asking CHRISTIAN guys questions girls are too afraid to ask... PART 2
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I've watched" asking guy's questions girls are to afraid to ask " from the viewpoint of secular wordly boys
And now with Christian boys
Christian boy's are more intellectual, they have wisdom, perspective, mature 🦋🌻
It's a beautiful thing to see compared to the mentality of wordly boys
yup, same over here. it's very delightful
Exactly what I was thinking
Oh my gosh yes. Totally agree with you on that!
Right!!
🦋ZAMA 🦋 John 14:6
“There’s a lot of pressure on young Christians to know for sure before you date somebody.” 👏🏼that part👏🏼
I RELATED to this
Yup
PERIODTT FR
This is the comment
THIS THIS THISSS
also yes to pt. 3 of them asking you questions…that would be so fun hahah
Yessss!
maybe have other girl friends so they have more than 1 girls perspective
Yesss!
Yes!!!!
Absolutely! That would be awesome!
I’m a new Christian. And I’ve been fearful of not being desired by a Christian man because of who I used to be before I was born again - so this was extremely comforting. And I pray that my future husband will have the same heart.
Welcome to the family!
Take away any regret dear. God will give you your heart desire according to His will.
I can relate to what you're saying. It's scary but God is greater than our fears and where we fall short. ❤️
Amen❤️ and welcome sister
Be honest in Jesus and you are good.
Hi Kristen! Just want to encourage you that the old has gone and the new has come. And just as when you got baptized in water in the name of the Jesus, it means the old man has been put to death in the water and you have come out alive, a new man in Christ Jesus. I believe that who you were in the past, your sins and every ungodly thing were erased in the memory of the LORD. In Hebrews 8:12, it says that God will remember your sins no more as you come and know HIM. You are a new creation the moment you accepted Jesus in your heart and got baptized. Your identity is found in the LORD Jesus Himself as you will be led by the Holy Spirit to know HIM. Be of good cheer! You are who the Holy Spirit says you are in Christ and we all got this privilege to live from every living truth that God says 😊 I bless you even more Kristen!!
“Before I see someone’s heart, I see there face.” 😂😂😂😂😂 In all honesty I’m really impressed with these men. I couldn’t believe that in the first video they said they pray for there future wife. The maturity level as well is impressive. That gives me hope!! It’s so hard to find a man that is after Gods heart. 💙
agree! 😭😂
I agree I'm scared. Nobody talks to me becuz I'm so religious. Guys only want sex I'm 36 virgin nobody respects how good I am so I' am single all my life
Any good dating sites???
@@freedom4063 dating sites are garbage. Go to your local church or some Bible Study group. Or even work part time at some Christian charity organization. You may run into your husband there.
@@samuraijosh1595 yeah their all taken. And yeah online is difficult becuz nobody talks with you .
Literally do more of these, have them ask you questions, do anything ... I just want them back on the channel. They're so insightful omg. They give us HOPE.
Yess, honestly just listening to them speak is so insightful. So many things about christian dating that I was not aware of.
"I don't want to use the term 'homeschool' as a crutch."
Gabe: 👁️👄👁️
THATS WHAT I SAID TOO
OMG YES
Oop
Not to be lame but as a nearly 21 year old woman trying my best to serve the Lord, these men are so encouraging to me that it had brought me to tears. Even going to a Christian college, I see SO few men who want to serve the Lord that it’s discouraging not just because “oh no how will I find a husband in this world “ (tho that too lowkey) but just that this generation has so few that truly want to follow Christ. Thank you guys for being in a place where you are truly seeking the Lord, and for being so vulnerable and open to share your thoughts!
Amen, Amen indeed
not lame at all :)
May u find the strength dear
@@kasharkhan4049 thank you!! The Lord is good and actually I am married now to one of those amazing “so few men”! At the time I wrote the previous comment, we were only very good friends and I thought I had NO chance, but now we’re happily married and serving the Lord together!😌
@@abigailr0se103 so glad for u. All Praise belong to the Lord alone.
I am just of the age as u, studying in a modern day uni, and I couldn't relate more to the comments on this video despite being a muslim. because true pious and faithful people are now quite difficult to find in every religion. I have gained much more faith from your update, having to serve the divine purpose 'as a couple' in such a young age! May u prosper as family in future too
I'm a big fan of Brian and Daniel. So wise and so intentional with their words!
Yeah, me too.
