, they are falling into a habit of homebodies... Lord, are you going to send a nice girl for each son? Lol!
My fiancee is 36 and an identical twin...he was celibate, so was I till 30 when he met me...his brother is still single...no matter how much we want to rush things..you can't weather it's somebody 's will or God,'d timing ..it's both hard and a good thing
I have been following you from Kigali, RWANDA for a two year now!! May God bless you with more wisdom... I like the way you blend your everything with God's word!!
nate && sutton , what a sweet sweet video ! thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts on these dating questions . i am so so grateful for christ centered relationship that can pour into those who are still in the waiting season ! i cannot wait for in His perfect timing to apply this advice to my next relationship . continue to rely on Him in ALL things && through ALL ways in your marriage ! 🌿🤍
" If a guy likes you it's gonna be pretty obvious. If you're questioning if a guy likes you or not, most of the time he doesn't like you." ABSOLUTELY FACT.
Lol so true. When my husband started liking me i knew beyind a shadow of a doubt. Until then he did not at all and we were just friends hanging out every week, and i could tell that... I kept my hopes quiet and let God do things in His timing. My husband says he had no idea i was even liking him lol. I wanted it to be God's way and in His time so i did my best to keep it before Him and sat still. Hard for me to do, but God helped me..
@@kindnessmatters4068 that’s amazing
So this is a bit dangerous. I'm fairly loud and ig with girls that translates to flirtatious. I was always out grabbing a bite or hanging with gals, but often wasn't interested. I want trying to lead anyone on, but just friends having fun
Great point!!
I've been praying for a Godly husband. Maybe if all of us singles in the comments can pray for each other's future spouses..Because, satan doesn't want kingdom marriages.. Let's pray bold prayers in faith that God is going before us ❤️
I love the reminder to seek out counsel. My husband is one of nine and it’s been nice to have some of his siblings marry before us and they are couples that we believe are living a Christ-centered life so it’s nice to bounce ideas off of them and discuss how they are doing life. Not in a comparison way but more navigating life’s challenges together!
I think many young Christian’s will benefit from your mentorship, Nate and Sutton. I think you’re a bit crazy to pick up this new venture with 3 little ones, but you might as well get paid for what you are already doing via messages.
I'd love to connect and pray together whenever my husband is not working and just talk about our testimonies together!
Proverbs 15:22 “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” I so agree with mentorship! Our Lord tells us to go and MAKE Disciples. I mentor women at my home in our prayer room. I teach and encourage wives through the Bible. I am so happy you guys care about helping others live encouraged lives! Our Lord told us that He has come that we may have life and life more abundantly! I absolutely believe that you must have counsel in your life to help you navigate difficulties but mostly so you can share and learn in the word of God together and have others praying with you and for you! Another video that bears fruit to our Lord! Thank you and Sutton! P. S.
Such a good idea! Some will be bugged that it cost... BUT not only are we taking up your valueable time, it would also cost more then that to go to a good Christian therapist or counselor for advice and a good talk. The fact that it cost will make people not play around with your time :) smart thinking. You want to help people but want to stay serious about it in a way. ♡♡ makes lots of sense to me!
(I looked up therapist/psychiatrist/counseling near me and average cost is up to $200 for one hour session. But extensive therapist thats for like mental health etc is even more)
I’d love to know your guys’ thoughts on when to start parenthood after marriage/ a video on prepping for parenthood.
Im 25, he’s 30 & we’re 6 months married and have a deep desire to be parents. BUT everyone tells us to focus on investing (I’m a new realtor), traveling and enjoying each other for at least 1-2 years. We aren’t preventing, and not really ‘trying’ either, but we want heed counsel given to us while trusting and obeying God. & If you guys do answer you can use my name 😂
Be fruitful and multiply. That's what you want. That's what your husband wants. Most importantly, that is what God wants because he tells us that in His word. Don't listen to the world. People are full of bad ideas.
Your hearts for God are inspiring. In a day and age when time is so expensive you decided to spend some on calls with strangers so you can honor Him more. Thank you for being children of Grace worth admiring. I needed this today
I really appreciate you guys sharing your experience, wisdom and putting advice out there which has helped me tremendously. And the thing Sutton said, I was thinking the same about how amazing the internet really with the way that we can all connect and grow from different sides of the world and God has guided me to your channel!
This was a great video!!! I wish so much that more people would take an interest in older people that have been through so much and have wisdom that can help them in their trials and triumphs!!!!! I encourage you to keep making these God-centered videos! They are so informative and fun and honest. So much more than other family videos, which, some are fun, however, your videos touch the stuff of life! You are sharing your experiences, thank you!!! I'm gonna book a call!!!! God bless you for sharing HIM!!!!
You are wise. And most importantly you are humble and seeking God in everything you do. That's why we are wanting to ask for advice :)
Be blessed!!
What’s so bad about asking a friend if somebody likes you? I don’t know why Nate said he saw it negatively.
Love your heart, Sutton! Hope your family is doing well!✝️😊
My wife and I have watched your videos together for a decent amount of time now but we are very disappointed to see that you are charging while offering ministry opportunities. Jesus said in Matthew 10:8 to freely give as you have freely received. It is not of God to charge a mandatory fee for Christian ministry. You guys should set up a cash app or venmo account and allow people to donate in response to these sessions Instead. Having a separate business is totally fine but making a business out of ministry is not of God. When you do genuine ministry God will lead people to donate. You don't have to charge. I say this in love. Please hear me out and reconsider.
Letting people donate the amount they want does sound like a good idea. But I think they also made it that you have to pay right away to prevent trolls or haters from booking some sessions.
I agree with you brother Noah.
I think it's ok for a girl to show interest to let a guy to know that shes interested. This can open the door for him to ask her out. But at the end of the day, I believe that he needs to be the one to do the pursuing. If a man really wants a girl, he won't stop until he gets his prize. In the meantime, both parties need to be praying that Gods will be done.....I'm looking forward to more of these types of videos. This was a good one.
Perfectly said!! Agree so much!
Yes exactly !
Yep! I agree. 🌷
This timing is great, love you guys 😁
WOOO very excited to talk with you guys! If God wills that, its going to be great! Always great to see another video of you guys talking about topics and pointing it to Jesus!
Thanks for the video, guys! You give such good advice and I always turn to your Chanel at some point when I’m going through a hard time or have a question! So thank you!
Speaking of questions...
What are your thoughts on getting married young? Do you think a person should have at least a certain amount of life experience before getting married?
Thanks so much for this video, I'm working on preparing myself for the right man. I've also been doing therapy since 2018 to heal from a lot of unresolved truama and grief along with building my faith stronger. Below are questions I'd be interested in hearing your input on:
Dating someone in the work place?
I lost my parents and brother so young which continues to impact me with grief I deal with at certain times every year, what is the best way to tell someone about that who I date in the future? Should there be a set time? Any advice on emotional boundaries with it?
Thanks again 🥰🙏
I love these type of videos!!! Keep it up!!!
awww that’s very nice to connect with the family in Christ♥️
Hi Nate and Sutton ! I’m happy you guys found each other. My girlfriend and I are from different cultures. I am from India. She is American. I like watching clean comedy movies and sitcoms from my language to keep my mood light and happy. My girlfriend couldn’t understand the language. American shows today are filled with vulgar comedy. It’s very hard to find clean comedy shows. I see you guys have a good sense of humor. What do you guys watch on TV ? If you could suggest some funny shows/sitcoms that you guys watch that would great !
In Bible college .. would love to chat with y’all!! I think you guys are so cool 😭😂🙌🏽
Sutton " Let's not talk about that"...lol .but yes..💯😉
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You inspire me a lot guys l look up to you keep on doing the good work 🔥🔥
Fun concept loves’; looking forward to more videos, I always enjoy the wholesome,quirky dynamic you guys bring, 💗💗💕💛💛🤗
This is amazing! You guys are amazing! God bless!
What the absolute f%^k.
Loved this video ! Thank you guys 😊
Oooh, I'd love a Q&A video on this!
Love your video Just Join lots of love from Uk England 🇬🇧
Just block the haters.
Such a nice idea! Stay blessed
God bless! I was wondering if orthodoxy reaches your region and what are your thoughts about this religion (if you don't mind addressing this subject)! Sending lots of love!
Love you guys ❤️😍
You guys seem to give great advice❤️❤️
Hi what time zone are you? Are the calls for people outside US? I am based in South Africa.
Yes we can set up a zoom! We are on US eastern standard time zone
@@nateandsutton Thank you for getting back to me. I have learned a lot from your videos. I think God is also using you to show people that Godly and secure families exist, feels like too many Christian families are broken and disfunctional. How can I can send you a private message? E-mail or DM?