I like Ryan
Ikr..?!! Especially DANIEL!! No words 'r wasted w/ him. So full of knowledge and wisdom: when he talks everyone listens. Not to brag buh' I'm also like that irl..🤣🥳
“If it is the one God has for you there is grace for that” wow !! Never heard anything like this. Agree! Thankyou! I needed to hear this.
So powerful. It is actually something that God told me would be a quality in my marriage. That I will have grace to cover/handle my wife's past and she will have grace/handle to cover mine. When I am tempted to think that I am too messed up to find a wife, God reminds me that He has grace for me and the one He has for me will as well.
Honestly as a Christian woman, it is SO encouraging to see and remember that there are GREAT guys out there that have good standards and godly ones too!
(Also great to hear all this from a guys perspective!)
Do this video but bringing your married brothers in on it with or with out Maddie or Jess and have the guys ask them questions or let Claudio and Gabe silently judge from a far. That would be good
YES
I support your comment. And would love to see that kind of video. It must be so good 👍🏻👍🏻
You guys should do a podcast! This has been so helpful to listen to, could listen to you guys all day!
Yess!!
Yes
yessssss
Thoroughly enjoyed this. There's just something about watching Christian men talk and share their wisdom that gets me. I love y'all
as a college student, I find myself struggling with temptations and sinful actions where I am insulting the Lord and myself. But seeing this video and see that the mindset and morals and values that I have are not crazy, and are valuable in my perspective is so satisfying because especially in college, I think people will judge and look at you differently which causes me to hide my beliefs and causes my growth in my relationship with God to be stuck. Anyways, I wanted to say this in case anybody could relate and just put it out there that it is a struggle that I see myself in everyday as a college student.
What college do you go to rn if you don't mind me asking...I think I know you😅💕
Don't lose your faith for others💝
Find out if there's a christian group that meets at your college! That's how my sister found her husband and stayed on track.
Like the old saying goes, "you are who you associate yourself with." So, in case this is part of your situation-you may need to give up some friendships/relationships and form new ones. Love them, pray for them, help them in a manner in which God finds right, but that does not mean you are obligated to hang with them. Spirits, as you'll come to understand through scripture (if you haven't already) are very real. Spirits can attach themselves to a person. That is why there was always preaching (at least for me growing up) about "stayed prayed up." Pray for yourself to be covered in Spiritual, Mental, Physical, Financial, Emotional, and any and every other way possible, in Jesus name, Amen. If you hang with someone who is always cursing, drinking, doing drugs, and/or having sex (before marriage), you may find yourself having a desire to do those same actions or some similar. The more you are around something and/or someone that is not doing right according to God's Word (the Bible), the more you can stray from Him, especially when you want to be more near Him. You will either follow Jesus, or follow the Devil. You have to decide for yourself, because you are the only responsible in where you end up after death on Earth. There may be a pull to do some things that are not of God, but the more you pray, read (pray for understanding before you read, while you are reading, and ask how to apply the scripture to your everyday life), and hang with people who do the same and continually strive to put God first in their life, you then will have a foundation in you life. You build your foundation with God's Word first, and you conduct yourself, and hang with those that are like-minded. It makes it easier to stay on the right track. It won't always be easy, but that doesn't mean you give up either. Pray and ask God what He wants you to do, where does He want you to go to church. You can ask God anything. You can pray for Salvation, forgiveness, and deliverance. All you have to do is sincerely ask, and not continue how you were previously. Read the Bible, and study it. The answers to the questions you need to know are there. Pray to God to give you the scripture and pray to Him to give you an answer. He will literally answer you. Don't be afraid to lose friends/family. God is always with you. He loves you and so do I. I pray this helps you. I don't know much. But I know that what I typed above is the truth. May this help your spirit. Bye!
@@angelicac.8377 beautiful response to her comment sister! God bless you🤍
Man, how did you find such wise guy friends? Part three please!
😩😩😩like!!! How did you find them?
It’s really encouraging to see young guys walking with Christ!✝️😊
Was homeschooled growing up, and I can confirm that… while it wasn’t like “oh you’re dating? when’s the wedding?” necessarily, there was more pressure on relationships JUST BECAUSE our community was super tight-knit, and all our parents were friends with each other too. Several couples dated 8th grade to college and got married- and then half of those couples divorced. Part of me thinks it’s because…. they didn’t know who they were as a single person, or they didn’t really take time to get to know and appreciate (on a friends level, I’m not saying they should’ve gone crazy and “dated around” like maniacs) different people around them. People grow and mature in amazing ways between the age 13 and 23. Giving your heart to someone at such a young age (with everyone around you, including all the parents, going “awww! so sweet! let’s hope they get married!”) can be very risky.
Really refreshing to see the amount of depth and spiritual wisdom these guys near my age have.
Glory to Yahweh ✝️🥺😭🤌🏾
I like the question about the wedding. I feel like a lot of girls get excited about the wedding day, but I’ve always been excited about having a marriage, a husband, not just one day. And it’s nice to see that it’s not that guys don’t care about just the one day but they want the relationship that God has designed for them
This is encouraging because as a guy I don't like the idea of a huge expensive wedding or all that attention on me as I'm very reserved unless it's preaching about Jesus. Anyways so getting eloped sounds so ideal but probably 7 out of 10 women have a dream wedding of some big event😅
I think that people dream of being eloped too it’s just talked about a lot less, I know I for one hate the idea of a big wedding and everyone staring at me there’s just so much that can go wrong. God bless
the pressure on young christians to know if he or she is the one is SO REAL !!!
"If the relationship has not started on the foundation of honesty and transparency then it is not a foundation at which i like to have a relationship on it" -booomm-
I agree with him that you may not find someone attractive on the on set but then you get to know them and are around them more and they do become beautiful, to you. That is something that doesn't need to be explained that is also why there is someone for everyone.
This is so refreshing. Listening to these guys speak so openly and respectfully from a place of wisdom and love for God is just beautiful! Thank you for sharing Sofia and yesssss please do a part 3 of the boys asking you questions, would love to hear your view x
More Christian videos please! These are great! I’ve definitely learned to walk with Jesus in my relationships through trial, regret and experience. Before I was only focused on pleasing myself and Jesus has made a complete change in my life. Thank you Jesus for finding me and bringing me back on track because I was walking in the dark and headed on a path to.. well, Hell. 🙌🏽 I would love to hear more on the guy’s perspective as well as see a video on Christian girl’s perspective! Love you sister! I pray you all continue to grow in relationship with God and in time, God place a man/woman in your life that’s just as on fire for Him as you are! Amen! ❤️❤️❤️
This video really opened my eyes and gave me hope omg. I was really starting to believe there wasn’t men of God like this anymore . Loved this!
Shoutout to all my Christian brothers! It's refreshing being on this walk knowing there are other men like me out there on the same path. Our sacrifices and obedience to GOD will not go in vain 🙌🏾👊🏾
sofia zooming in on daniel in both videos has me DYING
I don’t know how I stumbled across your channel as I’m not a Christian, but what Andy has to say about honesty before marriage is so on point! Sharing your addictions and pitfalls is VITAL to ensuring your marriage will be healthy, because your partner cannot accept you without accepting all of you, and if they really love you they will accept all of that anyways. Heck, maybe they will love you even more after finding out what your addictions are because they share the same ones! That is what happened prior to my marriage; the relationship was made so much stronger because we have been able to grow together and provide each other with the unique support that comes from someone who has navigated the same obstacles.
God bless you, I'm glad you clicked here!
If you want to become a follower of Jesus, I encourage you to look at Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John in the Bible that talks about Jesus' life on earth.
These verses are also very helpful!
Romans 10:9-10- If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
😲 wow!
I related too much to Daniel’s insecurities & what he said after just hit like a 🧱 😭
May God help us put these fears in their place, & may He turn our gaze/focus on the right thing... Him! Guide us Lord 🙏🏼
Brian's perspective on dealing with people who have had sexual relationships in the past was everything for me! I had never thought of extending the grace and forgiveness that God has given to me for ALL my sins to someone else who had committed that kind of sin in their past. It's like sexual sin is extremely gross for me to take but my God!! when Brian spoke about it, it was like some sort of revelation for me.
Thank you guys for these videos. I've been truly edified.
I felt same too. Even Brian's tone of delivery, perfect.