I have a question about teenage dating as a christian. I'm 16 years old and I've been in love with my best friend since I was 13. The feeling is mutual but a year ago when I told him I liked
him, he said that he didn't want to date yet because he had a few things in his life he needed to work on including his relationship with God. I completely understand, however its been a year since I told him I liked him, we are still best friends and hangout all the time but I'm starting to feel impatient, we haven't really discussed the possibility of a relationship since last year. I'm finding it difficult to trust that he is genuinley serious about me. I feel like if he actually wanted to be with me, he would've asked me to be his girlfriend by now. he said that he doesnt want to mess me around and that is why he doesnt want a relationship yet, I feel very stuck bcs I don't know if I should stay loyal and wait for someone who doesnt want to commit to a relationship.. He treats me very well and never fails to make me feel special but I feel very confused and sometimes taken for granted bcs he knows that I wouldnt just leave him and therefore I feel like he might be using that to his advantage by taking his time before he makes up his mind about me. is it wrong of me to feel impatient? Am I too young to date? should I wait for him or move on with my life? am I being selfish?
As someone who is also now dating her best friend, I’d actually suggest to not wait on him. This guy and I met freshman year of college, and by the end of the year we were best friends! I had definitely had a crush on him literally since we met. But I ended up dating someone else that year and my friend ended up dating someone else our sophomore year. Neither of those relationships lasted long. My best friend and I started dating the summer before our senior year. Although it took 3 years to start dating, and we dated other people in that time, I’m glad because we both learned a lot about ourselves and how to be our best selves within a relationship.
This is just my experience and it might not look the same as yours. But I don’t think you should wait for him if someone else comes along. Don’t put your life on pause for someone.
When I was 14 I fell in love with a girl in my same grade grade 9. She wasn’t interested in me at that time but I loved her all through high school and stayed friends with her. When we were both 19 we magically started dating got engaged and they got married when we were 20. However, as what happens to a lot of people in their 20s we grew into different people. The values of our different families were very different, and we realized that our values made us incompatible.
Also because we didn’t have sex before marriage we only realized after our wedding night that I wanted way more sex than she did. I also wanted things that she didn’t want, like sex with music in the background, the lights on etc.
What also surprised me in my mid-late 20s was that I met people of the opposite sex who I was much much more compatible with, but I didn’t give myself the time to find those people. May I ask since you’re only 16 what is the rush to date? I assume your a Christian and don’t believe in premarital sex, so what’s the point of dating so young if there’s no lovemaking?
@@AaronFromGuildfordI guess the point is to learn all the other things that are involved in a relationship. If sex were to be the foundation/a factor that our relationship would largely be based on I don't believe it would be a successful one, especially with all the hookup culture that's infiltrated teenagers now, it seems to be all that people want as opposed to a meaningful partnership based on love not lust. Sure physical attraction is very important however its not what matters most. I'm not nesscarily in a rush to date, but he had very strongly indicated and directly told me that he wants to date me and that he is very serious about me. Which I found confusing and it became more and more difficult to trust that he really wanted a relationship as time went on. Shortly after I posted this we did have a discussion about dating and he recently asked me to be his girlfriend. I guess at this age since we are both very serious about each other a relationship gives a sense of security and trust that not dating wouldn't bring. Also boundaries are more clear. Since we're both Christian's it is something that we have both prayed about and feel at peace with.
Oh, oh. Be cautious you guys. I can imagine so many people calling you! I am an older single and I am waiting to have sex, but it's hard.
How strong is your faith if you can't withstand UA-cam comments? C'mon bring 'em back - there's a community here?
The call is a great idea but I absolutely cant afford it
You can’t say the wrong thing to the right person.
I have 2(twin) son's that are 25 years old. I pray that God will bring to them a nice girl, time is ticking, college is over, they are falling into a habit of homebodies... Lord, are you going to send a nice girl for each son? Lol!
I want to edit my comment but 🥲
I wanted to say lol your son's should love your humor🤣🤣🤣
My fiancee is 36 and an identical twin...he was celibate, so was I till 30 when he met me...his brother is still single...no matter how much we want to rush things..you can't weather it's somebody 's will or God,'d timing ..it's both hard and a good thing
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I have been following you from Kigali, RWANDA for a two year now!! May God bless you with more wisdom...
I like the way you blend your everything with God's word!!
If your going after God hardcore Gods Generals is a good documentary to watch. It’s free on UA-cam
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You are money hungry I smell greed!
Can y'all do a similar video on the Lord Jesus's advice on gay dating in his holy name? I think Paul would be an excellent resource. PTL! 🙏 🏳️🌈
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More context is needed here, do you want to date the same sex or opposite
Bible don't condone homosexuality though
@@chrys8319 correct. Jesus does not like condoms as you say. 🙏
@@Djk2578 I'm celibate for Jesus right now. Hallelujah, Lord! You? How tall are you?
nate && sutton , what a sweet sweet video ! thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts on these dating questions . i am so so grateful for christ centered relationship that can pour into those who are still in the waiting season ! i cannot wait for in His perfect timing to apply this advice to my next relationship . continue to rely on Him in ALL things && through ALL ways in your marriage ! 🌿🤍