10000000%% agree on the spiritual boundaries I had to learn this the hard way. And it’s so great to hear these guys know how to be responsible! Sadly not many Christian guys out there do
They are extremely mature and the Christian view just tops it all!!❤️😭
When Brian opens his mouth 🔥🔥 you guys are just 🔥🔥I so love that you are raw, authentic and real. #we need these conversations in church today
I would really love another one of these videos, or even them asking you and some other girls questions that Christian guys want to know! One of my favourite parts was the variety of opinions and perspectives.
we go into relationships not to please someone, but to love them !! dang. Galatians 1:10 right there!! realizing they're not the same thing is huge.
also, I think group dating is just hanging out with the person you're dating (i.e., going on dates with) inn a group setting as well to get a more well-rounded look at who they are, and not just making these bigger decisions from what you might glean from a one-on-one date? that's my guess
Man. These guys make me feel immature, but I guess we always have room to grow. God bless all of you.
Yes please do a part 3!
This was so wholesome!! Yes to pt.3!!!
Just what I needed! Part 3, please!
I would love another part this was great!!
I am a Christian girl dating a christian guy. I get what he says about so much expectations to know if he is d one. We av been dating for 5months now...we met at the airport in another state..he came and sat next to me waiting for our flight. We struck a conversation and realized we were going to the same destination, we attend the same branch church and he was the nephew of my direct neighbour who lives in the next house!
Why i am telling this story is because one wud say this divine orchestration...he is the one!Which he might but then...i am still not sure and at that point where am praying for clarity. Perhaps he came into my life for another reason and vice versa...not entirely to be a partner but to help in my journey. So...it's hard knowing.
Yes, all you can do is keep pleading for guidance; and we are promised it, praise God!!!!!!!!!! :D
@@JonathanGillies Thanks so much
@@chidinmachiefe3236 You're welcome, sister!!!!!!!! :) All the best!!!!!!!!!
So so good loved yall wisdom! SO SO helpful and encouraging!
Definitely want another video with them asking you questions - loved it!
PLS do more of these omg these two vids are my absolute favourite
i was blessed by this series thank you
Yay, I was looking forward to this. These young men are very thoughtful!
Thank you for being so honest and open!
1or 2 of them should ask you and your girl friends questions in part 3!!
Oh my goodness--these were AMAZING!! Thank you for creating the space for this and to your friends for their vulnerability in sharing! So grateful and encouraged
Wow, this is soo encouraging ...definitely an yes to part 3 🤗
I absolutely love the honesty and transparency in this video ❤️
I am always down for this type of video, it's so refreshing and fun!!!!!!!
I like the statement Dan made about parents asking "is she the one?"
The logic which inspires this question is "you know when you know".
When you know she is the one you pursue with tactful action.
Thank you guy's for your transparency and willingness to share.
Please do more videos like this! I related so much to everything said and also I feel like they have so much wisdom to share that there needs to be more.
Please another video like this, these guys have such great advice and wisdom.
This is so encouraging. Cheers to part 3, 4, 5,........
yes to both ideas. another part, AND them asking u questions. these videos are addictive.
These two videos have been so good and so amazing insightful!! It’s good to see good men with good intentions, Thank you for posting these 😌
so true. Do a part 3!
Loved these videos! Also Andy’s expressions and reactions are HILARIOUS 😂😂
Part two was amazing!! Learned so much 😌👏
ok tbh, these guys are the ones in millions!! they're literally the kind of guys that i've been praying for!
honestly i've lost faith in "Godly men" for a certain period and these men have restored my faith. THANK YOU!!
They are one in a million🥺 Same!
Yes, more of these videos! 😃
And YES to more videos with these guys!
Bless your hearts. 😊 ❤️
Thank you, Sofia and the gang! 😁
What a great group of guys! Thanks for this
Another one is needed of them asking you...........Am glad you have such friends who view matters spiritually
I've got a lot to learn as a young adult watching these guys!!! This Q&A was loaded!
I love the fact that they’re all so mature, and have such good answers
Loved to hear these guys speak openly and honestly! I watched both parts of the videos in one sitting.
please do another one of these. this helped me soooo much
YES! We want a part 3! I have questions for these guys lol
i am loving andy’s expressions. he seems so funny and has a great personality
Yes pt.3 all the way! Could be them asking you or you asking them again. But them asking you should be another series hehe. Having tons of respect for y’all!
This is some deep conversation!! Love it that the guys are so real about their faith! Pt 3 pls hehe
Loved this so much! Just getting the perspective from a guy point of view and multiple opinions, so inspiring. Thank you for posting this!
I love these videos I would love to see more with your friends !!
Yes! Part 3 please!
I loved these videos and learned so much from this session. It encouraged me in my faith for sure. Yes, you should definitely do another video. 🙂
Thank you so much for this video! Definitely need more of this, and they should answer questions about what they think about personal girl things, like periods, makeup, dying hair, modesty, etc.
I learned so much from this video. It is so inspiring and encouraging to hear the POV of Christian guys!
I don't know how I found this video series, but I am glad I did. I've never dated before, so this was a lot of insight. I was homeschooled until graduating in 2019, so I didn't see a lot of people, as our small church youth group was just me and my sisters. God has a plan and He does it in His timing. It gets hard to wait, but praying gives power to be patient. And a heart for ministry says you have a heart for God. Thank you for these videos, and please do more. I'm actually hoping to see a vid on married couples or newlyweds, which may offer wisdom that church folk just don't share at church. I mean, some things are better said on a 1-on-1 or small group basis. Y'all probably won't hear this video topic(s) in a church, but its real and its honest and its needed. I have my own question to pitch-- I was brought up to dress modest. I mean, I own skinny jeans but no shorts above the knee unless its swimwear. No plunging necklines, etc. Do guys have to be picky about clothing or is there some sort of man-code on what not to wear? I got home late from church tonight and read my bible and then drifted to some christian comedy vids, and somehow ended up here. I pray you guys find the one God made for you. Don't ever stop praying cuz your future spouse needs it as much as you do. As Danny Gokey sings "You're closer than you think you are. Maybe you just haven't seen it yet". Wait for God. Christians face a hard path by choosing to wait and to hold to their standards. Turning down others, being rejected yourself, being ridiculed. God didn't say it would be easy. But my adoptive parents listened for God and this fall they will celebrate their ( 47th?) anniversary. For that kind of devotion and love, I wait. Y'all, there are SO MANY people in the same boat, these guys, those who comment here, we're the tip of the iceberg. I almost didn't comment because I don't like putting myself out there for auction. God gave me a tidbit and I'm keeping it close to my heart. Just want to be a source of encouragement. Pray and don't stop praying. PUSH-- Pray Until Something Happens. God will show you when you reach your blessing.
As a Christian man my modesty is avoiding tight fitted shirts that unnecessarily make my physicique pop out. I don't wear muscle shirts. If I wear sweats I'll put on basketball shorts on under to make my private part image less visible since I found out girls notice that when a guy wears sweatpants. That's pretty much it guys don't really have many unmodest styles of clothing like women lol. Also I want to say it's great you dress modest sometimes I lose hope that women don't take modesty serious anymore.
Yes, pray without ceasing
Wow I really enjoyed this video! These guys are such an amazing example of a godly man. I'm so grateful you had them talk about these deep questions.
These guys could easily have a podcast! So good!!
I love these so much :,) I thank God to have been allowed to hear such wise advice and sharing from His children!!! It’ll definitely be nice to continue wholesome content like these! And sure they can ask you questions too :D
Yes! Do this again Sofie🤗🤗
My twin and I loved every bit of this!
I am glad I discovered this videos the day you posted the second video... i hope that tgeir will be more christian guys conversations it helps a lot to see there is still man of God in this word and helps a lot to hear God's wisdom being shared
I would love a pt 3! These guys gave me hope that there are men who still hold similar values as me😄
Yesss, make another video with they asking you questions and maybe other girls answering too, please!
I just found you guys on UA-cam, but I love you guys so much already! Dan’s random stares into the abyss were so funny! 💀
"It mean so much more when you wait" very well said. 😁
legit got emotional watching this!! gives me sooo much faith that their are still holy men with the same mindset!! love those boys and i really hope and pray that they find the one soon💕
these were such wholesome videos😊 it's good to know men like this actually exist
Amazing podcast and strong topic points! Thank you everyone for sharing your testimony and providing helpful answers. Andy, you have a great mindset and leadership skills. Daniel, you made some valid points as well. It’s nice to hear from believers from different places in life. Keep it up! God Bless! 🙏🏽
Please make more videos with these guys. They give me hope
Love this wisdom! Especially the part about getting involved spiritually with someone. I've never thought about it that way :)
Can we get more videos with them?
Side note: Kian is cute
God bless this group! Need that part 3!!
I am loving all the healthy brotherly physical touch going on. These are true friends. And their answers are wonderful.
Men, you’ve given us hope!! Thanks for striking on in perseverance in the faith, it’s encouraging to see!